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How do you know that?
/r/MensRights26/07/25 09:04 AM
3

block her
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:05 AM
-13

they gave perfectly valid reasons and shared their stories... you seem to not be able to empathize with them which is worrisome
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 12:23 PM
-8

those women gave valid arguments and reasons... imagine if you were a guy that was sick and the woman left you because of that... show some compassion
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 12:21 PM
42

Online dating is already bad enough, you don't need to get it to full blown distopian...
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:07 PM
1

Well done
/r/seduction01/12/21 11:24 PM
3

It went to shit
/r/seduction19/11/21 03:36 PM
4

You are only attracting girls who are into that and confirming your already presumed idea. Its selection bias
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:49 AM
82

this is a repost, I have seen this shit here once
/r/seduction15/11/21 02:00 PM
6

with that attitude you never will
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:20 PM
5

If you keep choosing these women, it will happen to you too
/r/seduction06/11/21 08:52 PM
3

Like I said to another comment, being good at seduction and having good values aren’t mutually exclusive, you can have both... one core goal of this sub was about self improvement, and part of becoming the best version of yourself is to cultivate good core values such as integrity, honesty. Don’t you look for those qualities in a women? If you do, how can you look for something in others which you are not committed to become yourself
/r/seduction06/11/21 08:38 PM
18

You can learn how to seduce a women and be a great partner WHILE you have integrity, not mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:27 PM
16

Thats stupid incel mindset
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:26 PM
16

Would your friend liked if a guy did the same to him?
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:29 PM
3

You have no values
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:41 PM
0

There was a guy who did everything that is textbook needy on purpose, and he still got the girl, why? Because he didn’t think those things were needy
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:38 AM
3

“Too available”? That sounds like you are afraid of something
/r/seduction25/10/21 03:37 PM
17

Because you don’t form deep connections, only superficial ones, when you are connected you don’t lose interest unless something bad happens
/r/seduction25/10/21 03:36 PM
1

Not every single situation fits into that description/what happened to you. I disagree with this, OP isn’t doing anything wrong.
/r/seduction21/10/21 06:14 PM
1

Go read the sub’s description
/r/seduction21/10/21 06:10 PM
-2

Thats disrespectful, don’t respond.
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:31 PM
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Thats pretty cool of you to have that awareness
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:03 PM
6

Have you ever had the desire for a long term relationship instead of just sex?
/r/seduction19/10/21 01:16 PM
1

You missed your shot because of fear she didn’t like you. Maybe she did, but you never know because you didn’t try. My man, never leave a stone unturned, even if she wasn’t interested, knowing so is better than “what ifs”
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:58 AM
2

How do you not get attached?
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:08 PM
1

Edit: nevermind
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:30 PM
4

or better yet, a narcissist
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:23 PM
14

This seems narcissistic as hell
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:28 PM
1

Instead of text msg, send a voice recording
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:08 PM
2

This
/r/seduction15/10/21 11:55 AM
4

And I see a lot of guys following this rule and it backfires to them. Its unrealistic to expect people to put the same effort every single day, and be excited about you every damn time. That puts a lot of pressure into people and its frankly exhausting. Expectations is a killer of engagement. Plus if you back off as a way to “punish” her, then you aren’t coming from a place of love.
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:30 AM
2

this!
/r/seduction12/10/21 08:03 AM
2

I'm sorry you have felt that, but I myself felt the opposite and know of relationships where the man can be vulnerable. I think you might be choosing women that won't accept vulnerability because maybe deep down you feel you either don't deserve it, or it's familiar to you. I guarantee you there are women that 100% want a deep connection, but you have to learn to look for them. sharing vulnerabilities is one of the best ways to create a deep bond.
/r/seduction12/10/21 08:02 AM
0

I 100% approve of this, I just met an amazing girl to whom I felt such a deep connection and spent the weekend together, the intimacy is next fucking level, even if it doesn't workout because we live far away from each other, it was 100% worth it
/r/seduction12/10/21 07:57 AM
5

