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What is Red Pill. Red pill is not a group or organization it's a system of beliefs that pertain to men and women and the mating arena. Red Pill is an expose of female nature to otherwise deluded men - a wake up call. It's only "agenda" might be to inform men who would otherwise be cannon fodder in the sexual marketplace. What is Red Pill Rage: The initial shock of finding out how women really think about men, relationships and different TYPES of men feels like a betrayal. We feel we were lied to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:07 PM
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Of course it does. Women want THEIR benefits from the old code of chivalry but none of the responsibilities and restrictions. Men get to KEEP their responsibilities under chivalry, but have to give up any privileges. For women, equality is not true equity but a buffet where they get to pick and choose stuff from both new and old systems based on what benefits them. And because men desire women sexually more than the other way around, women get away with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:05 PM
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Doesn't seem so. Most single women seem to think most men are pervy and creepy, and sometimes the only reason is because she doesn't find him attractive. Many women seem entitled to the things men do for society while downplaying men's role in society completely. Then, women IN relationships seem to be - for the most part - constantly complaining about SOMETHING. It seems their priority is picking apart and critiquing their relationship, their man, his behavior, his habits, his friends, his flaw…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:22 PM
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Men with devouring mothers Men with devouring mothers are damaged in every way a human being can be damaged. I had one. The fact I get along in society as well as I do is a miracle. The fact I own things I do wrong, and strive to improve myself to be less of an ass, and still GAF despite a strong desire not to, is a miracle. When people ask me about my childhood I say: "Well, I didn't shoot up my high school, so there's that." There is no mother more damaging than a devouring mother. An absent m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:51 PM
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"Actions have consequences" is not a threat. The left uses it all the time. If they're doing it, it's gotta be okay. Don't worry. Keep on keeping on. Besides, women have morning panels on talk shows where they blame all their dating and mating woes on "crappy men" and fist bump each-other while drinking coffee and wearing glittery dresses that are way too tight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:29 AM
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That's because the equivalent of a woman's skin suit is a speedo showing a perfect outline of a man's junk - a garment that if he wore in 2023, would result in a SWAT team showing up. If men could wear clothing that was as revealing as women's, women would be staring too. If men have to wear big baggy pants to the pool now, why don't women have to cover their crotches?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:53 AM
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ND guys need to make an app for this. Red light / green light sort of thing. Or "warmer / colder".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:36 AM
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The medicine is pills. Red Pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:32 AM
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This. Go to a swimming pool now and try to film your kid doing a dive off a diving board. I said WHAT? My ex here is filming our kid doing her first dive! She said "Nope. Other kids are in the shot. You'd need written consent from every parent of every kid in the pool. Put the camera down." I was like... What the serious fuck? (I was so happy it was my ex filming and not me. Other moms looked shocked too.) Fucking Karens are making the world suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:00 PM
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Hahaha. Gym staff are like bouncers at clubs, where "being a bit too creepy" or getting complaints from women is cause for ejection. LOL. I'm sure dudes have been ejected from clubs for simply asking the wrong woman to dance. Just like dudes have been shunned from clubs for similar reasons. I bet hot guys never get kicked out of gyms for "here let me help you with that". I work out at home. So good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:55 PM
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Chemistry is not the same as sustained attraction which is why the “alpha” doesn’t always win and women often end up with men who many don’t view as attractive. The big question is... which one do we have? A. Different men theory. Chad has one use (situationships), Brad has another (relationships). B. Men are equal theory. Alpha/Beta doesn't exist. She simply could not lock down Chad for a relationship and has to settle for Brad. In case A, she changes from seeking a Chad to seeking a Brad. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:42 PM
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Interesting. I never thought these needed to be intentional in all cases. I thought they happened organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:39 PM
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Or maybe he was simply too afraid to move in, or move closer, or simply touch her (appropriately of course). It's a bit of a delicate dance, but if you know what you're watching for it's not that difficult. A guy who's too much in his own head and unable to observe the cues... well he's going to struggle. And maybe get some bad reactions... Back in the day, I knew how the night was going to go within 5 minutes with about 80% certainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:20 PM
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Well thank you. This is nice - as nice as downvotes from triggered leftists! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:17 PM
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Yes these ideas are likely dated. Now, it's a texting / SMS / Dating app game of cat and mouse and "who's interested the least" aka implying higher innate value by playing hard to get. Interestingly, people still fall for the hard-to-get routine that serves as a facade for quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:58 PM
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That's why drinking is popular in so many cultures. It's more than a social lubricant. It's a mating ritual lubricant. Men's innate ego is to believe he is sexy and over-estimate his SMV. Women's innate ego is to believe something similar. She believes she's entitled to the pick of the litter and must date down and settle. I guess, in that sense, the man is settling too. Humans need to have this innate narcissism/ego to get into the mating arena. Those who do not have a slightly false sense of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:56 PM
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Equal opportunity didn't work. Because discrimination. Or so we're told. Equity is the new game plan. But, to have equity we need to make people the same. Some differences between men and women will always exist - such as career direction and type of work. Men predominately like working with things and systems, and women predominately like working with people. In countries with most "diversity" and women's rights, these differences show up more rather than less. Given the ability to choose (a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:32 PM
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I knew a Chad type who said that HE believed most shy/nervous guys fell down on "closing the deal". I believe what he meant is that the guy had two objectives. Create the right amount tension. Give indications of sexual interest. Close the deal. His belief is that too many men don't do well with #3 because they're afraid. I think it's actually a test. She could be subconsciously testing to see if he's picking up on her facial expressions and body language. Is she being playful? Is her body langu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:21 PM
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Alpha: He has innate value and is a sought after man. Maybe not her first choice for a relationship, but he's her first choice for "chemistry". Beta: Has to negotiate his mate value by proving he can compensate for his "meh ok" physical attributes. Not first choice, but "good relationship material". That's my take on the Red Pill alpha vs. beta No, we're not wolves. These are names for archetypes that describe human, not wolf, behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:17 PM
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Gap. Overlap. Venn Diagram. They're all simultaneously at play. Some want to believe humans are now above all aspects of their biological animal instincts. Those are a group of people I like to call wrong. I think males who suddenly lost their "need to fuck" would be shocked at how much time, money and energy they free up if that pursuit is just abandoned. Not to mention the needless bullshit, drama and social situations that can just be noped on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:32 PM
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You don't think those scratch marks... was them trying to get away, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:33 AM
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I got with a few younger ones during my post-divorce mid-life crisis. There were no complaints. From the participants, anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:25 AM
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It's the same reason why women (especially here) get so outraged when older men get with younger women. And why packs of cougars hiss venom at younger, thinner, women in nightclubs. Funny example: 24 y.o. woman: We're so mature. Guys are age are like teenagers. Ew. 35 y.o. woman: She's only 24! She's just a baby! You're a predator! Her brain is still developing for like a lot of months! Something is not adding up. She's too mature for men her own age but then any guy mature enough to be with her…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:47 PM
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Why wouldn't they be happy? - Getting educated, degrees, good jobs. - Independent, don't need a man - Have child support, affirmative action, all kinds of social safety nets - Can get their sexual needs met online discretely - Can get a betabux even if she already has kids - Has high chance of good outcome in divorce/family law court. - Doesn't get labelled a failure if/when she ends her marriage. Sounds pretty good to me. Of course, some women think they're still oppressed, probably because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:42 PM
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It's not "social or biological or evolutionary" It's all three. They're not mutually exlusive. You've C'd no V here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:36 PM
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Yes, attraction is nuanced. But much of it is based on social and biological evolution. My view is based on things like parental investment theory and subsequent to that, the Dual Mating Strategy (or conundrum) women find themselves in. Which, by the way, they have succeeded in overcoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:59 PM
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Let me fix your fix. Men who think a Beta Bux transactional relationship in 2023 is AT ALL a good idea are so dumb maybe there is no helping them. If she is not hot for you, then skip the transactional Beta Bux crap. The chances of that ending badly are just way too high today. Sexless marriage. Divorce. Or just day-to-day unhappiness with a spouse-turned-bitchy roommate. 50% of marriages end in divorce, she initiates 80% of the time, and how many of the 50% that don't end SHOULD? Beta Bux is Ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:04 PM
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Disagree. Once a man puts a ring on it, gets the mortgage and makes a couple of babies with her, he's got ZERO bargaining power and could become an indentured child-support-paying homeless slave overnight. Whether her "reasons" for leaving are valid, or she just wants to upgrade or marriage lost it's appeal, doesn't matter. The only way for a man to retain his leverage is to keep the carrot dangling 4 inches in front of her nose. Get a vasectomy and a forever girlfriend. This is the way. Just do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:01 PM
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Society likes young people. Society like pretty people. Society likes successful people. Society rewards people who we deem to be ideal. Society does not like people who represent mediocrity, or ugliness, or more to the point, mortality. Society wants to conveniently ignore mortality and adore people who represent youth and joy and abundance. I don't throw away people because they are less attractive or old. But society does. Take it up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:34 PM
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Dominant men have been 'en vogue' since man painted on cave walls. CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:31 PM
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Seen in many times on social media. Women standing around filming: "Won't somebody do something?" "Won't somebody some man do something?" There, fixed that for them. I'm not a trained first responder. I don't have a vest or a gun. And until I do, the MOST I owe anybody is a 911 call from a safe place. If people won't feed my kids after I become a dead hero, then sorry. Fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:30 PM
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The number of self-professed Marxists and Communists in post secondary humanities departments is anything but milquetoast. It's more akin to stale bread in a bread line.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:02 AM
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If I had a dollar for every commie lover who thinks the world would be a better place under fucking Stalin's hammer and sickle. Most people like this are deluded college kids and people indoctrinated by Marxist and Communist professors in over-priced humanities programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:26 AM
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I invite lovers of Marxism and Communism to take the first one-way flight to China. Why topple capitalism? There are countries where everybody lives in equal squalor already. Save for the elites living in gross excess, which all governments have. The difference in capitalism is that you can work had and not be among the poorest of the poor. And only the poorest of the poor seem to resent that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:40 AM
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I think abortions should be 100% legal everywhere. If she's Liberal or Communist or Marxist we should crowd fund the abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:36 AM
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Your privileges are living in a world that sees you as a human not a sex object. Your privilege is been seen as a human with innate value even if you're unemployed and broke and living in a box, where a man is worth nothing unless he "brings stuff to the table". Men are only valued for what they do and what they have. You don't like being a sex object? I don't like being a resource object.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:35 AM
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Men who spend time with their kids so rarely when they do it feels like baby sitting are bad fathers. I have my kids 50% of time, the ex, the other 50%. Usually when women marry a Beta Bux who thinks his paycheck entitles him to a bangmaid there are signs. If he's not doing his share around the house, does she really expect him to do his share of the parenting?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:50 AM
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I don't hurt anyone. I'm better than average. And if someone is on fire, I will help by telling them to stop drop and roll, or I will call the FD, or heck - I will even pee on them if my phone is dead! And if a guy has a gun I'll say LOOK OUT THAT GUY HAS A GUN while I run away to safety. See? I'm nice. I care about people*. \but there is fine print.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:26 PM
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Feminists, the ones I know who are vocal, say - They need to end Patriarchy - They need to topple capitalism. - They need to be Marxist Robin Hoods. (Steal from rich, give to poor). They're just indoctrinated humanities students. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:23 PM
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She won't. I don't recommend for men to stop simping to "get women". I recommend men stop simping to save time, money and energy. Not everything is about women. Good looking women will always be awash in privilege and safety nets.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:20 PM
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Oh, well in that case I'm super fucking nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:30 PM
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I've been woman-free for almost 10 years now. Five stars. Recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:28 PM
