| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1365 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars. | Red Pill Theory | virusofthemind | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/16 05:55 PM |
| 368 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too) | Red Pill Theory | virusofthemind | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 11:06 AM |
| 75 | Mystery and uncertainty from a psychological model attraction generator perspective. | Red Pill Theory | virusofthemind | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 01:35 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | The Red-Flag DateMaybe he thought it would make good material for a TRP post so took one for the boys? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Never, Ever try to convince a woman (about contentious issues)Women always think logically? Think bell curves and standard deviations. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/20 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Why You're Still Getting Shitty Results [TrenGod37]Indeed. The very fact that you are approaching means you have a handle on any possible rejection and a frame which can be anything from lightly fazed to totally unfazed to a negative outcome. The mindset of a good approach is to view it as a screening method where you've decided the girl has her "foot in the door" with her looks and you're approaching to move into stage two territory which is her personality aspect. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 06:40 PM |
| 7 | Is it possible for guys and girls to be strictly friends?It's ok once you've nailed them, then the "will we,won't we" dynamic will be gone. Use the "friendship" as a way to get access to her hot friends. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:08 PM |
| 3 | weird situation. why would she not respond and what do i do nextIt's her who fucked up not you. Don't text her back just soft next. There's another woman around the corner... | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:06 PM |
| 7 | Need help avoiding depression from something I sawYou need your victimisation levels checked too, they're probably dangerously high. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Going on a date who is taller than meHow tall are you? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety and process...Use an opinion opener which can segue into relationship/attraction topics. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 10:15 AM |
| 10 | One woman’s take on “nice guys”if you check out the second Quora link she clearly states she's "A girl who dates girls" so something is amiss. I suspect bullshit somewhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Help. My psychotic ex is texting me and threatening to ruin my career.Have a look at this site anyone who's had this happen to them in the past. https://narcsite.com/about/ | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 05:42 PM |
| 4 | I might have fucked up my reputation?Girls tend to not mention it to their friends when a guy can't get hard for them. It reflects badly on their perceived attraction level within the group. Judging by how easy it was for you to get her into bed it's very likely she's banged more than her fair share of guys so keep an eye on your dick for any symptoms. Mind you; If she's pregnant then STIs are the last of your worries. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 05:07 PM |
| 2 | How do I kill my empathy? Is there a rite of passage?Until they're found out. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 05:00 PM |
| 4 | MGTOW is the worst sub on redditThen again, they may have had so much pussy in the past they want to focus on other things without having to put up with all the trials and tribulations of chasing it anymore. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Disliking night gamingAre you sure you're not just uncomfortable with the drinking club/bar culture and making excuses? | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 04:06 PM |
| 5 | How to project HIGH STATUS with your non verbalsIt's not a technique, it's a mind set, and a mind set depending on your environment. The alternative is just act beta, which will get you nowhere. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 04:54 PM |
| 6 | How to project HIGH STATUS with your non verbalsYour unconscious is also a byproduct of your body language. It's a feedback loop between the two. Consciously acting high status will improve your brain's perception of yourself as high(er). Not to the point of boosting a low status beta to alpha status, but it will bring improvement in your behaviour which will be picked up by others (unless a stress response knocks you back down to default). I wouldn't advise acting like it in an environment which is full of alpas as you won't be congruent and… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Am I being fished?Lol. Tell here you'll follow her when she's lost a few pounds as. If she pings you back for validation just send her a link for some exercise program. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 09:19 AM |
| 66 | How to project HIGH STATUS with your non verbalsDon't look round when someone enters the room or joins the group. You're the highest status man in the location and have no need to look for threats. Don't have your head on a swivel looking round the venue in a club or bar as if you're looking to see where the "fun" or "value" is for you to join: You're where it is. Don't stand with your back to the wall in a club or bar; Take up the prime space. Walk slower than normal (not too much) as if you're not in a hurry to get anywhere. Avoid comfort g… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 09:05 AM |
| 9 | A guy wanted to fight me for hitting on his girl...After the guy approached you you could have just turned to the girl and said. "Fucking hell, how many boyfriends have you got? And then walk out. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider this losing frame ?Don't feed any more energy into the situation by getting angry yourself. If it happens again just take out your phone and start texting one of your buddies about some random shit as if that's way more important than her demented rantings. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 06:36 PM |
| 2 | All Men Need To Womanize [A Patrice Series]It's a bit of both; She also wants someone with a novel major histocompatibility complex (immune system set up) so any future child will be better at surviving pathogens. Not too far off, but enough to complement it which would generally be someone from the same ethnic group (not always) who lived in a different geographic area such as an American in the UK or a Brit in Australia. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Extreme case of AMOGI was calibrating on the fact that the AMOG actually shoved money in the the op's hand. A really aggressive guy wouldn't do that, they would have just pushed the op out of the way. The flaw in your premise is assuming that every guy who AMOGs you is a hard as nail badass who may kill you, when that's a fantasy scenario and black and white thinking. If you back down to every AMOG situation you encounter that's going to get you nowhere, so by all means calibrate but don't just accept defeat everyt… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Extreme case of AMOGIt's a strategy based on simple principles. The strategy deals with the problem of the other guy's frame superseding the ops and stealing the girl. You hear a lot about "keeping frame" on TRP but when dealing with an AMOG, a lot of that involves disrupting their frame from the outset of the interaction. The frame in the op's post is: An AMOG came and stole a girl from him so he lost his frame. There are three strategies to deal with this. 1/ The Reframe. 2/ The Deframe. 3/ The Preframe. When the… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 09:35 AM |
| 1 | If you are 6ft+ and not ripped, can you boost smv massively by getting in shape?It's all part of the puzzle, just make sure to work on your posture. A lot of tall guys tend to stoop when they're interacting with people. This may be due to their early years where a growth spurt pushed them above their peers and they wanted to fit in. Unfortunately the act of stooping makes you look low value as if you're unconfident. Once you're jacked stand tall with shoulders back in social situations then you'll become the alpha in the room. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 11:33 AM |
| 247 | Extreme case of AMOGAsk the dude for another $5 to set the frame that you think $10 is a good deal and the interaction is purely financial. Then tell the girl that she's worth $20 under normal circumstances but this guy is the greatest dancer you have ever seen in your life and for her to "watch his awesome moves". This will make the guy really self conscious especially if you all just stop and watch him. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 08:33 AM |
| 2 | How does one balance being detached and not caring but also escalating and closing to make women attracted to you?The very act of approaching demonstrates that you're not concerned whether she rejects you or not. That signals confidence which will make her more attracted to you. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Swallowing the pill caused the death of my social life.You learn the skills and then practice them till you're good at them like anything else. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Swallowing the pill caused the death of my social life.Lead by example and the example is by having hot babes on your arm on a regular basis. Even the most bluepilled cuck is going to want to know how you do it. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Should every cold approach end in a number close?Go for the FC from the first minute. Numbers should only be a consolation prize to work on the next day. Really hot girls get asked for their number hundreds of times so you have to be different in how you arrange future communications. A counterintuitive way to do things is to offer yours, but say you don't want theirs (this never happens to really hot girls) then once they have yours say "Do us both a favour and if you're going to flake on this, don't message me so as not to waste both our tim… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 01:37 PM |
| 10 | What to do when a female you’re gaming starts to tell you about her and another dudeIt's a sonar ping to assess your alpha credentials so she can ascertain your "value". The more "value" you have the greater her attraction. How you react is the return ping to her emotional evaluation query. A needy guy (low SMV) would get hot under the collar. A confident alpha guy wouldn't give a fuck and genuinely ask "Why are you telling me this?" Here's a good rule of thumb for newbies: If a woman by either action or inaction does or says something that generates a negative emotional respon… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Getting out of the friend zoneI did indeed. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How to find wingsYou need a big negative emotional jolt, as you're just stuck in a life of mediocre lukewarm dabbling with the grave waiting at the end of it, but 30 years of bitterness and resentment on how you've wasted your life to keep you company. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | How to read and use theory effectively?This is a common problem and comes from fear of action. Usually it follows the path of wanting to master something to the point of perfection before you try it, but really it's just a safety blanket acting as an excuse to avoid possible failure. You get round it by...After every new article you read make a note in a special notebook called "Actionable steps". Distill the essence of what you've just read and write down just one thing that you can actually DO the next time you're interacting with … | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 06:22 PM |
| 4 | Getting out of the friend zoneThis ^ Then polarise during the date. By replying to her text and addressing it you're buying into her interpretation of the (her) reality. She'll expect you to address what she said in her text and by not doing so and only arranging logistics you increase your SMW a large amount. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | "I have a boyfriend."Her: "I have a boyfriend". Reply options in order of preference. 1/ Ignore and carry on as if nothing had been said: Creates uncertainty in whether you're attracted to her. 2/ "Why are you telling me this?": Deframes the dynamic to create more concrete uncertainty. 3/ "Do you have his permission to talk to other guys?": Reframes the interaction in that the IHABF question is being asked for reasons other than to gauge your emotional response. The reason the vibe is going to shit is that the state… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 06:03 PM |
| 2 | idk why people think PUA or Game worksHow you look is the car you drive. How you game is how you drive it. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Do one of you care to explain why this didn’t work?You have problems reading social situations. The RP and PUA will be of no use to you. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Do one of you care to explain why this didn’t work?He didn't have frame in the first place, look at his body language. With the exception of people on the aspergers spectrum (they have problems with this sort of thing) anyone with any PUA knowledge would have told you it was doomed to failure after 20 seconds. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Why would a woman go out of her way to let you know she changed her mind about seeing you to do something else, when you hadn't even made plans?She wanted to see if you would get upset by it. The point of the text is to try to create an emotional reaction in you so she could see where you are on the bluepill/redpill spectrum or in other words "the value you place on yourself". | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 04:35 PM |
