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I think it's rather interesting that you feel as if this opportunity that has been presented to you is something that you "fuck up" if you don't get it "right". Is there some sort of self imposed time limit that you're working under? Seduction is a fluid state of living. What does it mean to "fuck it up"? You're moving to a new area that you've never been to before. Worry about getting grounded, getting comfortable with the area, find places where people your age hang out (bars, coffee shops, bo…
/r/seduction17/06/13 06:01 AM
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It seems like you're getting caught in a negative feedback loop within yourself. When you have external variables available to you to draw "emotional state" from (in this case being your friends or what have you), you do better because you can see tangible results in boosting your own ego. You feel that everyone around you is impressed and it's a measurable form of feedback. You feel good because you're drawing your value from other people, and not coming from a place of self-validation because …
/r/seduction18/08/12 12:39 AM
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Hahaha, I rather like you.
/r/seduction13/02/12 10:12 PM
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Well hopefully you're here looking to change that.
/r/seduction13/02/12 08:45 PM
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This is an understandable viewpoint, but it's really all just a matter of mindset. Do you really honestly believe that even the most skilled of the so called "pickup artists" never deal with failure? Of course not, it's a natural part of life, the case being such in most things, not just seduction. Obviously it sucks when things don't go the way you want them to, but I choose to instead look upon the experience as a something to learn from and adapt to for next time so that I don't make the same…
/r/seduction02/02/12 08:23 AM
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Long story short, you're shit out of luck if you can't find your balls and learn to just approach. You can sit in front of your computer all fucking day and read pages and pages of material, but none of it means quack if you don't go out and apply it. Real life almost never pans out the way you think it will in your head, and you should be looking more into learning to read social cues and context behind what the woman is saying so you have a solid foundation upon which to build your skills. Don…
/r/seduction02/02/12 07:25 AM
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Welcome to the club. :) Keep pushing your comfort zones.
/r/seduction02/02/12 07:12 AM
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Out of curiosity, why are you settling for just bartenders and "friend's sisters"? The former is a hired gun who's basically paid to be nice and flirt with you in hopes that you'll buy more drinks, and you're shitting where you sleep with the latter. Just some food for thought.
/r/seduction02/02/12 07:09 AM
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Get new friends.
/r/seduction17/01/12 07:12 AM
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Dude, when are you going to get it through your head that it's not the girl's job to show you she's attracted? It's your job to create attraction and your job to escalate. How would you have felt if a girl did the same to you? How would you have felt if a hot girl blindfolded you, gave you a semi lap dance, then just left without saying or doing anything else? That's pretty much the feeling you just left this girl with. If anything, you probably could've fucked that girl that night.
/r/seduction16/01/12 09:35 PM
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I chortled apple juice out of my nose. Upvotes.
/r/seduction16/01/12 08:15 AM
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What the fuck is it that you're actually asking here?
/r/seduction14/01/12 11:12 PM
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I think your hang up is the fact that you're waiting for the time that feels right to make your move on the girl. Understand that there will never be a "right" time. You make your own "right time", because that's what you do as a man. We can't plan life. We do our best to do so with schedules, lists, models, systems, and all the other technical aspects of what makes up life, but we seem to lack the understanding that everything man does is selfish. We forget that we are trying to enforce our pla…
/r/seduction14/01/12 10:22 PM
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There is no shame in regret, but understand that if everything else is congruent, you should have no problem escalating. Take a good long look at why you didn't make a move, instead of focusing on what happened as a result of not making a move.
/r/seduction14/01/12 09:42 PM
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Why didn't you just invite her to your place to watch bad 50's B-movies instead of going out for movies and wasting time? Let's be honest, all you're doing is dicking around avoiding actually kissing the girl. Let go of the fear. It's ok.
/r/seduction14/01/12 09:09 PM
