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Please don't listen to that person. He/she is trying to gaslight you. If the roles were reversed your STBX would have dispossessed of everything the law would allow her too without any sentimentality. Don't be dumb. Take everything you can and stop feeling bad about YOUR RIGHTS. She's manipulating you that's what women do.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/26 08:54 PM
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The law is on your side. Follow the law. Ask yourself that question: if the roles were reversed would she have taken the bad deal or would she have followed the law at maximum to take every penny she can from you ? Don't be a yes man.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/26 06:18 PM
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Oh no it happened once in a blue moon in the middle of a million cases of the woman dispossessing the man of everything he worked for. She wanted the divorce. If it was inverted she would have ripped him apart without sentimentality. The guy should take every penny,
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/26 06:18 PM
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Don't take her back. She found out the grass isn't greener
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 10:57 PM
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Visit r/marriedredpill you need it
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 10:40 PM
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I wasn't talking to you brother.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/26 04:08 PM
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She doesn't respect you. You need to respect yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/26 04:03 PM
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There is nothing to repair. You're posting that crap on every thread. She fucked another man. It's over.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/26 04:03 PM
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You don't have kids. Just leave her. She's for the streets. Grow some character.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/26 08:52 AM
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He doesn't listen bro. He finds her excuses. He tries to accomodate her. It's insane. He has been warned 25 times about the coming child abduction but he doesn't even consider it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 10:55 PM
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There's no order. Just an appearance of order she sells him so he stays for the summer with her kids close to her. Then she will bring the second nuke. You guys are so naive it's upsetting.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 10:54 PM
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You will be badly surprised. We tried to warn you. You still see her as a good person. Oh yeah that's just a "super shitty move". Hey man : she hasn't told you half the truth. The guy she finally admitted fucking with and not only "having it on her mind"? She hasn't told you half the truth about that guy. Or these guys. You're way too much of a pathological nice guy. Wake up. If she can do that she can do worse. The affair partner will probably dump her soon, and then she will put her claws on t…
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 10:52 PM
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And did you think she would divorce you in a foreign country after making you leave Sweden ? Your head is so far up your a** it's infuriating.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 10:50 PM
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He ignores those warnings.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 10:49 PM
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He doesn't listen. It's clear as day but he ignores any message warning him of this.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 10:49 PM
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He won't listen. He wants to put his head in the sand. I tried to tell him but he doesn't answer just like he doesn't answer you. It will happen.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 10:47 PM
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She will change opinion at the last minute and ask for full custody of the kids. You shouldn't have stayed in Mallorca. I tried to warn you but you only answered comforting messages. Mine was just the reality based on her profile. You will see in two months. It won't go as peacefully as she makes it appear now.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 10:44 PM
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There is no reconciling after that. She will betray him again anyway
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 10:40 PM
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She hasn't admitted it. The truth is she asked to move to Spain because of this guy. She met it online before. Tale as old as time. Just ask her but push for the real answer. You'll see.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/26 01:37 PM
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First there isn't "someone she's interesting in but hasn't acted upon". She has been fuckin him like crazy during those two months. Second leave with your kids now. Right now. Immediately. Women like this are the devil. Their engine changes from one second to another. I guarantee - GUARANTEE - you than two days before you leave back to put your kids in school in Sweden she will bomb everything and take the kids from you. And then you will really be all alone. Without anyone. Think about it : she…
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/26 01:35 PM
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Leave with your kids now. Right now. Immediately. Women like this are the devil. Their engine changes from one second to another. I guarantee - GUARANTEE - you than two days before you leave back to put your kids in school in Sweden she will bomb everything and take the kids from you. And then you will really be all alone. Without anyone. Think about it : she didn't do you the courtesy of communicating with you before breaking your family apart in a foreign country. Why do you have to accomodate…
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/26 01:34 PM
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Read "No More Mr Nice Guy" You need it
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/26 06:26 AM
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Lots of posers and women come and post there. The post is nail on the head. Their virtue signaling only confirms it more.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 01:35 PM
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Truth hurts? Refute the piece sentence by sentence t cry in a corner somewhere. Virtue signaling is good for r/feminism
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 01:32 PM
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Let them bark. They'll soon experience it and know
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 01:31 PM
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You're in the wrong sub lil buddy
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 01:30 PM
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Take out alimony and "child support" - who goes 90% to the ex wife - and their "happiness" will disappear.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 10:31 PM
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Poor thing
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 07:31 AM
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They get pissed if the guy that they don't want to notice notices. If it's chad they're perfectly happy
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 12:49 AM
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ChatGPT slop
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 03:16 PM
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What's OFW?
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 06:24 PM
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She didn't need sex with you*
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 02:56 PM
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Bro just get a housekeeper it will never cost you $4000. And it will ease so many things for you. Get your boys into sports it will give them structure a d Brotherhood. And fight for them don't let the ex family take them away from you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/25 03:42 PM
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Women always do it, bare a few exceptions. If you open up to her she uses it against you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/25 08:01 AM
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You don't have kids with her so of course it's easy
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/25 02:24 PM
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Women
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/25 02:24 PM
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Christmas gifts my foot..it's April how early does she buy it.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 09:11 PM
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That. He had it good. Friends with benefits and basta. It's enough after a long marriage and divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 07:01 AM
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Or maybe just say you have dogs instead of saying bitches?
