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I'm sure I have been sexually harassed IRL, but I don't remember it lol. I don't really count stuff like being yelled at from a car or whatever, though. If you count that, probably 14 or 15. I don't even live in a good neighborhood. Idk if my experiences are an outlier or if I'm just lucky or what. I don't worry about harassment, I do worry about sex trafficking though. My area is known for it, I ALWAYS get skeeved out whenever anyone makes eye contact with me in a crowd and tries to approach me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:29 PM
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I think that I'm an 11/10 but objectively I'm probably a 7.5 on a good day. Once I get my nose done and lose some fat in my face (4'11... every pound counts and I've been 95 lbs before and my face was still somewhat chubby). I submitted to photofeeler just now but no votes so far so I'll update l8er.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:39 PM
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Yeah. PM me if you need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:30 PM
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Officially turning 18 on the 29th. I am old enough to vote for marianne williamson and it is my obligation to do so. All politics are fake, pedophiles and cannibals run everything, cloning is real, reptile hybrids are real, and I trust Miss Williamson and her sword of truth in the battle against evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:28 AM
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Science is fake and gay. All knowledge comes from the first time you smoked mid at 15. There are no "studies". In all seriousness, I do not care one bit about statistics/data when talking about dating/relationships/human interaction. Using numbers to talk about fucking is so spergy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:22 AM
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I wouldn't rejuvenate myself cause I'm 18. If I had a man I assume he'd be around my age, or I was with a sugar daddy, so both cases no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:19 AM
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I can guarantee that you know nothing about astrology beyond your sun sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:13 AM
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Astrology is older than the bible and the bible is filled with astrological symbolism. People have been studying the stars for thousands of years. There's a science and system that goes beyond magazine horoscopes that people have been perfecting for AGES.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 03:27 AM
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Your third eye is sealed shut with gorilla glue. I don't even know what those last two sentences mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 03:22 AM
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Witchcraft is a religion that is practiced. I hate wiccans so I'm not defending those. Occult practices and astrology in particular are older than the bible itself. I'm high right now so I might edit this tmrw where I can convey my thoughts more clear. Real occultism/witchcraft is based in universal law. "All is mental" covers stuff like the Law of attraction/manifestation which is the goal of rituals. Hermetic laws and principles are way different than ghosts. By that logic, organized religion …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 03:18 AM
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Physically, early 20s. Mentally, late 20s. Just old enough to not be a complete dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:46 PM
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Just because you are spiritually constipated doesn't mean the astral plains aren't real. How you hating from outside the club you can't even get in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:44 PM
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Meet me in the astral plains and keep that same energy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:09 PM
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Okay so you're talking about magic in the sci fi sense. "Magic" has always existed and women have always been the ones drawn to occult because women are better at abstract creative thinking. Men are more likely to use logic and are more skeptical in general. I don't understand your post. Do you think witchcraft is shooting flames at people or waving a wand around? Witchcraft isn't just something you "believe" in or don't, like ghosts or whatever. There are actual occultists out in the world and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:45 PM
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YUP. Two of my friends sell nudes/cam but not on an official website (so they're basically free lance e whores). 80 guys will message you and maybe 1 will even BUY something. Being an internet thot isn't as easy as posting "buy my feet pics" and getting 1000s of beta males handing over their money. Maybe a few years ago it was that easy, but I honestly believe there are more wannabe e thots than beta males with disposable income.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:12 PM
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Since I started my channel on pornhub (I do let's plays of those weird hentai flash games) I have only encountered 1 orbiter. Although I only have like 300 subscribers, so 1 in 300 isnt bad right? Well, technically I have 1 patron and one guy sends me 40 dollars twice a week for no reason. I told y'all I was gonna get my stacey bucks. Idk, I wouldn't call it orbiting but I donate to content creators I like. I'm not under the false pretense that all beta orbiters are just huge fans of hypothetica…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 10:27 PM
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I had an idea for a thread last night but I was too high to formulate the words.. I still can't. Basically, I noticed that men's standards/preferences are primarily negative as in don't do this, don't do that, they're very vague. "Don't be a bitch, don't nag, don't be crazy" etc. Some men are able to elaborate and be more specific, but others either refuse to elaborate or they just can't. Women are equally as vague but that's out of politeness. When women really honestly discuss their standards,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:06 PM
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Oh shit i didn't even notice the color changed lol. I think I'll keep my flair like this til my next identity shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:58 PM
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You can lose your "purity" in ways not even relating to sex. I get that men have some kind of subrational desire for a "pure" woman but it's a bullshit concept. No one is "pure" we're all fucktards. There's never going to be a virgin 10/10 undamaged no baggage woman above the age of 18. People see fucked up shit, people get baggage. That's life. No one is pure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:07 AM
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"sex supposed to come natural y'all be begging for pussy smh" saw this on twitter just now it's crazy how much shit i see outside of this sub that makes me think of this sub. i have a mind infection from this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:40 AM
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I felt this :/ Before I became celibate all of the guys I had sex with wanted me to be on top or were almost submissive. It's a choke or be choked world my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:32 AM
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Plenty of women will have boring starfish sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:30 AM
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I literally live and breathe this video. I was gonna post it on here but I forgot lmao. Love u
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:30 PM
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I think there's levels to being "dominated". Do I want a man that knows what he wants and is a little pushy? Yea. Do I want a man to make 40 different commands like this is a burger king drive through, No. Or tie me up and punch me in the face, another no. I think most women want to feel desired, and being dominated provides that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 08:33 PM
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Damn men really are dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 04:02 PM
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need to stop coming on here before taking my adhd meds. So many of the incels on here sound like cartoon villains. Y'all talk about pussy how eggman talks about chaos emeralds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 03:12 PM
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Where's the correlation...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 03:03 PM
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This is what makes women turn into Jodi Arias
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 05:01 AM
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Short? That ain't no problem.gif As long as his face is good and he is still taller than me (4'11 so im not asking for much) he's golden. Hell, 5'7 is tall by my standards. And skinny guys are more attractive than fat guys anyways. Even my dream fantasy man wouldn't be jason momoa ripped or anything close to it. I think the fat dude could pull different types of women. Probably average to below average fat women would flock to him. The skinny short guy has a broader range of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 02:46 AM
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Me and my mom always agreed that men sucked and vented about our issues.. she never gave me man keeping advice tho lmao. Does this happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 05:42 PM
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I've been get high and watch invader zim funny moments like 2wice a day now. You guys should try it maybe then you'll calm down a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 04:40 PM
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His wife was generous with the monthly sex rations and he ascended.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 11:58 PM
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God, I haven't done that in so long. When I was like 14-15 I was so cringey, so it's hard to tell if me approaching the guy (in general) was the issue or if it was just how awkward I was. I would always try to be funny and make them laugh, but my pick up line or joke was so forced it only worked a few times. I was the definition of a try hard, I'd lay it on THICK. If a guy showed interest back (even slightly), because I'm such an overthinker, I already picked him out as "the one" and became over…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 10:51 PM
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I'd break his neck if he ever told me. WHAT benefit could that possibly provide to the relationship. "Verti I love you and all but to be honest... you were my second choice. That's not bad tho! Think about it, 3 billion women on earth and you're runner up to my favorite."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:26 PM
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Y'all run this show but 80 percent of y'all are too ugly to get laid on the regular LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:23 PM
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Yeah. It's not realistic, but it'd be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:01 PM
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Well duh. Most women want to LTR the dudes they're fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:54 PM
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Extremely relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:30 AM
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More like peak ability to BB
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 12:25 AM
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You already know my stance on pickmes cause you follow my instagram lol. If you're a pick me go sit in the penalty box.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 12:02 AM
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This seems sociopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 11:56 PM
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What the hell are you inhaling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 11:55 PM
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Men do those exact same things. It's just a thing young people do. Most people crave excitement and thrive in drama. Instead of honestly communicating with a partner you do some stupid test. But I think everyone "tests" people, even subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 11:49 PM
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Women that devalue themselves typically pair off with men who have options and don't pedastalize pussy to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 11:46 PM
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This is the only proper response.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:44 PM
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Men would have sex with a mcchicken. Many men would also have sex with children. I didn't say shit about men "wanting" to do anything, I'm saying men that actively engage in their desires to fuck children should commit suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:43 PM
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I'm literally 18. So I completely agree with your strawman of me but I'm far from the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:39 PM
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"it's okay for men to want to fuck 13 year olds if they menstruate" and men wonder why women are always saying men are the devil.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 09:42 PM
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And any 40 year old man that fucks 16 year old girls deserves to be euthanized
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 09:34 PM
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Certain people want to promote sexualizing children as normal so that pedophilia can be completely accepted in society. The people behind Billie Eyelash's career and so many pieces of media that fabricate the "seductive jailbait" stereotype created it so that they could make pedophilia seem normalized. A grown adult is responsible for not acting upon sexual desires towards someone under the legal age. Women sexualize themselves for profit, not necessarily because they enjoy it. It's a means to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:32 PM
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Idk about anyone else's limitations but I will never be vulnerable with my romantic partner. I get disgusted at the thought of someone knowing me deeply (as in who i am) and having sex with me. I want it of course but it makes me want to puke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:21 PM
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Selling narcotics, construction, being a paramedic, car store where they fix things (auto zone maybe), lawyer (only keanu reeves), architect, engineer, or anything that allows maximum moneys and maximum time away from work so he can spend time with me. Also any job he's not passionate about because I don't care. I have dated guys with HUGE egos who only care about their image status career money etc, boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:19 PM
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lol why did i get high and add not one.. not two.. but 4 riff raff albums to my library last night. Rap Game Bon Jovi is an experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:47 PM
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I'm just accepted as the Rachel Dolezal of the latino community where I live, Idk how it happened but I'm fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 10:51 PM
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quote from me today, on instagram i think?: "I am NOT a light worker, bitch. I'd highly recommend you try DMT, meditation, ayahuasca, or shoving a tigers eye crystal up your pussy before trying ME. I will put your name in a jar of vinegar". I am high right now so I hope that got the message across. In any scenario where my man was cheating, he getting hexed so hard his great great great grandson is gonna be going to shamans in the middle of the Jungle how to get rid of a curse. He can "want" to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:57 AM
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I used to be real ugly and weird up until I was a freshman in high school. I know that's not an exceptionally late bloomer, but most girls in middle school had boyfriends and such. I never really had much luck dating, and any guy that did ask me out I thought of him as doing a charitable act and let them disrespect me and treat me like shit. I'm taking a break from men right now. For the most part, I've always been single, but for the past year or so I would have a FWB or fling that lasted about…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 07:05 PM
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I'm a white hispanic in my late teens. The people I'm surrounded by are mixed racially and socioeconomically, I live in a city where you can drive 10 minutes one way and be in the hood, 10 the other and be in the country, 10 another way and you'll be in some hipster area downtown. I guess I'm middle class? I have divorced parents, dad is UMC but lives VERY frugally (he's also like 70 lol) and my mom grew up dirt poor and several times throughout my childhood I remember having to run to walmart w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 06:55 PM
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Jesus christ this is edgy. You on meds?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:10 PM
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JESUS CHRIST that first line took me out. I have a pornhub channel where I just post let's plays of those and I sadly know exactly what you were talking about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:04 PM
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It's just reactionary. For most of history, women's lives revolved around pleasing men and changing themselves to fit their husband's expectations. And frankly, I've seen more messages telling men that all they have to do is be their nerdy ugly self and they'll get a hot girl. Most men expect women to take them how they come and love them unconditionally just like mommy did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 03:59 PM
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I didn't plan on it but now that I read your comment I will stop at nothing to be sexually initiated into a gang, it's on my list right after getting trenchfoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 03:56 PM
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"women love abortions because fetuses are everything they hate. bald, scrawny, no money, micropenises." is the funniest thing I have ever read in my entire life I needed to share it with you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 03:38 PM
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Not necessarily. Sometimes it just means a relationship filled with good sex. If he's really into me as far as wanting to be with me AND really wants to fuck me, that's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:04 AM
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Chase. I don't like "waiting" for sex, I only do it because I'm weirdly sensitive and can't do casual sex. Once I'm into a guy, my panties are already around my ankles. If the first guy is actually into me and just happens to have a high sex drive (ie not looking to pump and dump me), that's ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 11:02 PM
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I literally spat out my drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 07:50 PM
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No!!! I don't like fat guys!! Skinny fat is the most I can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 07:47 PM
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my brand on here is being an autistic INTJ female yet also an AWALT that creams my pants exclusively for latino drug dealers or gangbangers so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 07:24 PM
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Just made out with a salvadorean drug dealer. I have to keep my brand going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 03:13 AM
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What kind of boring ass sex doesn't involve giving and receiving head? And I only give if I'm receiving, so no blowjobs for him :( See how quick he comes up with an excuse as to why I should still suck his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:32 PM
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I would never do that ever. I'm going to be at the fucking ALTAR asking my husband if he actually really likes me, I am not about to do something like propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 02:36 AM
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Woman and my empathy isn't really sex selective. In general, I find myself empathizing more frequently with members of my own sex because quite frankly they complain more. But I'm perfectly capable of empathizing with individual men, they're human beings too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:26 PM
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They don't see color cause they're not racists god atlas get with the times
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 12:03 AM
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my moms dog just got attacked really badly by another dog and just came home from the vet yesterday and he was already afraid of storms but now it's pouring really badly and shit and he's just shaking and whining :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 11:51 PM
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and that's the whole thread
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 07:29 PM
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My high ass is sitting here slack jawed... Okay sis say it louder for the people in the back.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 07:26 PM
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Well not to make everything about mbti but I'm an INTJ and I think thats part of the reason I come here. I can't just "go with the flow", I need to consume knowledge constantly and my thoughts run a mile a second, I overthink everything especially what we talk about on here. So I guess I am in the "fringe", the average person doesn't have my borderline autistic tendencies. I joked a while back about looking like a generic stacey but having the inner mechanisms of an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 07:42 PM
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Me unironically :/ u didn't have to yank my cheap party city wig off like that. now i'm BALD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:39 PM
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so my mom got me the "I'd rather be listening to 1999 Grammy Award Winning Hit Smooth-Santana featuring Rob Thomas Of Matchbox 20" shirt. Now all I need is a pair of shorts with JUICY on the ass, the "women want me fish fear me" hat and we have us a LOOK babey!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:22 PM
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It's been almost a whole month without me having a breakdown while binge reading that sub. I! AM! NOT! A! FEMCEL! I AM SEXY AND MY MUSCLES ARE HUGE WOMEN WANT ME FISH FEAR ME!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:17 PM
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I'm an oracle. Much of my practices are intuitive or things I learned to do from channeling. I'm considering converting to Santeria within the next few years though but we'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:11 PM
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No it absolutely kills me that I will probably never have a healthy loving relationship but I don't think it's possible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:09 PM
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INTJ and yeah it's very unhealthy but oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:04 PM
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I am so terrified of being codependent I refuse to attach myself to anyone at all. Letting someone have power over me emotionally disgusts me. I don't believe anyone would be willing to meet my emotional needs so I don't express my emotions to others. I'm whatever the complete opposite of codependent is because I'm scared of being codependent and letting someone fuck with my mind like my relationship with my mom did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:56 PM
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My mom was in AA... i know all about codependency. Every relationship or whatever you call it I've been in has been ruined by the "cOdEpEnDenCy" bogeyman. I am constantly aware of the fact that human beings are flighty by nature and it's ridiculous to expect someone to meet your emotional needs and only you are responsible for your thoughts and actions. I struggle with making healthy boundaries so I just don't date. I really hate the thought of another human being having control over you and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:47 PM
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I need to start a database of all the regular's natal charts on here. I already have atlas's and me and her have like 3 of the exact same placements shit's crazy. PM me if you're not pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:47 PM
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I mean I think 9999% of what men say is an attempt to get in my pants, but at least it shows that he's willing to pretend to care about my interests for a few minutes as opposed to being like "Hey" and not being able to come up with a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:37 PM
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Red but I don't consider myself a trad wife or whatever. I just accept that the red pill is how the majority of men are wired to think of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:27 PM
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I like it when a guy approaches me with something specific to me, like back when I always had my nails done I appreciated comments about that (as long as they weren't hurrr durrr how do u wipe ur ass). If I'm in a book store or something, and I'm holding a book, start a conversation about that. I'm INTJ and I don't do well with carrying small talk, but it's the best feeling in the world when you hit it off with someone and can have an interesting or hilarious conversation without even knowing ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:16 PM
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Because there is no way in hell I would be attracted to him if he's ugly enough that I get stared at in public for being with him. Dating isn't a matter of whether or not someone has done something wrong or giving someone a chance. There has to be a level of sexual attraction. It wouldn't be fair to the guy in the 2nd scenario to be in a relationship with a woman who was disgusted by him, anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:37 PM
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Neither. I would rather keep my legs closed forever and if needed open some of the old fanfiction I read when I was 12 or some john green books if I missed the feeling of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:29 PM
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I have a theory. Young women/girls inexperienced with boys tend to adore feminine and cute idols. The less experience a woman has with more masculine or even just regular guys around her SMV, the more she idolizes these "safe" guys. She gets all the benefits of having strong feelings without them being known and reciprocated or rejected. See also why women like fanfiction, other male celebrities popular with young girls. I have a feeling most women above like 14 or 15 that idolize kpop idols sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 06:30 PM
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6/10. But I don't really see men on a scale of 1-10. I can see a guy I find attractive and he's an automatic ten to me even if he would be a five or six at best to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 06:22 PM
1

The average woman does not enjoy a hookup like the average man would. Some girls genuinely enjoy hooking up, some only do it because it's normalized in their social circle or other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 05:04 PM
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Your second to last sentence is what women all over the globe complain about. Men don't care if you have the greatest personality, it's only about if they would fuck you. Female attraction carries more emotions. More projection, the Women are wonderful effect is true on average for more women, but the way women view attractive men is beyond "wonderful". Sex in general for most women, somewhat including myself, carries WAY more emotions and perspectives than just "i looked at hot guy and got horn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 10:38 PM
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If I became a millionaire, I'd most likely be the one that gets fucked over in a divorce. So if there ever came a time where that happens, he's gonna be my forever bf. Realistically, never. There's a certain ring to the phrase "my wife" that my girlfriend can't even come close to. It's a commitment, it sounds real.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 10:30 PM
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Congratulations on the kid!! If you ever want their natal chart interpreted pm me sis
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:47 PM
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It happened over a few years. I didn't make the switch immediately lmao. My first hetero crushes I had while I was still in my lesbian phase were probably fictional characters, then male celebrities, then I think I was functionally asexual for a while, then I guess I gave guys a chance again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:38 PM
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Yup! I'm an INTJ but not antisocial at all. But it's like my female friends kind of view me as an outsider, even if we're close. Not in a malicious way, because I can be charming, I'm just not "one of the gals".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:35 PM
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Your fucking flair LMAO i leave for two or three days and I already feel warm and fuzzy inside again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:32 PM
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Illiterate men <3. Me and my friends have a phrase for that "when he stupid but not autistic" meaning he's not an intellectual bitch but he can read social cues and has common sense. God bless them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:31 PM
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Yeah, I act the same everywhere I go. I don't really filter myself to fit into any community. How I talk on here is how I talk in person (I don't use our jargon and shit tho lol). My (god willing) s/o would know I'm a little... eccentric and strange long before I accidentally leave my laptop open on this god forbidden sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:30 PM
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Not really. There's men I am very attracted to and would want to date, men I would give a chance if we talked and our personalities clicked and there was chemistry, and men who are an automatic no. I have a wide variety of beta and alpha traits I find attractive in different aspects. The highly masculine alpha men atlas talks about would be attractive to me, but I also don't mind guys with smaller builds (i actually prefer skinny/lean or even skinny fat guys) that aren't as masculine. In the con…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:25 PM
2

You should have been doing that anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:18 PM
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How do you figure bucko
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:18 PM
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Yeah this was never me. I was a radical feminist awkward ugly girl with mommy issues and I exclusively dated women cause at the time I needed more of what women provide to a relationship (emotions and empathy and shit). At that time I genuinely didn't experience romantic or sexual attraction to men and I can't remember when or how I got out of that phase? Some people here seem convinced I'm secretly a closeted lesbian still lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:17 PM
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Leo season is the best!!! Last leo season I was working my first fast food job, partying every night, going to work hung over, got my license. It's all about living your best life and trying new things and being high energy. I manifested a random $40 donation from one of my followers not 30 minutes after I took the bath. Been having an amazing day despite being sleep deprived and groggy, safe to say the bath was a success. Idk who Juan the conquistador is but he's a real friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:11 PM
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Yes. In general even without makeup most women are normal looking or even cute. Women are the fairer sex, they literally HAVE to be more physically attractive because that's all men care about. Men can redeem themselves in so many more ways if they happen to slightly resemble a certain hunchback in paris.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:28 PM
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I have never received any gifts from a romantic partner but the best gift I've ever given was I made a "spooky basket" for a guy I was seeing last year for halloween. It was like a trend, you put a guy's favorite candy, gatorade or whatever tf guys drink, blunt wraps, gum, chapstick, random shit. He was so excited about it lol. I'm a touchy person. I like to have lots of non sexual and sexual physical contact. I also tend to act like a mom :/. I LOVE doing cute things for guys, spontaneous gifts…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:12 PM
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Women love the male form of a man they are interested in. When I'm in love with a guy I will literally zoom in on every picture of him like "aw his leg hair is so cute" "ooh look at his shoulder blades". Random male bodies do nothing for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:07 PM
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1 which is funny because for a good portion of my life i genuinely believed i was a lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:04 PM
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Been away from home for a few days (that's why i havent been here). Got behind the wheel for the first time since I flipped that jeep over in september (ptsd can suck my dick), tried tim hortons for the first time, did some witch bath with herbs its like Juan el conquistador themed and for manifesting shit and its already working!! I hope y'all are reaping the benefits of leo season as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:57 PM
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In looks and sense of humor, no. Everything else... he's a hoe and I have a strict We Don't Love These Hoes policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:57 AM
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It absolutely is not I am in love with him and have his autograph hanging right above me. Every day tekashi spends in jail I lose more of my will to live but I get it back when I watch "6ix9ine funny moments compilation".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:48 AM
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It's not I just be saying the same shit all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:21 AM
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His name is Daniel actually. That's tekashi 69 lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:20 AM
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Look like this Yes that is my cat edited on top of the original cat. Lifestyle- something that enables them to spend every waking moment thinking about me and also makes them rich so we can live lavish duhh Traits- The patience of a youth group counselor, the romantic-ness of every boyfriend in a wattpad fanfiction, the loyalty of a golden retriever, and the sense of humor of 6ix9ine, dumb but socially and emotionally intelligent. Very touchy, and pushy, and knows what he wants. Sex drive- Maxim…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:31 AM
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My mistakes were 1. Expecting honest and open communication rather than playing along with the dating game. 2. Jumping through hoops to win a guy's affection (never works) and no they weren't "hawt guys", most of them were average looking awkward virgins I knew in high school. 3. Going for guys from the same social circle. I never intended to be a hoe, I was just throwing my heart against the wall and trying to see where it would stick. I genuinely liked all of the guys I talked to at one point …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:48 PM
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No. I don't use instagram to get random validation on my ass, I use it to advertise. How else am I gonna get clients to pay me for tarot readings if I don't have social media? I do post selfies and shit on instagram, but I mainly post comedy. I'm a character, my social media presence isn't for direct consumption of me, it's for the character I portray. If my husband can't get that, he clearly doesn't know anything about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:30 PM
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If my man asked me to take a shit on his face I would leave in the middle of the night with nothing but a few belongings tied on the end of a stick and commence my journey to the west. I don't have a fetish I'd NEVER tell anyone about but I'm not so comfortable with my sexuality that I'd feel okay with letting a new partner do some of the fetish shit that even I find attractive. My main fetish is trust and communication uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:24 PM
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oooh ur so edgy for not believing in astrology. so rational and scientific and logical oooooooohhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:11 PM
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I've been out of it all day cause I didn't sleep last night and I still can't sleep and it's 3 am and I'm reading an article about the astrological symbolism of sonic the hedgehog. He's a cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:51 AM
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Why would anyone be attracted to a doormat, period? On a level unrelated to sexual attraction, people admire and respect those that follow their own moral compass and display traits referred to as "badass-ery". And women are attracted to serial killers because they think they're misunderstood wittle babies 90 percent of the time, or they're massive edgelords. RP 101- confidence is sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 02:30 AM
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If I was a man I would be slaying pussy. I used to be a short and awkward looking lesbian and I would pull girls wayyy out of my league, nothing would change lol. Girls EAT UP my disorganized attachment style and eccentric tortured artist demeanor. I tried the man filter on snapchat, and I would be sexy as a man tbh. My life would be so much easier as a man. I don't know how to explain it, I guess I hate being in the "passive" role and would find it much easier to just go out there and get what …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:44 PM
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Loyalty. Not just "not sticking his dick in other women", but thinking about our mutual best interest as a team. Emotional maturity. No silent treatments, punching walls, etc. I really dislike "emotional rollercoasters", I hate arguments just for the sake of arguing, and I LOATHE people who always come from a place of emotion rather than "here's the issue- how can we fix it?". Being able to communicate with me. No, I can't read your mind and I don't expect you to read mine. I do in a sense want …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:30 PM
1

I'm a woman. I never received ANY dating advice or "girl game" tips. I was always told that I'll meet the right guy in college lol. My dad's lately started giving me advice ever since last year when I had my first breakup but it's basically "get your money up and go to college and have high self esteem". So, not dating advice, just more "you'll find the right guy eventually!" I wish I received some actual real advice. All the advice I've received basically: Don't trust anyone, you can't rely on …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:12 PM
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Seeing my fave artist tomorrow life is amazing <3 when he sings the songs he did with Tekashi I am going to lose my god damn mind. The modelo is entering my system via astral projection as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:52 AM
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There are real folk magic traditions out there, though. Pink haired obese wiccans aren't what philomexa is referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:36 PM
1

My dad's family is from Spain and my mom's family is made up of unremarkable rednecks. Most of my friends are hispanic and that's the ethnic group that I'm associated with in my area's weird racial clique system. I'm like the puerto rican rachel dolezal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:27 PM
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People make cheating out to be the WORST thing ever, and I agree that it's a bad thing. I think I'm kind of desensitized to it, I'd still be mad if my partner cheated and I wouldn't cheat, but I don't see it as this earth shattering thing. I've cheated on my ex when we were dating, he cheated on me, cancels out like PEMDAS. Maybe it's different with marriage, though. I didn't cheat because my sexual needs weren't being met. I still saw my bf at the time as the "alpha" and I didn't cheat to branc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:52 AM
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Yup!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:32 AM
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I don't think so it's just my ptsd acting like a bastard as usual. I have my Lilith in pisces, which is the placement of oracles and necromancers and dreamers, I've never had a spiritual block before. Before my spiritual block I was having A LOT of intense spiritual events all at once so I think my physical body kind of rejected it for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:27 AM
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Idk about all that... I want to open up to someone but nobody can understand the levels of retardation and lead poisoning that I'm on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:44 AM
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Empathy/sympathy are not sexual emotions. I have empathy and sympathy for men who are unattractive and unable to have the sex life or romantic life they desire. However, that does not make me want to open my legs like a soup kitchen and start fucking every incel I meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 02:45 AM
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I don't care about the number, I care about his attitude towards sex. Is he one of those guys that thinks sex is like some fucking conquest? Does he have a madonna whore complex the size of greenland? I think I'd be weirded out at an N count of like.. 30+. Not in like a moral or disgust way, but like- how do you have that much time? I could overlook any N as long as I could tell his mind was in the right place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 02:37 AM
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Only ever fucked Mexican/hispanic guys, they are not known for having big dicks lol. My ex was maybe around 4/5 inches, biggest I've ever had was maybe 6? I don't take out a ruler and measure that shit. I'm short and my cervix is literally like RIGHT THERE, realistically I should be happy with 5 inches, but this weirdly masochistic part of me always wonders what it would be like to fuck a guy that was actually packing. But I don't care enough about dick size that a dude telling me he has 9 inche…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:49 PM
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The best sex I've had was still kind of... blah. I'm a degenerate horny person but when it comes down to Dude is in my bed, I can't turn the horny on. 70 percent of the thoughts I have are about sex, and I write trashy erotica in my freetime, but I was never able to get it right in practice. I really enjoy sex with specific men in THEORY. I know I'm not a lesbian, I know that I'm sexually attracted to men. I just think the timing's always off, whenever I want sex there's nobody to fuck and whene…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:39 PM
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I have come to the conclusion that I'm ready to take on the mortifying idea of being known in exchange for the reward of being loved. Did my witch shit for the first time in months cause I was spiritually constipated and long story short I'm happy and I'm going to sleep so good tonight. There is NO better sleep than after you cry and you get that headache cause you're dehydrated!! I'm knocking the fuck out catch me in the astral realm on a date with Tekashi.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:14 AM
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I love the concept of you driving and arguing with people on this sub at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:57 PM
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I like attention and compliments more than the average woman does, so I don't mind at all. Even if it's creepy, it's still validation. As long as it's not "if i were 40 years younger I'd fuck you behind the dumpster".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:40 PM
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Approaching men first makes them think you're pump and dump material. Men don't know how to say "no". They will literally not break up with a girl and continue cheating on her because they don't want to say no to the pussy and benefits she's still giving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:04 AM
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The stars and astrology merely give you a guideline and general outline for your personality. Anything can be transmuted, you can decide to change. First universal law- all is mental. If your moon is an earth sign, maybe try taking some laxatives to help with that emotional constipation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:00 AM
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No "sources" are needed. All true knowledge comes from lighting a small stick and throwing it in a glass bowl and interpreting the smoke. Fuck empirical data and all that shit, I have the akashic records at my fingertips. I'm only being slightly facetious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:26 PM
3

Trying to fit 5 chicken breasts in there is like playing tetris.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:18 PM
1

Yes!! I have one but I forget I have it. I like cooking chicken in it, I can't remember what else I've used it for lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:18 PM
1

