vesselofmadness Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How to talk to a girl on call? Girls lose interest in me when I talk to them on call. Both text or call should be for the purpose of setting up the date.	/r/seduction	10/06/22 05:52 AM
1	F(19) Attracted to (19) Boyfriend’s Best (24) Youre entertaining the thought, perhaps encouraging it. Like i said, its not uncommon to be attracted to someone else, but you seem to be pursuing when you say he wont make eye contact, as youre effectively seeking it. Youre virtually emotionally cheating on him. It sounds like your seeking approval from random internet strangers to take it to the next step and get physical. If your communication with your partner is so solid, you will tell him about it, which i geuss you havent. Either tell him…	/r/seduction	10/06/22 04:41 AM
2	F(19) Attracted to (19) Boyfriend’s Best (24) Theres nothing wrong with being attracted to someone else but its obvious youre not mature enough to let it go. Your relatio snship is doomed either way you look at it. So is their friendship.	/r/seduction	10/06/22 03:57 AM
115	A stranger I met gave the perfect analogy on how to attract women: "Women are like fish. Make a net. A strong one. As good as you can make it. She'll swim until she becomes curious, and once she's caught in your embrace, she's all yours." The net works fine.The only problem i have is witnesses....	/r/seduction	28/03/22 03:03 AM
3	Girl ghosted me… a boyfriend in just a few days after. Wtf? Cheating is only if youre already exclusive. Still a dick move though	/r/seduction	22/07/21 06:18 AM
1	Girl ghosted me… a boyfriend in just a few days after. Wtf? She might have had you both going at the same time. Doesnt matter. Jus tell her if she changes her mind to call you. keep doing your thing and do not reach out to her. Dont even like photos etc until she reaches out.	/r/seduction	22/07/21 06:07 AM
2	How to Pick up Girls at a Beach? (at night) Settle in, dont give them any attention, (like looking at them) then say hello when the opportunity lresents itself. You establish that youre not a threat then establish freindliness.	/r/seduction	10/07/21 06:48 AM
2	Is it normal to strike out this much? Cool. Its also a good way to discover things you might not realise that you enjoy. Im in a population below 300k. Getting out of my comfort zone and getting out there has been the best thing so far. Because of that, when i go out i am also more out going. Having more female friends gives you access to more women through their groups and social proofing. Wish you well brother	/r/seduction	29/06/21 03:06 AM
2	Is it normal to strike out this much? Do stuff with freinds you have made. Befreind even the girls you arent interested in. Create some sort of event. Ie dinner, go riding with new friends, or do a weekend trip with freinds. Throw out invites to your usual hobbies. Most people meet their long term partners through friends. Freinds will invite their other freinds, then you may meet someone like minded with similar interests. Its also okay to try a random hobby and drop it if you dont like it. Could pick up a sport at a club then move…	/r/seduction	29/06/21 01:05 AM
4	Is it normal to strike out this much? Party girls are a hard crowd to pull if your not a 9 or 10 yourself. Also they may not be the type of person you would want to give your virginity to. Try within or expanding your freind group. If you cant expand your freind group, pursue a hobby.	/r/seduction	28/06/21 12:29 PM
2	What behaviors signal that you are alpha ? Came to say this.	/r/seduction	20/06/21 12:24 PM
12	Girl completely ignored me during a party after flirting throughout the whole previous day Yup. Dont take it personally. If you get bitter about it itl never happen. She might have been interested in the other dudes. Dont compare yourself. It doesnt mean they are better than you. At that momemnt she wasnt interested. That is all. You dont own her, nore does she own you. You have every right to hit up other girls. Have fun n dont get attached to outcomes or pedestal that chick. Jus keep enjoying yourself and she might come around. If not her loss.	/r/seduction	15/05/21 07:50 AM
5	Do you approach enough? Wrong, its just sexual harrasment.	/r/seduction	14/04/21 05:40 AM
2	Best way to go about a girl playing games with me Classic one-itis.Youre still too invested. She can see it. Your best off just letting it fade out again or realise that its never going to happen and not pursuing so much. Perhaps as the occasional hookup every month or so, as a backup. Not a primary. Start focusing your time on other girls. You might just find someone that reciprocates, rather than jus giving you hurdles and disrepect. Dont have to burn the bridge out of spite. Moral of the story is if youre confused youre about to learn someth…	/r/seduction	12/03/21 09:02 AM
1	IDK WTH to do, last year i told this girl that i was in love with her then we ceased all contact. this new year she txtd me wishing me a happy new year. If shes reaching out you could take the opportunity to hang out, have fun, hook up. But its likely this wont be a long term thing.	/r/seduction	06/02/21 01:58 AM