| 7 | Why can’t I dump them?They wouldn't give a shit about dumping you if Chad turned up. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Act as romantic or red pilled around friends and girl friends?"Romance Game" is one of the hardest to pull off as it's a constant tightrope between looking needy and having deniable plausibility. Done well however it's one of the deadliest methods in pick up due to society feeding this type of narrative to girls from a very young age. Keep it deniable and playful with zero neediness. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm lost folks, need your thoughts.You're fearful of rejection. Use an opinion opener to take the edge of it. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 04:35 PM |
| 3 | What are the professions with the sluttiest women?Nurses see a lot of serious shit in their profession with people dying or being maimed and shit like that. They come to realise what is and what isn't important in life and make the most of it. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 04:31 PM |
| 6 | I think I messed up by showing too much interestJust go on the date and see what happens but make sure to escalate. A confident man would show their sexual interest but act in a way that he comes from a place of abundance and if she's going to play games then he'll ghost. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 03:58 PM |
| 0 | To all of the older members, what is the biggest piece of advice you would give to your 21 year old self?Check out one of my previous posts for more detail on 6. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 09:23 PM |
| 22 | To all of the older members, what is the biggest piece of advice you would give to your 21 year old self?1/ Watch what women do and not what they say. 2/ Approach more. 3/ Have boundaries. 4/ Learn about evolutionary psychology. 5/ Don't brag about girls you've laid, it gets back to their friends you can't keep your mouth shut. 6/ A person's foot will point towards someone they're interested in. 7/ Carve out the maximum potential of your body through diet and weights/cardio. 8/ Don't put up with shit from women, one warning then they're nexted. 9/ If you think they're playing away...they probably a… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Dark Triad game>Cold approach pick up( Insider tells all, evidence inside+field reports)If you're going to go to all this trouble you might as well go buy a hooker. If a woman wants to infer that you're a high status man by how you act then that's fine but telling them BS is just giving you a safety zone to live in thinking that you're a successful slayer when you're nothing of the sort. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/19 10:03 PM |
| 5 | Dark Triad game>Cold approach pick up( Insider tells all, evidence inside+field reports)It's more self touching than scratching. Whenever you have an emotional spike from the outside world you lose your emotional equilibrium. Self touching sends signals through information coming from your body which acts as a temporary damper to the spike coming from the outside world. You ever seen the crowd at a ball game when their team just misses a goal? You can have a thousand dudes with their hands on their heads. That's why kino is so important, you're getting emotional triggers into her e… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/19 09:58 PM |
| 3 | The Real Reason You Have One Itis : The Sunk Cost FallacyDon't think of it a wasting time, think of it as honing your game. It's an investment in the future with real time feedback. Approach anxiety goes back to when we used to live in tribes where everyone knew each other. If you fucked up then your value dropped within the group, plus you had male relatives or prospective suitors/orbiters/boyfriends to worry about. As a rule you should know within 5 minutes of an interaction with a girl whether "it's on" or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/19 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Two most powerful business/life tipsUntil you're found out of course. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Sex is something badYour parents might tell you or act like it's "Taboo" but it didn't stop them from getting it on themselves which makes them either hypocrites or just embarrassed to talk to you about it. It's probably the latter; Are you going to blame them for it or accept it then move on? | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 07:20 PM |
| 6 | Behaviour is much more important for SMV than any superficial factorsGirl: "Nice watch". Me: "Thanks, it actually tells you what colour knickers a girl is wearing." Girl: "Haha, okay then; What colour knickers am I wearing?" Me: - Looks at watch- "You're not wearing any". Girl: "Haha you're wrong, I'm wearing red ones." Me: "It's an hour fast." (smirk) | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/19 04:19 PM |
| 11 | How to not care what others think?The problem is you don't have boundaries and you're trying to get others to behave according to your rule book where it's not nice to be mean. People have their own rule books whether you agree with them or not. It's all part of the game | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 08:52 AM |
| 1 | How to not care what others think?Think about what a really high SMV guy would do in the circumstances. Would he get all upset or start trading insults? Just reply: "Enjoy your night" and then either walk away or get your phone out and start texting, browsing whatever. The girl has failed your filtering tests and has now been rejected. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 08:48 AM |
| 10 | Stop Worrying About Indicators of Interest"Assume the sale" "Assume the interest". By doing so you give off tiny non verbal behavioural cues which set the frame for the girl to drop into. Absence of IODs is an IOI. If you're not getting either and the girl is"Disinterested" (Disinterest means impartial to both sides like a judge is supposed to be during a trial) then you need to polarise the reality to force an indicator either way | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How to hold the prize mentality while approaching girlsIf the approacher doesn't give a fuck whether the're going to be rejected then the approacher assumes that he's of higher value than the girl. The act of boldly approaching proves the dynamic. Once approached the approacher is merely screening the girl from the perspective that her looks have got her foot in the door but the ball could be dropped at any time. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girl at bus stopBoldness takes the prize but use a slight surprise. I would use a routine. Take out your phone and write a text message. The message should read: "Hey there, its me at the bus top standing next to you with the ( whatever colour she is ) hair. Come and talk to me as I think you're really attractive." When you're next with her at the bus stop take out your phone when she can see you do so, and look at it quizzically as if you have just received a message then look at her then your phone again then… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Feminism is Much More Dangerous Than a Shit TestWho decides what socialism includes and what it doesn't? Suppose someone says public infrastructure should be privatised and your views are socialist for thinking otherwise? To them you would be a socialist and everyone of your arguments could be used against you. It's all down to definition of the world and what your belief system thinks is the correct interpretation of the concept but your belief system interprets in the way(s) which doesn't conflict with itself. I couldn't care less about pol… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Feminism is Much More Dangerous Than a Shit TestI doubt what you call socialism is what you actually think it is. The state has to tax you to pay for certain things for the overall good of (your) society or you get anarchy. The debate is what gets included. In the Uk health care is a "socialised" benefit and you get a small amount taken out of your salary every month to pay for the NHS. I've never met anyone in the UK who's against this. A friend of mine was in a bad motorbike accident ten years ago and ended up in hospital for 8 month. Had h… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 08:17 PM |
| 10 | Jordan Peterson Is A Beta HypocritePeterson's sexual strategy was to get married and a have a family like most normal guys out there. He got what he wanted. I very much doubt Peterson is unaware of hypergamy. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/19 06:43 PM |
| 11 | Best post-sex questions to ask a new plate?If you're a newbie learning the ropes then say to her "You know which things about you attracted me?" To her his information is category A shit. Tell her and be genuine about it but make sure it's behaviour you wish to encourage in the future. Afterwards it's very likely she will return the favour. If she doesn't; don't fish for the information or ask her back as it demonstrates needy behaviour, just let it lie. If she does return the favour then listen carefully. If you're actually post sex the… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Should I cancel a date invite?Just reply "I've changed my mind" and leave it at that. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Is teasing a woman who is mad at you (almost hates you) a good idea?You're the selector not her. think of the law of "cause and effect"; you're the cause and she reacts to you not the other way round. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 09:01 PM |
| 45 | Theres mermaids now 🧜♂️🧜♀️Non sequiturs are what's know in hypnosis as "Pattern interrupts". They work by derailing the conscious mind and causing the unconscious mind to "boot up" to the reality of what's going on as something novel is occurring, and novel things are of extreme interest to your limbic brain as they can signify either opportunity or danger. When such things happen your limbic brain is dropping your mind into a "source code" programme of prepared heuristics to deal with what could happen. The good news is… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/18 08:47 PM |
| 10 | The Death of "Online Game!" The End of social mediaVery true. A daytime cold approach is "true" validation to a woman and the fact you have selected her and acted on your intentions displays high confidence in yourself, as well as a presupposition that you're not concerned by rejection as you tacitly assume that your SMV is above hers. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/18 09:25 AM |
| 15 | Closure Is BullshitDumping by text is pretty low behaviour. If it was an LTR your best response is "Is it because I told your friend you were getting too fat?" and then hard next. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/18 05:57 PM |
| 0 | How To Pull A Girl From A ClubDepends on the situation, everyone is different. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Science. When it comes to anecdotes about sluttiness, please be aware of sampling bias!!Hypergamy depreciates the greater the variance in your SMV to hers but it's always there to some level. If you're a chiseled Chad on a 7 figure income and for some reason you're in an LTR with a 6 or 7 then the chances of her branch swinging are very much reduced on the grounds that she would have great difficulty in hitting the jackpot again. It would be like a broke guy winning a £1,000,000 on the lottery and then some millionaire saying to him "I'll flip you for it, double or quits", he's not… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/18 08:56 PM |
| 3 | GAB is Down Because the Culture War is Real and the Overton Window is ShrinkingThere's also more inequality and in this case it's an inequality of platforming your beliefs. If your beliefs are backed up by hard science and the "new society" you mention is heading the way of SJW tyranny where your self actualisation is denied and you're living in a false construct then why would you want to accept it? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/18 08:40 PM |
| 18 | From faking it to making it. Consciousness and Competence, for the future of our nationsSomething strange is afoot on TRP.... | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | How is frame so damn powerful?If she feels she can't control you In other words. If you consider your value as above hers and would be prepared to ghost on any demonstration of bad behaviour. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/18 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Feminism is no longer an ideology, it has become a literal religious cult.The woman in question had some very strong opinions regarding muslims and their treatment of women and was quite happy to vent them both at work and on social media. After he was tipped off the complaint was happening he made it known that he was unhappy about her racist views then the next morning typed up a note saying... " Hi X, Z thinks you're a muslim lover and she's planning on getting rid of you somehow, just to let you know we're unhappy about this so watch your step and keep your eyes o… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/18 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Why TheRedPill makes you DEPRESSED.Just learn to manipulate women into becoming your sex slave How about manipulating the reality you live in so they want to become your sex slave of their own free will? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/18 06:56 PM |
