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vodkamonsta/r/askTRP04/07/17 02:46 PM
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Her: my boyfriend would feel weird about that. You: he's invited too. You're thinking best case scenario she's a ho and she's into you. Im thinking most hoes aren't proud of it. You put her into a position of making the choice, thats where you fucked up. Agree and amplify, even if you are hot chick women are super invested in how they are viewed by their peers.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 11:04 PM
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Typically I view the "I'm busy then" response with no follow up a no, I think in the 90s it was "I'm washing my hair". Thw "you just want to fuck me" shit test really depends on the girl and scenario, sometimes its good to brush it off, double down, or in your case spin it back at her. Move on, you can tell her to let you know when works for her but she probably won't. Ball's in her court right now.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 10:48 PM
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Chill, you only met her once don't be so invested. If he's her "best friend" you'll eventually meet, then you can size it up better. It's a classic shit test anyway, she knows having a guy best friend can male insecure guys freak out. Don't react, who knows maybe he's cool and you two can double team her later ;)
/r/askTRP07/08/17 10:39 PM
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I don't really use social media, haven't been on facebook since they opened it up to the riff raff. I'd imagine blocking someone would be seen as petty "look at that bitter person, she must have done a number on him". Plus I know my friends and family are friends with some of my exes and you can't really do anything about that except act "as if". Which is the best course of action when something does bother you and you can't change it.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 03:41 PM
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It's kinda like if your puppy dies you gotta dispose of the corpse and move on with life. Stay focused and move forward. Occasionally I'll cross paths with an ex and we'll start banging at least for a little while. That's probably not going to happen if I keep chatting with her about the weather.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 03:32 PM
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Yeah, don't lose your virginity for the sake of it, no fat chicks unless you're into it. Start looking for stuff to do on campus. Clubs, sports leagues, whatever they got. If someone invites you to something, always say yes unless you have something better planned. If you don't need to work consider a part time job at a restaurant or something like that anyway. The main thing though, and this applies to all guys. When you're going out to the tennis club or whatever it is make that the #1 purpose…
/r/askTRP22/07/17 12:32 AM
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Smv is more than physical attraction so you have two choices, start chatting up 4s or look in the mirror, look at the bank account, look at your social standing and improve wht you can. Personally, I wouldn't date under my set standard. The only time I would recommend it is if you lack general experience in sex / dating / interacting with women. You don't want to finally land someone you're into and turn her off by being a dork or not knowing how to play the clit.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 12:05 AM
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Nah I know ugly guys that can smash some puss. It could be your standards are too high or a character flaw you aren't aware off that's turning them off. Also, for online dating if you're just using tender I'd recommend okcupid. I've had way more success on okcupid compared to tender.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 11:47 PM
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Part of what gives trp a bad reputation to outsiders is it attracts a lot of angry guys from /r/short and other incel communities. So you see a lot of negative entitled points if view/ opinions. A lot of dudes that were pushovers, got fucked over and are super bitter. Personally I never even had an anger phase or if I did I didn't even know what reddit was when it happened but some dudes are just stuck in it because they still aren't getting laid.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 04:18 PM
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when things go wrong it's like a hole forms and nothing fills it up. Co-dependancy. A good relationship should be complimentary, not filling a "void". Is there a common denominator when things go wrong? Are you correcting if it's something you fucked up? To answer your question on what your issue is. Bang a few chicks, the novelty starts to fade. But those old relationships were "special". A problem guys have is they look at old relationships with rose tinted glasses. You remeber the good times,…
/r/askTRP12/07/17 03:35 AM
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TBH It worked out well enough but I knew I was going to eat some shit for it when I posted it.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 03:56 PM
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good advice, thanks brother.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 03:46 PM
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yeah, I feel like completely ignoring it would be a concession but probably good advice to follow in the future. Fortunately it didn't really hurt my standing with her as far as I can tell, I'm not playing this one too close to the vest (sort of batting in my field). Thanks.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 03:41 PM
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What would you have suggested?
