waywardwinds Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Lunch dates?		waywardwinds	/r/askTRP	13/04/18 07:57 PM

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6	Redpill youtubers? More content to waste your time with? Stop now. Pursue your mission.	/r/askTRP	16/05/18 01:15 PM
3	I told her "we will hang out on Saturday" , got no response. She's mad I made other plans, am I supposed to wait for a confirmation? Your example is fine, but too explicit for my tastes. Imply meaning through action and sparse words i.e. “Didn’t hear from you, I’m busy now” or just “I’m busy now.” That says that you are high value and are no longer available. If she confronts you in person, you can lightheartedly tease her about being slow (remember to never butthurtedly enforce your boundaries by whining/complaining; but even in jest, be firm). That’s all she needs to know. If she’s high interest, she’ll try to reschedule. T…	/r/askTRP	16/05/18 12:33 PM
7	I told her "we will hang out on Saturday" , got no response. She's mad I made other plans, am I supposed to wait for a confirmation? “I’m busy now” Soft next. Don’t ever explain yourself. Reward good behavior, punish bad. Your frame says timeliness is of paramount importance. Depending on the circumstances, that might not always be fair, but let’s be real, she had nothing else going on and was lazy/unenthusiastic in getting back to you. Would she have taken her sweet time with Brad Pitt? In any case, this is a rule for you. Enforce your boundaries unapologetically. And don’t ever use words to explain yourself when you decide …	/r/askTRP	16/05/18 01:26 AM
7	How do I kill that voice in my head that says I can't be with a woman? Lift. Lose body fat. Done.	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 10:30 PM
3	When did you notice that lifting increased you SMV? Try intermittent fasting. Works well for most who try it. You might need to also be more meticulous about counting calories, so you can find that sweet spot that works given your lifestyle (factors include energy expenditure, stress, sleep et al). Something to ponder: how much of that muscle you think you’re losing is actually muscle? Some muscle loss will occur if you don’t closely track calorie intake. But I find that women DGAF. You look hotter. But if you care about maintaining strength, kee…	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 03:40 PM
3	intern wants to fuck me OP - I would say coyly play along without actually ever doing anything which can be read as you making a move.* This will likely force her to show her hand by explicitly communicating her desire (her going nuclear and removing plausible deniability) but hopefully she isn’t that desperate, as that can be spun into a sexual harassment situation easily.* Operate as if nothing unusual is happening and pretend it’s all innocent. Make sure she never interferes with your work. If she explicitly tries t…	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 02:01 AM
36	intern wants to fuck me This could backfire and she could retroactively say he had been creepily harassing her the whole time. Not a smart play.	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 01:56 AM
1	When did you notice that lifting increased you SMV? Thereabouts, yeah. I don’t worry much about macros. I just eat a whole food plant based diet and it takes care of all my nutritional needs. To reiterate, listening to your body before, during and after workouts is vital. Watch your progress. You’ll clearly feel and see what you’re lacking nutritionally. Don’t overdose on protein as is commonly advised - it’s harmful and you don’t need as much as you think (1 gram per pound of weight* is just stupid). Again, listen to your body. You’ll find the p…	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 10:53 PM
1	When did you notice that lifting increased you SMV? Select a feeding window ideal for you. Mine is from about 8 to about 3-4 with occasional bites afterward and allowances for drinks at night (less beer i.e. empty calories than more efficient hard drinks). Keep in mind the Japanese admonishment of eating to 80% satisfaction. Eat slowly. I take it easy on the alcohol as best I can also. Bad for both body and mind to any degree, especially beyond a couple drinks.	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 10:12 PM
10	Help me analyze my behavior from last night Well played. Begin to disinvest. Power play on her part fomenting a sibling rivalry* to inspire jealousy and steal more of your attention and validation. Retain as plate but the next time she uses your brother as a pawn, hard next immediately. A woman ready and willing to use your family against you is dangerous and unworthy of your emotional investment.	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 10:07 PM
