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wehadtosaydickety/r/askTRP17/11/15 02:23 AM
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wehadtosaydickety/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:59 AM
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Yes but not in this context. It's called negging and it's kind of a reverse psychology tactic here. In your case success would be defined by getting nudes, which is a low bar to aim for and not related to getting pussy. You're usually just going to trip her ASD alarm and be out before you even get a chance to step up to the plate.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:49 AM
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Good if sometimes self aggrandizing or contradictory.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:45 AM
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Ask her out
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:43 AM
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Flat, but I'm eating at a surplus and gaining muscle so that's to be expected.but I look more like 1950s leading man than guy with a gut, if that image makes sense. The problem if you were like me is your belly has nowhere to go. If you cut you'd look like a Holocaust survivor.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 12:37 AM
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If you put that much value on sex or parties, possibly. In terms of leading an interesting life? She's going to be scared to travel anywhere alone because it's more dangerous, she's probably doing nothing but going to parties and shit on campus, she's more likely to major in something that does not include interesting lab or hands on project work, I could go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 10:00 AM
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You're really skinny. As a guy who was 6'3" and <180lbs, I can tell you that belly never goes away. It's called skinny fat. You need to lift some weights and get some meat on them bones. I am up to 205lbs now from lifting and my belly fat hasn't gone away because I'm bulking, but my waist size has stayed the same. So the rest of me has filled in and it doesn't look like I have a belly. If I were to cut I imagine it'd be the look you're going for.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 07:17 AM
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Couldn't agree more. I fuck a plate once or twice a week but have not been approaching lately, it's a nice break. A good reminder that I have nothing to lose with these chicks, I can get on just fine without them. It's easy to get caught in the chase and feel like you need to be banging a new broad every week. Fortunately I don't have to work with a lot of women closely. I once had an interview request with a company, found out the division was 99% attractive females, and noped out of that oppor…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 04:01 AM
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I go to a gym where people leave me alone. My last gym was full of unsolicited advice, shit like bro that squat is too heavy you cant keep your back perpendicular to the floor
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:45 PM
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Deep down nobody gives a shit about anyone else. Even your mom, she loves the idea of you but if you're an adult she probably knows fuckall about your struggles. Think about it we all just became randomly sentient at some point and are now walking around this Earth, there are limits on how much you can affect another person. I had a textbook good family but now live on the other side of the planet and haven't seen them in two years. 2015 was the best year of my life. Unspoken and unseen expectat…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 12:59 PM
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Some of it is innocent shit testing, you seem like a very disciplined guy so people will test it. It's the easiest thing to tease you about. If you put all the great stuff you're doing in people's faces in can feel boastful. When I started lifting I wanted to talk about it a lot because it was a new hobby, but I had to stop around people who didn't work out. I know the feeling of being in the opposite side of that conversation. Mostly though be a man and dngaf.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 12:56 PM
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I was annoyed by the smart girl dumb guy trope they used throughout the film with Rey and Finn, and even extending it to Solo. Two female leads will only make it worse.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 12:17 PM
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I did Starting Strength and I think it's goals are overstated because of what you described. Because I was new, my body wasn't ready, my form sucked, etc., and I was always dealing with hip flexor or sore knees or whatever. As I worked on form and more importantly as my body got stronger, this became a non issue. If you're like me just skip the lifts that are giving you trouble for a week, post a form check, and start over from a lighter weight. That's just me though, the problem went away after…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:45 AM
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I don't like to blame the victim and if the stories are how she says then that's terrible. Not your problem, but terrible. From a relationship standpoint you do have to be critical and ask yourself what kind of judgment this girl has. She gets so drunk she can't control herself and is predictably taken advantage of. She is not girlfriend material. That's also assuming everything she says is true which itself is a stretch. Also have to question her judgment in telling you at all. You didn't need …
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:41 AM
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Power of all kinds is shown through actions not words. It's like a tiny barking dog vs. a quiet big dog. If your plate is being disrespectful you don't bark, you just find another bitch to fuck. If she changes her behavior then you might give her a second sniff. A good plate doesn't need to be told anything because they are attracted to you and all of the good things - being on time, good sex, cooking for you, whatever - comes with that.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:57 AM
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This is not your problem. I'm an alcoholic and have no idea how someone would help me "cure" it, it all had to come from within to get my year of sobriety. Your brother can look into SMART if he isn't into AA. Also join /r/stopdrinking. He should also talk to a counselor or therapist, yes his excuse is bullshit if it's so bad he can drive an hour or two away. Anyway a self respecting therapist wouldn't let it interfere with him, as nobody would know. There is an AA for families but you have to g…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 12:44 AM
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Having lived in some of those places I'd recommend Latin America instead. There is no compromise in terms of variety, climate, food, time zone, etc. there are a lot of trade offs to deal with living in Asia. Being a TRP man in Asia I've burned out of spinning plates to some degree because you fuck enough of these girls and they all look the same. I mean roughly the same height, proportions, clothes. I'd kill for a red headed Irish girl just for something different. That said if you're a single m…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 02:47 PM
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My job involves constant public speaking, and some days I am anxious. Not necessarily about the speaking, I'm used to it, but if you're anxious it can tend to get amplified with dozens of eyes on you. I dunno.. I just ignore it. Can't hurt me. Fake it till you make it etc. at the end of the day I'm just pulling the levers on a machine (my body) and can put on an act for as long as it takes.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 02:41 PM
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I see at least a dozen of these girls in my life on any given week, and I'd never make a post about any of them or even notice if they were distant. Something doesn't make sense here.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 02:27 PM
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This girl owes you nothing. Maybe she's happy with her boyfriend? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3slr6k/covert_contracts_and_why_they_suck/ See number three. Be professional and friendly to her. Stop trying to get your dick wet at work. Next time you get any tingles for a girl, that isn't a coworker, you ask her on a date immediately. Then go on the date or move on.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 11:54 AM
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I've had the same problem. I had some success making an effort to keep things new, e.g. Being more aggressive, new positions. It can be easy to fall into a routine with a girl. When I keep her on her toes a little it makes it more exciting for me because it's new for her, so a little similar to fucking her the first time.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 11:48 AM
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I don't even see much of an advantage past 7. My dick is hard, her body is nice, does the shape of her face being perfectly proportioned or whatever really matter? Most of why people care is just status, it's why ugly blonde girls are still automatically considered hot. As long as she has an ok face and a nice ass and a handful of tits, it's all the same to me.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 08:25 AM
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You can learn more in them than anything, but they are dangerous. Could end up wasting four years. Could end up married for twenty. All to the wrong woman. I've been fortunate enough to keep them on the shorter side (year or less) and get sort of condensed versions of these lessons, but mid-LTR you can miss a lot of signals. Male hamster gets real jacked in an LTR and can kick your ass and ruin your life, think you hamster your way into kids with the wrong woman. Scary to think where I've almost…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 08:21 AM
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First of all she isn't a unicorn, what would make her that? She's a typical basic bitch that fucked and blew dudes because her friend told her it was cool. Second it sounds like you two took a break. Are you ok with snowflake having sucked another dick while on that break? Because that happened. Be careful with this one
/r/askTRP04/01/16 08:17 AM
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Yes, especially the hips. If her mom ends up a whale with a giant waist, sure thing the girl will too.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 11:51 PM
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For some reason she thinks it's ok or is encouraged to talk to you about this. That's your own fault
/r/askTRP03/01/16 09:49 PM
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How long have you been doing it? I went hard online for a good 6 months, it was fulfilling my needs just fine so I let other approaches lay to the wayside. I've noticed in the last month or so I've stalled out, for a couple of reasons: 1) You can run through a lot of volume online, so even in this city of 9 million I find myself running out of fresh meat. Part of that is because.. 2) My standards becoming higher (looks, distance, etc.) since it always seems to easy just to move on to the next on…
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:15 PM