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I never said men did it to improve social status. I said that used to be a perk, and now it's not. I have no idea, honestly, why any man would get married today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:25 PM
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And you deserve a kick from karma for doing it to someone who would never do it to you. This is very simple ethics and logic at play. Karma is a belief system for people too cowardly to deliver proper payback. There is no Karma. People do shitty things to others all the time, and if they don't get a blast in the face or a prison sentence, they'll continue to exploit and hurt others. I never rely on Karma to deal with people who need dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:09 PM
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I almost got addicted to Minecraft. True story.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:06 PM
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I don't owe people nice. I owe them their basic rights, tolerance and to basically leave them alone. At best, all I owe people is my complete indifference. I get nice, I give nice. Nice is not owed. That said, I don't expect nice either. Especially from Karens, SJWs or other woke types.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:05 PM
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Yes, it is. Becoming married does not give a man higher social status like it once did. It actually reduces a man's status. Women's status improves. Stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:02 PM
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This is no longer a problem for me. It's a life-changing freedom. Plus it's fun to watch women's faces as they find out they are literally powerless over me. Especially good looking ones who go around expecting simp behavior. But, most men are trying to put up with all this shit while managing what amounts to a pussy addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:27 PM
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In the real world, being a good husband and father gets you respect, 100% false. Fathers are cast as buffoons now - just an additional child "supermom" has to look after. "Women don't need no man" applies here. Of course, she has him around for unknown reasons. Without his paycheck she's nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:23 PM
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Women can't blame men for: The simping they choose to do, and the crap behavior they tolerate. A "fuck it" approach to life because society is anti-male now. Women's base instincts, exaggerated by social media and 3rd wave feminism. What they find attractive, since it's based in evolution. Men can't blame men for: No longer giving a fuck about the rigged dating/relationship/marriage game. Withdrawing where labelled as predators, avoiding needless #metoo scenarios. Playing along with OLD/hookup c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:21 PM
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Banged over 40 different women. That required some dating to accomplish. Seeing as how none of the women were directly paid for the experience. If you don't count food, drink and bullshit conversation...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:52 PM
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LOL. Keep dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:49 PM
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Men want power over women for sex? Women want power of men for resources? We had a good thing going with marriage and a nice transactional trade thing. Now it's a tire fire. I don't want much of anything from women, and so long as they generally leave me alone, IDGAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:40 PM
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I think women will take attention from wherever they can get it. But yes, getting attention from high-value men is going to be the best kind. I ask my sons why they regularly ignore some girls at their school, and brush off invitations to join their social media circles or "follow them". Seems like "social media influencer" is like some new obsession and dream career. One son explained to me, laughing: "They just want attention." I was like: "Jesus Christ, I wish I was this Red Pilled back in hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:33 PM
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We've had Red Pill for this for 15 years now. Red Pill is mainstream now. Leftists want to cast it all as "extremist behavior" but I don't think all the boys at my sons high school are extremists. I think of them as advanced young males.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:49 PM
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He's creepy. Fries and gravy is creepy. Bluegrass music is creepy. Yep, words quickly lose all meaning. "I was creeped out by....." These people are creeped out by something before they get out of bed in the morning. Young women are creeped out by everything, except their own toxic behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:48 PM
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- Get confirmation that your mainstream beliefs are "correct". - Get false validation. - Feel that you're morally superior and have "correct views". - Believe you're an arbiter of morality and warrior for social justice. - Endless supply of fist-bumps and likes (dopamine drip). In a word, automation of Karenhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:47 PM
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Anything a man says can be written off as misogyny. And hate against men labelled misandry is met with: "Misandry doesn't exist. Holders of unearned privilege cannot be oppressed."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:45 PM
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Police women's opinions? LOL. We legislate women's opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:43 PM
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Right, but rage bait and click bait sells.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:43 PM
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Women saying men lack accountability. LOLOLOLOL. Yep, I'm in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:40 PM
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Toxic masculinity: Gets men dying in wars. Makes men providing, working in mines and construction, and dying. Makes men kill themselves 3x as often as women. Makes men more likely to get killed by violence. Makes men more likely to get raped in prison Makes men more likely to compete with other men for female attention. Makes men thought of as expendable resources Makes men believe their safety is less important than women's. Makes men more likely to be homeless than women. Yeah, all those male …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:39 PM
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Hey now, some women have a fetish for morbidly obese grandpas. Let's just call them Kings for the sake of argument... Hahaha sarcasm / off
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:08 PM
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Naw you're wrong. Men are hornier than women, think of the physical sex act more than women, and place a greater emphasis on the physical (and visual/aesthetic) aspects of intimacy than women do. Men also compartmentalize better than women do, where women need more things to be balanced (emotionally, situationally) for sex to be desirable. Men can have a terrible day, and fight with their partner, but be DTF later that evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:07 PM
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Any living creature that say's it's a woman. C'mon, you know this. We studied. Oh damn. I used a pronoun without getting consent. FUCK! Any creature, alive or dead, claiming to be a woman is a woman. There. I fixed it. Did I pass? Am I ded? Am I banned? This is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:17 PM
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Women do actually want "soft" guys. But not soft in general, SOFT FOR THEM, and horrid to others. Giggle all you want. She doesn't want a soft man. She wants a man who occasionally puts down his sword and shield and delivers some tender "I love you's" while the right song is playing. She does NOT want a soft man. She wants a REAL MAN who is hard AF and occasionally acts mushy. You are right though - her needs are conflicting. She wants to try and squeeze vulnerability and emotionality out of a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:16 PM
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But it's still fun to watch the look on leftists faces when you ask them to define what a woman is, in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:12 PM
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Wrong. We need to double down on it. I think it's time to do the whole Opposite George thing. Every man with a functional brain and two working eyes can SEE the guys women get gaga for every day. Either be that guy, live in friend zones, or come here like a little incel b1tch and b1tch about women. Those are the choices. Well, there are others, but that's besides the point. Women say they want these soft, caring, open, vulnerable, sensitive, empathic dudes who are also (simultaneously) jacked, r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:27 AM
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Ah. It's just demographics. I thought it was a "we're not allowed to call men men and women women anymore" thing. Huh. Maybe I DO need to touch some grass. Or, snow as the case may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:47 AM
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Rarely do Blue Pillers or women on here acknowledge that abortion rights aren't a gendered issue. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:40 AM
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False. 100% false. They look at "average wage for all men" vs "average age for all women". They absolutely DO NOT only look at "wages for the exact same job". You're either lying or being intellectually dishonest. Bad look. And by looking at averages, they are looking across fields. Yes, oil field workers and miners make more than high-school grads reading books to kids in daycares. GASP. What oppression. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:57 PM
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The only time it's a problem when one person INTENDS to have celibacy and not even mention this to their partner. Or, turn the relationship sexless mid-way which is idiot and begging for a bad outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:14 PM
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Friendship is not the Plan B of rejected romantic intention. It's a possibly outcome, but expecting it is called entitlement. You don't owe those who reject you a default friendship position. Then again, a lot of women do soft-rejections using the word "Friend" when they really mean "fuck off". So, it backfires on them. Now they have a friendzone candidate hanging around. If she's not interested in exploiting such an arrangement, it's got to be a huge pain in the ass. Both genders lie and get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:10 PM
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No gotta check that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:40 AM
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I think we do have free will but we need to create constraints and limitations to have a fence to live inside of. Humans are creatures of pride, we all want to feel like we are special and matter for that is what keeps us functioning in the way we evolved to be. But we are not any more special than a rock on the ground. I think it's more to do with innate ego and ego defenses related to base instincts surrounding mating. Everybody believes their genetic material is good stuff that should be pass…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:39 AM
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Three. That I know of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:37 AM
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Women get more college degrees than men. That's a fact. How many of those degrees have a woman earning more than a STEM-field tech grad or tradesman is another matter. I know guys with 2 or 3 year tech diplomas or trades tickets who make $120-$150K a year. Not easy work, and it's in the field and sometimes in remote places. But it's serious cheddar. Contractors who own their own businesses can bank even more. As for wage gap, yep. Women taking time off for work is one factor. Choosing different …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:32 AM
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The winners will always have won because of some distinct thing that gave them an advantage. Otherwise they would not have won. Bah. Neo Marxist drivel. The only reason why I lost and they won is they have advantages, or I have disadvantages, or both. Bullshit. Sometimes people are better than me because they studied harder, or trained more, or stuck to their diets better. Sure, sometimes people have advantages, and sometimes people have challenges. But to say "losers always lose because the gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:16 PM
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Good Bot. Sheet music please.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:50 PM
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Losers always say the game was rigged. Winners always say they won fair and square. Good Lord, those could be song lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:36 PM
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It's not about winning it's about getting the highest score you can. Often it's about competing with yourself, i.e. "She was the best looking woman I've ever had." That woman could be a 7 or a 6 or even a three. But, it's still a competition. Like beating your own personal best lap time. The best competition is with yourself actually, because it makes you better than you were the day before. It's a LOT better than identifying as a 12 year old and kicking children's asses at competitive sport. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:34 PM
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Because the top guy gets all the top Azz. And top azz is the best thing a guy can ever get. Apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:32 PM
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Being in love doesn't mean a man is suddenly unconcerned with paternity. But, I see what you did there. Then again, guys who will probably end up being 40 year old virgins don't really have to worry about paternity either! ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:31 PM
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Here, let me help with the soundtrack for this... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=diYS8jyOcFc Probably NSFW...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:29 PM
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Yaaar. I've got me harpoon at the ready... yaaaar....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:27 PM
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"I don't have unrealistic standards. It's just that the men I deserve to be with are all taken and there are none left." Yep, whatever fuels that ongoing cognitive dissonance...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:27 PM
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You mean "Dayam I'm so hot. It's so hot out here."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:25 PM
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Well, occasionally people have non-sexual intimate relationships. The courts even recognize this from time to time. (A female caregiver claimed she was actually a de-facto common law partner of the female woman she was caring for because the friendship - emotional intimacy - they shared was deemed to meet the criterion for an "actual relationship".) There was a post somewhere (here? AITA?) where a woman wanted a platonic relationship and didn't know if she was obligated to tell her prospective p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:12 PM
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He doesn't want his pussy source to flee.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:08 AM
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Fuck me, it's so 100% not the same. That's like saying getting my dick sucked by an alligator is the same as getting my dick sucked by a college coed because it's a blow job in both cases. Totally not the same. You're hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:38 AM
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Hang on - waiting for results...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:36 AM
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I look like an oddly muscled aging office-worker-turned-psychopath. It's a good look, for someone who DGAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:36 AM
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They steal my semen when I pass out. I only consented to the drug use.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:29 AM
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I think it should be a law that the man gets a DNA sample from baby and can go into a room and get a test, or not, without anyone's knowledge or consent before signing a goddamned thing. There. Problem solved. Mommy doesn't feel like the whore she might be, and daddy doesn't have to worry about paying for some other asshole's kid. Face it. This is all about women concealing paternity fraud and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:38 AM
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You need to look up the word coercion in the dictionary. Any dictionary. Many people use that word today, and most don't know what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:34 AM
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Paying taxes for society's kids is not cheap. But paying exclusively for ONE SPECIFIC CHILD can bankrupt a dude. C'mon people. Perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:33 AM
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And men have always been able to cheat and father children with mistresses with no physical evidence of their offspring being developed- unlike women who carry pregnancy Right, but that's being an irresponsible ass, but not paternity fraud. How can you even make the comparison? They're two different things. If he said "Here, raise this other woman's child for 25 years..." Oh wow, imagine the pussy hat riots in the streets over THAT shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:31 AM
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Kind of hard to "do stuff" to a baby when you're not the father. What do you do at the hospital when the shove that paper in the man's face... HERE! SIGN HERE! SIGN IT SIGN IT!! DO IT! Guy's like "Bitch, please I'm just her Uber driver!" SIGN IT SIGN IT! lol. They are trained to get any living thing with two legs and a penis to sign the birth certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:30 AM
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Woa woa hold on now. It's not accusing her of being a lying cheating sociopath. It's just proving she isn't one. C'mon, show me ONE WOMAN who wouldn't snoop her partners phone if left unattended. ONE. JUST ONE. You can't. You would all snoop. Every last one of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:28 AM
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So which is it? Women outperforming men? Or wage gap? You get to pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:14 AM
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This is a non-argument. You're not comparing hetero-to-hetero sexuality. Saying "men can sell sex like women can if they can go gay". Yeah, I can live on grass too if I turn into a cow. This is like telling women to try women if they think there are not enough ambitious uni-grad men to go around. Yeah, let's try that and see if your argument still sticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:18 PM
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Most people don’t need protection. And if they do, guns are a lot more effective than muscles. Bear spray is good too :-) But muscles are nice to look at regardless I am a bigger guy and only look good when I am jacked and lose weight. I've been on a fitness regimen for almost a year now and am in better shape than a lot of guys half my age. But I thought women were into hipster guys in skinny pants now... I don't work out to look good. Well, not primarily anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:08 PM
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Yeah, but it's what the masturbation device can get a person. It gets a person stuff, and preferential treatment. Many women exploit this. For women who don't, can't or won't, perhaps it's not a privilege then. It's kind of like me saying that I don't appreciate or use aspect of my white male privilege. Let's see how that goes over...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:51 PM
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The Supreme Court actually ruled that the police don’t have a duty to protect citizens. Just look at Castle Rock vs Ramirez and also what happened in Uvalde. The armed cops just stood around outside waiting while the kids were massacred inside the school. Meanwhile there were unarmed parents (male and female) who were breaking into the school past the police to try to save their kids. So... women protect themselves now? LOL. Sure throw a kids backpack at the guy. A lot of men get off on playing …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:49 PM
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'I was a bit drunk and horny. I met this gorgeous guy I was planning to take home. Then he had to open his mouth and ruin it all.' Well, given than for an average woman there is a thousand or so deal breakers, a guy looking for some action had best keep his mouth shut. That's funny though. Be gorgeous. Be quiet. Those guys who can't get laid were doing it wrong. hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:36 PM
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Married people lie. People cannot be honest about the drudgery of marriage. They can't be honest about the rigors of raising kids either. If you are honest, they will say you're a bad person. Nobody wants to be called a bad person. Myself, I don't give a fuck what people think of me or what they call me. All I know is that for ME, having a female partner around would have a few benefits and a page long list of negatives - some of them pretty significant. Men joke about the "ball and chain" becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:33 PM
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Some of the innate value men have is from being actual human beings with dreams, aspirations, thoughts, needs and emotions that go beyond horny or angry. Many women only see "horny or angry". They think taking two fucking years picking shit for a wedding (an over-priced over-hyped dinner in a hall) is sensible, but him spending time in a garage on a legit past-time is "silly boy stuff" and a waste of money. When I see the crap my attached guy friends take over their interests I just want to barf…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:57 PM
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But if she needs him, she's not going to divorce him and take him for all he's worth. Yep. This. Men know they need to be needed or she's probably not sticking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:54 PM
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And I've been telling men for years to NEVER sign up to be a beta provider in a transactional relationship. Because that always ends up in one very large very painful transaction for him: Divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:52 PM
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Are the women who push for affirmative action open to dating persons from marginalized groups? I think inclusivity and equity go straight out the fucking window come time to pick people to sleep with and live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:51 PM
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You don't need them to. You have big-daddy-gubmint and the police for that now. Your man doesn't even need to lay a hand on you or even raise his voice. Now, of course, when there is a noise downstairs at 2:00am it's the man going down there... As for men not providing, well, that's on them. Women sometimes get lazy men out of their league into their beds with promiscuity. If a woman's fuck buddy is getting free rent, well that's kind of her stupidity now isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:49 PM
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#2 is standard 3rd Wave Feminist speaking point. Rules for men that LITERALLY don't apply to women. Only men can have "fetishes" when it comes to inter-racial dating. When women do it, it's empowering, amazing, inclusive and awesome. 100% double standard. You're just not paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:41 PM
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Men, especially average men, have always had to be dancing monkeys to get women's attention. This is a female privilege whether women want to acknowledge it or not. With all the push for equality, the impetus for women to seek out the kind of men THEY want is lackluster at best. Women still expect men to do the heavy lifting in dating. Which is fine. But the interesting part is this finicky Karenesque dance men are supposed to do now - to be able to read women's minds to know whether THEY INDIVI…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:32 PM
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Beta's are dancing monkey providers. They can't provide the genetic stuff. They have to provide everything else. If anyone has read enough here, we know women say this about betas: "If he's not making my life better in pretty much every way a good life is quantifiable, then why would I have him around?" Notice that whether or not his life is actually better doesn't cross her mind. She is his BIG PRIZE and just having her around is "the better". And from what I've seen and experienced myself, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:21 PM
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Women can, yes. But they don't need to in order to have value because their value is innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:43 AM
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Well, the reality that many "progressives" are choosing to be cat and dog parents and breeding themselves out of existence... that's almost a debate for a different sub. But yes, it's going on and in Canada here, the solution is mass immigration. Sorry, what we're DOING is mass immigration no matter what the solution is. Or what the actual problem is. I forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:11 AM
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Men have innate value it’s just not a financial provider. They can provide many things that have nothing to do with money or need. Ah, so they're providers then. Yes, that's what I said. So, if they don't provide these other things besides money do they still have INNATE value. Innate means they can provide nothing and still feel entitled to a relationship, as a woman could.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:29 AM
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Red Pill says that: Women don't need men for protection, they now have police and government. Women don't need men for providing, they now have careers. Women don't need men to lead they are voting and changing government to align with their more socialist / communist leanings. Red Pill, as always, is correct. Smart men are using this to their advantage and laughing. Lesser men are online whining about it incessantly. Some just munch on their popcorn and watch it unfold with morbid curiosity. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:40 AM
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That's because as a woman you can't understand what it's like being a human being with no innate value. Let's call it the single biggest female privilege and move on... For many men, being needed and exchanging 'stuff for need' is their best - if not only - shot at a primary relationship and find this elusive "love". Outsourcing of labor jobs and taking away men's ability to provide has really hurt the poorest and least educated men when it comes to relationships. Men who can still help women "l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:27 AM
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This has literally nothing to do with what I just wrote..the point was that chasing women after a certain point is stupid and a waste of time. Chasing after a woman can be seen as either a complete waste of time, which it can be, or a very noble life's purpose for a man, which it can be. Example 1. Complete waste of time. If I just focus on myself, master my mind, physical body and business acumen, I can be a success according to both my own personal definition AND society's definition simultane…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:13 AM
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Make all relationships devoid of physical sex for one year and report back. Men talk a big game about sex being SO LOW IN IMPORTANCE than other stuff. Yet, when their relationship becomes near sexless or sexless, it's as serious for them as a cancer diagnosis. So JFL all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:36 PM
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I think some people CAN be happy with this new arrangement. Personally, I think it's more of a "fuck buddies who share rent" thing, but that's just me. I believe people needing each-other was a feature, not a bug. Myself, when I am being really honest, since I don't NEED a partner having one around is a colossal pain in the ass and far more effort than it's worth. If we got rid of some of the antiquated divorce and family law and made things TRULY equitable, I think things would be just fine. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:33 PM
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And lots of people prefer to date outside of their race. Is it a fetish if a lady prefers black men? There is a lot of gray area here. If preferring height/weight/hair/eyes is ok, I am OK with preferring other things too. What I learned here on PPD is: If a man prefers only Asian women he's a "racial fetishist" and a creep. If a woman prefers only Black men she's empowered and we need to MIND OUR OWN BUSINESS as this is just a harmless preference. So, the usual double standards necessarily apply…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:27 PM
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Hahaha this is gold. Yep, true Red Pill will tell men that the SMP is a brutal market place that is rigged AF and working perfectly. FWIW, many women don't want to complete either. Some women think staying under 160 pounds is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:46 PM
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Tesla is not a typical man. Most men just want to earn enough to have food, shelter and get laid once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:44 PM
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Society now believes the toxic masculinity that built all this and got us all here is no longer needed. Watching with popcorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:43 PM
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Yabbut. If you take away this prize, men don't want to do anything. Women shriek in horror: You mean you don't give a real fuck about society and are really doing all this for the cookie?!??!!?" Men: Yes. No cookie no care. Men like sex. It's a good incentive. Short term, saying "Fuck men" has worked. Long term I don't think it will. Societies where the men have disengaged will fail and fall. But this, too, is a feature and not a bug. This whole thing might be the cure for what is ultimately a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:42 PM
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Feminism would only be found in comic books and dystopian novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:37 PM
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Have you read about the bridezillas on r/amitheasshole? Women get mad a firetruck made noise going past her ceremony because it was on the way to extinguish a burning school full of children. I mean, THIS WAS HER DAY ffs. Stupid children. Relationships have ALWAYS been about female solipsism. Remember Happy wife happy life? That's like a solipsism and narcissism on rye sandwich. Maybe a little mayo would help. What describes "the relationship is ultimately about her happiness" better than happy …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:34 PM
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There is a warped perception of reality where people believe approaching is some sort of cardinal sin when really it's no big deal. Slut shaming has been eradicated and replaced with creep shaming. Low-value men are literally scared into not approaching. Men's insecurities have been weaponized by feminism to give women a sense of freedom from being seen as attractive by unattractive men. Women are now able to live in a constructed reality where this unpalatable (read: ew gross) attraction simply…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:23 PM
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Ok I'll bite.Yes, you can say this with perfect utility if you sort for things that people GENERALLY like in other people. A person can have a personality that is (literally) statistically good or bad. That does not mean that a SPECIFIC person would find that SPECIFIC personality to be "good or bad", but it's definitely easy enough to sort between good and bad personalities. Of course, "good or bad" is a dichotomy where personalities are probably better categorized as part of a gradient. Like, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:15 PM
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I've never had a baby scare, but if I did, the morning after pill exist. I also make it clear that I'm anti-natalist. So if she gets pregnant, it's either abortion or she'll be a single mother. Do you worry that she'll be all "Shrug. Child support."? I do know of guys who DGAF because they're career criminals or just chronic losers who live off-grid and don't have an income to garnish. So let's assume this is NOT you and you have something to lose. I like your attitude but what about child suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:07 PM
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How is this a CMV? Anyways... The answer lies in basic Red Pill terminology. A woman who wants only a casual bang situationship does not need a partner who is stable, agreeable, employed, or a good prospect for commitment or parental investment. She knows by looking at him what his genetic make-up is and that's what she is after. Subconsciously, she wants his genetic material up in her baby baker. The urges she has to do this are primordial brain-stem level urges and anyone arguing against this …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:02 PM
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Of course not. Not sexual attraction anyways. I find all kinds of people to have very attractive, nice, kind, gregarious and pleasant personalities. But, if they are sexual non-persons to me, it's a mute point. Very often you'll see people who have some serious physical drawback (ugly, obese) want to focus on personality. Well, duh. It's like the guy with a fake degree who wants his prospective employer to focus on experience over accreditation. We would all favor rules or exceptions in the SMP …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:55 PM
