Hey, need some feedback on a TRP issue I am in the middle of pls. I've been seeing a girl for 3 weeks. We hit it off straight away. She puts in a lot of effort and for instance she even replies to my texts instantly. She's 10+ years younger than me and has recently graduated. All good. She's also a big stoner and smokes everyday, I don't, but have no issues if others do.

She told me last week she was going to Spain this week for 4 days with a male friend of hers. The reason, to smoke up, as the gear is amazing there....OK. Issue is she’s hesitated more than once to tell me his name or anything about him until I got angry and called it quits. She has since repeatedly protested her innocence.

My issue is, they're alone, abroad, they've rented an apt on the hills away from any city life, smoke all day and don't go out. They're both attractive and from my experience, 2 stoners alone getting high means only one thing and she's playing me. She won't even give me details of where she is staying.

The flip side is since all this flared up, she's called me regularly to alleviate my concerns and has suggested I talk to her male friend….but this is all before she gets stoned. When she’s high, she almost doesn’t care and that’s prob when I’m being played by both of them. Am I being paranoid, is this down to our age gap or should I trust my gut? Cheers for getting this far, appreciate your thoughts.