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Question for RedPillvermelhyou/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 11:13 PM
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"Self-respecting women should reject such relationships." I have plenty of self-respect, why does considering and trusting my partner's judgment negate that? Insecurity has jack-all to do with the kind of relationship I want. Would you go into the BDSM subreddits and insist that all the submissive women there have something fundamentally wrong with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 03:36 PM
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Alternately, IF you're in an LTR and are talking about birth control options: bring up the copper IUD. Nonhormonal so it's not going to cause mood swings, effective for ten years, and pretty much no room for user-end error. The IUD obviously doesn't protect from STDs but as far as preventing pregnancy it's one of the most effective methods aside from sterilization.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 11:07 AM
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It sounds like your question is geared towards men, but you didn't specify in flair so I'll throw my .02 in. In a happy monogamous relationship with amazing communication, sex, and emotional honesty. My partner has no idea I browse these subs and would likely have a "concerned discussion" with me if he found out. He knows I don't identify as a feminist, though, and doesn't take issue with that having heard my reasons why. He also knows I identify as submissive. I mentioned the captain/first mate…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:05 PM
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Both of my serious relationships involved me making the first move. I'm not sure if this makes me an overly forward, aggressive hussy but I don't get anything else in life by sitting on my ass; why should my attitude on dating be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 09:58 PM
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A close friend of mine knit me a super-warm scarf in my Hogwarts house colors; I ordered another one from her in my partner's House colors. Cute but practical. He's still in university so I'll also be baking him pumpkin bread in a week or so to de-stress from finals. EDIT: if you're interested in 'general holiday ideas for your partner', me and mine are having a hot chocolate date. We're going shopping for ingredients, sprinkles, spices, marshmallows, etc, then brewing for each other and sharing…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/15 04:05 PM
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Did they mention prazosin at all? I used to take it for PTSD-related nightmares and it was a quick, nonhabitforming solution to 'em. PTSD is nothing to fuck with. Scorning medication, fine, it's a tough demon to treat. Any woman who leaves you or thinks less of you for PTSD is a shitstain with no empathy. It's like pulling nails to talk about it, but it's worth the effort to try.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 04:21 PM
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My partner's attractive to me in every sense; I don't feel like I 'settled.' He also doesn't bankroll any of my hobbies or necessary expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 03:42 PM
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I can only speak about things as they apply to the states, but where I live: if you're poor enough that an extra $10 or so annually will hurt your finances, you're poor enough to qualify for financial assistance. Whether it's from the government or from an organization like Saint Joseph's Charities. It's an asinine thing to get upset over, and don't even get me started on the folks who think tampons should be straight-up free.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/15 02:36 PM
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By this logic MMA is pointless since I don't plan on competing. I should also probably quit lifting since the majority of people in the weight room are men who can outlift me in every dimension. Swallowing the pill was difficult for me and I did feel a rush to make up for lost time by being as super-feminine and peppy as possible. But really? You can have masculine hobbies and still be a good partner. You don't have to be an expert in everything and dabbling is OK. If the hobby isn't getting bet…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 07:53 PM
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Going to assume that you don't have access to a gym with childcare (my last big box gym did, though, so maybe shop around). If you have the means to buy a home treadmill, the Zombies Run app costs a few bucks and is worth the money. Great storyline, mixes each episode with your own playlists, also has a couch-to-5k version. Failing that, $50 should get you a pair of 15 lb kettlebells and Google can turn you on to some surprisingly challenging workouts. I thought I was in shape from boxing but ke…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/15 11:01 PM
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My SO and his family run a farm. Neither his mom nor his sister wear makeup and I'd get a weird look if I wore even everyday makeup while helping them out. What impressed my SO was my willingness to listen and take direction, my patience with the animals, and my eagerness to share something that's a huge part of his life. Assuming you meet a man through visiting dairy farms or whatnot, you'll still have plenty of occasions to impress him and look feminine when you're NOT stepping over animal poo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/15 07:41 PM