Its one thing to help a partner overcoming insecurities/issues, together! It’s a whole different story for one person wanting sex with another person that clearly stated no!
/r/seduction11/10/21 04:12 PM
8

seems like you are not that good of a friend if you keep underestimating your friend and in your mind you think he should not be good enough... that's bad man. you should be happy for him...
/r/seduction08/10/21 09:50 AM
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I said take care in a non sarcastic way, sorry you took it that way. Like I said, to each his own, I was giving you a different perspective, and I don’t vibe in the same way you do, and thats cool. And again, take care 💪, in a non sarcastic way
/r/seduction07/10/21 09:51 AM
2

I don't approve of this, as a guy that was on the other side, as soon as a girl mentions other dates, I get turned off, I won't compete with other guys, and I feel that is manipulative as fuck. if you want my honest opinion, abundance doesn't come from the outside, but from within, if you need to have a lot of girls giving you attention, are you really confident? what happens if that attention is taken away? if girl has a lot of attention from a lot of guys, for me it's an instant turn off. but …
/r/seduction07/10/21 09:28 AM
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I think you might have a bit of unjustified separation anxiety, you barely know her, and its not like it has been a few days
/r/seduction06/10/21 10:14 PM
3

this is the same as a kid saying: "nooo mine is bigger than yours". grow up man
/r/seduction06/10/21 09:25 PM
2

fucking terrible advice
/r/seduction06/10/21 09:17 PM
12

so much this!! women need communication to feel connected!
/r/seduction06/10/21 09:15 PM
3

what you are describing it's not true, some girls can be like that, but not the ones I choose, and I put emphasis on the "I" here, because we each are responsible for surrounding ourselves with the type of people we really want to. You will search for people that validate your beliefs and you will find them. I have some basic requirements/standards that the girls have to have for us to go any further and it's been working out great and it filters a lot of people that I don't want to hang out wit…
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:07 PM
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She seems like an unreliable person, probably has social anxiety and avoids social gatherings, don’t waste any more time with her, she is going to flake again until she has her shit together, just act normal with her from now on, purely professional/friendly
/r/seduction03/10/21 09:56 AM
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You are an amazing person and he is lucky to have you, you understood his problems and helped him, damn I loved to read this. You should post this at women’s subs, people need to learn to be compassionate. I wish you two a long healthy relationship full of cum
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:01 PM
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Nah that community is toxic as fuck
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:46 AM
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This is the problem, you probably didn’t have any real challenges during the first 6 months, how can you marry someone that you don’t know how they are able to deal with hardship?! She clearly isn’t mature enough to communicate when problems arrive but you are only finding out that now, if you divorce don’t make this same mistake again and marry someone as soon as you meet them 🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:43 AM
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A broken home is a home were the two parents can’t communicate, not where there is only 1 parent, better to have just 1 than to have 2 toxic ones. She has responsibility in the relationship as much as you do, and communication is key, if she can’t communicate her problems and the fact that she went cold then this relationship is doomed, don’t try to save something that the other person isn’t willing to save as well
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:40 AM
2

It has nothing to do with safety, it has to do with beauty standards set by the movies/media. If it were for safety you would fear the guy your dating turning violent if he was much taller than you
/r/seduction20/09/21 10:11 PM
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you know what real confidence is? to admit that you are inexperienced and be comfortable with it
/r/seduction19/09/21 01:49 PM
1

She’s low effort, drop her
/r/seduction16/09/21 09:55 AM
2

This
/r/seduction07/09/21 11:44 AM
6

Its not linear like that, I find people with low self esteem don’t like compliments and praise because they are not used to, people that are secure in themselves know how to handle them, the problem is guys go after insecure girls and then generalize, Rihanna seems to be insecure as fuck, look at her dating history, she’s still single
/r/seduction07/09/21 08:20 AM
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If you live in Paris I don’t have good news for you. My brother lived in Paris for 2 years, the girlfriend that he had was also an expat. He is Portuguese and well established and he faced a lot of discrimination for not being French. Paris is extremely xenophone, they even have a saying “je suis Parisien, j’aime rien” which means, “I am from Paris, and I hate everything”. When I went to visit him, I remember two waiters making fun of our french level. I loved the city but hated the people
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:53 AM
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What a fucking stupid statement
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:41 AM
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You have yourself to blame for your trust issues, and if you fucked with girls that were in a relationship, I genuinely hope karma gets you
/r/seduction04/09/21 03:16 PM
1