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If it's of great benefit to vet people based on big red flags. Mental health issues are a big predictor in relationships success. If you want a good relationship with a long term partner, and you got to see their medication history and it's covered in every kind of anti-depressant, anti-psychotic, and anxiolytic you have a person who is struggling with mental health on an ongoing basis. Could be from serious trauma as a kid, horrible upbringing, terribly family life, maladaptive responses or jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:45 PM
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So, we need to remove seats on busses and in food courts where a man might be facing a woman... good to know. Or maybe we can just blind the ugly men, and give them canes and dogs. Or, maybe we can tell women if they want privacy to stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:32 PM
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No, say: "You mean, just people, right?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:30 PM
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Yes, and women lie down and men lie up. Because men are still rewarded for high scores where women are punished (socially), despite all the good anti-slut-shaming stuff our feminist friends have accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:29 PM
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Interesting. We always assume evolution can only occur very very slowly, but this is really only limited to biological evolution. Social evolution can occur in months... if there is revolution. Look at the concept of family. Now it's common place for kids to have parents living in two different homes. Most people will say they never had this intention going into a "modern" marriage but a very large chunk of marriages end up this way. Some believe the "family unit" was something that was actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:26 PM
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It's a structural problem baked in to the way our societies have evolved, that have been exacerbated by things like dating apps and hypergamy. No, it's a very recent social shift which abandoned what can be called "social evolution" to go over to this "whole new thing" that doesn't need nearly as many average ordinary men for sex and reproductin. Don't blame social evolution for this. Blame social revolution. Feminism. Now, many would argue that it's been all great for women, and they can make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:09 PM
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Moms lie to their sons. Parents in general. They'd rather avoid difficult conversations and just patronize their own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:11 PM
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So what's your hypothesis? All the women are just too good for all the men now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:10 PM
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If every ex is crazy, and he's REALLY REALLY attracted to YOU.... Just sayin. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:09 PM
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Women have reasons for ending up with trash. They don't make intelligent choices and instead follow "the tingles" They are not as qualified for a higher value man as they think they are. (Maybe this one) they have severe daddy issues. When the sought-after sex can't find a reasonable partner, it's kind of on them. Besides, when men struggle, people say "you're doing it wrong." So, equality: She's doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:59 PM
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Nope. Average women believe they are entitled to a very high-value rare man and "won't ever settle". They're in a grocery store, but they want lobster bisque and beef wellington in a Michelin star restaurant for the price of a McDonald's combo. It's okay though. Women being forever displeased with the quality of men in their actual need is a feature not a bug. From a reproductive standpoint. From that standpoint, the system is working as designed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:48 PM
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Women want to put their sexuality on open display and then say who should and should not be viewing it. They say it's self-expression and "only for them", yet they slather it all over social media. Only Fans gals will sell pictures of their butt holes to teenage boys, but want legal action when these images reach the wrong parts of their social circles or worse, potential or existing employers. We've seen many school teachers get sent packing because of their online behavior. They think what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:39 PM
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Red Pill concerns itself with the mating arena being bullshit. I kind-of think all of society and 90% of what people chase everyday is bullshit. I've never been a fan of social status or "chasing the stuff that people chase". I've always been an outsider looking in. Like a man, at a zoo, looking through the bars of a large cage, watching the monkeys fling turds at one another. Am I better than them? Naw. I'm just on the other side of the cage and have less turds on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:58 AM
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Feminists celebrate female promiscuity. (Make women more like men to end sexual discrimination). Women still socially gate keep women's sexuality. (Don't give away sex to low value men and lower the street value of sex.) This is a women's problem created by different groups of women with different agendas. Sincerely, Man watching with popcorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:36 PM
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I've heard it argued here that Red Pill is an amoral theory. Not immoral, but amoral. It's objective, or it's supposed to be. However, it quickly devolves into the "and society is doomed - enjoy the decline." Now, I myself believe this is happening, but not women, or feminism or Blue Pill or online dating or "cock carousels" are causing it. I believe what Red Pillers are witnessing are mere symptoms of a much larger, over-arching problem. And then it goes all Black Pill so I'll just stop there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:33 PM
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That's not the correct analogy. Here is the correct analogy: Starving to death in a grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:49 AM
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I've seen guys who have been told to be themselves who are not successful. I think, "Bro, for Chrissakes. Don't BE YOURSELF. BE ANYTHING ELSE." Yeah, I get what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:29 AM
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Proud fuckapple guy. I have one USB-C charger and it charges everything in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:28 AM
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They’ll never admit they weren’t good enough to get what they want. Well, they might think "I get what I want, or I choose nothing." I knew a young lady who preferred to take the bus because she was too embarrassed to drive her parents older car. Men do this too. I know myself, I'd rather die single and alone than be anywhere physically near a woman I'm not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:24 AM
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They said: Women cheat by putting themselves in situations to attract men, and thus, cheat by receiving attention. You said: Women receiving unwanted attention is cheating 💀😂 I say: Not all attention is unwanted. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:21 AM
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I still love the few times I openly flat-out rejected a woman and her response landed somewhere between shock and rage. Like how fucking dare you reject me? There is this ugly goop below the dark waters of society where men are somehow supposed to be elated to just get ANY female attention. It's definitely a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:19 AM
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I fucked up from the get go and it was just a slow-burning tire fire after that. I couldn't barely handle being married with all of the big family shit on her side, and when the kids came I was beyond overwhelmed. You can't hide that no matter how many "good things" you do. I've learned some people should just not be in relationships. Other men - they either REALLY REALLY like being in them, or they're amazingly good at hiding the shit I could not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:16 AM
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NARPMALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:13 AM
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Do you really believe that? Come on. How many fat people want to only date fat people? Average and thin men date fat women all the time. Fat women openly say they won't date another fat person. Why? Average and thin men are available to them to date. So, why should she stop stuffing the Sausage McMuffins in there? There is no incentive. Now a fat man who is alone and sexless... There's some incentive right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:11 AM
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Not all males were men, but all men were males.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:06 AM
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If by kiss a lot of frogs you mean "fuck a lot of hot unavailable guys with plenty of options" then... sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:04 AM
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Being single and happy isn't brave. It's the easy way out. Men just think they'll die without sex, and the reality is they will not. It's like the fat kid who realizes he won't die without cake. It's doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:02 AM
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Women want you to be authentic. So they can more efficiently vet men. That's why. "Just be yourself" is one's own mother's pitch for Team Woman. She won't even pill her owned damned sons and tell THEM the truth. The Bra Code is strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:57 AM
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I think some of Red Pill does focus on PUA speaking points. Red Pill GENERALLY talks about the kinds of things women GENERALLY find attractive in men. PUA is a subset of these claims, saying that a woman's attraction cues can be somehow exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:56 AM
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They say you don't know someone until you divorce them. Turns out my ex is not such a bad person. Then again, we changed at least once over as people when we were married and at least two times over since. One thing, looking back, we had no business getting married to each-other and in my case, no business getting married to anyone. Definitely going the "get old and die alone" route. Sounds so peaceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:53 AM
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I GAF about how happy women in general are as much as I GAF about how happy men in general are. And that would be: DGAF. Humans seem to be regressing into materialistic, superficial, individualistic mass consumers. People who subscribe to these heathen lifestyles deserve to be miserable. Unless I'm wrong and we get to bring all of the shiny crap with us when we die.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:51 AM
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Everybody Lies - Gregory House MD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:48 AM
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I think I'm a little statistic. Or at least, on the distribution...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:47 AM
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Any feminist or profems are burned at stake. Well duh. WITCHES. C'mon. Party like it's 1692.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:47 AM
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This is the first (and last) time in my life I will hear someone say that men care about what kind of phone the woman they are interested in has. In fact, if she was the perfect women, he'd probably switch phones over-night if it streamlined communications.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:21 PM
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There's even been prominent women social media influencers who have recommended that men should hide their Android phone on a first date because it could hurt their standing with their date. People who are social media influences should be hiding what they do for a "living". Aka, have a self-made reality TV show called "narcissists in cars getting coffee".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:20 PM
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She can wear Walmart shit as long as it looks nice on her and is form fitting and she's in good shape. A size 4 top from Walmart will always be nicer than a size 14 from a designer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:18 PM
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They don't take criticism well...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:17 PM
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I almost told clients sending me HEIC files in an engineering environment: "We don't have iphones here. Please send photos in a standard format." Of course, you can't say that to clients. HEIC converters and viewers came out within weeks... Apple can't even agree on an image file standard with the rest of the world. Hey a new phone is coming out. Better be prepared to throw away all the chargers you paid $200 each for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:17 PM
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I wasn't saying liberal women should get with conseravtive men. I did say that as they get older, their political leanings might move more towards the middle. What I DID say, as well, is that this "Liberal men good Conservative man bad" crap young college women spew is based on young people in mindlessly Liberal environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:21 PM
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Hey watch this. See what I did there...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:06 AM
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Conservative men are not on campus luring gullible women on the premise they are progressive and feminist. Men are men. As former campus feminists what they think about the liberal men who were liberally fucking them...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:28 AM
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Will you be my friend? I could use a friend today. (❁´◡`❁)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:08 AM
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All I am going to say is that I'm kicking some serious ass in the 5-7 year old soccer league. Whiny little shits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:06 AM
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Never said they weren't. I think I was NOT saying conservative men are not successful. Double negative intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:53 AM
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They will, once they need men who are productive and successful. I know many "formerly liberal" woman who needed to partner with more conservative leaning and successful men. Most women in college are not looking at men's financial prospects yet. As soon as they are out of college, this will be a priority. One woman said it best: "My feminist friends, all talking throughout college about equality and money not being a factor, dropped that shit like it's hot when they graduated and went shopping …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:55 PM
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I don't think it's fair or unfair. I think it's necessary from a sociobiological perspective and good for "human offspring" - kids. The dual mating strategy, often part of studies around parental investment, are valid. She wants (a) a man with good genetics and (b) a man who will stick around and protect and provide and help with child rearing. Because Man A is in demand sexually, he is less likely to invest in parenting of his offspring. These are very often not the same man, and that's ok. She…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:31 PM
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No. The best thing we can do is "Pill" young men to kill the dying marriage institution that some men still believe is viable in this social climate. Traditional transactional relationships are a losing game for men today. She has all the rights and privileges of both modernity and tradition. He's got all the responsibilities of both. Women are strong and independent? Excellent. Men who still try to lead with "resources for love" are idiots who deserve their own demise and exploitation. My sons …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:26 PM
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Even if I could stomach the idea of dating a "far left" or "progressive left" woman, which most are, there is no way in hell any of them would be seen anywhere near me given my political beliefs and my unwavering insistence that I don't water down my beliefs or stay silent for anyone. Conservative men who have "communist" wives and girlfriends make me laugh. They should be educating these women. Not fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:21 PM