I want to expand my horizons from doing let's plays of hentai games on pornhub to doing twitch, but I am such a dumb bitch I can't figure out how OBS or xsplit fucking work. Why am I so bad with technology?? It took me an embarrassingly long amount of time to figure out how to install mods for sims 3, I'm like a grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:17 PM
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Female. I've had casual sex, but it never felt like sex. I always dissociated during it, could never even come CLOSE to having an orgasm. I just can't do casual sex, not for a moral reason, but because it's not worth it. I hate the idea of having sex with a stranger, because if it's bad then the whole situation sucks, and if it's somehow enjoyable, then I gotta worry about locking this person down. I can't enjoy NSA sex because I have way too much anxiety about my self worth and the thought of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 09:21 PM
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Because you might end up really liking of inshallah falling in love with someone and wanting to spend the rest of your life with them because they add value that is insanely difficult to find. Love and romance aren't logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:15 PM
1

This is so backwards, I wouldn't trust a spaniard to microwave my ramen but they have a way better energy. More warm and passionate overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:44 PM
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I'll have that feeling of success of raising healthy and happy kids to fulfill me for the rest of my life and live out the rest of my days drinking wine and doing old woman activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:37 PM
2

Yes, the English are so clearly inferior it's pointless to compare them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:35 PM
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I think this is probably gonna be what happens to me too. I have this crazy maternal instinct/baby fever that I'm keeping under control cause I'm too young for all that but when I'm around babies it's like I just KNOW. Like I became enlightened, life makes sense, no time to overthink and spiral into depression cause the baby is trying to eat the wii remote again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:16 PM
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Reminds me of a post I made a while back about women using sex to self harm. Men know when a woman is mentally unhealthy- they just want her to use sex to self harm with HIM and use that to his advantage. TRP and PUA do account for mental illness in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:13 PM
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I couldn't date anyone that was overly skeptical/nihilistic or atheist at all. 1/4 of my room is taken up by my altar and various supplies and books. I don't mind people who are agnostic or open minded, but a relationship with someone who disrespects my practices (and i keep them very much to myself because my beliefs and such are very private and personal) is not going to be my ideal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:09 PM
2

You all jest but I'm stuffing my moonlight charged apophylite and tigers eye stones into my bra as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:04 PM
1

He seemed like a nice guy. Since I knew him for four years, he's always been relatively charming and respectful. No girl I knew had any terrible stories involving him, that's why I decided to go on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:02 PM
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A vote for anyone but Marianne Williamson is a vote for continued dark psychic warfare on the American people.... yall let Jill stein down and god is giving us a second chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:44 AM
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I suppose I date within my class but since I'm gonna start sugaring soon that's gonna change lol. Actually, I don't even know my own class. My parents divorced when I was a baby because my mom is insane, and she has the worst habits with money. I have a trust fund my dad set up for me (which I know next to nothing about), but I was told that when my dad dies the money I'll get is enough that I won't have to work a day in my life. However, as a kid I remember so many times coming home from school…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:43 AM
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No he was black but really UMC and acted like a typical UMC white guy. He's a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 01:33 AM
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I've only ever had one "date" off tinder and it was one of the worst nights of my life. I've had a few "dates" here and there but my ex bf was the only one that actually took me out on a real first date. 18 im a baby :) Best date- my last fwb and i would have movie nights. It was in essence "netflix and chill" lol but for some reason I was really comfortable around him. He would bring me milkshakes and food and shit it was fun and we'd actually end up fully watching a movie before fucking. Worst…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 10:19 PM
2

Rap music nowadays is so influenced by scene kid music it's amazing. Colorful hair, misogynistic and over the top sexual lyrics, lots of skinny guys with cute faces that mainly appeal to teenagers. Was listening to an unreleased 6ix9ine song and I realized it REALLY fucking sounded like some scene kid shit from 2010. I'm going to write a book on this phenomena
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 05:39 AM
1

Me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 12:52 AM
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People aren't food. You don't owe any loyalty to your favorite food, you absolutely do to someone you promised to be in a monogamous relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 10:47 PM
2

I have no options because I'm a trainwreck, not because of my looks. I can attract men no problem, I just don't want anything to do with em.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 10:46 PM
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If you looked at my posts, I'm a neurotic volcel thank you very much. My looks are the absolute least of my problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 09:57 PM
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Or, they could be from an area or culture where most men are not that tall. Many mexican girls I know are the same height as their bf with heels on or even taller than him. Or they could be super short and have tried to date a tall guy and found the neck pain from craning your neck to kiss him to not be worth it. Or they could have a thing for skinny/twink guys. Some women like guys with the holocaust survivor junkie look. Or they could be like me, and prioritize face above all other physical tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 09:39 PM
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I care about physical and emotional cheating. The way I see it, it's someone telling you straight up that you aren't good enough for them. I have a high sex drive, the fuck are you doing with other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:14 PM
2

every post that includes the word society needs a bright green flair with the words WE LIVE IN A SOCIETY
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:12 PM
1

Free my special ed husband <3 he don't need to be in the jail house he needs to be on the short bus
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:56 PM
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Free my boy he ain't do shit!! I swear whatever janky ass lawyer he hired is the worst thing that could have happened to him. His next lawyer, the one that worked with 21 savage, last name better be Goldsteinrosenberg because that other lawyer isn't doing him any favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:50 PM
1

I want him to yell at me so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 04:26 PM
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Why do y'all think I'm so obsessed with tekashi? When I stop being celibate, fuck the Beats between the sheets station on pandora. Alexa play BILLY by 6ix9ine. In all seriousness, voice is important but if you're not doing good in some other areas it can't save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:07 AM
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The main factor that makes me like a guy is their "chill" factor. If I have to constantly entertain him, and he has an obsession with looking like the perfect couple and being fliratious and romantic all the time, can't do it. It'd be wrong to say I want a best friend I can have sex with, but something slightly similar to it??? I like compliments, I like sweet and sappy shit, but mostly I just want someone who I can feel relaxed and at home with. A go with the flow type person, that I don't need…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 10:43 PM
1

Nudes and pinks. My friend refers to them as "grandma colors" lol. I went through a phase where I experimented with having really long, nails with cool color patterns. Got a lot of compliments and ignorant comments at the same time. You can never go wrong with a sheer white color. I got this one nail color and it was white at first glance but had this fairy like iridescent shine when you put a light to them.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/19 10:09 PM
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Sending you my hot girl summer playlist right now bitch When you do clownery, the clown comes back to bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 09:27 PM
3