This! This is why women prefer to live with only other women
/r/seduction04/09/21 02:56 PM
0

I hope you meant that as a joke... rock climbing community is one of the most chilled and inclusive community I’ve met, they don’t judge you based on looks and even skill, beginners are always welcomed. I had a friend who was fat, weighted around 90-100kgs and did the same levels as some skinny guys, there is more technique involved than strength
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:09 PM
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I do both and can easily meet new people in both, in bouldering you can interact with people that are trying the same route as you, I had a chick just come up to me and strike a convo about how I did a level she was struggling with. In rock climb its almost the same, the route take longer yeah and you are “alone” when you are on the rock but there are always social situations, we always go as a group of people to the rock and friends bring their friends so you are always meeting up new people
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:04 PM
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no
/r/seduction02/09/21 11:18 AM
2

Americans didnt invent it... it was developed in Mexico in the 70s and its very popular in Spain, Argentina, Portugal at least that I know of
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:17 AM
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I play padel tennis, it's always 2vs2 so you end up meeting 3 new people, I also do rock climbing. but the most important thing is to do something that you enjoy and that is not a solo activity (if you want to meet people)
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:29 PM
1

Ah, the “man are from mars, women from venus” bullshit
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:42 AM
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And in the women’s subs: “the fastest way to lose a man is to over-invest before he does” and so no real connection is form because it’s childish and a form of playing games... you want someone who isn’t afraid to say what they want and go for what they want, not someone who is holding him/herself back because of some stupid strategy
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:39 AM
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So much this
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:37 AM
1

Don’t hint at anything, be honest and mature and tell her you are not interested
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:02 PM
2

Are you sure what this girl meant wasn’t “I like people that play games, and you don’t play games”?
/r/seduction23/08/21 09:14 PM
1

How about you don’t do it out of principle and not out of fear of being caught?
/r/seduction23/08/21 11:54 AM
4

Dont plan to end it in a certain way, just go with the flow, if you have expectations for a kiss or something else it will put unhealthy pressure in both you and her
/r/seduction20/08/21 02:01 PM
2

Takes courage to be friendzoned and still be friends, you could have walked away, congrats for that
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:01 PM
2

hobbies my man, for me sports, I am playing padle and rock climbing and meeting a lot of people, plus dancing lessons
/r/seduction11/08/21 09:23 AM
0

Great way to get people to reply to you, communication skills out of this world
/r/seduction10/08/21 01:44 PM
1

Talked about how great he is and how women were always shy with him because of how beautiful he is lol
/r/seduction10/08/21 12:43 PM
2

If you didn't like him, people here would jump on him and call him a "simp", now, I do agree that that guy should work on his confidence but I hope this shows that you can really care about the person you are attracted to
/r/seduction10/08/21 11:39 AM
1

somehow I read that in an African American women's voice
/r/seduction10/08/21 11:36 AM
5

"wherever, whenever even I get rejected I DON'T CARE" damn that's way better lyrics than Shakira's version
/r/seduction10/08/21 11:34 AM
1

in the beginning sure, but if you set up a date and she ghosts you, yeah she does owe you a response, I feel like this whole "people don't owe you shit" is being taken to the extreme and it's the source of bad communication and ghosting culture today, people owe common courtesy to each other
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:50 AM
4

sorry to say this but I think she is using you just for attention, cut your losses, block her and move on
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:03 AM
4

and that's how you end up in a fucked up relationship, guys
/r/seduction10/08/21 09:57 AM
1

However, I’m not going to plan dates or pay for dinners, but that’s only because of the types of men I’m attracted to - they just insist on doing those things. lol
/r/seduction10/08/21 09:52 AM
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and what do you do? or it's just a oneway game? this is all good advice, but... what most guys forget: Its a fucking 2 way street, BOTH people must put in the effort, I loose interest in any women who doesn't pull her weight, who doesn't know how to flirt and who thinks it's the man's job to do everything right
/r/seduction10/08/21 09:03 AM
13

damn, you just seem to be full of yourself, no wonder they avoid you like the plague
/r/seduction10/08/21 08:56 AM
2