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They are not dating. They are not being sport-fucked. They're in situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:19 PM
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Young men in liberal arts programs call themselves feminists while they spike college women's drinks with drugs and rape them. Go listen to feminists tell you how "successful" the liberal boys are. They manipulate women 100x more than any conservative guy. Conservative men are open about their politics. Liberal men are often weasels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:18 PM
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Estrogen is the most dangerous mind altering substance on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:54 AM
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Yeah, she's got a bit of that whole Me Show thing going on...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:52 AM
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I think one or both of them cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:29 AM
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Of course you wouldn't like that. Only men need to endure the pain of the mating ritual that is really a sad job interview about his "worth" and what he brings to the table. Except your lucky husband Labradoodle you have there! :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:15 AM
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They have kids. I couldn't cram a month's worth of parenting and husbanding and sexing into two days. This guy is a machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:10 AM
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Oh for fucks sakes did I misgender someone again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:10 AM
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Sorry it's Becky I need to stop drinking at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:07 AM
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The man you have? Jesus Christ you make him sound like a Labradoodle. I'm not talking about you anymore. Honestly. I am saying in general that for men success is pretty much unanimously a good thing. But, for women, it can narrow their pool of eligible candidates. Also, some women get confused because they think being successful compensates for being unattractive. It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:06 AM
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Where did you get anything about sex in what I just posted? Seriously. Where. "The table" is about resources and mate value. Sex is only a part of that, at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:01 AM
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No I have a major need to do that. Get out of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:59 AM
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Filling in the big blanks your post left? Yeah. That was it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:57 AM
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Men are the majority of STEM fields. Feminists want more women in STEM fields. They are not so concerned about the fewer men in medical fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:55 AM
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I know one couple where he works out of town in remote locations and sends home big checks as he makes about $160K a year. They never see eachother. I'd be amazed if they each don't have side pieces or even some "agreement". Why be in a relationship where you see the person 2 days a month. I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:46 AM
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Bi's have twice the chance of getting a date on a Friday night...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:44 AM
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Married woman talking about ending up on the dating market. This dude needs a divorce lawyer... she's already thinking about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:43 AM
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Ironically, being a super successful woman can actually be a detriment. The man you deserve might just want someone cute to have sex with. Unless you're also cute. Then no man is qualified to date you. Then you just have to find a love in Jesus. Or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:42 AM
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Woman: What do you bring to the table though? Man: What do YOU bring?!? Woman: I am the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:41 AM
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Settle down Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:40 AM
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Ah, those were the days.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:39 AM
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Gender studies degree =/= MBA.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:39 AM
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Most women work so they don’t have to rely on a man to bring income into the relationship. Most women don’t give a fuck about “status“ "I won't go out with someone without a degree even he makes good money." She gives a fuck about status. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:38 AM
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Men and women aren't that different psychologically and modern society allows each to express themselves with greater equality than historically possible (which is arguably the ideal, and often espoused as so, here). Men and women are more alike than different, but that does not negate the big impact these differences have. It appears that most of this sub is dedicated to making sweeping generalizations about gender behaviors that, at best, refer to minor statistical differences and will not be …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:27 PM
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With earnings equalizing sooner than later, I'm sure women will change their tune about hours of work > value of work. The day 51% of women pay child support to men will be the last day of child support. :-) If I work 10hrs at the game stop making 35-40k a year, and my wife is a doctor working 6hrs making 300k a year...I don't think it would be right for me to come home and complain that the house is dirty or dinner isn't on the table. It's a one way street with this one. This is the same kind o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:37 AM
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I've been down this rabbit hole a few times and here is what I think: If you're comparing two jobs objectively, you look at income, value, mental and physical difficulty - all the factors you have mentioned. In a relationship? This doesn't work. All you can really do is look at raw hours spent at work. If you suggest that your job, as a man, is more difficult, you get the usually woman-answers like "Well, it's patriarchy that causes me to earn less reading books to pre-schoolers while you work o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:42 PM
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Funny thing - I don't think you needed any. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:40 AM
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You seem to have a very well-rounded and fulfilling life. I'd say keep doing you and if someone comes on your radar who piques your interest, then maybe consider pursuing them. Many people pursue relationships simply because (a) that's what everybody does or (b) they're just afraid of being alone. I see many people in "relationships of convenience", dead bedrooms, or just "room-mates with kids"... and they can fake-smile at BBQs with the best of them. I don't like pretending that following the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:56 PM
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You need to work on your gaslighting skills. They're patently lackluster, my dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:52 PM
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No it's not and you prove it right in your OP. So I've really learned a lot from this role, the basis of it being that it pretty much makes no sense, since it's pretty impossible that the hundreds of women you have approached are all "better than you" or "deserve better". This is Red Pill 101 I think they are all just ungrateful and kind of delusional, because of the attention they get from men, they have just all started to believe that they are unobtainable goddesses who deserve only the best …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:56 PM
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I never went for the "big loud women" with big hair, breast implants, J-Lo hips, Kardashian fashions... attention seekers. These women, to me, are fly paper for the useful idiots who flock to them, making a clear path for regular guys to approach regular women. And in my head, statistically, these women are ten times more like to have a drama-filled existence with crazy ex-boyfriend fiascos and every guy and his dog trying get into her sequin dress. There are also better odds she's afflicted wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:34 PM
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Where did I ask you for that? You're projecting my dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:12 PM
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So you've come on Reddit to post half-hearted glib shit posts. Slow clap for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:26 PM
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Why should men be grateful? Women aren't. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:03 PM
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Well if you're just going to agree with people like that then Reddit just isn't very much fun now is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:25 AM
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People should contribute equally to the household. If he works 60 hours a week and she works 40, she can do 20 hours of domenstic work and not complain about it. She benefits from the extra 20 hours a week he works, financially. If they work the same hours, they should split the work or hire help. I don't believe in "weighted hours" aka looking at money brought in rather than time spent. Couples should look at it as equal effort, not equal money. Domestic chores have a lot of value too, and anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:54 PM
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LOL no. I see men being exploited by single mothers and treated like dogshit by kids who don't respect them and I laugh my ass off. Red Pill says "don't finish another man's saved game". Sounds like some very young men are wise to the situation. To men who want to wife up a single mom, be my guest. The guy across the street did. Took in a single mom, then had a kid with her two years ago. She started fucking this tattoo'd loser on the side (alpha thug) and the guy shows up at my door completely …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:44 PM
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This is about people who prefer not to date or mate with single parents. It's a perfectly valid talking point in a sub like this. Maybe focus on what makes you happy and don't police other people's happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:42 PM
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The older I get, the older my kids get, the less I want another person's kids around. We have a nice place with nice space and comfort. I don't want a woman + X number of kids in my place. Also, my kids will have financial advantages like fully paid university tuition. I am sure she'll claim that her kids not having same is somehow unfair. Don't need that hassle. But, a woman with no kids won't understand my priorities nor would I ever expect her to. I can't make her #1 because when my kids have…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:41 PM
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I can pull women 10 years my junior (in middle age). Then again, I look better and am more fit than 90% of men 10 years my junior. And yeah, financial "solvency" is a plus too. But, women in their 20's and 30's typically date men who are within a few years of them, usually the guy is 2 or 3 years older. My daughter (teens) says she finds boys her age so absurdly immature she is only interested in guys who are older. Young men maturing later than young women do is a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:37 PM
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You're putting words in my mouth so you can argue with me. You need to get your emotional needs met elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:23 PM
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It's simple. He gave off social status cues that gave her tingles and shivers in the rights spots. End of story. Something flipped a switch in her brain-stem and her legs flew open. Just like the men who chase after a psychopath because boobs and blowjobs. Humans, really, are generally fucking stupid and allow themselves to be run by their lizard brain. And mother nature laughs as psychopaths fuck other psychopaths and make... beautiful, strong babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:45 AM
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Read that part again where I said that's not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:13 AM
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Rhianna's face? No that's Chris Rock's face now...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:51 PM
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Where are women saying that men have it easy in dating ? It's not that this is said, it's the reasons offered by Blue Pill for why a man might struggle. - You're doing it wrong. - You don't dress well. - You need a skin care regimen (!) - You're too boring. Bla bla bla. Endless excuses. Of course, when women go into "men are assholes" more because they're punching above their weight in the SMP, they get tea and sympathy. Women do NOT like to be told their standards exceed their means. Men, on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:50 PM
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That's only because of tolerance for open sexism against men. A man complaining about difficulties in love and sex are "painful to the ear". Yet, we have to endless whining about "unwanted male attention". Imagine if we just told women: "Oh, cummon, woman up and stop your fucking whining." According to "equality theory" we should be able to...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:48 PM
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I'm all about less unwanted babies. Sincerely, A Taxpayer. I mean, you need a license to catch a fish, hunt a deer or connect a trailer but you don't need one to MAKE A HUMAN LIFE? Wow. You used to have to complete a skill testing question to get a free burger at McDonalds. (3 + 9) / 2 = It sparked outrage... something something discrimination and making stupid people hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:44 PM
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That's not what I said. I said that superhero's with extraordinary powers and super-trained assassins can be women or men. What I am saying is that a 220 pound shredded assassin can pick up a 110 pound woman over his head and throw her like a sack of flour into a brick wall. I acknowledged all kinds of strong female characters in my posts but you're only seeing the hurr durr hate women thing because that's what blue bill people typically see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:41 PM
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The soldiers all have exoskeletons that provide their strength, so she has the exact same strength as every other dude. What sets her apart is that she got looped which allowed her to develop her skill until she was unparalleled. Ok, that's legit. This is way more explanation than someone like John Wick gets, where we just write off his crazy skills as willpower. Yes, the Wick Franchise is a glorified Tarantino movie. When you have 25 trained assassins' trying to take you out, they don't line up…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:06 PM
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I'm not going to run into a bad situation and be some human meat shield for people I don't know, especially if that person put themselves in that spot to begin with. Life is not a marvel movie and what are they going to do when I die a hero? One mention in a newspaper maybe? Nice. And who's going to feed my kids and put them through university? Society? No. So, society can go piss up a rope. I'll call 911 from a safe distance. Like I said, if society wants me to be John Wayne and intervene in da…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:55 PM
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Yes swinging around a 200 pound sword. Blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:51 PM
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Look, giving man or woman superhero Marvel powers is one thing. Just don't give me this bullshit some 110 pound woman can beat the crap out of 4 or 5 250 pound muscled mercenaries doing "fancy over the shoulder" badly choreographed kicks. Trinity in the Matrix? Amazing character. And she had the same training and abilities in the Matrix that other characters had. Not all female characters are written badly. There are lost of examples of each. And yes, John Wick taking on 100 armed men in a night…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:50 PM