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I'm a recovering alcoholic. To answer your question, I'd say the definition of 'going out' changes. If you're asking how I am fun and cool in bars without drinking, I'm not because I don't go to bars. I don't 'go out' much in general unless it's a date or there is a purpose. Randomly walking to different places aka 'going out' is more of a drinking activity to me so I don't do it anymore. In terms of not giving a fuck, knowing I have full control,over my body and life has given me unshakable con…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 11:40 PM
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You're screening out a lot of girls who would go, but won't agree to it beforehand. Girls who agree to it beforehand will tend to be ONS material only, maybe a plate. I'm guilty of doing this too but it's really a lot better if you just put the time in. More than half end up at my house anyway, most of which would never have agreed to do so before we went out.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 05:13 AM
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But then again who do u know would willingly discus all of their sexuality. Is it important to you, what happened? Then she should be willing. And thinking every woman is lying about every single thing they say is pretty cynical This woman, specifically, is lying and has lied to you. Ok so let's take all of TRP out of this and let your hamster run wild. Let's say her blowing 10 guys doesn't matter, her lying is understandable, all of that. My biggest problem with this situation is she is not cap…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 04:34 AM
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I don't know, still cute but wearing a cardigan and looking polite. Think 'She's All That'
/r/askTRP01/01/16 04:08 AM
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No. I tend to wonder how many nice guys have crushed on the slutty but homely looking girls I meet. Believing her to be a unicorn.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 04:03 AM
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She initially hid some facts about it. Everything you think happened is actually what happened. And she's ok lying to you. We hooked up on the first night, She's been on this Earth for 30 years and every N+ just takes a few hours for her. You do the math. Now, im thinking she might just be a slut and I am stupid for considering her LTR material,, then the other part of me kicks in and says Im being an idiot for thinking that a woman with a N count below 10 is a slut This is based on a faulty pre…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 03:37 AM
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Enjoy telling all of the other dudes at the retirement home about the handy you got 40 years ago from that HB6 from okcupid
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 09:11 AM
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This pact you made was you giving up commitment for free. Not full on commitment but you gave her access to your Rolodex, so to speak, which is a concession of power by you due to some attempt at mate guarding. You escalated this to exclusivity out of fear of being jealous of her. I'm not seeing how long you knew this chick before doing this, but she did not seem to earn your commitment to exclusivity beyond you developin oneitis. Second, you're buying her abusive boyfriend is-to-blame story, ev…
/r/askTRP31/12/15 09:01 AM
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Why are people knocking having children as 'foolish' in this sub. You really think you'll still be banging Tinderellas when you're 90? Is that what you want your legacy to be? seems to be missing the forest for the trees, personally for me the sluts are just stepping stones to finding a mother for my future children.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 08:13 AM
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Eat bananas and drink water (potassium and hydration)
/r/askTRP31/12/15 07:24 AM
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Cheating on a beta as fuck boyfriend is bad. AWALT but like men there is a difference in how much control we exert over our instincts. If she can't break up with Beta Bob before fucking Chad it exposes some major character flaws. Transitions in past relationships (how they got from A to B) is often the easiest to find out from circumstance and Facebook. Very valuable screening tool. E.g. Was Chad in a lot of photos with her before her breakup? Was he liking posts? This is a girl who is not loyal…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 06:26 AM
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It sounds like she was asking for a specific time. You should have replied back with 'drinks Tuesday 9pm XYZ Bar,' anything except for yes and you have your answer
/r/askTRP31/12/15 05:59 AM
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Ladies man can be a sarcastic comment, I mean look at the film Ladies Man. If you're getting all of your advice here you may be coming on too strong and women can see through it.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 05:27 AM
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At 21 yea you should. However I remember feeling like you did. Eventually I just stopped going to parties. It wasn't even necessarily anxiety, I just don't enjoy them. I wasn't good at parties because I didn't give a shit. Still, being able to appear at a party is a good skill to practice. I haven't been to one in almost 4 years now though, and I'm 29. By party I mean a big gathering of strangers and acquaintances.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 05:24 AM
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That isn't a potential flake, it's a rejection.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 01:18 AM
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Dude maybe he is focused on his family and wants her to be too, worry about your own shit and don't pity a guy for working on his legacy
/r/askTRP29/12/15 02:01 PM
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You could fuck a million women and it wouldn't disprove anything. In fact using TRP methods you would never even meet the girls I'm talking about. This is not a matter of experience, I've fucked plenty of Asian girls. Your not having experienced these girls is more of a reflection on your sourcing methods.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 08:52 AM
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All women are like that. Not the same. Dude I know it's easy to fuck most girls here, that doesn't mean more conservative ones don't exist. You aren't understanding the difference in what I said. It doesn't take beta to fuck girls in general here. However there are some girls that are going to take more effort and commitment to get sex.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 08:19 AM
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That's not what I said. I said there are good girls in Asia who are not down to fuck too quickly. If it's just a matter if wanting to fuck an Asian "good girl," yes that's easy because there are a lot of women and some are easier than others, and for most good girl is just a facade. However just as there are more and less virtuous girls in the West, so too is it a sliding scale in Asia. I just find there are more of the family values types here, likely because they often live at home into their …
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:46 AM
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whats your point
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:24 AM
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Yea not the type of girls I'm talking about. Congrats on getting laid in Asia though
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:15 AM
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Please mods, just make it a rule. 'I saw a girl' posts or 'I matched on tinder' posts or otherwise anything that is so far from a goal, should be deleted. Dude hasn't even met this chick, who knows how he stalked the information he currently has
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:13 AM
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Your problem is you think someone owes you something. You don't have to pursue any of these women, why are you getting so worked up about it? As far as what is written, 'no hook ups' and the like is because it's a public profile so they aren't exactly going to write 'looking for a dick to suck tonight' and have their face on there. Just talk to them a little and if they seem game to meet for a date then go for it. If not, delete.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 05:16 AM
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Two days is not a long time. Go no contact for a week at a time, texting only for logistics. She could just be good plate material. Plates are best when they don't want more, don't make you awkwardly ignore their infatuation with you, etc.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:14 AM
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I dint know about you but I've never laid next to a stranger and spooned her. Don't imagine most girls would let you do that. There's more to this story and you're never going to get it. You will, however, have a hell of a time playing beta bitch begging for the truth to be trickled out to you. I'd just walk away, sounds like you're young anyway why bother with an LTR
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:04 AM
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Had some similar experiences, one thing missing in your self analysis here is that you are missing an idea, not a person. It's probably been a long time since you actually talked to her. At this point and even when you were together, she was an idea to you. It's important to separate the idea of an LTR from an actual flesh and blood ex. They make convenient idols for worship but in reality there are a million like her. Also despite none of my FWB being as important of a relationship, I like to r…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 12:59 AM
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If it's part of a flirtatious dynamic it can work, I.e., she participates in the chase in some way (even by just not being a bitch or letting you talk to her alone). The older stories you hear are because courtship was different then and often the women acted disinterested as to not seem easy. Here in Asia if you want a legit 'good girl' you're going to have to get through some layers, even the act of dating has social implications for her so she will want to be 'friends' first and the sex accid…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 12:51 AM
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I like to imagine you posting that clip as a rebuttal in any thread no matter how unrelated.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 04:48 PM
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I send an 'ok' after a while. Yes we have this counteroffer rule but some people are just socially inept or need a little pressure. Ok signals I'm done contributing. Sometimes I'll get an offer back other times not. I don't like not responding at all because there is no call to action, e.g. It's normal not to reply for awhile anyway, so she waits, then eventually you just fade away.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 03:05 PM
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I was with you, especially the legacy bit, but feel the complete opposite in terms of partner. I idolize my grandparents patriarchy, grandpa at the head of the table, a dozen grandchildren running around at Thanksgiving dinner. I don't want to try to go old school with a career woman, and as someone who had a stay at home mom, I don't want my kids to be going to daycare all of the time. I knew those kids growing up and they were nearly always worse off. I want a woman who is reasonably smart, an…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 01:44 PM
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Anger about women is dismissed because it is useless. We've all been there, and probably will be again, and the end result is always the same. The anger fades and you wonder why you even cared about her. So for someone in the throes of that anger it's good to remind them of the futility, and to focus on the future which they know includes the loss of anger.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 01:03 PM
