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It's not "now" I just specified further
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:45 PM
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That's my point * Please stop calling me hun. That's what middle school cheerleaders do in a fight. We're grown adults here. (At least..I am)
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:41 PM
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And if your man shared those photos after a fight, it's your fault ? We DONT agree bc I don't think a woman is automatically a slut just for sending a nude photo to a random guy. But it's a pointless conversation
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:31 PM
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You simply said sending nudes was a slut tell.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:26 PM
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This WAS a man I dated. I said that.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:24 PM
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In short: It places the burden and "shame" of the interaction on the woman even though it is a two way street. I've never met a girl who sent a nude photo unsolicited to a random guy.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:22 PM
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Girl it's been 13 min. An actual response takes time. Curb your keyboard attitude, I'm not your brunch pal.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:18 PM
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Read recent comment. It's more anti-women than RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:17 PM
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Well 1st and foremost I think the word "slut" is very calloused and unhelpful. It's an arbitrary dismissive word that is intentionally used to subjugate a woman in a way that silences her and demeans her simply for having a sexual identity (either virgin or non virgin). You might be part of an older generation but the word "slut" now is often used mainly by awful bitter men to describe virgins and sexually active women alike whenever he can't get a girl. You should be more sensible than that. As…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:14 PM
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It's not though. At all.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 10:27 PM
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Girl, tell 'em 🙌🏼
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 08:01 PM
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The point is to not send nudes to a guy who doesn't know me well enough to know I'm not sending them to anyone else. You're 40. This isn't your generation's topic. Maybe men of your generation think that. But the guys I know of my generation aren't quite so crass and judgmental. Your perspective, though well intentioned, is out of touch by default.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 07:58 PM
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How long were you talking online before meeting ?
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 08:25 PM
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He wasn't 'red pill' back when he was happy to take your money. This man is nothing but an abuser. His love is not tough love. His love is not love. It's abuse. I suggest you buy the Kindle book "What Smart Women Know" This man doesn't care about you. He only wants to use you. He is too weak to admit his true intentions so it comes off as 'tough love.' You deserve better. But only if you want better.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 10:28 PM
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"The only way to get rid of him is to sleep with him until he gets bored with you"- scrubs 😂
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 01:14 AM
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Read her post history Either a complete troll or serious personality issue
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 10:42 PM
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Waaaaaaait a second I remember you--- Anyone who reads this post- check the user's post history. Very unstable person- she has had this "problem" for 8 years in a row.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 10:38 PM
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I wouldn't take the Snapchat thing to mean they're orbiting bc ppl view them just clicking absent mindedly... but I see how everything else would be a concern. Can you talk a little bit more about the three months prior to asking for commitment? What is it like? What are the dates like? What do you talk about?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 10:07 PM
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Whatever your genetically determined body type, be the healthiest version of it. That is step one in healthy body image/self-esteem. Work out & eat well first. Ignoring this and focusing on clothing, makeup, etc is only a bandaid. Femininity stems from self-confidence, exercise/being fit really reinforces the 'look good feel good' attitude.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 05:05 AM
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Hahah he might be too busy with his cum dump to give updates.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 04:07 PM
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I'm a 22 yr old woman randomly scrolling and I burst out laughing at "you're my slut you got that?" I actually squeaked laughing so hard🤣
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 08:55 AM
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She posts pics on her Instagram of her working out in anime leggings (appealing to her geek fan base) talking about men masturbating to her.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 08:21 AM
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Yeah She's most popular for her "baby's first red pill" content.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/17 03:48 AM
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He doesn't treat me delicately. That's what the post is about. I don't want your life. If a man wants a "lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets" then a woman should be able to find a man who is alpha in all the right ways and beta in all the right ways.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/17 01:16 PM
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I don't know. That's why I listed those qualities about him- I thought maybe they might shed light on things. I guess he thought that I was trying to senselessly break up with him for no reason, which in turn stressed him out right before having to fly a helicopter/lift off in the dark. He suffered a lot of physical/emotional abuse from his father as a teen and he said that he always knew, but is only now truly starting to acknowledge it. He apologized and made zero excuses for what happened and…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 04:46 PM
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No we don't have children but obviously I see him in that light. I don't date just to date and I wouldn't be spending my time with him if I didn't think he wouldn't be a good father. But you're right and it's what has been concerning me-- I don't want my kids to be actually afraid of their dad in the morning...it's just disheartening bc he has all these good traits, they just turn a little scary when they're taken to the extreme.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 03:38 PM