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I've been watching a lot more indie films lately and drawing on those for inspiration. If you think deep, and have Netflix, I highly recommend checking out Certified Copy on the Netflix Instant Queue as a reference to how deep the actual rabbit hole can go.
/r/seduction14/01/12 09:05 PM
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This was a fascinating link, thanks.
/r/seduction14/01/12 09:03 PM
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This is just the tip of the iceberg.
/r/seduction14/01/12 09:01 PM
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Most of why you think you feel the way you do is wrong, because you don't know any better.
/r/seduction14/01/12 08:59 PM
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You can't make someone have a good time. Some guys are just unable to relax in a social environment, and you can either chat them up to "build social proof", as you pick up artists say, or ignore them if you think they are just going to mope around and create bad vibes. You need to decide between one or the other quickly. Don't be afraid to try both. Even if you try to make friends with him and he turns out to be a complete asshole, you still "demonstrated higher value", so to say, to the girls …
/r/seduction14/01/12 06:48 PM
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The first step to letting go is understanding that everything that you feel is an illusion. It's all in your head. Keep the big picture in perspective, remember that your time here is short, and that we all die someday. We are all on the same journey, but we have been blessed with this insight and the ability to channel it into trying to make the world a better place. Learn to replace your fear with ambition. Cut the things that are not bringing you long term happiness from your day to day life.…
/r/seduction14/01/12 06:41 PM
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I think it was a miscommunication on my part, and I was actually agreeing with you. I didn't mean to imply that morals were unimportant, but rather that we should know to stand by them in the face of challenge if we feel that is what's truly right.
/r/seduction14/01/12 08:57 AM
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We are told all our lives what we should or shouldn't do, so when we actually get passionate enough to say fuck it and push back, we are amazed with the results that we get! This does not mean be an asshole, merely that you have the permission to be one in order to protect your higher values. Look back into what made you feel good, and be able to apply that to women and your success will be profound.
/r/seduction14/01/12 08:46 AM
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This is awesome news! Most guys don't have the balls to actually act upon the knowledge they consume, and to be able to get such results in a short amount of time is uncanny, so well fucking done to you, sir. Hang on though, don't get drunk with power just yet. Honestly ask yourself: did I hit on those girls because they were hot? If you answered yes, your inner game is not where it should be, and you're not going to be improving in the areas that you actually need. Getting numbers or kisses whe…
/r/seduction14/01/12 08:35 AM
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You are special. Follow your heart. I know exactly where you're coming from, and it took me a long time to realize that what I was actually feeling was frustration. I was frustrated with the world for being such a cold, heartless place. All I ever did was follow the rules, and where did that ever get me? I became bitter and jaded, and withdrew from the world. I sought refuge from the world on the Internet, always playing games. I realized that what I was subconsciously doing was making my body a…
/r/seduction14/01/12 08:26 AM
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Listen to yourself talking. Read what you just wrote. You might not want to hear this now, but you have no one but yourself to blame for your girlfriend leaving. At some point in time, she decided she lost her attraction for you. Did you ever stop to think about why? Where is your inner man? Where is your core set of values? You are in a cycle of self pity, which is then furthering depressing your true personality in a form of self hate. Stop feeling sorry for yourself because a girl hurt your f…
/r/seduction14/01/12 07:29 AM
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You're not asking the right question, but you asked a question. That's a start. Why do you want her phone number? Rest assured, there's a point to these questions. The Internet often tries to mimic the real world, but we forget that manners and politeness show a depth of character in a person, the lack thereof in which then reveals the fundamental flaw in character that is keeping you from attracting the women that you want. Ignore the upvotes or downvotes and learn to read behind what the perso…
/r/seduction14/01/12 07:21 AM
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You should read a couple of my comments and see if any of it interests you.
/r/seduction14/01/12 03:24 AM