1	IDK WTH to do, last year i told this girl that i was in love with her then we ceased all contact. this new year she txtd me wishing me a happy new year. Shes keeping e door open. Monkey branchers usually do that when they are looking for an attention or the next due before the end of the current relatioship. Let her go. If you end up together she"ll do the same to you when shes bored.	/r/seduction	05/02/21 08:50 AM
19	What’s a good response for “on a scale of 1-10 how much do you miss me?” from girlfriend that’s been too busy? Who dis new phone	/r/seduction	25/11/20 10:07 AM
1	The game still applies in this age? Thered be some useful application's but i wouldnt invest heavy in canned material, peacocking and negging. Its more about becoming your ideal self, being social and setting boundries.	/r/seduction	21/08/20 09:58 AM
3	The game still applies in this age? Pua has evolved more into personal development. Which is far healthier in my opinion, as its aimed at becoming a well rounded man. Neil straus wrote another book against pickup, after writing the game. Checkout corey wayne, fearless man, RSD (real social dynamics) and robert glover.	/r/seduction	20/08/20 07:21 AM
1	She gave her number to someone else Sounds like she telling you to make some moves	/r/seduction	10/07/20 10:31 AM
1	Rejection is success Id rather get rejected at risk of getting my dick wet. Sometimes the fear of rejection is real though	/r/seduction	27/06/20 08:27 AM
6	Rejection is success You miss all the shots you dont take.	/r/seduction	26/06/20 11:40 AM
1	[25M] Single for 3 years now. Need advice. Id suggest go out and just be social, and have fun. Youre putting too much emphasis on being accepted or trying to pull a girl. that screams validation seeking and outcome dependency (Im guilty of it) When you let go of that and jus have fun youl find girls will put themselves in your orbit. The main goal is have fun. Ps when you do pull, dont get clingy	/r/seduction	26/01/20 06:23 AM
0	My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it. Dont be so petty. you will only end up an incel. Maybe you already are :D. Quit hating on everyone, then maybe you will start to get some results yourself.	/r/seduction	14/01/20 11:32 PM
5	My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it. Fuck what the haters say, if youre having fun and youre building a connection with her, youre gona be luaghing at the haters if you hook up. Even more so if you build a relationship from it. You do you bud. It aint stupid if it works. Edit: typo	/r/seduction	14/01/20 10:56 AM
4	The cost of porn Can confirm, did a month without, then pulled a different girl a each week over 4 weeks. Dated one for several months. My refractoral period also improved.	/r/seduction	30/12/19 10:11 AM
1	Anyone else had their heart ripped out of their chest? But you still think of her as the one that got away? Classic one-itis. Your comparing the obsession of the girl you can't have to a potential new actual love interest. Look up Corey Wayne on you tube. Read his book!! I was where you are once, I'm a better man for it.	/r/seduction	13/12/19 08:12 AM
3	Anyone else had their heart ripped out of their chest? Never do group meetings when a potential love interest is involved, until they're committed. That invites cock blockers	/r/seduction	13/12/19 12:42 AM
1	Anyone else had their heart ripped out of their chest? Cos your surpressing it. Gotta feel it to heal it. Sounds like you are blaming yourself. You are not your mistakes, you jus made mistakes. doesn't make you lesser of a person. Learn from it, grow from it. Soon youl look back and realise you needed to go through that.	/r/seduction	13/12/19 12:37 AM
1	Is it actually worth it? Pickup will only get you so far, personal development attitude will help with overall growth. I recommend looking up Corey wayne on youtube, and read his book. I was empty following the pick up movement. Alot of the pickup coaches were empty in their own life, like Neil Strauss, writer of the game. I've made massive growth since picking up his book.	/r/seduction	05/12/19 04:23 AM
4	How To Get Women To Invest In You Look up Corey wayne on YouTube, download his book and read it endlessly. Your dynamics C is you are a needy bitch, and she's the catch. It should be the other way around. Quit being a pussy. You have tons to offer, you jus don't know it yet.	/r/seduction	04/12/19 12:26 PM
4	How To Get Women To Invest In You Didn't even bother to read this shit. Its manipulative and artificial pick up artist shit. Show your interest in her, but if she isn't interested then don't give her the time of the day. Pick up artist yarn is bullshit. Attraction is not a choice she's either in or not.	/r/seduction	04/12/19 12:22 PM
1	Dating a Slut Not relationship material, do not get attached. Can't make a how a house wife. She'd jus be a friend with benefits kinda gal.	/r/seduction	29/11/19 06:57 AM