This seems to be mainly about male sexual satisfaction as far as I can see. The majority of women I know prefer relationship sex, and I'm not discrediting your facts, but I find it weird that so many women cheat because they need a "new spark". If a woman is truly attracted to their man, the chances they will cheat are close to zero. So I wonder what else is going on in the equation. To me, sex is one of the most important things. Several people have told me I should just do casual sex if that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 09:23 PM
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I like skinny and chubby guys. I'm not one of those "ew i hate muscles" types of girls, but they're not important to me. As long as a guy can actually lift heavy objects (cause I can't even carry more than 15 pounds at a time), I'm good. Let me reitirate something I say all the time: face is the most important thing. If a guy can still have a good face and have extra pounds, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 09:17 PM
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I think there needs to be MORE shaming but in a healthy way. It's not good for society to tell people "you can do and be whatever you want just be yourself!" when the people (both men and women) who fit into the acceptable box are rewarded and those that don't fit are not. There's always going to be norms and social rules to follow, it's not a good thing to make those norms even more hidden and covert.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 08:56 PM
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I'm an ugly duckling, and on my worst days I feel like I'll never escape my mindset of being that weird kid on the playground nobody wants to play with. The jealousy and envy of others can feel just as overpowering as it did when I was a kid. The only thing that helps me is stepping back and getting out in front of my thoughts. I just try to think of something completely unrelated to whatever is making me jealous, rather than trying to tell myself not to feel that emotion that I'm currently feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:34 PM
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I prefer dating and talking to men with options or "players". Not because of preselection or hypergamy or w/e, players are just more persistent when they want you. I'm very disorganized in the ways that I show affection, which stresses out beta men who really NEED that validation from me, which I just can't give to them. I feel more like I'm on a level playing ground when I'm talking to a man with options or a player. I'm most likely going to end up married to a former player that threw in the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:28 PM
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That's not how women view things. A woman would very RARELY have sex with a man she wouldn't be in a relationship with, and assumes if a guy likes her enough to have sex with her, he wouldn't mind a relationship. They are naive and place way too much faith in men, as most men would fuck anything that walks given the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:56 AM
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In what sense are we using the word entitled? If we're using entitled to mean "person with low SMV that will only accept high SMV mates", men are more vocal about it but women do it at roughly the same rates. Men feel more entitled to being given a chance with a large number of women, women feel more entitled to the concept of a relationship with an individual. I've heard more men bitch and moan "why won't you give me a chance?" or men and women alike trying to bully a woman into giving a guy a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:15 AM
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So turns out I didn't have two essays due yesterday, I only had one. I wrote a 7 page essay last night for nothing. Thank god I don't have to turn it in, it was about the rise of the alt right and I was just bullshitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:48 PM
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Sexual power is a gimmick sold to women by skeevy men. "You go girl, you suck all those dicks for feminism! You could start with mine perhaps?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:10 PM
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I wouldn't wear ultra slutty things on purpose to disrespect my partner. I know myself, and I don't do any of the things you described. The story I was referencing in the comments was a man mad at his wife for wearing a MODEST dress because it showed her ankles. I am NOT going to argue with my husband about wearing something so normal and not sexy in the slightest, that's insane. It's not about "doing whatever I want" period. It's about having basic autonomy. If he thinks I look fat in a certain…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:07 PM
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You just described lust, not love. JFC no offense but this is the most depressing comment I've read on PPD in like a week. "Just be perfect, perform the male fantasy, it's that easy."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 05:55 AM
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Guys will introduce you to their mom and the girl they're seeing on the side the next day. Just because you meet the coach doesn't mean you're getting signed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 05:48 AM
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vyvanse and other stimulants recreationally. i suppose i'm red pill aware. i don't like it but thems the breaks. A career man has never crossed my mind like is it supposed to be a guy that really likes money or something? Men aren't really looked down upon for being successful and not caring about others. I mean a work/life balance is ideal but if we're talking extremes, i'd take the man that has ambition and drive over a man child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 05:45 AM
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hmmmm, maybe arguing with a man who's actually high in dominance would be different. But the woman's husband in the story was a weirdly neurotic and effeminate man stressing about an ankle length dress. A possessive "where the fuck do you think ur going in actually revealing article of clothing" imo is different than having to run even your normal every day clothes by your neurotic husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 05:30 AM
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Do women really care a lot about height? I guess I wouldn't know cause I have the luxury of being so short 99 percent of guys are taller than me. Face/personality/sense of humor/what a guy had for lunch all come to mind before height does. I can't be too NAWALTY now cause I have rejected one short guy (like 4'8) but I'm not asking for basketball players either. Anything starting with a 5 is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:49 AM
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I rather swallow a jean jacket than ever do this shit and I'm into the whole dominance/submission thing. Acting like a child or being treated like a child is a hard limit for me. If we can't talk like adults, there's nothing to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:43 AM
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Depends whos there lol. Some of their advice is so pickme and gross like one thread where a woman's husband didn't want her to wear a "revealing dress" that went down to her ANKLES and someone suggested "Why don't you try it on in front of him and twirl and pout and say I thought you liked ittt". Like.. as a grown woman, I'm not about to argue with my husband about what I can wear. But I do think there is helpful advice when it comes to the overall structure of relationships, getting over ego pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 12:33 AM
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No. I've fallen into traps of thinking I would never find a guy like my ex, but that was the dumbest shit I've ever thought in my life. 1. Why would I WANT to find a man like that and 2. There are an unlimited number of mexican fuckboys that drive trucks in my area. The men I've made the mistake of engaging with have made me learn what not to tolerate, the games men play, how to set boundaries, and it has made me more cynical. I was just talking with my therapist about this and she said it's rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:20 PM
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Money isn't sexually attractive, but it's important when picking a partner (to me). I watched my mom work 80 hour work weeks at minimum, having one day off every other week, while my step dad lazed around the house all day. Money is only important to me because the more a man invests= the more he values you. Sunken cost fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:15 PM
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Most feminists don't think about sexual attraction when discussing ideology or morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:07 PM
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Yeah. When my ex was breaking up with me he admitted he was only using me for sex which infuriated me. I would have had casual sex with him anyways at that point in my life. I was pissed that he made me fulfill some kind of girlfriend role and made me feel emotional connection to him if all he wanted was sex. The sex was NOT worth it! I only liked it cause he was my boyfriend at the time so there were the relationship chemicals. Car sex is trash, and that's all we did. His dick was small too but…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:59 AM
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Same. I'm pretty submissive, too, but that would make me either walk away and laugh or flip the fuck out. Idk why people conflate being submissive with wanting to be treated like an actual child. That would drive me insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:48 AM
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I have two essays due tomorrow night that I haven't even started, and I'm gonna be out all day tomorrow. One is a causal argument on the rise of the alt right, the other is a "value argument essay" on avengers infinity war??????? What can I say in the essays lmao im going to blow my brains out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:43 AM
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I think that I'm really obsessive and clingy, but the guys I've seen have revealed they thought I acted like an emotionless robot and couldn't tell if I liked them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 02:51 AM
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The beliefs always come first. And that belief can come from as early as childhood, to something completely unrelated to sex and dating as an adult that shapes their world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 12:02 AM
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Finding a style/brand for himself. Figuring out his niche, dressing in a way that projects his personality, finding a group of friends that have the same interests as him. Quickest way to separate yourself from the horde of men whose only personality trait is watching netflix and that still dress like their mom buys their clothes. Self care. I guess the mens call it building frame? Can be going to the gym, setting a routine for yourself, anything that provides structure and purpose to your life …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:15 PM
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In all my time as a radical feminist, me and the gals never got together to discuss dating or the "SMV". I think it's difficult to even talk about feminism on this subreddit because as you said men think women talking is feminism. Also liberal feminism and radical feminism could not be any more different, so when I think of feminism I think of radical feminism. But most people on here understandably think of shit like huffpo or mainstream liberal thought as feminism. Radical feminists/2nd wave f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:06 PM
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I am so insanely jealous of her its unreal. I wish I had that kind of personality that made beta men throw thousands at me. INB4 "personality lmao". There are women more attractive than belle delphine who haven't made a dime off their appearance. It's her ability to present herself and her false e girl persona that's raking in the dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:59 PM
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Willing to bet how much exactly? And who's the judge of your proposed suffering olympics?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:55 PM
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The VAST majority of people who spend a great deal of time talking about problems they have do not want to solve their problem. They're not logical, solution oriented people. In fact, the vast majority of men with this mindset that they're unable to get sex have such a negative mindset that it affects every aspect of their life. It's almost comparable to how eating disorders form. It's never just about "being skinny". The obsession with the problem provides clear structure and a false sense of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:26 AM
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The guys I know who were the "best with women" overall preferred LTRS and were very picky about women. The guys I know who were really into casual sex were often just normal looking, sometimes ugly. Anyone can get casual sex if they lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:47 AM
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your husband got friends? wait... significant age gap between us. your husband got friends with kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:53 AM
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I feel this comment in my soul bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:50 AM
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Thats the thing. I don't want to be approached only for my looks. I look cute enough but I have the personality of a 13 year old boy with autism so if someone clicks on my profile solely because I'm hot they're going to be in for something unexpected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:49 AM
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Wouldn't be ideal, but I'd take it over a guy who I had to bend over backwards to receive a text from. I'm not clingy myself but I don't mind clingy/affectionate guys cause at least they don't get offended at my awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 11:04 PM
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I forgot which porn website it is but you can watch "bloopers" or behind the scenes and it's literally women begging not to be anally penetrated, having a drug induced mental breakdown, or passing out and it's portrayed as comedy. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 10:35 PM
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I don't really consume porn at all but if I do, it's lesbian. I'm heterosexual but I literally hate watching straight porn. Someone is going to use this for their "women are physically not attracted to men whatsoever checkmate" argument. It's just.. adding a man to the scene makes shit so intense and weird looking. "yEAH you Like THAT?" No sir, I'm walking away from my laptop now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 10:30 PM
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How do you make a good online dating profile? Do guys even read girls profiles tbh? Maybe I should try to think about what type of guy I like and what type of girls they would be into??? Idk. I have 500 personalities and neither of them is any more "real/genuine" or "fake" than the other. Idk which to put at the forefront or how to combine all of them. I compartmentalize too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:09 AM
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All I gotta say is I'm only 18 and I still have to deal with single fathers in my dating pool :/ It's happened more times than I'd like to admit a guy hit me up I thought he was alright and I looked on his instagram and there's his whole child. I'm young I'm not gonna be playing step mom or have the mother of his child trying to fight me!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:00 AM
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If this method will bring me my manic pixie dream boy with less hassle than modern dating, I'll put on my hoop skirt and corset before you can say plantation. Sadly, don't think we can put the cat back in the bag when it comes to society already normalizing premarital sex. NOTHING makes a man more mad than a woman that has had sex with men before when she had low standards for them but now holds higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:53 AM
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Okay but that's valid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:50 AM
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Disorganized attachment style gang. In my mind it's either I'm gonna be rejected or I can just romanticize my relationship with said man from afar while removing myself from the possibility of being hurt by him. I pretty much feel instant disgust when a guy is nice to me because it makes me think he's being disingenuous or trying to gain something from me, or I feel disgust with myself for no apparent reason. I also have no girl game. I have this dumb stupid desire to be loved for "wHo I aM" des…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 09:46 PM
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My mom literally gets door dash ordered 3 or 4 times a week because she's convinced she'll lose her parking spot if she leaves the house. Oh no, having to walk an extra 10 feet at most. It would be quicker and cheaper to go pick it up, but laziness is hard to overcome I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 09:18 PM
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Oh you finally got your bi monthly sex ration? That's why you've been so upbeat recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 08:26 PM
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I'm just not clingy. It's not in my nature. I'm mentally very clingy but don't outwardly express it at all. However much the guy I'm into is clingy, he gets about half of that back until I can be sure I can trust him. It takes me a while to warm up to someone or feel comfortable being affectionate or emotional with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:34 PM
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I would literally rather die than be seen as clingy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:19 PM
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Staring wistfully at his autograph hanging on my wall :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 06:44 AM
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I've tried almost every SSRI. I hate them with a passion. I have a belief that you can't fix problems the easy way out and need to work through your issues cognitively. It took years of seeing a therapist but over the past year I've done more work than I have all previous years combined. Also having a spiritual or belief system is really important. I just slack A LOT in my practice lol but when I'm consistent everything improves in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:58 AM
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I can't even answer that question thats how out of touch I am with myself LMAO. welcome to tha club
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:34 AM
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Fem brained people think that. So beta men and most women basically date with naivety and blind trust and become shocked when they discover dating isn't ethical. Most people I've met do have a double standard about ethics in dating. When men "misbehave" (follow their imperative to be a dog), it's normal. But god forbid you say that you want a man you're attracted to. Everyone in a ten mile radius will tell you "It's about their HEARTTTT give him a chance".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 02:37 AM
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If you're tired of basic girls whose only personality is "netflix, wine, naps", try a girl whose personality is so neurotic and widespread that her internal operating system crashes when you ask her anything about herself. On a serious note, if you catch me on a good day, I can charm your ass off. I have big tits too and I'm short so it looks real funny. Hard not to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 02:32 AM
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Not my experience at all. When I wasn't celibate, it took my FWB like 3 months for me to even suck his dick. Casual sex doesn't compare at all to relationship sex. I already hated having casual sex because I couldn't get horny during it. If I can actually enjoy having sex with someone, no way in hell do I want it to just be casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:35 PM
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Exactly lmao. A fuck up isn't forgetting to text me for a while or something dumb like that. I'm not an overly emotional person, so a fuck up is something serious. I don't tolerate intentional disrespect and I'm not a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 10:15 PM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:15 AM
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Reply to this comment and build your dream partner!! Nothing is too unrealistic! I don't think this is important enough at all for a thread or that relevant I'm just curious!! If no one replies to this I'm gonna be embarrassed. My manic pixie dream boy looks like this but with tasteful tattoos and less acne, 5'7, skinny, personality and loyalty of a golden retriever, the patience and wisdom of a youth group leader, and thinks my retardedness is sexy. Let me see y'alls dream man/woman!!! I'm feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:13 AM
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Tbh as a woman I've found the more effort I put in the more it drives the man away. Wish it wasn't that way :/. I literally love doing shit like making gift baskets for no reason, planning things, cute gestures etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:58 AM
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The last date I went on, he brought me back over to his house when I didn't want to go and I kept having to pry his hands off of me. I was 16 working my first job at a fast food place. There was a cute guy, I smiled at him, he gave me his number. He literally was a psycho. I didn't reply to his texts because I went to sleep cause I just got off a long shift, and I had to babysit twins that morning. He sent like 20 paragraphs about how women ain't shit. He had a weird race thing going on. He was …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:47 AM
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Tbh I feel like if I was around the same time period you're talking about and around those men, I'd be just as promiscuous as you. I can't get it up (or whatever the female equivalent is) for a guy who couldn't protect me or defend himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:37 AM
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Yes. My ex boyfriend walked me like a fucking dog. He was cheating on me the whole time, only using me for sex, waited until I was on my period so I couldn't have sex with him to branch swing to the girl he told me not to worry about. Meanwhile, if I was "too friendly" to one of my long time guy friends, didn't text him back (because i was in class), he'd give me the silent treatment and I'd end up apologizing to him even though he made me cry and started the argument. He randomly cut me off for…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:21 PM
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If a guy is nice and respectful, I let them down easy. If he's a dick, and I've already said no loud and clear and he keeps persisting, I'll tell him off or ghost him. I'm disinterested in dating, period. I need some form of platonic interaction before I can develop feelings for them. 100% of the time, if a guy only comes to me with romantic or sexual intentions, I'll reject him. I get disinterested in guys who don't know how to banter or build rapport and try to ask me out as soon as they see m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:16 PM
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I literally hate talking to men I'm not interested in. I'm an introvert. I don't have the time or energy or desire to maintain backups.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:11 PM
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In what context? Most of them would not try to rape me, most of them would probably help me carry a heavy object up a flight of stairs. But in the context of developing a sexual or romantic relationship, I'd say at least 80 would be more likely to hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:09 PM
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I used to be TERRIBLE. I'd see every red flag and forgive him for his bad behavior because I treated guys how I wanted to be treated. If I just loved him and stuck by his side, I thought he'd be like the grinch and his heart would grow 10x its size. Retarded thought process. I'm too good at spotting red flags now. I'm a strict judge judy ass bitch. One fuck up and you're gone. I used to think I could teach a man how to love me. I've learned that if a guy really wants you, you won't question it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:04 PM
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I literally HATE wasting my time more than anything. I wish more than anything I could have my virginity back. Not because of purity or anything, but because they were wastes of time. I'm just highly impulsive (or used to be, I'm seriously committed to celibacy now) and thought that a hookup would give me the same feeling a relationship would, or I thought that I was above having feelings and relationships in general. Bring me my manic pixie dream boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:57 PM
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Me too!! I think people have this idea that socially awkward girls are cute and shy/adorkable but really we come across like total ice queens. I'm not zooey deschanel lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 07:18 PM
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Anyone good at dream analyzing? About two or three times a year I have a recurring dream of my father's alzheimers getting worse and him being extremely belligerent and driving really recklessly (like 200 mph, driving off of mountains and buildings and such). In the dreams its like he's intentionally trying to scare me. I tried looking it up on dream moods but it's a pretty hyper specific dream lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 07:00 PM
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Literally never. It's fucked up of me to say this but sometimes I feel jealous of women that complain about getting cat called or w/e.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 01:34 PM
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I mean their feelings for a woman, not the woman herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 03:22 PM
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Hm, sounds sweet in theory, but really weird when I think about it. I don't like the idea of being on a pedestal like that or being seen as some kind of trophy or muse. It seems like a lot of responsibility. I would literally rather kill myself than be put in a position where I'm responsible for someone's well being and peace of mind unless its my future children's. I'm highly neurotic and that amount of stress and pressure would probably make me fake my own death and run away from him forever l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 07:46 AM
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This is literally why I saved my nudes back when I used to do that type of stuff LMAO. It's so aggravating when guys ask for nudes and want them to be personalized or they want you to take a fresh nude for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 07:21 AM
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I would rather die single and alone than ever have to compete with a sex robot for an undesirable man's attention. If I were rich, and these sex bots were highly customizable, I might get one just to see what it's about. But a sex bot will never replace a real human being. I got a lot of controversial views regarding transhumanism and AI because I'm a wackjob conspiracy theorist and spiritual nut and TLDR robots can't have souls!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 03:34 AM
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Instead of submitting my essay which is due in two hours I just wrote the first chapter of a wattpad story in which jeff the killer searches for clout. I am the least funny AND most deplorable human being I know and my ancestors are ashamed of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 02:08 AM
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one time had a guy messaging me non stop about how short is too short for penis length but other than that no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:12 PM
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I'm jealous but I just internalize things. I would never outwardly display jealousy, that seems pathetic to me. If my partner is cheating on me or wants to cheat, I don't see how yelling at him is going to fix the issue. If I find out he's cheating, as in hard evidence, or I have a premonition, I'll dump him. But I don't like to ask to see his phone or start arguments or control him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 06:57 PM
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Using the word hot feels weird. I've always described guys I like as cute. Seems weird to differentiate between the two and say hot means "rugged/manly/sexual" when the thought of describing a man as that makes me laugh. I like cute guys, not those weird chad caricatures that look like they do gay porn. Cute imo can be anything from the scrawny guys I had crushes on in high school to a muscular 6'2 dude. If I call a guy cute it means I find him sexually attractive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 01:39 AM
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I'm INTJ and pretty fucking strange and enough people on here and off have told me I'm probably autistic so I feel qualified. I've learned to enjoy bantering and playfulness, but I detest "shit tests" or testing of any kind when it comes to serious things. I also hate being expected to read someone's mind and cater to their emotional needs without them saying anything. Ex bf used to start arguments for "excitement" or to test me, give the silent treatment, etc and I would fail every time because…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 08:14 PM
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Women are into a wider variety of men than the reverse imo. But this is purely on a personal, individual basis. There are women out there that are OBSESSED and completely dickmatized by men 70 percent of the population might find to be completely ugly (hehe my flair for example, or my friend obsessed with this one dude from twin peaks whose really ugly i forgot the name). You would be hard pressed to find a guy completely OBSESSED and lustful over a woman 70 percent of the male population found …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 08:10 PM
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My friend Kevin is easily the most charming and masculine guy I know. Lots of hobbies, physically fit, disciplines, great sense of humor, dad like wisdom, trustworthy, but also has edge. He could definitely get casual sex if he wanted, but prefers LTRs. He's in a relationship right now with a really sweet girl and they seem to have really compatible lifestyles and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:38 PM
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The pussy doctor said to try a new hormonal birth control, it'll help my acne!!!!!! Meanwhile I have a disgusting pimple in between my eyebrows and a cyst the size of a quarter on my cheek. I would have never started taking birth control in the first place cause I'm celibate but I have PCOS or whatever. I'm on the third week of the first month and everything hurts slightly and I'm acting like a hormonal sleepy bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:21 PM
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I'm a woman and have the same mindset as you OP. They call us autists. Normal people don't see flirting or whatever as games or manipulation. Normies are 100 percent addicts to their emotions and need some emotional roller coaster to be in a relationship. The amount of people out there willing to accept someone for who they are with no games is very low. According to an ex I'm on good terms with, talking to me was like talking to a robot or a news anchor. Huge turn off. You have to manipulate or…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:02 PM
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I'm pretty much only attracted to young looking guys. I don't really like any signs of aging in a man, but maybe when I'm older I will change my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:54 PM
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Yeah, the idea that pre civilized men waited around to be selected by women instead of forcing themselves onto every woman they could is quite strange. As my drunk friend said last night "We've been selectively breeding for THOUSANDS of years and y'all still ugly?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:38 AM
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I live somewhere in between the city and a small town, if you drive 5 mins one way you see cows and 5 the other way you might get shot, 5 mins another way you're in a hipster downtown area. Strictly speaking for young people in my circle around 17-20, the dating market is hard to pinpoint. A lot of it is based around personal choices not necessarily the attitudes of people surrounding you, because there's no cohesive "culture" or attitude towards dating even in one city. I would say it's more re…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:30 AM
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Getting my stacey bucks right !!! Made 60 dollars in the last hour doing absolutely nothing!!! You all disrespect incels but who else will send me money to rate their dick 1-10
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 11:55 PM
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No and I can always tell when a guy has googled "what does my zodiac sign mean" or "What is the law of attraction" to try to make me think he's just suuuper interested in my hobbies and interests. Or when they try to explain things about my favorite movies/books whatever and they use super basic info that you could find on wikipedia with no personal insight. It's so creepy and weird like it's fine if you've never read Crime and Punishment bro you don't need to look at sparknotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 07:32 PM
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I have some more political/moral opinions on porn, but I don't think that's what you're asking about in this thread. I do think "jailbait" porn or the fact that there's a fetish for barely legal, super young and petite looking girls is a bit concerning. But I do understand that men naturally like youthful women. I don't think there needs to be some kind of ban on teen porn, it would just be nice if it weren't advertised in such a creepy way. I think the woman and the man in this scenario are fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 07:10 PM
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Flirting/gaining their interest is really easy for me. Then I just become distant for no reason and don't know how to indicate that I would be open to dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 10:46 PM
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Idk how to describe it, but literally I have some kind of beta repellent vibe that only attractive/high status/otherwise interesting and charming men approach me. However, those kinds of men are not very common. So, as a result, I don't get approached very often. I guess I can't complain about that, because would I really want the opposite where I can easily attract men I don't want? I don't know if I look too intimidating or what, because this applies to social media too. It took 5 or 6 months …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 10:43 PM
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I'm an INTJ and Idk if that would work... I need an extroverted himbo that brings sunshine and rainbows into my neurotic INTJ life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 02:50 AM
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I have a game of showing my very insecure straight dudes pictures of men in drag and being like "she's hot right?" and they agree and telling them its a man. Or post op transition. Like y'all don't know women's hips aren't naturally like that?? So strange to me how they can't tell the difference at first then try to act like they're disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 02:49 AM
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I just want my manic pixie dream boy ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 02:35 AM
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I never really cared about body type, I'm a face kinda gal. So long as the body attached to the face isn't morbidly obese or holocaust victim skinny, I never really had a problem. I think I mostly like skinny fat guys, or just lean/skinny guys. I'm not going to say I'm grossed out by muscles at all lmao it's just not that important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 01:03 AM
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I'm anxious avoidant so honestly depends on my mood! Most of the time I'm just dense and can't even mentally process that whoever is pursuing me actually has emotions about me. I'd say I guess it's a turn on but most of the time I don't even recognize the possessiveness and think they're just kidding lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 02:23 AM
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I've pretty much only dated or talked to guys that have multiple options. There's something about my personality that's like a beta repellent. I much prefer knowing a guy has options and is still pursuing/chasing me even while other girls throw themselves at him. It feels like a more level playing field, when both me and the guy know we have options and are just kinda flirting and seeing where things take us. Guys without options will become very possessive before you even show the slightest int…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 11:43 PM
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Answering the bonus question: I'm trying to lmao cause I know it's rationally a good move but a part of me really enjoys the single life. Not having to answer anyone's texts, be emotionally vulnerable, living life on my terms only is pretty sweet. Also, as an 18 year old, there's not a lot of guys to lock down. They all wanna play fortnite or they just want to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 03:27 AM
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I don't want to pump and dump any man. Casual sex in fact disgusts me. This is why having an attractive man is important. So I don't have to go and mentally damage myself via casual sex. Sex is a form of intimacy, ya know? Sex with someone you love or care about isn't even in the same ballpark as casual sex or prostitute sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 11:01 PM
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He's actually really intelligent and has a good personality, I've watched more than enough interviews. He's a dumbass kid that grew up in poverty that got pushed into the gang lifestyle. The same people that "took him in" were the same people that stole millions from him and set him up to fail. His story is dime a dozen. He's not perfect and I don't like to ignore the fucked up decisions he's made, but I can see through his persona and all that. He's got a good heart, and genuinely tried to conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 05:55 AM
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Every woman who was once a teenage girl has either written or read fanfiction. Women literally are attracted to men they SPECIFICALLY are attracted to. There's no way to quantify that. But the majority 99 percent of women can think of a couple men she is sexually attracted to. Women aren't attracted to GENERAL men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 05:34 AM
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Retarded tattoos and rainbow hair aside, I don't know if I'd go that far. I'm gonna need the incel scientists to do their science here but he's got the jawline/face symmetry. He was attractive before he uglified himself purely cause of genetics. Idk what OP looks like- but don't give him too much hope. Incomplete and blurry proof but: https://imgur.com/a/PcpgpdN
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 05:32 AM
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As a woman, I'm already very familiar with having tons of options in the dating market that could offer me everything a meaningful relationship has EXCEPT for sexual attraction. Sexual attraction and exclusive on demand access to sex is literally the most important thing for me in a relationship. If I'm not attracted to a man, why do I need him? I can get a job to earn my own money, I can call my girlfriends to bitch about my feelings, and I already have a cat to cuddle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 05:03 AM
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I'm extremely physically attracted to certain men. Not all men. There is one certain male specimen whose name I shall not repeat because it's in my flair and I get bullied on here for being attracted to him, that I would literally sell every item in my house to lick the STDS off his balls. Women are horny bastards. In fact, I'd say a properly turned on woman is freakier/kinkier than the average man. Women LOVE sex with men they're attracted to. Just because women's attraction isn't purely visual…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:57 AM
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Some men will spend all of their time sitting and thinking of hypothetical scenarios in which women will be forced to give them sex via guilt or legal repercussions instead of just being someone a woman would want to have sex with. Guilt/obligation are two of the unsexiest things in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:53 AM
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I'm currently working on being able to express my emotions more, from what I've learned men really love women that have high emotional intelligence. I think it's like stable, emotionally healthy women>unbalanced but exciting women> emotionally constipated robotic women. I'm a pretty great conversationalist, try my best not to be "basic" (I don't think I could be basic even if I tried actually lmao), I'm very patient and understanding. When I have a man, I'm very respectful and admiring of him, I…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/19 11:58 PM
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Tbh I think at this point I need to accept if I ever want to truly be satisfied in a relationship, I need to go like at least 10 years older than me. My mom always went older (my dads 70 and she's like 48 this year). I can't really imagine being sexually attracted to a guy a lot older than me, but maybe I'm just being too close minded. After all, a lot of guys still look young at 30 or 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 07:22 PM
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Men talk all the time about how they want an educated woman, a woman that "hustles"/a team player, someone to "build an empire with" lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 07:09 PM
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I've already learned the hard way if a man's not pursuing, he's not interested. If all men decided to stop approaching women, I'd give up. The ego of any man who's decently attractive would suddenly inflate x100. There's nothing you can do to win a man over. Conversely, women can be won over. So it makes no sense to reverse things. If he's just not into you, he's just. not. into. you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 07:00 PM
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I forgot to add in the post when I wear my hair up I gel down my baby hairs and it honestly makes my hair look way better. I'm really fair skinned and have regular white person hair lol so I don't go crazy with it because I would look like I'm trying to pull a rachel dolezal, but my hairline is CRAZY thick and if I wear my hair in a bun, I look like a crackhead. I just use a toothbrush and kind of make them frame my face, especially around the side parts of the hairline if that makes sense. Back…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 12:24 AM
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I've been creeped on before, but not physically touched. I don't doubt that it happens, but I don't have a lot of friends that complain about creepy older men touching them. Flirting with them very inappropriately, making passes (especially while they're at work), or being creepy, yeah. But I haven't heard a lester the molester story personally, unless we're counting child molestation by a family member. I think it's more common for young girls/teens to be groped or otherwise sexually targeted b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 09:10 PM
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I just ordered it off amazon today, I'm super excited to read it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 09:06 PM
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Of course atlas would say exactly what's on my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 08:53 PM
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That's what I tried to say in my comment idk if it came across as that way. I know a lot of traditional women that hold their husbands to the same high standards they hold themselves too which is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 08:50 PM
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Why are there so few hair gurus on the internet in comparison to the millions of makeup artists??? FFS, it seems like everyone is either wearing a wig nowadays or all they do is flat iron their hair in a middle part. For so long the only hair tutorials I've seen were like those ugly intricate pinterest braids. Where is all the secret hair knowledge hiding???? I literally thought for a long ass time that unless a woman's hair was like in an updo or obviously curled, she just brushed her hair and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 08:47 PM
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Pick me women don't respect themselves. It's not about hating traditional gender roles or not wanting to be a good wife. Pick Me's are the female version of niceguys. They'll bend over backwards and do the most just to say that they have a man, while not holding that man to any standards. If less pickmes opened their legs and sold their soul just for a crumb of male validation, there would be more men striving to be good partners. Pickmes aren't just traditional women or submissive women. Most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 05:05 AM
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I used to exclusively date mexican dudes and if you know, you know. Mexican women have to fit an extremely high standard of femininity and beauty. Having to do a full face of makeup all the time and look my best so as to make my ex look good was so fucking exhausting. It didn't really have a long term affect on my self confidence. But when I was dating my ex and accidentally plucked off too much of my eyebrows, he had a negative reaction and it literally made my heart stop. Now I'm like wtf- I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 09:05 PM
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Yes maam.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 11:34 PM
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A man who I'm splitting the bills 50/50 with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 09:20 PM
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That's a roommate lmao. We'd be sleeping in different bedrooms, I'd wash my dishes and he can wash his.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:29 PM
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It's pickme behavior. Those types of girls will get treated the worst. It's fine to DO those things, but they're the type of girls that will do all of those things and accept any type of treatment just so they can keep their man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:11 PM
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All those things I listed are shit I would do anyways, not just to get girls. If anything, that strategy is easier than just "showing up" and hoping that the other person will woo you. Being proactive is easier than being passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 07:57 PM
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If I were a straight average man, I'd build my reputation up and make some kind of name for myself locally. Make lots of friends of the opposite and same sex, build myself up etc. Then approach women I liked, make them feel special and make em laugh, treat them well with no covert contracts. I'm just the type of person that genuinely likes to give gifts, be generous, make people smile and all that so it wouldn't be a big deal if I put some effort into a few girls. I'd probably still go for quali…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:18 AM
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Well the goal is to make a name for yourself via your thottery. As in, you don't just do it for validation. You do it for money and clout. When I think of groupies, I think of girls that are star struck. It's hard to think of concrete examples, but you know them when you see them. The strippers from this video are good examples. They work at Starlets, a really famous strip club (i think they're bar tenders or one of them is a bar tender the other is a stripper). They're using their thottery to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:38 AM
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Being a thot not in secret with college dudes, rather making being a thot your "image" and profiting off of it/fucking with famous dudes or guys that have connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:39 AM
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Realizing I was the type of girl that men plated/easily manipulated/didn't view as wife material. Not for lack of trying either. Idk how to best describe it, but basically everything TRP says about women I've observed in men personally. It kind of led to me giving up hope in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:58 AM
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Only girls that don't have girl game would do something so over eager and quite frankly, dumb. If you sit there and think about it for five seconds, men like women more than the reverse. If you as a woman were sitting here jumping through hoops and paying for a man, what does that make you look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:48 AM
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Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:44 AM
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Honestly, not in a self depricating way, I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me. Looking over my comments on reddit over the past few days/weeks/months I am a weird human being. One day I'm sperging out and the next I'm like "so should I become an industry thot and or actual prostitute". My two personalities, 13 year old boy with aspergers and thottimus prime constantly battle each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 01:36 AM
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I view it as empowering. They don't set women back at all. Women who are pick me's and consistently let men walk all over them/use them etc and complain about where all the good men went set women back. I've thought about being one, because I've studied a lot of former gold diggers and sugar babies. A lot of them don't even have to put out- they just ghost after a while. My problem is, I can't attract beta men in any capacity. I'm not the type of girl that could really be a sugar baby I guess. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 01:30 AM
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I'm as dominant as they come outside of sex. I have a weird relationship with submission in a sexual/romantic context. I'm definitely a natural submissive, I would just need a man I could really really trust. I don't just defer to anyone with a penis. And a lot of guys just suck at being dominant even sexually. It's always "what do you want to do?" bleh. I could only be sexually submissive within a LTR. No random tinder hookup is gonna try to dominate me lmao. I think women do prefer dominant me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 07:42 PM
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By neglecting me she did teach me from an early age to seek attention and validation from others yes. Bless up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 11:26 PM
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I don't have an exact definition, but you know it when you see it. A masculine man isn't obsessed with being masculine. I think the most masculine type of guy I can think of is like a guy that's pretty in shape, has convictions and morals, treats others around him with respect and respects himself, has a certain "dad" quality to him that makes him a good leader and mentor, very strong work ethic. Most masculine dude I can think of is this dude I know that just graduated. He finished high school …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 09:29 PM
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My mom was a crazy hyper masculine neurotic beast that hammered into me that I can never trust men, I can't be weak, everyone else is a piece of shit, never taught me the basics on how to girl or really how to be a normal human being. She convinced me my dad caused all of my depression and problems and he was terrible and then I realized it's the reverse. I grew up severely isolated from people my own age, around insane people, tagging along with my mom to AA meetings, since the age of 5 my mom …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 08:48 PM
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I'd trade places with you in a heartbeat bud. I'm a woman- I hate that thing you described about letting someone else take the reins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 08:42 PM
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That's why I tend to hide my spirituality. People who are really into it and study universal law and metaphysics and probably have whole rooms in their homes dedicated to their craft are not the same people posting daily horoscopes and buying overpriced fake crystals (not saying crystals are fake, just a lot of sellers dye quarts and other rocks and claim they're a more rare kind).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 04:55 AM
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Facing a decision right now. One of tekashi's friends and I are pretty close and have discussed a lot of things including how I could go about sexually exploiting myself for clout and money. Hypothetical scenario, if I fuck tekashi's fat ass friend first and then he gets out of jail, you think I still got a chance? I don't think tekashi's like... averse of hoes. He endorses thots. Also, even if I can pull this off and I get to fulfill my dream of licking the STDS directly off of tekashi's foresk…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 04:50 AM
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Oh dude- so many of them. But they're not all my fault. My hobbies. I'm really into studying different spiritualities/esoteric knowledge/alchemy- or spirituality to put it bluntly. No offense but 90 percent of guys into "spirituality" are insufferable and all they do is talk about DMT and shrooms and chakras. It's almost a turn off now when a guy knows too much about his zodiac sign. Men only learn that if they're like the guy I described above or desperate for pussy. I hold myself to ridiculous…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 12:40 AM
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If they have weird attitudes towards sex. If I'm dating you, I want to have sex with you. Leave your madonna/whore complex at the door. I don't want to be your pure angelic mommy gf or your glorified side piece that you're only with to secure sex until you find pure angelic mommy gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 10:44 PM
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My pornhub channel where I do not sexualize myself at all in the slightest (I literally only post stupid hentai flash game lets plays/the occasional incel therapy tarot card reading video/comedic ASMR roleplaying) is doing pretty well. 150 subs, around 6,000 total views. That's doing pretty well by my standards because I literally just dick around with my terrible quality webcam and don't even try to edit my videos. It's weird but I actually enjoy what I do. On my actual youtube channel where I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 09:43 PM
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A good percent of women have emotions around sex and would feel used if all a guy wanted from them was sex with no strings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 12:27 AM
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I wouldn't say I envy married people because I know I'll get there eventually. There are a lot of aspects about being single that I really honestly enjoy. I don't have to "check in" before I do anything. I don't have to worry about representing my partner/impressing his social group or whatever. No arguments, no emotional rollercoasters. I can feel like myself right now- I can build myself and my life without the limitation of a partner. However, I recognize that if I managed to find my glass sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 12:25 AM