That has no scientific validity, its modern day horoscope...
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:43 PM
4

I think its interesting that man and women face the same issues, if I didn’t know you were a guy, I would assume this would come from a woman. Anyway, I feel you and wanting to for a bond and a connection is awesome, you don’t seem to be doing anything wrong, it just happened that you met women that just want sex, they dont want a deep connection maybe because they are not ready and just want fun, just keep searching for someone that wants the same as you, its that simple
/r/seduction08/08/21 11:44 AM
1

1- this still neglects the fact that human beings are social creatures and women actually need more to feel connected to another human being than men do, that's why men can go longer without physical/emotional contact than women can (although its not healthy), I have a lot of women as friends and its very hard for them to be alone for more than 1 month. 2- it's not true that men get depressed more than women, it's actually the opposite, women get more depressed but die less from suicide because …
/r/seduction04/08/21 11:55 AM
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Wow great comeback... lol
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:43 PM
3

Or maybe: “he has hundreds of reason to be happy about life but only focuses on the one he isn’t happy about and says that life in its entirety is unfair while he has what 99% of world wish they had”
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:34 PM
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Being frustrated is one thing, saying that life is unfair because you cant get laid is fucking stupid and immature and shows lack of resilience, hope this dude doesn’t encounter worse problems in life other than getting laid, cuz he might not be able to cope with them if he thinks life is already unfair
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:32 PM
0

He’s married...
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:04 AM
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Great constructive criticism.../s
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:49 AM
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“Life is so unfair” says the guy that has money to go to a club, that probably lives in a good country, that doesnt have to worry about if he has money to buy food the next day, and is probably healthy, complaining about looks... fucking hell mate... you are part of the 1% that are lucky in this world, act like it. And get out of your bubble and go see the real world, you need a reality check
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:37 AM
1

Spot on! So much this!
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:15 PM
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I can’t for the life of me understand how some people can turn something good into something bad... maybe change your perspective, you are getting laid, having fun, whats wrong with that? Just enjoy... have fun, dont take it for granted, sure I get it that you want something serious, but why not enjoy life while your single? You seem to have a nice body, why not feel proud and lucky for that? You are turning something positive into a negative thing, Instead of looking for the things you dont hav…
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:09 PM
0

Or maybe she was just busy? Lol people assume always the worst
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:01 PM
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You dont, there is no magic formula, some will lose interest because they only wanted attention, some will lose interest because life happens, sometimes they dont lose interest and you just perceive it as such because you falsely except the other person to behave 100% the same all the time, and that is unrealistic, and sometimes you do some mistakes like being anxious over seperation, some girls know how to deal with it and dont mind as long as its workable, some girls dont want to deal with tha…
/r/seduction28/07/21 05:12 PM
1

Calm down, dude there is a lot of context missing, and I didnt interpret that way, I read it that he asked her to kiss her, she said no and left it at that. It leaves a lot to interpretation and two different people can interpret it in different ways, I took it lighter than you did, but its anyone’s guess what really happened. You should be the one moderating the discussion not add fire to the fuel with these types of comments. Edit: and when I said he did nothing wrong, was referencing the whit…
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:11 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with what he did
/r/seduction26/07/21 08:32 AM
1

You fucking King, Thank You!
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:54 PM
2

Women, those evil creatures from another dimension 😂
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:40 PM
0

Thats a sad world you live in
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:19 PM
0

Yeah it could never possibly be because of his personality... lol jaded fucks
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:56 PM
50

Maybe you are boyfriend material and husband material, and younger girls want to have fun before settling
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:15 PM
1

Spot on
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:07 PM
1

The very problem its you guys in this community still use fucked up terms like “High value” like if people were stocks, and then you wonder why some put themselves or others on a pedestal, lol
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:05 PM
1

Seems like you lack humility
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:03 PM
6

Thats a bit extreme and I am sure its not the majority of cases
/r/seduction19/07/21 07:17 AM
3