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Shows the importance of setting. Many of these guys wouldn't have a chance in New York with the same girls.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 11:21 AM
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It seems like true TRP enlightenment does come from leaving it behind. I mean feminists had a point 50 years ago but do you want the woman who is raging and leading the charge or the one who takes what she needs and moves on with her life. I like the latter better and think its better for me to do the same with TRP.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 01:58 AM
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Yea it's really up to the man to lead. The most boring women I've had are actually the ones with the most experience, who want something specific. Example is rape fantasy. They just lie there and don't do anything and call it a kink. Or the ones who try to go all pussy control and end up bending your dick, I don't like it just because the paranoia of bending my dick.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 05:33 AM
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He said same building not same company. Way too paranoid
/r/askTRP25/12/15 10:16 AM
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It's normal to be annoyed just by the sheer uncomfortableness of it, I usually have no problem with it but there are some days some conflict comes up that I just really, really don't want to deal with. It's important to remember to pick your battles. Really take a minute and decide how much you care, or if you should care. This removes 99% of problems most people face with others. With coworkers you can do better by insulating yourself from responsibilities you have no control over. E.g. If John…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 12:04 PM
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Did you fuck her again? Did you want to? Inspired by this I got stricter with my game today when an old prospect came calling. I got offered FWB but unlike you I didn't have the balls to say "no," though I didn't say yes and teased it out of her that she's going to suck my dick first thing when she meets me. Still, much props for that discipline. I could not do it today, she's a little timid and I didn't know what my plan was if she just sulked away.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 11:52 AM
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I need to do a field report on Asian women. Long story short there is no Asian unicorn, AWALT. It is a minefield out there but there are some women who by virtue of circumstance or values didn't get dicked by a dozen guys in college. The good news is you get to fuck a bunch of girls on your way to finding one.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 11:47 AM
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It's an ego boost. Now she's gone you start to doubt all the thoughts about her you once had, like that easy confidence of 'I can fuck her if I choose' every day you saw her. The good news if you're like me is this is the easiest type of oneitis to get over. Go find another girl.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 11:42 AM
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The biggest mistake people make from TRP is being an asshole. Despite AWALT women and people in general want to smile, feel good about themselves, etc. They don't want to be worn down to submission. The object is not to beat an opponent it is to form a connection on your terms. So yes, smile and be friendly. The only problem comes in from nervous laughter, or laughing to deescalate tension where it's not necessary. For example "Are you a bad guy?" Answered "Sometimes" should not be followed by h…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 07:58 AM
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Not a lot to gain but a lot to lose. First, the act of requesting friendship conveys neediness. Second, if you're a busy man you don't have time for social media bullshit so your page is going to be boring. Since she places value in this world, that will make you seem boring. All of these problems for no benefit whatsoever. The only reason I'd want to do it is to vet for LTR. That's tricky because you need to do it soon enough where she isn't paranoid and covering her tracks. Probably do it in h…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 05:17 AM
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See your hands? See your feet? See your arms and legs? You're still here, man. You're still breathing. Those other things don't exist to you. focus on yourself, today, what you're doing tomorrow. That and time and pussy.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:21 AM
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I didn't watch porn for a while and it seemed to hurt my sex drive. Something about fantasizing about fucking made me really motivated to go get the real thing. I don't watch it often now and am kind of on the fence as to whether I should go back or not. I agree that once per day masturbating is not a problem, at least not for me. It becomes more of a distraction if I don't bust a nut for a long time.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 02:04 AM
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You're applying one rule to a different situation. She's talking about having sex with him because he propositioned her for sex (that's what my/your place and a movie is). It isn't an indication of anything on her part, OP is the one who raised the sex topic. If she AGREES to go to your place or hers, and then says something like that, then yes I agree with you. This girl is flat out refusing to go, and wants to meet outside, specifically because she does not want to have sex with OP. Now it's p…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:57 AM
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You can hear people talk about anti slut defense, shit tests yadayada but I find it easier in a situation like this just to move on. She is just not that into you
/r/askTRP22/12/15 12:25 AM
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I started going to college in my junior year, on the state's dime. If your state offers running start or something similar, the last two years of high school are a waste of time and money.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 03:07 PM
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She's fucking someone she saw at the concert. Take it or leave it you've just been given the truth.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 01:42 AM
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Yes I expect BJs without returning the favor. I'm almost completely selfish then I give her some time mid fuck where I'm focused on her, to make sure she gets off, then I go caveman. If she pulls a bunch of LMR shit, ESPECIALLY stopping and starting after second or third base, I'm 100% selfish and am running for the nut.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 01:12 AM
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Ignore. Do not engage, do not make petty comebacks, do not flip it on him. If it is too awkward to ignore just smile and nod and disregard whatever he said. If he confronts you just smile and nod and say ok, I understand, and continue to ignore in your actions. These people are pathological, if you try to confront them they have no problem making awkward confrontation that makes you both look bad. It's like getting in a fight with a homeless person, yea you might win but you have nothing to gain…
/r/askTRP21/12/15 01:06 AM
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Laugh. The girls I'm fucking think I'm attractive enough. Same as my beard when I first grew it, any negative comment I'd just think of the girls I'm fucking grabbing it while I pound them and think nah.. It's doing something right.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 01:02 AM
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For the girls I was fucking, I stayed the same mostly. I'm a fan of dont fix what isnt broken. If youre not fucking them, why bother running uphill when you can run down, pussy is in all directions.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 12:57 AM
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The front desk. Ask them where the nearest gym is.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 12:39 AM
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I go on cheap dates that cost less than $5. Telling them to split is ok, but I dont even want to be spending a lot for myself on first dates.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 12:38 AM
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What you did is similar to giving a girl a compliment right when you meet her. It seems needy, and beta because you're just handing her power for free. She can earn compliments, either through being playful with flirting (e.g. Handling negs well) or in the case of sex once you've had it more with her. I mean was the sex really that great as to be worth a mention? If it was just normal then you come across as thirsty for gushing about it.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 06:29 AM
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I don't treat the second date much different than the first. I mean you flirt a little bit then invite her somewhere. After that I usually check in once a week or so with plates, that usually ends up with setting up a meeting anyway. I see it as a status check, if one seems to be falling I know I need a replacement soon.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 03:56 AM
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Yea it's a judgment call, I'm never satisfied with how the explaining goes. On some level it shouldn't need to be explained, and you don't want to seek butt hurt. I'm never mad about it, just reciprocating, so it's hard to talk about without seeming butt hurt. You probably handled it well enough, just keep it brief like it seems you did. Her complaining about you not visiting her is just hamstering, ignore it. She's wrong and is trying to find food for her hamster. Now she's not the bad guy for …
/r/askTRP17/12/15 06:22 AM
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True to an extent. I instinctually felt and acted in a TRP way but social conditioning kept it in check to a large degree. I generally didn't take shit from anyone Hb10 or not, but did fall victim to gas lighting in an LTR to the point where I questioned my sanity. It helps to know the rules so you're not trying to figure out how to dodge a punch while in the ring.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 05:35 AM
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Two ways that I handle this. She's just late because she sucks at time management/doesn't care? Downgrade the dates. Start meeting at your house, or at most places near your house where she can text you when she arrives. She's frequently cancelling? Sometimes it happens depending on her job, life etc. Regardless, limit scheduling to last minute (as you did), coming to your house, where you had nothing going on anyway or an alternative and don't care if she cancels. If she bitches about either sc…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:42 AM
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I haven't tried poly but it seems to me any non-LTR is going to be poly by default (e.g. Plates). So we can criticize poly relationships but those reasons already exist in other relationships. And I don't buy the claim from some that they keep their plates exclusive. It's a fantasy and a waste of energy. Another assumption here is that the man is providing any resources at all. What's to say a poly relationship isn't just a glorified long term plate? You know someone long enough you get closer, …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 03:23 AM
1

