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What age are you guys? Happy to join but im on the older side... In exchange I havequite a bit of experience and used to be quite good when I practiced more...
/r/seduction04/08/14 12:10 AM
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Because she has smarts, she has initiative, she is creative, and she is playful. It's all in there, look well: Smarts: when asked if her friends would say she's trustworthy, instead of saying "of course" (dumb answer from simple people), and instead of saying "I don't know", which is intelligent but naive, she says "I guess" (nobody has asked their friends about it, so - this is a smart person who leaves room for potential error, but calculates based on reasonable assumptions). Initiative: becau…
/r/seduction30/11/12 01:22 AM
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Take acting lessons. I'm doing it myself starting this year. Unbelievable.
/r/seduction07/11/11 02:55 AM
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She has a boyfriend but she likes you. Go out for drinks asap, don't hesitate, invite her home to smoke, then make your move there. She may show a bit of LMR but she will go for it. Be aware that things may/will be awkward at the office afterwards though. If you don't want to intefere in a bf/gf relationship, just don't do any of this.
/r/seduction25/08/11 01:29 PM
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Your best move here is just not to tell her anything. Just move on to other chicks. If she sees you with another girl, she'll understand, or she might even get jealous and get back. This last communication of yours seems clingy & needy, as if asking for permission, or worse, trying to get her attention back. Been there, done that. Losing move.
/r/seduction21/07/11 07:03 PM
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Where in europe?
/r/seduction12/07/11 09:06 PM
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F-close in church is probably not the best thing to attempt. But whatever the outcome, please, pretty please, we want an FR of that.
/r/seduction15/05/11 04:32 PM
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Don't overkino. That is, don't keep on junking when you should already go for the kiss. Make a commitment to go for the kiss tomorrow halfway thru the date (don't wait till the end). If you get rejected, you would have gotten it anyway, and you now know for sure. And you still have moves after that. But, again, don't be a pussy!
/r/seduction12/05/11 06:50 AM
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It seems like you should have at least made out with her.
/r/seduction09/05/11 05:38 PM
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Thing is, even if your friend is a chump, and she is willing to dump him for the first interesting guy that comes along, if you value your friendship, just FUCKING STAY OFF THE GIRL. It's not for moral reason. It's about keeping your friendship.
/r/seduction03/05/11 09:16 AM
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-1 HB point for her for still f-closing you after seeing the red wine in the fridge. Else congrats to you.
/r/seduction02/05/11 03:38 PM
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Just a coincidence. Keep prodding.
/r/seduction29/04/11 04:29 PM
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Dude, some men friends are great in many aspects. Just not all of them.
/r/seduction29/04/11 09:21 AM
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didn't mean to imply you were blaming your wing! but anyway, it still makes a difference and it's good to understand it, even if only to take measures you go out with him, if it turns out to be necessary. sure, going for what is available is what you need to do indeed. what i meant is that maybe you don't have to blame yourself here, but an alignment of circumstances. I sell software online. some weeks are amazing, others I sell nothing. and in many cases (though not always), it's just random no…
/r/seduction20/04/11 04:50 PM
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Can you create a fun, interesting conversation with and about clothes? Use humor & imagination. Then, when she sees you are fun and confident and she enjoys the time with you, you can ask her out and you'll succeed unless she has some other commitment. If you cold ask her out, you'll most likely get blown.
/r/seduction20/04/11 10:14 AM
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Better wings help, but it's also about the mentality. Can't blame you for not x-closing the HB7.5 with her boyfriend present or leaving the HB6.5 you don't like for your friend who did like her. Try sarging with this other guy to fully determine how much of the problems are because of the wing. Myself, if I go out with a friend who is not into pick-up, I lose most of my drive, as even if I make a move, it's most likely due to end up with an upset friend (and that kills the vibe in any case). So …
/r/seduction20/04/11 10:12 AM
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What? There's people in Seddit who are not approaching women?
/r/seduction19/04/11 11:13 AM
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you're doing the right thing. good luck!
/r/seduction19/04/11 11:13 AM
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I was unhappy in an LTR for many years. Now I am single and have been so for over 5 years, and very happy to be so. I am growing much more as a person in this situation, being all around happier, and making most people around me happier. I may go into an LTR in the future, but only when I know that is what I really, really, really want to do with my life. I've already wasted too many years doing what was expected from me, and this never goes well for anyone involved. "Barely ok" is as far as you…
/r/seduction17/04/11 10:01 PM
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You said yourself you were afraid of him rejecting and the word getting out. That's the reason not to go explicit with a guy. If that danger didn't exist, you can be quite explicit with a guy and he won't be less attracted. With a girl (my experience), this kind of explicit talk kills anything (I've had it beforehand and it never went well). Many/most girls prefer to believe some kind of tale which is what turns them on, as explicit talk about each one's goals is rational and so a turn-off to mo…
/r/seduction17/04/11 09:54 PM
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Great that you got there, and I'm sure you'll improve your text game. I am so uneven too!