/r/askTRP04/07/17 03:32 PM
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Thanks, yeah I'm a little rusty in the dating scene and I can be a little cheesy if I think someone is into me. Sort of to balance out if they think I move too fast physically, shit like that. Definitely need to dial it down.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 03:21 PM
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I've heard saturated fat isn't bad for you unless it's mixed with sugar. So a little coconut oil in my coffee is good but general tso's chicken is bad. The sugar industry paid for the studies saying saturated fat and cholesterol were bad so they could get their greedy slimey fingers more of a market.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 02:16 PM
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Agree and amplify is almost always the right answer with shit tests but I think it would hilarious if OP did this and his wife came back arranging a foursome. Then he goes full in and sucks the other dudes dick better than her and snowballs her. "What now bitch?"
/r/askTRP02/07/17 08:37 PM
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When you're chatting about it what happens is you're putting the ball in their court a little bit and that can make some girls more hesitant. They want you to take the lead, show initiative, take what you want. That sounds a little rapey but it's true. I recently had a first date with a girl where I invited her to my place for dinner (i know i know). I went in for a kiss before she had time to put her purse down because I could tell she was pretty into me. we ate dinner then banged. No discussio…
/r/askTRP02/07/17 07:01 PM
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I have a little of that, not necessarily trying to make people laugh but I have a quick wit so it's the path of least resistance. It's been benificial socially and professionally in ways but I was worried it was just my default mode. It comes down to listening skills. I'm not thinking of a joke if I'm trying to get shit done or solve a problem, I'm focused. I still pop off something funny occasionally if it fits but as they say "God gave you two ears and one mouth". Work on your listening skills…
/r/askTRP01/07/17 05:34 PM
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Questions like this come up a lot. Not the scenario but the one-sided-ness. Read what you wrote with as little bias as you can and ask yourself if it's honest or hammed up. Think of what your actual issue is and try again.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 05:16 PM
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I think with marriage it takes two to tango, who's getting on one knee with a ring? I'm always honest about it if the topic comes up with someone I'm seeing. They don't care until they do.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 10:50 PM
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Sometimes they will say they are going on the pill out of the blue and bring it up again when I didn't react the way they wanted the first time. Or they will pick just the right time to describe their hysterectomy but don't know the word for it "he's about to pop let's get this bun in the oven". All that stuff means to me is a 3 or so month notice the relationship will be ending. Always aim away from the uterus.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 07:32 PM
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I'll toss in my two cents as someone that married young and divorced young and have had several girlfriends / fwbs since. There is a terrible Dane Cook movie called good luck chuck which is a gross exaggeration on my reality. In the movie any girl that sleeps with him finds "the one" immediately after. I am neutral on marriage. I don't have a vendetta against it but it's also something I don't seek. The good luck chuck part is I'll date a girl for awhile and one of two things happens a) biology …
/r/askTRP24/06/17 05:41 PM
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I've known girls like that. First time we meet they want to hug and they hold it a little too long. They need a little too much attention. They are all bat shit crazy. Not in the "I'm gonna set all your shit on fire crazy". It's more of a slow burn. I'm not going to suggest dumping her but setting boundaries is going to want to make her more inclined to do it. Tl;dr - dread.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 10:49 PM
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3 weeks? Chill dude. The trip had to be planned and booked before you knew who she was. Getting so attached that soon you get angry isn't paranoia is codependency or some shit.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 11:47 PM
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he "took what's mine" Women aren't property bro, it was just your turn on the bike. You don't have an ego problem you have a self confidence problem, some people with that develop narcissistic tendancies to compensate. Try to earn your own validation first, not others and especially not strangers.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 11:11 PM
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I'm going to try to translate this since it looks like english isn't your first language "women seem more interestested in me when I'm not approaching them than when I am." If that's not the case you don't have a problem, it would be like me saying "hey guys I went out for a steak but drove by another steak place on the way home." Work on your approach, you could be trying too hard or giving off a vibe that's a little too strong. Hard to say, practice will help you improve.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 11:43 PM
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Yaknow I don't totally jive with awalt. I look at stuff on a bell curve, two people can say they are adventurous and it can mean completely different things. The fact "excited4buttstuff" posts this here puts you in the "take two shots and dive off a cliff in a squirrel suit" category of awalt.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 11:29 PM
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You're more concerned over what she is doing than what you are doing. Also the fact that she pushed me away when I did nothing wrong Worry about what you do right, not about what you don't do. 5 months isn't long enough to be so invested and insecure over a chick.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:42 PM
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The fat chicks irl I've known are typically sweet, kind, not tumblrinas. In the past when I've seen posts around reddit calling out what you are I thought it was an exaggeration or just people I haven't socialized with. A week ago I started online dating after ending an ltr and ho-ly shit. When I turn these chicks down I'm nice about it. I don't call them names or even mention their weight. They are fucking vicious. The most recent one started calling me names and was saying "how I'd never get t…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 05:57 PM
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I haven't been on social media in close to a decade. I've gotten maybe one raised eyebrow ever, no one else talks about it or brings it up. I think everyone knows 95% of it is a sham but they have to keep it up to stay "connected".