3	When did you notice that lifting increased you SMV? IF is great, currently doing it and have done it for extended periods of time with no issues and great results. I would recommend it - I’m not super strict in that I consume 0 calories outside my feeding window but I keep consumption to a minimum. It’s very liberating - I am not a slave to food and can easily ignore mild hunger pangs. I don’t feel very hungry all the time because I consume nutrient dense foods (starch base, mostly fruits/veggies). My tip would be to continue lifting as you norma…	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 09:16 PM
13	When did you notice that lifting increased you SMV? Low body fat percentage is just as important as strength/build gains with women. So try the leangains approach. I look like a model these days - I see it in the mirror and in the responses I get. You will be received more warmly by all people and get more attention. Give it time. Don’t get fat in pursuit of gains.	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 08:41 PM
4	When did you notice that lifting increased you SMV? Lean out and slower gains. Achieve sub 12% body fat. You look much better. Low body fat percentage is the gamebreaker.	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 08:38 PM
11	chick I soft-nexted asks me if anything is going on because I was being cold and formal. How to respond? Isn’t it obvious OP? She wants your attention and validation. Don’t give it to her. She’s a parasite thirsting for her former host. Women prize our attentional validation - we prize sexual validation. She will always see you as a weak sucker until you cut her off from your stream of free, valuable attention. Evict her from your mind - the rent has been free there for far too long.	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 08:21 PM
73	Women in Love: 'Some part of me wanted to feel miserable in love' True - the more experience you get the better you understand the importance of “negative” emotion/drama for women. Bullet 1: pay attention to her actions, not her words. Bullet 2: being spiteful or malicious for their own sake won’t do it; she’ll sense incongruence and be turned off. Much better to be the center of your existence and prioritize your needs and wants above hers, always. You will naturally generate a range of emotions in her and come off as authentic and real which is what you shou…	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/18 04:15 PM
26	The Holy Trinity of Masculinity: Frame, Game, and Lifting And yet with your “high IQ” you can’t seem to put two and two together. Fuck. Off.	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/18 01:53 PM
10	The Holy Trinity of Masculinity: Frame, Game, and Lifting Username checks out. Loser mentality. Read and internalize the sidebar or fuck off. Sick of your kind.	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/18 01:29 PM
27	Issues with being TOO much of a dick? Learn to calibrate. Boldness is good, but right now it’s uncut, uncontrolled (which betrays inexperience and incongruence) and seemingly slightly bitter. Aloof, fun, light, self-amused banter is one thing; butthurt comebacks, another altogether. To be playful is not to be a bully. Keep that same penchant for risk-taking but try to be a little more suave - truly DGAF, don’t just pretend. As for your detractors: realize that although they might use the same words, men and women’s motivations for t…	/r/askTRP	07/05/18 09:31 PM
18	I didn't realize how easy it was to get a girl to have sex with you if you just ask The problem here is “not be a weirdo” can mean any combination of unattractive blue behaviors leading to you not being laid even if your “her type” (which doesn’t matter much most of the time if your game is tight). Yes, bad game can be due to overthinking. But good game =/= no or “not be a weirdo” game, although not being a weirdo is a requisite for good game. So learn game. Be attractive. AND don’t be a weirdo.	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/18 04:12 PM
1	[FR] Be as hot as possible. Very curious to see a post from you on this if you have the time/will.	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/18 04:23 PM
2	How does an alpha male handle a girl being overtly sexually teasing? You’re giving before getting; she’s getting before giving - see the problem?	/r/askTRP	29/04/18 12:21 PM
439	Know When Your Turn Is Up You’re wrong, lol. Don’t listen to her words, listen to her actions; she called you, she wanted you. You were lucky and made the right move, though. Understand this: being the topic of conversation, good or bad, means their mind is on you. Women want emotion: good or bad. They need the spectrum. But the emotions themselves come from a place of fleeting vapidity - they mean nothing in themselves, but they indicate interest, desire, passion. You are actually in a great spot. Happy to provide more …	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 02:31 PM
