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| 2 | Anyone find themselves slipping back into old habits?Pure gold man. Reading this just upped my self realization 10 fold. I realized that my lack of contact with her and even settling for less attractive women is a validation issue. I’m simply using the attention like a drug to feel good about myself. And when I don’t have her attention I essentially start withdrawals because I’m used to getting my validation externally, which is why I get the anxiety like symptoms of worrying that I stop talking to her for too long then I’ll have lost her “attenti… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Anyone find themselves slipping back into old habits?Plate-one of the women you see non exclusively | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | When to start vetting?I may sound like an imbecile but where is a guide on vetting? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | How to not seem needy ?Seem is your problem, become not needy change your mentality to where you aren’t needy. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 11:57 PM |
| 6 | How does one keep plates interested without texting or snap chatting them frequently?Precisely what I’m so busy with. Just got done with my degree now I’m in the process of job hunting meanwhile still working a lot. And yes gym 4-6 x a week. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | HB8 sends me pics and videos of her or stuff she’s doing but when I reply she doesn’t respond back?Yup | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Natural Testosterone Raising for Young Men?Probably lower if you flog the dog alot. It can be higher if you don’t jerk it as often | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Best up to date seduction and pickup guide?Send it | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 06:38 PM |
| 46 | How to deal with "I have a boyfriend"It’s either a rejection or she actually has one either way it’s a rejection and one must move on or form a oneitis that will probably never be fulfilled | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says I’ll let you know.. what do you do?I talked to her and sounds like she’s busy on the days that I have off so I said sounds like you’re busy so some other time. Now I’m gonna soft next her for a bit until she replies when she can meet up. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 01:27 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says I’ll let you know.. what do you do?I told her I’m free on a couple of days, and she said I’ll let you know when I’m free, and that’s what my reply was. She messaged me back for attention today and I kept it short and didn’t play into it too much. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says I’ll let you know.. what do you do?yesterday | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | When a girl says I’ll let you know.. what do you do?So basically if I hear back from her and she is available, awesome, if I do and she’s busy go say let’s do this some other time and soft next, but if she doesn’t respond oh well and hard next? | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What is “TRP side bar” that I so commonly hear about to read and how does it help with bad game/ self confidence?Preeessshhhh | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 06:11 PM |
| -1 | What is “TRP side bar” that I so commonly hear about to read and how does it help with bad game/ self confidence?Oh yeah totally man. No I’m not that familiar with it can’t you help a brotha out? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Roast me if that's whats deserved here. New to it all.Monk mode for a little while focusing only on your self improvement, then when you’re feeling on top in that domain, keep that up, but also start working on game more. It’s honestly the only way to kill beta behavior. Kinda a right of passage if you will. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Girl says I don’t think you could date me because most of the time I can’t even handle myself.. time to next?Yep she’s more one of those I want to get to know you first girls. Well we’ve been talking for months. That’s probably where the first problem lies I should’ve stopped talking to her ages ago. Probably time to really spin plates and get rid of this oneitis. I discovered red pill stuff maybe 2 months ago, long after I started talking to her | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 01:17 AM |
| 0 | Girl says I don’t think you could date me because most of the time I can’t even handle myself.. time to next?Yeah yeah I know always good advice. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 01:04 AM |
| 12 | Before reading TRP I was extremely outgoing and naturally social. Now I over analyze things and my social skill has taken a toll. What should I do?Key to being red pill aware and not paranoid is honestly not giving a shit too much but anyone and your purpose. Sure you could game in theory more strategically by analyzing what a plate is doing like shittesting /showing IOI’s, but doing so is exhausting, always trying to be one step ahead of her in essence. It’s biology man we have the innate drive to understand what’s going on. Focus on doing you, and becoming everything you can be. With time you’ll come to recognize things like the shit tes… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I go from texting all the time with a girl to logistics only?So basically stop talking to her in the meantime until I have something she could come and do with? | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best reading/ watching material to internalize the red pill?That’s the thing I listen or read some of this stuff every day and put it to practice somewhat. I can easily hold a convo with a girl, I work with mostly women and am surrounded by estrogen, so it’s a prime place to practice it. I’m just going from being more of a nice guy who seeks approval with a lot of what I do and hoping that some long term relationship will workout from the typically as it’s been in the past 1 girl I really focus on at one time, to more focusing on becoming all that I can … | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 01:55 AM |
| 1 | What can I be doing different/ better in this situation?Thank you that’s all I needed to hear | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | What can I be doing different/ better in this situation?I’m very new to this red pill stuff, and am working out of my less desirable behaviors. I’ve been listening to The Rational Male and am just beginning o absorb the ideas. But basically in my “text flirting” aside from being aloof for the most part, is it good or bad game to be more sexual in responses to messages from her that are not quite overtly but are still somewhat sexual in nature from her? Or like my response, is it better to leave them wondering if I liked their sexual part of their mes… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 05:56 PM |
| 0 | What can I be doing different/ better in this situation?That’s precisely what I’m aiming to do by not keeping long messages going, perhaps just a small amount of suggestive flirting every now and then. If she wants my attention it’s gonna have to be IRL. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 05:44 PM |
| -1 | What can I be doing different/ better in this situation?Zero yet. That’s the thing though, I think she’s showing IOI’s but I have yet to actually physically escalate with her. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Theory Reading On EscalationAlso OP, google DiCarlo Escalation Ladder, there’s some good stuff in there | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Theory Reading On EscalationIs that the sidebar pdf that you find on TRP handbook website? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 02:06 PM |
| 10 | How do you stop using women as your means of validation?Self validation from goals that are not people. Set them and exceed your expectations, and or also find something you truly enjoy but also betters you in life. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 12:19 AM |
| 3 | What does this girl mean by not wanting to be a “hoe” ?That’s not OP, I am. We’re in our mid 20’s. Perhaps I should’ve referenced her as a woman. | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | What does this girl mean by not wanting to be a “hoe” ?Mid 20’s | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 02:47 PM |
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