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Generalwanthonio31/r/MensRights20/11/21 03:44 AM
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Generalwanthonio31/r/MensRights19/09/23 06:24 PM
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Generalwanthonio31/r/MensRights07/08/21 11:29 AM
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Marriage/Childrenwanthonio31/r/MensRights25/10/23 12:54 PM
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Generalwanthonio31/r/MensRights20/01/22 09:50 AM
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Generalwanthonio31/r/MensRights01/06/23 06:46 PM
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Generalwanthonio31/r/MensRights03/08/22 05:45 PM
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The demonization doesn’t help, but I did validate the concern that they have. Where I don’t agree is where they think it’s not an issue for men
/r/MensRights12/12/23 06:46 PM
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Yeah that was the specific argument, and it absolutely does you can't say that they're of 'higher risk' when stat wise men are the victims of most violent crime
/r/MensRights12/12/23 03:39 AM
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you're good lol no hostility here, but you're right. I couldn't really believe it myself, how deep are they willing to go instead of just saying "yeah, men are more likely to be targeted and being cautious at night isn't exclusively a woman experience". (Even though I know it's valid on their end) But you know after being lenient/less active for like the last 2 years, I think I understand some importance of why subs like this exist
/r/MensRights11/12/23 06:11 AM
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I could show you the thread lol ​ "Men are always going to be the majority of victims, day or night. That still doesn’t make them equal because women generally don’t do things alone whether it’s night or daytime unless they absolutely have to." this is their argument for misfortune happening to women is on a different level compared to men according to them
/r/MensRights11/12/23 05:57 AM
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That does sound like bullshit to me too, like I said in another comment they would go on to say that- women don't do things alone outside as much in the daytime so they're not as targeted
/r/MensRights11/12/23 05:18 AM
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they go on to say that women don't do things alone outside even in the daytime as much as men, so they're not as targeted
/r/MensRights11/12/23 05:15 AM
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She's out of touch. At some point she's also mocked men for being ugly in the past as well
/r/MensRights20/11/23 01:54 AM
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I see, thanks
/r/MensRights25/10/23 05:58 PM
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But thank you for this
/r/MensRights25/10/23 05:42 PM
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The judge still having to approve whether the divorce contested or not, is a detail that seems like many people are missing out
/r/MensRights25/10/23 05:41 PM
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Thank you, that’s exactly what I was doing too. My post was a simple request for clarification. I don’t know what they are on about Because the person that was speaking to on a different thread makes this oversimplification that ‘there isn’t an entitlement that when things are uncontested/negotiated’ as if the guy can’t have his livelihood stripped from him in an unwarranted way, outside of uncontested no fault divorces of course. Another question for you sparkle, did my question sound like gibb…
/r/MensRights25/10/23 05:40 PM
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I know it sounds silly, but that’s what someone that I got into a discussion with is saying that’s the case
/r/MensRights25/10/23 03:29 PM
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But wouldn’t you agree that’s a dumb though process?
/r/MensRights20/09/23 03:43 PM
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Yeah I think I’m going to get this final reply and likely not bother with them at this point
/r/MensRights20/09/23 03:41 PM
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Their logic is because the defendant who’s most likely guilty is trying to get away with a crime counts as a false accusation, therefore men makes more false accusations. I don’t think they know the difference
/r/MensRights20/09/23 03:29 PM
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They’re literally accusing the survey respondents of being misogynistic
/r/MensRights20/09/23 04:30 AM
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The person I’m talking to wouldn’t even drop sources even though I’m requesting data from their part. The way you explained it is how thought of it. But Idky it’s difficult for some people to get that
/r/MensRights20/09/23 04:10 AM
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Yeah Ive tried to get them to dispute that survey by citing their initial claim of men being the majority of false accusers, but they haven’t done anything even after multiple messages later It was weird seeing them saying that. You literally have to even create the hoops to jump through I actually want to show you the thread that I’m talking about but I don’t want to get the warning for posting links or brigading. Shoot me a dm if you want to see it
/r/MensRights20/09/23 12:45 AM
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Here’s the question I asked another: ‘Then there’s this next question I want to ask: is it hypocritical to support the presumption of innocence and also find the survey plausible? Because the person I’m talking to is trying to use that to get of on accusing me of ‘supporting rapist’ (Yes, this what they’re saying)’
/r/MensRights19/09/23 10:42 PM
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Then there’s this next question I want to ask: is it hypocritical to support the presumption of innocence and also find the survey plausible? (They’re two different things imo) Because the person I’m talking to is trying to use that to get of on accusing me of ‘supporting rapist’ (Yes, this what they’re saying)
/r/MensRights19/09/23 10:13 PM
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Wait is self report really the best way to get to those figures? I was thinking maybe I could access some sort of documents that show stats. I thought I could find something more concrete than the survey
/r/MensRights19/09/23 08:04 PM
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You’re absolutely right, but for the sake of the thread I just want to retrieve the cases that show the false accusers being female. And I think the figure tie’s somewhere between 2-10% because I’ve seen various numbers that range in there
/r/MensRights19/09/23 07:48 PM
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I’m not really concerned whether somebody sees that I’ve posted here. I haven’t really been active as much on reddit in general. Posting/deleting after I found answers is something I’ve done before
/r/MensRights19/09/23 07:04 PM
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I think this is what I was looking for, thank you.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 07:58 PM
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Don't forget that there was also a video on twitter where a woman boasted about hysterically yelling at a man when all he did was say 'hello' to get her attention for a brief time
/r/MensRights01/04/23 06:20 AM
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'not all incels are misogynists and not all misogynists are incels' basically
/r/MensRights27/03/23 03:31 AM
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You’re aware of the facts, and you’re doing a great establishing yourself to become that better man. I think it would depend on where you’re looking for. For example, I’ve heard there’s a difference in Midwest and like LA, in culture overall too. Good luck
/r/MensRights26/03/23 06:00 PM
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that's gross, these attitudes will probably be more worse as time goes on in future generations
/r/MensRights26/03/23 07:42 AM
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This is pretty much saying that women cry more often than men, post puberty. Not that men can't function to cry.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 06:16 AM
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That's just not true dude. Where did you even get that from?
/r/MensRights19/03/23 06:14 AM
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It’s cold, I’ve seen this mindset that people have for a couple years now and now I just wonder if that is something I should’ve expected all along. Which is why I appreciate people in these communities. I appreciate you for the support, just keep doing what you’re doing
/r/MensRights23/02/23 06:44 PM
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I’m black, thank you for what you do. That person is an idiot not only for trying to claim that you’re racist but also thinking that men don’t need help either
/r/MensRights23/02/23 03:28 PM
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your comment is not even an exaggeration either, there was a tiktok where a guy was literally walking past a couple girls and they made him look like he was a weirdo
/r/MensRights04/02/23 03:12 AM
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this is so messed up
/r/MensRights07/01/23 05:47 AM
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That sounds abusive, especially when you put a man in the role doing what your girlfriend has done. I hope that you leave the relationship as soon as possible
/r/MensRights07/01/23 03:23 AM
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testimonies like this will only increase in the future, but welcome
/r/MensRights03/01/23 06:39 PM
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If you've read their post, it was clearly an accumulation of many things that has led to them getting where they are today
/r/MensRights03/01/23 06:38 PM
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Situations like that will only create drama in future, and is very disrespectful to someone in the position of the op. Especially if someone is doing that consecutively for over 15 years, knowing the effect then it's not a crazy idea to cut them off to prevent that. is someone having sex with or doing other forms of romantic bonding really the culprit to friendship breaking. in some cases, like this one then yes. When you're getting at a friend's sibling or sibling's friend it's clearly crossing…
/r/MensRights09/12/22 05:33 AM
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I think you have to drop an ultimaitum to cut her off, it's very disrespectful from both the party of your friends and sister to do that. But from reading the title I thought this was something that reads of an issue around the teen age. The fact that this is happening in the mid 30s and has been going on for a consistent amount of time for the *last 15 years*, creating drama within your friend groups?! That's crossing the line and she knows what she is doing
/r/MensRights09/12/22 05:24 AM
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both sides are clearly trashy for that
/r/MensRights09/12/22 05:20 AM
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it's very open too, and it's insane
/r/MensRights08/12/22 08:45 PM
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that's an interesting angle to look at it from
/r/MensRights07/12/22 07:21 PM
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Nice to see other comments calling it out
/r/MensRights05/12/22 11:30 PM
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I’m rarely on here nowadays due to work but it’s crazy still seeing this sub having to deal with bullshit like that
/r/MensRights06/11/22 03:55 PM
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they've literally shat on men before it's release, and after it's release/ or flop (I think it was) the official page said something about about the show now being for incels lol. The people that are apart of it seem of shit
/r/MensRights06/10/22 05:19 PM
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When you say the manosphere/redpill in general I do agree that the subject is talked about. But my problem with this is that, that title is a lie because it’s never been advocated in the mrm as a legitimate right. But in those spaces where it’s talked about, that disparity is brought up to show the studies where 80% of men being viewed as unattractive. In general I don’t think an average guy would be successful on those apps. Real life, or maybe knowing somebody already online would already give…
/r/MensRights03/10/22 07:31 PM
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The only group this sub has been concerned about is feminists and the people who align with it (men and women)
/r/MensRights03/10/22 05:16 PM
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it doesn't exist, it's always been vague when I've seen it applied
/r/MensRights30/09/22 02:45 AM
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There’s a word for that headline too that is being avoided
/r/MensRights28/09/22 01:46 AM
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Yeah I’ve never heard someone saying beating your wife is some symbol of masculinity, it’s literally the opposite
/r/MensRights26/09/22 05:06 PM
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In my opinion, that's somewhat right, because it does change your circumstances against your will for something that you didn't do and don't deserve. And because of that, you're legitamently traumatized
/r/MensRights23/09/22 04:53 AM
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I've seen somebody refer to it as 'emotional rape'
/r/MensRights23/09/22 04:50 AM
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I'm pretty sure there have been way much more examples since the 50s. I don't know any specific cases the top of my head, but people definitely get put in harms way/death off of false accusations.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 04:49 AM
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Yep that’s exactly what’s happening too. I hope I can find it these days though because I also get this higher quality state of mind/ life. I don’t why it’s so hard to get/maintain then the other way around too
/r/MensRights21/09/22 07:42 PM
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Personal slump (fallen off on discipline and practicing good habits), trying to plan the next moves and actually practice them.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 03:30 PM
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Thanks, Looked up the name, but it wasn’t there one I was exactly looking for.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 02:36 AM
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Yeah that was actually kind of dumb on part not realizing that when I posted it last night
/r/MensRights19/09/22 11:10 PM
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It was clickbait
/r/MensRights19/09/22 07:16 PM
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Thanks but it’s not him, I’ve heard of his case but it’s someone else
/r/MensRights19/09/22 06:58 PM
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I’ll check that out when I have the chance, but it wasn’t him either. It was somebody that was way less famous than him
/r/MensRights19/09/22 05:32 PM
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No not him
/r/MensRights19/09/22 02:15 PM
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No not him, somebody that was a little less famous then that I guess
/r/MensRights19/09/22 02:15 PM
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Unfortunately these are not the names I was looking for
/r/MensRights19/09/22 02:15 PM
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Right. Unless this video is fake, I clearly don’t see any context where being held at knife point is tame or funny
/r/MensRights19/09/22 04:47 AM