22	Frame frame frame frame frame God needs to chill. You came out on top though. Great story.	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/18 12:03 AM
5	Have a Kanye Attitude about Your Race Here’s the thing - your static, on paper, in-a-vacuum hypothetical is just that. It isn’t real - there will never be such a situation. Nor does it account for countless other variables. This is a useless mind game that’s a buffer for rejection and excuse for mediocrity. This is such a loser mindset. Lose it, forget about it completely. And don’t ever bring it up again. Fucking go to the gym today and learn to love yourself. This is a wake up call.	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 03:19 PM
8	I made a grave mistake and now I'm in a deep crisis and I don't know what to do Assuming this is serious, step one is to just breathe. Now that that’s over with, realize you are going to be okay if you can just get a grip. Look, just relax. *Find the humor in this situation - there’s much to be found. You didn’t commit a crime - you just had exceptionally bad sex. Now you know the importance of lubrication. Whatever you STI status, that is not within your control, so calm down and await the results of the tests - cross that bridge when you get there. Focus your time on non-…	/r/askTRP	23/04/18 06:57 PM
3	Ltr of a year withheld sex for the first time - did I handle it right? Don’t act out of spite - act out of principle. Establish your principles out of respect for yourself. Do what you want and follow your gut. Develop a compass. Maybe she was actually sore. It’s not that big a deal. But if you sense a deeper issue, suss it out and act in alignment with your principles. This may mean nothing; you may need to test the waters and/or walk. You’ll figure it out.	/r/askTRP	22/04/18 12:53 AM
2	Most experiences I've had with females in my life have been negative ones. Fair enough - consider this: since the way you perceive the world determines your state of mind and temperament, why not choose a lens conducive to an optimum mental/psychosocial state? Trick yourself if you have to. But in order to open yourself up to a new set of solutions, the desire to be content with the world as it is must first exist. Are you content with cynicism? Are you happy unhappy with reality? If so, carry on. Otherwise, do what you need to to achieve satisfaction with reality. Det…	/r/TheRedPill	20/04/18 07:54 PM
6	Most experiences I've had with females in my life have been negative ones. It seems obvious to me that women sense the baggage-laden judgmental vibe (i.e sub communication) you convey when in their presence. This isn’t something to be proud of or openly identify with. It’s something you should actively confront and resolve with full awareness and acceptance of your agency and responsibility. The lens with which you view the world is the one you, and you alone, choose to wear. You choose to be cynical. Don’t blame every person of x category you come into contact with fo…	/r/TheRedPill	20/04/18 07:30 PM
1	I'm in an LTR with a model and her boss (scout from modelling agency) is interfering with the relationship. Any advice on how to deal with? You have to got to end this man. She skipped into this man’s frame for his amusement at your expense and made you look like a fucking fool publicly. Your status has been permanently diminished in her eyes. Cut your losses. Get. Over. Her. Move on.	/r/askTRP	20/04/18 03:06 PM
2	Mate Guarding - Is it always wrong? The moment you accept that security is an illusion is the moment you free yourself from this anxiety. The only constant is change. Enjoy what you have as long as you have it but don’t base your contentment on having it.	/r/askTRP	19/04/18 10:47 PM
3	LTR and male friendship? Stop lying to yourself. This is over. Demote immediately. Establish boundaries. Build yourself a frame. If lines are crossed, reprimand accordingly. If the problem persists, next. Gotta leave that scarcity mindset behind.	/r/askTRP	19/04/18 06:17 PM
4	Mate Guarding - Is it always wrong? It bothers you because you think she’s yours when she’s not. It’s just your turn. Your anxiety stems from you faulty underlying beliefs - she’s not yours forever. Internalize and accept this fact. Be realistic and be okay with letting go.	/r/askTRP	19/04/18 03:33 PM
5	"Bleed confidence" And then you lived happily ever after? This is a diary entry guy. Sidebar. Lift.	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/18 01:45 PM
4	Your friendly neighborhood tyrone/chad/niggah with advice for my white boiz Not only is OP not black, but also this is a complete shitpost. OP, actually read the sidebar and learn black vernacular if you want to write good “nigger” satire.	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/18 11:46 AM