This is the problem with repeating stuff you hear without critical thinking... Robin Williams had Lewey Body Disease! It is an extremely serious and deteriorating neurological disease and he killed himself before the disease completely turned him into a vegetable. He DIDN’T kill himself because he was depressed, he didnt have depression! It fucking pisses me off people continue to use his example as a guy that killed himself because he was depressed
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:57 PM
2

Yes I get that and in part its true, but the way people are dealing with that is problematic. In order to not depend on others people become isolated islands depending only on themselves, and lonely. It is ok to depend on others sometimes, and in healthy amounts, you are dependent of your parents until a certain age, you do depend upon a community, it is impossible to 100% get rid of dependency and I think there is a misconception about dependency, that is what I am learning with therapy at leas…
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:35 PM
4

Lol
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:59 AM
4

Part of what you said is actually harmfull, I get the idea behind it, but yes we need people! as human beings we are social creatures we have been since the beginning of our species, it is thought that depression exists as a defense mechanism when we were hunter gatherers, when an individual was kicked from a tribe, depression kicks in to warn him that he needs to find a tribe or he wont survive, because back then, you could easily die alone in the wild. This notion that is being regurgitated by…
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:11 AM
0

Yep your right, people can’t handle other people that never experienced what they have experienced telling them what to do. It seems you cant also understand that. And yes this is predomanetly a male sub, it doesnt mean that women or anyone lgbtq arent welcomed, in fact this sub seems to support more women to participate than Ive seen women subs support man, and again no, I as a man dont have anything against women, just against people that come here with and arrogant smug thinking they know bes…
/r/seduction15/07/21 08:56 PM
1

Thats why man dont listen to you, you dont know whats like being a man, the same why man dont know whats its like being a women, I dont go to a womens sub with arrogance telling them they have to listen to me because I know more than them. Thats like a westerner going to another country telling them what to do. Maybe you should listen more and be more humble while your at it
/r/seduction15/07/21 08:46 PM
1

You always know best?
/r/seduction15/07/21 08:36 PM
1

Why do you think that is?
/r/seduction15/07/21 08:25 PM
25

So you have no problems sending your dick but are unsure how to open a conversation? Just ask how her week was
/r/seduction15/07/21 04:46 PM
14

She ended up with him and it was a conscious choice, stop trying to make an issue where there isn’t any, you are clearly projecting
/r/seduction15/07/21 08:34 AM
2

Because you are focused on keeping them interested, dont force, just be
/r/seduction11/07/21 07:43 AM
6

Bingo
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:13 PM
1

r/oddlyspecific
/r/seduction10/07/21 08:20 AM
2

You wallow while she could have swallowed 😜
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:36 AM
1

She literally said: “yeah sure”... if that was the problem she would have no problem saying that it was too soon
/r/seduction09/07/21 09:15 PM
3

number 4 hits close to home
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:10 PM
1

it is, for you
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:53 PM
1

You see the world in a negative way, its how you choose to see it, it doesnt mean its the reality. You are just pissed that someone else views the world in a different and more positive way, now fuck off you miserable shit
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:27 PM
2

You don’t hear her complaining... why do you? Its not you in that situation so stop projecting
/r/seduction06/07/21 03:04 PM
2

How is being miserable a good think?
/r/seduction06/07/21 02:55 PM
9

Because men don’t have as many options as women do, and its usually harder for a man to get laid when compared to women. If out of the blue life took away your ability to work, you would soon enough be desperate to get hired and would glorify and give value when you finally landed a job, it just seems you take for granted something that is easier for you
/r/seduction06/07/21 02:52 PM
5

because I made a typo? what a tool
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:33 PM
3

It will never be enough, thats like saying to a millionaire that is miserable to try and become a billionaire
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:05 PM
4

You come to a sub that is predominantly male and come up with passive-agressive comment against the whole male gender. What a sad women you are
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:03 PM
233

Almost as if the key to life is balance
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:55 PM
1

you belong to a sub that says: 'This is a feminist space, and in order to keep the discussion civil and focused on issues related to women's experiences, only women will be allowed to submit posts and comment.' isn't feminism supposed to help both genders? anyway, if you truly want to improve yourself I would advise you to leave behind eco chambers and take responsibility and accountability in life, asking this question here is a good start, congrats
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:16 PM
9

the second one seems to be a misandrist sub, full of hate against men
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:08 PM
-3