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That's not even a tame video, even "From the outside" Nothing about that situation was remotely funny. 'getting pissy' seems like the better reaction than being full of shit
/r/MensRights18/09/22 09:58 PM
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Because it really isn’t. It’s being debunked like crazy in the responses. But a couple of things I can highlight that I don’t like - They dismissed the fact of men more likely being victims because the perp is male, and they don’t recognize misandry affecting men
/r/MensRights15/09/22 01:46 AM
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And they are irrelevant to this story... ah I see
/r/MensRights13/09/22 09:24 PM
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Unless it was edited, what's wrong with it? They are right with what they've said there. Even though there are people that sensitively cast others as bigoted, there are people that hold actual bigoted views
/r/MensRights13/09/22 07:07 AM
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Really couldn’t believe what I was reading for a second
/r/MensRights09/09/22 05:38 AM
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Holy shit you are brain dead
/r/MensRights09/09/22 05:37 AM
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I don't think the father ensuring that the child is something that should be taken personal
/r/MensRights31/08/22 06:01 AM
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I've never understood this point. The subject of suicide is unfortunate but all this is, is a diversion from the cases where men actually follow through
/r/MensRights25/08/22 01:50 AM
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That’s not true, most people who are concerned for false accusations already know the damages of rape in the first place
/r/MensRights20/08/22 07:46 PM
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I hope you get your answer in the comments, I know that so have a lot of scanning through or reading to do there but so will say this in response. What are the percentages of those men who are one. It’s a terrible act, that’s for sure. But majority of like 90% of men are not one. You don’t ‘teach’ a person not to commit a crime. Most people are already taught and are made aware of morality from a young age. That’s reason why criminals exist. They are literally people that know better but chose t…
/r/MensRights16/08/22 10:29 AM
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I hope you get your answer in the comments, I know that so have a lot of scanning through or reading to do there but so will say this in response. What are the percentages of those men who are one. It’s a terrible act, that’s for sure. But majority of like 90% of men are not one. You don’t ‘teach’ a person not to commit a crime. Most people are already taught and are made aware of morality from a young age. That’s reason why criminals exist. They are literally people that know better but chose t…
/r/MensRights16/08/22 09:56 AM
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He says a lot of exaggerated things like that
/r/MensRights11/08/22 07:16 PM
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there is a study that shows that the majority of the men that have followed through have actually reached out at one point
/r/MensRights09/08/22 05:15 AM
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This was a viral tweet on an open forum/ public platform. I don’t think anybody’s privacy is being violated. This has got to be looked into
/r/MensRights04/08/22 12:50 AM
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That’s like throwing a bucket on a wild fire
/r/MensRights03/08/22 08:18 PM
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when I was younger by a few more years, the acceptance of that is what used to drive me crazy too.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 07:44 PM
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I don’t know what is the appropriate flair. I had my choices between ‘general’ or ‘anti-mrm’ Feel free to correct me on which one’s the right one. The shit you see on twitter that gets popular is wild and unfortunate.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 06:39 PM
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I don’t know what is the appropriate flair. I had my choices between ‘general’ or ‘anti-mrm’ Feel free to correct me on which one’s the right one. The shit you see on twitter that gets popular is wild and unfortunate.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 04:50 PM
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Was just learning about her recently, I didn't know that she went homeless but what she's done was amazing.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 04:39 AM
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I think that’s the case
/r/MensRights27/07/22 04:35 PM
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There are plenty of people that are decent that get screwed over, that doesn't make any sense
/r/MensRights22/07/22 10:23 PM
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I wouldn't call it fringe. A couple examples I can think about You've probably seen the men's awareness conference being protested by feminists and eventually being shut down This is relatively old, but there was a (first one I believe) men's shelter called CAFE that was being opened, had backlash. Cassie Jaye, was a feminist that's acknowledged that men has issues, made a documentary about it. Was eventually slandered and cast aside because of this Erin Pizzey, another ex feminist, said that wo…
/r/AntiFeminists22/07/22 10:16 PM
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You don’t think so? Despite that many have shut down mens conferences, domestic violence shelters, many them openly misandrist especially if you dive into the radical side
/r/AntiFeminists21/07/22 05:13 PM
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The hypocrisy is the disparaging/ casting aside of men that is done in feminism yet needing them when the time comes
/r/AntiFeminists21/07/22 12:12 AM
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That's not blaming women at all. Again, it's highlighting the hypocrisy from feminists. I do think that men waging war and the government employing mandatory conscription needs the blaming. Most of them back then didn't want to vote because they didn't want the responsibilities that it has also came with (even the men didn't get to vote for free unless it came with their consent to be drafted, and even in other parts of the world they've had their fair share of struggling to vote). I'm not angry…
/r/AntiFeminists20/07/22 10:07 PM
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What does that have to do with what Ive said? I’m m pretty sure it would be great to not have anybody mandatorily drafted and I’m against anybody who supports it man or woman
/r/AntiFeminists20/07/22 08:59 PM
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Basic illustration of them challenging gender roles, smashing the “patriarchy”, fixation to be equal to men (in physical situations like combat) and then going back to those old school roles that has been protested against, when the agent shows up. That’s the hypocrisy that guy is there to draft her It would be nice if conscription wasn’t mandatory from the government, but this video could be an example with what happened in Ukraine where men were forced to fight in war and were there any femini…
/r/AntiFeminists20/07/22 08:45 PM
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That second part of your sentence is not even true, but the point of the video was to show hypocrisy
/r/AntiFeminists20/07/22 06:14 PM
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Involuntary celibate
/r/MensRights19/07/22 03:09 PM
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I hope this doesn’t get downvoted but this is so true
/r/MensRights18/07/22 02:14 PM
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(Don’t mean to attack you here, I don’t think you mean bad) but petty generalizations don’t help anybody at all. Misandry is so open that it doesn’t come from a specific type.
/r/MensRights18/07/22 02:14 PM
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Lost it's meaning. There are actual bigoted one's in their spaces that have the entitled and horrible attitudes, but most of the time from what I've seen it's a pejorative to disparage men. Sort of like an ad hominem.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 02:58 AM
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As long as it's directed towards men, yes. and it's so open
/r/AntiFeminists16/07/22 01:34 AM
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The reasoning behind it felt like an excuse cause I didn’t get the participating in incel subreddit notification. And I haven’t necessarily clicked ‘joined’ even though I’m here pretty frequent
/r/MensRights15/07/22 08:47 PM
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I got banned from one of them for honestly engaging in a topic. Has had nothing to do with mra or anything to with men. No instigation or anything remote of that sort of nature. I made a comment in a discussion and was just banned, no reason. Tried to confront a mod on it too
/r/MensRights15/07/22 08:04 PM
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I’ve never understood that myself too. Being unsafe at night isn’t exclusive to either gender, but men are likely to be victim to that. (I think) Homicide is one of the leading causes of male death
/r/MensRights15/07/22 04:38 AM
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Its unfortunate that your friends had to have gone through that and those cases do exist. But this is an mra subreddit so of course you will see more of that in discussion on what men go through. False accusations are one of those things. The figure being a small number is debatable in my opinion because just because it’s 2-10% doesn’t necessarily mean 90-98 are false. I’ve seen other people claim that they’ve seen some studies that are as high as 40% (idk if that’s true so I stick with 2-10)
/r/MensRights14/07/22 08:31 PM
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I didn’t vote/downvote but I couldn’t tell if you were joking or being passive aggressive
/r/MensRights06/07/22 06:22 AM
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I think the term should just die out, doesn't help anybody at all and being condescending isn't exclusive to either gender
/r/MensRights06/07/22 02:16 AM
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I think this is a legit concern, thank you for this
/r/MensRights04/07/22 02:22 AM
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Kind of eased up on my focus for life and am paying for it. I’ve been feeling down in general too
/r/MensRights01/07/22 01:53 AM
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So it’s basically practicing abstinence while trying to seem important while you’re at it? And wouldn’t affect about the majority of men anyways. It also gives what the conservatives/pro lifers literally want too.
/r/MensRights30/06/22 06:32 AM
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They’re full of shit and they know it, but sorry you had to go through that
/r/MensRights29/06/22 07:17 AM
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I guess weird comments like that are fine when you don’t align with their line of thinking
/r/MensRights29/06/22 04:22 AM
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That's so true man, coming towards that conclusion as well. It's insane
/r/MensRights28/06/22 08:20 PM
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I’m glad someone else has pointed this out. I think that it could also be in general as well. Like something is wrong with you for not appreciating disrespect- it seems like manipulative by default
/r/MensRights28/06/22 05:00 PM
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Yeah sites like twitter (where I see it most) are very childish, a shitty app. But what you've said about putting things into perspective is very true man. but like I said I wish you good luck going forward. You will achieve this
/r/MensRights26/06/22 11:28 PM
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I would went into a small vent talking about how how people can utilize a person's lack of sexual life to degrade them. Take a look at that 'no bitches' meme that's went around for a while. The thought process behind the meme has been around for a while. The mockery is (in my opinion) the biggest reasons why people internalize thinking you need to be capable of getting sex on a whim to feel like an adequate human in the first place
/r/MensRights26/06/22 10:55 PM
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That’s a really good question. I don’t really have this issue. But I can see why someone would develop that believe subconsciously when they’re growing up, which can disturb them. (Whether it’s loneliness when others don’t go through it, having it reinforced or insulted with in their face, etc) I would say try to develop a sense of purpose. Find your hobbies, get busy with life- find a skill, be productive about something. Practice gratitude because it can help you focus on the aspects of what y…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 08:03 PM
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oh shit, tell em Poly!
/r/MensRights26/06/22 03:31 PM
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All you’ve done was accused them of woman hating and got defensive
/r/MensRights26/06/22 07:40 AM
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This comment is amazing. I think people generally can suck, so it's not really gendered. Also having a notion of a general group doesn't help, because if you're perception is clouded, you could struggle to find that high quality person you're looking for or want. Also I hope you can feel welcome here
/r/MensRights26/06/22 01:05 AM
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This is a very stupid thing to say and you know that
/r/MensRights25/06/22 02:26 PM
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I’ve literally saw it in another subreddit before I was making my way to this one
/r/MensRights24/06/22 08:26 PM
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This was pretty well said
/r/MensRights23/06/22 07:58 AM
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They cater to women because they make up more of the voters. It’s no coincidence that roe v wade happened near midterm elections They’ve probably concluded that because economically they spend more because they dominate in consumer spending
/r/MensRights23/06/22 07:17 AM
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Don’t even get me started on those types of people
/r/MensRights23/06/22 07:06 AM
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She’s grossed out by his attention but is pretty understandable, but is jealous when he moves on. What’s the point of this passage?
/r/MensRights22/06/22 02:29 PM
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I don’t even know how they do it man
/r/MensRights22/06/22 06:17 AM
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dealing with some issues of their own if that’s how they have to feel gratification Some people are just fundamentally vain so they have to screw with other people before they continue strolling their day peacefully
/r/MensRights22/06/22 02:27 AM
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Dude, fuck them. They're full of shit for that. That and for also putting false accusations on you. I want to say congrats on losing weight too, continue to take your time. I hope you knock your goals down. I believe it will pay off. They shouldn't be able to get away with this though both the conduct about you and the false claims they've made.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 02:26 AM
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what did they say?
/r/MensRights22/06/22 02:26 AM
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Damn just like that? That must feel like it’s traumatic and hopeless. I hope you’re doing better and I’m sorry that’s happened to you
/r/MensRights22/06/22 12:32 AM
7

