TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

vickyprodigy Archive

View 3 posts and 42 comments by vickyprodigy on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
8

Stress does lead to not finishing. It gets better overtime. Dont worry about it
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/25 01:58 PM
1

This is surely abuse. She has serious issues. At a minimum she needs help. Suggest therapy and if she doesn't agree, divorce is your only option. It will only get worse if she doesn't get help.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/25 02:51 PM
3

Child support is the only one court would ideally revisit. Unless she got a very bad deal, I doubt it. But get a legal opinion. To avoid this, I added explicitly in my separation agreement, nothing outside of CS is modifiable and she signed it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/25 08:28 PM
1

What a miserable person. How did you manage 20 years with her?
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/25 02:35 PM
13

Yet they are in Men over 30 and 40 and we do nothing about it. /s
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 02:25 PM
1

ha ha you are describing half of my ex... the sex stuff was non existent lol.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/24 01:06 PM
1

This happened the last 5 years or so in my 15byr marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 01:14 PM
8

Temper, lack of empathy, abusive language during fights
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 01:14 PM
2

39
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 04:05 PM
1

Women take zero accountability. Yes my ex says I pushed her to divorce. But she is no peach either. She was emotionally abusive, used my vulnerability as a weapon to win arguments. I can go on and on. I came to terms that 15 yr marriage was over. She chose to be selfish. I dont care what she tells people. Yoi shouldn't either cos you ll only lose your mind if you care too much
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 12:40 PM
2

During separation i had the same fear as you. But I started cutting her people out ofy life slowly. That made one hell of a difference for me. I dont have many friends locally, but I wont be friends with someone who is also my ex's friends. Some of them I know pushed her to divorce as well.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 08:16 PM
2

My ex slept around 3 weeks after the separation. It felt disrespectful to the 15 yrs we were married. My moral code wouldn't have allowed me to do it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 02:01 PM
7

Companionship
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 06:43 PM
2

Exact same situation as you. I 39M was married to my ex at 23. Never had a single life outside of being with my parents and then with my ex. I hear you. But pls dont jump into a relationship. What you will end up doing is becoming codependent to yet another person. Take you time to learn how to live alone. Chances are you have no clues where your boundaries lie. What you actually like and don't like and what you want out of your life. You are only 30. You have a shit ton of time to find a partne…
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 02:10 PM
3

Yep. All the men are guilty of that.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/24 03:59 PM
5

Your script and mine are identical. Married for 15. Now 39 and Single. High paying job means I lost a shit ton of money in divorce. But its just that - money. I was in the same boat as you 8 months ago. But it gets better. I have become regular at the gym. My fittest i ve ever been and muscles showing up where they shud. Cook all my meals and eat extremely healthy. Spend time with my kids wholeheartedly when I have them. Its a struggle (single dad) at times but I love them to pieces. Picked up b…
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/24 02:45 PM
12

What a piece of shit woman. Not an ounce of remorse.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 05:47 PM
2

Amen
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 12:14 AM
3

Wiped out. I got the house instead
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/24 03:11 PM
2

Gym doesn't necessarily mean go lift ur sorrows away. It could simply be, go n walk on the treadmill or just bike for bit. Just moving ur body makes ur mind healthy.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 09:55 PM
8

Sufferable acquaintance at best. Once she broke trust, there is nothing she can do to get me to care for her... And I care for my friends.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 06:18 PM
2

Id recommend keeping the house. I did. I have 2.85% with 11 more years to go. No way in hell was I going to give up the house. We never built good memories here... so I dont have the problem of memories haunting me. How the hell did u get 2.5 a year ago? Interest rate shit hit the ceiling 2.5 years ago???
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 01:24 PM
14

Easy. Get a Vasectomy. Protect your wealth. Dont get married. Slay away within your boundaries.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 03:17 PM
1

Was too young and driven by testosterone. After that I was too stubborn to admit it. 15 yrs later im finally free and ready to live my life on my terms. Simple as that.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 02:52 PM
1

I dont think there is any chance of Reconciliation now. The trust once broken is broken.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/23 03:11 PM
1

Forget about dating. It can wait. Concentrate on youself and kids first
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/23 04:20 PM
8

They do. But it's just insanely hard to prove.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/23 10:52 PM
11

Brother.. i was at the same exact point. Poured over my accounts to see what kind of cash flow ill have after expenses. I knw right now you dont see hope.. but im here to tell u there is. You will figure out a way. In a span of 2 months I setup 2 businesses which I wouldn't have done before. We men are by evolution - problem solvers. You CAN and will PREVAIL. Stay strong and keep plugging away. You will figure it out.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/23 09:20 PM
3

I wish I had a friend like you. You are a great friend. Thanks for being there for ur friend.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 10:56 AM
4

Thats so cool that TX is based on NET .. in MA.. its on GROSS.. she wont pay a penny on Tax.. i have to pay CS + Alimony pretax.. and then also pay Taxes on my original Gross.... Its really really GROSS in Massachusetts
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 09:19 PM
3

Same here
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 08:38 PM
2

Im so sorry.. marriage as an institution is not designed for men to win or even be happy with. I have realized this now. My trust in women in general has been broken. But once you move past the initial hurt (which is excruciating), life will be better. There are plenty of men here who have been in ur situation and come out the other side winning. Please hold on and talk to ur friends and therapist. U need all the help and dont be afraid to ask. Work on yourself, thats all you can do at this time…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 02:03 PM
3

Sorry no 2 ways about this. YOU fucked up yours and a poor man's life by misleading. For your sakes i hope you don't have kids.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/23 01:38 PM
2

FUCK YEAH man.... Power to you. Go on and live that damn life of yours. I am not there yet. But hoping to be very soon
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/23 01:33 PM
2

Depending on how your relationship to ur wife has been, you will either experience grief or relief. If its grief, pls seek help. Family, friends or a therapist. If its relief, congratulations. You are in a great position (assuming you are good in terms of financial and health status), that everyone including me can just dream about. Pls do celebrate ... Make kids the center of ur life. They will forget their mom soon enough if they know they have a great father.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 08:35 PM
2

How do I find these groups local to me???
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/23 03:49 PM
0

That is my worry too with a female therapist..on the flip side....if we ever get back into another relationship, may be female therapist can give better insight into women's mind. But my current need is to deal with the trauma of a 15 yr relationship on the brink.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/23 04:45 PM
2

Thank you. I feel all of them at local youth and family services are some kind of interns and not very experienced. We went to the same place for couples therapy and the first question that therapist asked my wife was if she wants separation. I was shocked.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/23 01:06 PM
6

striking similarity. I was told No to a recliner many times by my wife as well.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 04:14 PM
1

I DM'd you. Can you please reply when you get a chance?
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/23 06:24 PM
1

I like woodworking. I also like watchig soccer (premier league, champ league etc), movies. I started playing pickleball now as a means to distract myself. I am still trying to see if there is any possibility to keep the family together.. but i dont think there is hope...i also earn considerably more than STBXW , so im also on the hook to lose a lot. Have 2 kids (boys 12 and 9).
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 03:43 PM
4

I am going thru exact same thing right now.. 15 yr marriage.. she says she has decided and im in denial and just need to accept... I begged and pleaded... now im angry, sad, confused all at the same time. She is able to be happy with kids or friends... But im being miserable and have no strength to even wake up. At somepoint i think im gonna have to accept... Im not there yet. Its heartbreaking.... And I love my kids... and dont wanna let this happen... But i dont think there is any chance of re…
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/23 10:29 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter