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| 186 | Coronavirus making married moms realize that they may have a husband, but they don't have a partnerSo many married women are technically "single moms"... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:27 PM |
| 19 | The Biology argument is in our favorI especially think it's hilarious when they defend male desire to rape as a biologically ingrained reproductive strategy. Harming the mother is never a good reproductive strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:23 PM |
| -3 | When you have to motivate your husband into talking care of his OWN kids and his OWN house. Couple goals🥰I do think this is supposed to be a parody haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 11:53 PM |
| 2 | What’s your enneagram?9w8- Peacemaker with Challenger wing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 07:49 PM |
| 30 | A observation on men and reading...Absolutely agree with you, but with one caveat: I have met men who are very interesting and well rounded who are not big readers, simply because they find it more difficult to process information that way. Instead, they watch a lot of documentaries, listen to podcasts and audiobooks, etc. I think what to look out for is someone who is curious, well-rounded, and focused on his intellectual growth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 04:07 PM |
| 37 | Fun Quarantine ActivityYes!! Esp Barnett and Damian | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone watched 'Down With Love'?Its a cute movie! I recommend it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:52 PM |
| 7 | FDS-adjacent FICTION novelsKarin Slaughter is AMAZING I love all her books. I really liked The Kept Woman! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:17 PM |
| 14 | FDS-adjacent FICTION novelsI LOVE DOMESTIC THRILLERS thank you for this post. Let me add: The Girl on the Train (there was a movie, the movie sucks, read the book) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:14 PM |
| 7 | Feminism has argued for my equality, but has FAILED to aggressively defend my interests - this is why women need FDS and Feminism needs FDSAsking for rights from the people you gave birth to is tacit admission of your own inferiority. No thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:36 PM |
| 9 | A list of Liberal Feminism’s Effect on RelationshipsYES - this is the danger of adults telling girls "woohoo, you're equal now! you can do anything!" like yes, in theory, but in practice, there are so many invisible roadblocks to women and girls and when they inevitably run into them, they'll end up blaming themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:33 PM |
| 42 | My mom said it herself: most men don’t know what they wantMen love having a docile doormat servant, doesn't mean they love her. It's like "men love it when you do xyz..." doesn't mean "men will love you when you do xyz" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 12:52 PM |
| 96 | What do you do about pubic hair? How does it affect your dating life?can't fuck with a man who doesn't appreciate my carnal feral woman vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:41 PM |
| 12 | So triggering when men minimize the impact of leering... it makes me second guess my reaction. What do you all think about his statement?in my nonverbal psych class, we discussed staring, and that it is both intended and perceived as an invasion of personal space. It's like ... psychological groping | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 11:26 AM |
| 2 | $5,000 can put me in community college for 2 semesters, or rent with utilities for 4 months, or start my 401k and financial advisory plans. Everyone is framing this as cute, but I can’t imagine giving up so much.Even a mom doing this for her son is fucking yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:25 PM |
| 34 | Could not help myself, these LVM are so entertaining 😩😂that's generous of you, considering he looks illiterate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 10:44 AM |
| 13 | PoF is filled with LVM. Don't fall for the word salad, ladies. If you're confused, don't try to make sense of it. No response is the best response. It's hard to tell whether this guy is an idiot or trying to neg me. It reads like "hey, you're hideous, but I can see the beauty underneath"😂jerk-off motion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:17 AM |
| 46 | Just sounds like your man makes no effortevery time I see a man in a wrinkled shirt I hear the ghost of my Russian grandmother saying "did you stuff that shirt up your ass overnight?" and then all feelings of attraction go away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:16 AM |
| 53 | Currently not workingat least he gives his birth chart info up front (I did it, that shit is a MESS) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 11:44 AM |
| 4 | This one is just. I genuinely hope she "only" got a degree for her investment 🙄if you're looking for a husband why would you go to a place rife with broke guys who don't have their shit together? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 12:13 PM |
| 5 | Never settle.who I'm tryna be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:09 PM |
| 19 | LVM on Tinder be like:maybe but I have the pu$$y and you don't 🙃 I can make whatever demands I want! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:03 PM |
| 19 | Pick me! I'm so different so you don't need to put effort in.girlfriend, you're young and pretty and skinny enough to find an older dude that will be buying you Cartier and shit ... and you're here accepting car dates. fuck you, actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:00 PM |
| 43 | Do males need "male Gods" to properly function in society?Yes they do. Here's my two cents. Feminists like to say that religion and government are patriarchal institutions men created to control women but I don't actually think that was the intended purpose. They created them to control themselves (controlling women was just the added benefit). It's a survival strategy. Men don't have an ingrained sense of right and wrong like women do - look at crime rates. And men loooooooove to remind anti-establishment women just what will happen if the government … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 11:51 AM |
| 35 | No effort from them = no effort from you. Men will initiate texts, dates, and commitment with women they’re really into. Don’t give them excuses for not trying and program yourself to literally be turned off by their lack of effort.is this what Andra Dworkin meant when she said "harden your hearts and learn to kill"?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 08:59 AM |
| 33 | The Effort is Too Lowis ya daddy a lazy shit too?🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 09:04 PM |
| 7 | So, here's the thing....I'm really tempted to start trolling these trash pilesHenry XIII literally created a whole new RELIGION cause he wanted to leave his wife so bad. If he doesn't leave it's cause he doesn't want to! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:22 PM |
| 15 | I need to rant a little bittheir relationship is that she is not allowed to see other people. that's it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:18 PM |
| 31 | Reminder: Limiting your potential is a form of abuse.And a reminder: simply the absence of purposefully limiting potential isn't enough! a man who is or wants to be your husband should be putting you through school if you want a career, investing in your business if you're trying to start one up, paying for your gym membership if you want to get in shape. Not making you split bills and do the majority of the housework so you don't even have time or mental energy to think about how to level up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:50 AM |
| 38 | "No one is going to put up with my son" -- straight from the horse's mouth.I have a 12 year age difference with my little brother who is 15 and living with my mom. He does laundry, dishes, cooks dinner for them, is an honors student, and never asks her to buy him anything other boys have that are expensive (fancy phones, gaming systems, sneakers, what have you). I do think how he was raised before age 10 was VERY important because that was when his difficult pre-teen phase started. I think after they mellow out from that, parents are so overwhelmed with relief that the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:43 AM |
| 50 | Beware the "forever date."I just feel like this seems like you have no plans are are setting him up to think that you're overly available Also if you hit enough places, that's more opportunities for women to be tempted to pull out their card and offer to pay for something, or having him ask (after you spent 5 hours of your time with him). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 08:31 PM |
| 13 | I'm trying to read The New Rules but sis... The mysogyny...Eh, cultural beauty standards change. Back in 2005 everyone was worried about getting a big butt and now women are getting implants. Dressing like they advise 15 years later will just make you seem trashy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:49 PM |
| 62 | Lol ffsI can cook, just not for you. I can fuck, just not for free, and I can make my own money but you still better pay my bills lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Sex tip: use a condom for handjobsIdk either I trust and desire you enough to have actual intercourse with you (a mutual experience) or nothing. You don't get to nut at my expense - blow unpaid internship, more like. You do you though idk... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:00 PM |
| 15 | A date should be a treat.@ everyone who say they're okay with coffee dates - I feel like that's something you should counter a dinner invitation with if YOUR comfort demands it, not something you should accept if a man asks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Sex tip: use a condom for handjobsNoah fence but who the f gives hand jobs #handjobfreesince2012 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:46 PM |
| 34 | A date should be a treat.Oh I absolutely advise against this, I've just done it before so I associate coffee meetups with men with ex boyfriends. Depressing, useless waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 24 | How to Avoid Revealing Sexual History Like It's a Shit Test"In my experience, men who ask that question don't tend to be very good in bed." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 07:14 PM |