| 25 | Why TheRedPill makes you DEPRESSED.Sleep easy and count your lucky charms. You're just about to enter your peak and you learned your lessons young. Imagine what it's like for the guys who find TRP when they hit their 40's and 50's. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/18 06:48 PM |
| 5 | When she is interested YOU'LL KNOW.Models of approach outcome. IOD's equal uninterest: Just move on and save time. Lack of IODs equals disinterest ("Disinterest" actually means impartial as in a judge is meant to be "disinterested" during a trial) : This means the approach has got your foot in the door and now it's time to utilise "game" to polarise the interaction. Interested equals: She likes the way you look and behave. All you have to do now is not fuck it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should Love Rejection"Negative thoughts" are really envious thoughts expressed by cowards. As such the only power they have is the power you give them. You're not going over to express yourself or present yourself for approval: You're going over to screen her. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/18 08:51 PM |
| 12 | Why You Should Love RejectionLearn from your rejections but run the upset in a "virtual frame" in your head as if you're an observer. That way you take the good part but don't feel the bad parts. Infield is chaos at the best of times and there are too many variables to control so don't bother trying. One of the character traits of a redpilled individual is the ability to tolerate uncertainty in the environment without having an emotional response to it. My worst rejection and best pull both happened in the same club on the … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/18 04:02 PM |
| 8 | Maintaining your frameEventually you will be left behind by your peers as they succeed in their careers, financially and with women. There will come a time when you try to emulate them and it most likely will be with women. When you try you will encounter harsh rejections from the women you approach as they will see you as beneath them and your current peers will desert you as you will be considered a "loser". When this time comes and you're at rock bottom that's when you will change and become motivated. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/18 03:40 PM |
| 11 | Feminism is no longer an ideology, it has become a literal religious cult.This happened to a coworker of mine last year. He made a joke about how "every hole is a goal" when you date a woman and it ended up a right shitstorm. Luckily for him he was tipped off about an upcoming complaint to HR and ended up turning the tables on the complainant and she ended up being moved to another town. Could have went either way though. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/18 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Chatting Her Up: Using Subversive HumorThat's what innuendo is for and it's way more fun. There's always deniable culpability if a woman is a closet SJW but the smart girls pick up on it fast and enjoy the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/18 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Dear newcomerss, if I could make it. YOU CAN.You need to change your frame of reference and it's easy to do. If you're nervous it's because you're focusing on your internal state and by doing so you create a feedback loop which makes it worse. Your reference state is internal. Instead; focus on the person you've approached and observe them when either of you are speaking. There's a part of the brain called the "reticular activation system" and what it does is decide which information to boot up to your cognitive functions for analysis. Som… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 06:26 PM |
| 16 | Saw the power of preselection and jealousy first handDon't concern yourself with this. A hard next is the most efficient option. If you're still getting some satisfaction that an ex plate is back into you and mentally you're saying to yourself "yeah told you so" then she still has a hold on your identity. If you do hard next and don't return any of her messages and think to yourself "this must be driving her crazy" then you're still too concerned about what she thinks. If the post is more a reflection on how effective preselection is and you've me… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/18 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Verbally apologizing to women can have unintended consequences.What's a good tactic for this? Drop into the mood yourself then trigger an emotional response in her, then lead the emotional state to the one you wish her to experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 01:54 PM |
| 5 | Passing Shit Tests: Beyond the Clever ResponsesThe "Demon" is: where attraction is concerned, men and women have some areas where their criteria diverge by a wide margin. A man's shit test is basically; are they hot? They either are or they're not. The decision takes place in the guy's brain without any interaction from the woman. If Burkas were required legal attire in bars/clubs, our "shit tests" would be convincing a woman through conversation to let us see their face. A woman's shit test is an autopilot response to elicit your social val… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 01:47 PM |
| 3 | "TEXT ME"I agree. Rivalry is an underused method to change a person's perceptions when they're making or made a decision. I once worked with a guy whom our senior management wanted to lead a certain project but he flat out refused and wouldn't budge an inch. This went on for about a week but he wasn't having any of it. That Friday night we were in the pub and another junior colleague mentions that this guy's arch rival was really keen to lead the project himself. Monday morning he tells the CEO he's chan… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 11:40 AM |
| 12 | SHIT TEST MEGATHREADA reply which you can use across the board is to just look her in the eye and say "You know what they say about girls who ask that?" and then don't tell her. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/18 05:08 PM |
| 2 | SHIT TEST MEGATHREADIHAB is the most common autopilot response you will ever hear. If you next her you're doing yourself no favours. Just barrel through as if it was never said. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/18 05:05 PM |
| 6 | SHIT TEST MEGATHREAD"Do I look fat in this dress?" "Don't blame the dress" | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/18 05:02 PM |
| 27 | SHIT TEST MEGATHREADI have a boyfriend "Do you have his permission to talk to other men?" "Why are you telling me this?" Buy me a drink "Are you unemployed?" I bet you say that to all the girls "Only the ones I think might have something going for them" How many girls have you slept with? "I don't kiss and tell" Will you watch my drink while I dance / bathroom / etc? "Why what does it do?" I'm not having sex with you. "You're not there yet..." You're too short/ugly/fat/etc "I'm the dude, that's all that matters." A… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/18 05:48 PM |
| 26 | "TEXT ME"This method has a lot going for it at many levels which belie its simplicity. 1/ It demonstrates confidence by setting a dominant but none needy frame, you're not trying to negotiate or overtly transmit "value" to the woman instead you're setting the presupposition that this is how things work when you're a man with an abundance of women in your life. 2/ It creates mystery and curiosity about yourself and both of these feelings operate at the emotional "seeking" part of the brain. Attraction in … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/18 05:28 PM |
| 7 | How To 'Hypnotize' A Girl With Your PersonalitySolid post. Essence of hypnosis. 1/ Attract attention: This is usually the approach itself. 2/ Generate an unconscious state in the woman; an "unconscious state" in this sense is a state which involves an emotion, but eye contact is an outlier in that it's not a pure emotional generator but it does involve the same part of the brain (the limbic system) and can be used to the same end. 3/ Lead to the desired state; The desired state being of course a sexual one. We all give of and receive subtle … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/18 09:00 AM |
| 1 | How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing CologneI agree with Creed, in my opinion Aventus is the best there is. Having a substantial cologne selection myself I can say without hesitation that more women have asked what I'm wearing when I have a spray of Aventus on, than all my other colognes put together. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/18 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Teacher Tales: opportunity costsIt's realism, he did what he did and probably knew the guy well enough to know he wouldn't turn to violence. Would you turn a guy in for breaking the law who you knew had a reputation for revenge attacks and by doing so you would put not just yourself but your family in danger? Your first "obligation" should be to yourself and your family. Maybe not so in "cotton wool land" where goodness always triumphs and everyone does the right thing; but back in reality. My point is there are always unknown… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/18 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Teacher Tales: opportunity costsIt could have gone the other way though. In my late 20's it was common knowledge that one of the supervisors was banging one of the older married office girls where I worked. It had been going on about a year and on work property but eventually he must have pissed someone off and they decided to report the matter to HR. He got fired and you guessed it his wife threw him out. unfortunately he had a lot of friends there and eventually he found out the identity of the snitch. Three weeks later on C… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/18 05:03 PM |
| 4 | Don't expect perfectionTo quote Jason Capital: "Get your ducks in a row as you go". The philosophy being that taking action in the first place and using the momentum of actually doing something is way more important than planning everything to the Nth degree. I read a book a while ago where the author recommended that if you want to beat procrastination regarding a goal you haven't begun, then just start for 10 minutes and stop. After all 10 minutes is fuck all, you could spend that time channel surfing. The author (c… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 06:18 PM |
| 53 | She wants to feel smallNice story. I would think though, that any woman at 6'3" wouldn't be too concerned over a guy shorter than her as it would exclude something like 95% of the male demographic if she did. If you look at dating site profiles for women it's the demographic of 5'6 to 5'9" who tend to ask for taller men as they can wear heels when they go out and still feel feminine and "protected". | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 06:01 PM |
| 6 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingThe fundamental difference between Jordan Peterson's philosophy and Red Pill thinking is that Peterson believes in a fair society and the greater good in an egalitarian sense. To a point he sees how societies across the Western world have become unbalanced in favour of the female imperative and seeks to address that. Red pill believes in the individual and pretty much doesn't give a shit about society (which is in a sense psychopathic) except in offering an antidote to societal programming. The … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.I've just finished Jordan Peterson's "Maps of meaning" and I have to say he's one seriously smart guy. It's heavy reading but even reading it with a critical slant there's nothing you can pull the guy up on where the science is concerned. Like anything else; take from his work what is useful and mine the gold which runs through and apply it to your RP journey. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/18 05:23 PM |
| 5 | human beings are pattern recognition machines: an analysis of some red pill concepts from a scientist.Check out the book "Virus of the mind" by Richard Brodie. Whilst we all carry genes we also carry "memes" which are information viruses which exist in our brains as beliefs. A lot of these beliefs are hardwired (such as cognitive biases) and adapt to the environment they exist in with their expression and propagation being dependent on how they can modify themselves to pass to others. Emotions are the "gatekeepers" of the unconscious and are designed to only let in new belief structures when the… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 07:16 PM |
| 2 | There is ALWAYS room for improvementEmotions are your friend, they're hardwired behavior patterns which have kept your gene line alive across the millenia. There are two types: Those that pressure you to stop doing things and those that pressure you to do things. If you're looking to make an improvement in your life use either type as the "fuel of change". The personal trainer at my gym once said to me that he knew within a minute of talking to a prospective female client whether they would stick with their training or whether the… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/18 04:36 PM |
| 7 | Physical traits to help hold your frame and confront situations.Don't have your head on a swivel as if you're looking round for threats all the time or seeing where the value is. You're where the value is at. Another tip is: When something happens in the venue you're at whether it be a meeting you're at and someone enters the room, and everyone looks to see who it is, or in a bar and something happens out of sight and everyone looks to see what's going on. Be the one who is unconcerned and don't look. It conveys that you're the highest value person in the ro… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/18 06:10 PM |