I do not, because I can not, because I'm this, because Remove these phrases from your vocabulary. You suck at self analysis. Look where it's got you. The solution is to pull a Constanza. Stop listening to yourself. Start doing what other people do. Get a fitness program and follow it. Do what it tells you. Set up some online dates, read how here. Do what they tell you. Go on the dates, maybe read Models first. Do what it tells you. You have a lack of experience in anything you need to do, but fe…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 02:21 AM
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It should be regular behavior. It's disrespectful to be friends with an ex if you're in a relationship. Go away, you're not wanted. They're probably mean to you because you're a liability, you're a friendly guy but not worth their boyfriend finding out they're talking to you. I mean there are a lot of bad things we could say about women here but being cold to an ex after finding a new boyfriend is perfectly fine behavior to me. If this bothers you I suspect you're dealing with Nice Guy Syndrome.…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:02 PM
1

Problem seems to be with scheduling. You're too available. She can have you whenever she wants so it's easy to delay and your value diminishes. The answer isn't necessarily to fake unavailability, but to frame meetings differently. Tell her to come over X night. Like the next day or day after. When she rejects you, ignore it. Let her offer an alternative time. If she never does then yes she's dropping, repeat a week later. If she rejects and doesn't offer an alternative you're really done. If yo…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:56 PM
1