| 46 | Men on Reddit focusing on the hard-hitting issues in society like cherry-picking and misinterpreting scenes from movies and TV taken out of context about sexual assault of men. They will be the first to defend a rapist and act like false rape accusations are rampant and that #metoo was a joke.I'm thinking of movies that did that: Horrible Bosses (pictured) and Wedding Crashers. I'm not even gonna look it up cause I am 100000% sure they are written and directed by MEN. All comments on news articles about how LUCKY an underage male student is that an adult female teacher slept with him are made by MEN. Men pretend it's "just as bad" when a woman does it just to prove a point to women, but privately, they clearly don't think so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 07:34 PM |
| 3 | What are some little known traits of HVMs that are not mentioned very often?Truly values your input and asks for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 04:42 PM |
| 30 | Insecure about my feet and how men would look at it..Have you considered how horrifying and disfigured men's feet are 9 times out of 10? Knobby, hairy, all the tendons... Any time I see a man in sandals, I shudder. You're fine and your feet are fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Dwight revisitedyeah I used to be of the same opinion but then I got tired of policing myself. Everyone who matters (women) knows what I mean when I say it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:14 PM |
| 16 | LVMs are back at it again 🙄🙄🙄This is why I say no man is a 10!!! Stop giving men affirmative action!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 04:07 PM |
| 8 | Do you have any stories of LVM that crashed and burned later in life?I've been married for 2.5 years to the man I left him for - meanwhile he still lives with his mom, his instagram is half thirst traps and half pathetic, passive-aggressive whining in his stories about how no one in his life cares about him, and his "photography" is just posting pictures of his junk in porny subreddits (I made the mistake of checking if he was still on reddit - is he ever!). Oh, and he hasn't had a gf since me, which is a credit to women everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:22 PM |
| 26 | (Regarding women) ... Their naturally declining value is exarcebated by the miles they've been ridden...Their situation is a desperate one, even if they fail to recognise it...Women can assuage their fears and desperation by claiming to be queens...deteriorate. Your eyes get worse and you are more likely to get cancer. You are not god. Your testosterone drops at 25 and then again at 30. Your sperm quality gets worse. You get erectile dysfunction. How come that older women get a ton more matches than men who are the same age? Why do terms like MILF and cougar exist? a 50 year old woman's chances of getting a younger sexual partner are like 70 times as high as a 50 year old man's. 50 year old women could be bagging 24 year old men left and r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 04:35 PM |
| 55 | $36 is the going price for sex, apparently!"give me sex" is such a disgusting way of putting it too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 312 | Male "friends"Every time an "I'm not like other girls" girl realizes that males aren't her friends and other women aren't her enemies, an angel grows wings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | He flaked on me today, was I right to tell him I was busy when rescheduling when I was actually not?haha you're not a lost cause, just don't do it again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 12:09 PM |
| 1 | He flaked on me today, was I right to tell him I was busy when rescheduling when I was actually not?honey... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 12:07 PM |
| 25 | What if the sex is bad?I'm confused by this question. From your post, I'm assuming you're a fairly sexually experienced woman, which would imply that you have pretty good knowledge of your ideal range. There are ways to ascertain whether a man is the appropriate size without having sex, just by being minimally frisky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:36 PM |
| 26 | He flaked on me today, was I right to tell him I was busy when rescheduling when I was actually not?you did good, don't tell him something cleared up. How would you feel if you reached out with that and HE said he was no longer available? To the right man, you're worth waiting for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Don’t use my state as an excuse for my attitude towards your shitty behavior.I'm from MA and guy I work with is married to a Midwestern woman and he said they're thinking about moving out of state cause his wife can't stand how rude random strangers (men) are here. I've never lived anywhere but Boston and I'm like... wait y'all aren't like this everywhere? huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 12:35 PM |
| 67 | When to say I love you?never ever say it first. Do you want to go through the relationship feeling he may have only been reciprocating out of politeness? You wanna know that a man cares enough to profess to you. It's your right as a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 12:29 PM |
| 63 | What if the sex is bad?you wait to a point where HE invested a lot in you so it's risky for HIM to be bad at sex. His investment should be more than yours always. You invested time but he invested time+money+gifts+etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 12:26 PM |