I’m pretty sure that we do know that women have struggles, but what exactly are you trying to refute? Thanks for pointing out the obvious You do know child abuse isn’t something that only happens to girls, right?
/r/MensRights20/06/22 02:02 AM
1

Sorry about that, I meant which holiday was it overshadowed with?
/r/MensRights19/06/22 09:14 PM
1

Which holiday was overshadowed?
/r/MensRights19/06/22 08:47 PM
2

I was talking the post being down in this sub for a bit but it seems like it’s back up again
/r/MensRights19/06/22 03:26 PM
3

Yeah I’ve been near sighted and jumped to a conclusion in the past before and got pretty exposed for it and at least I’ve acknowledged and made changes to it.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 03:25 PM
2

why did this get removed? I hope the mods can reinstate this
/r/MensRights19/06/22 08:07 AM
2

I think I used that right? lol
/r/MensRights19/06/22 08:03 AM
4

>When I was looking into the claims she made I found out that most of them were either false,unsubstantiated or misleading.There were a few that were completely true, but they either also applied to men as well, or were not actual proof of discrimination against women. That's literally one of the first things I've noticed: There wasn't any additional context behind to what she was saying beyond the names of the articles that she was posting. It was as if the content was being packaged and delibe…
/r/MensRights19/06/22 08:00 AM
2

I also want to add how crazy it is to just overwhelm a video really quickly and have it get traction without having it assessed by somebody. It's like having having a stampede happen without any checks. Really appreciate this
/r/MensRights19/06/22 06:45 AM
2

just saw the video on tiktok, will give this a read later. Thank you
/r/MensRights19/06/22 06:33 AM
1

Do we just create journalist opportunities for anybody now? Don't get me started on that article itself too. Imagine manufacturing something as a patriarchy to evade whatever accountability for your habits.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 06:17 AM
12

I'm happy that this discussion came to a consensus which I think is great to see. But this person has a history of being bad faith in this sub
/r/MensRights18/06/22 11:21 AM
3

I know it seems like an easy mode thing to demand something, but really you should be mad at the person easily supplying them. Those are the enablers and the reason the models can act vain
/r/MensRights11/06/22 03:43 AM
10

There was a Twitter thread recently that I was apart of where we argued that the wage gap on the basis of sex discrimination doesn’t exist and the dude just called people incels lol
/r/MensRights10/06/22 04:21 AM
1

Never understood this language myself, I made a post exactly on this a month ago
/r/MensRights09/06/22 08:10 PM
3

Maybe they don’t chose the loneliness, have depression or are going through something, and that’s where I sympathize with them honestly (for anybody going through it) but where I stop is when I see the groups they gather together in. They are very toxic and it’s annoying when I see that term used so interchangeably/vaguely with people that don’t even deserve it
/r/MensRights08/06/22 11:33 PM
2

You don’t even need to argue or be low effort/antagonistic. They can literally ban you on a whim, it’s happened to me
/r/MensRights08/06/22 10:59 PM
5

In my experience they were all fine
/r/MensRights04/06/22 05:50 PM
4

I wondered the same thing too when people say ‘you’re not entitled to a relationship,etc’ But the people who are venting and frustrated already know this, they’re just expressing their pain. It’s like some sort of knee jerk reaction to shut the guy, especially in response to his venting
/r/MensRights03/06/22 05:49 AM
1

Yeah same here basically
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/22 02:27 PM
5

I’m not even white (I’m black if that matters) and even a tweet I saw the other basically saying that white people don’t experience hardships was crazy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/22 07:40 AM
2

I’ve been browser for a little while now. Its is an echo chamber
/r/MensRights31/05/22 05:28 PM
10