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You ever see something that makes you wonder if god has a sense of humor too? My muslim friend, T, has like the perfect female body. Big titties, teeny waist, big butt and nice legs. But she dresses super modest. If I were her I'd be like fuck Allah, I got allah this ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 06:15 PM
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Yes. Hopefully now he got that desire out of his system and won't ask me for a threesome. I'm insecure and I don't share. If a guy asked me for a threesome (MFF) all I would be able to hear is "Hey, fucking you is really a chore. Why don't you let me fuck another girl right in front of you? That way you can see how sexually attracted I am to her and how excited I am to have sex with her?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 05:58 PM
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I'd like to think so- but from what I've seen it's more like attracts like. I'm an INTJ with no water in their natal chart. Emotions, feelings, etc are literally the most confusing thing to me. I don't like being dominant, but I am a dominant person. I prefer extroverted guys with high levels of emotional intelligence- but I also desire someone like me that uses logic and problem solving skills rather than someone that likes arguing and uses their emotions too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 05:53 PM
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The amount of guy's I've had PIV sex with - the amount of those guys I've blocked. So far it's 1.5 (the half is if you count like 30 seconds)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 05:29 PM
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Also means love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 05:24 AM
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Big Dick Energy is about the spiritual dick. The dick aura. Me and some dude at my school thats like a blacksmith and sells weed tied for having the most Big dick energy in a poll and I have no dick to speak of. It's confidence. Your vibes. Your impression on people. Nothing to do with what you're packing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 06:16 AM
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Deepthroating, getting on top, having to put on a performance worthy of a porn oscar. If you're pretty all you gotta do is arch your back or lie down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 03:59 AM
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That is.. exactly how men work. The better looking the girl, the less tricks she has to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:19 AM
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I'm 4'11. Shortest I'll go is 5'4.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 11:30 PM
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Self defeating belief systems are heavily rewarded. "I'm a loser I wanna kill myself" "haha man same" Nihilism, lack of positive male figures, a lot of men aren't raised to be individuals with agency. They are eternally looking to be praised for being good boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:49 AM
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Yes. I have a thing for scent. There's this (probably fake) Ferragamo cologne a lot of mexican/salvadorean dudes in my area that run in the same social circles and it took me SO long to realize that I was literally attracted to a certain guy because of his scent like a werewolf or some shit. I got a cold one week and couldn't smell and suddenly I could see HOLY SHIT he's ugly but just last week I was a puddle around him. I wouldn't say the guys I like are ugly but a lot of my friends say they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:44 AM
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I've tried but in general I'd say it doesn't really work. Men are shit in the passive role. They either get flustered, don't understand you're flirting with them, or they're just not interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:05 AM
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How do I get a boyfriend without having to talk to men or leave my room or change my personality in any way. Normally I'm on my strong independent women shit but I am having a Little Bitch/Pussy moment rn. I want to rip my feelings out with the same tweezers I use to put on my strip lashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 01:02 AM
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I would never enter a relationship with someone that didn't think all politics were ran by lizard people that eat babies. 99 percent of people that have "strong convictions" like that have absolutely no personality so they fill the void with political slogans. I used to have a fun game where I would slightly change the wording of fascist ideas and my leftist friends would applaud me for my deep insights. Same thing with communist ideology and my more right wing friends. I couldn't imagine being …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:47 AM
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The last time I read this sentiment was before tumblr got rid of NSFW content. This looks exactly like what those pasty "Right Wing. Christian. Conservative. Dominant. Alpha." men caption black and white porn gifs with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:43 AM
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If you look past the general "clean your room" shit he offers a lot of insight that goes against whatever messages people are used to receiving consciously or not. A lot of guys or people in general are stuck without purpose, eat sleep mindless entertainment repeat. He advocates taking responsibility without being like Gary Vee and yelling "shut the fuck up and go be your own boss right the fuck now you little bitch!" He's kinda like a Joe Rogan without Jiu Jitsu and weed. A dad figure. He also …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:35 AM
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It's lite because around 10 I learned not to talk about sonic in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:18 AM
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I don't care about politics, it's all literally designed to keep people distracted. It's all fake. They all eat babies and do weird sex rituals (not an antisemitic dogwhistle or a trump thing, idk why that gets associated with the alt right). I think voting is stupid. Oh yeah, you're really going to change a system by VOTING buddy. Politicians need to fear the citizens so they stay in line. In most countries, it's backwards. I support abortion because women are going to do it anyways, so it migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:13 AM
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No. Physical attraction is the most important thing to me. I'd feel bad if I was in a relationship with someone I wasn't attracted to, because I'd be keeping him from getting with someone that might actually want to kiss him and not throw up. I don't know what emotional attraction is. When I'm attracted to a guy I'll just convince myself I'm emotionally invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:03 AM
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Literally!! I always say face is more important than height and dudes scratch their heads. The first thing I see is face, unless it's a mugshot and there's the little measuring thingy that shows their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:00 AM
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Lol last dude I fucked was 5'3. I'd say a tall guy is more important for dating because then they can brag to their friends about having a tall bf. But a medium short guy with good looks will do good with hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 11:59 PM
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Not at all. Face/charisma/personality are all individually and collectively way more important to me than height. I'm really short tho so asking a guy to just be taller than me isn't difficult at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 11:57 PM
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Less about being horny and more just "I'm having sex tonight". Idk how to describe it. For a while I thought since I had no relationship experience I could "skip to the end" and have casual sex. I just wanted a story to tell my friends. No machiavellian agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 11:54 PM
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As an introverted woman, it's harder to get approached simply because I often look unapproachable/cold even when I don't mean to. With OLD, the pure amount of messages that are just like "hey" give me a headache because who do I respond to??? My social "battery" cannot go on for multiple pointless small talky conversations. I can be a great conversationalist when I'm given something to work with, even IRL. If you come up to me with something funny to say, I can banter right back and seem extrove…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 04:41 PM
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Some people had shit childhoods. I'd say a lot more than you think. When I was a kid, I hated getting out of bed more than anything and I just wanted to sleep all day and stay in my room. My life only keeps getting better with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 04:25 PM
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I think instead of trying to integrate my worldview into some pill based sociological insight- I just have ugly duckling syndrome. Having moderate to severe clinical depression since childhood+being INTJ (autism lite lmao)+childhood neglect and being a weird ass kid until like 14 then suddenly having a transformation in my looks doesn't change the fact that I still tend to view things through my middle school self's eyes- deeply insecure, on the outside looking in etc. I know rationally unless I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 04:07 PM
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I've had a chance at a "chad" guy. 6'2 or so, white, brown hair, blue eyes, lean/muscular build he was definitely cute I guess. But I'll take my manlet hispanic guys over that any day. I rejected him and later developed a very strong crush on this ugly mexican dude that worked at the same place as us that actually had a personality and a sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 07:22 PM
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Yeah that's another thing, a lot of the advice for women is aimed at women that already have a man and how to cater specifically to his wants I think is the best way I can describe it. Like what if I don't got a man yet? Scientists still can't answer this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 01:28 AM
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My ex was a piece of shit. I hold myself accountable for letting him treat me like that. As soon as we broke up, he was dating the girl he was cheating on me with and buying her flowers and shit (never did that for me LOL). At the time, I absolutely did not own up to the fact that I let him treat me like that and I ignored all those red flags and just in general didn't respect myself. When we were dating, I helped him get into the academy I go to. His dumbass decided to still go to my school nex…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 11:23 PM
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CARDI B FINALLY RELEASED THE DAMN SONG SHE HAS BEEN TEASING SINCE FUCKING NOVEMBER bitch said #whoopthathoeasschallenge we gon fuck around and start a new trend. I already know this summer is going to be sensational. we already have the return of akon
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 07:33 PM
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I don't fuck him anymore and it's not like I'm in control of that. If I could date him I would have but obviously he wasn't into that or else he wouldn't have been my fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 01:46 AM
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I'm just not attracted to women romantically. I couldn't see myself with a woman as a life partner. They're fun to stroke my ego but it's just like having a super affectionate friendship IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:16 PM
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According to equal attraction subreddit I match with John Krasinski and he's hot so :o
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:14 PM
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Already ruined things with my social circle. Small school of like 150 people. I had even LESS of an idea on how to girl and really... gave a bad impression of myself IMO. I don't really have male friends now that aren't dating my female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:12 PM
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LOL don't bully my jailbird husband
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:10 PM
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I don't have autism! Severe childhood neglect/lack of peer to peer interaction+ being INTJ and having ADHD as well as what my therapist refers to as OCD lite might look the same as autism but it's not!! it's like the left twix vs right twix thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:03 PM
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I think I'm a useless bisexual because I can be attracted to women but I wouldn't date them. I used to have a lot of masculine energy (still do i guess) and women were just a lot easier to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:00 PM
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The passive part is so difficult for me! I have this constant need to prove myself or make things happen. When I was going through my gay phase, dating was a lot easier because girls like to be impressed and guys like to impress.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 07:13 AM
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I do not want to believe male sexuality is pedophilic and predatory and disgusting but reddit seems to want me to. I really hope this "men like women who act like sexy children" shit is just a meme. This plane of existence is the closest thing to hell possible if this isn't just a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 07:02 AM
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Now you guys can see that my flair is not a joke but a cry for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:50 AM
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That sounds like how to get fuckzoned. source: used to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:49 AM
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Okay so we went from step 1 to step 294 in two sentences... What are we doing with the guy all the way until we get to the trying new things in bed? How long do I gotta wait to make the relationship sexual? I need a system or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:49 AM
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If he has money and he's sexy and a Taurus then fuck yeah. If he has all of the stereotypical things people associate with not having a degree (less money, less motivation and ambition etc) then no. This is kinda like the whole "men would date a lower class woman" thing. Yeah they would, if she didn't come with all the shit working class people normally come with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:39 AM
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Most guys tinder or bumble bios are just "Jack. 19. Add me on snapchat lol I like sleeping and netflix". I'm not virtue signaling when I say I swipe left on even the most Chad looking guys if they have a bio like that. Most guys are just very... idk if lazy is the word, but low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:36 AM
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I have. Doesn't work. The guy will feel like he's hot shit or get flustered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:26 AM
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Ok but how do you get them to approach you?? How do you keep their interest? What do you talk about??? Both of my grandmothers are dead and my mom is a hyper masculine diagnosed bipolar- let me not get into all of the things I could say that contribute to my mommy issues and not knowing how to girl. I have mommy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:25 AM
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But there's more to it than just looks. Source: Am stacey (or at very least high becky) lookswise but have no idea how to be stacey personality wise and that's why im here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:22 AM
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Ok so the audience would like for more information. And by the audience I mean my Obsessive brain that needs detailed instructions and philosophy for even the most normal human shit because my soul ain't been reincarnated on this planet since Atlantis and human interactions are NOT like riding a bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:19 AM
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You do realize how randomly guys approach right? Being ATTRACTIVE isn't a guarantee you will be approached. Some of my uglier/goblin looking friends get approached daily, some of my more attractive ones never get approached. There's clearly some fucking secret shit going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:16 AM
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Dude we're finally having the greatest karmic shift (acuario-piscis/3rd to 4th dimension) in centuries this is the best time to have your karmic debt forgiven and get out of this hell plane.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:12 AM
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The epiphany phase is just what men have always been doing but now that women are doing it there's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:03 AM
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Like I said, they're all vague as shit and about "feeling confident and beautiful :)" not genuine advice. I binge watch all kinds of them and the only one that even remotely helped was one about the Sacral chakra and feminine energy cause she provided exercises to increase femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:00 AM
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Literally just advice on how to behave like a normal attractive female. After becoming attractive I realized that it's really my personality and the fact that I don't know how to "girl" that's holding me back. There's fucking LOADS of advice for men on how to be more attractive to women, how to build confidence, what women find attractive etc and it feels like everything is covered in mystery when it comes to the female side. I have no clue what men want. They're so fucking weird. I've tried so …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 05:59 AM
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Equal opportunities, equal intrinsic value, equal respect but different roles. No because my desire is to have gender equality in that form. No, different roles but equal respect isn't hypocritical IMO. The whole reason we're getting the "wrath of lilith" or the rise of radical feminism/metoo etc is because women weren't held in equal respect to men for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 05:48 AM
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I tried to write him for his birthday but he's in witness so I can't find him obviously :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:46 AM
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With a rotation of disguises including a fake mustache, a trench coat, and clown shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:42 AM
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So motherfucking AKON is back and made a song with my favorite artist (anuel aa, hes the puerto rican goblin that made songs with tekashi). He's calling himself El Negreeto. The song is 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:40 AM
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I've written about my experience as a femcel nerdy introvert turned stacey turbo-normie and how at my school which is an academy for weird nerds I feel like the nerd because everyone else is weird as shit. Why would I go to this meetup when I can just go to school and get the same feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:38 AM
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I want a girl first but then a boy. People always say brothers are protective over their sisters- but older sisters can get fucking terrifying if you mess with their little brother. My friend is the oldest and she's the only girl out of three boys and I think it's cute how after the second oldest (he's like 15) went through his first heartbreak and she was comforting him and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:35 AM
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Yeah no I want the cat ladydom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 07:03 AM
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seems kind of pedophillic IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 04:54 AM
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There is. The guys will typically drink amongst themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:50 AM
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it's true but it makes me want to throw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:47 AM
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No offense but the thought of acting like a child in order to make a man attracted to me is literally fucking sickening. I saw a post on RPW about how this woman's husband didn't want her to wear this dress and someone responded "maybe try pouting and twirling around in it in front of him like 'but i thought you liked it'". No grown adult should have to pout and twirl or convince their spouse they should be able to wear something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:46 AM
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Makes sense, but explain further.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:38 AM
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Some of my friends complain about getting approached all the time and they vary in looks from obese and kinda weird looking to sexy basic mexican stacy. I don't really get approached and some of my other friends complain about the same thing- that guys never approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:10 AM
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Atlas really be understanding my mindset more than I understand it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:04 AM
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I wouldn't have casual sex with a dude I wouldn't LTR If I really wanted an LTR I wouldn't have casual sex with him because my feelings would be hurted :( It's probably the same number, maybe more LTR No it means we've found an alternate universe where I respect myself and value myself enough to make a man work for me instead of giving him everything on a silver platter immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:03 AM
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There's too big of a shortage of guys willing to marry cute high school drop outs IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 01:36 AM
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Posted a video of me and my friend listening to one of tekashi's old songs in her car, his friend swiped up and was like "what you know about that song" I PROMISE YOU WHEN TEKASHI GETS OUT OF JAIL IM GONNA FUCK HIM.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 01:32 AM
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Maybe the simplicity of it all is what confuses me I guess. I need lots of directions, mantras, purpose etc. I have an obsessive mind so if I'm into something I go ALL in and I need to learn the ins and outs and how to master whatever "skill" it is I'm learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 10:10 PM
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To be fair it's kind of hard when so many of the (well meaning and lovely) ladies teaching femininity are like "it's all about how you FEEL and there's no right or wrong way" and a bunch of other feel good nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 03:34 AM
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I watch his videos because (my friend bullies me a lot for wanting to be a "trad thot") i guess I just have this burning desire as to how I can be BETTER. I think he's joking sometimes or being facetious but he always has a completely straight face. And he is not as attractive or alpha as he clearly thinks he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 02:09 AM
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Forgot to fully get sober from last night before I had a little drinky session just now.. I feel like I fell off the track on mario kart. Tell Beach Red Whine I'm coming for his title as resident drunkard this summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 01:57 AM
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This one meme that was like "sex before work will have you doing everybodys job/sex before school will have you answering every question like PUT YOUR HAND DOWN BITCH I GOT IT" is literally me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 01:46 AM
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That happened to me before! We didn't know my cat was in the room and she was like leaning on the bed on her hind legs STARING directly at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 01:33 AM
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Women's sex drive is like an intimacy drive. Men's sex drive is literally based in the urge to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 07:35 PM
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Sex is terrible unless there's chemistry which is 99 percent unlikely to find in a ONS. Connecting through sex is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 06:38 PM
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Basically this right here. There's some exception and wiggle room but I'd say this is true for around 70 percent of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 06:33 PM
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Now that you mention it, I think I can name like 5 male pornstars and like 100 female pornstars. James Deen, Johnny Sins, and I'm blanking already lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 06:31 PM
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Idk, I wouldn't have sex with a guy I wouldn't at least consider a relationship with. I don't enjoy casual sex for it's own sake, but as some person on twitter said: Being single is one thing, not having nobody to fuck is a different type of pain. People don't like to be lonely. If most men dislike being beta orbiters, why do so many of them orbit stacey?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 06:29 PM
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As I fucked more people, I realized the reason why sex was so terrible is because there was no emotions connected to the act and that I could hypothetically have 4000 one night stands and still feel like a virgin. I'm not going to swear off casual sex but I definitely don't have any desire to have casual sex- sometimes it just beats being alone. My "pair bonding ability" can't be any worse than it was when I first decided at 16 I wanted to lose my v card to get it out of the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 06:20 PM
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It wasn't like a fancy thing it was just a regular ghetto ass party so I wore some biker shorts and my lil gray sleeveless crop top with my makeup done looking like Khromosome Kardashian. My friend who's like 4'9 drank SO MUCH he's still fucked up and its the morning after and he slept for like 11 hours. Cops came by twice. Someone got robbed. Made new friends. I was laying in some bed petting a kitten reading people's tarot cards. All in all great time 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 06:16 PM
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Thank you for defending the sims. I didn't spend 100s of hours finding custom content and installing mods to be disrespected -____- /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 11:11 PM
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going to a party tonight <3 im excited i barely get to leave my house so now i feel like a Normal Girl (tm). CANNOT PICK AN OUTFIT THO I NEED HELP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 11:07 PM
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I mean, that's not a bad thing IMO. My dad would kick my ass (or at least try, he's like frail and old) if I wasn't "hypergamous".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 11:40 PM
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I've noticed something that I have yet to fully create a theory for. Most men.. are average looking (4-5) there's a couple 6's and 7's, and very few above. Most women hover around a 6 provided they're not obese, no extreme facial deformities etc. Good looking women (an 8 for example) will settle for a 6 in relationships, because guys on her level (especially at her age group if shes young) are after casual sex. The male 6's and 7's will become used to pulling female 8's and 9's, because the supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 11:36 PM
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Also RP men tend to want women younger than 30. I personally think an N of 10 at 30 is pretty tame.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 11:30 PM
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Yall hear that new Cardi B? Gemini season is making me lose my god damn mind already. Accidentally shaved off the tails of my eyebrows. And I have a gigantic pimple (like 10 pores just came together to tell me to go fuck myself) right next to my nose. I have an event tomorrow... please pray that my expensive eyebrow pomade is sweat-proof
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 09:53 PM
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That algorithim would characterize me as a stacy with autism
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 09:48 PM
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Nothing more cruel than fat acceptance IMO. These people KNOW that the 300 pound person sitting in front of them is objectively unattractive and instead of telling them that (in a constructive manner), they lie to them. Crackpot gavin mcinnes did a video about buzzfeed having fat women recreate photoshoots from supermodels. He said it was cruel, to compare these women to gorgeous supermodels who are by definition exceptional. It's so cruel- you would think it was something a group of dickhead fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:24 AM
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I was joking :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 02:53 PM
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My need to trap some poor beta male I loathe into 18 years of monthly payments with a constant reminder of the fact that I had sex with him is exactly the same as the need to bust a nut. AWALT my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 06:32 AM
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33.3 percent on edge, 52.8 percent avoidant. is that bad lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 03:31 AM
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"short mexican gang members" hello
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 01:56 AM
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Doesn't really surprise me. Men would probably love to not have to think and lie back and let the woman take control. Why do you think so many dudes like it when the woman is on top (even during vanilla sex)?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 12:07 AM
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Suddenly i'm okay with being a dominatrix
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 12:06 AM
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Jordan Peterson is harmless. He's more of a centrist than anything. He's just like me, probably INTJ, loves symbolism and archetypes/worships freud and jung. He's just like a dad that talks like kermit the frog. He's not calling anyone to arms or advocating the rise of the third reich. JFC. When a moderate conservative mild mannered old man can be called dangerous for talking about chaos dragons and lobster dominance hierarchies, shit is fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 11:48 PM
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Saw my orbiter commenting on another girls instagram post. mfw
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 11:29 PM
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Cheat on me and see what happens. Name in a jar of vinegar, lock of your hair burned and coated in Dragon's blood oil, who knows what could happen :) Let's see how fun driving is when your breaks don't work. Seriously, OP, there's more to why people are mad about infidelity than paternal fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 11:23 PM
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I am 100 percent woman baby! Me and ur future wife are gonna be besties :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 11:19 PM
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I don't think I consciously have any double standards (I might!). Maybe me wanting a guy taller than me is? But I'm 4'11, I'm really not asking for much. I basically want to date the male version of myself. I'm a narcissist I guess lol. Although, my first love was the male version of myself, and our "come here go away" attachment style was the biggest roadblock and at the end of the day I'm not gonna sit around waiting for him to fix himself. It went from us hanging out every day and him basical…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 04:29 PM
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Where are you getting her from? If she's Latina, send me her whatsapp and we can make fun of you together! <3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 04:21 PM
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Nah, we did it the old fashioned way with a coat hanger. I seriously wonder, do they just shove the coat hanger in there or do they untwist it and do it like they're trying to pick a lock?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 03:12 PM
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I can't really think of a situation in which a guy would ask me out of the blue if I'd have an abortion. That's really strange behavior. So no, I would not date a guy that asked me that, because said guy seems really out of touch with social norms and general human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 03:10 PM
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Likewise, going from Madrid to southern spain I noticed was a bigger difference than going from NYC to Madrid. Madrid is overrated as fuck and just a smellier version of new york IMO, Andalusia is where it's at. If you've been to one major city you've kinda been to all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 02:58 PM
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Mean people on the internet who will make fun of them for being losers that need to pay for the affection of a foreign woman because they're such losers that they can't even pay for the affection of a woman of their own country :0
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 02:17 PM
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Any sort of political opinion thats not afraid of executing politicians is okay in my book TBH.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 12:50 AM
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Thanks for the advice! Although he has ASPD so I'm not sure if I can do all that cause he might actually kill me :/ we'll see
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 12:44 AM
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OH YEAH EYEBROWS >>> dudes with nice eyebrows are the best. Most hispanic men have great brows so I'm lucky, some of em even ask me to tweeze them or wax their brows for them. I'm really attracted to well groomed thick eyebrows, also similarly attracted to when a guy has a fresh haircut and it's all lined up and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 12:27 AM
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To be honest, the red pill women subreddit's advice isn't all bad. You have to sort thru some of the.... other shit. But it's kinda more for if you already have a specific man in mind. If you're stuck at step one like me, I dunno sis. We just gotta pray about it I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 12:07 AM
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-_- why you made me look at dat....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 11:55 PM
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Small eyes. Hate when a dude has small eyes. "Hunter eyes" are literally gross to me. I know a lot of people say astrology isn't real blah blah blah but I have NEVER interacted with a libra man and felt attracted. Something about the way they act is so fake and weird to me (sorry for any libra men reading this). Just had a date today with a Libra guy... no chemistry at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 11:16 PM
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Just started receiving my stacey bucks! My "orbiter" as you would call it, although he's way too good looking to orbit me (I'm not saying he's better looking than me, just too good looking to orbit) that I actually really like and we've been friends for a while has been sending me money (not a lot, he's in like basic training in the army or w/e) every week just cause he wants to make sure I have a good day and is trying to get me to let him pay to get my phone screen fixed because it's so cracke…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 11:08 PM
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Okay but those women are RARE and what I'm saying is men on here act like these types of women are 90 percent of the lower class and men are saints for wanting to rescue these damsels in distress. Most lower class women are not these kinds of flowers in sewers (and that's okay!), so saying men would have no problem dating lower class women is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 11:00 PM
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Um, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 07:17 PM
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Smoking marlboros, starting facebook drama, having a list of baby names that all end in -leigh or -ayden, you know general trashy things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 02:45 AM
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Right. But men (especially UMC men) would not wife a trashy trailer park queen that was smoking hot. We're not discussing boners we're discussing LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 02:21 AM
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Girl idc. 6ix9ine has been jumped/kidnapped/in jail getting bitched and I STILL want to suck his dick thru a bendy straw.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 01:27 AM
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Fear of being alone. Personal anecdote: growing up I had an emotionally neglectful/abusive relationship with my mom blah blah blah and upon entering my first relationship, it was SHIT. When he broke up with me for some fat bitch he was cheating on me with, it literally shook me. Not like alpha widowing but the thought that people don't just choose to suffer through any kind of bond with someone out of fear of being alone. Now my mindset is much more similar to poetry written by Johnathan Michael…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 01:04 AM
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Because feminine traits that men like (innocence, submissiveness, nurturing etc) will get you destroyed in real life. Masculine traits like independence, agency, etc are rewarded heavily. Think of it. People don't respect feminine traits very much, so why would you want to behave femininely? What does being a submissive doormat get you? Not a damn thing. Look into Lilith/the return of the wrathful feminine energy. The reason you see "masculine women" everywhere is because ol Lilith is coming bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:39 PM
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Women would be willing to have sex with a man in order to receive some of that status/money. It's not a raw sexual desire for status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 10:24 PM
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"men would live in cardboard boxes if they could fuck beautiful women"- black funny man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 10:23 PM
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The only men who don't care about a woman's earnings are 50-60 year old wealthy dudes (mid to high 6 figures and above). Some men think this is what women want (wimmen are power/moneysexual.) These types of men are looking for sugar babies, not dating prospects. When in reality, what a young woman looking for a high quality man most likely means is a decently attractive dude with a good head on his shoulders that's not more than 10 years older than her and lined up to be making a decent amount o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 10:21 PM
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Been taking slightly more adderall (maybe?) and vyvanse recently, sleeping less, eating more junk food (and eating way less frequently), consuming more nicotine and uhh I have a weird feeling in my chest that won't go away. I'm too young and somewhat sexy to die. Or care about my health. I'm supposed to be invincible until I'm like 28 or whatever. Pray for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 05:24 PM
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You never heard of men asking unattractive women what they bring to the table? Unattractive women/pick me's don't just have to exist, they jump through hoops to prove themselves and do things no self respecting attractive woman would ever think to do for male approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 03:35 PM
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Yeah basically. When I'm sleep deprived, my sex drive/"intimacy" drive gets amplified 100000000x and it's not like horniness like "god damn i just want some PENIS" its more like "I want to lay in bed with someone all day and cuddle with them" but it's still horniness, the desire for sex is still there but its more like a desire to be seduced. Idk. Thanks for coming to my ted talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 03:30 PM
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VYVANSE??? I've seen hoes fucking for Xanax before but VYVANSE???? I used to sell my vyvanse for ten dollars a pill... girls are out here fucking for Vyvanse??? I am disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 03:22 PM
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It's not even higher standards. Men get MORE leg room to prove themselves or make the woman attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 02:58 PM
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Being fuckable means nothing for women when it comes to relationships. I would even say a major problem in the dating market is women are taught how to be sexy (which is like the female version of BB), but not how to be relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 10:30 PM
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Becoming the game grumps of pornhub is now my life goal but I only have my jewish friend in a couple videos... I think I need a rotation of jewish friends to be the Dan to my Arin. I am the fastest growing channel on pornhub woohoo!! (Don't look that up just have faith in me). The other night we were playing this weird dungeon bdsm hentai game that involved jumper cables and a "fuck machine". I guess you could call me a gamer girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 11:16 PM
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Sex for men is a physiological need same as eating and breathing. Sex for women is a need associated more with hormones/emotions. If women NEEDED to orgasm/"release" as much as men do, then shit would be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:20 PM
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Women can gain a lot from men thinking that they're stupid, childlike, innocent etc. Men adore those qualities (to an extent), and as long as the woman's not actually stupid, can get everything she wants from that relationship. Men respond MUCH better to casual suggestions, subtlety, bubbly positivity etc than they do a woman talking to him like a fellow bro. By taking on the "inferior" role, a woman can gain a lot more power in some cases as long as she isn't actually inferior. And women resent…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 04:40 AM
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I don't really know how to use my stacey benefits lmao. Like, I'm definitely attractive enough (as I've seen my uglier friends manipulate guys out of ridiculous amounts of money/go the extra mile for her etc), but I don't know how to do all that. And batting my eyelashes and flirting with guys I don't like to get free shit would make me feel gross, too. I've only ever used my "stacy powers" on guys I already found attractive, because then my flirting was genuine at least. I could never have orbi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 03:27 PM
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I did the same thing back in my "femcel" days lol. Mommy/daddy issues, check. Issues with making friends, check. Third time has got to be right, the only box left is romance. I've since made more of an effort making same sex friends and getting used to basic levels of emotional intimacy/friendship so I don't get myself involved in an emotionally unhealthy romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 03:22 PM
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Some men equate mommy love with womanly love (this is not the right way to put it, here's my usual pre-vyvanse and nicotine disclaimer). I really feel like the issue can be simplified down into these men are struggling to believe that women won't love them like their mothers did, they can't just show up, they have to bring something to the table to make her want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 03:16 PM
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I think there isn't a "right girl" for a nice guy. Just like there's not a right man for the nice girl. They need to fix themselves, and then come back into the dating game. No matter how hard they settle/what girls they go for, they'll always get the short end of the stick and won't be satisfied with the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 10:56 PM
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No. Never had sex with a guy more than a handful of years older than me. I don't think older men holding gucci purses on a fishing line with their dick out is that common. I think older men might be able to manipulate the relationship aspects, but outside of Harvey Weinstein situations I don't see a lot of older men purely manipulating younger women out of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 06:52 AM
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Bumble and tinder are filled with dudes that just want to hook up, with lazy bios like "im a chill guy i like netflix let's vibe and see where it goes haha add me on snapchat". I guess you could say I'm in a place without any young males. I wrote before in some other comments that I'm finishing high school and I go to a certain type of school where the goal is to finish an associates degree and there's about 200 students there. Most of the guys there have really, really weird personalities/are i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 10:28 PM
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That's a funny joke -___-
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 09:23 PM
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Yeah. I don't have autism, but I'm INTJ and experienced serious neglect/lack of peer to peer social interaction that basically gave me autism lite. I can perfectly pretend to be normal for a few hours, ie "normal enough" but there's still a large part of me that will probably just never "get" some aspects of socializing/dating. I hate small talk/flirting etc, want everything to be transparent AF, and used to struggle a lot with just the basic mechanics of any kind of relationship because of my t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 02:34 AM
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"not having trouble finding boyfriends" ehl oh fucking ehl. If that was true, I wouldn't be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 06:31 PM
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Because it would make me feel weird and undesirable tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 03:44 AM
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Ewww I can't even see why I would be in a relationship with a guy that needed to brag to me about his past sexual encounters. The worst thing for me is when a guy has a weird mental hangup about sex. He can be a virgin, n 5, n 40, n 2.6, I don't care, as long as he doesn't act weird about sex or have a list of complexes. Feeling the need to boast about fake BDSM orgies is what we in the smart people field call "unbalanced".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 02:02 AM
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Women (read: most women, I get that there's women on this sub who love having tons of casual sex and this ain't about u) do NOT view sex the way men do. Women are basically trained (or it's instinctive maybe) to view sex as giving away a part of themselves basically. The appeal is exactly not having to give yourself away to multiple people. Plus there's all the chemicals involved that can create feelings of attachment. And, you know, a lot of women that had a slutty phase's "epiphany" comes from…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 01:48 AM
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TBH I don't understand why I or any woman would marry a man I didn't want to have enthusiastic sex with. Like, even if he's "betabuxx" is his like.. 70k a year salary REALLY enough to support both of us comfortably to the point where I'm going to be comfortable living with disgust every time I see him? I can get a job, so no need for betabuxx, but there's no way to replace the need for sex with someone I'm attracted to (ideally just one person, not the CC).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 01:42 AM
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I'll believe that. My n count would have been a LOT higher if most dudes weren't so oblivious. Even at my sluttiest I wouldn't outright take a guy by the hand and be like "listen, let me fuck", which is I guess how obvious you have to be now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 01:36 AM
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No, don't you know that under social welfare it's like a random drawing for some lucky individual? They get to chill and put their feet up and play video game meanwhile everyone else uhhh pulls themselves up by their bootstraps
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:11 PM
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When you got kids, you also have to manage their schedules and all that BS. It's not just sweeping and doing dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:06 PM
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Most girls when they're around that age are just as horny as their male peers but whether its 80/20 rule starting young or the fact that most young guys are oblivious as all hell, there's not actually as much boning as there could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 01:29 PM
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I have a pic of myself in my post history. Even girls hotter than me don't get shit thrown at them for free or have people physically follow them down the street. Your comment reads like fanfiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 01:17 PM
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Um because being financially independent is the only way to truly be free in life? I win what exactly by being physically attractive? People checking me out? Woooooohooooooooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 08:32 AM
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Female age 18, n 5. Lost virginity shortly after 16th birthday cause I wanted to "get it out of the way", one relationship, 2 one night stands including dude I lost my v card to, one fling I had all last summer, and current FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 09:35 PM
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This is before I've had my morning dose of nicotine and stimulants, but you heard of that kid that was like born with 20 percent of what his brain should be? Doctors told the parents all kinds of shit trying to get them to put it down, but by the time the kid was 2, his brain grew. He could sit up, talk, etc. "Nip genetic trash in the bud" is a very, VERY dangerous way to go about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 07:20 PM
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starting a new comedy series on pornhub based on erotic sims 3 gameplay... perhaps im gonna try out those weird hentai flash games too. Y'all chasing the bag like I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 04:45 AM
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They only see the shitty tattoos done out of trailers, not the tats people pay thousands for or tattoo artists that have millions of followers. Soto gang's tattoos are all like cute sailor moon esque tattoos, they're so popular they even came out with a line of temporary tattoos. If someone can afford to get a tattoo from their shop, they have to be at least middle class or above in general. Poor people aren't saving up to have a custom piece done.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 09:29 PM
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I was damaged before I started putting shitty stick and pokes on myself. My fave is the one on my shoulder that's supposed to be a selena tribute that says "como la flor" with a cross and is completely illegible. I underestimated the pain, how hard it is to keep my hand still, and the difficulty of tattooing letters backwards on yourself. I think the tattoos mean damage stereotype is going away, but not by a large amount. A small butterfly tattoo or something stupid like that is pretty acceptabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 09:23 PM
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Yup!!!! G wagon is my dream car
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 07:48 PM
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As long as it's not one of those ugly fucking chevy trucks (don't know what they're called, they're just real ugly) or something just as ugly, I couldn't care less. Of course, the immature part of me still thinks of my first high school crush that had a sweet mustang, but like, I'm not sexually attracted to cars. Drug dealer cars are ideal, though. Suburbans, Tahoes, Jeeps, anything I can feel like a badass in. I miss the red jeep I used to drive before I flipped it over lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 08:19 AM
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Disagree that it's easier to be in the passive role. Toning yourself down and just sitting and looking pretty is harder than it looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 08:08 AM
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I guess I'd have to give him a whirl. I feel like that's some shit my dad would do- my mom said he used to go to car dealerships in his worst clothes to get the best deals etc. The dude in questions strategy sounds weird but if we click and it turns out he's sexy then why would I turn him down?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 08:06 AM
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Nothing outside of looks/charm affects SMV. Money isn't sexually attractive. It's attractive for a partner. Women don't choose partners based on sexual attraction alone, unlike men who choose women 90 percent on sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 02:27 AM
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It's not really paradoxical, just unhealthy. Maybe "plenty of people" would be an exagerration, but I've known of people that have an unhealthy view of sexuality and they are either avid porn viewers or they have weird fetishes. Something disgusting actually enables them to be aroused more, idk I'm not a psychologist but I'd say that sexy thing=arousal trigger but sexy thing doing something "disgust worthy"=confused yet aroused brain and unhealthy sexual associations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 10:25 PM
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I think in sims 3 supernatural there was a trait to make your sim skeptical of supernatural stuff. I don't think I've heard of a superstitious trait tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 02:04 AM
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I hate the gameplay of sims 4. It's too similar to like facebook games and I think 3 had the best actual gameplay because they had the open neighborhood. I like sims 4 CAS a lot but my sims 4 like sucked at working with custom content and would pick and choose which files to use at random.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 10:26 PM
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If guys will do anything for those women, why do they fuck them over in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 08:36 PM
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Most women absolutely love like that when they're younger. Their love isn't conditional on anything besides who the guy is. Men just are not capable of receiving that type of love. That's why most women wise up and realize they have to take off the rose tinted glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:31 PM