| 53 | Why a lot of white men REALLY hate it when white women date ethnicI'm white and I used to get sooo much hate online from white men for dating outside my race it was insane. I'm married to a Black man and it's the most stable, dependable, and loving relationship I've been in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 07:18 PM |
| 19 | Straight to degradationI wonder what it's like inside his brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 07:09 PM |
| 10 | Date men who have bathroom etiquettego out for drinks with a prospect and a group of friends, one of whom is male, and have your friend report on his bathroom habits before you ever let this man touch you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 01:16 AM |
| 13 | Ads will fuck with your head no matter how strong you arebeauty ads are ransom notes for stolen self-esteem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 03:34 PM |
| 44 | Asked me out for dinner and drinks and then told me he wanted sex. Was offended when I sent him a link to local escorts. Told me to apologize to him and then called me an as*hole 😂 didn’t screenshot the rest of the convo cause I reported him. Men think Tinder is a vending machine for sexlmaoooo his poor feeewingssss, you basically told him he's too broke to be a john | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 03:31 PM |
| 15 | Cool Girl Explains Why She’s Better Than Us Because She’s Okay Accepting Less Than We AreI don't even think she looks objectively bad or wrong, I just can't help but automatically associate that style with male-pandering cause sooooo many women who look like that go out of their way to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 02:01 PM |
| 23 | Cool Girl Explains Why She’s Better Than Us Because She’s Okay Accepting Less Than We Areis it judging to observe patterns? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:40 PM |
| 32 | Cool Girl Explains Why She’s Better Than Us Because She’s Okay Accepting Less Than We AreWhy is it that the weird hair color/wild makeup/edgy choker girls are ALWAYS like this smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 12:25 PM |
| 16 | "Test drive before you buy" is a sexual strategy for WOMEN'S benefit, not men'sabsolutely, if that's what you are most comfortable with and that's the level of commitment you expect before having sex. Testing the waters is for YOU. If you don't want to, you don't have to. HE just doesn't get to test the waters, pu$$y doesn't come with a free trial! Dick does tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:22 PM |
| 4 | where's the lie?ugh I know she is. I still love her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:41 PM |
| 23 | Is it true that...I think day-to-day, good looking women get treated better by men in non-dating situations - getting doors held open for them and what not. Not in dating - AT ALL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 12:34 PM |
| 6 | where's the lie?lmk if queen Marilyn has been posted recently, I'll delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 12:30 PM |
| 29 | Daily pickmeisha alert! So it’s not “abusive” for men to exploit women because they expect her to be 1. A co- breadwinner 2. A primary caretaker to children and 3. Be responsible for cooking and cleaning??also ignoring the wage gap and the glass ceiling.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 07:25 PM |
| 101 | I am not a sweet girl. You know why? Because I’m not a puppy or a child. Up your game, “boys.”if you're over 21, you're a woman, not a girl. Anyone who calls you girl is a boy, not a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:56 PM |
| 30 | Listen up ButtercupMy husband and I met last semester of college where we were assigned seats next to each other. He would regularly wake up at 4AM to bake fresh bread and pies to give me during our 8AM class. We weren't even dating yet. Yeah it doesn't take a lot of money to show a woman you care about her??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 12:32 PM |
| 17 | How Have Men Reacted When You Told Them They’re Bad At Sex?I was raised Christian so I knew that if I was gonna go to hell for what I was doing (lmao) I better be having a damn good time so I've told everyone when they were doing a shit job. It worked well, they tried harder, it ended up being great. It helps when they're actually in love with you though, no one got upset with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 12:19 PM |
| 21 | Married 11 years, together for 13, and he has YET to eat me out.this hurts my heart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 01:41 AM |
| 16 | What about the famous men who did marry their long-time gf’s?I do wonder how much of that is because people who don't cohabitate tend to be more religious and religious people have more stigma around divorce and are more likely to feel pressured to stay together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 09:54 PM |
| 25 | DON’T EVER LET HIM STRING YOU ALONG. EVER! Wilmer Valderrama is engaged to Amanda Pacheco after less than a year of dating. Demi Lovato’s fans are spiraling due to him never proposing to her during the course of their six-year relationship.Even if they THINK they want to wait that long, they don't really. When we had been just friends (i was in another relationship) he told me that he'd need to date a woman for at least 3 or 4 years before considering marriage. I laughed in his face and told him no smart woman would ever waste her youth and beauty on a man who took that much time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:38 PM |