Yesterday a girl came to my place, complete stranger from Tinder. She didn't say much but we'd talked sexually prior. Within 5 minutes of the conversation getting awkward I told her to suck my dick. Guess what happens next. For fucks sake she was so willing I recorded the thing on my phone with her consent, just to see if she'd let me. I'm always escalating so with nowhere to go that's where I went.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:41 PM
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The criticism of your post I'm not seeing here is that you're making women your first priority. It seems anything else is a buffer to you., Women are the lowest priority in my life. If it wasn't for this flab of skin in my pants getting tingly sometimes, I wouldn't spend any time on them at all. Spending time with friends, being well rested for a good job, making money, self improvement, is what really counts. You just can't lie to yourself to the point where you have deficiencies in your sexual…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 05:10 PM
1

The problem is in some circles, escalation is sexual assault. So if I'm on a date, bring her home, start making out, and I go to touch her breast, that can be considered assault in some circles (especially the college feminist crowd). I did not have explicit consent to reach for her breast. The argument here seems to be should women have some responsibility to accept that in these situations, sexual things will be attempted. Nobody is saying I am owed a fuck if I bring you home, but that a reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 07:16 AM
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Id call it more of a crutch than a cheat code, for the reasons you mentioned. It goes away and you return to self doubt without it. You'll know you're still that weaker person deep down.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:53 AM
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There's an argument to be made either way, TRP just had a sticky about not casting moral judgments on others that is worth remembering. It's not illegal anywhere, that's for HIV. And I'm satisfied my moral compass is sound, as I said I don't expect to be told, don't have the disease, and apply the same standard to others that I do myself.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:49 AM
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It's worth remembering it's a public forum. And what's said there is no worse than what it said half seriously in locker rooms around the world, it's an outlet for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 06:46 AM
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AWALT is not met by AMALT because it's not relevant to men, we don't seek partnerships with men outside simple friendship. I don't need to talk about male tendencies because I'm not concerned with them, to the extend I do care (e.g. about my own tendencies) AMALT is essentially covered by TRPs core philosophy anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 06:44 AM
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All of your responses come down to 'but what if a man had to..' We must think supporting role isn't valuable, or else we'd take it? Again this is feminism seeking fairness through equal roles and outcomes, seeking women to be like men and vice versa. So any argument about a male or female role will be met by you with an example of how if it's fair, a role reversal should be fair as well. TRP,rejects that and embraces the fact that men and women are different. If you flip their roles it will be b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 06:40 AM
1

You'd be surprised what's obtainable these days. All it takes is a Facebook or Twitter PM. Maybe not Chris Hemsworth unless she's quite hot, but if ZZ Top comes to town you can bet she can have her face buried in that big blonde bush before the night is over.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:20 AM
1

I've already decided if I get it I won't tell anyone, and if someone else has it I don't expect them to tell me. It's a harmless skin condition. I don't think people should become lepers over it, that's the worst part of it. Moreover a ton of people have it but just never got it verified or don't show symptoms. So you're the bad guy because you went to a doctor? Because unless you go specifically to check for herpes, you're not going to know. I thought the same thing when I had only two n-count …
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:17 AM
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No for two reasons. One, self respect. She wants your commitment and is only offering friendship in return, not to mention taking the choice away from you to commit at all. Two, the lack of respect you'd have for yourself in taking such an offer will make her pussy dry up anyway. I'd try to finagle a fuck or two more but plan on this one breaking soon. I'd step up my game elsewhere ASAP as my game gets sloppy when I'm thirsty.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:02 PM
2

I agree that your reply was a mistake and you should check in in the morning with a deflection, but this shit pisses me off and I'd half-next her, like really be drip drip with any communication for a while. I can't stand when someone takes a fun flirty comment like yours and tries to turn it into a power play or some argument. Look at how light the conversation was until she brings that shit up about sharing things that go into her body. Likes exclusivity is supposed to be assumed, and how dare…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:34 PM
1

I'm addressing half your point, which is that I don't care what she can find on a map as long as she is a skilled woman in the traditional sense. I've dated a girl with Minnie Mouse decorations in her room, but she was so good at being feminine and flirting in a way that brought me up. I didn't need her to talk about Afghanistan, she was fun to be around and in that situation she's only getting 20% of me while I keep the rest to myself, it's kind of nice. I agree that ogling fictional or real me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 04:18 PM
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See I'm thinking of going in the other direction. What you're talking about is a best friend. What I'm talking about is a yin and a yang. What if she had a big heart, cared about kids or something, loved Disney movies, could cook like a champ and cleaned the house? And was just in her own little world of girly shit (Sex in the City type stuff excluded, I'm talking wholesome). Ok so you have this chick raising your kids, she'ssweet enough, cares for you, you connect on some level, at the same tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 03:42 PM
1

You're way too invested in what are at this point pixels on a screen, you've already lost.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 10:00 AM
2