| 5 | Never speak about your dreams and plans (Build up the "WOW Effect")There's a lot of truth in that statement. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Talking With Women - Always DARE, Never DEERFeel bad for yourself not the op or readers... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Post-post-wall single women figure out that when they're old enough to have gray hair, men don't find them attractive anymore. Wow, who knew? Now they call it "gray-shaming" and pretend it's another way that "society" is being sexist to women.It's cultural Marxism. You break up functioning society by setting its members against each other; in other words "divide and conquer". | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 07:56 PM |
| 4 | Instinct, Emotion and ReasonIn order of seniority: Fear Disgust Surprise Anger Sadness Happiness Each emotion trumps the one below it, For example, the emotion of fear is more pressing and important for survival than the emotion of happiness: fear pulls rank. Breakdown: Fear means there is an immediate effect on your future survival. Disgust means there is a possible delayed effect on your future survival: Disease, rotten food, land whale offspring etc Surprise means something new has happened which could go either way;Goo… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Feeling DespondentWalking over to a girl and talking means you "talk to a girl". I'm guessing you wait for them to talk to you? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 10:24 AM |
| 9 | Most Common Shit Test of them All - IHABFYou only need to internalise one reply as an autopilot. "I have a boyfriend" is itself a woman's autopilot reaction to a cold approach (sometimes warm) and it exists as a default because it's very effective and has worked for her hundreds of times before. By not being phased by it you're communicating higher value than her boyfriend in a tacit way, and also demonstrating confidence. The best response I find is the line "Do you have his permission to talk to other guys?". A very small % will real… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 12:52 PM |
| 10 | Dating girls does not equal happinessYour future self wants to travel back in time and give you a slap. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Mystery and uncertainty from a psychological model attraction generator perspective.You have heard of AF/BB before? She will bang the pretty boys for a variety of reasons such as access to good DNA or boosting her status within her own female hierarchy but as H42 states; her lizard brain still need the access to resources/protection to ensure her offspring's survival in the ancestral environment that our current cognitive architecture evolved to survive in. 50,000 years ago any woman who was only attracted to pretty boys and had no interest in their access to resources, were we… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/18 08:56 AM |
| 8 | Mystery and uncertainty from a psychological model attraction generator perspective.That's more of a playful teasing line, she's probably heard it before too. The "you wouldn't believe me" frame projects an ambiguous value, changing the subject could in respect project a frame of having a job which you're not too happy about her knowing, but if you're giving out alpha status vibes then it would be incongruous with the possibility. The other frame is that you're very high resource and are screening her for personality traits in the respect that she has her foot in the door with … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Dr Doolittle and the peacock’s feathersPeacucks died out due to raising peachads chicks as their own and not passing on their sperg genes. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Don't Over-Interpret Body LanguageHigh serotonin make you more relaxed and less anxious; both states where you will tend to adopt "comfortable with environment" behaviours such as taking up more space and a more open body posture. Having a more open body posture is a means of showing that you're unafraid of being attacked if a confrontation were to arise. So logically speaking it's an alpha trait and women prefer alpha men for sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Society beginning to tackle the issue of male genital mutilation (aka circumcision)The picture accompanying that article is disturbing. A little baby totally innocent and vulnerable being mutilated with his own blood upon him in the name of religion. No choice or say in the matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 09:09 PM |
| 3 | The fact that this sub has 250,000 subscribers is telling something about Western societyWomen tell men to open up, to embrace their feminine side, to cry more. I've come to realize that this is the equivalent of men telling women that it's okay to get fat. There's a darker motivation to wanting you to "open up". Men manipulate their environment to succeed, and women manipulate men. Given a woman's weaker physical stature, from an evolutionary perspective a woman would have been very unlikely to be able to survive on her own in the harsh ancestral environment or physically take a ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/18 09:51 AM |
| 3 | So I aproached a group in a party .Strange thing happened. AnalysisThis sort of thing is the bane of anyone who approaches a group. The ugliest girl is not always the mother hen, but they do tend to have more sway of the group dynamic due to their incipient aggression of the world (men who approach and ignore them). The girl you approached almost certainly wasn't the mother hen as the ugly would have been put in her place pretty sharpish. As female hierarchies go and all the jockeying for status the mother lode status boost for the ugly is for a guy to have int… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/17 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Our environment and surroundings is all arbitraryMost religions do have some sort of good in them somewhere from a parochial altruism perspective, or they would never have survived this long. I don't know if you've ever heard of the concept of "Memes" formulated by the scientist Richard Dawkins, but a meme is like a virus, but instead of it being composed of RNA it's made from information and (in religion's case) exists as a "superbelief" in a host's mind where it takes over the host's mind and then uses it to spread itself to others. I would … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/17 10:22 PM |
| 3 | 4 Bullshit Slogans Men Should Stop BelievingIndeed, if being yourself means being a jacked, confident and naturally RP guy then it works a 100%. I was thinking more of the type of guys who would ask for the advice in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 09:44 PM |
| 3 | 4 Bullshit Slogans Men Should Stop BelievingWomen only respect people who disrespect them? No need to straw man the op's post. If you left out the word "only" then you have a legitimate question. The answer to this question is that: People disrespect other people who they consider to have lower value than themselves. Due to hardwired hypergamic neural traits; women are attracted to men who they perceive to be of higher value than themselves. 50 shades of grey is one of the best selling books of all time and women are the vast majority of … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 09:14 PM |
| 210 | 4 Bullshit Slogans Men Should Stop BelievingYou left out "Just be yourself". If "yourself" is a sad unconfident loser then things aren't going to get any better. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | (Emotions & Their Bitch) The Missing Key To Not Giving A FuckAgreed. The emotion of fear in approaching a woman is pretty much redundant in the modern world. Back in prehistory it kept you alive and looked out for you but it's going to take thousands of years to weed it out in this context. If you feel fear or anxiety in approaching a woman then remember it's your unconscious giving you an invitation to feel scared. You don't have to accept it, it's not a law of physics or mathematics. Throw the invitation in the bin. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 07:23 PM |
| 7 | Few basic readings Body LanguageI must admit, I used to think the same way. In my mid 20's one of the guys who I worked with was a seriously good looking chap (as in male model looks) and when we went out on works outings and nights out as a group, the amount of girls who used to do this with their hair when he was in their vicinity was fucking unreal. In one of my previous posts I wrote about the "foot point" ioi, this is where I first noticed it before I knew it was the car salesman's biggest tell in customers. Some nights i… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 07:15 PM |
| 4 | YOUR FEAR IS IRRATIONAL. The world we live in has a great affect on how we act and what we think. Here is why you're afraid to open randoms.But why do we feel this fear if it is irrational? Most of neural human evolution in a social context occurred in prehistory in a timescale involving 10's of thousands of years. Living in small tribes of up to 150 individuals, everyone knew each other and being seen to be rejected by a prospective mate dropped your value amongst the other women in the tribe and thus decreased your chances of reproductive success and your gene line being weeded out. Plus....approaching the wrong woman who happened… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/17 05:27 PM |
| 8 | Sexual Harassment Lawsuits - The Storm is ComingHave any of your female students ever hinted that in a deniable way to earn some slack for poor performance? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/17 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Selling Them The Fantasy (Machiavelli Behavior)It's more of a short term alpha mating strategy. Hollywood and the MSM fill women's minds with this kind of stuff which doesn't exist in the real world. If you look at women's profiles on dating sites you will see a lot of references to being "swept off their feet" and "Knights in shining armour". Just give them the fantasy and even when it's over they will still carry the "feelz" of how it was for the rest of their lives. You're actually giving them a "gift". | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/17 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Currency, Dread Game and LesbiansThe amount of "currency" you possess is the the arbiter of your complete SMV. In men there are lots of different currencies at work not just aesthetics; there's also financial currency, societal authority currency, protective currency etc. A woman's prime currency for attracting a mate and about 90% of her SMV are looks/attractiveness. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/17 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Selling Them The Fantasy (Machiavelli Behavior)It's because physically, they're not built to take on men or the harsh ancestral environment, they had to learn how to manipulate men in order to survive. In the past this was a symbiotic relationship in where women were protected and cared for and men got to sire children. Over the past 50 years though it's become, more that men (or the societal institutions they created) have taken on more of a "host" role and the feminist/female imperative section has become a parasite to this host. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/17 04:39 PM |
| 19 | Less is More!OP doesn't care about his female friend's feelings Behold the field in which I grow my fucks. Lay thine eyes upon it and thou shalt see tis barren. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 07:35 PM |
| 6 | No, She’s Not Afraid of Your MasculinityWomen say they want a guy who will always put them first. If you do so then the attraction disappears as you're now officially a "beta bux". What they really want is a man who's on his own path and sees the woman as someone who can compliment that path due to his perceived higher value- His own life and happiness come first. A golden rule of PUA is: Women fuck and are sexually attracted to men of higher value than them; this could be in status, resources, looks etc. If your passions and interest… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Beware: Male Crab-Bucket Mentality/Tall Poppy SyndromeTo paraphrase Jason Capital "If you're going to sin, then don't do envy as there's no joy to be had from it". Envy itself is an emotion and a negative one at that so for one reason or another it serves an evolutionary purpose. I would conjecture that there's "good" envy and "bad envy." In "bad" envy you get rid of your envious state my removing the person you are envious towards, of the thing they have, that you're envious about. It's totally dysfunctional in the modern world. In the ancestral e… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Don't Tell Her Shit - The Fallacy of DisclosureI suspect it's more to do with "Loss aversion". As a species we're more concerned with keeping what we have than achieving more. Unless what you have is nailed down, then if there's any chance on losing it you will concern yourself with avoiding the situation, and call on the time and energy you would use for improving your situation. The female equivalent is branch swinging. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/17 05:04 PM |