| 86 | Saw this on Instagram. HilariousWhat color sippy cup would you give me water in? ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:33 PM |
| 34 | "How long should a woman wait before she sleeps with you if she wants a relationship?"I guess no one I've dated has been self-respecting... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:16 PM |
| 28 | DON’T EVER LET HIM STRING YOU ALONG. EVER! Wilmer Valderrama is engaged to Amanda Pacheco after less than a year of dating. Demi Lovato’s fans are spiraling due to him never proposing to her during the course of their six-year relationship.also my experience! got a proposal 9 months after starting dating, married 2.5 years now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:20 PM |
| 55 | You can’t make this shit up 😂Sorry sweetie, the nuns don't want you either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:06 PM |
| 13 | Jobs that can be green flags?accounting lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:46 AM |
| 5 | Keanu wisdom!it's free on Amazon if you have prime! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 12:58 PM |
| 27 | Woman spends 15 years helping depressed husband recover. He's better now and found a new woman to talk to online. Don't try to fix broken men.the future is NOW!!!! #kickhimout2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 04:47 PM |
| 56 | What are your qualities? No, I don't mean qualities that serve others, I mean qualities about who you are as a person. We spend so much time thinking on what we should DO to be High Valued we often we forget about what we ARE! If you never thought about it before, here is your cue.I am interesting af, have a sense of humor and strong sense of self, take no shit, have a learning and growth mindset, and am excited about life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 02:45 PM |
| 14 | Couples who split chores equally DON'T have less sex. The previously posted study was based on outdated data.I have ADHD, my husband does not. He is much better about remembering to take care of stuff around the house than me and has historically done more, but once I got on my new meds I was VERY motivated to do all the stuff I was neglecting and cooked and cleaned and planned and organized and did all that stuff non-stop for like two weeks. I did NOT want my husband even touching me after cause I was so burned out. Neither of us was happy. He told me no more lmao 💀 tldr; before complaining about your… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 11:04 AM |
| 88 | Has anyone visited /r/seduction?motherfucker how is that sexual tension gonna even build up if you slobber all over me right away?? men are fucking stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 02:14 AM |
| 23 | Can LVM act like a HVM around a woman they like?even if they WANT to step it up for a particular woman, they've spent so much of their life being trash that they'll very likely revert back to old familiar ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 03:31 PM |
| 37 | What are your thoughts on traditional marriage?Oh definitely agree. Also in the really old days of gendered labor division, a lot of "women's work" was communally done, with other women - at least they had a support system, and not tending to a man's house and children in sequestered isolation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 03:12 PM |
| 20 | Men openly discussing false stereotypes they have about attractive women. Stay woke!This is so interesting to me as a woman who has been both (pretty, then unpretty, now pretty). Men treat you a LOT worse when you're not as pretty, and I'm realizing that they just treat you the way they treat other men, for the most part - you're largely ignored (which sometimes can be good). Guys are garbage to each other lmao until it comes to teaming up against women. So yeah, as an ugly unfeminine woman, you're treated basically like a man by other men, except with zero of the social benefi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:55 PM |
| 214 | When he says "you deserve better than me", believe him, and RUN."you deserve better than me" does not mean he cherishes you and feels lucky to be with you. It means you're getting the maximum effort he is willing to put in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:43 PM |
| 17 | New Year's Resolution : Drop your pickmeisha friends.It's REALLY important to establish boundaries with other women, just like we do with men. In the past I've been tempted to give women all the leniency I withheld from men and it's a bad pattern. Messages I'm trying to be better about getting across (in gentler ways) "If you ask me to give you my time and insight about a situation and then do the opposite, please don't expect me to comfort you after shit goes sideways. Find someone else whose time you didn't waste, or suck it up" "when you keep g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:07 PM |
| 17 | On cooking and not cooking for men"I want to cook for you" = discount date and the bedroom is right there. NOPE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 06:09 PM |
| 32 | It even says "choose me"the socks somehow make it more pathetic? the stance too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 11:23 AM |