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For anxiety in general, get a tangle toy. I like to fidget with mine before bed and it really helps my brain get into sleep mode. Look into some form of journaling as well, whether that's something like a gratitude journal (every day jot down three things you're grateful for) or a dream journal. I've also in the past used journaling in the form of "Tomorrow my day will be X. I will XYZ and do amazingly, I'll be in a good mood because ABC, and I will try to make X happen". The last bit helps me t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/15 07:33 PM
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Something else to consider, that I think a lot of people don't get, is that the so-called first rule is ironic. Don't talk about fight club is a rule that's meant to be broken; it's there to get you used to breaking other rules. Or at least that's my interpretation of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 12:12 PM
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Bourbon pumpkin pie. Specific to football parties, no. Fall-friendly and a huge hit with everyone who's tried mine, yes. It won't get anyone drunk but the kick is delicious.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/15 06:39 PM
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Nice to see my alma mater mentioned for something other than football. "Thank you" is something I really enjoy saying to my SO; the tone can convey so much when it's heartfelt.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/15 06:36 PM
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Protein bar recipe: 1 1/4 cup rice krispies 1 cup dry oats 1/4 cup chopped nuts 1/2 cup peanut butter 1/3 cup honey 2 tbsp ground flax seed 1/4 cup dried fruit 1/2 tsp vanilla extract Toss all the dry ingredients. Melt the peanutbutter and honey on low heat until blended. Add the vanilla extract, blend, let sit until stove area smells delicious. Mash wet ingredients with dry ingredients in a large bowl--wear gloves--and mash finished mixture into a greased 7x5 or similarly sized pan. Lots of roo…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 02:43 PM
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Oddly enough, I've started to learn Chinese and find that mentally practicing radicals really gets my brain into 'off' mode. I also try to swear off computers and phone after 8; my Paperwhite is a nice low-glare transition into sleep mode. I knew my partner almost two years before we started dating. We talk about having a feedback loop: he's vulnerable with me, sees me encourage him and offer my advice, and that prompts him to be similarly nurturing when I need him. Thanking each other after lit…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/15 12:42 PM
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I've been horrible on my sleep hygeine, which has a spillover effect into affecting my workouts as well as concentration during the day. Started making baby steps last night including not sleeping with my phone or using my phone in bed. I've done better with trusting my partner, though. Our emotional intimacy and communication is better than it's ever been.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/15 05:58 PM
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Depends on how well your command over the language is. If you're an American who speaks French, you have a definite edge.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 12:45 PM
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I have a friend who went full Britney Spears and shaved her head, but still looks feminine due to careful makeup + eyebrow grooming + jewelry. I think it can be harder to look feminine with short hair but definitely not impossible.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 05:40 PM
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Affection for me is something that could turn sexual, but doesn't. If I feel comfortable doing it in front of family and friends then it's more affectionate than sexual. Him wrapping his arms around me and resting his head on my neck while I cook, being kissed on the forehead, holding hands during a movie, that sort of thing.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 05:37 PM
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The two debate societies in Athens are ridiculously incestuous among each other if you get an in, and worth looking into for both networking opportunities and intellectual stimulation. Type you run into depends on the circle you run with, but sorority girls are unavoidable here if you're trying to meet women downtown.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 12:50 PM
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A few people have mentioned vinegar, but I haven't seen my combination mentioned... I make a fifty-fifty vinegar/water spray for general cleaning, then pair that with 20 mule team borax for scrubbing soap scum and hard water marks in the shower. You can find the borax in the laundry detergent aisle for maybe $5. Best product I've ever used in the bathroom!
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/15 01:43 PM
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I've been doing Stronglifts 5x5 for about six weeks now, and I love it! I go three times a week alternating between Workout A (squat/deadlift/OHP) and Workout B (squat/barbell row/bench press). I bought myself a set of 20 ounce "bat weights" to use as fractional plates for increasing my weaker lifts without overwhelming myself. Their app seems to be a little wonky, though, so consider tracking in a notebook after you get the basic principles down.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 06:25 PM
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Get something called an "electric wax warmer" or tartwarmer for about $10-15. The refills for it cost a dollar or two and can have your place smelling like clean laundry or fresh-baked cookies even when you've had the time to do neither.
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