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:42 AM
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"It's in everything and I need it for gainz!". Just checked my fridge, the chicken and sausage check out, produce lookin green, eggs aren't too sweet. Oh shit... greek yogurt, 6 grams in a cup I'm fucked.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:22 PM
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It's obvious sarcasm. What universe do you guys live in where you can't take a hint or understand rejection? Do you think everyone you approach is obligated to drop everything for you?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 01:06 AM
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https://m.imgur.com/4FWPNJF
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:21 AM
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Somewhere between 6 and 56
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:28 PM
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Try approaching her in a corner so she can't reject your advances.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:28 PM
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Don't write 4 paragraphs and devote one to how you don't know how to link a post. Stop dancing, be clear with your question.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 11:25 AM
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For the uninitiated what you are seeing here is male hampster spining.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 03:03 AM
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Asking strangers about it online is a big one. Your gut is talkin to you. Or maybe youre parinoid. Gotta be specific, its like asking "where's the good pizza?" Without giving a location.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 12:56 AM
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To be fair, if this is a true story OP's wife has to be a sugar momma. she'd get mad if she found out I'm having fun not only with her. Does that sound like a married man with his own income or a name listed on a mortgage? He may just be incredibly stupid but anyone that dumb isn't typing all that shit here. Tl;dr - fake and gay or the marriage was a sham to begin with.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 10:33 PM
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Pros and cons. I prefer ltrs because the sex is better, it's fun having a girl available to go on trips with, go out to dinner with... I'm not going to marry again or cohabitate again. It's a good set up, I'm honest about it. I know people are gonna do what they are going to do and if a girl decides she wants to get married or have a kid they're going to do it. The what is more important then the who. It's just not going to be me. Fair enough.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 04:59 PM
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You're being pretty vague, example? There is a personality that exists in some people that I think you are describing which is "I don't need to look at this persons resume to know they have some history as a low level supervisor in the service industry. And no one under them liked them." Women and men can both have it. To the untrained eye it looks like they think their shit doesn't stink but deep down they've got nothing going on for themselves. I think they are pretty easy to ignore.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 10:03 PM
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Maybe they thought you were a badass and could take care of your own problems? Im going to guess you instigated it assuming your friends were going to jump in. If a couple dudes jumped one of my friends it's not even a question I got there back but if my friend was talkin mad shit or started throwing punches he is on his own.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 09:34 PM
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She wants OP to have the last word technically, but on her terms. If they feel guilty about anything at all after a breakup chicks will go at a dude like I go at a tube of tooth paste, if they can get away with it. Tip to OP though she's gonna pop up here and there for years if something is really bugging her.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 12:08 AM
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It basically got overrun by a bunch of frustrated guys from /r/incels and /r/short living out some sort of fantasy. Obvious fake post where the top comment recommending the opposite of what anyone in that situation would ever do unless they had some desire to get shot or have their car fucked up.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:38 PM
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General rule of thumb is a month a year to get over someone so you're probably in the home stretch. If it takes longer I look at it like this. If you drive a nice lexus and have to down grade to a PT cruiser you're gonna be salty about it. People don't like to downgrade, a homeless guy would love to have that same PT cruiser, but not you. Are you working on upgrading yourself or at least maintaining? Do you think you won't be able to get someone as good as her again because you aren't good enoug…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 12:42 AM
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News at 6: cold water wakes you the fuck up. I don't dog on the cold showers at all but I feel like there aren't a lot of people talking about it in December.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 12:27 AM
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All I'm seeing is someone talking about anal they got 2 years ago. A new car is sorta your car after a couple of weeks. You got a test drive but didn't have the credit.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 12:23 AM
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Rookie mistake " a few extra pounds" + only face pics = she is gonna look like she's wearing a backpack and fanny pack under her clothes. Ya done got cat fished, but really you should know better. Bail on that every time. You didn't lie to her, she lied to you. How is that any way to start a relationship?