5	Question specifically to former AFCs of TRP that turned their life around and became alpha, did you ever feel like you are compensating for lost time when you did not get to bang/date women, by going out with and banging as many women as possible? And does it feel hollow to do this? Women are a lagging indicator, not an end in themselves. You need a higher purpose.	/r/askTRP	18/04/18 03:49 PM
2	Please, I need help. I beg of you Be careful not to overtrain and ensure you’re getting optimum nutrition. Experiment and find what works best for you, but I find working out every other day works best for me. Growth happens during rest. Lifting spurs growth. Read How to Win Friends and Influence People by Carnegie. Read 48 Laws and the Art of Seduction. Read whatever brings you joy. Read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Love yourself and be patient with yourself. Transformation doesn’t happen over night but with consistency you …	/r/askTRP	18/04/18 01:12 PM
1	How to reject my co-worker without coming off as a dickbag? Only reply to work related texts - don’t ask if it’s work related because it comes off as curt and she may take offense. Just ignore non-work texts and answer work texts. By ignoring personal inquiries, you retain plausible deniability - if she asks whether you read it - “I was busy, sorry”. She may follow up on the question/remark. Ignore. Repeat until the message is clear - she’ll get it, and she saves face by you not making it a thing/explicitly acknowledging what she’s doing.	/r/askTRP	17/04/18 09:36 PM
1	Is this the reason she doesn't like nice guys? That’s good. Now unfollow all the IG attention whores you’re following, turn inward, remember that you and only you can change your reality, get to the nearest gym and do a fucking curl. Start lifting religiously. This is a cornerstone habit. Go out and talk to men and women alike. Make better friends. Build healthier habit. Start loving yourself and refusing to waste time and settle for mediocrity. You will become greater than you can imagine.	/r/askTRP	13/04/18 09:08 PM
5	Guide me to become a real alpha You need to put forth some effort. You’re coming across as a lazy fuck. Go to TRP sub, read the sidebar, sort by most upvotes + all time and read, go out and apply what you’ve read and then ask a better question.	/r/askTRP	13/04/18 08:50 PM
1	Lunch dates? I wouldn’t say going out to lunch is bending backwards anymore than going to get drinks is. You have to show up to fuck. The question is: is this an effective strategy? I’d do it if I could make it worth my while (I don’t mind allowing a chick to experience me if she’ll put out - a fair exchange of value) but this feels sort of like a shit test and potential waste of time which is why I’d like to hear from men who’ve had this or a similar experience.	/r/askTRP	13/04/18 08:45 PM
1	Is this the reason she doesn't like nice guys? Af ———— BB AF: provides dick and tingles; exudes value and generates genuine desire in women BB: provides everything else; needfully negotiates obligatory desire and demands value from women i.e quid pro quo covert contract agreements. Nice guys are on BB end of the spectrum. Some are worse: nice guys with no redeemable qualities or money who are only good for cheap dopamine hits in the form of ig likes and comments about how amazing you look in your pics i.e a male groupie.	/r/askTRP	13/04/18 08:38 PM
2	Chicks NOT pushing for commitment. I must be doing something wrong This. *Question why you want a LTR. Don’t regress. What you’re doing is working. Find fulfillment elsewhere.	/r/askTRP	13/04/18 08:08 PM
6	I want a bar slut. How do I pull. Not sure what race has to do with anything. This comes down to game. Sluts require better game than non-sluts (define “slut” anyway). So, do you have game? Can you generate attraction? There’s no special “slut game.” My recommendation: attempt to game whomever you believe is a slut. You’ll succeed or fail. Learn from either outcome. You’ll figure it out eventually.	/r/askTRP	13/04/18 08:05 PM
1	Should you be doing favors for a girl you slept with? You know what you want, boss. These requests to help her with her hw can be perfect plausible deniability for a lay, but she isn’t putting out so it seems she’s just interested in using you. My final recommendation is to ignore, soft next until she takes the hint and gets* with the program.	/r/askTRP	13/04/18 08:00 PM
0	Should you be doing favors for a girl you slept with? She is using you. The initial favor request was a shit test: you failed by not valuing yourself enough to say no (she’s not your wife) so she put you in the non-sexable utility pile. Move on. This is oneitis. Game other women. Value yourself enough to not be severely inconvenienced and waste your precious time because a chick made your dick wet once. You need to get to the point where women willingly do chores for you. She senses your desperation and is EXPLOITING you. That simple. Edit: Also, s…	/r/askTRP	13/04/18 07:19 PM