If being called husband material is insulting to you, you are insecure.
/r/seduction11/06/21 06:57 AM
1

If it is troubling that much to the point of causing inferiority complex I would suggest to take a break from him and communicate to him what you are feeling, and work on yourself, when you are ok with yourself rekindle your bromance
/r/seduction25/05/21 09:54 AM
6

what I meant was, because you don't identify with this mindset/advice doesn't mean it's the wrong one
/r/seduction09/05/21 05:08 PM
3

You are just making baseless assumptions...
/r/seduction09/05/21 11:33 AM
20

Its not bad advice, its just not advice for you (me neither) but quite usefull for people with the same goals
/r/seduction09/05/21 11:30 AM
1

If you give up, the rest of the world will be ok with it
/r/seduction08/05/21 11:40 AM
3

I like the way you think
/r/seduction07/05/21 08:50 PM
2

And you are probably not a happy guy, are we just gonna state facts now?
/r/seduction07/05/21 08:18 PM
0

Out of curiosity, what do you think of the responses the guy had from askgirlsadvice sub
/r/seduction07/05/21 07:32 PM
6

And now she is calling psychologist uneducated 😂😂 people that spend their entire lives studying how the mind works, but hey Vanessa here knows more about the mind with a simple google search than people with PhDs in the subject with years of experience 😂😂 You desperatly need therapy and don’t even know it
/r/seduction07/05/21 07:18 PM
4

One of the very reason people develop multiple personality disorder is the fact that one’s personality is shattered for not being able to handle a traumatic event. But hey, you know more about everything than anyone here right? 😉
/r/seduction07/05/21 07:16 PM
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I used to be a nurse, and let me tell you I fucking hated being surrounded by women all the damn time and not have more guy friends. It drives you fucking nuts
/r/seduction07/05/21 06:13 PM
2

This!
/r/seduction07/05/21 06:08 PM
3

Yes
/r/seduction07/05/21 06:07 PM
8

Are you seriously downplaying the importance of therapy? And you really need to be shown the hundreds of thousands of papers published on the benefits of therapy for mental health? You just sound like a troll
/r/seduction07/05/21 06:04 PM
3

Endorphins are released after a workout and have this effect, its great
/r/seduction07/05/21 12:13 PM
4

Wrong, it can be taught like any other skill, the same way you can teach someone to excel at speaking in public or any other social skill. And this is why women fail to give advice to man, because you think it just “happens”, no it doesn’t... behind everytime you thought it “happened” was a man with social skills that learned how to make it happen. If you truly want to help man, just learn to appreciate the effort they put in themselves to better themselves and to be a better man for you, becaus…
/r/seduction07/05/21 11:55 AM
3

exactly and that's why your advice is ignored, you don't teach how to get that spark...
/r/seduction07/05/21 11:23 AM
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to be fair, you are wrong here, women sometimes give advice on their ideal partner, but not on a realistic partner, a guy could tick every box of your ideal partner and still not get anywhere
/r/seduction07/05/21 11:18 AM
1

Compassion
/r/seduction25/04/21 12:11 PM
24

to be honest this is not that obvious to me, one thing is that you are passed out drunk, sure you cant give consent then, but another thing is just to not have inhibitions, if a girl initiates and says she wants to have sex while drunk its still her decision and her responsibility. it's like drunk people suddenly have no responsibility and accountability, if drunk people get into a fight and commit a crime do they go free just because they could not make a good decision? weren't they responsible…
/r/seduction19/04/21 01:38 PM
4

you did the right thing, she was not in a good shape to make a rational decision which in my opinion is a little bit controversial because she choose to be in that state to begin with, but anyway, doing something with a drunken girl, no matter if she is the one that initiates, is a big mistake, it can bring dire consequences for both you and her
/r/seduction19/04/21 01:30 PM
4

Never do something that you dont want to just to please someone
/r/seduction18/04/21 01:11 PM
10

this shit doesnt help someone who is going through pain in his life, you are a cancer
/r/seduction18/04/21 10:54 AM
2

