viper249 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	Could use some advice (oneitis)		viper249	/r/seduction	20/02/14 11:47 PM
1	Advice on how to be more fun/spontaneous/laid-back?		viper249	/r/seduction	27/02/14 04:10 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Could use some advice (oneitis) Haha, that's an interesting way to short circuit the brain. I'll have to give it a shot.	/r/seduction	27/02/14 12:26 PM
1	Could use some advice (oneitis) Thanks for the feedback. It's not that I'm arrogant or believe I'm above that - I just legitimately haven't had an urge to casually hook up. Hell, I had an opportunity tonight with a fairly attractive friend who was throwing herself at me, but I just was not in the right mindset. It wasn't a "fuck yes" on my part. In the past, I've only had sex with several girls who I felt more of an emotional connection with, thus resulting in the oneitis - As you mentioned before, I understand I need to get m…	/r/seduction	22/02/14 08:21 AM
1	Could use some advice (oneitis) Thanks for the support!	/r/seduction	22/02/14 12:19 AM
1	Could use some advice (oneitis) I agree with you that I need to get out there more. I realize that a scarcity mentality is what has gotten me hung up on my past pursuits. The problem in that department that I'm trying to rectify is I don't feel a huge drive or emotional connection to pursue or sleep with women right away. All those that I've gotten involved with in the past I had known for some time before getting attracted to them. I'm hoping that cutting out all porn will be a big step with that issue.	/r/seduction	22/02/14 12:19 AM
1	Could use some advice (oneitis) Thanks for the reply. I am trying to look back and think of the good times, and not put as much weight on it as it you mentioned. My issue isn't so much as that I think these girls are "the one". That being said, I definitely had them on pedestals but I think the main reason I'm so out of state right now is that my failures have caused me to realize that I did not live up to this idealized expectation of my self, and I've attached my self worth/identity to these failures. I'm really trying to le…	/r/seduction	22/02/14 12:16 AM
3	Could use some advice (oneitis) Thank you very much for taking the time to make this reply. Reading this has definitely helped shift my thoughts on the matter. I agree with you that putting myself out there is the only way I'm going to be able to deal with the aforementioned issues. The biggest roadblock I'm facing right now is a depressive mindset making it difficult to connect with people (women and men for that matter), as well as a bad habit of being fixated on the past and bringing past mistakes into my present. Letting g…	/r/seduction	21/02/14 03:16 AM