1	Effortless Way to Make Yourself More Powerful and Invaluable in Your Office/Career: Be Known as the "Numbers Guy" I like how actively you are engaging with/manipulating others’ perception of you beyond just being conscious of it. This is a next step that I have been working on taking in every aspect of my life. This is how you take ownership of things seemingly beyond your control. Power moves.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/18 05:50 PM
8	Übermensch Mode Si querés avanzar tu nivel de español, afuera de inmersión completa, te recomiendo un app que se llama FluentU. Cuesta pero vale.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/18 09:10 PM
7	FR: Never underestimate the power of not giving her attention This reply to your post was a shit test. Respond as you would when a chick gives you one. There’s no reason at all for you to be explaining yourself like this. Edit: Never argue with fools. People from a distance can’t tell who is who.	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/18 03:18 PM
10	FR: "You've changed" Generally, if you have to ask, you’re probably doing them. Cringy behaviors are essentially any behaviors that imply desperation and a needy (read “creepy”) agenda - these include: supplication (GAF, flattery, brown-nosing, doing things because you think “she’ll like it” or think more favorably of you not because it’s what would make you happy) attempting to negotiate desire/setting up covert contracts (“I did this for you therefore I deserve that from you!”), qualifying yourself and your words/…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/18 02:50 PM
6	Women require attention from higher SMV men like humans require oxygen. Deprive them of this and they will go crazy. “Attention is a byproduct of commitment...” Fantastic line in a good post - throttling attention is difficult to fake and that it is a natural side effect of having acquired a true abundance mindset. A man operating in scarcity lavishes women with attention (usually undergirded by a covert contract latticework) which cheapens its value and rightly sets off women’s neediness alarms. This is a key principle to understand to achieving aloofness and amused mastery. It’s important to note, however, t…	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/18 07:35 PM
3	Using Mindfulness To Stop Worrying and Overthinking (No Woowoo shit) He didn’t write it, that’s why. He plagiarized it and is passing it off as his own.	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/18 07:54 PM
2	Using Mindfulness To Stop Worrying and Overthinking (No Woowoo shit) Looked but couldn’t find where you attribute the author of this content from whom you stole. It seems like you’re passing this off as your own writing. Weak. Edit: Unless you are Eric Barker. Highly doubt that.	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/18 07:53 PM
3	How I Manage My LTR What does “self respecting” mean? Frankly, it sounds like you’re moralizing, but I’ll indulge you here. What do you think his intent is? To me it’s trust but verify. Standard fare around here, he just leverages technology. As for degree, it’s a few ticks further than her handing over her passwords for sure but she did do that willingly. Women would do the equivalent if they could (and arguably already do in the form of an innate talent for collecting info via gossip). And she might leave the guy…	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/18 02:48 AM
31	[FR] The Red Pill May Not Be As Swallowed As It Seems Lot of guys here don’t care about periods - I never smash when she’s on her period. My point here is that it’s your decision whether or not you do. You could decide to not fuck every other Tuesday for no reason at all other than you just decided to do that - it’s your decision alone to make. Part of being a self-actualized man is living in full congruence and alignment with your values, tastes, aesthetic and desires and doing what feels right to you. This is the key to amused mastery, outcome in…	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/18 07:10 PM
3	How I Manage My LTR Very solid post and resonates with my experience - thanks for sharing. Kudos to the mods for cleaning up the moralizing. Very disheartening to see the deluge of such framing in response to this post - these are likely men who have not had quality LTRs. Had I the wherewithal and were I in a relationship with similar conditions, I might do the same. Were you to discover something, having that information readily available would enable you to exercise your abundance mentality more swiftly by instan…	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/18 06:57 PM
2	What most guys don’t get about mystery! Excellent post - thanks.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/18 03:29 PM
3	What most guys don’t get about mystery! Excellent heuristic. Thanks for sharing.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/18 03:28 PM