| 3 | How do you aprroach at bar or club?Force an ioi and use that as a filter funnel and then game your best prospects. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/17 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Evolutionary Rant from a Long Time LurkerCheck out the sidebar entry "gender studies is nonsense" and ask your friend to watch the video on it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Female version of dread game , abundance mentality , or....What would be the appropriate response to this kind of shit test? "What do you bring to the table?" | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/17 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Ok what the fuck is wrong with me? I just botched one of the potentially best nights of my life. I need some legit serious help.What you think is how you become. There's a feedback loop in your brain between how you act and how you are. If you consciously act and think you're the prize then eventually that mindset will become your default setting or intrinsic frame. When people lose their frame it means that they're not quite there yet when external stressors are acting against them. When people develop an unbreakable frame it means it's becomes part of their identity and actually "is" who they are- no matter what the ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/17 09:25 AM |
| 4 | Genetics & Free Will - Is our destiny ours to direct? An Analysis Of SelfGenetics loads the gun but environment is the trigger. Sometimes the gun has a hair trigger but the environment isn't strong enough to pull it. Sometimes the trigger needs a lot of pulling and the environment is "strong" enough to do just that. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 01:45 PM |
| 17 | Don't buy girls drinks at the bar.Getting a girl to buy you drinks is a good strategy. To be consistent with the act of doing so the girl post hoc rationalises that she did so because she liked you. It's like that story of Abraham Lincoln where he asks some political rival if he could borrow a rare book he had in his library. The guy lends him the book then warms to Abe afterwards for the same reason. (Which was the intention of Lincoln all along.) | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/17 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Ibiza Field ReportIf HB10s didn't exist then all HB9's would be 10's by default. As a previous poster said, the HB scale is based on a bell curve so "10s" must be out there somewhere. In a sense the scale must have a degree of relativism about out it, as basing your scale on a global average would be pointless to some guy living in a run down social housing area; they would never meet a 10 in their environment. Whereas someone living in somewhere like Monaco or Hollywood would have a "fat tail" to the right of th… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/17 02:40 PM |
| 6 | Is there an agreed upon SMV formula?It all depends on the environment. If you're approaching in say a poor African country then getting out of a Ferrari to do so will pretty much nail the deal even if you're a lard ass neck beard, whilst doing so in Monaco will get you looks of disgust, whereas if you're a ripped and buff male model in Monaco without a penny to your name you would do well. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 11:46 AM |
| 4 | 80/20 scenarioIn other words: The average woman gets approached....by guys who approach? Sitting in front of a keyboard isn't "approaching" in my eyes as it takes zero frame or courage to do so. Most guys end up getting with a woman because they wait till they get a load of IOIs before they do something. The next level are guys who use forced IOIs calibrations either as a time management strategy or because they still have a bit of AA they're working on,but. The top tier are the cold approachers and that's wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 11:40 AM |
| 11 | 80/20 scenarioThe majority of men don't approach. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Rejection, and why you need to seek itVulnerability is weakness that shows the woman that she is of a higher value than you by the very fact she has created an emotion in you. I think what you are saying is that you should show invulnerability by not caring whether you're rejected or not. When a guy does this he's demonstrating higher value and status than the woman (which gives her the tingles). | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 04:01 PM |
| 5 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenSalesmen are told to "assume the sale" before they interact with the prospect. It's the same criteria here. It's the limbic brain which pings every interaction to see what the frame is. When you adopt the mindset to the point it's congruent with your identity that she is attracted to you, then you give off BMIR's (behavioral manifestations of internal representations) and her mirror neurons incorporate the frame into her global workspace. She feels the tingles. When your frame is solid her pre f… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenGreat post. Attraction happens way below conscious awareness- you don't "decide" to find someone attractive- and as, such discovering the "vector" of communication of attractiveness and consciously injecting "attraction triggers" is the core remit of all pua. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 03:18 PM |
| 7 | Good Places To Meet Women, Bit Of A Unique SituationHave you tried daygaming in large book stores? Most women who visit them tend to be of above average intelligence plus you have the advantage of they're not on their way anywhere. Given your interests you can hang about the nutrition science and physics sections, so if you do get a conversation going you both have a common interest (although a woman interested in physics may be an unusual situation) and most large bookshops also have a coffee shop in them so you can escalate a bounce to it with … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/17 08:09 AM |
| 10 | What should i do when she asks me...I'm detecting something bigger going on here but... If you think this question is your deal breaker with women then you're going to place more and more emphasis on your response and the girl will unconsciously pick up your discomfort when she asks, and then you're on a downward spiral as your SMV goes into "re-evaluation mode" till more information is forthcoming. If you lie about it then I think you're crossing your own ethical code but if you tell the truth then that's not going to work either… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/17 06:46 PM |
| 12 | Any kind of attractiveness boils down to the same core; everything else is icing on the cake.The one exception being when your "hobby" is banging bitches.... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/17 08:27 AM |
| 1 | What science actually says about physical attraction (with actual science inside)well you can see how well that worked out for them. you can probably get good preselection by hiring an escort to fawn over you in front of other women and build off of that. You probably could. If you can't afford it another method in a busy club is use a pivot to walk up to you and ask for a selfie with you. Other girls in the venue assume that you're someone famous that they don't recognise and take an immediate interest. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/17 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Everything You Know About Emotions Is Wrongmore importantly than anything else, if you come from a lifetime of treating your emotions as a nuisance or impediment: stop. They're a part of you with which Nature armed you for your use and profit. Like all natural faculties, it can be used in the wrong way, but most likely you've been afraid to use it at all, which is your bigger problem by far. Wise words. Your emotions evolved with two main remits. 1/ To help you survive. 2/ To help you procreate. There are four reasons why you "think" the… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 06:44 PM |
| 6 | What science actually says about physical attraction (with actual science inside)The data is sound around pre-selection but it's actually an outlier on the entire attraction frame that exists for different reasons than the others. It's remit isn't... they don't understand that that opens them up to letting other people make bad decisions for them. It's they let other people make good decisions for them. Back in the ancestral environment a man you didn't know had the potential to be a serious risk to your well being. A woman with the neural trait to find a man attractive that… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Evo psych article implies cuckoldry is not common, does it hold up to scrutinyWouldn't those at the top be more likely to cuckold with Chad due to them already achieving one half of their female imperative in snagging a high value provider, and now seeking the "sexy sons" genetic benefit of Chad's genes? Whereas women in a low resource environment would be more likely to proactive cuckold with a dependable BB as Chad's genes would be no use to her children if they never survived? if that's the case then middle ranking women would be more likely to cuckold as they have jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/17 06:55 PM |
| 7 | UHH, TRP BECOMING TOO PUBLIC?? HELP IDKYou can leave clues though, those in need of TRP, or searching for their path who realise that "something isn't quite right" will find them and begin their journey. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 07:49 AM |
| 3 | Preselection is powerfulA quick guide to faking pre-selection in busy bars/clubs. Next time you're walking through a busy venue trail your arm behind you and lightly tap the back of every hottie you pass. She will turn round as you're passing to see who it was then just assume you accidently knocked her squeezing through because it's so crowded ( make sure to make no eye contact or acknowledgement of what just happened) then go back to whatever she was doing. Meanwhile every girl watching you sees every hottie you pass… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 08:07 PM |
| 15 | Why Women (and men) Hate Ghosting and why it is PowerfulActually 'closure' is just her wanting to see a burst of beta from you. Then her hypergamy can satisfy itself that you really were in fact a loser. So very true. This burst of beta lets her know she's made the right decision and allows her to rationalise any loss aversion from her decision. Ghosting throws everything back on her: Did she make the right decision? Are you actually higher value than she anticipated? Was it the right decision? The hamster goes into overdrive [chortle] By the way tho… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 05:18 PM |
| 13 | Girl on OkCupid subreddit feels guilty because Nerdy Ned constantly showers her with affection/gifts while Cocky Chad barely responds to her texts - and guess who her vagina is tingling for.Ignoring women completely takes you off the playing field. Men manipulate the environment and women manipulate men. If you think of a woman's machinations as her play of a psychological chess board, then the Chad in the op's story is a chess piece she can't give a fixed value too as his intermittent reward/punishment behaviour is shifting his value constantly whilst nice guy's is fixed. Women hate this as they can't play their psychological games properly. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Reading the red pill after a break-up has me feeling so angry and used.That anger is like adding thermite to your fuel tank, use it to forge a life of awe in the fire of your will. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | If you want a woman's attention, ignore herSometimes it does come down to if she has the confidence to approach herself, if they're lacking in that respect you sometimes find that her group will "by accident" just happen to be standing near yours later on (Mystery's famous "proximity alert") and if this happens then she will be the one with her back to you as it's more psychologically comfortable for her. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 05:03 PM |
| 2 | If you want a woman's attention, ignore herThat's a side benefit. Women are very astute in recognizing who likes who in a venue. If someone who she deems higher than herself in the attraction hierarchy is giving you IOI's then you become more attractive to her yourself. It's possibly because she is upping her own value vicariously if she nabs your manly attentions over her rival. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 04:59 PM |
| 192 | If you want a woman's attention, ignore herCalibration is vital if you're going to use this. If a girl is into you and giving you IOI's then ignoring her is going to make her think you are either uninterested or don't have the balls to approach. If she thinks you're uninterested then she'll turn her attentions elsewhere and if she thinks you're too scared to approach then the attraction evaporates. If you want to use this, then Zan Perrion has a method called "seed and drop" which - while appearing counterintuitive - can be very powerful… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/16 07:05 PM |
| 12 | Some Thoughts on MasculinityWomen are indeed biologically wired to be attracted to the most alpha male; they're the genetic jackpot for their genes. If you take the traits which pertain to masculinity then alphas always possess more of them than non masculine males. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/16 10:01 PM |
| 21 | What's that you say? You're afraid to cold approach? You're afraid to escalate? You shouldn't be, and here is why."are you allowed to talk to guys without his permission?" Fantastic stuff. One of the best approach reframes I have ever heard! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 09:14 AM |