/r/seduction17/04/11 09:48 PM
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Go for the kiss next time. If she rejects, try again in 10 min. 2 or 3 times. If she says no, you know you don't have to hang out with her ever again, and you can explain easily why. BTW if she says no stop trying to get her, you will NEVER get out of the friendzone.
/r/seduction17/04/11 12:20 AM
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Congrats. Really. Do post a follow up. Pics would be cool, too.
/r/seduction17/04/11 12:10 AM
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Don't ask or discuss it explicitly. Invite him over to your place to watch a movie, then forget about the movie and have sex. He will most likely respond fine. Then, after the fact (not necessarily immediately after) tell him you want nothing serious because of your previous relationship. He will most likely find it ok. Call him for a movie next week or so. He'll understand. If you want to make sure he leaves after the first booty call, arrange it at a time when you have some other commitment la…
/r/seduction15/04/11 01:41 PM
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Sounds like good results. Your closing sounds just fine. So, your loss of motivation is unrelated to pick-up. There is no need to be very motivated by pick-up, some people are, some people aren't. Some times you are, some times you aren't. Just do other things that motivate you, and if you get motivated again in the future, you go back to pick-up. With the context you describe, it's as simple as that.
/r/seduction14/04/11 04:51 PM
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What kind of success? Have you f-closed? k-closed? #-closed? How many of each?
/r/seduction14/04/11 03:47 PM
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Small town, girl I've talked to a few times in random unplanned encounters, f-close one night at my place, I ask for the # in the morning, she says "I can give it to you but don't call me", so I go "ok then don't give it to me". F-close but no #-close. I got the number a few weeks afterwards though, working on re-f-closing but it doesn't seem easy for some reason (poor text response, I won't go for an easy-to-predict rejection, prefer to wait until the odds are better which will surely be at som…
/r/seduction14/04/11 03:34 PM
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Have you been successful picking up girls & then lost motivation, or have you not been successful picking up girls and lost motivation? It's two completely different phenomenons. Tell us and we'll help you understand it better.
/r/seduction14/04/11 09:03 AM
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Ah ok... #-close means you get the phone number, fb-close facebook add, k-close means kiss-closing (not in the cheek!), and f-close should be obvious. *-close in that glossary just refers to all of these as a pattern. Nobody says "I *-closed", you say "I k-closed" or "I f-closed" whatever. Most of the time you report the "highest" and others are implied. Although I've f-closed and they refused to give me their number, it's unusual.
/r/seduction14/04/11 09:01 AM
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So if you don't have the perfect time at the moment, say something less than perfect. You'll improve. It's definitely an anxiety/insecurity thing.
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:35 AM
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Congrats. I'd say *-close should probably mean #-, k- and f- close.
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:34 AM
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Sorry to burst your bubble, yes, you are in the friendzone.
/r/seduction13/04/11 06:40 AM
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+1 creeper alert is lower. also, please explain your "parallel conversation" thing in english, we'll be grateful!
/r/seduction12/04/11 10:21 PM
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PPP? Peer-to-Peer Protocol?
/r/seduction12/04/11 10:19 PM
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What would you suggest changing? Going out for dinner together is just the easy and natural thing to do for two foreigners alone in an unknown city, the alternative for both is having dinner alone. Or you mean not paying for it? There were extra details: she offered to pay it on her work expenses, and I didn't like that, so I said I'd pay, as I didn't want her work to pay for my dinner. Still, I seriously doubt it's that what spoiled a better ending. But would be happy to hear your thoughts on i…
/r/seduction12/04/11 09:51 PM
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BTW I just found this post about being a creep for lacking social proof while solo at a club here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/egezc/dont_be_creepy_importance_of_social_proof/ Golden, by Tofutofu. I gonna learn to fix that, even if I have to start watching sports.
/r/seduction12/04/11 09:44 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. I actually find it easier to go out alone in a place where nobody knows me. Am working on it.
/r/seduction12/04/11 09:35 PM
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Hey, I could really use some advice from you guys. If only on how I should write FRs to get your feedback!
/r/seduction12/04/11 09:18 PM
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Ah ok. Thanks. Then no way I'm doing that for pickup :)
/r/seduction11/04/11 04:49 PM
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What is "Molly"?
/r/seduction02/04/11 09:44 PM
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Pardon my poor coloquial English... what is "slampiece"?