There's nothing wrong with a fwb type of relationship if everything goes smooth. But that's one low ass person. But you're not any better than her if you end up continuing that fwb and not say anything knowing you've seen the texts I would tell, do the right thing because the fact that she can lie to you as if she's single and calmly lie to her current boyfriend and lead him on is disgusting. She's literally taking advantage of her partner's time by wasting it and leading him and and cheating. A…
/r/MensRights31/05/22 07:51 AM
12

literally bingo (e: for the most part, ofc there are people that will fit the description but most of the time the word is used disingenuously)
/r/MensRights30/05/22 11:04 PM
8

Yeah and the people who say that are full of shit too. I know that it’s clearly a pejorative but going that far to include somebody who is in a couple? Also what is the splc (will look it up, just need a tldr)
/r/MensRights30/05/22 11:01 PM
8

Forget about the consideration. It’s rightful that those things are happening (the loss of circumstances).But she needs more time in jail for a crime like that
/r/MensRights30/05/22 03:30 PM
12

No, it shouldn't be like that either. Just because the case doesn't happen in the court room doesn't mean that there shouldn't be an expectation to not preemptively judge people on an accusation whether it's in or outside of the courtroom. Especially without something conclusive to put aside their character for at least courtesy the accused person.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 08:16 PM
3

I reported it and the account is banned now, but it does show that people WILL come here just to submit outrageously offensive posts just so they can go back to their 'real' account and say "look at what is posted over in r/MensRights " I've thought that this was too outrageous to even happen in real time until there was an exact situation that happened irl a couple of months ago
/r/MensRights23/05/22 09:56 PM
32

I thought this was bigoted until that link lol
/r/MensRights12/05/22 07:37 PM
2

I'm glad there is post pointing this out, I even responded to one a few hours ago on twitter. but yeah I agree it's disgusting
/r/MensRights11/05/22 09:41 AM
1

I've never understood why people found the more sexual content of the word appealing or liked being referred like that. First heard it in my early teens and now at 21 years I just find it cringe but different strokes for different folks I guess. There's also another context where you're also not the father and I don't currently know or think it's sexual, but just a term of endearment when latin people say it though
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/22 05:24 PM
1

That’s a big generalization on right wing groups automatically being descended into hate and that’s not really always true. I can argue most of Reddit subs are left leaning and speaking of subs that are left leaning, you do realize that most MRAs (especially the ones in here) fall under left right?
/r/MensRights08/05/22 04:25 PM
7

I don't throw this word around, but that's literally narcissism
/r/MensRights08/05/22 07:22 AM
9

Maybe they've probably observed somethings and has made their conclusion from there
/r/MensRights08/05/22 06:03 AM
13

So the dad want's the child and she's keeping it away? what a piece of shit
/r/MensRights08/05/22 06:01 AM
4

I’m not saying that there are actual cases that would be rightfully quantified, but in these past two years for me personally, it’s usually a tool for character assassination
/r/MensRights07/05/22 05:45 PM
1

I know that I haven't delved into this yet but holy shit dude
/r/MensRights07/05/22 03:53 AM
1

thank you, will look into it soon
/r/MensRights06/05/22 02:05 AM
1

lol thanks
/r/MensRights06/05/22 02:05 AM
1

I’ll read into this later, but can you give a rundown of what it’s about?
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:47 AM
3

Talking about problems like divorce court (or court) issues like alimony and child support, bias against men, false accusations, multilation, and maybe domestic violence.
/r/MensRights02/05/22 06:04 PM
3

Will delete later, but I do remember a similar thread that’s taken place a little while ago on this sub but I can’t even find it which is why, along with being genuinely curious I’m asking this. If you have an idea of what and where those threads are I’d appreciate it if the links were dm’ed Good night
/r/MensRights02/05/22 10:20 AM
5

had no idea that this was the month for that, just learned that upon looking at this post. Happy Men's Month to you too
/r/MensRights02/05/22 03:24 AM
4

Man my dude I hope you can learn from this because by the looks of this, it looks like she was just trying to extract from you. (time, emotion, etc). I do remember a few of the times of dealing with this from few girls back in my teenage years so I'll say this- People who do this don't even deserve you or your time, you deserve better. It would've also helped if you didn't overcommit so much. But as for that girl herself, she seems (I literally don't even throw this word out a tot too) pretty na…
/r/MensRights01/05/22 08:07 AM
3

I remember coming across that sub a few months back, seems like a shithole but oh well I guess it’s still thriving. A fourth wave is very far from needed
/r/MensRights23/04/22 07:58 AM
4

Damn so it’s true?! I did hear about the rumors that he went missing
/r/MensRights20/04/22 08:02 PM
6

Have you clicked join?
/r/MensRights20/04/22 04:09 PM
3

I feel like I’m a rarity for some reason. Maybe it’s because I haven’t clicked join, but I haven’t been banned yet from any other sub from posting and commenting here. I saw a theory a little while ago that a reason could be that I’m on an account that I’ve had for a long time now (since 2014/15) Maybe that could be it?
/r/MensRights20/04/22 03:52 PM
3

No I was agreeing with you
/r/MensRights19/04/22 10:28 PM
4

All I’m saying man. Thank you for being present dude
/r/MensRights19/04/22 05:50 PM
7

Yeah when you say it from that view I guess it can make sense
/r/MensRights19/04/22 05:00 PM
10

That's all I have to say really. take care though and good morning
/r/MensRights19/04/22 04:34 PM
10

I think this was also the streamer that felt entitled to donations just because she was streaming.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 08:56 PM
1

there was a small discussion regarding that a few days ago
/r/MensRights18/04/22 08:15 AM
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A little over a month ago some lady made a few incel like posts on this sub, deleted it, went to another sub called sadcringe or something like that, and posted those pictures to make it seem like that’s the norm on this sub. People eventually found out but it was a little too late Edit: it did teach me, in real time, the lengths people will go to be dishonest, it was so crazy
/r/MensRights17/04/22 10:24 PM
2

If you're on mobile, click the three dots > share comments > copy link
/r/MensRights17/04/22 07:28 PM
2

are you on mobile?
/r/MensRights17/04/22 07:26 PM
2

In this sub? I'm not even trying to be facetious but can I see some examples? I've lurked here for a while now and I haven't seen that in particular, being parroted.
/r/MensRights17/04/22 07:18 PM
2

> built the whole greek letter masculinity thing (that so many men here seem to be into) CREATED the term “incel”, not women and not guys like me. That's not even correct, actually the term was created by a woman > it has only become an “insult” because other people have begun using it to describe the type of behavior many men here celebrate and/or complain about. What type of behavior that's celebrated by many are you talking about? The word has mainly become a pejorative that's lost it's meani…
/r/MensRights17/04/22 06:58 PM
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What a generalization, and maybe projection. Also sounds like you're with somebody who is very vain, get out of there. Be civil as you can be when cutting her off. And since these claims she's making seem to be genuinely surprising to you, make sure you save what you can just in case something happens to you.
/r/MensRights17/04/22 03:57 PM
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they bash feminists, there's a difference but I don't think it makes it any more productive
/r/MensRights16/04/22 11:48 PM
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I don't know how I feel about this example because I'm a bit confused here, but I think I can see where you're coming from. Are you trying say explanation =/= blame? I disagree because (and I know this is an example) if you are saying it's due to patriarchy, you're holding it responsible for the outcome that it's studied less and that's what blame is. ​ ke I’m mad at men for creating this effect. Is un If you would think that men are accountable in this scenario, wouldn't that be blame? I feel l…
/r/MensRights16/04/22 11:31 PM
5

is sub keep thinking patriarchy = men’s fault the definition is about men having all the power. And they're usually because they are told 'they are responsible for upholding it' and is used to blame them. I've seen people say that men create there own problems because of it, and dismiss whatever issues they go through on that basis. How is that not the case?
/r/MensRights16/04/22 08:49 PM
10

Same, and I agree with this. I don’t think neither of them exist. I do think people are and can be quantified as pieces of shits lol
/r/MensRights16/04/22 03:28 PM
75

I’ve always thought the father is ignored by default
/r/MensRights13/04/22 05:31 PM
15

From the murder itself,to having him suspected as a suspect due to being male. This story actually had me feeling sad last night
/r/MensRights09/04/22 02:28 PM
1

I think if they think that's what a 'red flag' is then their opinion shouldn't even be regarded honestly. I don't think they should be regarded altogether. People in general can have their agrees and disagrees when it comes to anybody though, nobody's infallible. I personally like what he's teaches with his message on responsibility, and it seems like he carries himself good. Pretty thankful for him and some of the significance he's had on my life. Now that I think about it, I would need to catc…
/r/MensRights09/04/22 07:04 AM
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I’m confused too, but they didn’t really address what you’ve said in your workplace comment. Tried to be condescending by pointing out you’re an fmra and should be dismissed. They also tried to make the case that you’re biased, but they didn’t explain why, and they’ve assumed that you don’t know anything about systemic sexism(That sounds like bias against you to me)They’ve spent so much time be passive aggressive that their first paragraph is very off grammatically.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 01:35 AM
2