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Loved her sword battles. From the Kill Wiki: Pai Mei was a legendary master of the Bak Mei and Eagle's Claw styles of kung fu. He was the teacher of Bill, Elle Driver, and Beatrix Kiddo, and was responsible for the removal of Elle's right eye. He taught Beatrix the fatal movement known as the Five Point Palm Exploding Heart Technique and the Three Inch Punch. This woman paid her dues in the brutal training by Pai Mei. The 3" punch allowed her to escape from being buried alive. Her sword-play was…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:39 PM
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A large goliath taking on 4 guys and almost dying in the process is a good watch. Watching a 110 pound woman do choreographed "over her shoulder" bullshit martial arts moves and taking out a small army is a big yawn. Watch Sylvester Stallone in his movies and replace him with a "formidable gal". You can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:32 PM
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A link to BDP does not show in any correlation between "men with Red Pill grievances" and BPD. Not seeing the correlation because none, so far, has been shown. Edit: And to add, the only thing that BPD DOES prove is that Red Pill tenets like "don't stick your dick in crazy" and "some women are just batshit insane" are true. So, in other words, instead of showing Red Pill as some conspiracy theory explained by men having some "broken attraction muscles", it simply shows that some women are indeed…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:43 PM
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What about status? Income? Ambition? His dress? Social acumen? You'll date a guy who's living in his mother's basement who dreams of being a game developer one day, on the basis he's adorable?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:19 PM
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It’s so weird that women enjoy movies where they are celebrated and portrayed positively. And also that they think men would enjoy them You mean the movies where women are put in place of former male characters, without any of the requisite struggle or character development? (Rey, Star Wars franchise) Or when women are just given omniscient super powers where they can fly in space? (Marvel franchise.) Or when the world's most deadly super solider is a 110 pound woman who does badass yoga? (Edge …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:10 PM
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This. Being a supplicating doormat is a big turnoff. It also shows the man might capitulate to others just for the sake of being agreeable for the purpose of avoiding conflict. Avoiding unnecessary conflict is good, but avoiding all conflict is a bad thing. It shows a man who lacks courage and is conflict and possibly risk avoidant. Not what a woman looks for in a male partner, no matter what the blue pill "it's all about feelz and not evopsych nonsense" crowd will say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:02 PM
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However, a closer examination suggests that these principles may be inadvertently aligned with the behaviors characteristic of women suffering from untreated Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), rather than women in general. Excellent. Now do this examination, post your findings and we'll assess. What you have here is a loose theory and nothing more. Red Pill describes a lot of general female behavior. A notable example of such extreme behavior can be seen in the alleged actions of Princess Di…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:59 PM
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Are you upfront about your lack of interest in sex? 99% of men are not looking for a sexless long term relationship. Be honest and look for another ace. Tbh I don’t think that’s such a big deal, as there’s a lot of women that need that connection before wanting to be sexual with a guy in the first place. Yeah, you're either in denial or just plan on being dishonest. You're like the "smoker who's trying to quit". People wanting to connect before becoming sexual will at some point become sexual. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:52 PM
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Condoms are $1. Idiots wouldn't use them because it meant saving $1. People get AIDS because they won't use condoms. Babies? Well, other people, including greater society, pay for those.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:20 PM
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That doesn’t change the point of the post. If you’re having sex that could result in pregnancy (which you must be, in order to think it possible that you’re the father), you should make clear your requirements for any potential baby before she gets pregnant. Not relevant. You can't pre-emptively give your future baby-momma a financial abortion clause. No where in the post is a critique of paternity tests, just not being upfront about it. Considering the concern behind the test, I'd say doing it …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:19 PM
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Nope. Not a cop. Not my job. Allow me to open carry a firearm and I might reconsider. No handgun. No taser. No vest. No baton. Sorry, no intervention. I might call 911 from a safe distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:18 PM
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Men are already to blame for everything. This forces women to get resources for children from the correct males. If they didn't have an affair with a man with some resources, that's kind of her problem at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:16 PM
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And also, black dudes don't often have white red-headed kids. And white red-headed dudes don't have black kids. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:15 PM
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No, men are idiots who do stuff because women want us to. It's women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:32 AM
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YEAH! Now we're talking! And we could hand out free drugs laced with birth control. And, if we TELL everybody that it's got birth control in it, it's not even eugenics at that point. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:28 AM
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Western men did it for western women. It's women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:08 AM
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Smells like mental gymnastics to avoid women being accountable for a change. If women needed to prove paternity to get child support, paternity testing would be a law tomorrow morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:06 AM
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Depends on the exact definition of "cold approach" and the definition of "someone you know". But yes, generally you're not saying "Hey, you're from my friend group and we've played cards three times now!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:04 AM
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Being mad because someone cheated and being mad because you're paying for the fact someone else cheated are two different kinds of mad. If he cheats, she'll get over it. It costs her nothing except for maybe six pints of iced cream. She'll get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:02 AM
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My sister, who identifies as a feminist and has a pretty liberal mindset, proclaimed that the decline in child birth rates in the West is a result of women waking up and realizing that pregnancy and wanting motherhood is a “scam”. This is what we call natural selection. Your sister's warped feminist beliefs will ensure she never reproduces. You know that plastic that can't burn and just self-extinguishes? That's your sister. As far as feminism goes, this is a feature, not a bug. When feminist wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:24 AM
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You mean like cheating and having a baby with another man? Yeah, I think getting a paternity test is a teeny tiny indiscretion to insure against a very very large one. This whole threat smells like: "Don't have a scientific way to prove we cheat because we really don't like that." Then maybe stop with all the cheating. I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:20 AM
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Wrap your dork before you pork?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:19 AM
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Not all women are like that. Until the very moment they're exactly like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:18 AM
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Men get falsely accused all the time, and women say "meh". Shoe, meet other foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:17 AM
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Devolving into Marxism and Tribalism is a fate now fast upon us. It was all a massive shit test of the male gender. And males, as a gender, did not pass the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:13 AM
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Women are fine with cold approaches if he's hot enough. Women say being approached is a threat to their safety. It's really a threat to her fragile ego. It's not the pesky need to reject the guy that pisses her off - it's the self-righteous indignation she experiences when such a "low value man" has the audacity to think he was in her league, much less even speak to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:10 AM
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Most men don't want to provide for another man's kids. Guess who's the bigger loser in THAT comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:07 AM
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Only the man's looks determine how "hot or cold" the approach is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:59 AM
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There's no reason he can't let his lady know before he knocks her up. Or maybe he didn't knock her up... which is the point of the test!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:55 AM
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You'll be told to always, and never, approach women. Depending on the situation of course. In the "why can't I meet someone" situation, it's WHY DON'T YOU APPROACH?!? In the "why is she offended" situation, it's WHY DID YOU APPROACH?!? You have to apply "female logic" here, or what I like to call insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:26 AM
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Who said you were? Who said women were responsible for anything? They're not even responsible for their own actions or decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:23 AM
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Most of the world is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:22 AM
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So, you're equal/same as men now. So stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:21 AM
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Apex fallacy. No need to argue further here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:20 AM
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Me being a decent person does not mean I need to police other people. If she's offended, let her take offense. It's none of my business. And, for all I know, she's sleeping with the guy and actually likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:19 AM
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If you’re a man, holding the other men in your life accountable for their actions is a moral responsibility. Not only for the sake of women’s safety, but for the sake of all people, for decency, and for being a good friend. SIR YES SIR!!! Women should do this for other women too. Um, okay that sounds like more of a suggestion now. Ah, I see what you did there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:17 AM
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My mom's divorced friends actually tried to tell her that she was too good for him back then. Ah, yes. The middle-aged little-black-dress Bitter Divorced Cougar Club. Great advice they give women, to be sure. HAHAHA. "You should leave him. You can get a guy like HIM!" (points at Chris Hemsworth).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:15 AM
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If she damages a condom (you really should bring your own) or stops taking the pill after agreeing to be on it, that's full on deception and coercion Deception, yes. Coercion no. But, it goes on and the man still pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:40 AM
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What? "Financially for everything?" Um no. All parents are responsible for the costs of bringing up their children. Mothers, and fathers. Not just fathers. Edit: And she's responsible for HER OWN rent and transportation. Not him. The money is not for her, it's for THEIR CHILDREN. This is lost on many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:39 AM
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Looking to assign people guilty by association is the lamest way to try and win an argument. This is about laws regarding a man's right to know paternity. If he's responsible, legally, then legally he has a right to have paternity confirmed. She can deny him consent to the test, and may even have that right, but she should forfeit any right to assistance from the man in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:27 PM
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So if she fishes a condom out of a garbage can, that's not paternity fraud tantamount to rape? If she damages a condom? Stops taking her pill after agreeing to be on it with the partner? It's now accepted that a man who removes a condom during sex after consent was predicated on that condom being used is guilty of rape. Is a woman ever guilty? Is a woman ever held accountable?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:24 PM
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The burden of proof is on the pregnant to show how the man's genetic material was obtained and how exactly it got all up in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:07 AM
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The behavior is rewarded with sex. "Hawt" guys in situationships with women desperate for validation through "fucking up" sexually have no need to button up a shirt to go for dinner, much less iron one. Maybe she could put two and two together and realize he just thinks she's "okay to fuck" but not worth putting a nice shirt on for. That thought will never cross her mind. So much for her "high value man". Good looking guys dressing like slobs in restaurants and women who weight 500 pounds who bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:43 PM
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OMG, these are boilerplate responses men get when they ask women how they can be more successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:36 PM
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Exactly. And many people make good arguments why that shouldn't be so. Myself, I think it's a copyright issue. That's my unique genetic material and me leaving laying around (or up in a coochie somewhere) does not imply consent to use it for reproductive means. You heard me. Making a baby with my baby batter is an actionable copyright infringement scenario. If she aborts, I'll drop the lawsuit. Oh, and try to copy a play or novel with the defense of "Well, the author left a copy in my house...so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:33 PM
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Who's obligated to pay anyone anything? If women stomp their feet to get paid "the same as men" to play for empty stands, then didn't men as a gender and part of greater society just fail a big shit test? And didn't the women themselves fail an even bigger shit test when they lost the soccer game because the three best players on the other team were technically men? I think you have to actually care about the state of society to go further down this rabbit hole with any sort of gusto. Myself, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:31 PM
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Also, pro tip: when your solution or attempt at demarcation involves someone having to suppress fundamental human drives....your solution is likely ridiculous Right - this "pro tip" is why you see guys with 500 pound women at the mall. Love is just that powerful I guess. LOLOL. Men need to have some self respect and not behave like dogs. Goes for food too. Just because there is a drive-through at every block doesn't mean one needs to stop at every one. Humans are the weakest of animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:09 PM
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I stand in solidarity with men from all countries. I'm a maninist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:47 PM
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Well, it's your fault for making barking up your tree so much fun. And yes, a man should pay for the damned test. Gee. This test might save me a half-million dollars. Should I pay for it? Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:46 PM
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Do you frequency this sub? Women: "The men don't groom. They don't dress well. They don't act confident. They are not interesting. They don't show ambition. They don't elicit intrigue or mystery or romance. And they have no skin care regimen!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:43 PM