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Spiritual stuff (studying astrology, mythology, reorganizing my altar etc), and writing mainly. This week I spent at least 20 hours writing alone. Or, I like to play sims 3. I spend an absurd amount of time looking for custom content, I would say more than I do playing the game. Makeup, cleaning, organizing shit, meal prepping, taking long walks with my dogs, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:28 PM
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I wouldn't say I look for masculine traits, just sexually attractive ones. I don't really screen guys based on dominance or leadership or whatever other shit is considered masculine. It's more like, is he cute, funny, charming, can hold a conversation etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:24 PM
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Using the day for a year, 30 days after the sun is born he enters the sign of aquarius (baptism). Then pisces, as lent is observed. As the sun enters aries, he becomes the good shepherd, and the lamb of god. Jesus the Sun and 12 disclipes-12 zodiac signs. Each zodiac sign has a biblical interpretation. The bible is the truth in plain sight hidden behind spells that make the reader feel like they have to submit to a higher power rather than trying to achieve spirituality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:20 PM
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That's why you must transcend your material form and understand the lessons imprinted on your natal chart so you don't repeat them. I had paranoia and neuroses before I knew my lilith was in pisces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 05:00 AM
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I lost more male friends when I lost 40 pounds and started dressing better than I did when I was in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 04:16 AM
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Learned this in like 9th or 10th grade TBH. Didn't really think of it in terms of collectivism vs individualism or whatever. I just noticed guys fawning over average looking, quiet, nothing special girls and mercilessly bullying/gossiping like little bitches about girls that weren't basically selectively mute. Standing out in ANY way as a woman is bad. If you are too attractive, there are negative connotations. Guys will approach you less because they assume everyone else has already tried, othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 04:12 AM
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Keep talking shit about astrology and I'm going to catch you lacking in the 6th dimension.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 04:06 AM
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People been studying astrology since before the bible was written. I can't hear you I'm in the astral realm eating chick fil a on a sunday. Basically look to the stars and your ancestors for guidance or else face the feeling of staring into the abyss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 04:04 AM
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Overall I've found this sub to be filled with losers of both genders that KNOW they're unattractive and rather than try to become more attractive, they want to change the whole world. Men on here would rather whine than do any of the following: -go to the gym a couple times a week/haircuts regularly "because improving your looks wont make you chad" -be a little bit more edgy "you mean women don't want to fuck me bc im a good boy??" -be more masculine "im not changing myself to be more attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 02:52 AM
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y'all keep talking shit about astrology and see what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 01:45 AM
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Oh yeah, I'm definitely still a child. Not to brag, but I would say I'm still more mature than most dudes in my age range. Not by like, a huge amount. I don't blame them for still being mentally children, and that's why I don't expect a dominant partner. I'm young and cute. Being attractive, fun to be around, and compatible is way more important to me in a boyfriend than shit like "status" or dominance at my age lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 11:12 PM
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I'm 18. The men I date are in the age range of at youngest 16 or 17 and at oldest like 25 probably. Asking for a dude at that stage in his life to be dominant is ridiculous. Literally, they're still children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 04:58 AM
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I've never had orbiters. I don't hang around people I don't actually like. The thought of using someone disgusts me. My friend is a pretty popular (well not belle delphine popular, but infamous enough) e girl so to speak, and I just couldn't do what she does. Let people think of me in a sexual context and use them for resources. I don't think I could ever have one of those orbiter stories where "I married my best friend teeheeeee". I don't make unattractive guys my slaves. I have sexual relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 11:28 PM
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I don't think it raised my standards for looks, but it's kind of killing my idea of romance. Call me what you will, but there's nothing like developing feelings organically for someone through chance. Not meeting someone through a hookup or dating app. In real life, it's possible to develop feelings and attraction for an ugly guy that has a good personality. I promise, it's happened to me before. But Tinder kills that. It's like how men on here say women have nothing to offer but looks/sex, men …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 05:23 AM
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Preselection- I don't really see how this is a negative. Dominant men- 99 percent of men are incapable of taking control of themselves, let alone me. Dread Game- LMFAO. I rather swallow a jean jacket than chase a man. Hypergamy- It'd be nice, I guess. But I screen more for attraction/chemistry rather than status or money. The money can be made, feelings are priceless. Stoicism- I like when a man can be weak around me, but not a weak man. I can't fully love a man that won't let me see him be vuln…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 08:05 PM
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In the words of a Bulgarian/Russian sexologist/psychologist: Is women that have hard time accepting their body. Men usually not so much. They look in the mirror, see they have big belly and small cock and go "wow what wonderful pot belly i have, i am so sexy and women love me".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 08:07 PM
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Oh hey :) lil ole me ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 07:18 PM
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post melanie LMFAO ur right about this one tho. I was on the phone with a client the other day and we were just talking shit and we came to the conclusion that guys look for things wrong with objectively great women, and women look for positive things in objectively less than stellar men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 07:17 PM
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Based on your username, I thought I would have disagreements with you. But after seeing a couple of your comments, I strangely have no complaints. That's a really level headed way of putting things. I don't believe in the "men are wonderful" affect, but the way some men expect women to pedestalize them is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 05:18 PM
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Magic erasers work great on shoes!! And using a protective spray like crep. I clean em once every two weeks with the magic eraser.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 05:00 PM
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Try a pair of plain white sneakers! I really love my pumas, they're so comfy and they look cute with dresses/skirts for a more casual look, and they're not as "tReNDy" as vans. I would say sandals, too, but they can kinda get uncomfortable if you're walking for a long time.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 03:57 PM
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You can't love people how you want to be loved. Being the more understanding, caring partner gets you walked all over. You can either "win" the dating game and get a partner that's in love with you, that you don't feel the same for, or you can break your back trying to prove yourself to someone that's emotionally unavailable to you. Just some pre taking my vyvanse and nicotine cynicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 03:35 PM
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I couldn't love a man I wasn't attracted to romantically, but often I find that a guy I wasn't attracted to at first become attractive to me as I develop feelings for him. But when I'm in love, the attraction is a very small component. I don't just love him because he's attractive, for how he treats me or makes me feel. I love him because of who he is. It's not really about attraction then, it's about a pure appreciation of who he is. Also, I really disagree that women can't love men deeply like…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 03:14 AM
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I was young, and was disgusted by it, but was fascinated by it at the same time. It made sense to me, but I HATED how the men in the manosphere conveyed their points. It was kinda crushing for a while to realize men don't love like how women love, and I used to be a radical feminist so I was well aware that men weren't angels, but it just kinda stung. All the time, reading "women are retards, we only value them for their agreeableness, beauty, youth etc" but it opened my eyes as to why I wasn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 08:41 PM
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Yeah, with hundreds of thousands of girls trying to make money from selling feet pics or making premium snaps, it's not as easy as saying "give me money" and getting free money. You have to market yourself, understand your audience, sift thru time wasters etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:00 AM
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Women don't crave variety. Women settle for varied sex. Women crave the highest value male, and will settle for sharing him. But they still want monogamy. Therefore AFBB. Highest value man won't commit, but will engage with them sexually. The sacrifice women make is sacrificing sex with the highest value male, not sexual variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:40 AM
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Oh definitely, but one should aim higher than selling drugs or being a wage slave. They're both non ideal. But being a drug dealer is a little more fun temporarily than being a wage slave. Until you get caught and thrown in prison, get shot, overdose etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:37 AM
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Men are better at making policies, holding office (even tho I think every US politician should be rounded up and shot execution style) etc. I think women would be better leading the community, and men would be better at keeping the larger population safe and regulating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:34 AM
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Ted Kacyznski is the ideal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 01:50 AM
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Yeah I don't get why men on the manosphere want so hard to conflate "doing things you should do for yourself" and slaying pussy. Some dude living in the wrong side of town working part time at wendy's and selling drugs and rapping on the side can probably slay more easy pussy than you, dude with his life together and has a good head on his shoulders. But the quality of pussy you can get is much much much better. Men on the manosphere only hear that someone else is getting more pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 01:50 AM
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Not caring what others think, doing your own thing, getting shit done, having plans and a course of action, being active, pursuing things you want actively, being a gentleman, etc. Masculine doesn't mean man I find sexy. I find tons of pretty boys sexy. Masculine qualities are good for LTR, pretty boys are good for STR.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 01:31 AM
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Joe Rogan is amazing I love him. He's everything I would want in a man, funny, reasonable, good listener, masculine, and short. Him and Jordan Blobsterdominancehierarchy Peterson are my favorite people to listen to tbh. JBP is more nerdy/dadlike and Joe is kinda like your cool uncle or your friend's dad that's way more cool than your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 01:21 AM
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Girl I feel you with the cycle of shit parenting! I notice when I turn into my mom too, when my voice gets all loud and annoying and I start criticizing/complaining about every little thing because I got mad at something else completely unrelated. I think I'll be a much better parent, though. I'm actually considering maybe going into developmental/child psychology because I study it so much because I wanna make sure I can be a good parent.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/19 10:55 PM
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We like to ARGUE, start FIGHTS, and pour out our insane autistic beliefs in badly worded text posts that accuse the opposite sex of starting the fall of the roman empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 10:23 PM
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LOL your comments are a trip
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 10:02 PM
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Yeah, I grew up with a crazy ass mom. Best thing I learned through the years is when she starts talking crazy nonsense, I don't have to listen. Like, I can pretend to so she won't get even angrier at me, but when she's all mad that her stupid ex husband is a lazy piece of shit, my dad is an idiot, her coworkers did this and that, I just kinda go mentally "Blah blah blah im happy im on an island in the sea with mermaids I can't hear you". Practicing that is an art.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 09:12 PM
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Don't worry, just take your prozac and buy the new trinkets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 09:08 PM
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Can't get em all right. Back to the drawing board it is for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:01 AM
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I'm in the same boat as you and I'm only 18... sad feeling. My first real true love was with my best friends brother, we had a lot of the same classes, worked the same job, we had so much in common it's like he's the male version of me. Unfortunately, he shared all my bad shit too. Push/pull attachment style, not being able to accept love, chasing after validation, etc. I too always wondered what it is about average, nothing special basic women that made men go crazy, meanwhile I bent over backw…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:00 AM
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You got friends? Let me know where I can find a man with this mindset. Most men I know are very offended at the thought of a woman not working 80 hours weeks like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:03 AM
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Capricorn, sag, or aries. Either sun or mercury.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:59 AM
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Try wearing different materials. Soft, silky, flowy type things. Wide leg pants with a pattern, a plain t shirt or tank top. Perfect spring/summery look. I really like those flair bell bottom pants with the patterns, despite them being called "thot" pants lmao.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/19 07:41 PM
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Yo, I'm going to take a guess, and it's gonna be a bad one just based on looking at your history with no concept of how you actually behave IRL, but is your sun sign or mercury sign either an earth sign (cap, virgo, taurus) or aquarius?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 07:39 PM
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Absolute turn off when a potential lover doesn't share the same admiration for 12th century Roman architecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 07:35 PM
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When I say the average dude can probably have a couple plates, all the very subpar men come out of the woodworks to tell me that there's no way that happens. Sorry, average doesn't mean ugly, fat, balding, and autistic. You are BELOW average my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 07:24 PM
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That one annoys me too lmao. There's so many different positions in the chart that can determine how you behave, not just your sun sign. Generally, I can always get it right but it doesn't have to be the sun sign (the main zodiac sign ig you would call it). That shit will work on girls who aren't really into astrology/spirituality tho. Like the ones who just like horoscopes. Not going to lie. But since astrology and spiritual shit is literally my job and I study it all the fucking time, it's eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 07:20 PM
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Lol the dad line! I do that one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 07:04 PM
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Whenever guys try negging me, or I don't know if it's called negging but for instance, if they DM me off my instagram page where I promote my business (spiritual stuff) and say "You actually believe in that astrology shit lol?" in the hopes that I will get upset and begin to converse with them, I just don't engage. Especially in real life, I just look at them like they're dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 07:02 PM
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Shhhh the mens are going to come at you for lying about your preferences. Why can't you wahmens just admit you like beefed up Chadly gymbros? /s The hating beards and basically everything about your list is god tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 06:12 PM
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Yes, I think people have types, but sometimes they can change. I mostly like guys with young looking facial features, mixed/eastern european/hispanic guys, I have a thing for big lips too. Although, as I get older, I imagine if I was still single I'd start liking more "weathered" or mature looking guys. I sincerely hope at 40 I'm not gonna still be crushing on guys that look like tekashi 69, and start liking guys my own age lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 06:09 PM
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That's such a weird way to think about it lol. I guess my preference for guys like 5'7/5'9 with lean or chubby builds is like a dude preferring girls with c cups and a flat ass then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 06:11 AM
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Idk, I'd just prefer him to not be an inexperienced virgin and also not be a jaded manwhore that thinks he's unlocked the key to the female orgasm. I don't care to know any of the details about his sex life before me at all. Gross. I don't care about his "purity" lol it's just, I don't want to imagine him pounding some other girl. Rather than n count, I care about his general attitude towards sex. If he views sex as a healthy act that you can engage in with a loving partner, green light. If he h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 10:53 PM
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Because women gain feelings through having sex, regardless of what any bloop tells you. There are hormones that cause attachment and feelings of love to develop, but really only if the sex was good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:55 PM
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Ashera Star Goddess or sheraseven1 on youtube. She's not your traditional RPW, she's a former gold digger. However, her content on what men like, her spiritual content, putting yourself first and self love, is on point. She has a wonderful marriage, two beautiful kids, lives in an amazing home, has several businesses, and is a very happy woman. She doesn't curse, she's always put together, she's very lovely despite her villainess demeanor. Her spiritual videos are on point as well.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 05:55 AM
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I really think it depends on the person. Some people are just built to only have a couple partners, and when they go past the amount they can have and retain their psychological health, that's when shit hits the fan. I have like 5 or 6 n count. I'd consider it above average for my age (18) but once I'm like 24, everyone around me is going to surpass me by a lot considering I don't like having hookups or whatever. I wish I would have kept my n count a little lower, because I didn't know the lever…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:59 AM
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Or because I've seen women I know personally with mental illness use casual sex as a method of self harm, and have read accounts of women that say the same thing. I didn't say all women that have casual sex are mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 09:56 PM
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I've just seen several people (mainly men) fail to understand why women might have hookups if they don't want to. It seems they fail to take into account what I just said, as they come up with all kinds of man brained theories as to why they would be promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 09:33 PM
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Doesn't work. You know how many hot girls are on instagram? There's too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 07:43 PM
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Hookup culture, quickest way to describe it is "netflix and chill?" instead of "Hey, I'd really like to get to know you, could I take you out for drinks this Friday?" (i can't imitate men lol sorry) Yeah, I was always bad with relationships and never had a bf by the time I stumbled into it. I felt like by skipping straight to sex, I basically beat the game and would finally have some skin in the game so to speak. Didn't work as intended. I don't know about specifics. I'd say it takes like, the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 07:34 PM
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I just remember like, the overall gist of it. Not the specifics. First guy nutted twice in five minutes, I mean who wouldn't remember that? That's always my go-to story for girl's night when we're all getting comfortable with each other and swapping stories. Second was the ex bf, I don't really remember specifics. Third, I was maybe sexually assaulted? I told him don't put it in my ass, he did, was traumatized. Fourth was just a summer fling, too much 4loko to remember. I just remember the sex n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 07:30 PM
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Except most women aren't doing plate work for many men. They're doing it in the hopes one guy will commit to them. So, they are doing everything a plate does except only for one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 02:43 AM
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Women don't crave variety. That's male projection. You act as if there's a high status male to settle for. Women would love to settle for one high value man, but they settle for variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 02:42 AM
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Well, it's not like there's a whole bunch of men out there willing to accept all of women's nature. The madonna/whore complex is real. Most women would hate it if their husband thought of them as a whore. That's implying the current husband's dick isn't good enough. Getting good dick = no need for new dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 07:09 AM
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Yo can all the dudes that are saying "fuck yeah i want to live life on easy mode" can you tell me how to live my life on easy mode and get free things and all that? I'm 18, cute, all that so I'm confused as to where all of my free shit and easy life is. Seriously, tell me what I need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:59 AM
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INTJ women are emotionally constipated. Trying to get us to do a cartwheel is easier than trying to get us to be vulnerable or emotionally react to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:57 AM
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Because women don't crave variety. They crave the highest value mate. If she secures the highest value mate, not a beta, she won''t get bored. I honestly don't know any woman that's ever described sex as "the excitement of a new guy seducing me." The girl that's had a decent amount of sex, but lands a guy on her level or above, will be relieved to be taken off the market. Also, because men don't respect the whore costume. So she wants her husband's respect. She doesn't give a fuck if some loser …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:49 AM
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As much as people say stuff like that, every woman I know that's had a hoe phase got it all out of her system. It doesn't have to be hoe vs "good girl" either. Most women are in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:32 AM
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I would have casual buddies, people I talk to in group settings, maybe like my friend's husbands, but not like a one on one close personal relationship. I'd expect my future husband to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:29 AM
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Why is her sexual deviant side the "real" her? That could have been a phase. Hell, I had a very very short lived hoe phase, was the uncomfortable performance I put on for my ONS so they could leave me the fuck alone my "real self"? You can very much be wild young free etc for a short period of time, have an exploratory phase, but that's not the "real you" anymore than you with your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:22 AM
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I'd make all men not annoying whiney betas. I have no problem with even the most sexist, chauvinistic men. It's annoying when softies try to argue "well since wahmen are equaaaalll they should do this and that they should ask ME on dates they should pay for MY meal they should-". The best dudes I've ever met were I guess RP without knowing what TRP was, they knew female nature, and still treated women like ladies. They never had problems getting laid, they were always very interesting, good list…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:23 PM
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Lack of guys in my area, I chose to go to a specialized high school with a very small population of weird people. When I go out, it's all couples everywhere. I could download bumble or whatever cause I'm 18, but I just don't feel like I'd find any matches. Last time I had it, it was filled with dudes from local universities with no bio, just pics of them doing sports and a link to their instagram. Also, being mature for your age isn't always a good thing in my case. My therapist always tells me …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:15 PM
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Femcels just sound like 14 year old ugly ducklings. When I look at incel content, it's funny. But femcel content just brings me back to days of being a neurotic radical feminist convinced no man would ever love me. Those women are very sad, I really just can't look at that content.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:05 PM
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I'm getting an ultrasound soon to see if I have PCOS, and they're going to make me start taking the pill again. I really don't want to, but oh well. Allegedly, the doctor said in a couple years when I want to have kids, I should be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:01 PM
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In my last relationship, he had a pretty face but he was kind of fat and had self confidence issues, wore glasses and hats all the time to hide his face. I was better looking, but I was more into him than he was into me. He cheated and left me for a girl 200 lbs heavier than me lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 05:53 PM
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Alone. I love hanging out with my friends in relationships, and don't really mind not having a boyfriend. They're too much work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 04:18 PM
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I was just watching the trees and nature pass by in the backseat, feeling so grateful to be alive. I remembered all the places I've traveled to, and how it's like the same nature everywhere. Like, the sky I saw in Seville (my favorite place in the world) is the same sky I'm looking at now. I wanted to cry, I just felt so grateful to be alive.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/19 10:44 PM
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I'm pretty good looking, just some acne, my nose is a little bit big, and I think I have asymmetrical eyelids (everyone tells me I'm crazy when I say that, but I notice my flaws more than others I guess lol). I'm still trying to lose about 20 lbs, I'm like 116 4'11 and last time I checked 39-26-40. Most people tell me I'm a very interesting person to talk to, I really like to listen and almost always during a conversation I can pinpoint the moment where someone's opinion changes of me or I made …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:38 PM
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We need to make a different debate sub. "People who FUCK and people who don't fuck".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:18 PM
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This is the first post I've read on PPD today, this is a really good point OP. Generally, people who are not successful at dating (nice girls/nice guys) will find everything wrong with the world except themselves and propose all kinds of retarded solutions for the world to fix itself while offering no ways in which they can better their self. It's especially interesting when people choose to wrap their insecurity and self interest in a blanket of political/moral self righteousness. "If men weren…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:13 PM
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I have a very fucked up attachment style lmao. I think it's fearful avoidant/my therapist said it's the push/pull or come here, go away type. I'm also a perfectionist to my core, which affects what emotions I allow myself to express. I know that I wouldn't want to date someone who wouldn't allow themselves to be vulnerable, but here I am. I personally just think I have a lot of red flags, but when I'm in a relationship, I really do try my best. I'm genuinely not psycho, argumentative, clingy etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:56 PM
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If he's tired of using his right hand he better switch to the left one. If my husband had a desire to fuck comatose women, we have a bigger problem. Regardless if it's me or someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:37 AM
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The only man I'd consider it to be a compliment from is my husband Daniel Hernandez aka Tekashi 69 stares wistfully at my autographed LP hanging on my wall
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 01:10 AM
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I don't dickride, I'm a pillow princess sweatie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:29 PM
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Men will put their dicks in almost anything. It's not a compliment to me to be told "hey, I'll put my dick inside you but that's it, bitch. take it or leave it". Having equal value as a fleshlight would feel bad man. To me, that's worse than not wanting to be fucked or LTR'd. I'd rather just be a hard pass than only used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:27 PM
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By like, two years. I'm not an old hag yet!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 03:04 PM
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Treat men like how you treated slightly older people when you were around 12-13. Kind of sassy, know-it-all but not to the point where it's annoying, let them teach you things, act impressed when they do things that are impressive. Make some emotional boundaries. If people around you are jaded or you're in an environment that's stressful, stay in your little bubble. Choose to remain unaffected. That's actually very mature, but it comes across as "innocent" in a way.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/19 11:48 PM
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Or the ever present "I figured you had like 20 guys trying to talk to you". Do men not ever think, well if I think that, and other men think that, who are the guys trying to talk to her? After a certain point of attractiveness, it's almost like being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 11:29 PM
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When I was fatter, Idk I found guys approached me more. I guess they thought I was more approachable because I was like, short and kind of chubby but with a cute face so that's like, more easy? Now I'm not skinny but in the lower end of normal BMI, I look better than I ever have. The quality of the guys who approach me is miles better but I get approached less.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 10:56 PM
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No. No one wants to feel like they're losing out on something. Men typically trade off certain traits to get a good looking partner. Women might trade off looks for financial security or personality. But no one's gonna go for a deal that's objectively bad for them ie Short, Fat, Ugly, AND broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:47 PM
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Most men just don't interest me. Their conversation topics are often either about women, cars, sports, or trying to one-up each other. It's seriously cringey when guys do that whole "Dude you remember when that dude shot at us on the way back from that party and we killed him" bit. Most dudes try and hit on me too much or act weird around me. Only guys in relationships don't act weird around me. I wouldn't say I feel disgusted by men, just very annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:18 PM
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Women forgot their value. Instead of finding the best mate and only accepting the best mate, it's whoever gives her "feeeeeelings". As this bulgarian woman said, women forgot how to be princesses. Now they're trying to slay demons, make money, be the hero, and come rescue a man. It's backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:11 PM
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Oh yes lord! I've had so much difficulty explaining to my "normal" friends how in the past, when I finally met a guy that really liked me, my whole body would react like I was sick. So much trauma built up in the system, with absolutely no model of how to be treated well or cared for, like when a guy was nice to me I'd jump through mental hoops to justify how "he doesn't like me, he just likes who he thinks I am" the whole time I feel like grabbing the nearest trash can and regurgitating my brea…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/19 04:49 AM
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I don't care. If they cheat on me and they're smart, I won't find out. If they cheat on me and I find out, I'll break up with them. Simple. If I think they're cheating, I might dump them, I might not, depending on how strongly I suspect they are and how invested I am. I can't control anybody else. The only thing I can control is myself. I'm not gonna beg anybody to not cheat on me. Wasting my emotions by worrying about if a hypothetical partner will cheat on me is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:39 AM
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We need to cleanse all the incels and the like from this sub. It seems like we're getting a lot more dumbasses that just read the sidebar on TRP that feel the need to teach the rest of us about the evil wahmenz. We used to be pretty advanced in our accepting of nuance and other's lived experience, now we're back to square one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 12:19 AM
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Depending on how young you are, social networking is your best bet. For instance, if you do online dating, or see a cute girl on your instagram (provided she's like, someone in your area with mutual followers, not a model), the best thing for a guy to have is a presence. The difference between an average looking guy with his age, location, and some dumb quote or emoji in his bio and the difference between an average looking guy with a profile representing the best of him, it's like you're lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:50 PM
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Where's my loving, meaningful relationship? You think I wouldn't pick it above a FWB lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:40 PM
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Lada Duncheva! Her most recent videos feature the consultant.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/19 10:38 PM
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Yes!! And her name is Natalia, I don't know her full name.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/19 10:38 PM
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Lada Duncheva! Her most recent videos are with the woman she was speaking about.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/19 10:36 PM
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As opposed to not having any cake and not eating anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:27 PM
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Most dudes want a LTR or "wifey" they're just insanely picky about who they LTR and want to fuck anything that moves while lamenting about how there's no good wahmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:48 PM
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I could write a book for guys on how to attract women, or what women want to hear from them. God, it's so fucking simple. Guys, start going for girls that are in your league first. Whenever I help my guy friends out with their specific female, they show me a girl with 5000+ instagram followers, like a 7 or 8. She doesn't respond to his texts with more than one word, seems uninterested in him in general. Like.. dude, no wonder. If you want 7's and 8's, you gotta be comfortable reeling in 4's and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:29 PM
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These bitches get one (1) liberal art degree and think they're too good to suck my dick SMFH
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:17 PM
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I don't care. The "slut" label gets thrown around like confetti for it to mean anything. "If she listens to City Girls shes a slut" "If she has more than 4000 instagram followers" the term slut lost all its validity a while back for it to even mean "woman that sleeps around".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:47 AM
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present and accounted for
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:45 AM
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I already have a trust BTW. That's true about TRP, I guess. It's kind of like guys taking advice from girls on how to be a nice guy or a good boyfriend, it doesn't really help them to get what they want. Thanks for the clarity.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/19 02:28 AM
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So, do you think the men I'm dating are unattractive lol? I wouldn't date a guy that had no other options than me. Dating and betabuxxing are two different things, I'm not finding a desperate loser willing to throw cash at me. Plus, even most average dudes I know are talking to multiple girls. Most men are not incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 11:21 PM
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My dad's 70 and pretty ill. Me and him talk a lot about what I'm getting and he's suggesting over the summer taking classes about managing money and investing. I thought according to TRP a woman's in her prime at 18-23? I mean, I suppose that's true, but I always see "career women" put down and shamed, as well as the "independent woman" stereotype.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/19 11:19 PM
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I was also blessed with money from my dad, I will inherit a fair bit of property and assets and could support a family on my inheritance for a while, but it's not anywhere near millionaire status. I don't really know where I would meet a man that wanted a SAHW or is capable of supporting one at my age, but I know right now I'm in my prime when it comes to picking a partner. I fear if I wait, I'll lose that power.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/19 10:38 PM
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I think we need to create organizations dedicated to young men and women on their natural strengths and help them navigate the world as young men and women. Led by members of the community that are in healthy marriages or that are wise and have experience they can pass on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:24 PM
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Most attractive, normal, non autistic, young men have the ability to spin plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:09 PM
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Most of my friends have basically said something like "don't you want to live your life first?" like.. what life? I'm pretty sure my future husband isn't going to literally keep me locked up in a tower. A life of security, happiness, love, and purpose sounds better than "work, club, sleep 4 hours, rinse repeat". A glass of wine on the couch or a quiet girls night in while my husband does his thing sounds better than going barhopping.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/19 10:08 PM
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Well, I've never really had a problem with that aspect of my life. I make money rather easily, I can go into working mode at the drop of a hat. Problem is, when I'm in that mode, I'm very much not feminine. I can be in like "boss bitch" mode, or I can be in "wife material" mode, but both of those take so much energy out of me that I doubt I could so easily transition.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/19 10:04 PM
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I was thinking about potentially trying to extend more of my spirituality into my real life so I could meet some more like minded people. I guess you could say I'm an occultist, but my spiritual beliefs are very difficult to really put in a box. I find my life does tend to improve the more I intertwine my spirituality into it, rather than separate it, so I was considering maybe going to more book stores/metaphysical stores and seeing what kinds of classes and activities they have. I kind of fear…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/19 10:02 PM
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You think most men aren't spinning plates? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 09:57 PM
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I credit my FWB for helping me out with intimacy. I used to have sex I hated as a form of self harm I guess and I was used to doing things during sex that I hated or dissociating from my body during it. I view it as a stepping stone into my next relationship, cause those intimacy issues would have been a lot to put on just one guy. It might be unhealthy cause there's always that knowledge in the back of my mind that he doesn't want a relationship, just sex with me, but I just shut that part of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 04:47 AM
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I have a FWB. Doesn't mean I don't want a meaningful relationship. Being single is one thing, having no one to fuck is another. However, I would much much much rather be in a relationship than have FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 04:38 AM
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I don't really have a social circle per say, I mainly just have my school acquaintances and some scattered friends here and there. I don't really party excessively, I'd say I'm equal parts meditative introvert and adventure-y extrovert. I think maybe my problem is I just don't know where to meet people outside of through mutual friends, concerts, occasional party etc. My friends aren't super wild, most of them are like me. I have a couple friends in committed relationships that try and look for …
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/19 12:56 AM
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Alpha- good looking, intelligent, high value, masculine (probably what trp calls high beta) Beta male- anything from soyboy types/"nice guys" to broke men that can still sleep with women because they're attractive. To me, alpha and beta isn't just sex but it's in the whole social hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 11:23 PM
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Live with my obese mom. The kitchen's separated basically into the healthy bird food I eat during the day/sweets (for some reason I literally hate eating except for fruit, almonds, and pastries) and my mom's artery clogging food. I don't have temptation to eat anything all day, then at night I become like Guy Fieri and start whipping up abominations to my stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 11:21 PM
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I want to get married because I hate the dating game. I hate hookup culture. I want a family, I don't wanna go to school for a pointless degree, get a pointless job, and be a mindless consumer of entertainment to take away the purposelessness of my life. A happy marriage is one where you're like best friends. You don't have to know each other inside and out, but to be able to understand things from your partners perspective and understand what they want from you. I'm terrified of commitment, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:52 PM
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hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 06:27 PM
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Yeah, I'm 4'11 and people actively treat me like a helpless child. Don't know what this guy is talking about with short women still being taken seriously. Every day I get at least 5 comments on my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 06:25 PM
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Patriarchy starts with a p, so does penis. Uh oh... starting to see a pattern. The alphabet is oppressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 06:22 PM
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Ambition+hypergamy seems pretty reasonable then. If a woman actually is sexy, fun, rich, whatever, it's different than a broke ugly woman asking for prince charming, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 06:21 PM
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High heels make your legs look longer, shorten your steps, make your butt pop out more. To walk in heels, you basically have to strut like a model. They make outfits look more put together, too. It's not really about the height of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 06:19 PM
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How did this pass through the shit post filter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:44 AM
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Gonna make a women's clothing brand with only one item, this phrase on a T shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:43 AM
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Most girls don't have ONS or FWB. There's the very annoying kind of girl that's never been single for more than a month since she was old enough to date that will never be able to empathize with her less fortunate friends, and never be able to teach them girl game because they were just lucky. It's a cruel world for girls, everyone (including friends) lies to protect your feelings or they just assume being pretty is enough to never have any problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:40 AM
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the amount of dudes saying they'd prefer the career woman is depressing to me. i just want to be a housewife. not cause I'm lazy, i just really find myself feeling most productive when I'm doing things that benefit me or those around me, rather than working for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:29 AM
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If I never found TRP I would be that fat girl LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:51 AM
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I have zero appetite all day cause I take vyvanse but right around midnight-2 am I start getting urges to eat the most artery clogging shit. Tonight it's microwaveable bacon, great value cheese cubes, and grilled cheese sandwiches made with questionable provolone cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:32 AM
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Literally the first time I heard pick me was from black women on youtube who are retired gold diggers. The average white woman doesn't know such lovely terms as "pickmeisha, Bonnetta, barbara the builder"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:14 AM
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You didn't have to snatch my wig like that :/. I mean obviously I'm not a pickmeisha anymore but boy.... no better way to describe my dating experience age 14-16.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:12 AM
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I'm being facetious of course but imagine if like half of those dudes that reported not getting laid were just getting their dick absolutely vacuum suctioned on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 10:28 PM
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Women will never be desperate and not selective. They're desperate for a man they want. Not desperate for indiscriminate penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 07:24 PM
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I view them as not respecting themselves. They're jumping through hoops to get men without respecting or loving themselves, and will always end up with the wrong men because they get their validation from men instead of internally. "A good woman cooks for her man, splits the bills, has her own shit, takes care of him," blah blah blah pickmeisha. Yeah, you can do all those things if you want to. But it's virtue signalling, and the low value guys will eat it up that want to use her. A high value m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 07:22 PM
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I'm 4'11.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 07:18 PM
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shhhhhhhhhh atlas! I saw a tweet that said if he cums and you don't it wasn't really sex. Thanks to that and OP I'm now a high value virgin NAWALT unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 07:03 PM
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Because looks > everything when it comes to STR. Ugly and masculine is basically like high beta, which is LTR material. If a pretty boy is otherwise not effeminate, but not hypermasculine, he'll have STR success. Women view masculine men as high value and don't want to STR them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:59 PM
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Yeah, I get the whole ravaging thing, but it's not whats going through every womans mind when she's horny. Ravaging is better saved for an LTR, where there's trust. You underestimate women's neuroticism when it comes to sex. A pretty boy is more comforting because they're less threatening, more pleasing to look at which results in being comfortable having sex quicker. I don't really date tall guys or have interest in them, as most tall guys around me are either black or white and I basically onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:57 PM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:47 PM
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That is just... not correct. A woman would select for more masculine but ugly guy for a LTR, but if she wants to fuck, the pretty boy is the way to go. I'm assuming the pretty boy isn't an autistic weirdo or effeminate, he's just young looking and has pretty features.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:43 PM
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My fwb is like 5'3 but he's sexy in the face, that's what counts. I mean, he's a pretty boy type tho, so he's still pretty. The difference between being a guy being pretty and a guy being sexy depends on if the woman looking at him is horny or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:40 PM
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I write too (not poetry, I just have a website), people assume if you have a blog it automatically dispenses money to you or if you write it's like playing the sims where your sim gets a couple dollars for every hour you make them practice writing. No!!! I just be writing shit and screaming it into the void, I don't get paid for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 01:50 PM
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I used to chase men, I have enough experience in it to know it's a turn off to men. Competing for women is easier than competing for men, all women want is an LTR. You have to convince a man to LTR you. It's not the same playing field at all. Male nines and tens settle down at like 40 with a woman 15 years younger than them. They ride the pussy carousel as long as they can until they want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 01:31 PM
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I just found out there's an entire community on youtube that is centered around abusing baby monkeys. No one is talking about it, there are no articles about it. It's disgusting, I'm not very sensitive and I'm not even really an animal lover but I actually feel very angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 02:48 AM
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No because women like being chased. I used to date women, I have never had a problem pursuing them, and they respond well to it. Men do not respond well to being taken out of their masculine role.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 12:31 AM
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Yeah, no. I don't chase men. I would love to, but men don't like it. They like to feel like they got lucky, if you're more attracted/interested in him than he is in you it doesn't work. The competition would be fucking horrible, too. Whenever I go to concerts, it's like I'm objectively better looking than 30 percent of the females, on the same level as 50 percent of them, and 20 percent are better looking than me. Once you're good looking as a woman, it's hard to stand out. All of the 8's and 9'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 12:12 AM
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Most women will have an exploratory phase because not everyone is 100 percent fem brained or masculine brained. The female sexual imperative to find the best mate is often diluted by culture/society or by her upbringing or own preferences, but overall there's a reason there's a female and male imperative. A woman can still have the female imperative to want to fuck Chads but exclusively fuck ugly gross men because she has some kind of trauma (extreme example). Women are more easily influenced by…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 10:37 PM
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Women ultimately desire Chad, but not Chad(s). If one Chad will not commit, they of course will move on to the next in hopes that he will. Women will only get bored of a man below them. A man that's good looking, emotionally intelligent, good in bed, charming etc will never be boring to her. Unless, he stops being those things either in her mind or in actuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 02:52 PM
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I hate being redpilled but it provides some sense of security. Knowing the truth even if I'm unhappy with it- that men really don't value me for my pErSoNAliTy and rather for my youthfulness, beauty, how i make them feel. It might feel bitter now but I guess it's better to know the truth than to not. Am not a married redpill wife yet so I don't know if I'm successful by red pill terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:44 PM
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The touching your skin part I feel omg. My face feels weird when I don't have foundation on! I end up in the bathroom at wherever I go to squeezing my blackheads because I have no self control if I don't have that protective layer of Dior air flash on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:37 PM