| 64 | May just send a screenshot of this to the next well-meaning family member who asks me why I’m single. It’s rough out here.then you must be allergic to this p*ssy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 08:41 PM |
| 8 | how to "break up" with a LVM?"I'm not interested in seeing each other anymore" send him that right now, don't explain why, just repeat that you are no longer interested until he gets it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 11:31 AM |
| 11 | Has anyone else noticed that in more politically conservative areas...my frame of reference is Russian television and Russian couples in the US tbh - if it's changing, it's good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 12:35 AM |
| 42 | Has anyone else noticed that in more politically conservative areas...my theory was that Russia's 25 million in WW2 casualties really did a number on the gene pool. XX is fine but that Y chromosome that's left is really on its last legs 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 09:46 PM |
| 58 | Has anyone else noticed that in more politically conservative areas...This is a BIG thing in Russia. The discrepancy is absolutely insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 07:52 PM |
| 108 | “I’m Not Sure Yet” is one of the biggest lies men tell. If he’s not consistently pursuing you and trying to impress you, NEXT THE HELL OUT OF HIM UNAPOLOGETICALLY.I heard Deb Cooper talk about this phenomenon and asked my husband when he "knew" and he said within the first 10 min of meeting me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:32 PM |
| 13 | How do you answer "what are you looking for" when you want to say something serious and eventually marriage?"I'll know it when I see it" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 12:23 PM |
| 11 | I too would like a cupcake dang ithe lied to you 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 12:21 PM |
| 6 | Roleplaying discussions with your female friends can REALLY HELPwoohoo! sisterhood is powerful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 11:36 AM |
| 30 | NEGGING TACTIC ALERT: "amused mastery". LVM act nonchalant to make women feel insecureeven a whiff of this kind of attitude dries my pussy up right quick - always has. I don't know about other women but I'm praying that this guy is a liar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 11:34 AM |
| 15 | There's no such thing as a "looksmatch". Don't let ugly men make you feel bad about your high standards or shame you into dating them!imo... there's no such thing as a male 10. Only women can be 10s. The highest a man can be is MAYBE a 7. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 08:03 AM |
| 39 | Stay woke, ladies.stop making it comfortable and convenient for bum-ass males to be with you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 06:40 AM |
| 14 | 21F “secretly” dating 51 year old college professor. Doesn’t understand her struggle to get away from controlling parents.I'm guessing he preyed on this young woman specifically because she is easy to estrange from her family, aka her strongest support system (even if they are shitty people). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 10:58 AM |
| 5 | Potential quality guy wants to fly me out to meeteven if this is a guy you've already met, NEVER allow a man to book your flight or hotel room. Make him send you the money so you can book your own. As such, do not fly out to meet this stranger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 10:56 AM |
| 12 | I’m curious what’s everyone’s thoughts on cohabitation?only if he's paying ALL the bills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 10:17 AM |
| 18 | Wives/serious daters of FDS-What do you think of your SO attending bachelor parties?Plenty of men have bachelor parties that are fun and don't involve the objectification of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 05:08 PM |
| 50 | Why Doesn’t FDS Focus on Improving Physical Appearance? Do Looks Matter For Attracting a High Value Man?I met my husband when I would daily dress in the same yoga pants, men's flannel, new balance sneakers, and a messy bun (no this wasn't a hot girl look, I was literally trying to be invisible and comfortable). He was attracted to me immediately because of the way my voice sounded and how I talked, of all things. The man who is for you will be into you even if you look like a hot mess, as long as you know who the fuck you are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 12:21 PM |
| 7 | He broke up with me and now he leaves me loves letters at my doorParasites gonna parasite! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 12:10 PM |
| 6 | Men who refuse to buy flowers are LV by defaultExactly! Don't wait on some bum-ass broke boy to buy you flowers - create joy in your life NOW! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 11:43 AM |
| 33 | Men who refuse to buy flowers are LV by defaultI just love hearing about what a man did for another woman that he won't do for me, such a turn on 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 02:46 AM |
| 26 | Men who refuse to buy flowers are LV by defaultI know it's a lot more prevalent in other cultures. I worked with a girl (Moldovan) whose fiance(Ukrainian) sent her flowers at work every week without fail. A NICE arrangement too, at least $50. And he worked at a grocery store and had only been in the country for less than a year, so like, good for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 12:28 AM |