5	What most guys don’t get about mystery! Discretion and privacy are positive - continue to disallow a woman from persuading you otherwise. Women never, ever, under any circumstances want full disclosure. It’s inherently unattractive. As OP said in his reply to you, however, it’s vitally important that you no longer tolerate this behavior. Never allow a woman to direct you. You do what you wish at all times, no justification required. These attempts at control are a kind of shit/comfort test hybrid - she wants to see if you’ll let her d…	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/18 03:22 PM
2	New people to TRP take note. Go to TRP landing page in the app. Click the elipsis in the top righthand corner. Click “Community Info”.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/18 09:11 PM
3	The 5 stages of becoming a redpill Alpha You clearly don’t understand TRP. This is about sexual strategy, not suppressing emotion or “inner femininity”. It’s about understanding the feminine imperative and how masculinity is under siege in today’s world while at the same time being the very thing that draws women to our orbit. As such, we advise men not to be vulnerable around women (bad sexual strategy) but instead find men in whom they can confide, cultivating a tribe of men who build each other up (iron sharpens iron). Women are inc…	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/18 03:36 PM
29	The day i took The Red Pill Good for you. I get this feeling even after all the legal proceedings that she’ll try to force her way back into your life.	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/18 01:12 AM
2	FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSE Ah, I’m familiar with that kiss - perhaps a more powerful move in that context would be to not do the expected side kiss/or extend the length of the initial embrace enough to where she knows it’s different than a mere pleasantry. Latinas aren’t afraid of touch thankfully, so it’s much easier to escalate with them.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 09:44 PM
3	FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSE I’m assuming (OP correct me) it was a cheek kiss. You should always start dates, especially the first one, like this. Slowly, in a controlled manner, kiss and embrace. You’ve been here before. Done this a thousand times. It’s normal. You’ve set the tone from jump. The sooner she gets used to your sexual touch, the better.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 09:26 PM
52	Comfort Game in the #MeToo era Beautifully handled. You made the right moves, carefully maintaining frame whilst preventing her from leveraging the social justice system against you. Hell, you may have done her a real favor by liberating her sexually. The tears were likely a result of the clash between her true nature and her ego-invested ideological purity and allegiance to lean-in-ism/feminist i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-t indoctrination which asserts a man being dominant over a woman is an unnatural social construct that no self-r…	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/18 07:55 PM
1	I'm a newbie. I need help. You broke a rule - personal advice questions go to the sub asktrp.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/18 09:12 PM
1	Living in Reality What’s the point of this post? I learned nothing from this that I can apply to improve my life. It reads like a diary entry. In your next post, bring forth a lesson or concept that is useful for others in this sub.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/18 02:48 AM
1	Be righteous in all that you do Extremely fair point that I’ll keep in mind. Thanks.	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/18 10:30 PM
1	Be righteous in all that you do With all due respect, this is not moralizing. I am discussing amoral righteousness - a self-motivating impulse to action, a mode of operating wherein you are the point of origin, and everything you do is the most important thing being done. This is a tool useful in effecting that which you desire upon the world (naturally encompassing sexual conquest). There are no judgements being made - only a concept to be used however you might wish. This kind of subjective interpretation of reality - an int…	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/18 01:31 PM
1	Be righteous in all that you do Great concept. When reason alone fails to put us in motion, righteousness will kick us in the ass and force us to go out and make shit happen.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/18 02:45 PM
1	Be Selfish. I agree that we’ll settle for less than what we want most if we are genuinely desired by the comparatively lower value option.	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 09:36 PM
-1	Be Selfish. In my example, the second girl isn’t fucking with you. She just isn’t into you. And you got it: she turns out to be of higher value (when I referred to attractiveness, I meant the physical). Hence your inevitable desiring her more.	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 09:02 PM