/r/seduction02/04/11 07:26 PM
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Indeed, this can be a good idea. I plan to test it. I'll do an FR when I do test it.
/r/seduction02/04/11 07:13 PM
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Good to know that this is not so common in the US either. Now I can understand the solo FRs better, it is nearly as weird in other places as it can be here.
/r/seduction02/04/11 07:13 PM
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Yes, the mood you are in definitely affects things a lot. Inner game work is definitely the way to go here.
/r/seduction02/04/11 07:07 PM
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Thanks, good to know this happens in the US too. My friends go to bars a lot, but many of them are not that into picking up girls or random socializing, or they are not available sometimes. And now thinking it, I would like to gain the ability to go out alone & meet new chicks. Some of the FRs in this regard are very inspiring.
/r/seduction02/04/11 07:06 PM
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Wouldn't have thought there were so many Spanish people here :) Ending up alone during the night doesn't make me anxious, going out alone does. So I think I will find some way to make things work.
/r/seduction02/04/11 07:05 PM
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You are totally right. But I completely quit smoking 2.5 years ago. I smoked a pack a day for many years. Now I don't touch the stuff with a 10-foot pole. But yes, you are totally right, and while it may put off non-smoker chicks, it's a great way to meet people. What a weird animal species we are, we need excuses for the things we want to do.
/r/seduction02/04/11 07:03 PM
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I don't think so. I mean, AA is the Anxiety caused by the Approach. You get that even being with friends, the fear of rejection, etc... causes the anxiety. I'm not talking about that. It's also anxiety, but of a different kind. Even being alone in a bar/club causes it for me. That said, it does seem like there is a big component of my personal unfounded anxiety, which I will definitely work on. The benefits can be so great.
/r/seduction02/04/11 06:32 PM
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ah ok, now i get it. /slaps self mildly
/r/seduction02/04/11 06:31 PM
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I think you've nailed it there with your last sentence. That's where the weirdness comes from, and how you can remove it (when you can remove it that is).
/r/seduction02/04/11 02:32 PM
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I lived in Madrid for 10 years (until 4 years ago). It is definitely weird going out solo, although maybe more normal if you are travelling. People are friendly in Madrid, but it's still weird to join the conversation of a group of strangers, unless they are obviously tourists looking to talk to other people. Hitting on girls is natural of course. I go to Madrid often, for work reasons. I'll PM you next time. Are you Spanish?
/r/seduction02/04/11 02:30 PM
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I mean: approaching a group of strangers and joining their conversation would be really weird in many places. Maybe it's normal in the US, as american people have this habit of talking to anyone anywhere. I was asking for comments from other people from other countries, to try and understand whether it's a cultural issue. All in all, not that I want to go out alone (unless I find a good way to make it work), but sometimes you just can't find anyone to go out with, and I would go alone, but the w…
/r/seduction02/04/11 02:11 PM
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It seems like that can fly in the US, where that is more or less normal. Maybe in some types of places too. But to start talking with a group of strangers is weird in many cultures (hitting on girls seems more normal than this!). Thoughts?
/r/seduction02/04/11 01:56 PM
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forget the last sentence, i thought you might have been someone i know. i'm 37 and look younger, so most of the time i'm ok among 25+ers
/r/seduction02/04/11 01:54 PM
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Thanks, I think it's still mostly a no-no in a small town, where you are going to meet a lot of people you know but with whom you wouldn't stay. I see mostly no-one doing it, and most people will really think they are weirdos ("who goes out alone?"). Yes people are cruel, and very often, close-minded. It's probably easier in a big city. There are all kinds of people, people don't know each other, and you can say you are alone for work reasons (very normal) or for travelling alone (which can be e…
/r/seduction02/04/11 01:43 PM
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Congrats on the event, good luck for the date. Maybe you could prepare some subjects to talk about, easy things that you can discuss with mostly anyone, and practice them with people who are not hot chicks, it could help. Don't punish yourself, it's not that obvious to be able to talk to a stranger unless you have frames and subjects to bring up, they may feel fake, but without that there's just likely not much to talk about.
/r/seduction02/04/11 11:57 AM
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your writing/storytelling skills are great. thanks for this. you managed to not blow up anything and have an enjoyable date, that in itself is worth of contratulating. congrats.
/r/seduction02/04/11 11:30 AM
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What does "band tshirt" mean? Sorry poor English.
/r/seduction02/04/11 10:01 AM
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Wash once a month? Don't they end up smelling horrible?
/r/seduction02/04/11 09:45 AM
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Congrats. What i dont get is why you ask if it is alpha. Of course it is!
/r/seduction02/04/11 09:08 AM
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