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I wear makeup, but it depends on the occasion. I have different faces. My normal "face", I can do in fifteen minutes completely blindfolded. It's just my face but better. When I really wanna make shit happen, I go heavier on the contour, eyeshadow, lipliner, and add false lashes. I never understood how men feel "lied to" by makeup. I'm pretty good at makeup, but I can't make cheekbones where there's no bone structure, I don't completely draw on my eyebrows. I look cute without makeup, but obviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:33 PM
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Women's sex drive matches mens on a couple occasions: She's surrounded by Chads, she's on her period or just got off it (this is when most of my female friends and myself have noticed peak horniness) and most of the "maybe" guys become "ooh has he always been cute?". Women don't value variety as much as men. I don't see anyone really talking about that in this thread. To use my FWB for an example, he's hot and I desire him a lot, my sex drive is very high when it comes to him. He's Chadly in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:14 PM
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I've never been diagnosed with anything. Most people tell me that it's normal to have irregular periods, but I'm going to a gyno soon. My mom didn't have regular periods until she was almost 30 and had me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:00 PM
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Fuck no. I get one or two periods a year that last about two weeks and are extremely painful. Still wouldn't trade it to go bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:56 AM
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I'm definitely more attractive now, but I just remember feeling like marriage and all that was an abstract concept. I get treated better by men now tho, but I still haven't had an LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/19 02:54 AM
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When did you find your captain? I'm 18... I know I'm young, but every day I feel my "window" closing. It might sound ridiculous tbh. But I remember when guys would flirt with me or hit on me, how fun it was to try to get them to guess my age. Now it's like, okay I'm 18.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/19 02:07 AM
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INTJ type 5w6. Feelings are gay and I'm going to destroy them ben shapiro style with FACTS and LOGIC /s I prefer astrology to meyers briggs. I have almost zero water in my chart, which explains the lack of being able to identify or feel emotions, insecurity etc. I'm a perfectionist, neurotic as hell, and want to figure out how I can make people love me while not letting them see me being vulnerable. I know deep down I am feminine, I just have some obstacles. Like I know for a fact I want to be a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/19 01:27 AM
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I'm more spiritual, so I tend to use masculine/feminine energy rather than science terms. I have a masculine ass ego, but my energy is 100 percent feminine which causes me to be very annoyed. I ALWAYS want to be in "getting shit done mode", but my body can handle about one or two things before I need a nap or a guided meditation session. I hate being seen as lazy, but I really need a lot of time for introspection and relaxation, especially around plants or near an open window.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/19 01:13 AM
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I don't think most people would be open to sharing. Also I can't imagine bonding with someone who's cheating on me in front of my face. That's literally someone telling you "You're not enough for me"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 07:45 PM
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lol love you atlas. you're right. in my recent comment i was picturing a guy i'm already attracted to letting me put a clay mask on him. plus im young and i do like younger guys, but i wouldn't be into a dude with overly neotenous features or whatever the sciency term is. yea an ugly guy that buys more skincare from sephora than me still won't do it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:48 PM
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I'd love to wear facemasks with my husband while we get ready for bed! My ex bf would have me do his eyebrows and I liked it. It'd be nice if more men would take interest in taking care of themselves. When me and my future husband are rich, we're going to be using creme de la mer and getting monthly facials together. I'm already into skincare and beauty tho, but if I wasn't I'd probably be weirded out by a guy more into skincare than me tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:45 PM
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I'm not a looks denier, but this line of thinking is just pure projection. Improving your looks past a healthy degree (past weight loss, gym, shaving, taking care of acne, haircuts etc) will not really help with women. Once you hit about a 6 or a 7 (which is very easy to do with the things I just listed, unless you have deformities or are 5'1), you don't need to improve your appearance anymore as a man. A guy wearing mascara is not attractive unless he's going for the metro-fairy kpop boy look. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:42 PM
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my favorite people to overshare pointless shit about my life to <3 any of you got like... tips on getting your shit together after recognizing you were in a depressive state? i had two traumatic car accidents last september and my grades have been shit since, i quit my job, i can't get out of bed in the morning, and i remember i used to be such an organized, lively person. Every day I would have a long ass to do list. The state of me now? I just cleaned my bathtub for the first time in two fucki…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:02 AM
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U should make your flair "machiavellian hypergamous THOT" not calling you that, i'm just laughing at the assumption that a 15 year old would have a grand scheme to climb the social ladder using popular jocks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:08 PM
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No. I never just want a "relationship". If I don't have feelings, very strong feelings at that, for a guy, a relationship is an annoyance and a burden. A lot of people suggest I get with a dude I don't really like so he can treat me right, they're like "you don't have to stay with him forever or marry him, but maybe it's time you have a nice boyfriend instead of insert my ex or guys I used to talk to". But what's the point? I deserve someone I want to be with and the dude deserves someone who li…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:01 PM
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Idk if you would consider it conservative, but the majority of men I date are Hispanic and have quite traditionalist views towards dating/marriage, especially Mexican guys. They have very rigid views towards gender roles. These types of guys, (im assuming there's some similarity behind traditionalist because of culture and conservatism) they're "alphas" or manly, but it's tough to bond with them. With the majority of men who already in a sense know what the "red pill" is without even knowing abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 07:03 AM
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I wouldn't date a bisexual man lol. At all. Nothing personally against bisexual men, but I don't want to think about my man thinking about fucking other men. I don't care if this means I have some kind of homophobia or misandry or w/e. It's gross to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:27 AM
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I want kids that are mine and my husband's. I'm more trad than you would think lol. I just hate admitting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 04:55 AM
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No. Dating women is like friendship but with kissing. I'm not a branch swinger in hetero relationships, but I'd seriously doubt my fidelity in a gay relationship. It would just feel... not real. Like we're pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 04:55 AM
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I'm a non functioning bisexual. I date to marry, and for me marriage involves kids, so I don't date women. However, I can pick up girls with ease. I find women are more affectionate than men, are more supportive, and generally easier to attract. Even when I was ugly, I could have 7's and 8's that would develop huge crushes on me. Girls that were "strictly dicktly" would find themselves flirting with me, sending me nudes, while claiming they weren't like that- but they could "mess around" with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:22 AM
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I have this problem too. The only "staple" in my closet is the fact that I always have a gigantic trash bag full of stuff I either got at a second hand store or one of the cheap stores in the mall like Forever21 or Rue21 that stuck out to me and is completely NOT how I actually dress. Many a pink mesh shoe with a clear heel or a crop top that does NOT hold anything in place have become victim to the closet trash bag.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 02:14 AM
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Thanks for all the help!! I think I can describe the way I want my interior to look as "meditteranean luxury oracle vibes meets antique shop". About 1/4th of my room is taken up by my altar and accompanying supplies, so I started working around that focus point. I moved my vanity to directly in front of my altar, it feels fresh now. Now I have to be more mindful about how I move around in my room, I can't just lazily go through my morning routine because my vanity is now on the other side of my …
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 02:11 AM
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Trust me, I'm barely any older than you. Just focus on becoming the person you would be proud of, he's a 16 year old boy. I know you probably don't want to hear this, but he's a WHILE off from becoming "Captain" material or like any of the husbands you hear about on this subreddit. Just enjoy yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 11:19 PM
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Nah, he lusted after me. Anything taller than 5'11 is impractical for me. I don't think I've ever seriously dated or talked to a guy above 5'9, height really just doesn't matter to me. As long as he's taller than me (which is a really, REALLY low bar).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 06:37 PM
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For fashion: try to go for casual but with a feminine touch. You don't have to dress like Grace Kelly. I'm young too, part of the struggle with dressing "feminine" is everyone around you is wearing leggings/adidas pants/hoodies and casual things all the time. You know you'll stand out if you try to deviate from that. Maybe try a denim skirt, a nice flowy top, and plain white or black sneakers. You can still look feminine in shorts and a t shirt if you carry yourself in a feminine way. Not every …
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 03:24 AM
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I used to be a radical feminist back in the day. Most of the radfems I see are hurt, mistrustful of men, and angry. I associate that with the feelings the anger ppl in the anger phase feel, with the whole "society is a lie" blue pill shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 01:25 AM
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i just wanted to comment so we could get it to 333 comments the numerology jumped out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:10 PM
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Well these dudes are gonna have to prepare for the gun show! I'm stronk as hell, just call me Herculena :))) /s, I can barely lift 15 pounds with one arm. Feels weird that being weak and tiny is an advantage in at least one aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:04 PM
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Not true. Trying to kiss a 6'2 guy was the most awkward shit of my life. I prefer guys around 5'7-5'11.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 09:12 PM
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Love being 4'11. My pick of guys taller than me is endless. Actually I do remember when I was a sophomore this dude that was 4'8 had a crush on me. RIP him, my hypergamous wahmen instincts killed his chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 08:32 PM
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Pegging is gonna be hot in about 5 years. First it starts with jokes about your girl eating your ass, then some memes about when she sticks her pinky in there, then in 2024 having a strap on is going to be mainstream and there's going to be Cosmo articles about how to safely peg your tinder date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 08:18 PM
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No. Most women catch feelings for one man too quickly or are convinced they need to be "good women" and "good women" don't date multiple people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:39 PM
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I don't know why I have to be turned on all the time according to RP. My man can cry in front of me and I'll comfort him but in the moment I'm not gonna be thinking about sucking his dick. It's not gonna affect the long term attraction I feel to him tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:32 PM
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I think most of her defense comes from the fact that she's a rapper. All rappers talk about how they had to do certain things to survive, how they kill people, robbed people etc. People are still screaming Free Tay-K and free Bobby Shmurda even tho they're in prison for a reason. A lot of what I'm seeing is that people who otherwise would say things like "Free insert rapper convicted of homicide" is criticizing Cardi B for robbing men. She's not an angel- but why is she expected to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:24 PM
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I normally like to be the pursuer, yes. Except for the part where it doesn't work and sucks in the end. But it's more fun to have feelings for someone than when they have feelings for you. In my first and only relationship, he gave me the silent treatment frequently, cheated on me, and made excuses to not see me and talked to me crazy all the time. I'd end up crying and apologizing. Ain't like that now lmao but I was obsessed with keeping him. I have no idea why.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:03 AM
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If I was a dude my standard for girls would be -18-23 (this isn't creepy I'm 18 lol) -taller than 5'4 -gives me space -a job or trade she's passionate about, but no career women -8/10+ -good listener -likes to talk shit about people -wants to do delinquent shit with me -not overly emotional -willing to blindly obey me -very organized and routine. I basically would want a secretary. I have very high standards for these hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:52 AM
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My feelings for them. But that's why I'm single, I can't make guys jump through hoops and I suck at being chased, not making them work for my affection ugh. My first love essentially asked why I had feelings for him, he'd never done anything for me. It was so weird. Likewise, when ugly guys or guys that I'm not interested in at all try to orbit me I have to let them know what's up in a respectful way. Most of my friends tell me I should get with a dude worse looking than me or that I don't like …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:38 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:30 AM
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Basically. I don't really think older guys look better.. at all. I don't remember ever being attracted visually to a guy older than like 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:55 PM
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Most men also stop trying to woo their wife after time goes on. It's like they both think of themselves as beyond the dating game so they dont play by the same rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:43 PM
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I HAVE to show my muslim friend the night time safety burqa. That outfit is honestly hard as fuck, all it needs is some Off White or Louis V logos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:21 PM
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I don't mind it, but the fellas need to have more consistency with it. On one hand, some dudes throw out 8's 9's and 10's like ones at a strip club. On the other, you get dudes that rate almost every girl as a 5 or a 6, because they compare IRL females to celebrities. You gotta have a hollywood scale and the normal people scale. I STUDY attractiveness. I used to want to model when I was younger, but turned out to be short as fuck, so I started studying models and fashion from afar. A high fashio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:06 AM
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Negative, definitely. Reading porn horror stories makes that very clear to me. It's like a drug to your mind too, I think masturbation without porn can be a healthy way to explore sexuality but there's nothing healthy about the vast majority of porn being "teen DESTROYED by painal gangbang" "women treated like fuckmeat" "Stepbrother blackmails teen sister" I just made those titles up, but if you go on pornhub I bet you'll find videos titled exactly those titles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 12:29 AM
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No. Marriage for me involves kids. I'd feel like I was playing house forever! I might be a tough masculine money loving bitch etc but I'm a nurturer at heart, I can't imagine a life with no kids. I need to pass down my genes and continue my empire through them hehehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 12:24 AM
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Idk I'd find it weird to go into football coach mode right after we're fucking like "IS THAT ALL YOU GOT?!" It's easier to just say wow that was great and escort them out of my room.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:34 PM
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Tell that to all the girls that grew up with Prince Zuko from avatar as their first crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:32 PM
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My friends make fun of me for liking ugly guys. Anuel AA, 6ix9ine, I used to have a huge crush on Lil Pump and Smokepurpp. Like, I think Lil pump was my lockscreen for a good while. Almost no generically attractive celebrity does it for me. Keep all the Ryans, Chrises etc away from me. Give me the goblins with xanax addictions. I don't really like dimples, blue eyes, blonde/light brown hair etc. My ideal Chad is a 5'7 Puerto Rican dude that has thick eyebrows and a bunch of neck tattoos and weig…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:31 PM
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No let him keep thinking I'm actually married to 6ix9ine!! If more people believe it, it will come true for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:45 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:43 PM
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I don't understand the appeal of tall square jawed white men either bud. My old Work Boyfriend fit that to a T, any girl would have been lucky to be me. I developed a really strong crush on the kinda ugly short mexican dude at my job that actually had a personality outside of being a tall square jawed generically cute white dude after he quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:36 AM
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Honestly.... that's my husband. Probably why I wrote tattoos so much, was thinking about Tekashi too much :/ Every day he's in jail I'm mentally there with him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:33 AM
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Maybe I have too much empathy, but I'd never imagine using someone as a placeholder. I'd feel so guilty. I really don't see the point in getting emotionally bonded with someone knowing you don't want them forever. I mean, break ups happen, but why go in one with an exit strategy? I'd rather be alone than be with someone I wasn't 11000000 percent into. I was the placeholder gf before, it sucked. Especially cause he left me for a bitch that's obese like how was I the placeholder? How was I holding…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:12 AM
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Eh, true. That's why I said don't read too much into me saying it. I still know people who consider tattoos on a woman to mean she's a jezebel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:06 AM
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I'm still finishing high school, no captain to speak of lol obviously, but I'm very grateful for this recent crush I developed. It's taken a lot of self work and love to be able to get to the point that I allow myself to acknowledge I have feelings for a guy and feel worthy of having those feelings, all while not being crazy and pressing him for commitment or chasing him. It feels just... nice. To have butterflies. I always struggled with dating, I know girls that had their first boyfriend in 6t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 03:05 AM
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Wisdom, lighthearted, nurturing, duty/honor (I mean, you gotta have a strong sense of duty and honor to put aside the ego and really succeed in the feminine role IMO), beauty (not just physical beauty, but a way of beautifying the surroundings, appreciating beauty etc), intuition (!!!!), trust (i struggle with the most), receptiveness, and selflessness.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 03:02 AM
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Anyone know how to get this dog to like me? She barks at me all the time, trembles when I come near her... and only acts like that towards me. We got her like 4 months ago, she was sweet to me at first, but now she's scared of me? She acts like I beat her, and I've never been anything except sweet to her. She's only scared of me, not of my mom, or strangers, or anyone I bring to the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:57 AM
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I miss her! Listening to No Scrubs right now in her honor since you just mentioned her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:55 AM
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Yes. When I give birth, I want my husband to share that feeling with me. I want him to be like "ooohhhh she has my nose :)" and him coming in the room while I'm cradling our newborn baby talking about some "I need a paternity test" I wouldn't even be offended on the basis of trust, more like wtf asshole why are you ruining the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:50 AM
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Women SETTLE for variety, just like how men settle for commitment but want variety. Women aren't like "gee, I sure enjoy being used as a cumrag for men that want nothing to do with me after we fuck". This whole premise is flawed because women are the ones that start out wanting meaningful relationships, and are geared towards them, and men are the opposite. I find it extremely laughable that the male imperative (fucking lots of different people without commitment) is equated to what women want. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 01:10 AM
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Women can't really orgasm from having sex with an ugly or undesirable man no matter how "good" he is in bed. Sex is like 80 percent mental for them. There's a reason those reddit dudes are invisible, someone on reddit begging me to let them give me head would very much be in the invisible category. I'd rather have orgasmless but otherwise enjoyable sex with someone I was comfortable having sex with than fuck an ugly dude that happened to have an extra tongue and an 8 inch dick that had ridges an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:09 AM
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I'd make the about page more long, encourage people to post different kinds of pictures and write a caption about the picture. I hate lazy dating profiles. I know people are gonna say I'm lying but I swipe left on tons of "Chad" looking dudes for having at worst nothing in their Bio besides their snapchat and what school they go to and at best "I have a dog, I like netflix". The dating app I would use would be entirely relationship centric and more structured entirely, basically. Most "dating ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:59 PM
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Having a personality that's very authentic. Let's take two people I know, T and K. T's personality is built entirely on pop culture references, you can EASILY tell he has horribly untreated ADHD, he practically needs attention from others to live. He's not bad looking, but not stunning. He might be the loudest in the room, but his presence is either aggravating or sometimes funny. K, is quiet but speaks his mind. Everyone notices him, in a good way. He has hobbies and interests, literally everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:03 PM
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Any other ugly ducklings out there? The saying beautiful people, beautiful problems comes to mind right now. I remember when I was 160 lbs, awkward looking etc No one ever doubted me when I told them my insecurities. Everyone wanted to cheer me up and people thought I was smart and funny etc... but maybe just not attractive. 119 lbs, better makeup skills, better clothes later, people seem to judge me or invalidate me when I tell them I have problems or insecurities. I feel like I have to work tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 07:50 PM
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I'm RP and very against the pill, not because of gender relationships or anything. I just personally think it's gonna be comparable to asbestos or whatever in the future, we're gonna look back and think why the fuck was this allowed??? Doctors always try to get me on the pill, because I don't get regular periods. No thanks to gaining weight, cystic acne, mood swings, etc. I'd rather take the risk of just using a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 07:25 PM
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Thank you lol, I meant value not time spent but I guess in the post it sounded like time spent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 11:52 PM
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The tradcon dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 11:20 PM
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Idk, I'd only want babies with an attractive man so our babies will be good looking. When I see an attractive man I'm into it's like I want his babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 07:33 PM
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I cheated on my ex (not a good look, but he cheated on me so yin yang balance etc, I don't know if I shit test guys, I only like lean or chubby guys, wtf is refusing to participate in an intellectual conversation, I don't seek attention from men they seek me out to give me attention. I get how branch swinging and cheating could be AWALT behaviors but honestly this thread makes no sense. It's not AWALT or AMALT its all people are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 07:25 PM
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Juul pods hit really nice theyre discreet idk.I can hide a juul in my bra. Can't put a huge ass vape tank in my bra. U can put cbd and thc in juul pods too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 07:22 PM
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You can literally just change your mindset. Decide that despite not growing up wealthy, or with good parents, or whatever you can develop a healthy and confident mindset like someone that did have those advantages. It's that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:19 AM
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He's rich hot and really loves me... so much that he will make huge emotional displays once or twice weekly about how much he loves me in front of the other girls he has sex with. If it was a marriage with multiple people I am the Big Wife and I get to boss around all the other wives and sleep in bed with him and the others just do my housework and stay in a servants quarter all day. Sharing is not caring under this roof. I'm pretty high libido.. so I don't even know why he'd need other bitches.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:12 AM
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Last night I literally just so happened to come into the possession of a new juul, 2 mint pods, and spent like 3 hours with my half-man. Life is gooooooooood over here, and my favorite artist is coming to my city in July. I gotta find an outfit to wear so I can look like a hoe but a cute hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:46 AM
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My pride muscle is bigger than my huge ginormous biceps and triceps combined
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 08:27 PM
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I don't disagree. I might be good looking, but the dude I'm fucking right now is just sliiiightly above me. I don't fuck him with the hope of being in a relationship, but in the back of my mind it's like I know that if I just told him "I want to be in a relationship" it would be out of my control, just like how I control the sex. Rough world we live in. Although my FWB is sweet and hot he's dumb as rocks so Idek if I'd seriously want a relationship with him, it's still weird to think about not b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:22 AM
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Lol yepppp. I've had average/ugly sexual partners etc but the only dude I've ever dated and brought home to mom had to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:17 AM
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we should have a gigantic game of cards against humanity online across ppd users. God I really have stockholm syndrome to this place. When I first started here I hated how much time I spent here now I'm talking about a community game night.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:59 AM
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Lol yes! I agree. In my personal experience, the girl before me was better looking than me, I'm like 3 times better looking than his current girl (she's like 240 pounds lmao), that seems like the natural order of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 12:28 AM
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Lol, that's so funny. To me, relationships and all that are the side quests. Chilling by a creek half naked sounds fun but mosquitos and bugs ewwww
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:36 PM
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Yeah, when I was 16 my boyfriend was 15 and there would have been a period where I was 17 and he would have still been 15. My therapist told me if I want a guy who's truly on my maturity level I'd probably have to go like 15 years older but that's gross IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:33 PM
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This was something else I should have mentioned. Women, due to physically being weaker and having to care for children, are not able to perfectly enact their ambition on their own. That's where the man comes in. Women create, men build.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:36 PM
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long time no see pal! You're probably the only person who thinks women should raise their standards. I don't disagree with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:28 PM
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This doesn't have the q4men flair so imma answer it cause I'm feeling talkative today. I'm 18, finishing high school. I find myself flirting with guys in my grade or even guys below my grade (16-17) but it kinda feels like I'm cradle robbing. For a serious relationship, I wouldn't go older than 25 and I couldn't do younger than 19 or 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:14 PM
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Right lol. I lost my virginity to a guy who nutted twice in five minutes, I knew it was bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:09 PM
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Or just work on the dick sucking skills. If your pussy is good 9/10 guys won't even ask you to suck dick but if you just can't fuck you gotta train your jaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:08 PM
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I'm single, but if I was in a relationship, I wouldn't care. How ugly you are is directly proportional to the amount of work you have to do during sex anyways. I don't give lame starfish sex but I don't put on a porn star performance either because I couldn't enjoy sex that was too pornographic and extra. If I ever feel like my man is getting bored it's time to bust out the throat muscles. In the words of cardi b "you could round all them hoes up, dick sucking contest I'm winning".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:06 PM
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Uggo. I only have one contact in I cant read the body post but my ex dated one of my friends (who I didn't know at the time), well not dated but she just wanted to fuck and he wanted love and she broke his heart. The girl, I met her 5 months after we broke up at a concert, is way hotter than me. I'd be disturbed if she was ugly. I'd think like damn am I ugly too? But the girl that broke his heart or whatever was a solid two points above me, almost a ten except for she's kinda built like a stick.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 07:59 PM
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Everytime I see one of those dumbass anti vaping commercials I wanna shoot myself. "Don't hack your brain" hacking my brain sounds COOL AS FUCK.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 07:50 PM
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I'm pretty confident in my vetting skills that I won't end up with a dude that likes to punch women or has the decency to just jerk off instead of cheating on me.... but there's always the possibility I end up with someone so good at pretending to be normal that they even fool themselves then all of a sudden he starts supplexing me through our glass coffee table.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 07:43 PM
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Guess I gotta work from within. Will report back in fifteen years when I have completely changed the field of modern psychology and have successfully reduced the amount of people who are overweight or on SSRIs in this country, and write at least 300 books and teach my clients about mysticism and astrology. Just call me Karly Jung or Vertifreudia
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 07:41 PM
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Username doesn't check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:39 AM
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Never!! Having a miscarriage at 16 turned on my mom instincts and despite me being a money hungry high testosterone bitch I wouldn't do it for a billion dollars. Some gay couple will never get their homosexual hands on my eggs, or some UMC couple incapable of conceiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:38 AM
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A woman that's addicted to a man will most certaintly do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:35 AM
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Then why do men pump and dump or pull away after sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:16 AM
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Being clingy is a turn off to men tho, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:10 AM
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I mean.. someone can donate 10 percent of their income to charity and feed the homeless in their spare time I'm still not going to wanna fuck them 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 11:30 PM
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Mathew Hussey and Bern from yourgreatlife tv videos are fucking great. Bern's little accent is so entertaining and Matthew Hussey is dreamy and I don't even like most white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 09:58 PM
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Radfems want to abolish the concept of gender altogether because they view it as oppressive (they view sex and gender seperately). Libfems want to abolish biological sex and uhhh read buzzfeed articles and buy boxes of Manic Panic hair dye.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 09:54 PM
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Used to be purple, now am begrudgingly red. One day you'll see me with the flair "in love and married to my Captain xoxo" pero hoy casado con el dinero $$$$$$$$. I'm on my laptop so no emojis but just imagine the freezing face emoji, the cowboy emoji, and the emoji with the dollar signs for eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 09:50 PM
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Hm, well there are genuine reasons I don't want to go into counseling. A long time in school, I disagree with the way a lot of the professionals handle things, and I kind of have a hard time seeing myself as a therapist. But I guess it could work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 09:48 PM
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Oh not that one! I made one on rpw lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 09:37 PM
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Maybe that works for them. It just depends on the person. I don't feel comfortable with a purely romantic relationship, I need the level of trust a friendship has before I can begin to feel comfortable to process the emotions required of a relationship tbh. Maybe thats just me who knowwssss
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:42 AM
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uncontrollably crying after expressing all of my neurotic beliefs and fears surrounding the concept of love all night on good old reddit dot com. I want to rip my emotions out with a rusty spoon why the fuck do I have these
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:06 AM
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What do you mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:04 AM
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I don't really want to gain anything from a relationship.. besides like love I guess? I just essentially want a best friend that I get to have sex with. I want mutual understanding, respect. I really like feeling needed. I can't feel loved without feeling like there's a reason for it, which might be unhealthy. I have no desire to compete with a partner, the rest of my life is filled with power struggles and very, very real reasons for me to have trust issues. The one aspect of my life I'd like t…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 06:03 AM
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I know my childhood was fucked. I got issues, I'm literally typing out my neurotic thought patterns anonymously for people just as weird as me to analyze. The whole boss-employee thing, I'd rather be the boss. Being in control is the most natural thing to me. I don't follow politics, it's all fake and orchestrated. I'm good with money- making money is more natural to me than interpersonal shit. My God Given core competences are basically the opposite of what I need in order to be a wife and mom …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:41 AM
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Well, you can say "the other partner has to love me more so they'll act right" all day and go in a circle. Try it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:01 AM
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I got 4/10. I'll deal with stress. I've always been under high amounts of pressure to be the best, I've always had a lot on my plate. I wouldn't trade it for anything. I wouldn't want to not be my own captain. Why would I want someone else to handle my shit? It'd be nice to have someone that loved me, but I don't need to be cared for or have my decisions made. I don't even think anyone else could understand what I have to do in life, so why would I want someone trying to be my captain and tellin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:00 AM
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Combination of things What is desirable to men in a female partner is a cripple to you IRL. Softness, innocence, agreeableness etc. Women are quite literally forced to become more masculine, men don't appreciate these values when assessing them for LTR, and women are confused and hurt by that. Most men that are above a 6/10 can get casual sex, so they're getting casual sex. Most men that are attractive, relationship oriented, etc are taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:38 AM
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I'm a stoic. Trying to get an emotional reaction out of me, better luck getting me to do a cartwheel. Most men don't like that very much lol. I have a partner count of 5, 3 of those were wastes of time and I should have just masturbated, casual sex is complete garbage. It felt like going to the dentist, not sexy at all. I get why male redpillers don't like women to have high n counts. My ability to pair bond isn't anymore fucked than when I decided I wanted to lose my virginity to someone I didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:32 AM
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Well then, wouldn't making sure your man loves you more ensure good behavior from him? seems circular
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:22 AM
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Define a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:21 AM
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I hate school, I honestly don't wanna go to college. But I guess I have to, I was thinking something vague like business because all the shit that interests me (theology, spirituality, literature) would bore the fuck out of me if some old bitch in a suit tried to tell me everything I already know. Everyone tells me I should be a counselor, cause I love doing my tarot card shit cause I like helping people. But I say way too much crazy shit, or I'd tell a patient to go off lexapro and start leavin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:20 AM
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Uhhh cause I don't wanna be addicted to my partner like I am with nicotine. I can lose a relationship. I cannot lose my juul.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:17 AM
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Right!! That's why I always end up falling for friends :/ I don't see how you can see an attractive person, date them all that without the initial trust. Mystery and games to try to "keep him/her on her toes" etc are retarded to me. I have enough power struggles in my life to watch out for, the one aspect of my life I want to be predictable and safe is love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:48 AM
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Well put me in a tower and call me Rapunzel. Having a best friend you have sex with seems easier than playing games, but I suppose real life can't work like that. If that were true, I wouldn't be sitting here hitting my juul and pouring my weird thoughts onto reddit, I'd be with my man wearing matching facemasks and aligning our chakras via s*xual intercourse. Sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:39 AM
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Me and you can never meet IRL cause it would disrupt the space time continuum. I'm interested to see what's gonna lead me into getting into real estate tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:34 AM
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Damn, that sucks. I don't value relationships, I value people. Weird to see how backwards I am. Doesn't give me a good "im so glad I'm not like those other bitches" feeling.. just feels weird as fuck. I hope I get abducted by aliens I'm tired of all this "sexual marketplace" this and "sexual strategy" that. How can we not figure out how to peacefully fuck and love each other and sustain society? That's so crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:23 AM
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Good thing I'll never need money from a man! Although, I hate emotional roller coasters too. Why can't there be a world where I can have good, consistent committed sex with someone I'm attracted to that's like my best friend that appreciates romantic gestures. I want a man that's gonna appreciate my cute valentines day card.. that I wrote no homo on the back of obviously because feelings are gay as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:10 AM
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Well, I definitely don't want an effeminate loser or a guy I have to support. So- I do want a traditional relationship. I'm just... having a very very very very very difficult time rationalizing it. I was never raised to think that traditional relationships were a possibility. In my mind, I have to be the best at every fucking thing, or else I'm nothing. I know that I will not be happy in a relationship with a man who is not superior to me. But.. ugh, I keep going in mental circles and getting n…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 03:05 AM
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Maybe my issue is with point two. The first point makes sense, I don't mind that. The second part is the one I have an issue with. I'm more of the sex and respect variety... I know I shouldn't be, and maybe I'm not but just think I am. I've never really been loved, so I guess I don't know what that's all about. But respect is non negotiable to me. In every aspect of my life, I've worked hard to earn respect and admiration of my peers, perfected what I was doing, and tried my best to be the ideal…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 03:01 AM
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But I don't want it to disgust me. That's my thing. Deep down, I want to be soft and submissive (i retched while typing this) and vulnerable and emotionally available, I just don't know how to address it. What's it about then? When I hear that the "captain" or whatever is the leader, relinquishing control, decision making etc viscerally I think of inferiority. I know intellectually it doesn't always mean it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 02:53 AM
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Stopped reading at "physical". I might be dominant and all that shit but I'll die before I'd be considered ugly. I'll be neurotic and unloveable all day every day before I let myself be fat or ugly LMAO. I sympathize with the Bitch manifesto, but I know in my heart I gotta learn how to be feminine and accept love and all that bullshit. One day on PPD you will see me with the flair "tradwife married to my captain". Today's not that day, I'm about to do a stick and poke tat on my finger. Tradwife …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:50 AM
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Hmm.... interesting. I'm young, so I'm not really around a lot of men who'd be very worthy of sitting next to me. I'm not just arrogant, I'm arrogant for a reason. Perhaps when the guys my age are able to think of building anything other than shit in fortnite, I might reconsider my neurotic stance on relationships. I like how you say things btw it's entertaining. eau de damsel in distress.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:16 AM
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Then why don't relationships where the woman is pursuing work out? "men like a challenge" is common saying. Most of the women I know that say these things, the ones in successful marriages, did not marry for love. They married because it was a smart choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:13 AM
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Wish you the best as well. If I could have my cake and eat it too, I'd probably think the same way. I have a lot of shit I gotta take care of in this lifetime, but it's not realistic to hope that someone's going to be willing to come along. Just curious, why do you think romance takes up that much of life? It's so.. fickle IMO. I put more stock into what's predictable. Hard work in every other aspect of life = you get what you want. People? They're unreliable. I'm not trying to convince you to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:11 AM
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I'm very unemotional, and don't understand why people are so caught up in feelings. I hate the honeymoon phase, I just wanna skip right to the point where we both have decades of mutual respect and understanding. Sparks last like... five minutes. Lust is temporary, my tits look great now but they're gonna sag when I'm like 50, duh. Power, building an empire, ambition, companionship, those are much more appealing to me IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:06 AM
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Oh yeah, definitely. I know thats an issue with me in relationships, I know how hurt I would be if someone I was trying to be with couldn't trust me. But my dumbass still refuses to trust others.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 02:03 AM
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Eh, I'd say most women are not like me and are at least capable of keeping orbiters around. I can't do it, makes me feel bad as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:02 AM
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Romance is like.. 10 percent of life. I wouldn't base my whole life around something so small that's completely out of my control to begin with. I can't sit around and wait for a man to save me, so I'm not gonna cripple myself by being weak just because it's attractive. I'd rather invest in my life, travel, build my empire than be a soft little damsel in distress for a man who may or may not stick around. Wayyyy too risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:57 AM
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A lot of older women, some meme I just saw on twitter that made me think, and how I've seen relationships play out. You might hear more IRL "don't chase men, he should chase you" or shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:45 AM
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Lol I'm so thankful for my dad. He taught me how to be an alpha male... too bad I'm a woman :/. But I'd rather be living like a rich narco with no man than be a dumb bitch with a man. Sometimes I wish sexuality was a choice, my life as a lesbian would be fucking sweet. Status, money, charisma, all that are easy and benefit you IRL. All the traits men look for in women ie softness, vulnerability, agreeableness and innocence will cripple you IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:43 AM
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I always said you can't tell one group of people to just accept being inferior without some of the more troublemaking members of that group rising up. I'm not a feminist by any means, but even I sympathize with where most radfems are coming from. If femininity is seen as inferior to masculinity, why would any woman WANT to be feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:20 AM
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Yeah, the giving up control aspect is the toughest part for me. I study a lot of not just RPW, but femininity/masculinity in general. Like- I know why this stuff works. I know being a man with tits isn't going to get me the love I want. I just don't know where this emotional block comes from. I know that being vulnerable won't make me weak, I know that intellectually. But I don't know whats preventing me from internalizing it. I feel as though I couldn't respect myself if I was submissive. I wou…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 01:13 AM
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I think my problem with passivity is that I constantly feel the need to prove myself. It's not always a bad thing- but in interpersonal relationships, I fail. I try to be the masculine role, unconsciously. By doing things for him, pursuing (not anymore, I'm past chasing men lol), trying to prove myself you know? I don't see how I could be any other way, but this way makes me miserable, so rationally I know that if being Ms. Man isn't working, I gotta try something else. The very thought of submi…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 01:07 AM
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LOL! The amount of guys that complain that in the past they could have had a wife with their 30k salary, ugly-medium looks and boring personality but now women aren't forced to be with them to survive is so funny. Like, you want a woman to be forced to be with you? Okay......
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:55 AM
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Sorry Idk shit about laws. I just don't believe in no fault divorce especially with kids in the picture, but assuming I follow my dream of being a SAHM I don't want to be trapped if my husband has a midlife crisis and decides he likes beating the shit out of me every once in a blue moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:51 AM
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I'd say most people don't want agency, not just women. Most people are fine being passive, dumb little workerbees with no purpose in life and no sovereignty. I somewhat do think that giving women "rights" was problematic though, however I think there can be a middle ground between whatever Hell we're in now and treating women as children or glorified breeding stock.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:48 AM
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When I was ugly, I was one of the bros. I could joke around, laugh, I was just a dude that happened to be born in the wrong body. Guys tend to be very sensitive about women they want to date dicking around and being less than ladylike. Making jokes like "I only wanted one man but if god wants me to have five then ten it is!" will get laughs from female friends and more chill guys. Most guys will be like "damn, women ain't shit, this is why I have trust issues" etc. I see guys similarly saying wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:37 AM
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The most important thing is shared values. It is possible you could have a successful marriage with a black guy for example, but think of the cultural atmospheres both of you grew up in. It's sad to think, but in real life, sometimes the love isn't there enough to transcend just plain not being able to empathize with someone's way of being. I'm white, but my dad is an old Spanish immigrant that does his best to act as white as possible. I'm basically just white, however I primarily date latino m…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 11:40 PM
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I value attention I get from my talents, opinions, who I am, not attention based on who wants to fuck me. If I did I'd just become a stripper or something I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 11:13 PM
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More women. Unless they're lesbians, you're safe from them feigning interest in you to try to sleep with you, flirting with you, I don't have to restrain myself as much. Having a conversation with mostly women is just invigorating, I don't have much in common with your average group of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 06:33 PM
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I'm not implying I would ever get married so quickly... but if we've been seeing each other for six months and he hasn't even mentioned our future in passing or as a hypothetical or called me wife as a joke or whatever, I'd be sus. I probably wouldn't expect marriage until 2-3 years in tho, but I think 6 months is enough to know if he considers you marriage material or if you're just a placeholder gf. Marriage is non negotiable. I'm not being a forever girlfriend or a baby mama. If you love me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 05:34 PM
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Lol giving me the silent treatment/ignoring me because he said he was going thru some shit and I wanted to stand by him. Took him seriously when he made up excuses to why he couldn't see me/call me etc. Could NEVER imagine letting anyone disrespect me like that now. I'll go and stand by somebody else before I jump through hoops to figure out where I stand with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 05:29 PM
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Certain women are very by the book, love rules and structure, and for that reason they pursue higher education. They're more likely to think about settling down later, most likely have been told their whole life because of their grades they are intelligent and will seek a man on their same level. Other women, like me, see degrees as almost worthless unless you're gonna become a doctor or engineer or w/e. I'd be happy with a guy that does real estate, owns his own company, does a trade as long as…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 12:03 AM
2