| 7 | Can alpha guys get dumped?Everyone can get dumped, the difference is that with Alphas the woman often returns Words of wisdom there, the emotions an alpha can leave in a woman are very powerful and when the "feelz" are gone if no one else can supply them they're like chickens coming home to roost in the alpha hen house. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/16 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Best of: TRP ignores fundamental principles and gets owned by PUA deception.Looks are part of the equation but not the be all and end all. If it was 100% looks then every male in the planet would be super jacked and shredded with a chiseled Chad jaw line. Nature would have started an evolutionary arms race where only the most attractive males got to breed and pass their genes on so eventually the entire male population would possess these characteristics. The answer is....maximise your looks, maximise your game and maximise your lifestyle and become successful with wome… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/16 06:40 PM |
| 3 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsI receive so much conflicting information from this site. Cold approach is pointless without social status, cold approach is the bees knees, etc How Am I supposed to plan? Cold approaching in itself creates social status. It pre-supposes to the woman that you possess high status simply because you approached her. To actually do so and not give a fuck about rejection shows an invulnerability to whatever she may throw at you test wise. What sort of guy does this? A guy who sees himself as having h… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/16 09:13 PM |
| 10 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsYour limbic brain is still programmed to the challenges of the ancestral environment environment (the jungle) whether you like it or not. As an example: phobias of snakes and spiders are extremely common in modern society yet less than a handful of people are killed by them in modern times. On the other side motor vehicles kill more than 10,000 times more people than their arachnid and reptilian rivals. How many people have you heard of with a phobia of cars? The modern mind just hasn't caught u… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/16 09:06 PM |
| 8 | The difference between talking to a lot of girls, and actually cramming your genitals in them."you have to guide the hamster down the windy lane" I like the metaphor! As slay_it_forward mentions the ASD response is indeed very real. If a girl's friends are in earshot then that lane can get very windy indeed and isolation is your best bet purely from a time management perspective. If she is in isolation then set the frame as if she's really into you in an amused mastery manner but keep the conversation going dropping in and out of you being unable to resist her charms then back onto more … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/16 09:21 AM |
| 96 | The difference between talking to a lot of girls, and actually cramming your genitals in them.Good post. If you're after turning the interaction sexual as early as possible then you need to polarise the reality of the interaction as soon as possible. When two people of the opposite sex meet the common frame is in flux until one drops into the frame of the other. It's YOUR job as a man to set frame on a sexual level and drop the "reality" into that mode. The old saying of "first impressions count" is a very accurate one. Where sex is concerned then time isn't on your side when you're inte… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/16 04:47 PM |
| 2 | "Approach Anxiety" - beginners, you're NOT actually anxious of her.Approach anxiety is the Goblin king. "My frame is great and my will is as strong as yours............................" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FmgmXgoBZFo | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/16 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Personality Doesn't MatterLooks are good. Personality and confidence are good too. Maximise both as much as you can. Consider this analogy. Two guys are going to race cars through a city centre then out into the suburbs. One guy has a ferrari (looks) the other guy has a Ford Focus (but he's tweaked it to maximum performance [lifted]. Who's going to win? The Ferrari most likely. Now suppose the guy driving the Focus is the best rally driver on the fucking planet. He's spent years honing his skill and knows everything ther… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 05:53 PM |
| 6 | Game is like selling techniques, it means shit if your product sucks"Game" teaches you to play the hand you've been dealt to the maximum advantage. All attraction is subliminal as attraction isn't a choice you make, it just happens unconsciously. A handsome guy with game will blow a handsome guy without game out of the water. As game involves "language" as well as body language cues then it's a very red pill methodology. An average guy with stellar game will compete with a guy more handsome than him on a level playing field. A few years ago I had this conversati… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Game: In order to bring out her desires and wants, you need some form of game. The better you play, the more control you hold.You sound like me....20 years ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 05:19 PM |
| 4 | I owe you guys my gratitude and thanks.TRP is about reality and whether you perceive it. Nearly everyone goes through the anger/hate phase but what is missed is the anger and hate is directed at yourself for being taken in by the blue pill narrative. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/16 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Sexuality theory where hunter gatherer's shared sex, most competition being among sperm, not people, and only after the agricultural revolution and the dividing of power did new sexuality emergeIt's known as "multilevel group selection" here's a link https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Group_selection | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/16 09:08 AM |
| 2 | 5 Easy Ways To Get Past Her DefensesI agree, rapid polarisation saves a lot of time. The only problem is you can inadvertently trigger an auto-pilot response due to the surprise element. Best way is to approach from just off centre (centre approaches can be construed as threatening), make your honest appraisal (in a way that implies she has a "foot in the door" for your desires, but they're genuine non the least) Then tag a question on the end of it. Questions to some extent generate a limbic response as they can sometimes be an i… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/16 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Game: In order to bring out her desires and wants, you need some form of game. The better you play, the more control you hold.That's not really going to get you anywhere though is it. One of the key mistakes guys make is assuming that women place as much "weighting" to physical attractiveness as men do to women. Sure it's taken into consideration but so are other things and these other things can push you up levels in your own SMV. Men are genetically hardwired to find beauty attractive as the aesthetic symmetry and signs of fertility are "bankers" for our genes. Women however have to balance this with the personality … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/16 04:55 PM |
| 12 | Orbiters broke my frame.If they are "Orbiters" then expose the matrix. Say "Hey dude, if you like her then man up and make a move". | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Part 3 of the 8 circuit model of conciousness theoryI see where you're coming from. IOD means "Indicator of Disinterest". A disqualifier is an "Indicator of uninterest". "Disinterest" means that you're impartial and could be swayed at any time either for or against. (A judge in a trial is "disinterested" as they're impartial to both sides- prosecution/defense). So we're both right! The bit about the neg being genuine is VERY important but also don't wait for a reaction to it, just barrel through to keep the cognitive buffer filled and it gets int… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Part 3 of the 8 circuit model of conciousness theoryYou could look at a neg as being: "I don't give a fuck how you see ME as I'm disqualifying myself as a potential suitor so you infer I have higher value than you and thus feel attracted to me because of that". | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 09:46 AM |
| 2 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.https://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are/transcript?language=en | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/16 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Why does the world lie about the structure of male/female relationshipsIt even has a name... http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/how-the-sunk-cost-fallacy-makes-you-act-stupid.html | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/16 06:04 PM |
| 2 | TRP cold approach dilemma: Women who disengage, act disinterested, etc when in fact they are secretly attracted to you and welcome your advances?Tyler Durden calls it "Barreling through" just keep talking as if everything is ok until her startle response goes down. In this case we're attenuating an emotional response (fight or flight) to a new situation (the approach) and giving the girl time for her analytical mind to weigh up the signals from her limbic brain and veto it. Once your foot is in the door then you can use the residual unconscious highway to inject attraction cues. Even in clubs where there's a tacit understanding that girl… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 09:53 PM |
| 16 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.See if you can get your hands on Igor Ledochowski's "Conversational hypnosis" audio course; it's top notch and gives you a handle on the unconscious/conscious brain (not to mention hypnotise someone without their knowledge). After that have look at Kerin Webb's "The Language Pattern bible" you will understand what they are after finishing Igor's stuff and have the ability to design your own bespoke patterns (like using Ordinal and presuppositions). The book "Social engineering: the art of human … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 05:20 PM |
| 4 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.Anyone who finds TRP is worthy, guys find it for a reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 04:52 PM |
| 5 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.Girls have a greater range of peripheral vision than guys. It evolved for when the women used to stay at the camp while the men were out hunting. A greater visual range made it easier to spot potential hazards. The men didn't need it as much as their main concern was binocular vision for hunting and calculating range and trajectory. Even to this day men have greater tempero spatial ability than women. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 11:45 AM |
| 4 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.This is a great reply! Women hook up with guys because of the "value" they ascribe to them of which facial aesthetics is only part of the equation. You're right about the "Halo effect" in this respect. With average girls a guy's aesthetics are very important and do have more of a slice of the attraction criteria than a super hottie would give them. (but not as much as a man would value them in a woman as we're 90% looking for good genes for our children). Average girls get the advantage of a sta… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 08:19 AM |
| 8 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars."Maybe because I've been hitting on women for years but this seems so over complicated and convoluted." Bullseye dude. It's because you've internalised what has worked for you in the past and refined it to your identity so much it is your identity. This post isn't at all complicated as the core principles are simple. Another poster came up with the metaphor of all the steps you have to take to park your car in the garage like; brake, gas, clutch, opening drawers, taking keys out the ignition etc… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 07:59 AM |
| 2 | The Female Mind: A Jarring Lack of Cognitive DissonanceIn this case it's when the logical conscious mind holds a different belief to the emotional unconscious mind. The system is out of sync so one's got to give way to the other. Back in the ancestral environment having a debate between the two in your head meant you weren't making a decision so you could miss out on a good opportunity or end up with some serious shit happening to you if you're in danger. The brain evolved to give you a very unpleasant sensation to make you drop into one or the othe… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/16 06:06 PM |
| 3 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.I replied to another poster who asked the same question dude, it's not as if you're sitting at the table at a tea party when you use it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 03:22 PM |
| 12 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.yeah, some people just do these things unconsciously from years of manipulation experience. A guy I used to work with had once done some research into identifying dark triad individuals with massive manipulation ability to see if there was a common thread. "Guess who came out top?" he asked. "Ceo's, psychologists, politicians" I suggested. His reply? "Actually it's heroin addicts"! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 03:20 PM |