3	Getting a girlfriend Shouldnt be looking for a girlfriend at your age. Dating and having sex, maybe. But you dont want to be locked down at your age. Just make friends, have fun and let nature take its course.	/r/seduction	28/08/19 04:43 AM
10	Need some advice on a girl who's also a friend. Do not vomit your feelings!! But dont be forward and ask her out. If your in the same group of freinds thatl be too formal. She might be backing off because shes developed some attraction and is scared she might screw a freindship. Or the shame of being rejected. Instead keep up the playful banter and try get yourselves alone together. Have a few drinks n let nature take its course. Beware though if you become needy itl end quick. Leave some messages unread. Let her wonder about you. Let her ini…	/r/seduction	11/08/19 01:07 PM
1	This is pathetic as fuck, but I got someone's number tonight and am beyond happy! Be kinder to yourself. Its still a win even if she flakes. Onwards and upwards buddy	/r/seduction	01/07/19 08:03 AM
5	How to Handle Lying/excuses/ghosting Not offering an alternative to meet or hangout. If they like you theyd make it easy for you. Focus your attention on other peo e. Put them on the back burner	/r/seduction	24/06/19 02:03 AM
1	This girls texting has me completely confused Hope it goes well. Keep it positive n short. Check out corey waynes how to set up a date. Theres some good insights you might appreciate. Particularly with the responses and how she might 'test' you. You got this son.	/r/seduction	05/04/19 03:20 AM
2	This girls texting has me completely confused Same thing happend to me. She literally said we havent talked all day and it made her feel weird. Her interest was reletively high at first but It didnt workout. She had other guys going on the side. So i walked away. She could be keeping you as an option. If your interested the line i used to get her to invest more was "out with freinds. So no sexy talk" push pull method. She couldnt help but to start with the sexy talk. In general If shes not investing as much as you then she isnt really worth…	/r/seduction	04/04/19 01:40 PM
1	Why seduction is so hard I agree to this too a degree. But you dont have to be alpha. You dont have to make six figures. You dont have to have an 8 inch plus donga to pull and keep a woman interested. All you have to be is confident in yourself. Accept yourself as you are. Own who you are at this moment and every other following. I'm a minority in a high male population and stil I'll do well. (Reletiveley) you under estimate and under value yourself. I did. But I'm letting go of my external validation seeking. You shoul…	/r/seduction	22/12/18 12:44 PM
5	Non club environments to meet women The skies the limits. Go learn a language. Take up a sport. Do yoga. What ever interests you there will be like minded women.	/r/seduction	01/12/18 08:40 AM
1	Would really appreciate some relationship advice . If she doesnt want to pursue it shes wasnt worth your time in the first place. It might not be over. But i dont want to give you false hope. Read 3% man by corey wayne. Hes got some videos too that could help you. on the bright side. What ever you were doing before you met her was working. Theres plenty quality women out there that would appreciate you.Time to get back in the zone son!!!!	/r/seduction	09/07/18 09:27 AM
1	Would really appreciate some relationship advice . i would start pulling back. Pretty much jus walk away. If it were to go further she would have to put massive effort. But thats only from what youve described. I dont know the depth of your relationship, feelings etc. The decision comes down to you. What is your gut telling you? As much as you might not like the answer. You know what you should do.	/r/seduction	09/07/18 07:58 AM
1	Would really appreciate some relationship advice . Sounds a little suspicious. But you could also be jumping to conclusions. Keep an eye out for further red flags. You should put your focus on yourself again though. You may be investing more than you should be. Backoff a bit. No accusations let her reach out to you. Be prepared to walk away.	/r/seduction	09/07/18 03:22 AM
1	Would really appreciate some relationship advice . Id want to hear her explain herself. Just remember that actions speak louder than words. You might want to reconsider the promotion though. It doesnt seem that youre not that high in her priorities. She might be keeping her options open. So should you.	/r/seduction	08/07/18 01:03 PM
1	How many days do you have from meeting someone to asking them out too avoid the friendzone? be flirty and show some interest. girl i work with broke up with her bf for less than a week n hit me up.	/r/seduction	12/06/18 12:59 PM
5	The power of eye contact! jus this weekend that happend. after locking on i gave her a light smirk. she proceeded to move tables to get closer, and was sitting next to me 5 mins later. i dont actively seek for eye contact i jus notice their attention is in my direction. im pretty average on the looks department. too. its akin to an inside joke with a freind. someone mentions that thing and you both look at each other just know.	/r/seduction	10/06/18 02:21 PM