vraimentaleatoire Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late. Thanks for the edited version-- the original had me rolling my eyes (implying life starts and ends after your 20s)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 01:45 AM
6	The first time a new guy takes 24H+ to text, call, or reach out in any form? Don't bother acting chill, move on. I needed this so badly thank you!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 10:06 AM
32	A “Not Engaged!” Photoshoot. She’s the one who booked this session too. (The ring she’s wearing is a promise ring). Remember when American Eagle had those “reversable tshirts”? The inside of her shirt says “IM ENAGAGED!!!1!!!1”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/21 04:11 AM
29	but where is the lie????? I finally unfollowed the dating (maybe it was relationships? Samesame) sub when a self-identified woman posted to remind men that they are important and their opinions matter. Would’ve sent her that meme of the swimmer in a pool refreshing himself with water... I wanted to PM her this sub. How do we connect with these women? Can we? Is it worth the effort	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/20 07:47 AM
5	Blocking gets much easier the more you do it. When you start blocking, instead of engaging, at the first sign of disrespect, it starts to feel good I am extremely proud of my block list.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/20 07:09 AM
4	Let’s look up to great inspiration! OMG I LOVE THIS SUB I’m going to acknowledge the elephant in the room— she is also naturally GORGEOUS and not one person brings that up as one of her traits. I’m bringing it up because it’s obvious and I just love that whenever she is talked about it’s regarding her MERITS. This small little thing makes me hopeful. Rock on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/20 08:34 AM
2	My personal dating strategy I am practising	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/06/20 12:13 AM
17	Remember this Yes, and I’m so glad you brought that up. I did realize he was depressed/ had anxiety issues. But I also tried to help him. We got a dog. Who I took (still take, he’s mine ;) ) for long walks in the forest. Asked bf to join me every day. Never said yes. Booked vacations. He didn’t want to come. So I travelled alone. Asked him about his feelings, always shot down that he’s “fine, just work[s] late and am tired”. 7 years of living with this and eventually I had to decide. Me or him. My perspective…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/20 06:29 AM
1	Men understand other men’s motives. This guy 100% gets it. Yes! I have a 2 year old nephew that I love so much. And I am actively fighting all instinct to ask him for hugs and kisses. I want him to grow up knowing that you shouldn’t be demanded or guilted into those intimacies. Hopefully it will eventually grow into him knowing not to demand those from other people either. I truly believe the next generation is everything when it comes to consent and feminism. Ps: if anyone has tips for an auntie regarding this subject, id love to hear 💜	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/20 06:15 AM
140	Remember this Preach! I’m in my mid-thirties. Single going on 2 years now from a 7 year LTR. He was my best friend, my comfy place, we never bickered and we truly loved each other. And it was the hardest decision I had to make to end it. But I knew if in 7 years he wasn’t working on himself or putting as much effort into building our relationship as I was, that a ring would not change that (let’s not even get into 7 years and no ring- I see it as a win). It’s just absolutely not true that you need to “just wo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/20 05:52 AM