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violetred100/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 06:55 PM
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More than anything I find myself more judgmental about myself, and all of my errors just make me cringe so hard. There's nothing you can really do to change other's behaviours unfortunately :/
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 03:34 AM
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I told him that I love him and can't live without him. I was only 17 so dramatic feelings like that were natural.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 03:13 AM
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Make yourself a valuable part of his life. Add value other than sex every time you're with him. Clean his house a bit, do some laundry, cook delicious things for him (normal meals as well as baked goods). Learn what food he likes and learn to cook it really good. Don't start any drama at all. Learn to swallow your pride and put up with his less-than-ideal qualities if you really want him to love you. Be laid back, feminine, playful and fun so that he loves being with you. If he can get sex easil…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 09:33 PM
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I completely agree that it's best not to be plated in the first place. But any woman asking this question must have already been plated. There is no going back. The only options are to try to become more than a plate to the "plater," or to cut off contact with him and try to have an LTR with a different man (which will feel like settling). I know that most RPW would advise women to go for #2, but as a woman who has done #1, I know that most women in this situation will ignore your advice so sinc…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 09:05 PM
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I'd be unhappy either way :) If this woman has been plated by an alpha man she really loves, she will be discontent if she has to spend the rest of her life with a man who is less alpha. She will spend the rest of her life comparing whatever poor guy LTRs her with the man who alpha widowed her. Some women will never listen if you caution them to leave a plate situation to find a man who will LTR her, and if she does, she will feel that she is settling and be unhappy. I can at least offer my pers…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 08:49 PM
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Yeah I know I do Tempest but I figured this is the one thread where I can share my expertise. Obviously I'm not the only one, there are other girls interested in doing the same thing.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 08:30 PM
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Yes and it isn't easy. But you might be like me and have really low tolerance for beta. If I had cut contact with my husband when I was a plate I would have probably been an alpha widow forever and useless for marriage to any other man. Once my friends convinced me to have more respect for myself and not let him use me. So I didn't see him for 4 months. What happened? I cried every single day of the 4 months and ran back to him in the end. If you want to "rise above" "plate" status you probably …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 08:22 PM
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Yes and I married my AF who at first plated me for 3 years. Basically if you are willing to give up pretty much everything in your life to serve him at his whim and devote your life to doing everything for him, as well as being low drama, and accepting that you'll never be the only woman in his life, then you might be able to become the #1 woman in his life as his wife.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 03:25 PM
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I touched on this in an older post of mine here: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/32u4e6/developing_feminine_sexuality/ Your husband may be like mine, in that he is turned off by the mother of his children being sexually aggressive, talking dirty, suggesting kinky things, and all that. I had to learn to develop a softer more feminine sexuality, maybe try my strategy?
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 05:12 PM
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Sorry OP I think your husband's a vampire.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 01:30 PM
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It rarely works for me. I prefer the kiwi one.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 02:51 PM
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I'm glad you found my post helpful :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 06:19 PM
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You'll probably spend the rest of your life lusting after your alpha ex. And if you think you don't want to get in a marriage/ltr until you're 28, what do you plan on doing with your libido for the next 6 years? Chaste celibacy or casual sex?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 06:15 PM
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Yeah I think my husband doesn't want the concept of an 'inner slut' to exist in me. If that works for others that's great. But I think it doesn't work for all men even though everyone thinks it does. The guys whose conversation I heard were saying that if a woman turns them on like that, afterwards as soon as they roll off her they want her to 'get the hell out.' I don't want my husband to see me like that!
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 12:18 PM
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I said the same thing too, "that sort of thing wouldn't work on me." Then it was done on me. And it worked.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 07:50 PM
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Evening routine: Pretty up Have sex Return to bathroom Do evening beauty routine Return to bed for cuddles/sleep (your man is likely conked out by the time you get to #5 anyway so it won't matter by that point if your face is oiled up and your hair's in rollers)
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 05:40 PM
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It will only work on betas.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 01:36 AM
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I actually believe in and follow the advice over at Red Pill Women, yet if I was single I would never want to date someone who followed TRP. A "beta" (an insecure man) studies like a nerd to learn how to copy the behaviour of naturally superior confident men and tricks women into sex with this false persona - that isn't attractive to me. I would be so upset to find out a man I thought was a natural "alpha" was someone just copying better men. Imagine a man takes home a hot woman but finds out sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 01:52 AM
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I completely fit the stereotype of what women are supposed to be attracted to according to RP theory: confident dominant men, jocks, players, musicians, bodybuilders, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 01:43 AM
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