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No he didn't. We talked the day after the incident and I told him how much it terrified me to even be around him. He didn't try to talk to me. When he DID reach out, I responded and we had a long discussion. He apologized and made zero excuses and we reconciled. I think that I choose not to speak to him about the things that truly upset me bc he frightens me so I bottle those emotions up. But then they spill out a little in otherwise meaningless scenarios (like, 'I don't want to watch this movie…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 01:41 PM
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I think this is the only post that gets it. By too alpha I mean that it affects our relationship and there's no talking to him when he's in that frame. He just carries on with his bloated ego at any cost- including my feelings or opinion. It's hard for me to appreciate everything he does (I really do appreciate it though) when he does it in such a way that says "you don't know what you're doing, let ME do it for you" (when I DO know what I'm doing). It's like all the nice things he does comes wi…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 01:38 PM
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I didn't give him the silent treatment. We talked about what happened, how I felt about it and how much it scared me to be around him. Neither of us tried to talk to each other for that period afterward. Then when he reached out to me, I responded. That's not the silent treatment. Choleric is an understatement. He is volatile and explosive when upset. He'd never actually hurt me, but I'm constantly on 'alert' when I'm around him.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 01:35 PM
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We had a misunderstanding. I asked him why he was taking so long to 'swipe left' to check the temperature on his phone. He thought I was accusing him of taking so long bc he was 'swiping left' on tinder. It was right when he woke up (he's very cranky in the AM. Cranky is an understatement), and so he exploded on me for it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 01:31 PM
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I'm posting from a different account/ am a long time lurker of RPW....? Who cares who old my account is. That doesn't mean my relationship is 15 days old... Plus my history talks about my SO as I do here- that's he's a pilot.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 01:28 PM
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1) It affects our relationship 2) It shows recklessness and high risk 3) He often 'shows' me things in a condescending way. More like he is trying to prove something to me. 4) Since he is much older he often uses it as leverage to say he has more life experience than me therefore can assess the situation better. 5) He refused to let me cook & told me I should be thankful I have a man who cooks. Of course I'm thankful. But that doesn't mean I want to be insensitively booted out of the kitchen bec…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 01:27 PM
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I didn't give him the silent treatment. We both said we didn't want to speak.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 01:22 PM
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Neither of us tried talking to each other. It wasn't a silent treatment. We told each other we didn't want to talk.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 01:21 PM
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You seem to still not know much about it considering "Arabic" is only a language and "Arab" is used to describe anything to do with the people/culture. I know not all muslims are extremists that goes without saying. Muslims who live the same lifestyle as westerners are akin to "lukewarm christians" by those who DO practice. Actual Muslim countries hate western society. Wake up.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/17 10:48 AM
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That doesn't always mean that. I've met more than enough cry baby men who joined the military to toughen out but even if you put makeup on a pig....still a pig
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 02:27 PM
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I'm a non Muslim from a traditional community with muslims of various ethnicities, I'd like to think I have gotten to know various types of Muslim people pretty well, particularly men. Western women, especially college-educated ones really have no clue whatsoever. I know of far too many horror stories of a western woman dating a Muslim man- he's a sweet talker, pure gentleman, protective, etc all while dating and the SECOND she marries him it's a complete 180°- he dictates what color lipstick sh…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 04:11 AM
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I agree The problem is that most western women don't understand some of the extreme views of patriarchal Muslim men. They're so used to their effeminate men that they think the far opposite is a better deal...without knowing what it really entails (i.e. Being put to death for refusing strangers sex when they demand it) It still amazes me- to be an intelligent enough person to gain maximum level security & work for the FBI.... only to end up working as a hostess in a hotel lounge because she want…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 03:35 AM
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initiates slow clap
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 03:27 AM
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I wouldn't go so far as to say it is fiercely against the rules, but you might find that asking questions that are really off-topic or go against RPW views won't be too helpful for you. (Example: If you asked a question like "I don't want to date seriously right now, I want to build my confidence and plate several men at once- how to go about doing this?" You wouldn't get the input you're looking for. We'd just tell you you're in the wrong place.)
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/17 07:38 PM
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If you've been friend zoned, maintain your dignity and self respect and distance yourself from her. Don't be petty or rude- acknowledge her politely when you see her and that's it. Move on Self confidence is more compelling than blindly devoting yourself to a girl who already friend zoned you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 10:08 PM
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Oh man I'm so sorry to hear that!!😓😓 I imagine I'd think the same if I were a patient, but sitting in a 5 seat chopper is very comparable to sitting in a small sedan. Plenty of moving room imo 🤔
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 08:08 PM
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I am a chemist, he is a helicopter pilot for emergency medicine/local news station. I like our pairing a lot- I'm in a very niche intensive environment (lab) while he is in a more real-world/intense environment (emergency rescue). I am the more academic, pondering type and he is the more pragmatic type. I am the one who is introducing him to random interesting topics or books and he is the one taking me on helicopter rides over the city. We had a great laugh on our first date when he asked if I …
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 04:50 AM
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