Some woman that came into my old job had very long natural nails like my acrylics and I believe she said it was like Sally Hansen nail strengthener or something that had some crazy ingredient that made them never break. Before I started getting acrylics I just manicured mine with no polish and kept my pinkys long (coke nails lol). I think I'll go back to it and maybe just do some press on nails for prom and events.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 11:49 PM
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I was just high when i typed that. I shouldn't reddit and smoke that story was pretty irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 09:39 PM
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I think men who are unapproachable are just considered sex offenders lol. I dont have RBF but I'm apparently very intimidating to the point that people's voices shake when they speak to me lol. When I flirt with guys, unless they're like chads or frat boys, they get soooo flustered and confused. My target and his friend were talking about my outfit cause I was dressed CUTE and as we were walking I got next to my target and said "but you like it tho" and he started stuttering "I mean I do like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 05:29 AM
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With every monthly upgrade to your pussy robot you get your monthly prozac prescription filled too! Read Utopia. You can make life easy for people, figure out how to hack their chemicals, give them entertainment etc. Small price to pay for never improving yourself, never experiencing true joy, love, or being able to actually have feelings. Give the people bread and circuses and PUSSY ROBOTS, they will never revolt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 03:28 AM
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Anything I can't do with nails I don't need to do. It makes me hold a pencil like a neanderthal. People always ask me how I wipe my ass and that disturbs me. How do you wipe your ass? You just shove your fingertips in there?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 03:19 AM
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Fake spiritual/astrology hoes that only know basics will get wet when you pretend to listen to them explain how y'all are compatible. It won't work for actually spiritual women or women that actually study what they talk about, but go for girls with green hair or "Wiccans"/neopagans. Do not try this on brujas/santeras/voodoo practitioners, it ends badly. You're gonna have your name in a jar of vinegar or in the freezer lol. It ain't friday but there you go, some free game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:55 PM
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Women typically are emotional as fuck and when they say stupid shit like "you're my soul mate, my twin flame" etc they usually mean it. I mean AMALT AWALT anyone of any gender can be lying or manipulative but men generally lie by appealing to emotions like how I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:12 PM
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The only truly unconditional love is between a mother and her children and self love. I'm sorry to say this, I wish it weren't true. But think of it: a marriage is work. It's still love, but its work. Would your kids have to put in work for you to love them? No, that's unconditional. At your best, you are loved. True for men and women. I know as a man you might vomit at the thought of this: but you need to practice self love. Or holding frame in manly terms. It seems like you have no love for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:07 PM
5