There is no right answer
/r/seduction16/04/21 05:49 PM
0

Actually no, I have seen a lot of guys getting girls that initially didnt like them, or didnt even find them attractive
/r/seduction16/04/21 05:47 PM
0

Oh you are one of those people that tries to gaslight and shift the blame when it backfires. Yes, of course you meant that as constructive criticism /s
/r/seduction12/04/21 04:33 PM
2

In context of online dating when you don’t know anything about the other person and the first interaction is from screen, yes absolutely, in context of real life building connections, not so much, when you have a good connection with someone, doesn’t really matter that much if they tick all of the boxes
/r/seduction12/04/21 02:38 PM
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This is how you know the advice is probably pretty on-point, boys and this is how I know you probably have trouble connecting with women. ​ also your bigoted comment discourages future participation of women in seduction threads which is a shame...
/r/seduction12/04/21 01:25 PM
7

meditation, and therapy for the anxiety issues. it worked for me
/r/seduction12/04/21 01:09 PM
4

the curse of high dimensionality, well if you are in data science you get the joke. and yes I agree 100% with that, and that is basically what I said, I just don't agree with the term better as it portrays comparison in a not good way, but if other people prefer that term and not get negatively affected by it than fine by me
/r/seduction12/04/21 01:02 PM
9

I get that and it does make sense, it all comes down to how you perceive other people’s good qualities, if they motivate you, good, if they make you feel less about yourself than something needs to change. There is nothing wrong with healthy competition of course
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:38 AM
9

I am not here to try and convince you of anything, you have the right to view the world and in this case relationships as you seem fit, because there isn't one single right way to do it, and if that view works for you, than by all means, keep doing what you do
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:19 AM
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no, there aren't any men "better" than me as a whole, there are men DIFFERENT than me, and everyone is different, I do not compare myself to other men, and the minute you start doing that you already lost. Human beings are complex and cannot be resumed to some arbitrary parameters like you are trying to compare video game characters "oh this guy has higher strength and agility stats..." ​ if you want to compare certain skills, sure I'll give you that, there are men and women better than me at dr…
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:00 AM
3

this is probably what you think of yourself, so you got your friends to validate what you think of yourself / you surround yourself with people that share the same views and think the same of you as you do of yourself, the same way an abuse victim has a higher probability to choose another abuser because it feels "right" and familiar. There are literally hundreds of reasons why you get ghosted, and a lot of them have nothing to do with you, having self defeating thoughts will not help you in any…
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:49 AM
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" A better dude got to her, she desperate when she talked to you " yeah.. that's not healthy advice... that's basically saying you are not good enough
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:39 AM
4

no, insecure women do it, and if you just go after insecure women, then you got shit to figure out'«
/r/seduction29/03/21 07:22 PM
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" they are providing you with an opportunity for you to prove yourself " yeah that's the thing, you don't have to prove yourself to anyone! you are saying this like they are doing you a favor for providing an opportunity... My dudes, don't listen to this, you don't have to prove shit
/r/seduction29/03/21 03:15 PM
2

I never asked for a number, I just give them mine
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:46 PM
1

nice one!
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:46 PM
3

" suboptimal pairing. " jesus christ that was hard to read, cringe
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:43 PM
2

you are just looking for something to pick on about... what about the OP did he care enough aswell because he mentioned both him and her date's height?
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:41 PM
3

I agree with your idea but being too much confrontational and condescending will not get your message across
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:38 PM
3

you pay attention in others what you are insecure about yourself, so yes short girls that are insecure with their height will probably reject a short guy, a short girl that's secure about her height doesn't give a fuck, in fact it might even prefer short guys
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:29 PM
1

Prepare to be bombarded with DMs
/r/seduction05/03/21 12:59 PM
5

I am amazed that in some parts of the world there are bars opened... people can leave their houses and have a social life... damn
/r/seduction01/03/21 05:32 PM
1

this made no sense whatsoever
/r/MensRights10/02/21 12:30 PM
2

Completely disagree, we each have our own personal reality in which the narrative is shaped by our beliefs, if you believe you are a victim, it becomes your reality. But respect your view
/r/MensRights08/02/21 06:56 PM
1

