My personal dating strategy

balladwilds · 2020-06-06T09:37:08+00:00

Lol i was expecting a long post

k20_4 · 2020-06-06T10:54:11+00:00

I too have tried this one and have found that it's the best one yet

Sweetwill_petal · 2020-06-06T11:36:35+00:00

Will date again if men are worth it💁‍♀️

curlygirl507 · 2020-06-06T12:03:57+00:00

Some women come to this sub basically wanting a discussion group for The Rules, they want a husband right away and think they'll figure out how to do that with our help. But 99% of the time, it's just not worth it. How many married couples do you all know that seem to be truly happy, happier than they would be apart? I don't know too many. I think it's wonderful to be able to create your own life exactly the way you want it without having to compromise constantly. That's not to mention that the vast majority of men treat women horribly, of course.

I post on this sub because I want women to know that they're enough by themselves. They don't need a man, and they shouldn't put up with any mistreatment. Their own lives are worth developing, exploring, and continuously improving independently without any kind of attachment to a man.

Pasdepromesses · 2020-06-06T16:51:45+00:00

Hahaha, I felt this.

After almost 17 years of LTR's, I've been single for about 4 months now. I'm 32 and I feel no rush. I love it. A HVM I know asked me out on a date this week and I literally got a panic attack. So I told him I am intentionally single at the moment and am taking a break from dating.

This felt so liberating. You can give yourself so much while being single. I am only ready to date when I trust myself to take up as much space within a relationship as I do being single. And FDS is one of the things that is actually getting me there.

beatlefreak_1981 · 2020-06-06T12:49:39+00:00

I had this realization the other day. Why do I need to be spending my time on men. Isn't there better shit for me to concentrate on? YES! They will come to me because I am so awesome so I don't really have to try.

metal_clouds · 2020-06-06T14:52:57+00:00

It's funny because FDS is about a lot more than dating. It's teaching me how to find out who I am and what I want. It's teaching me how to put myself first and that if a man does come my way he should add something good to my life not make me miserable. And finally that liking who you are and making a life for yourself is much more important than trying to please a man.

curlygirl507 · 2020-06-06T17:19:05+00:00

I love seeing more posts like this. I don't think that there are enough HVM for all of the HVW and that learning how to be self sufficient in every way (including having a full emotional life) is the #1 goal. Men never should be the goal

spreadmywings89 · 2020-06-06T09:23:47+00:00

I laughed so hard at this. I feel you.

I personally am taking a short break, but I will get back to dating soon.

Incredible_Alligator · 2020-06-06T19:38:04+00:00

The only thing I miss is cuddles. I looooove cuddles. That was the one thing my ex LVM was actually decent at. But even still, cuddles aren't really worth all the rest of the hassle.

buy_me_cookies · 2020-06-06T12:46:08+00:00

Good shit 👍

Anonsubordinate · 2020-06-06T17:08:21+00:00

Damn right, I don't want to share my life with anyone. I'd rather have it all to myself.

plutunic · 2020-06-06T17:43:43+00:00

lmfao

persephones_torch · 2020-06-06T18:11:31+00:00

Wasn't sure what to expect when I clicked, but I was pleasantly surprised

ErikaNaumann · 2020-06-06T20:54:53+00:00

🥇

missliberia · 2020-06-06T19:33:04+00:00

😂😂😂😂

2020-06-06T14:17:44+00:00

I agree.

vraimentaleatoire · 2020-06-07T00:13:21+00:00

I am practising

Title	My personal dating strategy
Author	theseviraltimes
Upvotes	284
Comments	31
Date	June 6, 2020 7:02 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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