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| 1 | Does anyone have good experience with hiring an online coach/mentor?This whole thing costs some money, but it seems like a considerable thing to do, since he will only be focusing on what I have to improve and give me exercises and listen to the results etc. It will all be happening on cam on Skype. My suggestion - don't pay upfront more than 1 session. Take it one session at a time, and see how it goes. So if there are results you can easily continue, and if you're not satisfied you can easily stop. Good luck. PS. If for whatever reason it doesn't work out and … | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Hosting a party soon, trying to get lucky. Any advice?funny guy (goofball) If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything. Someone said that and they were SO right (think it's Marylin Monroe). So you can be a funny guy. It means it's fun to be with you. Being a "goofball" can be a great thing, or a totally bad thing, depends on the angle. GOOD ANGLES: party guy, flirty, free to say things, loud and proud, leading the game, you're what's up, having an attitude, not giving an f, teasing... BAD ANGLES: clumsy, not taken seriously, not res… | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 10:32 PM |
| 0 | I have a question about Models by Mark MansonThanks. My own thing, based on huge experience. I'd have much more to share and I try to answer questions here. But I'm about to post a question - regarding how could I share more knowledge with y'all - you're welcome to chime in with your feedback. | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 05:19 PM |
| 1 | I have a question about Models by Mark MansonFor example, it tells us to make more statements instead of questions and then to express myself more as well and then to become a dominant and sexual man. I can only act on a couple of these ideas before I start going crazy from trying to remember these actions If you're thinking about all that stuff, then you're tensed, and you're "working"....and women can totally sense that, and it's super boring and a maximum turn off. Instead, you should be in the moment and enjoying. The two of you should… | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Ugly guy tries getting girls. (RESULTS INSIDE)(I'm a photographer so people are very open to me approaching them). Become a model photographer in your spare time. You'll be taking photos of hot women all day. Start from there. FYI, I am confirmed ugly Well only you know to which extent is this. Just ugly is no excuse. As a guy, you need to be really really ugly for it to work as an excuse. Also, as male beauty is not the same as female beauty, you can do a lot of things to fix it. Beard works well for hiding facial flaws. Muscle mass always… | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 02:40 AM |
| 5 | Texting after first date troubles / failures.Then a few days later I send a text about a second date and I've gotten the "You're a nice guy I had a nice time etc. etc. but not interested." Cool. Be thankful for her honesty and openness and move on. She told you she's not interested - no need to waste any more time. What is the best way to handle texting between dates? Should I text the next day or wait longer than I have been? Also, should I make any banter at all on texts or just set up a date and go silent? I've searched /r/seduction and… | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Peacocking. What do you do, and what is too far?Wear what looks great on you and what compliments your looks. Wear what you feel good in. Slight edge is best. Like a spice in a great meal. You put in a little, but it means a lot. If you overdo it, you might look like a try-hard. As for accessories and particular style, it really depends on many factors not mentioned here. Your age, looks, venue and so on. | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 01:42 AM |
| 1 | what are good ways to look less 'hungry' what would help maintain a needless frame of mind and thus project that physically?Abundance. Abundance in your sex life. If that's not there already, then abundance in options, and you have that for sure. More women out there than you can ever hope to meet. More approaches = more abundance = less care. And experience. After a certain mileage you'll realize there's abundance and stop caring about any particular encounter all that much. Workout and physical confidence. Changing from mindset "which one will have me" to mindset "does she meet my criteria" | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 01:18 AM |
| 6 | 21 years old, almost kissed a girl for the first time last nightNaw...she can't tell. It's built in knowledge, like breathing. Just go for it, do it, and you'll realize you know how to do it and it will be awesome, and not a big deal at all. Screw the love songs and "first kiss" fame...it's a kiss as good as any other... I've heard many weird ways of how people practice for 1st kiss - and it's ridiculous. If you know how to breathe - you know how to kiss, I promise. Only twice I was able to tell girl hasn't kissed before - and both times - they'd literally b… | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Are we supposed to be horny around the girls we meet?You're just a normal dude. As long as there are some girls/outfits that turn you on, I'd say your health is fine to. If you want to be aroused by "nice" women too...all it takes is a bit more experience...then you'll realize how naughty they can be, and you'll also be able to see them naked no matter what they wear. You'll see through. And then those "nice" ones might even become more attractive, as you imagine what they're like when they release their real-self for your eyes only. | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 12:50 AM |