/r/askTRP29/05/17 12:43 AM
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Probably the answer OP needs to see. I know an "asking for a friend" question when I see one.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 12:08 AM
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The question makes no sense. Are you trying to build a resume for some potential mate? Don't stay in a relationship you don't want to be in. You're trying to fix a leaky roof by putting a bucket on the ground. You don't want to be in a long term relationship, guess what that's totally fine. If you think it's a problem by all means look for the root cause and work on that.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 11:50 PM
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Hi guys I have a question. Proceeds with 4 paragraphs and no question.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 11:45 PM
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making money living in grandma's house What you care about doesn't seem to be working out too well. You don't need a hobby, you need 3. No one cares about what you don't care about. No one cares what you care about until you can demonstrate it.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 01:25 AM
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In a way you're right. You can be jacked but if you have a bad personality, ugly face, a reputation as an abuser, short, poor, live at home, have no other hobbies, no job... it's not gonna help a whole bunch. But it's still going to help. There is no silver bullet. If you got all or most of your shit in line and lift also it's going to help a bunch. Not just with looking better but feeling better and being more confident.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 01:02 AM
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Going to a boss isn't going to do anything except make you look petty. So another dude is doing the work for 2 or atleast being distracted away from his tasks enough time you could assume a drop in productivity. You now look better in comparision, assuming you aren't slacking off.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 04:13 PM
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Drunk bitches gonna be drunk bitches but seriously ignoring a drunk chick with daddy issues is like sneaking up on Vietnam vet with ptsd and firing a machine gun in the air.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 04:08 PM
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Stop being a pussy
/r/askTRP12/05/17 11:05 PM
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So you're completely clueless. You think you need people to run your life, if you're not clueless you might be retarded. If you can't provide a specific example or even a vague one of a choice you made and it didn't work out no one can help you. Sayin " dur i feel alien" is a lazy cop out.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 10:59 PM
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Problrm solving 101 is identifying the problem. The problem is you can't articulate it, or admit to it or even take a guess. Why do people not like you? Take a guess.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 10:54 PM
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You're projecting insecurities. If you work toward some goals and accomplishments why would you be mad at something outside of your control? The "anger phase" is sorta bullshit to me so I don't sympathize with it.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 10:48 PM
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You're maintence calories are going to drop with your weight. Maybe a hundred and some change with a 15 pound weight loss. That seems like a lot of carbs for a cut but I'm not an expert on that. Honestly whenever I lose weight I just got super low carb / high fat. Basically meats and greens. A month of that sticking to it 100% sucks for the first week but it's super effective for me.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 09:05 PM
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It really comes down to calories in calories out. Is the 500 deficit based on your 155 weight or have you adjusted it? How accurate is your counting? Change what you can in your daily habits, cut all liquid calories. Make sure you are getting plenty of sleep. And I wil say as useful as calorie counting is you ultimately should be feeling a little hunger at the end of the day if you are truly in a deficit.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:44 PM
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I have a buddy that thinks all chicks are nuts. That's because all the women he dates are nuts and all the women in his family are nuts. He is attracted to and attracts crazy on some level. He's the common denominator, not women, won't hear it though. If all the chicks you talk to ghost it's not "all women" it's you. Figure out why they ghost. Are you clingy? Boring? a drunk? How do you present yourself and what can you change. It's not all hit the gym / make money, personality is a big factor.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:26 PM
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veganazis Damn and I thought I was autistic. People into that shit, especially if they are young, basically wrap their whole identity around it. It would be like if she was black and you suggested fried chicken and watermelon. The other thing that might not apply here 100% but worth mentioning is pulling the audible on the first date. Now if she just straight up said that place isn't kosher lets go here instead that is one thing but, anytime a chick suggests a lateral move on a first date it's a…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 09:25 PM
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Get a job.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 11:41 PM
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Lately, my LTR has been sending me very overt signals by telling me she feels I don't tell her I love or care about her enough I guess you could call verbal communication an "overt signal". Actions speak louder then words. I can tell you the pizza is good, but, if it's shitty pizza now I'm down two. She doesn't want you to verbally tell her anything. Stop barking up that tree.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 08:40 PM
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The "what are you looking for on here?" Question in online dating is to weed out dudes who say "I just wanna fuck" or "I'm looking for a soulmate." Don't give a yes /no answer to an open ended question. When I did online dating and got that question I normally responded with something that was just satisfactory enough to not seem dodgy and to move the convo forward. "just dipping my toes in the dating pool, wanna fuck? one step at a time! (Insert a question to steer the convo toward meeting)".