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 07:34 AM
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She didn't suddenly left. Let me take a guess: 6 months before she ended he started working out, dieting, dressing better and stuff ? Right ? She was already out, it's just that as a snake in the grass she wasn't going to tell you until she found what she thinks is a replacement.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/25 03:08 PM
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Don't let that beach take your retirement
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 10:04 AM
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Don't confront don't touch the cameras. Record and gather evidence that you've been harassed that way and plan with your lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/25 06:26 AM
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Don't confront. Record and gather evidence and plan with your lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/25 06:25 AM
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Doesn't sound bitter at all to me. Quite the contrary. He analyzed facts and give conclusions and behaviours. You seem to be projecting, as you sound bitter yourself. The truth is uncomfortable but it's necessary to face it to evolve. Try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:02 AM
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She made you think it's on you. Big difference
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 05:47 AM
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You're going to get run through in the legal divorce process with that attitude
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 05:46 AM
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Nope, objectively you didn't quoted one of my or her words to back up your accusations. It's favruat. You've only gone by how it makes you feel and how you subjectively perceive it. Now that I asked you for evidence of your claims it appears you don't have it. And because you can't admit it you're going out the backdoor. Everything unfolded in a very predictable way. You're welcome 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:01 PM
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Really grateful, you're proving the video true. Now that we're in the expected stage of the baseless ad hominem attacks, can you support your accusations with the exact and precise quotes that make me a mysoginist and make her a "pick me" and prove she wanted to pander to "people like me". Surely it's not conjecture and subjective interpretation on your part. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:12 AM
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No bait. No trash talk. No trendy acronyms like you. Just the truth. You're shaming a woman as a pick me because she said women must be held accountable. Appalling bullying behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:54 AM
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Deflection champ right here 👆💪
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:11 AM
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Oh no I was only talking about you when I said it's deflecting. Just like what you're doing here. Actually you're proving the whole point of the video just right here so thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:36 PM
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It's called deflection. "What about that other thing"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:51 PM
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Thanks. And don't you dare show you're upset yourself or the discussion shifts to that to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:49 PM
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Nothing suggests she wants to be picked. It's just a shaming and bullying tactic you use against women who say they should be held accountable for their actions and mistakes. Because it's something you don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:49 PM
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Thank you for saying it like it is and not succumbing to peer pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:48 PM
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It doesn't go to the kids it goes to her cart, clothes and make up. Stop lying to yourself
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 08:03 AM
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She picks up the shit piles. End of story
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 01:09 AM
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Report them. Dude you have no reason to be nice. Don't listen to miserable men who didn't stand up for themselves in here. Stop worrying about consequences, do want YOU want to do. If it's vengeance then so be it, why wouldn't it be your right when she gave herself the right to cheat on you ? Fuck being a nice guy, you'll become depressed from containing your instincts.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 08:06 PM
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i'm saving this comment. Thanks a lot brother
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/24 10:05 AM
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That's it right there 👆🏼💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 08:10 PM
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of course ✌🏼
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 08:09 PM
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putting it all into perspective. Good advice
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 08:09 PM
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great freaking advices. Thanks bud
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 08:09 PM
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Journaling is good you're right. I need to be more consistent with it. Will restart right away. Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 06:06 PM
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Yeah I hear ya. I've read and listened to videos about switching up your mindset and how it makes all the difference, I think it's key. Not letting your emotions control you, instead use them as fuel for motivation and moving forward with your life, focus on what you can control, and always look at the ones that have it worse than you. It's all theory at this point but if there are more experienced people here to enlight us it will be cool.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 05:59 PM
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So your wife don't respect you, treats you like shit and you... love her ? Respect yourself a bit, you don't have a kid with her yet, perfect time to live your life. You'll be better off without her, she's clearly causing your depression.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/23 10:28 PM
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Your husband divorces he remarries, would you walk your daughter with her step mom ? Of course not you'd rather die than this, even if you will try to pretend the opposite.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/23 06:50 AM
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Grow up. Hurt mean because of cheating wives who deprive them to see their kids because of an unjust family law existed way before Andrew Tate was a thing
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/23 06:48 AM
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Oh now that's really mature digging someone comment and trying to shame him on what hurts the most. What a great person you are yourself
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/23 06:47 AM
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Respect yourself and your kids. leave the cunt. in 15 years your kids will recall the abuse and that you backed up a witch in mistreating them. Be a man and protect your damn kids. Women are plenty
/r/askMRP29/09/23 12:20 PM
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It comes from angry & bitter 40+ years old cat ladies. That's the only real answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:25 AM
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That's the king of argument that people use nowadays to says that a man wan be a woman and that gender is a spectum. Going against nature and more so framing natural instincts as something that is backwards and retrograde. It's not Some things are fundamentally good, and this one is necessary for the continuity of the human species. And any species really. Also as I have highlighted the best things are hard, creating a company, building a physique, helping the needy, maintaining a relationship e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:12 AM