| 205 | I'm a massive Pickmeisha, so I broke up with my boyfriend today.Good. For. You. Here's to being a Queen in 2020🍾🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 12:21 AM |
| 10 | The importance of cunnilingus (male vs female)I'm thinking along the lines of any strategy that benefits the mother is a good reproductive strategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 185 | Addressing the Myth: Unattractive men make better partners than attractive guysSometimes, the only reason your man hasn't cheated is cause no one else wants him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 06:48 PM |
| 6 | How to motivate yourself to lose weight?a comment I made in another subreddit about getting over a food addiction: Here's what I did (I'm down 40 pounds so far). This is in no particular order, I kind of did this all at once. I identified everything that could POSSIBLY make me happy, even if it wasn't something I really did at all. Just stuff I could try. I have a "Gratitude and Happiness" list on my phone of everything that puts me in a good mood when I do it or think about it (and yes, some of it IS food) but it's just stuff like … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Why being an asshole worksOoof thank you for sharing that experience! I think it depends on the man himself but I can imagine most men feel threatened. I am a pretty introverted person who tends to attract dudes who are even MORE introverted who absolutely don't mind when I am the center of attention in a social setting cause their sense of self doesn't rest on being a "funny guy" (even though they themselves are also pretty funny, I can't deal with a man who is funny). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 01:18 PM |
| 17 | “Let’s see where this goes” is the biggest lie of all time. He KNOWS where he wants it to go by the end of your first date."Let's see where this goes" means "jump through hoops to audition to be my girlfriend" and pick-mes think this is good news | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 11:16 AM |
| 31 | My profile stated my love language is “receiving gifts”talk is cheap and fucking is fucking and my time is more valuable than yours. Any questions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 09:37 PM |
| 42 | Ladies, if ugly, balding men old enough to be your dad hit on you, do us all a favour and call them out.I say "I'm only interested in older men with money. You got some?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 05:18 PM |
| 36 | When you go on a date, do you pretend to reach for your wallet?re: Edit That's terrible and cringey. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/d1mpsx/how_to_never_ever_pay_on_a_date/ this comment: I’m not OP but personally, I’d say in a louder voice “ohhh, you don’t have enough money?” in a really innocent way, with my head to the side. And if he tries to get smart, I’d say, in the same louder voice, “I’ve just never been on a date with a cheap guy.” in the same innocent tone, laugh a little if you can. If he keeps trying to be smart, say “I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 03:59 PM |
| 110 | When you go on a date, do you pretend to reach for your wallet?The one who asks the other on a date is the one who pays. It's not "men", it's who asks. Commit it to memory. And never ask a man on a date 😝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 12:11 PM |
| 74 | When you go on a date, do you pretend to reach for your wallet?Keep. Your. Hands. On. The. Table. Don't flinch. You're not spoiled, a gentleman got the privilege of enjoying your company and now he is simply paying what he is supposed to. When he puts down his card, be gracious. If he's turned off by the fact that you didn't even pretend to offer to pay, next his ass. Don't give yourself opportunity to finance your own time being wasted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 11:32 AM |
| 5 | Carrie Bradshaw is the ultimate pick-meishaI had started watching the show recently, never having seen it, but I couldn't continue cause I couldn't stand that dumb broad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 11:22 AM |
| 33 | Men are slaves to their dicks. And they will try to make you a slave to their dicks too."just because you're a slave to your dick doesn't mean I have to be" is a great line | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 11:14 AM |
| 17 | Self Love TipsI love all of these and I wanted to share my tips for #1! I love taking baths and one thing I really like to do when I have the time and space is a "self-soothing" ritual. When you feel insecure or nervous, you display it through unconscious body language with "self-comforting" behaviors aka touching your own self, clasping your hands, playing with your hair or rubbing your neck, etc. When I am in the bath, I consciously try to make contact with every part of my body with my hands with an intent… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Do poor men have an easier time with women?Plenty of middle class/rich women have super low standards, at least when if comes to behavior. I think it's the latter - they have years of a headstart learning about how to game on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 02:26 AM |
