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waiting4myteeth/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 08:11 PM
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If finasteride works for you with no side effects then great, but watch out for any changes in your body, sleep, energy or mental life. The body of evidence showing potentially devastating dangers of this drug is growing every year and the effects can be permanent before you even notice them.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 06:24 PM
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Read that as "Courtney Love", still made sense.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 01:33 AM
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If only there was a bot that would pipe up whenever someone says "I'm bias".
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 06:21 PM
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The reason that "be yourself" can be both the road to a wasted life of mediocrity and the road to personal power is simple: "yourself" is undefined. We do not have a single measurable self, and even one person will use such language to refer to a multitude of different attitudes, identities , processes and states - without even being aware of it. You are free to be whatever set of feelings, thoughts and behaviours you can cultivate, within the limits of your neurology and physiology. If you are …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:31 AM
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A different way of looking at it is he decided not to spend time with her - maybe something had happened between them - but wanted to get high rather than stay straight and accept all of the thoughts and feelings that would go with this.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:14 PM
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Could be useful in some situations where she needs to be kept off balance, but the feedback from those who done it inadvertently is that it just flip flops attraction. Good alpha-bad alpha flipflop would probably be more appropriate.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 08:34 PM
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I wonder if the sudden lack of interest in sex (medical causes aside) invariably means that she's either got something installed on the side to take care of her needs, or has at least met someone who she's dreaming and scheming about doing this with.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 05:53 PM
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I did all my reading a good few years ago now and I'm away from my books at the moment so I'll try my best to recommend some authors: EFT: Silvia Hartmann. She can be a bit "out there" at times but has a great eye for using "energy methods" creatively. She also did something called "Emotrance" which has a lot in common with Nei Gong (Taoist internal energy work) and has influenced my understanding quite a bit. Also try searching "Faster EFT" in youtube which is a simpler, leaner, less new age ve…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 05:17 PM
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Yeah I don't see the need to be infuriated by this. It is manipulative, shallow and misleading though and not just for blue pill reasons.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 10:11 AM
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Thankyou!
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 09:29 AM
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Ok his face looks a bit substandard, but give him a few months of improved diet, gym hitting and some decent clothes and he'll look better than the average guy. There's nothing stopping this guy from being a player except the contents of his head.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 01:17 AM
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I think this guy should be granted asylum.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 01:14 AM
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Yeah I think were in agreement. I hadn't had the insight before that withholding information is in itself a strong play in itself regardless of what is withheld.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 12:46 AM
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Yes but in this case I'm just talking about physical tiredness, no emotions involved. Disclosing it shows physical weakness, but not doing so (when it's the reason for not seeing her or not staying) demonstrates unavailability, having the opposite effect.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 12:24 AM
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It's not so much the emotions that cause trouble as your reactions to them, but this difference isn't so obvious until you do some practice. Once you get good you'll still have negative thoughts etc but you won't get aboard the train as it were. I'd suggest finding a book or just google and get one exercise. The first one is usually breath counting where you count the breaths up to ten keeping focus there. Different meditations suit different people so you might want to try a few over the course…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 11:58 PM
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Not sure if that's a question or just "u lift bro?"... Yeah mostly Taoist stuff: a lot of feeling energy etc, which feeds naturally into emotional awareness. Also EFT, Zen and when it comes to chicks this thing I call "being unmoved" which is based in the vanilla Zen thing of putting attention on negative thoughts/feelings and just leaving it there.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 11:33 PM
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That probably works fantastic, if you're the Buddha. Beware if you ain't, but trying to hamster yourself into thinking that you are the big B. It's a high place to fall from. Yeah thanks that's a great warning. The conscious experiencing of emotions has been a path to greater personal power for me in the past, so I won't drop it for the sake of women, but some RP discipline could go a long way to help avoid the pitfalls. A decent approach could be to "go Buddha" with the feelings and experiences…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 11:13 PM
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Honestly, most people are the bitches of their emotions. If I feel overpowering loving feelings with a girl I'm happy to tell her so, knowing that she is not the source of these emotions, they are the result of the circumstances and my behaviours at that time. They're just phenomena. The same goes for negative emotions: just phenomena, cause and effect. Relating to your emotions this way leaves you in control whereas the standard model in our culture gives up control and agency to the emotions s…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 10:25 PM
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Interesting. So if I have a bad day due to fatigue, I can just brush her off without telling her why, turning weakness into an alpha behaviour. EDIT: actually I think I may have done this quite a lot in a previous LTR, resulting in a shit test ultimatum which I just brushed off because I felt in control. Huh.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 09:38 PM
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This. Also: wandering about getting IOI's is great n all, but if you keep doing that and not escalating when that's what you want to do deep down you'll feel bad.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 09:29 PM
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Sounds like bipolar to me. You sure you don't know theseahawksfan24?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 08:44 PM
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Yeah I've experienced the big energy swings through illness and yeah an influx of energy can create godlike alpha states. When energy is low there's no point trying to pretend to be that same guy at all, but protecting your boundaries against stuff that drains your energy is a decent foundation I think.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 08:40 PM
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I wonder if alpha-beta flipflop would just result in a lukewarm reaction because they cancel each other out. Maybe the better flipflop is between Friendly Alpha and Indifferent/Mean Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 08:36 PM
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Guys losing their alpha ness around their SO is pretty normal though right? They think they can relax and let their guard down with their lover, but of course they're wrong. The world doesn't want to see it and neither does she. Love that you call it "weird". I've seen the look in so many chicks faces when I've turned out to be less epic than they had thought, like I've said that deep down I want to fondle children or something.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 08:33 PM
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It sounds like he was getting kicked into action by fear of loss of relationship/sex and was otherwise not able to stay in alpha mode day to day? I'm asking more about guys doing it deliberately to keep a girl guessing.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 08:20 PM
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So with this in mind, perhaps part of their craziness/clinginess comes from you perceiving them as such, thus inadvertently magnifying those behaviours as you pull back?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 07:57 PM
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Deliberate beta-ness? Fuck that: few things are worth compromising your inner state and his isn't one. Just cut her off, saying that you've learned from hard experience that X months of no contact is the way to avoid people getting hurt. If you run into her: hug, compliment, brief chat, move on. She'll like you forever.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 07:48 PM
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"Women like guys that are better than them."