We need an anger phase/radfem matchmaking service.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:59 PM
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I think smart women care about earnings or whatever because it's a harsh truth: men's actions matter more than their words. If a man LOVES you, he'll want to do things for you. Doesn't always mean providing financially, but men are givers. A man can tell you all day every day he doesn't wanna get married because "it's just a paper, our bond is stronger than that, our kundalini is in tantra" but I personally believe men have less feelings than women so you can't trust when a man tells you shit li…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:51 PM
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I'd say women as a whole don't stand to benefit from a relationship like a man does via emotional intimacy. Most guys under 30 who are attractive only want casual sex, most guys don't make enough money to even be BB, so some women don't see the point of a relationship (either for love/lust or transactional). Most women have large groups of friends/acquaintances, family, they're much more comfortable seeking therapy etc. I'm the opposite of most women though, and don't have a wide emotional suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:48 PM
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What makes me feel feminine: I'm a very very spiritual person. When I'm doing astrology work, reading tarot cards, praying/meditating, doing a ritual, talking to my guides, buying supplies, taking care of my altar, I literally feel so feminine. Not like, girly or whatever. But just like I'm doing what I'm supposed to do- using my intuition, connecting with my higher self/the universe, Idk how to put that in spergy science terms because the majority of PPD don't believe in MBTI types much less sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 03:04 AM
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I broke my nail today and I'm actually going to go nail-less for a while. My nails are part of my identity, they're like an extension of myself. Because you guys are my family :) :) here's some pics of my nails including the one from today that caused me to question my life. Despite my nails being my pride and joy I rarely take pics of them so they're all just cropped pics that included them, they're blurry but it's SENTIMENTAL VALUE. https://imgur.com/a/5pEttmK The white ones are the shortest I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 02:42 AM
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I'm fineeeeeeeee. I might not have a stable sense of identity or the ability to have a relationship but I do have a brand new pack of mint juul pods and sims 3 mods that let my sims have indiscriminate sex and kill each other. Namaste.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 01:30 AM
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I have a very masculine ego, but I'm pretty feminine. I would not mind being a homemaker, wife, etc but to be seen as just a Wife is gross to me and I'm more dominant than 99 percent of men I know so :/ I act pretty bro-like around non masculine men. Around guys I like, or masculine guys, I don't flip personalities but I act more bitchy/uptight (which in turn makes me not a Bro), but also more playful and gentle. I do subtle things like getting people to do things for me, smiling and looking int…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 11:16 PM
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Um.. maybe not a man but me? I realized something most guys I'm truly attracted to have in common, they kinda look like me. I cannot be attracted to generic "chad" tall blonde/light brown blue eyed dudes or most black guys. There's room for variation, but I'd say I always noticed myself not attracted to most men around me, even the ones all my girlfriends drooled over. I remember I was 13 and there was this tall, gangly emo looking white kid who was like 16, had huge eyes like me, a really good …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 07:17 PM
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No. My dad was frugal as fuck but always spoiled my mom. He can be frugal on his own time, but what am I gonna do with a man that doesn't like drinking, going out, traveling etc? I'm introverted as fuck, but at least once or twice a week I have to go out or else I start getting anxiety and getting lonely because if I stay in my own head for too long I'll go mental. Then it's back to making to-do lists and meditating 6 days of the week. PS Netflix and chilling always leads to sex. A guy who didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 09:08 PM
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My own mother (who is morbidly obese) refuses to believe I fit into smalls/mediums. Idk where it comes from, but when I'm in a store with her and pull out a cute top and it's a medium, she'll literally try and find an XL. I'm like 4'11 and 119 lbs. My measurements are like 38-26-41 so I'm not skinny but I'm comfortably wearing a size small shirt right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:48 PM
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She sounds like me. She's probably got a lot of shit going on mentally, and y'alls "relationship" or w/e you wanna call it is probably not even registering on her radar. I do the SAME exact thing as her, guys always ask me if I'm okay or if I wanna be with them because of my body language or whatever and it annoys the fuck out of me. Most of my relationships haven't worked out because the guy tries to read into me too much instead of just listening to what I say. Advice: try to set emotional bou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:41 PM
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I got friendzoned and fuckzoned by my first crush or whatever. The way I would describe it was in my naive mind I always thought a relationship was sex and friendship. Me and him were like best friends, he honestly knows more about me than most people. We never fucked, but came close to it. It hurts because as a woman (assuming she's being led on like a beta male is "led on" via friendship) because you're told men want xyz, you provide xyz, and it's still not enough. I'd say it's about equal, me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 10:12 PM
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Even after they cheat they'll buy you flowers and make a huge apology.. before cheating again. But there's no such thing as free lunch, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 06:07 PM
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I been saying !!!! Sergio/Felipe will build you a house and buy you Louis Vuitton purses and give you 3-4 children. Foreign hot dudes have no idea what the red pill is or what SMV is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 06:00 PM
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Okay so, a guy who's not prissy or metro but will let me paint his nails when I get bored or do facemasks with me while we smoke a blunt. I'm introverted/logical and I tend to prefer extro/emotional men which can be considered feminine. You know what's always sexy? Good bone structure. None of those metro kpop boys have especially weak chins, maybe compared to other races but they still have the same shit going just different packaging. Take the rainbow hair and tattoos off Tekashi 69, and that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 03:45 AM
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I hate it. I hate knowing that men only value me for my looks, how bubbly/"fun" I am, how young I am etc. It feels unfair that to be an alpha man and to be the best mate, you get to have your cake and eat it too. You can be a successful business owner, doctor, lawyer, whatever, and have a loving wife. Men don't give a shit about your interests, hobbies, goals, dreams, who you are. But it's the truth. I made a thread a while back which was about being respected/understood vs loved/cherished. I wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 03:36 AM
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You know, the amount of guys who try to flirt by saying "have my kids" instead of "I'm trying to wife you" is increasing. I think it's weird how common having out of wedlock kids is, that it's kinda just normal to have a kid with someone you don't wanna marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:06 PM
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I dislike being a woman. I just got my period for the first time in 7 months and I'm very deeply troubled how much my personality seems to change based on which hormones and chemicals my body decides to produce slightly more of that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:43 PM
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I'm pretty close with my first crush that didn't work out, and knew all his retarded buddies. They drool over the really quiet, slightly above average looking girls and create whole personalities for them in their heads without ever talking to them. "x is my wifeee she doesn't get into drama she's not a hoe she's smart she's loyal" whole time they've never said a word to the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 01:35 AM
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That's why I put the /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:02 PM
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I go to a high school that's a type of academy meant to have you finish HS and go straight to college early. It's not typical in any way, and my dating experience has mainly been with retarded guys. Most of them act extremely gay, want to save their virginity for marriage, or are ugly. I'm hot, but I don't have the shy quiet waifu personality that appeals to autists. I'm sure if I went to a normal school or left my house or checked Bumble I could change my femcel status.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:01 PM
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Ain't no alphas to speak of round these parts, partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:58 PM
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I have a masculine and offputting personality to males in the context of romantic relationships, but then again I'm 18 and mostly used to high school seniors with fortnite addictions or wannabe chad's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:53 PM
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Eh, I remember after I broke up with [redacted] he bought his new bitch a bouquet that was the size of a table.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 07:54 PM
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Ew. That is not what women are attracted to. This is exactly what we mean when we say we don't like gymbros.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 06:59 PM
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Buy me chick fil a. I have never been given flowers or anything :/. Even when I had a boyfriend he made up an excuse to not see me on valentines day. I don't like romance before I actually am into the guy, buying flowers won't make me wanna date you. But I appreciate it AFTER I like the guy. I like doing sweet things. I helped my ex get into the school I was going to, I made him an adorable Vday card, for other guys I was always doing shit for them to. I am a Femcel AMA /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 06:56 PM
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I'd probably have better chances at dating as a man. I'm "bisexual" but I date for marriage and couldn't marry a woman so it doesn't count, but chicks are easier to pick up than men. Have money, status, be attractive? Those are all things I do outside of the RMV/SMV. I'm not comfortable being in the "receptive" role, as I prefer to be aggressive and go after what I want. But, I'm 4'11 as a female. So.. do I retain my height, or could we bump that up to 5'4? I'd still be playing on hard mode but …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 03:12 PM
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He's still taller than me :/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 03:09 AM
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Hmm, some average looking ones too I guess. But there's really a lack of attractive men in my area period, even the dude I'm fucking right now would probably be considered ugly. He has a GREAT face, but he's like 5'2.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 02:45 AM
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Hm, I would say I am more fearful avoidant, or at least I was in the past. I think I'm less fearful and more just dismissive because now I don't attach so much emotional significance to my lack of partner. I take it as a compliment that I haven't found my match yet. I don't want to be tied down to just anybody, so I guess that comes across as fear of commitment. Last night, I had a dream that quite literally described me as a huge purple dragon. There was a voice telling me I was ridiculous for …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:27 PM
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I think there are more important things to look for instead of fun. The rest of my life is chaotic and regularly plays out like Random events in GTA V. I'd prefer a relationship that was peaceful and stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:20 PM
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Every day I'm on this sub I get pushed towards becoming WGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:15 PM
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I think I'm anxious-avoidant, Idk if thats the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:09 PM
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Atlas im trying to convince myself you're not just alternate universe me. In that thread when you said you looked like young madonna and francis bean cobain when you were younger I was spooked like shit cause I've heard that before. U give me goosebumps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 06:03 AM
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Hm, do you think all couples are the same then? I don't really desire feeling cherished or "loved" in the sense I think most people mean. I prefer being respected/needed, but I suppose that makes me unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:38 AM
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I think my desire for an equal relationship comes from the fact that I can't conceive someone loving someone and viewing them as inferior/viewing themselves as being dominant over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:35 AM
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What do you think is the female equivalent to the man needing respect? I basically view relationships similarly, however in the past I've given such respect and got nothing in return. If I treat a man like a king, I want to be treated like a queen, not a consort or a concubine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:33 AM
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The amount of people telling me I must be a man on here has tripled in the past week :/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 01:55 AM
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I am 100 percent woman thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 01:32 AM
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You ever like a guy, then when he likes you back, all he does is call you cute/beautiful and see you purely as an object of affection? It feels really slimy, and when I hear men talk about the women they love, its almost like how a parent would describe a child in a way. I'd rather be respected and admired than seen as cute or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:26 AM
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Dude this thread and all your comments are making me piss myself. I literally went "akekekekekekeke" out loud. Keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:19 AM
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Is that good or bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:12 AM
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I'm 18 lol but I've been told by a not insignificant number of people I'm a bit too mature for my age. My therapist suggested if I wanted marriage I'd probably need to go 15 years older lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:05 AM
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Eh, even them just talking about it makes me wanna throw up. I prefer to love, rather than be loved. I guess thats why I don't have orbiters, I don't waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:55 AM
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YES LMAO so many ugly guys like to try to tell me how they want to treat me right and spoil me and I'm like.... ew? I'd rather be in a relationship with a guy who's "Nice" but not always up my ass that I want to fuck than be with a clingy ugly guy. The only traits I look for in men are are they fun, sexy, can they make me feel something? I can provide for myself, intellectually stimulate myself etc. All I want is a sweet, sexy dumbass that will love me and bring whimsy to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:46 AM
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I'm a girl so I'm at the mercy of who approaches me, so rarely. I don't count instagram DMs from randos or whatever as approaches. Soooo wish I was a man, being able to approach seems way better. But I tried being direct in the past and direct basically translates as desperate. I have no interest in bumble, dating sites etc. I only feel comfortable with relationships or whatever that basically go from friend to dating. I can't be interested in a guy I just met and knowing how men view women they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:35 AM
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I don't make any guy wait, the only reason I would date is for (committed, regular) sex. I'm atypical and not representative of most women. But when I tried to date ugly men, I would always have to call up one of my sweet man bimbos to make me feel better. Then I just stopped trying to make it work with ugly men because I can't fuck a personality. Men's "commitment" means jack shit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:27 AM
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It sounds sweet. If I was that horny I'd just get a guy on the side or a vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 04:12 AM
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Being pumped and dumped isn't bad because she loses a sex partner. Women attach to men much more than the reverse. It's not a numbers game, as most men are unattractive to most women. When you find a guy that ticks most of your boxes and you get pumped and dumped, it's like getting kicked in the chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 04:09 AM
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Lol most peoples first time together is bad. What makes good sex is intimacy and communication and comfort. If he's not an asshole and cares about your pleasure he'll learn how to please you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 04:07 AM
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I tried both of these sites, they just suggest random asian people or people that do not resemble me in the slightest. IRL I always get compared to Kylie Jenner (the most)/Bella Hadid and Bhad Bhabie (LMAO) the most. Wide face, big eyes, semi noticeable nose, high cheekbones. I'm an ugly duckling, the same traits that made me look dorky as a kid make me look "elegant" or whatever now. I don't consider myself to be elegant but too many people have told me I give off celebrity or regal vibes. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 10:43 PM
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I've just had bad experiences in the past with sex, feeling like I'm performing or going through the motions, and giving head was often like 60 percent of the sex. It's like it makes me feel worse when I have casual sex cause it's like I'm not getting anything out of it, it feels even more submissive or w/e than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 08:09 PM
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Something I see around here "women who sleep with men early view them as more sexually valuable". Not true IMO. If I sleep with a man early it's because I feel like I'm not missing out on anything by sleeping with him, or I'm just checking to see if my pussy still works. Has nothing to do with the guy. I don't like waiting, because I find it stupid. But men don't respect or commit to women that sleep with them because men have some weird honor complex around sex and want to feel "challenged" or …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 01:25 AM
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Skincare- I luck out at TJ Maxx but if I can't find what I need there then it's like 30 for my cleanser alone. Nails, 40 bucks every week and a half (i have long coffin shaped nails, will never get rid of them) I used to waist train, but I've also lost a lot of weight since I started so I can't tell if it's helped that much. Idk if this counts, but a lot of guys are surprised at how little I eat. It's almost a turn off to them which confuses me. Like, you like my body, obviously. It took work to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 06:41 AM
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Yesssss they don't try to win you over with games or pretend to be interested in your hobbies, just sweet sexy dumbasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 02:39 AM
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That's why I'm staying single forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 08:25 PM
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How would I find out... seems invasive to just ask "were you getting any pussy in college? how much?" or whatever. The only thing that would turn me off is if a guy felt this was relevant enough for me to know. Do you wanna hear about how I'm a reformed whore that juggled substance abuse, eating disorders, using sex for validation? Probably not. It ruins the fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 03:16 AM
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F. No because I think someone is really great and I actually wanna give them a try then intimacy of any form happens and I become disgusted by them and myself. My only solution is to have FWB that have negative IQ that I'm attracted to and can't develop feelings for due to their small brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 03:07 AM
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I would rather rip off a fresh set of acrylics and eat them than be with a man that describes me as "pleasant, ditzy, arm candy, pleasing" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 03:01 AM
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Do you have snapchat? they have a little news section, vice columns, cosmo etc. Every day its a new article on "tfw you get ghosted after sex" "how to ask your hookup if theyve been tested" It's encouraging hookup culture. Listen to music now, even though I love me some City Girls or Cardi B, there's nothing empowering about sucking dick and "using guys for sex". It goes beyond TV shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:55 PM
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Why do men think the length of sex is a measure for how good it is? I can only stay wet for so long, if you keep jackhammering me I'm just gonna get bored and start thinking about how I need to schedule an appointment to get my broken nail fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:50 PM
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Idk if this is relevant to you, but it is to men in general, stop looking for masculine "familiar" traits in women. Be willing to accept the unknown. Show an appreciation for the feminine ways, and hone your masculine ways. Think- are you masculine enough yourself to have a feminine woman in your life, or do you want a bro with a vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:45 PM
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Omg, I fucking hate the changing positions shit so much. I need consistent stimulation to feel good, we can't just be changing shit up. And tbh when I'm on top it's like I can't even feel anything, certain positions are just worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:05 PM
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Even when sex is good, it's still at best mildly uncomfortable when he's literally hitting your cervix repeatedly with his 5 inches of pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:04 PM
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Then they're hypermasculine. Idk what else to tell you, that is not "women" thats a select few.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:17 PM
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Hypermasculine women I'm sure. Those types of women 99 percent of the time are crying 4 times a week alone at night. No mentally healthy woman thinks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:03 PM
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When a guy tries to seduce me and say he can last for an hour.. well let me get 15 mins and you can go beat your meat for 45 mins in the bathroom. I don't need friction burns on my cervix.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:00 PM
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To most women, sex isn't "Just sex" and women (after trying casual sex once or twice) usually come to the conclusion that it's not worth it. Society's attempts to desensitize us to sex, the most intimate and vulnerable act, is disgusting as fuck to me. I'm not a radical feminist, but I read this quote by who I assume was. It said men don't understand how women view sex. Women are told that sex makes them impure, that they need to look out for being "used" for sex, sayings like "why buy the cow i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:49 PM
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I'm too anti confrontation to break up with a guy cause he has a small dick. It's too late by then, I already committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:44 PM
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He has to work himself up to having value. So however quick or however long it took him to build it- it can be taken away in a second. I don't wanna hear any whining about how women are heartless, behind every sentiment like I just expressed is a woman who has given men love and respect deeper than you can imagine, to get nothing in return. AMALT, there are no unicorns, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:42 PM
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No automod: I'm definitely not an aspie but when I was a kid you'd think I was one. I'm less retarded now but still have "autistic" tendencies like being too in my head, being distant, not being very "fun". A lot of my guy friends make fun of me for looking like a high tier Stacey but having the mind of a NEET. Most men would not want to date an aspie even if she was hot, because they have a "manbrain" and you basically have to teach her how to be fun, how to deal with emotions etc. It would get…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 11:18 PM
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I think it's a turn off when there's too much "youre so beautifullllll" looks based compliments, pet names, or you can tell that hes just horny. I remember I was chilling with this one guy, I constantly kept saying "chill/get off me" cause he was like a dog humping my leg. I like physical affection but like... Calm the fuck down before I take you to the pound.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 11:05 PM
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A position of power... easily getting 5 disappointing minutes of plow time from most available men. I would literally rather rip off a fresh set of acrylics than do that. I guarantee most men could secure "commitment" from a woman 2 points below her lookswise but like how casual sex doesnt matter to women, being a betabux is not a mans priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:35 AM
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Something I recently said on another post: it's out of the individual woman's hands at this point whether she enters the workforce or not. Unless she MASTERS girl game and settles for a provider man 20 years older than her, she's gonna have to work. I think it's great that competent women that actually want to work and become doctors can do that, but the vast majority of PEOPLE aren't cut out for that, much less women. I'm starting to notice the amount of "decent" jobs with benefits are disappea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:32 AM
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How would I not be able to get sex? Would I have a chastity belt on? A scarlet letter of sorts? I can't even put myself in that category to begin with. If I suddenly woke up so ugly that no man would touch me with a ten foot pole, I wouldn't even want sex. I couldn't feel sexy so there would be no desire to begin with. I guess I'd rather be able to get neither, as I'm currently able to get sex I suppose and sex without a relationship is stupid. I'd rather masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:25 AM
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I mean.. yeah but we don't really have a choice. A woman who is a 9 will not be able to secure commitment from a 9 because any man above a 6 can get as much pussy as he wants, which is all men value until about 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 11:36 PM
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I really think... this is kinda backwards. I don't doubt your experiences, so maybe it's not backwards per se but something both sexes experience. Both genders think the grass is greener on the other side, the evil wimminz had the handbook on how men are and they're "naturally" redpilled/men are all victims of their hypergamous single mother's parenting style. Women have a redpill to swallow to per se. Most women are not taught how to get what they really want (commitment from high value man) an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 11:32 PM
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How long you want the relationship to last directly correlates to how long you make him wait. Why give it up now?
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 12:29 PM
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Women get made fun of for choosing stability and get made fun of for "chasing chad". We should just become nuns. I've honestly had RP guys be offended that I asked what could a woman due to secure an attractive man with most (not all, bc no one is perfect) of the traits women like. "cook, be hot, give BJs". That's just advice how to be a plate or a side hoe. The only logical solution is for women to ignore sexual attraction in order to get into a relationship that will be beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 02:09 AM
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I'll keep repeating this til the day I die, people on PPD need to stop mistaking women's dating choices for what they're sexually attracted to. Women are not "powersexual" women aren't sexually attracted to money or anything. They just don't think with their vaginas when it comes to relationships and a 45 year old with a good career that's ready to settle down is a more logical choice than the 23 year old cute and fun medical student.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 01:52 AM
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The breaking up party mentally breaks up with the person that has been broken up with before they know it. Getting blindsided happens often, to either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 09:14 PM
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They make the woman feel safe from other men. They're masculine and are a threat to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:40 PM
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I mean when I'm going through a rough patch or am just horny that day, I don't need comfort. But during every day life, I'd agree. however, I don't think it's because of "trust" or whatever, because sex to me isn't my most vulnerable or sensitive side. Like I can go out and fuck anyone. But I think its more of what you said, not feeling judged for being sexual. Or just the thought of being used as a cumrag is disgusting so if I were forced to engage in casual sex like how I am now because tfw no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:37 PM
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Hypothetically I'd agree with you, as I don't believe in casual sex. I think if a man gets a woman pregnant he should be forced to marry her. But, all "shoulds" and ethics get tossed out the window when push comes to shove. I'm strongly against abortion, but if I was pregnant now I'd start trying to induce a miscarriage asap. I'd kill a whole person if they were a threat to my life, much less 1/53 of a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:39 AM
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Seriously so thankful for the filter. I'm shaking in my little boots at the thought of that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:04 AM
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That's for the woman to decide. She has to carry the child. Sex has always been more risky for women, it's only fair to have an even playing field. If men want casual sex, which they do, they have to accept some risks as well. Until men have to start carrying children it should be the woman's choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:02 AM
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No. If I had to get an abortion I would because I'm going to do what's necessary, but it is a human life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:51 AM
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I mean I'm good. A relationship built on anger or "excitement" or feelings in general is doomed from the start. Refusing to feed into temper tantrums is how you avoid narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 05:10 AM
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Answering from my red perspective cause I'm bisexual but for ideology instead of sex: 1. no close friends. i have people that i let think are my close friends. but it's just different faces i put on for different people to meet different ends. 2. nah, i'd want way more. i just suck at opening up to people and it makes all of my friends mad lol. I wish I could have girls night out and shit. 3. yes, because once i stopped paying for shit or had my car accidents and couldn't drive anymore, or after…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 05:01 AM
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I think stoicism benefits men and women both. It's just a good way to be. It's not so much ignoring feelings more like realizing you have a feeling, recognizing it, and deciding to throw it away or keep it. Stoicism is the only way to avoid emotional manipulation and remain in control. I'm a stoic, though. Most guys I know don't like it, but oh well. I'm not here to play games. I don't entertain irrational angry emotional outbursts and if you try to elicit an emotional reaction out of me you'd h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:49 AM
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I think it's not a trap, it's showing a woman you value her. Men don't really emotionally invest before they financially invest or invest a lot of time. So I'd be SUS if a guy claimed he loved me or valued me and came to me with a little pandora ring. Like, would you go up to a Victoria's Secret angel with a pandora ring? I'm not gonna accept cubic zirconium. And neither will high value women. I wish it didn't have to be this way. But AMALT, watch what they do, not what they say. "I love you, a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 12:25 AM
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Consent to sex is consent to the possibility of pregnancy full stop. If a man "accidentally" has a kid he didn't want and the woman doesn't want to abort, he shouldn't be able to opt out. Should have discussed your values and morals before you fucked. I've miscarried as a teen, I've had pregnancy scares etc. I have skin in the game, consent to sex is consent to the possibility of pregnancy. If men wanna complain about how women have "all the power" they should go ask male seahorses for tips on c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 12:17 AM
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I'm very adamant on not settling in the looks department because physical attraction is very important to me. I think for women who value stability over risk taking, it makes sense not to consider looks so much. But I'm at my peak, I'm hot, young, etc so according to PPD I have about 5-7 years to find a man. I think women tend to settle in looks because when you're hot, your looksmatch is hot too and hot guys like slutting it up. I don't think men settle much on looks mostly because guys value p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 08:33 PM
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I actually think a lot of his fanbase is teenage girls and DJ Akademiks. Every male I know says he's really ugly or he's a clown. Idc about his rapping skills or none of that, he's just cute and he's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 12:44 AM
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Casual sex is terrible for most women, because sex for women is 90 percent mental. Also men don't respect or commit to women that are the town bicycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:37 PM
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Speak for yourself. I'm a neurotic female with a God complex and I'm boring as hell in bed. Seems I'm the only girl that's not eating ass these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 08:49 AM
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Some women just have odd preferences. I'd say women prefer metrosexual pretty boys even more with the new "soft boi" trend. I'm weird myself, I think I've said it before but generic sexy "Chads" like Chris Evans or Chris Pratt or any of the chrises do nothing for me and many women agree. I honestly don't know any woman irl attracted to Jason momoa besides myself, and I have.... weird taste. No man is more attractive to me than tekashi 69, at least without his ugly hair and rainbow teeth. I love …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 08:23 AM
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I'm 4'11 which is the same as being tall for a man, I have 36 DD, I'm like 120 lbs, last time I measured I'm 38-26-41, my only major facial flaws are a small bump on my nose from wearing glasses and some acne and I look like every basic bitch celebrity hot girl (megan fox, kylie jenner, bella hadid) had a kid. Not gonna dox myself to win ppl over on a debate sub. The dude that took my virginity nutted twice in five minutes. My pussy is both a blessing and a curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:00 AM
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Guess my problem is tfw no son bf :/. I used to get super maternal over all my boyfriends/love interests when I was like 15-16 and I'm just now stepping out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:39 PM
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The initial post was meant to mock the assumption that it's easy and effortless to get and keep men because they're simple. The feeling I didn't convey properly was the frustration aspect, because if men are so simple all they need is sex and food and for you to be hot, where's my man at? No one really says men are people too and sometimes you can be Ms Right and he just doesn't feel it for you. Similar to the nice guy "niceness tokens = sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:37 PM
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Future is the male beyonce
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:34 PM
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Basically. All the advice given for women is basically "dont be a bitch, cook, be hot" which is almost insulting. It's like advice on how to be a plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:31 PM
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That's what this post was saying. There's no one telling women how to secure what they want "men are simple hes stupid youre great he just doesnt know what hes missing" instead of how to make yourself what men will commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 05:13 AM
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The worst thing about living in a society where hypothetically, you can choose to recreate the tradcon dream or whatever, you really can't. It's not like "You can choose modernity or tradcon, free will bro" its now it's literally almost impossible to not comply with modernity. I can't so freely choose to be a stay at home mom. The male unicorn that wants a nuclear family and not to ride the pussy carousel has few options for a nice stay at home wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 01:47 AM
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It's sad. I don't make the rules and I wish it was possible to find an attractive dude my age to settle down with but of course the good looking young guys wanna have their fun. So a girl's gotta BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 01:39 AM
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Gaston was effeminate. He was only concerned with societal approval and being attractive. He was an extremely girly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 11:39 PM
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Funniest exchange I've seen on ppd all week
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 10:41 PM
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Men can't comprehend (some) women don't make partner choices based on attraction. Rich old ugly men are not attractive. They're not a turn on. They're a logical choice. The type of men I find attractive vs the type I'm going to marry is probably different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 10:39 PM
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When I was a kid, up until I was 16, I remember my mother yelling at me for the most asinine reasons, bringing me to the edge of tears, and would then call me manipulative for crying. Or my favorite, when I was 10 and she was threatening to kick me out of the house for bouncing up and down when she was talking (i have ADHD), later in the week said I was so emotional that night because I got my first period. I've had many a male love interest claim after I moved on they knew when they were making…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:14 AM
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It was just a prank bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:08 AM
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In general if someone has something negative in their bio its usually a reflection of themselves. Can you explain what you mean by holding low value for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:00 AM
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TIL I behave like a man. I will never show emotions, weakness etc to men I'm with. I personally believe from experience that emotions are just weaknesses that people will exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:36 PM
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I think women have a quality that makes us see the best in people. So while our parents might warn us that all men are pervs, we don't see it in our men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:28 PM
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Sometimes it makes me feel hopeless. I know almost all the games men play now. Reading people say things like "How can I love a woman if I can't idealize her as a pure being of light and purity" makes me want to vomit. I still have hope one day I'll be in a loving relationship. But it diminishes every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:26 PM
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People treat me with respect now. It's easy to treat a chubby out of shape girl that looks like she doesn't love herself like she's nothing. So I lost weight, stopped wearing baggy clothes, getting my nails done, getting into a better mindset. But now, I know that my SMV is higher than any of my exes that treated me badly. I could go out there and get a man that does 10 times more for me. Even regular people just treat me better. My friends used to make "playful" comments or roast me, but I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:12 PM
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Chad has the same rules as anyone else. If it slips out more than twice... pack it up you clearly don't know what you're doing son.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 02:45 AM
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The only uniform advice on communication is: You are responsible for how you feel. No one can make you feel or think anything. No one is responsible for your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:34 AM
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Being hot. My current sex partner can have multiple orgasms despite me being a complete pillow princess. Men, how to be good at sex: Lots of nonsexual touching leading up to the act. Less porn shit like changing positions 50 times or whatever. Also stop going in and out rapidly. It feels better when you're going deeper and actually stay inside of the vagina. When you do the extreme thrusting thing, especially if she's really wet, your dick is gonna slip out or in certain positions it can cause r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:29 AM
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I'm not a neopagan rule of 3 i hate my christian parents witch. I'm a spiritual alchemist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:51 PM
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I prefer getting to choose who I sleep with as opposed to needing to do it for a job. The natural chemistry is better than letting some fat old man dick you for an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 07:08 PM
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He values sex more than me. Obviously. Sex 99 percent of the time is for men. I mean, it's alright, but not something I'd go out of my way to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 06:29 PM
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That's funny, as I like to imagine myself as a warm person. Guess I don't project that well enough. I see what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 06:26 PM
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As opposed to having sex for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 06:25 PM
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I mean I'm letting him come to my place and fuck. All that strenous physical exercise makes me hungry lol. He gets to nut 3 times, I get some waffle fries from Chick fil a.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:57 AM
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Because we're friends... with benefits... I'm not a warm hole on two legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:52 AM
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I'm an attractive female, I don't ever get cold approached. I'm 4'11 and tend to look like a cold, standoffish child. Most of my friends tell me they've been cold approached, even the ones uglier than me. Idk the variables or the science behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:42 AM
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Personally, I do have a fwb situation. Admittedly I was hopeful it would be something "more", even if it wasn't dating. I don't think anyone likes the idea of being a cumrag and then being thrown out, only called upon when he needs sex. If we're gonna be fwb, we need the friend component too. At the very least, bring me some Chick fil A or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 12:52 AM
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Yeah. I don't like people that are always trying to outsmart someone or try to be the smartest person in the room. Men that think too much are unsexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:28 PM
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Because people aren't food... idk. Have you ever been in love? If you're in love, you'll get over being bored. I don't see how you can get bored of a person tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 04:03 AM
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Glad to be reaffirmed yet again I am way above average... it's lonely at the top. All this shrimp and nobody to share it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:01 PM
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I suppose I don't understand wanting variety, must be a man thing. I don't see why you would get into a relationship if you didn't see someone as the be all end all. Why get emotionally involved if you know it's not gonna last? That's just a waste of feelings and time. Also, about the boring thing, that seems to be a male fear. Relationships aren't meant to be fun 24/7. Just get a golden retriever if you want fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 08:42 PM
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His personality type is generic hispanic dude. Dresses pretty good, always working or partying, lives with his family. He tried to pursue me for a while but one day I finally let him come over and what he lacks in being a good conversationalist or having good taste in movies he makes up for in being chill/comfortable initiating contact and intimacy. He's also stupid. By him being stupid- his favorite movie is Hostel. Not even ironically. It's an okay movie.. it's funny I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 03:01 AM
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Nah. But face/looks > height any day of the week and most hispanic guys have good faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:43 AM
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The men I've had STR with/ONS with were DTF that night lol. I never just decided randomly to have a STR or ONS it was always just a lets see what happens thing. They just happened to reach out to me and be available on a night I needed to make sure my pussy still worked. My current fuckbuddy- he's basically my type to a T. Ugly/sexy (depending on ur taste) short hispanic dude with the iq of a toothpick. I'd LTR him if he asked to be in a LTR I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:32 AM
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I agree with 99 point 9 percent of his ideology. He was a brilliant man. Not to mention the MK ultra stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:16 AM
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INTJ... it's like having autism powers. Most people don't assume I am one though. For the 3 people that do believe in astrology here, I'm a Libra rising, Leo venus, and my lilith is in pisces, my moon is Capricorn. They seem completely incompatible with INTJ as those are all like Chadlike placements tbh. I think I like being INTJ. I think Ted Kacynski was. I think the best thing about being INTJ is the fact that I can so easily temporarily switch up my personality because I like to entertain mul…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:53 AM
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Yes, yes, yes a thousand times. I'm literally in love with myself to the point where the guys I like tend to look like me. I have flaws, sure. But I even love how my hips are slightly squared or my nose bump. Although... I'm a major pillow princess. So I wonder, would I as a man be the same way? Idk how that would work. "no YOU get on top, no YOU get on top"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:46 AM
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This seems like great advice for getting pumped and dumped. These traits alone are not enough to get a man to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 09:54 PM
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LTR and marriage. To me, marriage is the goal of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 07:01 PM
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"How do I make myself seem wife material while also not a prude while also being loving while not becoming too emotionally attached while exploring my options while also developing a relationship". Being pursued is not easy work. You have to do a lot of acting because men lose interest FAST.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 05:11 PM
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It is negative... men aren't women. Unless we're all living in some big dyke universe. There needs to be some polarity... yin yang etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:58 AM
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I completely agree lol. I'm super fucking sick right now so my brain isn't cooperating, but I basically keep saying this. I'll probably edit this comment to say some smart shit tomorrow morning. I see a lot of men basically giving up their end of the deal in regards to seducing, providing etc because they think Sex is mutually beneficial. 99 percent of the time- sex is for men. I know guys personally that are so picky when it comes to girls and they're like a 6 or 7 at best. They're like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:08 AM
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A man that's - not ugly - not retarded - knows what he wants (Most Important) - has drive/ambition - sense of humor - is into her - chill/relaxed - emotionally intelligent - interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:01 AM
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Not really. I don't like older guys- or even stereotypically handsome guys. My friends make fun of me for liking a particular "type" of ugly. I like guys with wider faces, pretty eyes, big(ish) or interesting noses, thick eyebrows, and nice lips. Sounds generic, but most of the normal pretty boys or "chads" PPD likes to use for examples appeal to me at all. I think I like guys that look like me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:57 AM
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Not really, as long as I had that explanantion. I find it more of a red flag when a man has a history of "crazy" exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 06:48 PM
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Women no longer need men... most are perfectly fine by themselves. If they want a man and he adds value, great. But most women have higher standards because now they can go out and get shit for themselves. In the past, it was "marry this fat ugly asshole with a shack and be his stay at shack wife or die". So women took what they could get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 06:41 PM
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What world are these people living in that a non-retarded woman would stay in an LTR with a man that was an inconsiderate brute? I next guys immediately when they try to do any RP type shit like use dread game or if they're not actively pursuing. People create all these mindgames in their own head... it's crazy. Just follow your intuition. A guy in tune with his intuition that doesn't have to ask redditors for dating advice is pretty sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 06:38 PM
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Compliments from men I know, compliments from women I know/women I don't know. Compliments from strange men seem weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:21 PM
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Yes but that's because I'm cute and when I mess up I'm quick to acknowledge it and work on it. Ugly girls at my last job got treated worse than dirt. Female, 17
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:35 AM
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Think of Gaston from beauty and the beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:30 AM
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This guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:29 AM
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When I say feminine, think of Gaston from beauty and the beast. They become players, disenchanted by women as a whole. They expect what they want, when they want it. Roosh experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:29 AM
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No and yes. Sex is an exchange of energy. Women accumulate too much masculine energy through promiscuity and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:09 AM
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Hell yes. I invited a dude that was trying to get at me for years to come over and take it cause I wanted to not have feelings involved. It was ass. He nutted twice in five minutes. I blocked him the next day. I was literally mad at all men for like two weeks straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:06 AM
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Best time to be a woman? Lol. Decent men are so hard to come by, if you're a woman and want marriage and kids with a man that has a good paying job, is your looksmatch, won't cheat, isn't 10 years older than you- good luck. It's only easier for masculine women. Society actively punishes feminine women that don't want to be just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 01:36 AM
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Adderall, cold brew with almond milk, and nicotine are the 3 major nutrition groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 06:41 PM
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Okay so clearly my words failed me. The first traumatized me. I read Crime and Punishment 3 times front to back and cried so many times because I felt so disgusting. There's nothing that guy could have done. I wasn't attracted to him, I didn't like him. I blocked him as soon as he left my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:18 AM
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Without going into tooooo much detail abt my sex life, the difference between rape and "ravishment" is this from my experience. Me telling this dude I was having a ONS with that under no circumstances, put it in my ass. I wasn't being coy. I clearly straight faced said do not. He did it anyways. I wasn't present during the whole scenario anyways, it felt like I was out of my body. My current fuckbuddy: while we're cuddling in bed or whatever, I playfully tell him "get off me". He doesn't, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:53 AM
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Be the kind of man your ideal girl would want. I advise this for both genders. What kind of women do you like? What do they like?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:34 PM
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But can they do the BEST? A top 20 percent of men can have it all, a top 60 percent of women can have a lot. But what does it take to become the best of the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:32 PM
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Most people, barring extreme facial features which are not average, if they learn what works best for their face. Haircuts, beard or no beard, glasses or no glasses, can work on their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:30 PM
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Ew. She's a baby. She just finished high school. What would an adult have in common with a teenager? Teenage girls interests are basically selfies, drinking, smoking, going to the mall, hanging out with their friends, or going to some football game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 09:32 PM
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Tbh I think it is more socially acceptable to say you don't want kids. All of my friends, professors etc look at me like I'm crazy when I say I want to get married before 25 and have at least 3 kids. I have no family, my dad's family are troubled immigrants that hid everything from the old world and plus he's like 70, my first cousins are 40. My moms family are hicks and fat weirdos that seem content to stay in hicktown for the rest of their lives, talking about all their illnesses all day and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 09:20 PM
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Nah, I think quiet dudes who are obsessed with being stoic or intelligent are very unattractive. Give me a stupid yet attractive physically fit man over a 150 iq soy boy any day, I can be the brains of the relationship and he can be the muscle. Together we can take over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:44 PM
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This is why I only take good nudes. I'd feel proud if a guy was showing my nudes to his friends, it's not like I take those gross labia close ups. We're talking body oil, Victoria's Secret glitter spray, lighting, angles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:31 AM
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Getting nicotine poisioning and playing sonic adventure 2... it's Thursday.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:26 AM
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I could do polyamory as long as it was me and multiple dudes, who I would all love equally and they were all young hotties that had multiple skills and were willing to use those skills to assist me in world domination. I suppose this is unrealistic, and it's unlikely that I can find 3 sexy and intelligent mid 20's men to worship me and revere me like a cult leader. I've been told men have this silly thing called dignity....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:24 AM
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I don't think it's sexism, it's being nice. I've never seriously seen any feminist (and I used to be a gender critical radical feminist, I know my shit) say it was sexist for a man to hold the door for her or help her with lifting something heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:13 AM
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I love when guys get sick lol it makes me feel like I can take care of him. I just hate the fucking whining they do while they're sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:10 AM
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Right. I swear, us women need our own redpill sub. Too bad all the pill colors are taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:53 AM
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If he's a multi millionaire and I'm the favorite- so I get to be the benevolent manager of all the sister wives while being the Real Wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 11:48 PM
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Being 4'11 seems to work well. Most guys won't hit on a girl that looks 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 11:44 PM
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I'd probably feel moderately satisfied being a man because IMO it's easier. I naturally have a lot of masculine energy, I'm not "actively" bisexual or a lesbian, but I used to earnestly think and believe I was a lesbian. Attractive women flocked to me when I was dorky looking and skinny fat. Before I began my spiritual journey (femininity), I always found "man" stuff easy, I'm funny, charismatic, almost obnoxious sometimes. I was a natural Bro. I would never struggle as a man, even with my short…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:02 AM
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I think more women are hardwired to use phrases like "I see where you're coming from" "That's interesting, but" "I can totally see why you think that" etc. Even if they're just thinking it, not typing it. I try to really empathize with everyone's viewpoints and don't try to discredit people's lived experiences. Women are more open minded in general. Men are more likely to go off Ben Shapiro style "facts don't care about your feelings". Men are more "point a, point b, that's it, bitch". Women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:18 AM
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I used to think all guys were simple creatures and it would be as simple as picking out which one I want and running with it. To get a man to want you, it's so hard. Not sexually of course, that's easy. But to get LTR'd, it's difficult. Now, it's not difficult for me to get men to chase me, but I'm very guarded and I tend to reject everyone for no apparent reason. I fell for the "being a good woman" meme. Going 50/50, buying him things, texting first, showing interest. Doesn't work. Being a bitc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:09 AM
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I used to think it was friendship and sex, but i got fuckzoned/hoezoned too many times for it to make sense. All the dudes that fuckzoned (well mostly not full on fuck zone, but like sending nudes and flirting zone) me, we would have hours long conversations, I'd hang out with their friend groups etc. I think love is about understanding a person's bad side and good side, and everything in between. Respecting what they do and admiring them for who they are. Being proud to stand next to someone, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:57 PM
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No, I wouldn't care. If I genuinely like him, then I'm happy he finally made the right choice to get with me. That was always the fantasy, back in my Beta days, anyways. After he's done chasing these thots he'll finally see that I'm right here :'(.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:56 PM
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I'm not gonna lie, my ADHD did not allow me to read all of that, but what I read was very interesting OP. I think many men on the manosphere equate shit like hookup culture with the female imperative, when in reality most women don't really want to bang endless chads. Most women irl (that obviously dont have n counts of 1000) have probably tried hooking up once or twice, it didn't work out for them. But they still in someway contributed to hookup culture. Hookup culture really benefits men, who …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:45 PM
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I just had to fill up a whole bunch of juul pods with salt nic. Overall terrible juul experience but it does what's required.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:17 PM
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Woman: I encouraged my ex to open up only because he would do things like ignore me for 2 days because he needed "space from everything" and would give me the silent treatment if I made him mad. My innocent minded self took this as him just going through rough times and trying even harder to make the relationship work. Strangely, I find you don't need to tell men who want to be with you to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:40 PM
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Maternal instinct is completely irrational. Logically, I'd say kill the baby cause we can have another one. But in high school, I had an early miscarriage and I didn't even know I was pregnant. The "baby" was like a blood clot basically. Given the choice, I'd still die for that little fucker. That little blood clot looking thing that was the product of shitty car sex with my ex boyfriend, it changed a lot of my beliefs. He got a new girl pregnant though, and I had a bit of a Maleficent moment. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:05 AM
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When women say they want guys to act a certain way, we mean the men we LIKE. We would like the men who we're in relationships with or sexually interested in to be good listeners, kind and empathetic etc. But those traits alone aren't sexually attractive, they're just basic traits of a good person you wanna be around. My friends are all those things- do I wanna fuck them? Sometimes. That's not the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:51 AM
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Hm, I got cold approached at a concert by some cute guy and he had a friend for my friend but her dyke ass wanted to be "loyal to her boyfriend" and wouldn't let me go with him because I was sleeping at her house that night and I didn't have my car. We were supposed to go to an afterparty then Waffle House. So, not a dateee, but he still hits me up regularly. I'm an actual hermit though, so I have yet to hang out with him again. I never get cold approached, probably because I'm 4'11 and look ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:40 AM
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A guy who knows how to listen. I know you're an alpha and all but not every conversation is a script where you're CHRISTIAN BALE and I'm GIRL 4. If I say something, and you can say something intelligent back, you're ahead of the game. Most guys social skills: "wyd" "haha yeah thats crazy" "oh damn that sucks" "I see" Not taking me or yourself too seriously, like I wanna be able to tell you about a weird dream I had without you looking at me like I'm schizo. Perhaps you could even tell me about a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:33 AM
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That's interesting. I think one of the reason me and my ex never worked out is because he couldn't impress me much. I had feelings for him, and I didn't care about seeing him at the top of the dominance hierarchy or whatever, but I suppose he felt like less of a man. I never yawned when he was telling his stories or whatever, but our mutual "interest" was drugs. My ex was a wannabe narco, and my dad was a big time dealer back in the day and most of his side of the family was involved in that shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:25 AM
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I grew up thinking men would value me for my autistic (Im probably not autistic actually, but when I was a child I definitely seemed autistic from no peer to peer social interaction plus a whole bunch of shit) INTJ tendencies and I'd find a man who liked all of my nerdy interests etc. Now I'm like a normie but on purpose and try very, very hard to conceal any interests and hobbies I have. It kinda sucks, but because I used to be such a sperglord, I've grown to see myself as a walking cringe comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:19 AM
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I think when the man thinks he's a catch and he chose you out of all his other options, it creates instability in the relationship and theres all kinds of room for manipulation there. These types of men will become hypergamous, so I guess they do become women in a sense. However, I refuse to date ugly men. Men I have not the slightest initial attraction to, no way. But theres a whole lot of gray area between "Never in a million years" to "fuck me now". There are some guys I interact with on a da…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:36 AM
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Because of men's thirst, even the most undesirable woman will not totally be out of the dating market. Out of the married to a respectable, above average man market, yes. I wanna make a real redpill sub for women to give them girl game but all the pill colors are taken smh,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:10 PM
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Men don't really respect women that they don't have to work for though. So if you're chasing after a guy, it makes him not want to be with you. If a woman is in the position of having to prove herself to a man, she's already lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:04 PM
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Hm I've only had one relationship, my friend was posting me and he texted her and said "you didn't tell me you had cute friends"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:07 PM
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I used to when I first discovered TRP or this side of the internet. I'm somehow a perfectionist that wants One Answer and also the type of person to view everything from every perspective imaginable. I used to panic over my past sexual history, which really is not that bad at ALL, but my neurotic tendencies combined with my natural Catholic guilt complex and some of the more extremist TRP views about women... I'd go insane trying to figure out how to rectify the past and how to atone for my sin …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:22 AM
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Communication helps. Just straight up tell him "I don't like this position, I'm not getting on top, I don't suck dick" What's he gonna do? He'll be mad? He'll be uPsEt? Not upset enough to walk out of your bedroom with an erection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 01:00 AM
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Because we want to see you do better and rational discussion won't work. I remember with my first love, he was in debt to a lawyer for a speeding ticket, skipping all his classes, being a slacker in general. I tried to be empathetic. I tried to help him. But sometimes, he was just so fucking stupid, I would lose my shit and go off like "YOU HAD 3 MONTHS TO SAVE UP FOR THAT SPEEDING TICKET AND YOU LOST YOUR LAWYERS PHONE NUMBER? WHAT THE FUCK"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:55 AM
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"I'm going to get it done regardless". I stopped giving a fuck about being a Tradwife for a perfect Tradhusband that doesn't exist and trying to study what do men like and what do they want how can I get him to commit etc. I made a list of everything I want to do in life, go on my spiritual journey, teach people, travel, live my best life. If I have a husband, a FWB, a string of hookups all across the world, whatever. I'm going to get WHAT I want, and not give a fuck about WHO I want, because I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:51 AM
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Being really, really girly will always draw men to you. Don't believe that being low maintenance is the way to go. Politely ask men to do things for you (this makes them value you, because why would they do things for you if you weren't valuable), practice saying "Oh, I can't do that, I'd break a nail!". When a man has to take care of you, some part of his lizard heart opens up. Be really sweet, make a LOT of eye contact in conversations, ask questions, make him do 80 percent of the talking, mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:40 AM
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Don't know if it's love.... but with my current "man"/fuckbuddy, this was the first time I was actually present during intimacy and sex and actually wanted to have it and felt comfortable expressing my desires and discomforts "Change positions, I don't wanna be on top" instead of silently dreading what I thought was how sex was supposed to be. Also being able to enjoy someones presence, having them kiss all over you and smile at you etc. It's breathtaking. I always thought sex was fake and gay u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:34 AM
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I'd be loyal and 100 percent truthful and committed to a guy that had the capacity to feel as deeply as I do. Most of my posts make me sound very cold hearted, when it's just a defense mechanism. My number one fear is putting my all into someone and them being like "So?".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:34 PM
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Because someone being raped is an actual crime that can be prosecuted. What are we supposed to do to "fix" the problem of being an incel? Accost random women on the street and force them to date ugly men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:26 AM
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Women don't really use sexual attraction or "compatibility for the most part when thinking about a mate. It's just not really logical. The dude at the bodega that's always smoking newports and whistling at women could lay pipe like a plumber. Good dick/sexual attraction being the reason a woman gets into a relationship would be the downfall of society as we know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:22 AM
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I have the guy I'm fucking right now, my friend's boyfriend (I basically third wheel for them as he tries to find me a man), and some male aquaintances. I can only have male friends that are in relationships because I know they aren't trying to fuck, and I have to be friends with their gf now. I find it hard to be friends with men because tbh they're good friends for a while until they get too horny one day and try to escalate. I stopped really having male friends unless they're gay or in a rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:11 AM
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An incels whole life is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 06:26 AM
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I always find the phrase "access to sex" funny like there should be breadlines for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:55 AM
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Chick fil A at the mall while thirdwheeling with my friend and her boyfriend. They're goals, I wish I could find a man like him :/.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:44 AM
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Not really. I hate it when random thirsty men message me or like my pictures. I like validation from cool people, men or women. I don't feel validated when a bunch of dudes message me after posting a cute pic... like I know I'm cute. But I do like getting a bunch of likes because it's good for engagements. I use social media to make money, not for imaginary validation or for male attention. I'm actually trying to find a way to get more female followers, as they're more likely to raise engagement…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:39 AM
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I believe in immanent polytheism. The essence of most polytheism isn't that every god is different and that we can all defer to whichever we choose, it's that there's a SOURCE or Ultimate power that takes the form of multiple gods to make itself known to its Devotees. I am VERY religious and spiritual. I have epilepsy, which is believed to have been what a lot of shamans and oracles had in the past. I am soo highly intuitive and easily contact my chosen deities or spirits. So. 1. I believe that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 09:17 PM
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Women want commitment/security like men want sex. Women want SEX the way men want it... when they're on their period, when they've had a dry spell, or when they've had 3 shots of tequila.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 09:09 PM
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Hmm all I have to say to this is I don't like it. I appreciate your well thought out comment and I have to admit that it's most likely true but I dislike the fact that you brought this to my attention and now feel very discontented. I don't think I can not be loved, but I would rather be needed or respected IMO. Idk, I don't really have any thought that makes me feel better about this situation. I just have a bunch of reactions. I think it's the power imbalance that makes me so uncomfortable wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 09:07 PM
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Hmm I think that's why I'm uncomfortable with the idea of a relationship with a man. I don't think men see me as vulnerable, cute, but not anything you described. When a man I'm talking to starts to talk about me in that type of manner where he's just gushing on me I wanna vomit. It makes me feel like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:21 PM
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Some muslim girls are literally such bros because around non muslim men they basically ARE bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:17 PM
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Tbh, I wouldn't want to be idolized the way some men idolize their women. It's cute.. for them. But I want to be seen as a complex human being, not a fixation. People can always find a new "muse" per say, but will never forget someone they admired for their capabilities rather than projected feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 03:09 AM
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Shame on who? Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 12:49 AM
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Do you know what your love language is? Mine's physical touch, I think yours could be too. Nonsexual physical touch and sexual touch are sooooo important to me. I'm not very emotionally clingy, but I will literally JUMP on my man when he tries to go home. I think this makes dating kind of difficult because physical touch is so important to me but only with someone who's very comfortable initiating, and I fear coming off as hypersexual when really I just like being touchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 12:44 AM
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Hey, I had to work for the abundance mentality. I was a oneitis fiend, when I had my Unicorn I was convinced I'd be nothing without him, there was just something so spesssshuuuulllll about him I would never find in any guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 12:29 AM
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I just recently am in a situation with a guy where we can just lay in bed and make out or wrap our arms around each other and shit, I wasn't a virgin before I met him, but that was more impactful to me than losing my virginity lmfao. Foreplay or w/e isn't just a meme, to me it's the most important part of sex. I don't even consider the times I awkwardly went through the motions of being penetrated to be sexual or intimate at all. I think this is why women don't really like hook ups or ONS that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 12:28 AM
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