| 72 | invest or bounce! 👋🏼I think she mentioned in her book that women that adopted the KonMari method often DID end up getting divorced. It's a logical conclusion - stretched out underwear and Tupperware are gone, my apartment is perfect, the last thing I don't like here is ... my shitbag husband | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 08:59 PM |
| 24 | The LVM expects submission as a quality in his mate. The HVM understands that he needs to build trust with his equal.Ok I literally cringe when I hear about women's "submission" but tbh my experience of this is that I naturally have a dominant battle-axe kind of personality, but when a man has shown me repeatedly that he has sense and good judgement (and doesn't simply expect me to think so or get upset if I question it), it's quite easy for me to be like "you make the call, I trust you" when it comes to important decisions. I know he'll make the right choice and I don't have to be stressing and can like... be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Unattractive HVMsAttraction is extremely important and just cause you don't find him attractive doesn't mean someone else won't. Free him up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Seriously: Why should men help women in the workplace when women have never helped men?what do you mean by "help"? you mean, you inappropriately tried to delegate your work to your female coworker and she said no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | all females are submissive without exception just not for low value menwell lesbians really are the exception let's leave them out of this I will say this. I've always been a fairly dominant woman in relationships, it's my personality. Although "dominant" for a woman really just means having strong boundaries, high standards, and not putting up with any bullshit, telling someone when they're being stupid, and not coddling a dudes ego 24/7. So the "dominant" part really jumped out when I was with dudes where I would constantly have to be that way cause they were alw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 01:53 PM |
| 4 | This is what happens when you marry a LVM....a low effort husband that takes you for grantedexactly. he's cheating, and purposefully acting up and making her feel bad so when she catches him he could be like well it's your fault | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 10:12 AM |
| 38 | Remember, ladies. As Eartha Kitt has once said, "A man comes into my life and I have to compromise? We must think about that one again. A relationship is a relationship that has to be earned, not to compromise for.""I'm falling in love with myself and I want someone to share it with me" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | FDS High Value Men... Who are they?some HVM qualities High Emotional Intelligence - this does not mean hypersensitive crybaby. Knows how to handle conflict, deliver reassurance, read people, be polite, gently deliver criticism, etc Generous - With his time, affection, attention, resources. Not the same thing as a high earner, there are HVM who don't make that much that are extremely generous with everything they have and high earners who are stingy with everything. However, how a man spends his money indicates how generous he wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 12:00 AM |
| 8 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?I experienced my late teens/early 20s similarly. I think it's really silly of RP to paint the experiences of all attractive women with such a broad brush, as if all "attractiveness" is the same. My younger sister and I are both significantly above average, described as "gorgeous" by just about everyone but it's a very different type of beauty. Hers is very much "typical Stacy" - big smile, large features, really approachable, definitely "hot". Mine is very balanced and refined (some have called … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 08:50 PM |
| 2 | As an objectively ugly woman how can I avoid being used for sex when dating?I just have to say this: Masculine does NOT mean ugly, there are so many types of female beauty, and "masculine" is one of them. Anjelica Huston, Jamie Lee Curtis, Grace Jones, Cate Blanchett, Tilda Swinton, Claire Danes - all beautiful, but kinda masculine women! When properly showcased through correct styling, a "masculine" woman can look stunning, mysterious, and dramatic in a way that a woman with more typically "feminine" features can only dream of. It's hard to give advice when I don't kno… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 02:34 AM |
| 17 | The Art of the Tease: Mastering Sexual TensionThe best pussy a man ever had is pussy he worked the hardest to earn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever been honest about a guy’s unsatisfactory performance in bed?I was hooking up with a guy I really liked for the first time and he asked to go down on me. 2 minutes in, I said "buddy, I don't know what woman's pussy you THINK you're eating right now, but it ain't mine" and yeah he felt embarrassed but I was like not every woman wants the same thing so take some time to get to know what I like. We've been married for 2.5 years now and the sex is great. I was raised super Christian and thought any sexual contact with a guy would send me to hell so I made DAM… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 12:16 AM |
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