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 07:40 PM
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Involuntary threesome.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 07:20 PM
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She's not only been willing to work for her money, but actually started a business. How many of the real gold diggers would get off their asses to do that?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 07:51 PM
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Would you not want to do good things for her anyway?
/r/seduction16/11/13 11:13 AM
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How about cutting her off as if it's a relationship rather than a oneitis, as that's what it sounds like! The fact that you like and value her as a friend is making it harder for you to pull away and I think it's good that you feel this way: as you say she's been a good friend. I'd think about making a decision (i.e. cut her off) and be open with her about it "this isn't working for me, I need to not be in contact with you for a while" the same way you would when ending any relationship. Jealous…
/r/seduction18/10/13 10:02 AM
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Anything that says "I'm interested in fucking you" basically: a good rule of thumb in the beginning is to include the word "sexy". E.g. "I think you're completely sexy" "I find homeless/criminal/hardworking/whatever women very sexy" "I like the way you X, I find that really sexy" Another one is "Are you single?" Or a new spin I'm keen to try out: "What is your sexual status?"
/r/seduction16/10/13 07:38 AM
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DAMN YOU HARRIS PUTTING THOUGHTS IN MY HEAD!!!!
/r/seduction15/10/13 02:03 PM
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It sounds like you've learned that the potential for real warmth is inside you and that you're not necessarily a psychopath! Anyone can increase their ability to feel compassion and fellow feeling, one technique being heart meditation: http://buddhist-meditation-techniques.com/loving-kindness-meditation/ From the pickup perspective, you stopped appreciating this girl simply as she was and started wanting to use her for the change her presence brought about in you. Instead, stop and appreciate th…
/r/seduction15/10/13 01:58 PM
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I'm not sure if this is exactly what she's asking for, but this is the most powerful way of rapidly blowing her mind I know.... The best strategy for getting to the core of undifferentiated feeling inside a girl varies according to the girl. Some are into deep eye contact, some are physical, some respond more to verbal ideas, while some girls will be highly resistant to one or more of these modes so you'll have to be canny in how you go about it. Here's an example for a girl who is resistant to …
/r/seduction15/10/13 12:32 PM
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Try an activity that forces you into contact with women while being sober. Social dancing is good for this: jive, ballroom, salsa, tango whatever. If you already have the skillset, you just need to rack up a few hours flirting while sober for the connections to be made in your brain.
/r/seduction15/10/13 12:10 PM
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Behave as if you are completely cool with the whole situation: do things that are incompatible with being the whiny wuss you sound like in the OP. Go up to that horrible ex of yours and smile, give her a hug, compliment her, ask how she's getting on with the other guy: just be the positive, amazing, giving, alpha dude you really are under all that mental pollution. Just don't try going back to her if (when) she shows you IOI's of some kind: stick to your "I'm OK, you're OK, we're on our own path…
/r/seduction15/10/13 11:31 AM
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Thanks for the potent metaphor, I'll store that one away for the future.
/r/seduction15/10/13 11:23 AM
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My impression on reading that is that she was actually kinda into you, so she wheeled out her usual game, hoping you'd do well, which of course you mostly didn't. You had this idea that maybe she was laughing AT you when you pulled out the cheeky line about her trying to get you drunk: HELL NO! In that moment she was allowing herself to get her hopes up just a little bit that you might kick into gear and be man enough for her after all. She was obviously bored and frustrated, probably lonely and…
/r/seduction15/10/13 11:21 AM
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Yup. Reading Juggler's material back in the day really turned me onto the importance of this. In my case I was becoming fearful and inauthentic in interactions because I'm someone who really needs to speak his mind. Once I got the idea of declaring intent EARLY, even to the extent of using it as an opener, this ceased to be a major problem.
/r/seduction15/10/13 11:05 AM
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This sounds like good advice. Why not simply flirt with her from a position of not being available to her because you've decided to be responsible in your workplace. Doing so can help enforce an abundance mentality as your mind rationalises your actions: "I must be a guy who has an abundance of possibilities with hot women if I'm perfectly willing to let this otherwise tasty opportunity slide because it isn't ultimately in my best interests".
/r/seduction15/10/13 10:58 AM
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Im a single man so I may be ignorant on this topic, but the way I see it: if I stop seducing my future wife, I'll be letting both of us down. The "correct" interplay between us is what will make our union possible in the first place, so surely it has an important part to play in making it as positive and successful as possible. Continuing to cultivate my "manly" ability, but focusing it on one woman instead of a succession of them sounds like a tremendously challenging and rewarding task to me. …
/r/seduction15/10/13 10:52 AM
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According to reports he also practised shouting into crashing waves at the beach: a true student of oratory and vocal athlete. Of course these days we could use a recording with speakers turned way up!
/r/seduction14/10/13 01:00 PM
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Yes, this reminds me over the best compliment I ever received. "Waiting4myteeth, people are just cool when you're around". I get compliments every now and then but that's the only one I remember because it really spoke to my sense of self-worth.
/r/seduction10/10/13 03:42 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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