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The true question you should be asking yourself is "what is my definition of success?" Once you can answer this, we can really start.
/r/seduction14/01/12 03:14 AM
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How about starting at the sidebar to your right, like anyone who is truly interested in this material would generally start from?
/r/seduction12/01/12 11:08 PM
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Importance of game is relative to the quality of the puzzle.
/r/seduction12/01/12 11:03 PM
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Whoosh.
/r/seduction10/01/12 10:33 PM
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Solid perspective.
/r/seduction10/01/12 10:23 PM
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She was afraid you would think she was weird for knowing your name when you didn't know hers. For reference, turning it around and teasing her lightly about it would've worked very well to smooth over her social mishap and continue the seduction. To clarify, yes she liked you and the blush was definitely caused by attraction for you.
/r/seduction10/01/12 10:03 PM
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Aha, finally a real question regarding seduction. You don't see much of these lately because of all the people rolling in here thinking all they need to do is sit at home and read theory, then go out and think they become this magical sex god that instantly pulls ass if you study these lines enough. Sorry men, it doesn't work that way. The easiest way to build the fastest and most intense emotional connection with a girl is to be completely and unapologetically upfront and honest with her about …
/r/seduction10/01/12 09:31 PM
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Do not feed the troll.
/r/seduction05/01/12 07:37 PM
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Was he an asshole because his advice was working? Whether you like someone is irrelevant; whether you can learn something from their behavior or not.
/r/seduction19/12/11 09:33 PM
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You have a fantastic mindset, and I find that to be a very refreshing thing in a subreddit that is consistently seeped in so much negativity. Please never lose that spark. :)
/r/seduction19/12/11 05:00 AM
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She actually stood there for a couple of seconds with a "is that really all you wanted to say to me?" look on her face before I ejected and she went back to her friends. It seems more to me like you weren't really listening to what she was saying and you were so much in your own head trying to think about what to talk about next. Keep in mind that you said you were the one that ejected. Not her. She didn't walk away from you. You walked away from her. Girls will not stand there talking to someon…
/r/seduction18/12/11 08:57 PM
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Wisdom.
/r/seduction17/12/11 08:56 AM
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I don't think you quite get my point. Let me try explaining in a more logical way. Understand that for every social environment that you are in, there is a certain threshold for what is considered to be "acceptable, normal behavior". The fewer people in that environment, the easier it is to establish a certain dynamic, and the more people, the more difficult. However, places like bars or clubs already have a certain standard set. It is socially understood that people who come there may or may no…
/r/seduction16/12/11 09:11 PM
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I view all of this as a hobby anyway. Routines and all work very well when you're starting out, but I think that those are just the first steps. You have to man up someday and put on your big boy pants on if you want to consistently be able to land quality women. Attractiveness for me goes a lot deeper than skin deep, and routines don't really help with the kind of women that I go after.
/r/seduction16/12/11 08:51 PM
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Ask yourself, what makes you who you are? Your morals? Values? Ideals? What gets you excited? Passionate about life? What is it you want in sex? In the woman? What do they look for in sex? If you take a second to think about it, all canned material is essentially just other people's stories, opinions, or experiences that you're basically parroting. Take a long hard look at what makes you who you are, internalize that, and understand that it's ok to show who you are to the world so long as you ar…
/r/seduction16/12/11 08:43 PM
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That's the spirit that Mystery had... MM has a certain beauty - it's like a dance, with steps that you can follow. You say something and you KNOW how the girl will react. You mark "check" on a certain step - and you move forward. Do you see the beauty of it? It's like the difference between a Da Vinci paining and a Jackson Pollock. Chaos, randomness and luck (numbers game) vs. a GAME, planned in advance, followed thru, executed to perfection (or at least while aiming for perfection). I found thi…
/r/seduction16/12/11 08:32 PM
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I agree with you.
/r/seduction15/12/11 06:21 AM
6