They need to get life in prison
/r/MensRights05/04/22 04:35 PM
18

yo what?
/r/MensRights05/04/22 01:56 AM
3

I don’t really check the profile to dismiss somebody entirely but I appreciate this
/r/MensRights05/04/22 01:55 AM
4

That’s not even my disagreement and I agree that’s unfortunate/concerning.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 01:13 AM
5

Yes I know what inspires what one to cause a tragedy, never tried to make that seem like wasn’t the case. I know mass murder is unfortunate, but my simple point was population of incels >> the ones who mass murder
/r/MensRights05/04/22 12:51 AM
4

How many perpetrators? Because that’s what I’m talking about. I do agree that that number of victims shouldn’t be downplayed though
/r/MensRights04/04/22 11:56 PM
4

That’s not what they’ve said at all. The few cases, an while it’s unfortunate/concerning, they aren’t the majority of them
/r/MensRights04/04/22 06:49 PM
3

yeah you're good, was just letting you know. You had your questions and fair share of skepticism, but I don't think you had negative intention.
/r/MensRights03/04/22 07:20 PM
4

​ 1-'(most of) y’all talk about your own issues, it’s in comparison to women’s' I don't have a conclusive answer for this. But some do it to point out hypocrisy. Feminism compares themselves to men so I think it's sort of natural when Men's Rights compares themselves to women. But in my opinion, I think I will agree that it's counterproductive regardless. 2- 'i’ve also come across some complaints on how women’s issues are more talked about than men’s. And I’d like to ask y’all why do you think t…
/r/MensRights03/04/22 07:15 PM
8

bragede I think that was a typo on their part (brigade). But it means to invade
/r/MensRights03/04/22 06:31 PM
2

Wow wtf?! Sorry dude, you didn't deserve that. That was wise to ditch those people- not only using it against you, but making it seem like you're being dismissive when all you tried to do is point out something. that's an insane amount of 'full of shit'.
/r/MensRights26/03/22 08:22 AM
2

Considered it in the past, but I’m unsure. Kind of want to stay put- going to work, sharpening a couple of personal skills, and soul searching. Unless I find something to do, I kind of don’t see any purpose for it as of now at least. Also, I don’t really like socializing so I definitely don’t think being in an environment where I don’t click with people in they first place and where misandry will probably be so open would be pleasant for my mental or wellbeing. But if I do, I know that I would w…
/r/MensRights24/03/22 05:35 AM
1

As another (red philosophy) has said, dishonesty/deception. You could play the vetting right and can be really blindsided. I don’t like people like that in general as well. I don’t really have these off the top of my list as of now, but some other valid fears can be paternity fraud and false accusations regarding anything really. Edit: I didn’t have any of those happen to me, but one thing that’s happen to me in the past was having someone who is dishonest and obviously it wasn’t a good thing. S…
/r/MensRights23/03/22 10:45 PM
7

‘Ego’ is one of the most overused words. I don’t even know how saying this makes you egotistical
/r/MensRights22/03/22 01:44 PM
1

saw this a while back, but I didn’t know where to find it since then. Thank you for this
/r/MensRights21/03/22 02:33 AM
2

Yeah and it’s unfortunate man, but good shit on your part regardless
/r/MensRights10/03/22 11:21 PM
9

That’s how I feel people who say ‘who hurt you’. It’s not from a genuine place, is passive aggressive and is usually just dismissive
/r/MensRights10/03/22 05:55 PM
1

That’s weird, I didn’t get the notification but I can see, when I’m looking from the pov outside of my account, that the body text is gone
/r/MensRights10/03/22 05:44 PM
3

It’s all good, I think their post is deleted too
/r/MensRights10/03/22 05:36 PM
3

Thank you too brother. I just made the post and I’m unsure how it will go from here
/r/MensRights10/03/22 03:22 PM
2

I’ll post mine too in a bit
/r/MensRights10/03/22 03:01 PM
9

If we can show the screenshot of that person making those comments, I would like to think it could have a chance. Personally, I've been writing up a little something so I'm giving it a try before I head off to work. I know it could tank and I know that effort could go into nothing, but ever since I saw those screenshots of that person planning out everything, I've always thought what that person has pulled is outrageous
/r/MensRights10/03/22 02:52 PM
8

On a post that’s (at least seems like it in the moment) designed to slander too. Imo there should be at least a counter post done something about because it’s very weird to pull shit that person did
/r/MensRights10/03/22 02:11 PM
22

Wait, so this guy created a few terrible posts (and deleted those few posts) to make the sub look bad? And now it’s going viral on that sub? If that’s the case, then I really think this need more attention (and maybe a counter post as well?)
/r/MensRights10/03/22 02:03 PM
13

Yeah people just use that word for pejorative sake to box people out and don’t actually know what one is
/r/MensRights09/03/22 02:50 PM
2

I think there's already a (semi) official sub that's called "Men's Human Rights"
/r/MensRights06/03/22 04:38 PM
1

Hope you found some solution in the comments. And good luck
/r/MensRights06/03/22 02:27 AM
2

That guy in the story was a piece of shit don't get me wrong, but that seems to be theft.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 02:27 AM
19

please tell me that this is just satire
/r/MensRights05/03/22 01:18 AM
-2

system literally exists to benefit you What part of the system exists to be beneficial to men?
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 10:42 AM
1

I disagree, but why do you think so? Jordan Peterson and red pill (or the messages they teach) are two different things. And I don't know if this is relevant, but there are even some people, in the sphere that think he is 'blue pilled'. And I think there was conflict between jp/rp late last year
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 05:40 AM
5

No question, just want to say thanks and take care
/r/MensRights28/02/22 10:20 PM
2

Fuck dude I’m so sorry. I remember having a lot of interpersonal problems until early 2021 (Thanks to personal development, finding this community/similar others and other things) so I don’t know if that would count as anxiety. My advice would be to- go where you’re loved or felt appreciated. I tend to find sites like (and I think some would agree) Twitter and TikTok so be shitholes, so if you see things that are toxic/shitty, feel free to regulate that content out or remove yourself from it alt…
/r/MensRights27/02/22 09:32 PM
2

After clicking the link, I saw similar threads. And wow some of the users at quora are pretty based
/r/MensRights27/02/22 05:19 AM
2

It's like you can spot the delusion just by reading the title. I can't believe it honestly. Also what does the imaged post do to even support that argument? It shows some guy acting entitled (which is gross), but what is the purpose of that?
/r/MensRights27/02/22 12:12 AM
10

Alot of this is pretty spot on. I've always felt like the people who say things like that are so childish, but you can't really simply dismiss it at that. Because it's so collective and it can really discourage alot in someone. Sort of like influencing somebody to think negatively of themselves because they may not be abundant with their sex life, etc. Like the things you've mentioned here
/r/MensRights25/02/22 03:39 PM
7

wtf?
/r/MensRights25/02/22 03:29 PM
1

Days of no contact for being upset with you??!! It could be understandable if varied for hours. But I just want to say be careful that could be a red flag maybe? I don't know but I don't think that's normal. No nvm, I'm almost certain there's most likely something going on there Also, If there's nothing you can feel like you can do to salvage any conflict even after trying you're best (communicated, effort) then I think that's also worth looking into. I could be projecting from my past experienc…
/r/MensRights21/02/22 02:21 PM
2

Yeah it’s usually the disingenuous go to or shaming tactic, or box your character and label it to make it easier to dismiss you broadly. I think there’s a term for it but I forgot about it
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:08 AM
3

alot of mods on reddit unfortunately. I've heard always only heard that they are like that, but recently I'm starting to see that too which is pretty crazy
/r/MensRights16/02/22 07:11 PM
1

So is she a feminist for 'equality'? If so, wouldn't it be the same thing of either gender is being bigoted towards another? Why is she trying to make an exception here? Sounds like textbook sexism. (And there are many arguments against patriarchy that I've seen in various places. But I'll just say this In my opinion, this is a dumb argument (the one your sister's making), because there is none. it's bad when both do it)
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:30 AM
10

This
/r/MensRights07/02/22 09:00 PM
28

Wait what?!!?? (kind of busy, will read later) but unless I’m missing some other context, this is pretty bullshit and surprised me reading this
/r/MensRights01/02/22 09:11 PM
5

Not really, you can be for women’s right and not support feminism. Feminism isn’t the only ideology that supports equality. There’s egalitarianism is one I can think of.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 04:46 AM
1

No Self-accountability. wow
/r/MensRights31/01/22 10:58 PM
1

I’m my view people like that wouldn’t be befriended, but I wish the best of luck to you going forward. That was a good call with the cut off
/r/MensRights30/01/22 07:10 PM
3

Read that post a little while back and, like you said, seemed to spread the minimizing of it. We really don’t know the conclusive figure of what’s true/false because the majority is unknown. Nothing much to say, I think Im pretty familiar with what you’ve said and I’m glad somebody made this.
/r/MensRights30/01/22 05:23 AM
3

that person comes across as really pretentious
/r/MensRights29/01/22 05:50 PM
3

I may have to look that after hearing that term for a while now. I always knew the apathy goes down to the rationale
/r/MensRights29/01/22 05:32 PM
11