It's a hookup app. Hook up or gtfo. If tinder girl isn't blowing me in the first date I'm outie, it's not like I'm looking for a wife on there.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 08:10 AM
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Peak is a relative term. It only matters in relation to yourself. You do not reach someone else's peak nor they yours. Many men do not reach maturity to take care of their bodies until their late twenties or thirties. As important many men don't emotionally mature into 'men' until mid twenties or thirties. Especially given the likely immaturity if early twenties guys, I'd guess an average peak of 30 to 35 is likeliest. But you'll have some awesome 22 year olds (Michael Phelps?) and some awesome …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 02:02 AM
2

I live in SE Asia and started at a gym like that. It was definitely cool but I was so much happier when I switched to a slightly better gym. The equipment was organized rather than shit being all over the floor, air con meant I could do my workout at my own pace and enjoy it, and they had microplates and closer to Olympic bars. And a digital scale where I could weigh the bars and shit I'd throw on for progression.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 02:43 PM
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Good for you man, I went through similar and no amount of fucking was curing it. Just took time. I was about 85% over it for three months but knew I was at 100% when I didn't have the energy to bother thinking about it anymore. She wasn't worth a second thought. To your advice I'd add do not look at any of her social media. I have a weak spot for that because I'm curious by nature, had to make a concerted effort to stop because it would open old wounds. It also helps to be more inward looking, e…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 01:37 PM
3

I do, it's AWALT not AWATSame
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 01:01 PM
1

I run into a similar issue in SE Asia. Yes yes I am drowning in pussy but I live here and am not talking about the club girls that tourists hook up with, I'm talking normal girls here are usually not looking for a fuck buddy. They usually aren't sexually active until 19 or 20, and 20-23 is where they might start being more open about sex. I've found it best just to sidestep LTR talk, treat it like a normal courtship with sex. Add some comfort via dates. Inevitably I get lazy and lay off the comf…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 12:57 PM
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I don't like this because it makes the dread intentional. The point of not responding is that you're actually too busy to read it. It adds more mystery. If she knows you're glued to your phone 24x7 it seems like you're being a dick or trying too hard. Ymmv
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 12:49 PM
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It's a shame that I dont shit where I eat. I work with kids, with hot female assistants. I don't think I'm being delusional when I say they give me fuck me eyes all day. Every day I'm tempted to break my rule if only to see if it's true. Fwiw they are at my usual level of SMV outside of work so it isn't a fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 12:35 PM
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You're talking about two extremes. I have no problem texting outside of making plans. The key is to text with a specific purpose. Note that purpose doesn't need to be the topic of the texts. E.g. I haven't seen a plate for a week, I flirted with her a little today as a check-in. That's a purpose. What I don't do is text her when I'm lonely or bored, which has no purpose. This is what you were doing.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 12:31 PM
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They ban the subscribers or the ideas? This is my main account. Haven't been banned anywhere.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 12:28 PM
1

Whatever it is, giving a girl your number and waiting around for her to call is anything but within your frame. Who is leading who there?
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:19 PM
1

I follow the once a week rule, which maxes me out at about three plates. Any more than that and I'm not meeting anyone new. I suppose if I had more plates I'd do it once every two weeks, but I imagine they'd break earlier. You're not providing much value as a guy that fucks her twice a month.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 06:01 AM
1

Never give a girl your number, they can't take initiative it will kill the interaction. To avoid a direct power struggle I usually deflect the question briefly then say ok give me your number I'll text you. As someone else said, if the app is a decent messenger like Tinder, just set up the meeting. Saves a lot of time because a lot of girls will give numbers and text and then flake on meeting.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 05:58 AM
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Say you're busy. Women have no problem doing the same, seriously would you question her if she said that? I wouldn't. I don't expect people to come to me at the drop of a hat. Some girls will reciprocate if you're not polite about it. I usually just say 'I can't,' as it is as vague as it gets. I work a lot too so they can think whatever they want.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 05:54 AM
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I live in Southeast Asia and have had serious relationships here. Ive seen good girls and sluts and gold diggers. Good girls are not talkingvto foreigners online. When you meet them theyre quite reserved as they look slutty if they date a foreigner. On top of that, the Philippinnes is prime territory for green card seekers. She is better than you at this. Donny youre out of your element.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 04:15 AM
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Once a day isnt tjat bad. Get laid more the problem solves itself.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 11:32 PM
2

Valid questions but the wrong ones for you right now. Two months after Michelle, you're feeling separation anxiety and want a replacement. You need more time to be comfortable being alone before you latch onto someone else. If you find a girlfriend now you will continue to be terrified of being alone and will let her walk all over you.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:10 AM
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It's bad to do that because it isn't a joke. I mean it isn't funny, is it? You're making a sarcastic comment and telling me you do it to see how she talks about her other men or lack thereof. So the point of doing this is to ask her about others, which is needy and unnecessary because as you say she is going to lie anyway.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 11:24 PM
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It only bothers me in principle, and I only bring it up in the context if this topic. It doesn't affect me at all. I just found it interesting that she was intentionally forcing me to snoop.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 11:20 PM
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I keep an audio diary on my ipad. I actually started doing it because I quit drinking, but eventually I ended up talking more about this relationship I was in. Saved my life. I caught little things I had forgot about, feelings I had early on as well as shit she told me that was false that I had forgot about (you let enough little things slide over time you eventually forget about the totality). Highly recommended, captures real thoughts better than writing for me.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 03:06 PM
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It feeds into her frame and she knows it. I had a plate this morning - super plate, exactly what I want in all respects from a plate - text in bed this morning. She texts so I can obviously see the screen, and she's texting some other guy. It's the second time she's done this so I'm sure it's intentional. So -1 for her. I can either a) next her, b) bitch and moan about what she's doing, c) bitch and moan about her seeing other guys, or d) get up and make a cup of coffee and ignore it. I chose d …
/r/askTRP09/12/15 03:03 PM
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Don't text them for validation. Text with a purpose - either logistics or a warmer text conversation if it's been almost a week or so. Do not ask, joke (subtle ask), or reference her and other men. Do not give a shit what she does outside your home, if she gives off the super slut vibe just dump her.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:40 PM
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I tend to agree but have found you waste a lot of time. I'm experimenting with throwing out a soft date (Let's get coffee this week) to gauge meetability and continue with the flirt. All against standard pickup advice which says go specific. I'm tending to like it thus far, I filter out the standard excuses quickly (I'm leaving town etc etc) and am focusing my attention more efficiently. I let the date hang there and then while flirting set up the hard date.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 10:01 AM
3