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You've edited your comment and expanded on it so I only answered the first version. I'll answer the rest here. The fact that kids take care of their elderly parents isn't why we have kids, rather it was an observation from my part that is a side benefit. I've layed out the true reasons above. For your last comment, I can turn it back to you. Who's going to help mankind when it goes extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:27 AM
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Or who will help fellow humans. Depends on the way you're living your own life and the values you pass on to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:23 AM
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What's your culture I'm curious ? In mine we preserved that. Having children is not about retirement. that's just one added benefit that comes natural. It's about satisfaction, memories and fulfilling oneself as a human being. So many things money, retirement funds and materialistic possessions won't ever buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:05 PM
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Yes in western culture were it's normal and not shunned upon to put your parents in a retirement home that's the case. In more traditional cultures not at all, it's common for even the most modest of people to take care of the elderly with them at home. But I don't expect you to believe me or envisage that it's possible. Also on your point above about sacrifice, the best things in this world require sacrifice. Creating a company, building your dream physique, be in a relationship, learn a new sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:13 PM
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lmao. If you can't sacrifice anything even for the sake of having children, the most natural instincts of any living species, then you're beyond egotistical and deep down into the consumerist mindset that world wants us into. Also good luck having no one here to take care of you when you're old and decrepit. I honestly think that it's sad how humans go out of their way to contradict every natural disposition they have nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:04 PM
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having kids is an great experience. I have 3 and they're the best thing that happened to me. People are way to self centered to the point where they don't want to sacrifice time even for their own kids
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:58 AM
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Western society that is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:57 AM
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Delete the damn folder. Then delete the trash bin
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/23 07:41 AM
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Here it is : https://forum.mensdivorce.com//viewtopic.php?t=13374 you'll need a VPN if you're outside the US they don't accept European IPs for some reason
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/23 11:12 AM
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If you don't want to make it easy for her just don't. You have a court order and if she doesn't respect it document everything with your lawyer so you can ask for 100% custody. She will have time to spend with her boyfriend while crying her eyes out then
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/23 10:17 AM
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In your opinion how should that affect men that never laid a hand on a woman in their whole life and have respect towards female gender ? Should they tolerate toxic feminism because they're men so they're automatically guilty?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 01:58 PM
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You don't seem to have a balanced approach at all. If you understood from what I wrote that a man can never be a bad partner or that women should let themselves be treated badly then you're not doing anything but extrapolating. Never said or tought something so ridiculous. I understand that those issues can lead a person to be emotional but don't go and put words they never said in other people's mouth. As for divorces it's very well documented that courts are biased towards women in the west, t…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 01:55 PM
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I agree it's not an excuse and doesn't solve the problem. But that's a problem that you'll never solve if you don't get to the root of it, and toxic feminism is the root. Without it there would be no red pill. People here need ro acknowledge that
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 02:57 PM
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Strange it's beyond you it's easy to understand. If feminism wasn't so toxic nowadays, and if hard working family loving men weren't socially and financially wrecked in unjust divorce rulings because their wives decided they're "not happy" all of sudden maybe he wouldn't have. Not being red pill is a thing, ignoring the root of what made red pill exist is something else.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 12:32 PM
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You don't have the same worldviews or family values. She's not the right one
/r/askMRP25/12/22 07:22 PM
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Got to r/marriedredpill
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/22 10:45 AM
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Knowing how to fight is king
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/22 08:25 AM
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Same. But i didn't know about all that 10 years ago. My loss.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 09:47 AM
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We seriously need to write a book on this. Gather all the testimonies. Make an ebook and spread it. So the furure generations can see and be more alert.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 09:36 PM
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OP please read thiz : she's willing to work on the marriage because it failed down with her bf. She was completely ok with betraying you and dodn't care about you risking to kill yourself as long as it worked out with the bf. You were the plan B. Please don't go back with her : once a traitor always a traitor
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/22 08:07 AM
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are you wrapping your hands correctly? sometimes if you don't heavy bag work can be a hand killer
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/22 09:50 AM
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NEVER EVER leave the house before the full divorce legal process is done. EVER. You'll lose all your rights to that house including the financial ones
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/22 07:01 AM
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Honestly getting into boxing is the best thing i ever did. My mind is so empty when we finish a training session. Nothing beats this feeling
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 09:53 PM
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That was the most toxic thread I read in a while. Also those are probably "purple glasses" woman who are the female equivalent to "redpilled men". So toxic
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/21 07:52 PM
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Great to hear that brother keep it strong
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/21 10:08 AM
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Thanks brother
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/21 09:01 PM
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Thanks man, and sucks for your story. Stay strong your kid will remember it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/21 09:00 PM
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We could make it amicable. We have separate lawyers but in my country you can have an "amicable divorce" and we're working on that. A lot has happened but I still think she'll prioritize the well being of the children above the pettiness and she knows they need a dad. As well as I know they need a mom and will never berate her in front of them. Thing is, I'm french, and I'm moving to Belgium because of a big career opportunity. I signed the papers and everything. She was supposed to come with me…
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/21 02:15 PM
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