I’m sorry for what you had to go through and it certainly leaves a big scar, trauma and fears, trust me I understand you as I had a not so good mother myself, but the way I look at it, they were not very good people, and I don’t associate a gender with it. I think the moment we realize that there are good and bad people in both genders, the better chance we have towards a society where these things don’t happen. Your mom perhaps had a bad father that fucked her up, and her father had a bad mothe…
/r/MensRights08/02/21 01:59 PM
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Big chances start with a small group of people
/r/MensRights08/02/21 12:55 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/MensRights08/02/21 12:28 PM
-8

Or maybe, we could contribute for a healthy way to deal with both gender’s issues?
/r/MensRights08/02/21 12:13 PM
1

I get it, but the fear of missing out is an illusion. If you question it, it will fall apart, you are afraid of missing out on what? There is nothing you are missing
/r/seduction04/02/21 05:08 PM
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The problem I see here is that you want what tou dont have... why do you need to get instant results with girls in bars?you already have something far more valuable. dude you just admitted that when you try to seduce them they run away, than stop trying and be yourself, thats why they catch feelings, you are the perfect example that seduction and trying to do tricks and pretending to be someone else is worse than just being your true self. It just so happens that you havent found someone with wh…
/r/seduction04/02/21 09:04 AM
3

I would stop reading books like that, they are very skewed in portraying relationships
/r/seduction02/02/21 11:02 PM
2

by letting go of the need to be dominant...
/r/seduction22/01/21 04:30 PM
1

I’m a guy and I am usually on the other side, I am the one who gets attached first, as someone who is on the other side (gets attached first) I thank you for your consideration of the other persons feelings. Here’s some advice but do take it with a grain of salt because its my opinion after all: be sincere, communicate that you are not interested in a LTR with that person, there is no shame in that and its not your fault! Like someone said here, do it in person, it sucks I know, but trust me its…
/r/seduction11/01/21 11:00 AM
1

If you are asking this question, it is time to let go and move on
/r/seduction04/01/21 10:00 PM
9

fair enough, I jumped too soon to conclusions, but like I said you didn't include the other reason for women not being interested in ONS
/r/seduction20/12/20 04:48 PM
40

no that's not why women say they dont like ONS lol... it's actually the opposite, most of the time they get attached after sex, so they say they don't like ONS because they don't want to get attached to a guy that leaves them after he got what he wanted, sex
/r/seduction20/12/20 04:24 PM
2

what the hell? where did I break rule 4?
/r/seduction20/12/20 01:53 PM
1

Yes I totally agree, but I thought I had my intentions clear, we had dates and not friendly hangouts if you know what I mean, about the sexual tension it also has to be balanced because if she feels you are on about sex all the times she wants out
/r/seduction20/12/20 12:28 PM
5

yep, reporting for duty
/r/seduction20/12/20 10:50 AM
3

at last someone says it, thank you!
/r/seduction19/12/20 10:56 PM
3

😂😂😂
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:49 PM
9

The fact that you had to state your height and “good looks” tells me otherwise
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:42 PM
9

He isn’t the problem... its you... you have to deal with your own insecurities man, and hating on someone else is a bad way to do it, good luck
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:26 PM
6

Loool your response is 1 of 2 things, you see something in him that you dont like about yourself or you just want what he has and are just jealous
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:23 PM
1

do you really think that human beings can be put into 2 different categories? alpha and beta? you are reducing people and not looking at them as humans to be honest. and furthermore there is no such thing as "alpha males" the researcher who coined that term from studying wolves abandoned that idea himself, yet PUA still use it. almost all PUA are single and don't maintain a long term relationship (they do get laid a lot), so if a long term healthy relationship is what you are looking for, good l…
/r/seduction12/11/19 05:01 PM
1

Interested in the post + username
/r/seduction09/10/19 10:00 AM
3

Are you that narcissistic that you don’t give a fuck if you damage other people’s relationships as long as you get to test your tricks?
/r/seduction06/10/19 12:16 AM
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