Stop dealing drugs and nutting in chicks you don't want babies with.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 08:45 AM
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Hard next. These are such a waste of time. I don't have an answer but I think it has to do with them wanting to extend the relationship to hamster not being a slut. So if they dated you a few times total then it's normal you had sex, whereas if she fucks you off Tinder and never sees you again she feels dirty.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 08:18 AM
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Even many TRP followers would say women have it worse. At your age their SMV is downhill amd nearing plummet. Moreover if they have a romantic streak at all, their suitors are mostly trying to deceive them to use their bodies. Typical bad interaction for a male is simple rejection. They have higher risk for STDs and get pregnant.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 11:39 PM
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yea it works real well most of the time. You can neg her on her guess (e.g. if she guesses too high on age, tell her you should always subtract 5 from your real guess then try to guess her age at a number -10 or some ridiculously low number, basically mocking her lack of tact while giving her a fake-ish compliment). Or you can ask her a follow-up and if she's any good she'll 'get you back' by making you guess. That's rapport. It can go a million different directions.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:29 AM
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You must be a leader. That means leading the conversation. Women have no game, so when you give them the lead, they interview you. See this in real life: if a woman is attracted to you on the first date, put no effort into leading. Create an awkward silence. She will 9 times out of 10 start interviewing you. That's all she's got because she has no game. A good way to pivot out of this interaction is to ask them to guess. Now you made a little game, and usually pivot off of her guess to create co…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:18 AM
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Who knows what goes on inside her mind to justify the arrangement. Well of course, he doesn't respect her. He doesn't ask her about her problems. He ignores her texts so much. His dates are boring, he doesn't put enough thought into them. What a jer-- cock gobble gobble gobble-- excuse me, jerk.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:15 AM
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I've done this quite a bit. I sort of go on instinct but here's how it goes: 1) Maximize comfort. Find the best places for quick eats, indulgent eats (e.g. I fucking love BBQ ribs, if there is a place I can get them for $15 then that's great to know), set up your place for comfort (I got cheap surround sound speakers for $40 because I love watching movies). Basically think of all the inconveniences in your life right now, prioritize them and get rid of them ASAP. The reason for this is I hate fi…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:02 AM
1

Lucas looks like he needs to take a shit
/r/askTRP07/12/15 03:50 PM
1

Rachel's English on YouTube is great but she's American. But what it might help you do is study pronunciation if you haven't before. Or you can find a British resource. Singing songs also helps because it forces you to mimic and make the linking sounds as you must keep up with the pace.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 03:38 PM
1

Surprisingly I posted something like this in askreddit or someplace and got lots of up votes for it. I don't have herpes as far as I'm aware but have long decided I wouldn't tell anyone if I did, and do not expect to be told. It's ridiculous we should treat those people as lepers when it's a benign rash.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:27 PM
1

2-5 girls spinning, naturally some will break early, you're going to run some high numbers maintaining that.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:24 PM
1

Is that an offer?
/r/askTRP07/12/15 11:54 AM
2

I fuck this up so much. I think it's partly lack of motivation, chicks who aren't dtf after making out seem like they're going to try to leverage sex way too much. So I'll just invite them straight to my house next time and it usually fails when I refuse to go out with them. A girl is better off refusing to go home with me than she is going home with me and making out without sex. Don't know how that makes sense but it's the way it is.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 11:53 AM
1

I experienced this earlier this year and ended up in a 5-month relationship. It wasn't all bad. It had been a very long time and I had changed a lot since my last relationship, so I learned a lot. BUT. My only recent success with women (at that time), definitely led me to rush in. If you go a significant part of your life being passive romantically, your standards can get low. If your past girlfriends have been lame as shit, you might not even know it. And now you're dating many women and you se…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 12:28 AM
1

Comparing it to Starting Strength, which I'm currently doing, and 5x5 seems like a lot. I mean it'll just take a long time and endurance is going to be an issue. I imagine I'd end up with a lot of 5-5-3-2 type sets as the weight got heavier. They are very similar programs. I do power cleans instead of barbell rows in SS, I actually really enjoy them as it feels like a great tracker of progress and practical strength/power. These programs are great because they are simple. You'll find things get …
/r/askTRP05/12/15 11:16 PM
1

I usually don't like canned lines, but 'all of them' is fantastic. I also live in a different country so a lot of lines I see here just won't be understood well.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 11:26 PM
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Yes this is the most important part. Anyone who has ever been beta in an LTR can probably tell you they got stuck for longer than they should have because of the fear of being alone. Then you look back in it later and wonder what the fuck your were thinking. Abundance fast forwards that process because you know when a girl walks away you've got another few plus prospects. Your male hamster is suffocated.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 03:55 PM
1

Hmm, made out with a girl I met there today. Quality was that of day game vs. online garbage, solid HB7. Maybe I was getting down on myself too early, the percentages are lower since they're not specifically looking for a date. Change I made was I went quicker for the meet. I need to go through higher volume so must be really strict about the 5-10 messages before scheduling. It's easy to waste time on flirty girls who never intend to meet. Carry on
/r/askTRP03/12/15 03:48 PM
1

Your mom jokes are just a type of joke, they aren't literally about your mother. It's like a knock knock joke.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 02:06 AM
1

I like 'I have enough friends' but it sounds more butt hurt over text to me, in person it can be cheeky.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:41 AM
1