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A man can go on an anti-depressant and literally erase his sex drive. I recommend it. He can't go on a medication that alleviates his need for food or rent, though. Your analogy is ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:41 PM
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No, I do not. I wear "worker drone casual dress clothes to work" and look like everybody else. What I am referring to here is the constant whine from women that men in general cannot properly dress themselves, have a "decent" hairstyle or choose clothes to save their lives. Right now, I own work wear or exercize clothes and jeans and a few t-shirts. I have zero clothes intended to "look good for women" because it's just not something I am doing right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:23 PM
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If you don't trust a woman, don't have sex with her. If you don't trust a man, don't have sex with him. This sounds fair, and it's not how it works. Man has no choice and full accountability. Woman has full choice and almost no accountability. Sex and reproduction can't be about "trust". It has to be about "ready and willing to deal with the consequences of sex". For women, "If I don't want this child, I can get an abortion." For men, "If I don't want this child, nobody cares so long as I pay fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:21 PM
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Women: "I dress the way I want for me. What men think is irrelevant." Also women: "Women don't like the clothes you prefer. Dress more like this..."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:05 PM
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So they wouldn't mind no college degree, so long as this man has found a way to make money on her college degree having level, or greater than. Surely not social issues through a feminist or Marxist lens... Because those people are so fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:51 PM
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It's 2 AM and I'm leaving a low rent trap house of strip club with one of my daughters and her girlfriend. Sounds legit. Women seem to want a complex array of emotional needs met with their primary relationships, many of which can be conflicting or straight counter productive. I think she wants both. She wants him to be high enough in value that he doesn't need her, yet somehow need her enough not to run off with the first "better looking deal" which high-value men often do. That's the pitfall o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:44 PM
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So, because men in general are thirsty enough to want to fuck said bog witch, and thus create the very double standard they hate, this is who's fault again sorry? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:32 PM
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If your ideal partner was perfect in every way and you know they will treat you right, wouldn’t you just dump your current partner right away? ​ If you could date Chris Hemsworth or date Emma Watson (with no negative consequences) wouldn’t you just dump your current partner right away? I don't think anyone who would trade in a decent partner thinking an "ideal" one is a hyper-busy entitled movie star is going to be happy, ever. And that's 90% of what is wrong with people today. We've again regre…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:06 PM
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I find that all humans have this innate ego-defense against being average or less than average. You have to ask... if mother nature wanted more symmetrical, taller, fitter, healthier people to reproduce, why did she make EVERYBODY EQUALLY HORNY? A: Biodiversity. That has to be it. The less attractive frumpy dumpy ordinary people are essential for "reasons", and that might even be only to make the higher value people stand out more. Mother nature. What a bitch. I do think men expect to be rejecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:40 PM
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We can't have a conversation about male responsibility when it comes to reproduction when she has 100% reproductive choice and men have 0%. And, women can't even FATHOM the response "then keep your legs together or get your tubes tied" yet this is the response men get. "Keep it in your pants or get a vasectomy." Men not wanting to pay for another man's child is not childish. It's fair, and what is childish is how women are quick to dismiss it. Of course they are. Getting other men or just societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:35 PM
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Cool, then don't make laws that prevent men from getting one, like in France.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:33 PM
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I want to meet the circus freak that can give you both those things at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:18 PM
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Also, people aren't products. Perhaps not. But on OLD and other automated dating type services, people are now commodities. Funny that the gender that has been obsessed with objectification of women for the past 50 years now openly objectifies men and makes absolutely no apology for it. Honestly, I don't even think they are aware they are doing it. Perhaps they're right. Those privileged are not aware of their privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:12 PM
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But according to women, being able, as a man, to PAY most certainly IS a privilege because it means (somehow) you have more money than she does and any way you managed to do that is CERTAINLY grounded in sexism, racism, privilege and entitlement! LOL. It's funny how women who know so many big words can't earn very much money. Methinks they paid too much for that gender studies or political science degree...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:10 PM
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Or a college campus ripper...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:08 PM
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Imagine telling a woman that everybody else's safety or MERE COMFORT has to come at her blessed expense lolololol. And if she has to endure offense and insinuation as well. The Karen's heads would explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:06 PM
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Oh, no - I was not implying abuse. I was saying that side effects that cause emotional blunting can be serious for some people. I was given a med "off label" for sleep and the damned thing numbed me out and I started gaining weight. Down the toilet they went. Pain management is a bitch of a balance. I have a friend who fights with fibro and back problems - he went through hell and back with different meds. People who haven't gone through it are amazingly judgmental too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:03 PM
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Yep. They deny the existence of "female privilege" but the second you treat them the way they have always treated men, their heads explode. Makes me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:59 PM
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Yep. Suddenly they can go 100% sexless and still expect the man to be faithful. Men do this too. Dead bedrooms are a very serious and shitty thing. Marriages should have "no sex clauses" in pre-nups to deal with this sort of thing. I know one guy, successful businessman, who said he tells all new lady friends: if the sex stops, we're done. This guy has actual balls though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:55 PM
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Pretty accurate representation. Best to just have fun with them and be a player. Yep. Why buy the divorce when you can have fun for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:52 PM
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Not to give specific health advice, but I'd careful with something that causes ongoing emotional numbness if it's leading to depression. Depression can be dangerous. Trust me on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:51 PM
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Of course there is luck. Somewhere out there, a person exists who would complement each one of us almost perfectly. I mean, statistically, there are probably hundreds or even thousands of such people. But, there are 7 billion people scattered over a large planet and you might meet a couple thousand on social media if you're insanely efficient. So, you might never meet your "soul mate", or you might walk past them in a mall, or they might be using a bucket to get water out of a well on the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:39 AM
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....but standards can make a person die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:30 AM
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Where are all the hot guys who make a lot of money who will see me for my stellar personality and not my widening ass and not fuck all of my friends good guys. It's not because of trauma. It's because women lie. They don't just want a "good guy" and never have. They want to find some unattainable high-value guy that can't keep his dick in his pants and then tame and domesticate him and make him FAITHFUL. And, if she were to win some kind of cosmic lottery and actually succeed at this, she would …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:25 AM
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Cultural Marxism. The Oppression Olympics is caused by Cultural Marxism (Neo-Marxism) which is simply a race to the bottom to see who, at Oppression Camp, can win with the most badges. It's just the most vile form of communist/socialist thinking and nothing more. It's a murderous ideology like all ideology at extreme ends of the political spectrum. And no, if you don't acknowledge people's oppression based on their single or multiple, intersecting group identities, you're a bigot, bla-bla-phobe,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:23 AM
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It's so easy though: "Hi! You again? You must like the coffee here!" Genuine Smile - Message: Oh, you can probable have a short conversation with me! Pursed Lip Pseudo-Smile - Message: Oh, okay. Yeah, not interested. "Yep. Pretty good..." Any other look: Message - Please fuck off and never talk to me again. I like the coffee here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:07 AM
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A woman will think an ugly man is more dangerous because she will assume he is more desperate and nefarious in his thirst. I give you... Ted Bundy. He had college girl groupies in the courtroom - after everybody find out what he did, exactly, to college girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:03 AM
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Sadly Lexapro kills sex drive and the rest of your emotions. I lost my libido naturally, but if it came back I'd be eating Lexapros like popcorn. And emotions? Bah. Who needs those...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:00 AM
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The longer a man goes without sex the more a wank satiates the urge and the less he needs a woman around to scratch it. And women can be a huge huge pain in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:59 AM
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Boomers invented the dual income. What are you talking about. Boomers were the first D.I.N.K.S. (double income no kids) My parents (silent generation) were the last of the single income crowd. Most of the moms in my school were stay-at-home moms. Then again, today, everybody over 40 is a BoOoOmeR. lolol. Sincerely, Gen X
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:58 AM
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Dumpster fire. Young women whoring it up because they have all the time in the world, slut shaming is shamed, and social media automates casual sex situationships. Middle aged women looking for investment bankers who look like Chris Hemsworth equal partners. Older women with even higher standards looking for a retirement plan on legs someone to share their life with. If I was looking, I'd probably just hang myself in the closet with my favorite tie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:55 AM
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Assumed to be a predator at the park was the thing that got me. So, when the Karens pretended to make conversation and ask "So.... which ones are your kids?" I'd pause, then with a 1000-yard wide-eyed stare say: "Huh? Oh ME? Oh... I don't have any kids!" Then break into my best maniacal Hanibal Lecter smile. The look on their Karen faces was fucking priceless. Then I'd go back to watching my kids play, this time with my mouth open a bit and making a conscious effort not to blink. Parks are so fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:51 AM
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I don't call guys incels. They call themselves incels. I just noticed there are two types. Benevolent/self-deprecating ones. (Written themselves off due to Red Pill belief gone malignant) Truly narcissistic/entitled ones. (These guys just know they are toxic to women and hate women because they will expose their weaknesses by rejecting them.) I believe that the thing that causes "angry incel rage" is the same thing that causes "rejection rage". They're both rooted in narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:39 AM
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There used to be a joke about sluts. Slut: A girl who will sleep with everyone. Bitch: A girl who will sleep with everyone but you. hahahaha love that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:36 AM
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I don't think inc3ls are so much shamed for being virgins. Some inc3ls come across as young guys who have written themselves off after reading Red Pill content by perhaps older or more experienced men. Other inc3ls come across as immature, petulant and narcissistic beyond their years and certainly sound entitled to sex. They seem pissed off that not only would they get ZERO attention, they get zero attention from the "most popular girl in school". Myself, I think it's a pathology rooted in what …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:34 AM
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Could be worse. A cereal killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:31 AM
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If a woman is going to sleep with a man after coffee and a donut, I think the coffee and donut was a formality at that point... Some women are okay with meeting for coffee, but this is not really a date. It's a vetting process where she determines (a) if you match your pictures and (b) do you pass the "don't creep her out" test. When I was in my romantic phase, I used to buy dinners. I enjoyed it and so did the ladies. Sometimes it was Vietnamese at a hole in the wall with excellent food, and ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:24 PM
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Sure. That works great for someone walking away. For a guy who expects reciprocation from women, not so much. If the solution a man who is dateless goes with is "I won't spend any money on dates" well, then he will stay dateless, and then come here and whine about it indefinitely. Dating is expensive. Whining about the problem is one choice. The other two, far more productive choices, is (a) play the game or (b) leave the game. This is OG Red Pill advice here. Not this Brown Pill whine about wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:11 PM
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Costs a guy $100 and two hours to find out. If she's flakey or not receptive to relocating to a more "intimate location" after dinner a guy has two options. Buy one more dinner Bounce It's a simple concept. Guys who can't read people or just feel entitled to sex will struggle. I never had these problems but wasn't "dating and mating" in 2023. If she's on her phone a lot, and then says "Well thanks, this was nice" and a car pulls up at the restaurant to take her to her next event for the evening,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:34 PM
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Some women use OLD for attention, love letters, intrigue, digital romance... they have no intention of meeting in most cases and use men on OLD as digital playthings. Any woman (or person) not providing a recent facial and full-body pic is either lying or hiding something. And it's often not pretty - not pretty at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:33 PM
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I don't dispute any of that. Being a beta trying to get into a transactional long-term relationship is to (a) put up with a shit-ton of bullshit and (b) take massive financial risks to ultimately be (c) a financial vehicle that she will use to "level up" socially. I think the trick is this - a guy has two choices. Be high enough value to get attention FROM WOMEN, or, Say fuck it and live for himself. I'm doing #2 now because I am married and divorced and as my kids approach college age the count…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:27 PM
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Nope. One is legal and socially acceptable. The other is illegal and makes one a social pariah. I saved money, ate nice food, had nice dates, and the women were happy, fed and eager to please. And really, spending $150 instead of a date doesn't get one into a very high caliber of escort. The women I was getting with were much higher value, and mostly disease free. Then again, when I did this stuff romance was still a thing. Transactional relationships for beta men are a thing of the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:23 PM