| 3 | I'm 36, and I've begun my initiation into Game. Here are my early results.Congrats man. It's obvious you have no problem approaching and your approaches are well received. The fact that you're sometimes more hesitant (and sometimes less) is nothing but a matter of practice, and even then...sometimes you'll care more, sometimes less.. it's natural. Now... The only thing that sucks about this game shit is that so many numbers are flakes. If you'll notice a pattern in your own post, the part where you mess it up basically every time is "closing". You go for the number an… | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Giving business cards vs getting numbers?You can give them your number without giving your card. That's the coolest option. If she likes you - she will call. Giving business card can come off as compensating and weak. It can be a turn-off. However, in some situations it isn't: Your encounter is such that you cannot really speak (due to rush, or other people around, she's a cashier and there's a long line behind you). You just slip her your card and give a wink, and that's it. There's one badass approach, working well when she's in a si… | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now...Seems like your game just sucks big time. What you do now is analyze the situation, adjust and try again next time, until you become real good. what was your approach...at which moment did you got "rejected"...is it something you say or do? And what do you see as "rejection" anyway? Without more details, it's hard to tell. If your looks are below average that can be a part of it. I have an anxiety disorder It was probably this. You project your vibe on other people, and women are especially rece… | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 08:58 PM |
| 2 | "Our job is not to attract every woman, but to screen for women with a high potential of being attracted to us." -MansonIt's a mix of both. You can and should develop be able to notice attraction or when a women likes you. You can also through the mix of game and persistence have a woman fall in love with you who initially wouldn't give you time of a day. Most guys even do this through mere persistence, without much game really. And women do this too. EITHER WAY - it will be a numbers game, and you can't have it all. But if you got what it takes, you can be able to attract ALMOST any woman. The only catch is - is… | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 10:29 PM |
| 1 | I need help to pickup girls at work.I always think that girls wishes that I was not a taxi driver So mention in the conversation that you're studying, so that she knows that you're much more than a driver. As they're about to get out, say something like "Listen... it's been real nice talking to you... Here's my number, call me and we can go grab a coffee sometime." And give them your business card. If you don't have one, it's very cheap to print. If you like joking you can also add: "I'll have a taxi come pick you up." Actually yo… | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a Red Pill Mentor?Sounds good and like you're getting back on track just fine. Meeting people live is the best thing for sure, I just thought you couldn't move so suggested online game. Otherwise, live game all the way. I also hurt my leg recently, and was recovering nicely, but then increased my deadlift weight faster than I should, and set myself back a bit. So be patient in your recovery. Sure, follow your plan, but listen to your body too, it usually gives you a fair warning before something gets messed up. O… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a Red Pill Mentor?Cool:) Since I figure you're still in bed, recovering, online gaming is ok. Now it's not really my thing, but here are a few steps/tips which could lead to a date: Create an awesome profile. Badoo and okcupid are sites where girls can be very responsive. Awesome profile is the one where you don't talk too much about yourself. Your photos talk. Have some photos with friends, some from the nights out, if you traveled then some touristy photos too, some with hot girls... Basically photos from diffe… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a Red Pill Mentor?Cool. Didn't know you're woman. As for the pursuit for improvement, what are your goals, what you'd need help with? If I can help I'm glad to. As for meeting a male stripper, or anyone else who's way off of your lifestyle, it's always mind expanding, you get new life perspectives. Happy New Year to you too and everyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a Red Pill Mentor?Not always. You first need to learn to walk, before you can run. Everyone learned from someone. No shame in learning. Even the master had the teacher. And real masters in any area always learn. I agree with your distinction of influence and following, but when someone's a total noob, he better be on the following side until he learns the basics and gets in the right mindset. Because for a noob some things can be counter intuitive, and the only reason he'd even try them is trust in his mentor. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a Red Pill Mentor?I've replied to one of your older posts, hopefully it's useful. Also, check out my further comments on this post. Thanks for your feedback. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a Red Pill Mentor?Still trying to think up of a concept that would work. For now you can check out my comments here, hopefully there's some valuable insight, because it's experience based. Honestly it eats up time, but I do get fulfillment from teaching. So many cool and intelligent dudes here who just don't get how simple it is. Find my comment below regarding new years eve, hope you'll be back on here bragging too. Let's celebrate the new year in a red-pillish way and let's all go out tomorrow and do some picku… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a Red Pill Mentor?You definitely should man. Especially looking at your username. No despair man, forget that and get a positive attitude. You can for sure hook up with some dude who's successful with women. These dudes are usually cool and don't mind sharing their skill, because they're living in abundance. If you're not that comfortable making new friends, maybe you should find someone like a male stripper, and openly tell him: look man, my game with women sucks, I totally don't know what to do. Can I buy you a… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone have a Red Pill Mentor?Well going for the kiss isn't a good way of checking her interest. Because at least 95% of women who do like you won't accept that, and you'll come off as a socially unadjusted dude, and get instantly disqualified. This in turn will reinforce your false belief that women don't like you, or that they're hard to get, or that they're all evil, or whatever...and then this will make you try even stupider things, with even worse results, and the circle goes on and on. Now please don't see this as call… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Don't be a suckerThat guy is a wussy needy little bitch. He's her puppet. Real men don't act like that. Good you fucked his gf, and even better that his buying her gifts. Let him. He will raise her children too (her, not necessarily theirs:) And they deserve each other. You don't need a lying girlfriend. She could've been open about it. I've always had maximum disrespect for such poor excuses for a man. And fucked many of their girlfriends too. Interesting thing - it's way easier to hook up with those girls than… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/14 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone have a Red Pill Mentor?I see your point man, but no, it doesn't hurt your game, it improves it immensely. I've seen many people get into this mindset, and what it results in. They suddenly become surounded with losers (bigger than they are), and these losers look at them with admiration when they pick up some drunk ugly troll at the bar. Yes, that better dude might get more attention than you. You won't be the star. But listen, learn. And when you're without him try to apply what you learned. Not by imitating him, but… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/14 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a Red Pill Mentor?Will do. Thinking right now of the concept. If anyone else is interested let me know. And yes, mentors in any area of life are golden, because they are: Your shortcut through the tons of hurdle. They learned the hard way so you don't have to. They speed up your development. While other noobs are trying to get a hold of it, you are learning from the master and going straight for the win. Your connection. It matters what you know and it also matters who you know. One of my mentors was a DJ. What d… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/14 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Best way to tell this story to get laid?Don't even start the story, unless she asks to hear it. And if she does ask, you can tell it just like you did here, pretty carelessly. Now that's badass. To have such a drama happen to you, and be like "Ya it hurt horribly, they welded a metal rod to my bone. But anyway..." And you must switch your mindset from trying to show girls you're hot, to actually feeling hot, desirable and badass. Then you will attract them anywhere and everywhere, effortlessly. And you probably do attract them now, bu… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/14 12:51 PM |
| 8 | Does anyone have a Red Pill Mentor?The best thing you can do is befriend guys who have the mindset and RESULTS that you want to achieve. It will rub off of you. And you will realize none of the is perfect either, but you'll take some things you like from each one. And so you will be well on your way to building your own style. Btw.I would love to be a lifestyle coach, curious how many of you guys would be interested in it, if amazing results were guaranteed? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 09:27 PM |
| 1 | After 3 months of marriage, woman is no longer in shape. Husband admits he's not turned on anymore and begs her to go to the gym. Instead, she drags him to "counseling".That's if we're talking about some weak motherf***er. You gotta stay firm, and gotta keep your cash. Prenup agreement anyone? EDIT: and not just your cash, you gotta keep your assets too. She can keep her ass. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 08:07 AM |
| 6 | £339m divorce settlement - It's been said before, Do not get married.Wow, just wow... I will never understand this. Guys who are SO skilled in the money making game. And at the same time SO weak in the dating game. The biatch is so ugly that she'd have to pay me to even touch her. She's scary ugly. For that half a bil he could've lived a life of a playboy, and have 100 superhot women live in the same house and never complain about a thing. If you read this mister (not) billionaire (anymore), hire someone to teach you good game, it will pay off mighty in the long … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Everything you need to know about shit testsTooling 101, love it. Can't wait for the next shit test. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Meeting Women When You Have "Masculine" InterestesIt's BS. Hobbies are hobbies. Attraction is attraction. My best relationships were with girls who were the total opposites of me. And some people are enjoying being colleagues and a couple. If you talk about interests/hobbies as a means of meeting women - again two unrelated things. If you enjoy jiu jitsu, do it. If you meet a woman you like that way, then great. But don't sign up for yoga, so you could "spontaneously" meet women. You can meet them at the bars, clubs, on the street, in the super… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 10:58 PM |
| 2 | acting like boyfriend material before you have sex almost guarantees failureTrue. They enjoy the challenge. But many cool guys don't realize that they're the prize. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 10:14 PM |
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