/r/askTRP07/05/17 05:36 PM
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That's your prerogative. Whatever interests you or some place you want to check out or thing you want to do.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 05:27 PM
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It's actually Sunday and I don't know what "tremendous AA" is or why it's relevant. I don't see a problem with going out alone as long as their is a purpose. Whenever I'm out somewhere and see a dude by himself twiddling his thumbs and people watching I think it's weird. And if I think it's weird it probably creeps out chicks, so don't do that.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 05:09 PM
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Jesus on a stick, this sub sometimes...
/r/askTRP07/05/17 01:57 AM
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Yeah, I tell her to buzz off. Don't mess with chicks in relationships, not a fan of drama especially when it is 100% unnecessary. Especially in a scenario where the boyfriend is there and booze is involved. What I would be asking myself if I were you is "why is this the only thing I can get at this party?" And work on that.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 11:11 PM
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Exercise, diet, sleep. Take action on what? Set specific goals, accomplish them and you will feel better.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 10:27 PM
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Specifics needed. Doesn't sound like a mapulation scenario to me but prove me wrong.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 06:34 PM
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Don't give ex's a second of your time or thought. You don't owe her shit and most of the time if an ex is reaching out its for validation or an ego boost.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 06:06 PM
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Here's what I think is going on. You have poor listening skills. You're spending too much time in your head thinking of what to say next you aren't flowing well with the conversation. I say this because I've been around plenty of dudes like that, trying to steer the subject way off course with no flow and getting disapointed when people dont hop on board. It doesnt work unless you're super fucking charming. Work on your listening skills, contribute to the conversation when appropriate. When in d…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 10:47 PM
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Yeah as far as i know ive never been in a "friend zone" (they are either my friend or not) but I've definitely been friends with girls that like me more then that. I never put them in the friendzone, most of the time I was completely oblivious to it until they made a move. Maybe they went in for the kiss, straight up said they would fuck me or asked me out. A lot of times it caught me off guard, particularly when I was younger because they all knew I had a girlfriend and didn't give a shit. I co…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 10:28 PM
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It's the ol reddit "step one: be attractive" + zero substance trp "lift bro it works!" Combined with poor grammar I see here a lot. When you put work into yourself and see the results you act differently. You're happier, more charismatic, outgoing, less of a damp towel. You went from zero notice to realistically maybe got approached a couple times and cant handle it. The novelty of what you are experiencing will wear off soon.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:40 PM
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The problem with these fake scenarios we're commenting on is irl dates are specific. Place and time. She isn't planning a devious plot, you faggots got hugged by mom so hard you think saying "tuesday yo!" Is gonna make a chick who doesn't know you call in a reservation.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 03:15 AM
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Two different kinds of emojis in the response, bitch is crazy. If she was into you at all you wouldn't be reading this.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 02:57 AM
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We can continue our riveting discussion of how you have no hobbies and I have too many Your neck beard is showing. If you have to explain why you're interesting, you aren't.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 02:45 AM
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I'm not saying the dude wasn't completely out of line, not saying you tried stirring shit but come on. You're doing a thesis on a topic you think is mundane? You think you have to be addressing someone directly and if they are in earshot "too bad"? Where is this rock you live under?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:16 AM
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Your POV is definitely skewed, everything was perfect, you seemingly did absolutely nothing wrong. If she was just a crazy bitch it would be obvious but it smells like you're fucking up and don't want to admit it. Here is how apologizing works since you bring it up a lot. If i spill a glass of wine on your carpet, say "sorry" and walk away, guess what, I'm not sorry. If I try cleaning it up and pay for the carpet cleaner then I am sorry. Don't say sorry unless you can a) recognize your mistake a…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:48 AM
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You didn't actually answer the question so I'll clarify. Obviously the relationship has run it's course. The question now is if your name is on the lease or not. If you actually think the relationship isn't over you can't go "we got in one little fight". Where there is smoke there is fire and if you can't articulate the root issue how could you solve it?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:13 AM