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Transactional relationships are idiotic today when all she is offering is revokable sexual access. He always gets the bill, but her end of the bargain is not based on any kind of "contractual performance". It's like paying a guy who might paint your fence, or paint half of it really well on day one, then walk away, and still expect full payment. Or, just walk away because he was paid up-front. Traditional transactional relationships for beta men are a HORRIBLE BET. The better bet is alpha-up wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:20 PM
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So what do you guys offer? A spin on a cheezie-dust covered lap? Oh boy. The ladies must be lining up for THAT...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:17 PM
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Simping is buying dinners for "friend zone" women who think of you as a brother. I chose "nice restaurants and sex" and not becoming some guy who feels entitled to have some hot nymphomaniac take a free spin on his cheezie-dust covered lap. Women don't owe men shit. That's what Red Pill doesn't really teach anymore. You either play the game THEY want you to play, or you don't. But I never considered myself a "simp" for buying nice meals and getting nice sex. And if an average guy (like me) feels…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:17 PM
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Yep. I used to like crazy and fun-in-bed women usually with WAY too much going on and WAY too many men chasing them who are the worst possible choice to start relationships with. Then I'd immediately try to purse a relationship with said woman. Dumpsterfiretrainwreck ensues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:35 PM
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Bad strategy. Some men like paying for dinner and being "traditional". Sometimes people believe "the one who invites buys the meal". Or, if a guy is dating down socially (many men do) she might not have the money. She might have spent more than she wanted to on a clothing item, or shoes, or makeup. Buy the woman dinner for gods sake. Dating (and courting) has always been about showing the woman what kind of lifestyle she can get for the transactional relationship she is going to find herself in.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:29 PM
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Question related to your question... Didn't the inc3ls get run out of this place?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:20 PM
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They don't need to know. Shaming is trial-by-fire mob social justice. If they think you're not attractive, they call you virgin. If you claim you're just not interested, they say you're a homosexual. If you're more confident than you should be given your status, you're creepy. Blue Pill society are a-holes generally, and need to fit people into their little boxes so that their feelings align with reality. But, there are reasons for this social policing that are actually important. Assholes are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:19 PM
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Yeah, turns out she really did just want a tossed salad. And now I can't go back to that restaurant anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:07 PM
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Numbers game. Play it. Vet "chatters" and "fall in love first" types ASAP. Don't waste time chasing women with mega options. If someone gets flaky or ghosts, block and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:06 PM
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I think cost of rings should reflect her social status. This is where "three months pay" comes in. Three months pay is the same amount of pay whether he's a McDonald's Crew Chief or holds corner office in an investment brokerage. But hey, if you get her the nicest ring of all the gals in the entire trailer court that's impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:04 PM
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No, but if your wife is getting chronic headaches she's either: Lost attraction for you. Dying from a brain tumor. The first one is bad for you. The second one is bad for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:03 PM
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The idea that there is a strong Alpha for a pack isn't even true for wolves Alpha and Beta are archetypes and they are real by virtue of their definitions which are demonstrable. A man CALLED an Alpha - assertive, goal-oriented, has passion/purpose, taller, fit, confident, socially adept, socially accepted, somewhat dominant, does not acquiesce in conversation, doesn't "people please" but speaks his mind with conviction. He's innately high value and doesn't need to be a supplicating to be sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:29 PM
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Or they just use other organs than the brain to think with...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:21 PM
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OLD just gives younger woman fast access to more Alpha Fux and perhaps even Beta Bux in their 30's for marriage$ and divorce$. Smart men sidestep these problems with a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:10 AM
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Many men, especially ones here having difficulties, will be well served to be ANYTHING BUT themselves. Women encourage this "be yourself / be transparent" nonsense because it simply makes their job of vetting men easier. Smart men laugh when a fish is telling a fisherman how to catch a fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:25 PM
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Just frame it as a joke and move onto what restaurant you're going to. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:24 PM
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That's why quickly lying is the better bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:23 PM
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Based on this entire "WHY DO I KEEP DATING ASSHOLES" problem, pretty dumb. Or at least, sporting massive blind spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:22 PM
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LOVE IT: "I've already forgotten every woman but you! HAR HAR. Seriously, where are we going to eat? I'm starving." Just be adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:22 PM
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Ah, so what's good for the goose is good for the feminist...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:21 PM
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Is omitting ones arrest for public intoxication and lude behavior at a job interview a lie? Choosing to be vetted over dumb things is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:20 PM
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Losing a woman's respect is usually a relationship death knell. You can sometimes come out of it, but she'll never forget the moment of revulsion looking at a man who's she's lost respect for. Men trying to revive a dead bedroom using "alpha-up" purple-pill wife-game crap are probably better served to get a good divorce lawyer. When a woman has shut off the bedroom and wants a marriage counsellor, she's looking to check off the "did everything at the end to try and save the marriage" despite alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:12 AM
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You're doing that feminist thing. "Every woman has had a bad experience with men" =/= "All men do this" This is called a false equivalency and is under the faulty logic umbrella. MOST MEN do not handle rejection poorly, or as I've stated, we'd need a new floor in every hospital for "women who rejected a man this month". Ten men become POTUS. "Men are presidents" Five men walk on the moon. "Men are moonwalkers." True, clever statements are not of much value, even though technically true. Take a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:16 PM
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Shits real.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:11 PM
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I think he made it perfectly clear where the extra sauce was going...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:11 PM
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I swore, as a parent, to NEVER Red Pill my boys. I only talk about Red Pill here and maybe to a few guys at work who are obviously Red Pill. Then the Red Pill ideas started coming home with the boys... from HIGH SCHOOL. - She's a pickme. - She just wants attention. - The standards for a regular guy are insane, just to meet an average girl. - She's interested one second and then she's onto somebody else. - It's totally a game, it's just not one worth playing. - Relationships are a waste of time. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:03 PM
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Anywhere place where there is a "all men are shit" motif is a place oozing with toxic femininity, which is almost synonymous with radical feminism, colored hair, or obesity. These women claim to hate men, but have just as much venom (if not more) for women who like men, or are just more attractive than they are. Which, statistically, is most women. This gets so bad some of these hateful women go as far as to say a woman "doesn't deserve to be a woman" given her inadequately feminist beliefs. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:50 PM
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It's common knowledge now. My sons hear "Just be nice and some gal will like you" and they be like: "Who the ***k would ever believe something that dumb." My generation did. derp derp.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:21 PM
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They do... but men gatekeep commitment. The idea she wants to turn "Mr. Handsome" into parent material is either a complete myth or an idea in her head she got from a Rom Com.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:20 PM
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Supporting what? Toxic femininity? LOLZ.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:08 PM
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I always say: "If you have problems with your men, choose better men." I know lots of guys who are decent hardworking guys but would get continual and ongoing rejection on OLD because now men are vetted on looks alone. Then, women get crap behavior from "high value men" (sought after men with options) and then whine about it incessantly. Ironically, these same women chastise men for the fallout men face when when seeking attractive women. "You deserve what you get, but I don't deserve what I get…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:07 PM
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I'm non-violet myself. More of a beige-pinky color. My avatar is naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:45 PM
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Ah, here's the automod. A lot of shaming and demonizing goes on with men who are just not deemed attractive. A possibly theory for this is that women think men they would perceive as having difficulty getting "acceptance" would therefor respond badly to lack of success or rejection. Most men take rejection well, or just get depressed about it, or rant and rave here. If rejection was as super dangerous as women (here and in general) say it was, then we'd need bigger hospitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:44 PM
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Women want men with identities like "good dad to our children" and "passionate AF" and "caring and attentive" that also could defend their family against people with if situation called for it. The gardener not a warrior because most times are peaceful. Women want men who are capable of pounding someone but won't pound them. Women want men who get attention from other women (pre-selection) but won't cheat. Women want, very often, what they can't have, or the best of both worlds. A lot of this ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:42 PM
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IN SELL YOU SAY?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:40 PM
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This happens to women who have large vicious dogs they can't control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:39 PM
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Searching for "dual mating strategy" quickly leads one to "parental investment theory". Of course, detractors of human mating studies just write this stuff off as being refuted junk science. Probably because P.I.T. and Dual mating theories paint women in some sort of bad light. I don't think women being strategic about mating selectively puts them in a bad light at all. And I don't know why it's "bad" for women to be torn between men they find genetically appealing and men who are going to inves…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:26 PM
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There was a study that women showed signs of preferring different things depending on position in cycle. https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/10.1098/rspb.1998.0380#:~:text=10.1098%2Frspb.1998.0380-,Abstract,spread%20out%20across%20the%20cycle. At certain points in their cycles women allegedly prefer the SMELL of more symmetrical men. Weird. Of course, "many" say these studies have been debunked, or are "not peer reviewed". Then again, the detractors of any human behavior studies that fly in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:23 PM
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Yes, trying to go from "friends" to "more than friends" can cost the friendship. She be like "Ew he sees me THAT way!" So, if a person is a really good friend, might be best to keep it that way. But, if a person IS going to break out of the friend zone, I THINK it's best to make that intention known ASAP. Hanging around as a friend HOPING for something romantic to materialize but giving almost no indication this is the desired outcome is a very bad plan and often ends badly. Generally, only chic…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:04 PM
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Sometimes the romantic interests raise naturally. Only if he passed her "yes" test. If not, it's super creepy. Using the "friend zone" to garner romantic interest is a bad play IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:06 PM
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Don't get me wrong - I've had that "singing in the rain" feeling with a few women. The dates felt good - it was a rush - being in a fine restaurant and having smiley conversations. Her looking at me like *I* had some actual value - women don't understand how rarely men experience this with people other than their mothers. Then afterwards, some romantic walk in some nice little well-lit park or path. Being all alone, and her feeling 100% comfortable and safe, because really, she was. But, this do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:44 AM
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Don't get me wrong, I have friendships with women. But they are symbiotic and we're friends because we like each-other's company. The friendship is organic. The big part of it is that these are platonic friendships. As soon as the male thirst is involved, all reciprocity goes out the window. FWB relationships can work, so long as the "F" is the only thing that is exchanged. Of course, if he's good with "sex for other stuff" that's his prerogative. It's perfectly clear - and the women here confir…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:36 AM
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I've had both genuine friendships with women, but I've also been put in this "friendzone that doesn't exist" which exists. Ended that quickly. "Darling, I think that's your boyfriend's job..." I also have some sort of friendship/relationship with my ex wife as we coparent together and I can't say I have any relationships remotely similar to whatever that is. She's a friend, but she's the "mother of my kids" friend. Sort of like an amicable colleague relationship or something. Different boundarie…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:05 PM
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She thinks all that he brings to this friendship is well worth the "emotional labor" she provides. What she doesn't understand is that 90% of her "emotional labor" to us men is just drama. Whenever I have a buddy who is "super good friends" with a lady and he's jumping through hoops, I say to him: "Hey, great! You're her bestie with a dick." The faces they make when I say that. Priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:31 PM
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No. Men act romantic because it is required of him to "get the prize". How "romantic" a man is cannot be estimated while he is pursuing her. How romantic he REALLY is we will see after they move in together and he's comfortable enough to fart in the same room. If women didn't require the dating / courting process, most men probably wouldn't even do that. And as The Great Prophet DAVE CHAPPELLE said, if women didn't want to live in nice houses, men would have sex in a cardboard box.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:20 PM
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