1	Be Selfish. You may have missed my point. It’s this: we want what’s above us, what we can’t have, what enhances our life rather than detracts from it. Neediness detracts from our lives and the lives of high value women. Aloofness, independence, purpose and gravitas, among other traits, evince value.	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 08:59 PM
7	Be Selfish. Let me put it this way: You’re in a room with two equally attractive women. One is fawning over you. She does things for you in a needy way, seeking your approval. She gives you “please like me” vibes. The other is civil enough with an air of superiority. She tolerates your presence. Nothing you do elicits even the slightest reaction. Who you are (character/SMV) is not enough. She’s just not impressed. She more or less behaves as if you didn’t even exist. Of the two, which do you desire more? I’…	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 07:37 PM
11	Be Selfish. +1. One thing I‘ve learned is just how valuable the validation is of high/increasing value guys. I realized I was reflexively (from conditioning) freely offering my attention to women (in the form of non-sexual eye contact, gestures etc). I stopped doing this. The effect is incredible.	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 07:01 PM
31	"I could do it if I wanted to" means jack shit until you do. This is over the top. Just say hi (better yet be high value and allow/bait her into pursuing) and go from there. There are lots of reasons why a chick will reject you that have nothing to do with you. There can be just as many that are direct result of things under your control. Either way, relax. Just relax. Work on it and quit catastrophizing. Don’t compare approaching human beings with killing them with a loaded gun. It ain’t that serious.	/r/TheRedPill	02/02/18 03:04 PM
4	she wants to fuck, she just doesn't want to fuck YOU. “Former”? You missed the point entirely.	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/18 03:10 PM
3	Nice guy over on the dating advice sub respects the shit out of his date and doesn't understand why she ends up grinding on another guy in the club She wasn’t worth wasting energy on. He just moved on. Drama isn’t fun. What loser fights over a chick he just met? Who cares when there’s another hottie 2 ft away?	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/18 06:42 PM
1	Don't be like me Revisit that sidebar and contemplate on it more next time. Hopefully this experience prevents future backsliding.	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/18 08:36 AM
1	Thoughts on Aziz Ansari I very much disagree. That’s my point. Do yourself a solid and read, then contemplate, the sidebar Edit: I worded this poorly. it’s not that I disagree that a stereotype exists, but I wholeheartedly disagree with your response to it. All that matters is what’s within your control. Focus 100% there, and you will get better results.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/18 04:56 PM
2	Thoughts on Aziz Ansari If what you’re doing isn’t working, try something new. You might need to experiment w/ outlandish game but you’ll definitely need to upgrade your frame. You don’t believe it so how can she?	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/18 04:30 PM
2	Thoughts on Aziz Ansari Something doesn’t add up. You lift but are you strong and look it? How tall are you? Do your clothes fit? What famous guy (Indian or not) do you most resemble? Are you actually as socially adroit as you say you are? What do strangers and acquaintances say about you behind your back or to your face? What are women actually telling (doing/saying to) you when you approach them? What feedback are you getting? Because that’s what matters. Looking in the mirror and saying “I’m hot” doesn’t make it so.…	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/18 04:12 PM
6	Ok fuck it I'm in I guess. If you don’t remember anything else, remember this: read the sidebar.	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/18 04:32 AM
3	If Male Solidarity Requires Adoption of "Big Frame", Including MGTOW to PUA to Incel to Purple Pill, What Would That Frame Look Like? To build on this: Seeing feminism as a threat (something that can cause harm) and hedging against that is one thing; fearing it, avoiding it, reacting to it, and letting it dictate your behavior and worldview is a separate thing entirely. The latter is not RP, in my view. Most men, at worst, cower, whimper and supplicate in the face of the feminine imperative. At best, they become embittered and make a show of going their own way. I agree with you that that’s not men of the TRP’s problem. You ca…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/18 10:03 PM
