I have been in a relationship for 9 months now and everything was fine until last night I should also mention that my company sent me out of state for training the training is 2 weeks and this Thursday I am scheduled to come back home . Now last night I called my GF and we talked for a bit she was acting distant so the phone conversation ended rather quickly . So I decided to call her again but when I tried she was on another call I called her a bunch of times until she decided to switch call waiting option off which pissed me off but whatever . it's 2 am and I see her online on WhatsApp when I tried to send Her a massage she stright up ignored me and sent a text back we will talk in the morning she stayed online till 4 am I sent her another massage saying everything okay I was genuinely concerned wrote back ( if you love me and trust me then leave me alone for now and we will talk in the morning ) I sent her a massage in the morning on SC she sent one back and I tried calling her and she just straight up rejected my call said she will talk to me later . I just felt so humiliated and I sent her a voicenote saying if she can't respect the relationship and me I wont nothing to do with her told her I was genuinely concerned about you since I am so fucking far away another voice note saying that I was up till 4 am and all kinds of weird thought ran through my head . Told her this is not worth it and I am cancelling my flight back home . The company offered me a promotion and wanted me to stay with them but I declined because of her but now I am not sure do I take the promotion and stay .

She actually is funny and I have never felt similar feelings about anyone . I am in love with her but I can't be with someone who can't respect me.What do I do now ???? ( I really want to text and call but if I do she will never respect me again )