Your username is remarkably relevant in this particular situation.
/r/seduction15/12/11 05:08 AM
2

When the girl wants to kiss you as much as you want to kiss her, that's when you'll find the answer to your question.
/r/seduction15/12/11 01:01 AM
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If you go into this party looking to get laid, numbers, or any form of validation, you're going to shoot yourself in the foot before you even start. Learn to hold a conversation. Ask about the girl's interests and such. This does not mean to be a "nice guy". Be polite, but be firm in your ideals of who you are, not who other people are trying to make you out to be. If someone challenges that, ignore it or laugh it off. Keep in mind that you are not required to respond to every social cue. You're…
/r/seduction15/12/11 12:49 AM
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I'm sure that's working very well for you.
/r/seduction14/12/11 11:38 PM
10

When a fool hears of the Tao, he laughs at it.
/r/seduction14/12/11 10:59 PM
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Does that make it any less relevant?
/r/seduction14/12/11 10:29 PM
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If there is only one thing of worth in this thread, it is this post.
/r/seduction12/12/11 12:03 AM
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Yes yes yes! What a fantastic gem! This is absolutely brilliant; thanks for posting.
/r/seduction05/12/11 11:57 PM
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I think this goes hand in hand with remaining emotionally nonreactive to the girl, and staying congruent to conveying your personality. All in all, a fantastic read.
/r/seduction05/12/11 11:49 PM
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I think the point he was trying to make was, "Why bother dating someone like that?" My school of thinking would be to assume that if a girl is interested solely in nothing but your financial status, then that's not really someone that you should be interested in as a positive addition to your life, regardless of how attractive she may be. Artsy or nerdy describes personality characteristics of a girl that we can relate to emotionally, as opposed to women with strictly monetary interests being mo…
/r/seduction05/12/11 11:46 PM
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Sometimes simplicity is the most efficient way to explain an idea.
/r/seduction05/12/11 10:45 PM
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It seems like we're getting caught up in the semantics of words, and not really looking past what the article is trying to convey outside of the literal context. Not only that, but I don't think you really even read my reply and tried to understand it, even though I took the time to read yours and see from your point of view. Keep in mind that even if the article doesn't feel congruent to the way that you think, it doesn't necessarily mean that there's nothing of worth to be taken from it. Also,…
/r/seduction05/12/11 10:37 PM
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Where does it say in the article that you have to be rich and good looking? It mentions that humor is important when interacting with women, and that insecurity is one of the bigger negative attributes you can display. Nowhere did I read that you had to be wealthy or look like Jude Law to display either of those qualities. :)
/r/seduction05/12/11 06:41 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/seduction05/12/11 06:36 PM
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Good luck on your journey! Sounds like you've finally internalized that first step. :)
/r/seduction07/11/11 04:04 AM
1

It seems from your question and from reading your response to comments that you're being "outcome dependent", so to say, and going into these dates with the mindset that you're looking to get sex. It's one thing to project a sexual vibe, but if you do it with the intent of actually trying to get the lay, then ultimately I think you're actually being counter productive and hurting your game rather than furthering it by starting to project the needy "looking for something from you" vibe. Have you …
/r/seduction26/10/11 10:36 PM
2

Well said.
/r/seduction26/10/11 10:21 PM
2

Then don't use this SITUATIONAL opener.
/r/seduction22/09/11 06:54 PM
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I think you're mistaking confidence with arrogance here, my friend. You can be a self assured individual that knows who they are and what they want without being rude and douchey to other people. Arrogance is trying to convince everyone else of your own confidence and imposing that belief, whereas confidence stems from your own acceptance of your flaws, and genuinely not caring what other people think of you exactly BECAUSE you are YOU. If someone gives you a compliment, if anything, it becomes …
/r/seduction14/09/11 07:53 PM
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Hey man, PM me your number and we'll roll out this weekend somewhere!
/r/seduction10/08/11 07:48 PM
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this_this_and_this actually sent me his personal info through a message, so if you want to do the same, you should totally come out with us sometime this week!
/r/seduction09/08/11 04:04 AM
1

Haha, great! I've been meaning to see if any sedditors were in my area, and this just made it all the more convenient.
/r/seduction07/08/11 05:53 AM
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Hey, I'm from the OC/LA area too! If you or anyone else is planning on going out somewhere tonight, I'd be more than down to hang out. c:
/r/seduction06/08/11 06:11 PM
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Stop watching porn. Seriously.
/r/seduction16/07/11 03:53 AM
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