People can talk a lot of shit about white people openly and look at them silly when they find a problem with it. I think that’s an area where I feel bad for you guys. (I’m black/21)
/r/MensRights29/01/22 12:00 AM
1

No offense, but this post needs to be deleted
/r/MensRights27/01/22 07:30 PM
3

Damn I thought it was common sense that feminism is nothing more than an ideology. Not supporting solely doesn’t make one sexist. And I’ve always thought that people who continue to imply that are just being disingenuous. Not everybody who’s for equality is a feminist (a poll that was taken in uk is an example of that too)
/r/MensRights27/01/22 06:16 AM
5

leaving comment rn so I can look into this post later gn
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:28 PM
2

I have 5 red flags according to this list but I only care about improving one of them (need cooking skills). Some of these make sense, some of these are terrible examples for red flags.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 05:05 PM
46

That's not what they said at all.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 03:38 PM
23

you went into fds expecting it to be fair though
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:08 PM
8

just from scrolling through this sub for a while, it's definitely talked about
/r/MensRights08/01/22 04:01 PM
1

I feel like our reasons for being less active are a little different but yea, I've sort of found myself being (a little) less and less engaged in general, with being on here and observant on men's issues, etc. than I was in the last year. And it sucks to say, but I think (atleast in the early part of this year) that the inactivity is only the beginning and will just continue. I'm preparing for this job I've finally got and there's some sort of depression that I'm picking up on which is very surp…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:25 AM
1

thanks, I will take a read from both of those links in a bit
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:45 PM
4

Yeah I think that's the part I don't like the most, the denial of these things
/r/MensRights28/12/21 11:56 PM
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Somebody feel free to @ me if I'm wrong, but I've heard (about 3-4 times already) that false accusations like this are actually a pretty common tactic in custody for fathers to lose custody over their children.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 11:55 PM
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exactly
/r/MensRights28/12/21 08:49 AM
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Yeah I've came somewhat to this realization when I was bout 18-19. That's confused me because that feels like you can't win. So I spent these last couple of years trying to accept alot of things and adapting accordingly. 21 right now, (with the help of coming across this sub, discovering new things, seeing new content creators, new communities, self improvement in general but that's something else) and I think I've achieved alot of things. It's terrible being in those places you've described, an…
/r/MensRights27/12/21 10:26 AM
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Yeah I think that's exactly why they say things like that in the first place, because it's foul
/r/MensRights27/12/21 10:01 AM
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wow.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 01:31 AM
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Merry Christmas
/r/MensRights25/12/21 02:05 AM
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Wait are we talking about in those homicide cases or In general. In general I know there are examples of men getting discriminated on the basis of their sex, but a few I can think of are, the sentence gap, divorce courts, custody, etc
/r/MensRights25/12/21 01:59 AM
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Hey OP, serious question, I've been scrolling the comments and I have to ask, are there any serious answers?
/r/MensRights24/12/21 10:41 AM
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not saying that that's not unfortunate on the womens' part, but men are still susceptible to violence too
/r/MensRights24/12/21 10:40 AM
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I'm going to look into the sub for a little while. But so far in my opinion, I honestly don't think it should be
/r/MensRights22/12/21 02:16 PM
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Agreed man, I appreciate seeing things like this post that promotes me to look up more people/info, etc. Thanks again
/r/MensRights15/12/21 02:06 AM
1

Great writing, will plan to look into this later
/r/MensRights14/12/21 10:44 PM
1

I came back to read this, thank you
/r/MensRights13/12/21 09:59 PM
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Ahh ok, yeah I don't think it's the majority compared to true cases, but It's definitely not a rarity people think. And It's an issue regardless. And I think that country you could be talking about is India.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 09:05 PM
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They profiled you, tried to justify it, and when you explain how that detrimental (to both sexes) You were met with shame language. That person seems like the one who has the need to be right so you can't really reason with that. You were right for straight up dropping them right away and not engaging with them any further. Continue to avoid people similar to her and exercise your boundaries just like that.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 08:28 PM
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I personally think that's too high. Like if anything to me, it's 15-20% at max (counting non-legal/public, either gender, etc.) And that's still alot
/r/MensRights13/12/21 08:17 PM
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Won't join but I will be listening to it/looking at your channel.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 08:56 AM
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Ok thank you, glad I've come across this post right here. Let me know when you find the answer. You know I try to browse other sub reddits just for the sake of a way to explore and try to learn new or other view points. but honestly, that sub seems like a shit hole. And doesn't seem productive at all.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/12/21 06:07 AM
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Those links seem pretty actually valid if you click on them, they take you to sources outside the sub and there's no misogyny in those threads either but If you want to use that as a cop out that's fine too
/r/MensRights11/12/21 07:12 PM
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No longer feeling alone was how I felt when discovered alot of things, such as this sub, this year. Hope you're here to stay
/r/MensRights11/12/21 06:53 PM
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I need to finish watching that movie lol
/r/MensRights03/12/21 06:44 PM
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What kind of conclusion is this? Innocent people do get abandoned from the public for false accusations. How do they conclusively know guilt from accusations based off that (off of other cases at least). Fuck people like this man
/r/MensRights24/11/21 09:26 AM
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LOL it's all good. And you too man, take care
/r/MensRights20/11/21 04:24 PM
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Happy Men's Day, please take care
/r/MensRights20/11/21 10:02 AM
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still have a little over an hour here lol
/r/MensRights20/11/21 06:49 AM
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lol dude you take care
/r/MensRights20/11/21 05:31 AM
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Thank you dude, take care
/r/MensRights20/11/21 04:25 AM
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Wow. If you look at the tiktok screenshot, it has over 300k likes. I know I’ve disliked twitter but Tiktok must be like 4x worse
/r/MensRights15/11/21 09:32 PM
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Nice projection dude
/r/MensRights15/11/21 05:54 AM
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How do you define the patriarchy?
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:42 PM
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np man, good luck
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:44 PM
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I've always felt like there's some kind of the social consequence behind the decision for supporting it. And I know this will suck to say, but it's kind of not surprising. (This could be a bad example, I don't know) but on reddit you can't even access some subs the moment you join/comment on here. And you're young too, well I'm only 5 years your senior but I know for a fact that I'm light years better than/ or having knowledge of handling things better than at 16. But that's terrible dude So sor…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:24 AM
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When I say checking out I think they will unconciously change their behaviour to live an independent life. Not bother with University, not bother with relationships, not bother with marriage and raising children. Earn sufficient money to look after themselves and not bust a gut to support a wife and children. ​ Thank you for the response. I really agree with this paragraph
/r/MensRights27/10/21 11:21 PM
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This is a pretty good question. Maybe 5 years is too short to tell, but I'll try to chime in/give my two cents like another comment has said, I think there could be a growth in the 'manosphere' communities (the whole red pill mgtow etc) Maybe more guys checking out of dating And will use technology to resort to their 'deeds' But what's really interesting to me personally is that I wonder if the awareness for MensRights will go up. I get a feeling that it will go up, but I'm not certain though. T…
/r/MensRights27/10/21 07:01 AM
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Holy shit dude you typed up an essay, will read this later
/r/MensRights27/10/21 05:56 AM
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what the fuck
/r/MensRights22/10/21 06:46 AM
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don’t see how that has anything to do with anything. You can’t even be sure he was being honest. I think their point was that you don't have to be a sex offender to be labeled as one Sexual abuse is unfortunate too and is an issue itself, but that doesn't trump the false accusation issue simply because it's smaller on the scale
/r/MensRights19/10/21 05:09 AM
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Dude I have no freaking comment. It's just so unfortunate how false accusations can be weaponized and she just can do that and with probably some twisted sense of righteousness. Personally I'm just glad subs like this (and left wing males) exist, only spaces that acknowledge issues. I'm sorry you have to deal with this, and I will have my hopes up for you
/r/MensRights18/10/21 04:27 AM
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I think the user, Men are Human, has a weekly talk show. (I've personally seen about 2 episodes) It's from discord but he streams on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuZk17njkVUopMJ7y4r5dkw
/r/MensRights17/10/21 05:31 PM
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what. the. fuck
/r/MensRights15/10/21 07:34 AM
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Good for you guys man
/r/MensRights10/10/21 02:55 AM
1