1	If Male Solidarity Requires Adoption of "Big Frame", Including MGTOW to PUA to Incel to Purple Pill, What Would That Frame Look Like? This is really all that needs be said. Affecting change at scale starts with number one. We don’t need to “recommit” to a “stronger” frame. Each man must build a frame to begin with.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/18 08:48 PM
3	askTRP Megathread January 17 Edit: Check out a blog called masculineprinciple. Read the entire sidebar.	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/18 02:31 PM
6	askTRP Megathread January 17 I would recommend reading the book “Meditations” by Marcus Aurelius.	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/18 02:23 PM
1	Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread January 15 My point is clear, asswipe: folks like you need to step up and police the sub properly or clarify its purpose. What’s the point of you being an EC if you are incapable of doing that? I laid it out clearly. Are we going to allow MGTOW bullshit, or are we not?	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/18 05:03 PM
1	Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread January 15 I believe this subreddit needs to take a stand. Where are we on this MGTOW shit? We are allowing a muddying of the waters. In a recent post, I remind AFs/AFs-in-training about the importance of masculinity and frame in light of the Franco situation and what is really just a cultural culling of BBs (e.g. male “allies”, situational alphas, et al). Shrieking, petulant, and reactive MGTOWs couldn’t resist hamstering and derailing the conversation about how to traverse the current sexual landscape as…	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/18 03:40 PM
47	The culmination of the pro-women movements and their unabashed abandonment of logic and reason is that their narrative can now be publicly misandric and any critical opposition is simply ignored as they march forward. Everything leading up to this has created the Hollywood sex scandal fever. The last point is key - his losing frame by wearing that obnoxious pin made him vulnerable and an easy target. Some may say this instance belies the notion that a true AF/bucks (not just a situational alpha a la Weinstein) is safe. The fact of the matter is AFs are still relatively secure against this kind of attack. We should call out the MGTOW nihilism/alarmism these kinds of stories give rise to. Should we monitor the ongoing attack on men with concern? Yes. But we must never panic, especiall…	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/18 09:50 PM
190	Brother's Text Game I see: amused mastery (cocky air of lightness, superiority and composure which is essential for rock-solid frame) zero need for external validation (and thus no compulsion to please or win approval or fear of “saying the wrong thing”) very high self-esteem and respect stemming from a high estimation of in/extrinsic value appreciation of the value of time focus on mission and getting results Take notes. Apply this to your life. Think and talk less. Do more. Lift. Work. Be a cocky bastard and game…	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/18 02:34 PM
62	I didn't think the redpill would change me this much My condolences. Strength to you.	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/18 12:06 AM
1	How to Get Laid - A Demonstration of Screening Good stuff. Checked out your support yourself vid as well - vital info. I dig the conversational, off-the-cuff vibe (consider playing w/ a more tightly scripted video style also). Thanks for your contribution bro - you know your shit.	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/17 12:39 PM
137	2 Months of Mental Hell Read the entire sidebar, now.	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/17 06:39 PM
6	The Red Pill and LTRs from a woman’s perspective “Granted, I did not always feel this way.” 99% of women don’t read this sub and thusly don’t have your perspective. They’re you before your maturation. Your advice (particularly the bit encouraging vulnerability) could actually harm men. Please refrain from posting content like this here. This post does not add value to the sub in anyway. None of this is novel or enlightening.	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/17 01:52 PM
238	Shortcuts, Self-Improvement, the Present, and You Great reminder - a helpful concept here is that of kaizen. Always be edging a bit closer, getting a little better in every passing moment. There is no such thing as a minute “off” (as even rest should be seen as a tool for getting better). Counterintuitively, I find what most helps me anchor myself in the present moment is reverse-engineering my goals and using meticulous planning of my tasks daily. I plan what I will do tomorrow, today. That way I never forget what I can and must do right now t…	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/17 04:49 PM