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That's a little too forward to work out well for 95% of guys. Brad Pitt might do alright on that method. If your batting way under your leauge ya know, cut straight to the chase yeah. Typically girls like guys that take the lead and saying "yo girl wanna fuck" puts the ball in their court and can at best make them super uncomfortable and at worse give you a reputation as a creep if you do it too much.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:25 AM
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She sends me another message today telling me to wake up Does this sound to you like the actions of a woman that views you as dominant?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:19 AM
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From my understanding of the culture at universities these days I'm not suprised the reaction you were met with. "Hey guys I rolled myself in honey and poked a bear with a stick and it attacked me!". As far as fighting goes don't throw the first punch, avoid it if you can and you normally can. You can get in legal trouble, get sued, get a record, get kicked out of school. It's not worth it. Don't go around poking bees nests, but if you do don't be suprised what happens.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:59 AM
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Stop chatting with ex's. There is a reason you aren't together. I could tell you to block her number or not respond if she messages but we both know that ain't gonna happen. So instead lets hope you don't spend your day celibrating another trip around the sun next year thinking about some chick you aren't fucking anymore.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 02:44 AM
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I clicked just to make sure it's your own skin. Put on something with spf and have a clean pillow case. Don't spend a bunch of money on shit that dries your skin out and more money on shit to remoisturize it.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 02:38 AM
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Reading between the lines it isn't working for you because you talk too much about nothing. Social media is at the very least 80% good pictures, time to get some friends and hobbies buddy.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 01:09 AM
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It doesn't, sluts are great. Loaded question equals loaded response, the only dudes that are mad about it aren't mad that people are fucking, it's that they aren't fucking them. That or some poor dude got attached to a slut. Also, stop slut shaming because as I said, sluts are great!
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:55 AM
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If you're angerly defending a consumption hobby like that... you kinda validate my point!
/r/askTRP14/04/17 05:57 PM
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It's not about shame it's about taste and maturity. You can try to "own" dressing like a slob but you will be judged negatively. You can try to "own" that life sized stormtrooper suit in the middle of your living room and you will be judged for who you are, a manbaby. Taste is subjective to a certain extent but adults that live for fantasy fiction are going to be judged a certain way. And the great thing about steriotypes is they exist for a reason.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 03:11 PM
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Ill also point out to guys reading this that are inexperienced; a lot of times when you pass a shit test the chick is not going to be happy. Don't think if you pass you get a gold star "oh what a man he is!". As Patrice said a women will instinctively try to bitch you up. If you've ever seen a kid raised by a single mother he is almost always going to be a little bitch. Why would the mother do that to her own child? She can't fucking help it. When you pass a shit test and she gets mad it's basic…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 01:22 PM
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Check out local art store or places like ikea or pier one imports (I know) and see what matches your tastes and the room (ie dont get a 4 foot painting for a 100 sq ft room). If you have any family pictures pop up a couple of those. Ffs though no nerdy shit or posters. A guy I know moved into a new place and put up a bunch of these starwars prints. I explained to him that is not going to help if he brings a girl over.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 01:03 PM
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Tats are too ubiquitous these days to even paint broad strokes about. You can make calls, shitty tattoo vs well done. Does it suit then? Do they have more then one that need an explination? 10 years ago it was the tribal tat, now it's the cursive quote that tells you the person is a tool.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 01:37 AM
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Women are 100 percent fine with real men, not people pretending to be one which I suspect a lot of people around here do. I get that a lot of people here are behind the curve but don't make everything someone else's problem. My guess is anyone agreeing with you is trying too hard and it's not working out. Guess what, we can all tell if you're being fake to get people to respond to you a certain way and it's creepy. Women love men, everyone hates creeps.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 12:42 AM
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If you have enough disposable income to get tipsy at a bar every single night you have more then enough to get your own place. What are you gonna do? Try bringing chicks back to mommy and daddys house?