They're trying so hard to make this 'gotcha' (out of suicide), but I don't know what point are they even trying to make. That's how they target the issue?
/r/MensRights10/10/21 12:18 AM
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Damn just by reading that first paragraph I can tell she's a scum person (no offense, sorry). She's far to gone in regards to hatred and mental, I don't think an argument or discussion will get her to change her mind. Regardless of how you go about this, I wish you good luck (how you deal with your mom, and advocacy, etc.)
/r/MensRights06/10/21 08:04 PM
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Yeah I see where you're coming from, in my opinion 'innocent until proven guilty' is something that should apply to the accuser as well
/r/MensRights06/10/21 07:16 PM
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Personally I wouldn't take any sides right away but I agree that an accusation shouldn't be instantly be painted as false, until there's at least more information The view that mob rule is dangerous is actually pretty valid one. There are a few cases (that personally I could think of) that can confirm this too: chris avalone, pro jared ,johnny depp. I think people who are concerned about the false allegation issue are already aware that they're outnumbered by actual cases, but it doesn't make th…
/r/MensRights06/10/21 06:35 AM
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Man, I don't even have any words for this. I'm so sorry dude. Like another comment said, depending whether it was a genuine mistake or they were trying to throw you under the bus, I think you should get rid of that 'friend'. I've heard how bad and traumatizing things like this are and it's terrible that it gets overlooked. It sucks that this happens again to another person but I just want to say that you're completely valid and I hope things get better for you.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 05:38 PM
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I'm sure they actually exist. But mostly from what I've seen of the usage of the word, it's pejorative talk
/r/MensRights20/09/21 03:39 AM
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I know it's deleted, but please take care
/r/MensRights11/09/21 11:37 AM
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Same with you too man
/r/MensRights10/09/21 10:40 AM
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Take care dude, thank you
/r/MensRights10/09/21 10:40 AM
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I know this could be a little unpopular but I thought MGTOW2 was more chill (From observation a few times, haven’t really participated in the community). The first/original one was a shit hole and deserved to go, I remember seeing some vile/crazy things being said. But back to your first sentence, I agree that it’s unfortunate that we (and left wing males sub) could be on the chopping block. And if that actually happens at least there’s the discord community (accessed by ‘Men are Human’) I could…
/r/MensRights10/09/21 01:43 AM
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Thank you dude, take care
/r/MensRights10/09/21 01:22 AM
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Yeah I should’ve been more considerate right there lol I even just woke up in the afternoon
/r/MensRights10/09/21 01:17 AM
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Right back at you! lol you take care dude
/r/MensRights10/09/21 01:16 AM
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I'm sure it does. It's helped me by a landslide like crazy. And take care dude
/r/MensRights09/09/21 05:21 PM
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Have a good day man, hope you're taking care
/r/MensRights09/09/21 05:20 PM
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Man same, and take care dude. Thanks!
/r/MensRights09/09/21 05:19 PM
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Thank you and take care
/r/MensRights09/09/21 05:19 PM
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Oh man I will! I plan to but I gotta get rid of this anxiety first lol
/r/MensRights09/09/21 05:19 PM
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I am dude, thank you! And take care yourself
/r/MensRights09/09/21 05:18 PM
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man..
/r/MensRights09/09/21 05:17 PM
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Damn dude wtf?! Lol honestly thought you were older too with the strides you're making. I will look into those things and consider them. And same here dude, for the most part at this point I'm just trying to find the things that interest me too. Keep it up man you have this
/r/MensRights09/09/21 11:14 AM
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I will continue continue observing here, reviewing MRA issues (and others), and will try to progress in general as a person. (A given obviously lol) Please Take care, thanks
/r/MensRights09/09/21 11:06 AM
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Wow my comment/your post did numbers since then haha You gotta get out of that comfort zone some how lol. But dude I literally feel you regarding the interaction part. One thing I've realized as of late was that I also had anxiety. I already know, just by looking online- that some of those types (progressives, feminists, sjws, etc) are really insufferable people and I wouldn't know how I would approach it if I was put in that situation. I got a long way to go in regards to personal growth and le…
/r/MensRights09/09/21 10:41 AM
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'But how can one possibly think that close to 50% of the population is trash? How can one think that men, who do have a stake in reproduction, can't talk about abortion? How can one think that a man who might be a leading expert in women's health shouldn't be able to speak on the topic of abortion.' Misandry Sorry to hear you go through this, you didn't deserve that and you handled that well. I hope it didn't get to you too much man (I understand those attitudes are a hell to handle though) and …
/r/MensRights09/09/21 01:51 AM
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Who you are, I want to sat thank you for this and the mod that pinned this
/r/MensRights07/09/21 11:42 PM
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I think the worst are the male feminists who take it upon themselves to send me rape threats 🤷🏻‍♀️ no fucking way that happens... damn
/r/MensRights07/09/21 11:29 PM
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You don't really have to check yourself, you're not in debt to anybody. But I feel like your acknowledgment / awareness is amazing and ahead of the curve. I don't have much to say but you have nothing but respect for that and keep it up
/r/MensRights31/08/21 05:38 AM
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TheTinMen already knew about the men are human one (shout outs to him) but regarding the highlight, I definitely will check this out myself
/r/MensRights31/08/21 05:06 AM
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the context he used it in didn't even apply too lol
/r/MensRights31/08/21 04:44 AM
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Eh, I think the ratio in there is alright in my opinion. But damn dude, you were pissed as hell lol (rightfully so). Read a few of them and people need to understand that being critical of an ideology isn't exactly an indication of being an incel. But I will check the rest of this out and scan through later lol
/r/MensRights18/08/21 01:28 AM
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Yep, the world we live in: misandry is welcomed in open arms
/r/MensRights14/08/21 03:33 AM
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This is actually a great question I said something similar to somebody in another thread a little while ago- that it's hard not to carry a resentment after coming across things like that on the internet. It used to somewhat bother me when I was 19, but when you realize what that noise is about, I feel like having that understanding makes it easier not to take it personal. Recently, I feel like I'm 'graduating' from that hardship lol (Turning 21 next week) limit time to the internet spaces you go…
/r/MensRights14/08/21 03:17 AM
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Holy shit this person is talking out of their ass has made quite some claims. The biggest ones I've seen that kind of pissed me off though is: that this sub supports/only cares about false accusations 'when it only happens to right wing men like Donald Trump and care more about crushing liberal men' and that this sub has protected Bill Cosby
/r/MensRights12/08/21 10:01 AM
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No It wasn't this, but I'm saving this post so thanks regardless. The post I'm talking- were the OP prefaced it with saying they understood where the women were coming from and then proceeded to list some of thing for their case of feminism having ahistorical things,lies,etc.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 08:48 PM
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Is this the same person that made a pitch on this sub on why feminism should be adopted?And also I think they've made a post about this sub once before
/r/MensRights07/08/21 01:33 AM
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Already did, it’s a nice place. Thank you
/r/MensRights30/07/21 11:02 PM
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Ah I see. If that's the case then I guess they could've used a better word choice than 'ruined'. But no, not really I wouldn't call that hatred. unless I guess it would depend on their motivation
/r/MensRights30/07/21 09:17 PM
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man you hit the point with this and I understand. In my opinion, even though I would agree that there are evil people in the world, in my opinion I think a huge part of it is narrative at the end of the day (hard to explain, but I think your first 4 lines does a good job explaining it. And hell, there's another thread in the sub pointing out myths right now.) 'You want to complain but when you do people react as if you are just being stupid, they tell you that you are just angry for losing some …
/r/MensRights30/07/21 08:24 PM
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how is a comment being cautious in response to the post (of an example to their comment) of a woman trying to setup a man, based on hatred
/r/MensRights30/07/21 07:49 PM
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There's no excuses for killing or acting out in my book, I wouldn't care how sanity deprived you were. However, the frustration part of what you said I can agree with. If you're not operating/navigating social media (or any space for that matter/insert anything here/life really) with some emotional boundary/shield, and see the fuck shit and attitudes that are being broadcasted, then I even don't see how someone can log off without resentment in my opinion. You're just bound to have frustration a…
/r/MensRights30/07/21 02:34 AM
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Ok thank goodness, take care over there. And like I said- best of luck to you (having resilience in that environment and getting the degree)
/r/MensRights29/07/21 08:19 AM
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I came back to this page so I can start truly looking into this thread (long story short- getting into reading in general, want to continue practicing personal skills, etc) And this is the first time I'm noticing this discussion out of coindidence. (Never have been notified) which is strange. Have found that discord btw, currently trying to figure out how it works, but I will peep around too
/r/MensRights27/07/21 10:20 AM
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I've never forgotten about this thread by the way. Came back here because I just wanted to say: as I'm (finally) getting into a geared mind frame/state for these upcoming weeks, I will start to really begin looking into these comments. I'm getting into reading, practicing researching, etc. in general. So basically it's the opposite: I haven't lost sight of this thread as time progressed, I'm actually just getting started so this is actually useful.
/r/MensRights27/07/21 10:02 AM
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The fact that that last paragraph has to be said is just sad
/r/MensRights27/07/21 09:08 AM
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That must be terrible. I can relate to what you've said in the second paragraph because sometimes, I feel like it's a unique problem where I can't even vent my grievances without likely going through that same thing, that must suck. I'm sorry about the depression too. Can an alternative to be to work from far, like online? Like a couple in the comments said, you're not really obligated to engage with the environment for the sake of your mental health, and there's no wrong path to receive an educ…
/r/MensRights27/07/21 07:14 AM
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commenting here for bookmark sake, thank you for this
/r/MensRights27/07/21 06:40 AM
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Twitter is nasty as shit
/r/MensRights27/07/21 06:37 AM
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The dude needs to leave, right now!
/r/MensRights19/07/21 08:54 AM
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I don't have anything, just hoping for you. And what the other comment said, r/SupportForTheAccused
/r/MensRights16/07/21 03:06 AM
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np!
/r/MensRights15/07/21 06:43 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/nzakp9/a_couple_questions_regarding_debating/ ​ It was the second question, but scroll through the comments too. You'll find a lot of information in general
/r/MensRights15/07/21 11:04 AM
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ofc!
/r/MensRights15/07/21 11:03 AM
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commenting to come back later
/r/MensRights15/07/21 11:01 AM
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These are nice rebuttals imo, I'm just shocked about one thing though lol, People actually still say this? My response would be something among the lines of - 'me believing in equality makes me a fundamental decent human being, that doesn't necessarily mean I abide by an ideology.' (Same reason you've pointed out: Nobody's born a feminist, and opposing it doesn't mean you are against equal rights in general) And you could also point feminism isn't the only one that advocates for equality (Egalit…
/r/MensRights15/07/21 10:47 AM
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I mentioned this in my post (that was pinned on my sub for a little while). I'm still curious as to where it comes from
/r/MensRights15/07/21 10:30 AM
2