| 6 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.It's a newer model devised by the guys who develop strategies for influencing public opinion on internet forums. The Snowden releases were a gold mine for persuasion engineers around the world. It's known as the ASIA model. Attention. Suspension (of critical factor) Insertion (of frame, idea or state) Activation (of frame, idea or state) I broke down the methodology and incorporated into social engineering methods I was familiar with then refined and improved it for PUA (as you do). | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 03:10 PM |
| 7 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.Eventually with all these TRP subscribers someone is going to enter a venue where there's a group of super models. If this is you then you are the chosen one to plant the red pill flag in one of their asses. You are now prepared. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 02:38 PM |
| 1 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.A lot of the stuff with the exception of Mystery's "three things about you technique" is new but the principles and groundwork were laid by some of the giants of persuasion. Language patterns were developed by the greatest hypnotist of all time Milton Erickson but refined by others (Igor Ledowchowskis' stuff is fantastic). Priming has been known by marketing researchers for decades (who spend tens of millions of pounds doing it). Sexual rivalry between women is well documented with lots of peer … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 02:28 PM |
| 1 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.1/ You don't want the leverage girl to hear but it's ok if the others do but bear in mind they're going to group validate themselves and you can't lock down. 2/ Same as above but it's not as if she's gnashing her teeth and pulling her hair out. 3/ I use that situation to amp up my bounce strategy to the next venue. It's usually target girl who suggests it when #1 rival begins to weave her wiles with "her guy" though. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 02:11 PM |
| 4 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.Good question. If there were 4 girls all sat round a quiet table and you used it then no it wouldn't be suitable. Luckily pubs and clubs are usually noisy and groups tend to get into one on one conversations and lots of distractions in the background. The funny thing is: I've used this method a few times and most of the girls with my target didn't pay any attention to my approach as due to the matter of fact non nervous way I did it they assumed that we knew each other. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 02:05 PM |
| 7 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.I agree, what you're actually doing is calibrating a reality but a "dual reality". As they're all hot and lots of guys are paying attention there's no denying that fact. That the guys are all looking at one girl is a reality shift and your target girl has to accept the possibility that her interpretation is wrong and it may be true.. She doesn't like the idea (especially with her prime rival) but she has to entertain it. Her brain wants to collapse the frame if it's true so that's why she consci… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 01:59 PM |
| 6 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.I'm on with it, it's just a question of distilling the best. If you've ever heard of the "Pareto principle" I'm applying it to my sources now. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 09:50 AM |
| 8 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.Yeah its gold, not sure of the original proponent but it's the definition of creepy and non creepy kino. Don't think it applies if you just grab her tits though... | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 09:46 AM |
| 4 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.That's why I had an end note. If you're following a map and come across a wall that someone has built you still have a map to navigate round it (the principles of why it works). In human interactions there are always things you can't control so be the willow bending in the wind. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 09:42 AM |
| 3 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.The tip is; instead of saying "How can I apply my reality to this" you say "How can I apply this to MY reality". The things which work best for you will stick and once they become solid even more things will stick to that too. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 09:38 AM |
| 5 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.Cialdini is the godfather of this type of thing. "The consistency" dynamic is the "state titration" where one thing leaks into the next one. If you break consistency then you're breaking everything which came before it and that's a lot of dissonance to do so. The brain doesn't like dissonance at the best of times but when emotional loops are running it takes something really big to trigger it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 09:33 AM |
| 3 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.Yeah I have all Kevin Hogans stuff, it's applied to sales but so many uses for attraction management too. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 09:29 AM |
| 5 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.It's Friday night tonight. You're doing a field trip instead. To those guys who are out this weekend to the pubs and clubs watching for this it's going to be an eye opening time. Mind you; if you're going to a place with regulars keep the information to yourself and resist the urge to pass the knowledge on. This is a big edge in your game. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 09:24 AM |
| 16 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.My original draft did indeed have a lot of links but I decided to leave them out just before posting. The reason is, there are three types of reader for works like this. 1/ The polariser; they automatically want to disprove post and use sophistry and semantics to do so as "winning" the argument is the only goal (They're passive aggressive to Chad). 2/ The Student; They look up the links with a confirmation bias mindset and internalise the information as chunks to slowly digest. (They're pissed o… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 09:09 AM |
| 35 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.You've hit the nail on the head. Once you have the building blocks and practice them the routine becomes internalised. Your conscious mind passes the program to the unconscious to run instead and the responses become automatic. It's like learning to drive a car; you don't have to think about gears, gas or brake once you've been driving for a while. The unconscious is taking care of it for you. Thats why you sometimes hit the brake for a hazard before you even know about it or just "know" that so… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 08:46 AM |
| 1 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.Very true: I use "The one all the guys are looking at" because that is how I would naturally phrase it myself. What's natural to you? Simple; how you would phrase it if you were talking to another guy you had just got into conversation with. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 08:33 AM |
| 7 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.Indeed you could which means it would be phrased as a "statement" but not a question. With a statement you're defining the reality (as you're the one with the higher value in the interaction). If you phrase it as a question then you're suggesting that: This frame is open to debate (which it isn't). | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 08:30 AM |
| 27 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.It's called "pacing their reality" By linking what you're saying to what they already believe and see with their own eyes then it's more likely to be accepted (tailgating again) but this time it adds gravitas to the frame flip. If I get bitched then I've used the wrong approach method so it's my fault. In this case the rows of fawning admirers have (sometimes) put the girls into bitch mode but with this approach you can't really "reject" a question by somebody who has already disqualified themse… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/16 09:29 PM |
| 12 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.If there's one thing I wish I had known at 18 this would have been it. Once you see it happening in a pub/club it's unreal. I've pointed it out to guys I've met in pubs who didn't believe me then an hour later they're shaking my hand! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/16 09:07 PM |
| 71 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Very Hot Women In Bars.I like things to be empirical and actionable but also... It's how men's brains work. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/16 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Power and TruthThis model is actually the Johari window https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Johari_window but applied to TRP The "Facade" part is PUA techniques but the "arena" is actually TRP mentality which leaks out and is picked up unconsciously by women. The "Blind spot" is basically lack of knowledge or the wisdom to apply knowledge you hold. To a blue pill guy the "unknown" is an "unknown unknown" whereas a red pill guy will strive to move his "facade" into the unknown quadrant as he understands there be drag… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Game II - Be Better Than HerIf you didn't need their approval or validation (not you personally) then you wouldn't give a shit if they rejected you or not? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 05:48 PM |
| 4 | Tinder opener failed ;thoughts?Don't neg girls before you know whether or not they're into you. Negs were designed as mechanisms to either bring down a bitch shield or disqualify yourself by disarming them long enough to build attraction. You sounded like you blowing your trumpet through insecurity. I suspect the girl knew exactly what you were doing. Negs are mainstream now. read the book: "Models" by Mark Manson for some good advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 09:08 PM |
| 3 | "The Perfect Bata"This probably why some guys can be alpha in everything they do yet "Betas" when it comes to women. The social programming of the female imperative stunts their development of "holistic alphaness"tm | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 04:03 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Lesson learned = fuck her ASAP.This is like a soccer player dribbling past four defenders, chipping the ball over the goalies head so they have an open goal in front of them...then passing it back to Thundercock who drives it into the top left corner. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 02:56 PM |
| 8 | Why do men these days want big muscles? Sizeist culture?Red pill isn't a fad to "cater" to different demographics of men. It's an objective depiction of reality (the matrix) backed up by scientific and philosophical methodologies. How you react to it is your decision, but your decision isn't going to change what it is. Whether you decide not to become bigger and more muscular or stay as you are is entirely your choice, but given the benefits of being muscular it's the red pill's remit to inform you off these benefits. The question is: Why don't you w… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/16 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Another red pill I would like to see discussion about... ThxI agree or maybe high level aspergers. I once met a girl like this. She used to deliberately cause fights with rival men for her. She said "Men fighting over me and blood really turns me on, my ex glassed this guy in a pub fight and I nearly had an orgasm". Unluckily for her she met a guy who was even more fucked up than her who snapped with all her fucking about in front of him and threw her down a load of stairs, then proceeded to stamp on her head. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 08:13 PM |
| 2 | On keeping your game simple and old school.PUA is showing your value in the best possible light then burnishing it like chrome. Two TRP guys meet a smoking hot 10. One has game the other doesn't..... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 08:02 PM |
| 19 | On Being Unemotional"And who orders a steak at a dinner where they plan on breaking up with someone?" A woman who expects the man to get the cheque... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Lose Interest In Nice GuysIf you're a woman then you're programmed to branch swing but first you need a good hold on the branch you already have a grip on and know it's strengths/weaknesses. With a nice guy you know everything about the branch in question, with a player you don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/16 05:16 PM |
| 4 | My experience with RP Rage and getting over itThe rage is actually a good thing. It's the spark plug to fire up that Ferrari engine inside your mind that's always been there and fire you down the highway of red pill reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/16 10:03 PM |
| 14 | On birth control is she?One reason you should always throw your condom down the toilet and flush. Wonder why she just didn't go out to some nightclubs and ONS some thirsty guy with reasonable genes? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/16 04:10 PM |
| 5 | A lesson from the Irish: suffer in silence.I suspect the op is commenting on men who whine about things they can do something about and change, but would rather complain and moan about it then get off their ass and sort it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 09:20 AM |