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:08 PM
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Don't ghost her, just back off. If you text her all the time stop texting her all the time. She wants "time" so give her that, anything counter will just make you look more needy. In the mean time date other people as if she's no longer an option and ffs don't go proposing after the first date.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 09:37 PM
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By asking about a relationship after only meeting in person a couple times you kinda screwed up, makes you look needy. I'm not even going to bring up the topic if we haven't banged yet. Really im not going to ever bring it up. Sometimes a bitch will tell a friend she's my girlfriend and I gotta do damage control but you're on damage control now. Back off, do not bring it up again, let her
/r/askTRP11/04/17 09:26 PM
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So what's her game? One of two things. The first and most likely one is she likes attention from guys and found that once they find out she has a boyfriend the stream of messages stop. Chicks like texting, chicks like attention. She has no other intentions. The second one, which is what everyone here seems to think is she wants your bones. If that was the case you would typically know loud and clear and she wouldn't give a second thought to her current relationship. what should I do? Personally …
/r/askTRP11/04/17 09:02 PM
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99% when someone says they are depressed I think they can cure it or at least put a big dent in it with diet and exercise. If your diet is fine, and you work out and are in shape that's not it. And you said it popped up out of no where so it's hard to solve a problem without knowing the cause. That being said I suspect you are not giving all of the details. Do you drink in excess or have any other kind of substance addiction? Are you getting enough sleep? Is there some sort of smoking gun? If yo…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 03:32 PM
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Benching 60 pounds for 2 months and you expected what exactly? What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/askTRP09/04/17 03:25 AM
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I think whenever there are two sides the truth is somewhere in the middle. I've seen dudes get married and not slow down in terms of improving themselves but a little more often is the dude starts slacking. Gets a little to comfortable, drops frame picks up a few extra lbs. People that move in together after getting married basically throw a monkey wrench into their habits and it's either adapt or get left behind.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 04:02 PM
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I've actually climbed rocks without the use of a car (heavy anyway). Hope some people reply, currently trying to play harmonica but don't have enough lawn mowers!
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:00 PM
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There are gay people and there are faggots. Gay people are gay and faggots use being gay as a motorized wheelchair. Your so is crutching herself on faggots. The good news is she knows a fag and is using it as a canary in the coal mine to see if you are one too.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:39 AM
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The funny part is if they think youre too available to them they'll shit test the shit out of it. It's like a cat "I want out, oh im out? Now i want in! Oh you're letting me in? Maybe now I want to stay out... just until you close the door."
/r/askTRP06/04/17 10:03 PM
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I'm fine with that, if they're educated they are more likely be productive members of society and contribute when they start working. It's not like the govt. wastes most of the money and the public education system is garbage or anything right? I mean these kids will pay thier taxes and I'll be able to collect social security when i retire... right?
/r/askTRP06/04/17 09:59 PM
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There you go everyone
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:18 AM
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This is one of those deals where the info isn't checking out, I'd say the real question is the flip side, why's a 30 year old who knows what she wants not able to get it? Gotta read between the lines. This probably isn't a beta bucks thing, OP says he's attracted to her but not that she is attractive. OP doesn't say his dick doesn't work, just not for her. He probably isn't gay, I just think he got thursty and landed one and feels stuck. Regardless of age the relationship should end. Sexual comp…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 12:39 AM
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Stop drinking for a month. Go on a long walk every night instead. White knuckle it, hate it. Worry about you first, school second and everything else a distant third. The number 1 priority is to quit drinking, make that your focus. Your head will clear up and you can make a better decision on where you want school, career and everything else to go.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 12:13 AM
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Don't listen to these other guys. I'll give you one of my many techniques. Go up to her and open with a light ice breaker followed by unsolicited advice "hey there, I see you're on the hip ad machine, I find I get a a lot better pump on when I hold the rep in a few seconds. Also I think it would be hip of you to add your number in my phone." Then hold your phone out to her. Another good one is get on the treadmill next to her or spin bike and act like you're on a very important business call (do…
/r/askTRP01/04/17 07:07 PM
1

It will feel like work at first if you aren't really into it, it's not fun because you suck at it and the beginner stuff is boring. Like with guitar there is a lot of dexterity and coordination you don't have and put that on top of fingers hurting from lack of callus and the f chord being a bit of a bitch to beginners the whole thing is a drag. Guys that really wanted to learn and got at it early and often got past those pains because they really wanted to play. Same with any hobby that requires…
/r/askTRP31/03/17 10:00 PM
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Find a hobby that developes a skill that you are interested in. Paint, play guitar, take up archery, martial arts, join a sports league. Preferably something you can devote at least 30 minutes to every day.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 09:26 PM
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I think a good profile is 80% pictures. Ive done the only dating thing for a few short stints and had plenty of success. 5 or so pictures, last time I used one from a back packing trip, one with a group of friends at a party, one on stage wth my band maybe one selfie (I know) and something where I'm decked out (dance floor at a wedding). I don't need to waste one word of my profile talking about hanging out with friends, liking the outdoors or being a musician because they got all that swiping t…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 10:04 PM
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Tl:dr - I'm a massive failure in life and it's not my fault. Get your shit together, 32 years old and acting like that is disgraceful. Maybe you're just a piece of shit to live life in a way you fucked yourself over so bad. Missing work over a chick? You check all the boxes for massive pussy, you arent omega you are a letter so useless no one ever thought to invent.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 09:30 PM
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You're probably quitting so much because you're doing the same wrong shit each time you go back. If you used machines go to the free weights and start light to get you form down. If you used the elliptical go to the treadmill and focus on progress. Your problem is "the gym was easy" mindset. If the gym was easy you wouldn't get shit done.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 08:27 PM
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This is one tough game of bingo!