lol, but thank you and take care dude
/r/MensRights09/07/21 06:59 PM
2

this is actually good timing. I wanted to finish watching this but I forgot the link, or kept forgetting, when I reminded myself to finish watching lol
/r/MensRights09/07/21 10:41 AM
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At first I thought, 'good call by the mods' when the thread got locked, and then I looked at their reason for it
/r/MensRights07/07/21 08:24 PM
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lurker,posted once, and am not going anywhere. this is the only place where I feel like I have humanity.
/r/MensRights03/07/21 09:03 AM
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that latter, I had a different theory but im going to hold my tongue/not say anything cause Idk if my opinion has basis yet. Thank you
/r/MensRights30/06/21 08:20 PM
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I appreciate this dude thank you
/r/MensRights30/06/21 07:56 PM
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Thanks for this, I always knew that scots man was a weird attempt I'm glad atleast you and many others gave me the confidence to try to refute it. Also, I've never understood 'well women attempt it more' as the rebuttal to male suicide. I don't know what that accomplishes/ how it's productive and in my opinion it's a pretty valid reason to check out of the discussion if you have to. Agree with that last quote and thank you for the advice you've gave in between the lines
/r/MensRights30/06/21 06:33 AM
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Then damn yo I had no idea And I already understand you on the latter. I hope I know why one day though
/r/MensRights26/06/21 07:46 PM
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what I want to know. Am familiar with the shame language but to see it get pushed that far?! yikes man
/r/MensRights25/06/21 09:56 PM
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💀💀
/r/MensRights25/06/21 09:32 PM
1

now I seen a lot of bullshit myself lol but I like to think there are some people out there that are willing to be receptive at least for the sake of hope
/r/MensRights25/06/21 08:45 PM
1

Really? That's strange, I was talking to someone, in this thread, who used that word a couple times. But idk though
/r/MensRights24/06/21 11:37 AM
1

damn so these ideas were parroted back then too? I was under the impression this was more of a recent thing (im 20)
/r/MensRights24/06/21 11:32 AM
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This is great dude, lowkey the 3 rules I have. Hit the nail on the head with the following paragraph too
/r/MensRights24/06/21 01:59 AM
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Sorry, thought I replied when I up voted, but I agree that the contrast is the unfortunate reality. And if you ask me, I don't think it will get better anytime soon
/r/MensRights22/06/21 09:00 AM
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It wasn't anyone in particular that has said that to me personally, it was something generally parroted that I was curious about. But looking back at this post, I should've been better with my wording on that part. I will say this though- I do agree that men, in general, but especially the ones that are going through the bottling, do need healthy or productive outlets/practices for their emotions so there's less bottling
/r/MensRights22/06/21 04:15 AM
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Yea the accusation was- you stalking/harassing, was just saying I hope you're not doing those things. But looking on your page, I haven't seen anything that proves that claim But thanks man
/r/MensRights21/06/21 11:15 PM
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I don't know if I would call any this shame language, I may not agree with these arguments, I don't think they're trying to pull that off in this case when they present them. But yea, in general I'm familiar with that and it's easy to spot it. And I hope that accusation in the reply is not true
/r/MensRights21/06/21 08:55 PM
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Thanks dude! I've said this in another comment but before I step into a discussion/argument, usually I have a premise - the claim or argument, a decent template/model or expectation for the progression of discussion, etc. And If it's not atleast being argued with, or nothing substantial is being said and the conversation's going in circles, etc. then that's grounds for me checking out. Nice point out that nothing changes within a day and it takes time, and also pointing out/reminding me of the p…
/r/MensRights19/06/21 05:12 AM
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Thanks, And yea I've heard of heard of her and will look her up later
/r/MensRights17/06/21 07:24 PM
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I pretty much agree with this, especially that last paragraph, it's pretty true. An example ('you created the patriarchy so this is your fault') is one that comes to mind. The premise that a group built a 'system' to be privileged, possibly be susceptible to it ('patriarchy harms men too'), just to be framed again as oppressors is just textbook oxymoronic and personally makes me skeptical towards the theory in the first place. The dismissal/deflections/that the same premise fuels are something e…
/r/MensRights17/06/21 07:03 AM
1

This is a good response too, I agree. Thank you dude
/r/MensRights16/06/21 08:53 AM
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'but rather than addressing real problems, it just feels more like blaming men for our issues' -The toxic masculinity part I agree, another reason it feels pretty patronizing. ​ 'modern feminism is most feminist tend to not actually understand' -And not only understand, but not even care which is something I've personally noticed (social media, podcasts/videos, observing attitudes, etc) no complaining though from my end, just observation. Thank you for the input dude, appreciate it
/r/MensRights15/06/21 07:33 PM
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LOL
/r/MensRights15/06/21 02:50 AM
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lol ohh ok i see I'll look into both of those books soon, and the videos/ sub I appreciate it thanks
/r/MensRights15/06/21 01:08 AM
2

Great first point, I never that argument (the no true scotsman one) in the first place. "Arguing about patr.." Yea that's true, so I understand the alternative. This is insightful, will look into this, Appreciate it!
/r/MensRights14/06/21 06:36 PM
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needed something like this, thanks!
/r/MensRights14/06/21 06:27 PM
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That radical feminism one is interesting, maybe that's what had me assume there was no difference between feminism and radical feminism lol. I appreciate you and an other reply for showing/ pointing out the different types of people in an ideology, and how someone being in a specific caliber doesn't make less apart of it. Regarding that last link, this is kind of funny to me because that has been a little theory I've had on the back burner. But I appreciate it all of this, Definitely will take t…
/r/MensRights14/06/21 06:26 PM
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I agree, debating online is useless. That is one thing I've learned lately. Before I respond to somebody (maybe I disagree with) there's usually a premise I have and I stick to it before going in. Therefore from there I can spot out if the conversation's just going in circles, and nothings being done to at least refute it, and just check out. Yea it is true that alot of people just discuss to own and it's not exclusive to one group of people. 4+. I agree with the rest of this too, I avoid being …
/r/MensRights14/06/21 05:55 PM
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Holy shit this is a lot. People to search up, some history to learn, along with deeper definitions, and some arguements. I'll take heed, read, and will see what I can integrate in the future. Thank you very much dude, this was needed
/r/MensRights14/06/21 05:22 AM
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lol I see. Appreciate this, thank you
/r/MensRights14/06/21 03:10 AM
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Thanks man! I appreciate and will consider this. as for number 1, that makes good sense and I've never understood why that has been the default response.
/r/MensRights14/06/21 03:08 AM
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I was wondering where can I watch this man. Thanks
/r/MensRights04/04/21 01:37 PM
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browsing that shit, I was saying "It's gotta be irony" glad it is accoding to the comments here lol
/r/MensRights03/04/21 05:37 AM
37

"What are you, some kind of faggot?" damn all because you didn't want sex?! What happened to basic human autonomy? I just think it's funny that the virtuous/progressive people, even the ones that are supportive of lgbt can be hypocritical as hell have some kind of pejorative line on standby as an attempt to berate
/r/MensRights01/04/21 06:12 PM
2

Please document the abuse so you have proof. Don't want some fuck shit to happen and you get falsely accused of something you didn't do. Leave if you can. Good luck dude
/r/MensRights01/03/21 10:13 AM
4

that's wild wtf
/r/MensRights15/02/21 07:26 AM
1

glad I atleast got mine over the last couple birthdays lol
/r/MensRights15/02/21 06:08 AM
1

damn
/r/MensRights15/02/21 06:06 AM
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