| 2 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)I used to think the same as you when I was at uni (getting my first degree) 25 years in the persuasion business changed my mind. I don't catagorise ALL women like this just the vast majority you see in pubs and clubs. Using the word "ALL" is actually a persuasion method called "Chunking up to an absolute". You might still see it in the Guardian comments section..... http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12110-010-9081-5 http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886905003934 http:… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 07:27 PM |
| 1 | NAWALT here and Yes we Exist. The No NAWALT movement makes me Sad. :(In your particular case it's because your AWALT programming isn't being expressed or running due to the environment you're living in as there's no need for it to boot up and activate the behaviour traits associated with it. The crux of the matter is that you've been single for 7 years (strange) but had you got over your boyfriend quicker and started dating again your AWALT evolutionary code would have started running. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/16 07:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR]: 'Are you mad at me, or are you mad at her'- defusing fights.Pretty much all of them, some are real gold mines but others tend to be mainly fluff and filler. You won't find any of the really powerful stuff in publication as (like anything of value) the people who develop or use it want to keep it for themselves. There used to be a couple of dark web invitation only forums which both disappeared a while back but they had some really good stuff near the end. There's a guy called Igor Ledochowski who made a course on conversational hypnosis which is really g… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/16 09:20 AM |
| 7 | [FR]: 'Are you mad at me, or are you mad at her'- defusing fights.Generating an emotional state is the key to all persuasion, as when the emotions are coming out then persuasional tools can use the same road to access the limbic brain (where beliefs are held). In modern society a question from someone (especially someone you don't know) is labelled by the limbic brain as an attack [ Why are they asking me? Why do they want to know?] and treated as such until more information is available. By asking "Are you mad at me or mad at her?" the op used the guy's fast … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/16 10:18 AM |
| 1 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)The "three second" rule is really the "Three second guideline". It was originally postulated by Mystery as a way for guys to overcome approach anxiety by acting on the approach straight away before they had time to over analyse the situation and talk themselves out of it. It's other purpose is to demonstrate confidence to the girl by approaching her as soon as you have seen each other (that's what confident guys do). If you ARE confident and the girl hasn't seen you then you can analyse the situ… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/16 06:22 PM |
| 4 | The Demonization of Male Nature and the Denial of Female Nature as the Foundation of Mainstream ThoughtHow times have changed. Zarna Joshi would have been sectioned for an outburst like that even 40 years ago. She would have been sectioned now if Hugh had brought along his friends Mike Oxbig and Hugh G Rection... | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 07:47 PM |
| 3 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)If you've bought the tools yourself and know what they're used for then you will do better than someone who arrives with no tools at all. Intersex dynamic are abstract and fluid so you can fuck up to some extent and then set the game back to zero and start again. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 05:08 PM |
| 1 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)It's the information they want. You're just using it to enter the group so you can start gaming them. If you're a fat douche bag neck beard then no it wouldn't work. I'm assuming the guys on here have the basics covered. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)In my case I can't imagine it not working as the frame I present is so solid. Only once in all the times I've used it have I gotten. "Why are you asking me?" I just held frame did a silence close on her (maybe 10 seconds) and she dropped into frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)These loyalties switch and churn to various levels on a week to week basis. If a woman can't climb the hierarchy by making herself more attractive she just puts effort into making her rivals seem less attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 05:01 PM |
| 5 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)The problem is that when you jump ship for the attractive girls the low smv chick you used as a gateway strategy into the group can get really pissed off and go out of her way to fuck you up with the hotties. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 04:56 PM |
| 1 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)I know, bitches.. I think it's to do with the fat chick making up for lack of attractiveness by developing mind fuck methods to climb the ladder. I don't bother with groups like this. The fat chick may really like you but she can get a big status boost by blowing off a guy to increase her perceived attractiveness status within the group so avoid this. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 04:54 PM |
| 5 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)I thought the same thing when I first thought it up. A year later after great success I accepted that it does work and females are obsessed with inter group rivalry for mates in a way that guys just can't understand (or want to understand for that matter). If it's stupid and it works...then it's not stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 04:51 PM |
| 1 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)Very true, if you think it will work it usually does, if you know it will work then it nearly always does; it's another variant of the Pygmalion effect. When you're totally congruent with your solid frame you give off what's called BMIR's (Behavioural Manifestations of Internal Representations). These are picked up by the woman on an unconscious level and model the frame to which you're interacting. For the more scientifically minded it's to do with her global workspace being modulated by your o… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 04:47 PM |
| 4 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)TRP is the only place I would post this as most of the guys on here a fully familiar with frame control when interacting with the opposite sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 04:38 PM |
| 11 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)It's a combination of various technique from various disciplines. "Bouncing" as I mentioned in my post was originally developed by Mystery as a way to pair bond quicker with a woman by taking her out of her group and bringing her into a new one with you. When you're with the girl in the first venue you're just a guy she just met. When you enter the new venue with her then you're now a couple: The frame changes unconsciously. "Breaking the round" was a method devised by bar promoters in Ibiza bac… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 04:36 PM |
| 6 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)I know where you're coming from with this but in this case it's not applicable. If one of you likes the mother hen then another guy should buy her a drink; this yet again reinforces her status (two guys are after her!). The not buying a drink rule is to stop guys getting tooled or buying her a drink as a way win her approval. In this case it's just social engineering. If one guy does want the mother hen then that's great as the brood will do what she wants unless a proportion of them aren't pair… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 09:00 PM |
| 5 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)A wise man learns from the mistakes of others. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 06:40 PM |
| 18 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)She knows exactly what you're doing and what you're up to most of the time. If none of the guys fancy her then there's a potential for huge loss of face and status in front of her group. She can't throw you out now in a hissy fit as that would drop her status even more. Her only option is to pass you on to the group as if bestowing gifts to her brood. Her hamster brain goes into a dual reality strategy where she's framing the situation to the group as: She was approached so all the girls in her … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 05:13 PM |
| 18 | Action Always Beats Intention - a cheat sheet on game / approachingIf you've approached from behind or out of her peripheral vision then it's most likely an autopilot response as you startled her and her unconscious mind comes out with the response she knows is the most effective in getting guys to leave. If the approach is correct and you do engage her and the subject of her having a boyfriend does get mentioned the best reply is simply to nod and carry on exactly as you were ;Tyler Durden of RSD calls this "barreling through" and it's very effective. By not r… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/16 08:16 PM |
| 18 | Welcome to the Desert of The RealIn the persuasion community this is known as "social script theory". Back in the ancestral environment people learned how to behave given different social circumstances by watching how others reacted and internalising the methodologies observed into a default heuristic for themselves. Nature decided to give a trapdoor straight to the belief/limbic system when those behaviours involved the triggering of an emotion in ourselves or seeing it expressed in others. Emotions are an even older behaviour… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/16 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Why You Are Self Conscious AKA BetaThe vulnerability is demonstrating that you're not putting up a defence to a possible rejection. You're saying that you can take the blow and be unaffected should it occur. Worrying whether the girl will like you are not is the polar opposite of vulnerability as you're preparing to protect yourself from the rejection, and thus shielding your mental vulnerability to it happening. If you go in with shields down/not required then it's showing that you're outcome independent which in turn implies yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/16 06:40 PM |
| 5 | Just read three recommended TRP books. Did anyone else find "Models" by Mark Manson extremely "Purple-Pill"?Manson expounds openness and honesty entirely from a red pill perspective. His conjecture is that a man who clearly declares his desire to a woman and doesn't give a shit whether she responds with a thermonuclear shit test or blow off, exhibits extreme alpha confidence by doing so. What gets most guys confused is his definition of "vulnerability". Isn't vulnerability a beta trait? Sort of like guys opening up to a girl and telling them their mom didn't cuddle them enough when they were a kid or … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/16 04:49 PM |
| 1 | AF/BB not always a dichotomyBy rewarding good behaviour intermittently and punishing bad behaviour consistently, but also by being unpredictable in how you interact with her as regards neutral behaviour. Once you're assigned a pigeon hole of how you are from a psychological perspective, then she has a frame of reference to base her Machiavellian schemes upon and maximise their effectiveness. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 08:52 AM |
| 4 | Thoughts on ChadChad is Chad because he doesn't give a fuck whether you've banged a girl he's already had as he's already moved on to the next girl. If two Chad's are in opposition for the same girl then the "apex Chad" is the one who doesn't get her as he doesn't give a fuck that the other Chad has. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 08:48 AM |
| 0 | "I feel..." "I believe..." "I think..."So very true. Emotions are the bodyguards of beliefs. To change a belief you need to neutralise the emotions around it, as beliefs are heuristics on how to act once certain circumstances present themselves. To our evolutionary ancestors these beliefs saved their ass on many an occasion [ Sabre tooth tiger approaching: belief DANGEROUS concurrent emotion FEAR ]. Such a belief can be attenuated by the pre-frontal cortex to some extent but if so it needs to have a serious case to do so, and even th… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 08:38 AM |
| 11 | Use Conversational Unpredictability to Your AdvantageAstute post. The human brain is basically a pattern recognition machine. When we predict something before it happens we can capitalise on the event by either exploiting it or avoiding it. The brain holds so much gravitas to this situation that it even rewards itself with an increase in dopamine level (fuzzy feelz) when we get it right.. On the other hand; Change or unpredictability triggers an amygdala response. Change (from an evolutionary perspective) can be dangerous, so both alertness and ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 04:39 PM |
| 8 | Observation Regarding False Duality of FeminismLet's hope the SJW roommate doesn't hear about this or the plate may be persuaded to report "a vicious psychological misogynist assault" on a defenceless woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/16 04:19 PM |
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