/r/askTRP19/03/17 03:36 AM
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Is there a reason you need to force your hobbies on first dates? Can you not do coffee? I get laid a lot by default being a musician but in no universe is the cost of the hobby on the radar dating wise, it's almost a zero.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 11:45 PM
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I understand you're posturing given the medium but I'm confused, you want to eat out a lot but don't want to pay after the first date? Could you explain the problem you're having?
/r/askTRP18/03/17 08:36 PM
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Whenever somone says "being gay is a choice" all I hear is "im a repessed homsexual or bisexual". For me, my sexuality can't be changed anymore then my bloodtype. How could someone think it's a choice unless they had to make that choice at some point?
/r/askTRP18/03/17 04:37 PM
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I got catfished a couple times online dating. First one the chick must have used pictures from highschool. In person she had full sleeved tattoos, her ears were swiss cheese like you couldn't fit one more earring in there and she was about 40 pounds heavier. I insisted she had the wrong guy, "aren't you vodkamonsta?" she said. Yes I am and I'm meeting someone with your name but I can assure you its not you, what a coincidence bye! second one girl used "athletic" for her body type which in her mi…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 01:39 PM
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Don't say "women don't want to be with you if..." own in "I currently think women don't want to be with me because...". You can blame the skin problem or get to a point where "it's always something but I'm working on it and proud!". nothing worse then self loathing, zero gravity.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:44 AM
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I got academically suspended so im not in the same town as her right now Get off reddit and do your homework and stop worrying about some chick. btw flunking out of classes you choose checks all the marks of loser right now stop trying to scapegoat a chick for that.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 03:10 AM
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Stop reading his texts and take him fishing or something. Gotta say it's pretty creepy to be into a 15 year old striking out in high school even if you're banging his mom. Give him an apple in the morning and make sure he does his homework at night, other then that it sounds like you're projecting some insecurities.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 02:42 AM
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Got bad news for you OP, I was at the grocery store the other day and this chick who dated a loser like you thay never let her leave the house sucked my cock in the parking lot.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 03:41 AM
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exactly, if he didn't respond she'd probably be at it again eventually or think "oh boy I really did a number on him!". I think it's good to have proper closer at the end of a relationship, ghosting is the best response most of the time but a quick "whatever bitch" can really seal the deal.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 03:13 PM
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little early to be drinking pal
/r/askTRP04/03/17 09:48 PM
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I've been on the otherside where a chick is flirting with me in front of her guy. Out at the bar wingmaning it with some bros, chick comes right up wanting to dance. She's there with a dude and another couple. Or she's there with a dude who's a little too drunk and starts chatting me up too much. I always get weird vibes from that shit, I'm pretty good at dorking my way out without being a dick but I don't get why dudes put up with any of that shit. I couldn't see giving any time to a chick that…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 07:12 PM
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There are a lot of posts like this here that are almost zero substance, "lift dude it works!" and everyone goes "yeah dude it does!". Every day your competition is getting weaker and weaker by getting married This is terrible advice. Don't assume that. Do not assume anything, do not assume things magically get better. yes you will grow up or be more financially secure or better at what you do because you are doing it. Things get better by default if you aren't a glutton or junky. Don't assume an…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 01:11 AM
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I swear I've never known anyone that announced a weight loss plan have any success. I've known people that lost weight without sayin a fucking word about it. I always make sure to say something "hey jim, lookin slim!" because you can see them get pumped up and super happy all their work paid off and they aren't telling me that, im telling them. then they might talk about it.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 11:58 AM
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