She's a grade A plate. Fine China. Some people seem to think of girls on a spectrum from ONS to plate to FWB to LTR. I think of it more like separate tiers. Example I've got a grade A plate that fucks like a champ and makes me feel great, very feminine, however she was so into it in the first date I knew what I was dealing with and put her in the appropriate category. No chance of feels, she is a different species as far as LTR is concerned.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 03:24 PM
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There should be a rule against posting about girls you haven't even met yet. 95% likely she is fishing for attention, you're the 100th guy to talk about grabbing her ass, and she is going to stop responding now after your open ended invitation. But don't feel bad the odds were never in your favor. The real 'quick strikes' in online dating are the chicks who recently joined. After 2+ months they are hardened veterans and miserable to be around.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 02:37 PM
1

What if I got oneitis in Asia?
/r/askTRP02/12/15 02:32 PM
2

It's a comfort test she'll break if he does this. Maybe that's the desired outcome but frankly he doesn't need any advice to break her, she's falling off all on her own and it'll happen within a week without him doing anything. She hasn't done anything wrong in how she approached this, she's just starting to wobble. So I disagree you next her because of it or give her silence unless the goal is to get rid of her, which again is already happening.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 01:48 PM
1

Dude she sounds like a prostitute.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:24 PM
2

It's like the equivalent of a guy fucking an ugly chick. In a vacuum, your true desire is to fuck her. But in the real world, your programmed response is no. Even alone with her you might say no because then she would know you did it.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 10:58 AM
3

Can you take a moment to assess whether you really care? When I started spinning, I got a jealous feeling when a girl hinted at fucking another guy. I took a step back and realized I didnt give a fuck about her and the jealousy was just a habitual reaction. I do drop them if they put it in my face too much, its disrespectful.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 11:43 PM
1

You always must initiate. The only one you fucked up on is the snapchat girl. You gave her an open ended invitation and put yourself into orbit. The second situation I can't comment on but you may be overthinking it. I handle the first the same, to me any excuse not to meet is an expression of disinterest and 'message me when you get back' basically says 'I won't pursue this unless we can meet.' It's not orbit because we are only connected via text and I ignore that until she says she is back in…
/r/askTRP01/12/15 04:12 AM
1

Two more accusers recently came forward, maybe a bad PR move. I mean innocent til proven guilty and all that but mods probably didn't want to go full Cosby.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 01:51 AM
5

Lack of abundance talking. Go out and get yourself that third plate if it's what you want. Why would you want That beat up pussy that you used for four years, go get another off the lot.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:34 AM
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For me it depends on the girl. It's the same as anything else in that she needs to be needier. She needs to want that sort of contact and if so its ok to engage in it. If youre constantly hovering over her and touching her it's going to be beta. I have a plate that is cold as ice in terms of affection, cool girl but just doesn't get into cuddling etc. so I play it cool. Another girl that likes to hug me tight and watch horror films, I get touchy feely with her especially as a reward since she's …
/r/askTRP30/11/15 03:44 PM
3

Broad question so broad answer, it starts by getting out of the habit of doing things to satisfy immediate needs. Identify life needs - career, interests, sex, etc. - and plan your time towards those. You might not want to get up and go to the gym because your favorite cartoon is on, but you go do it because it's what you want in life. You do this for a month or three and all of a sudden you've got a date tonight that you set up last week as you approach another girl, you've got a rotation going…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 03:05 PM
1

I haven't seen this said, but it goes to the acknowledgement by society as a whole (including BP and many feminists) that women are supposed to be gatekeepers of sex and are not capable of making the decision to sell it on their own. This is why prostitutes are often pitied, as victimized and irreparably damaged goods. This by people far outside of RP thinking. It ties into why the man is considered the rapist if two drunk people have sex. We're all acknowledging the man as the leader, and placi…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 05:49 AM
1

Plate at best. Learned from ex's history that either they are chasing and fucking these guys or if they aren't it's purely circumstantial and those circumstances will eventually change. Her poor ex boyfriend had to look at her fawn over the dude she ended up hooking up with, but had the balls to dump her over it within a month. I took it as letting someone else make the mistake for me to learn from, and dumped her when I found out. At its core it's just really immature behavior. There are girls …
/r/askTRP30/11/15 04:23 AM
3

I just don't dance. Don't show a weakness, if I'm researching on YouTube something that is supposed to look free flowing and natural, I doubt I'll get better or be comfortable doing it. Dancing doesn't fit with my frame either. Sometimes I'll dance alone, if I'm cooking or cleaning the house or something. I don't think I'm that bad. But maybe like you I don't see the point of doing it with other people, I get no enjoyment out of it. I don't listen to music with other people in general.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 03:26 AM
10

Unless your name is Brad Pitt there will be limits for the rest of us, you can make the SMV argument if you take it to extremes
/r/askTRP29/11/15 11:38 PM
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Nah. Not all girls do it. If you think about it its pretty goddamned slutty to fuck on the first, like ducking a random dude on the street.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 11:31 PM
11

Rejection shouldnt be awkward. Either its next or it isnt, if she rejects a kiss I bounce if she rejects my place, fair game, I had to try. As the leader you set the tone you are making it awkward.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 11:29 PM
11

Fuck your little sister
/r/askTRP28/11/15 11:16 PM
2

An interesting case study in some of what you're saying is to look at women with abusive fathers. It's been my experience, and they have a stereotype as a group, of being habitual (and good) liars. Because they have experienced living in fear both physical and emotional and having no power they must lie to survive growing up. Similarly a girl that still must lie to her parents, because she is younger or whatever, is going to be a habitual liar. She'll lie like she breathes just out of convenienc…
/r/askTRP28/11/15 07:58 AM
1

People downplaying emotional cheating are treating her like a plate. Women seek emotional intimacy from an LTR, if they are getting it elsewhere you are losing the girl and they are comfortable crossing lines. Not only that it's just plain disrespectful. This is a two year relationship not some chick from the club, emotional cheating matters.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 08:52 AM
2

Be genuine and don't overdo it. I like dating girls with style and my plates usually love that I appreciate their clothes. The first compliments I give a girl usually come about a half hour in the first date after I've teased her a bit and built rapport. I never compliment shit they have no control over, e.g. Beautiful eyes, compliment things they have done or chosen, e.g. Clothes, fitness, makeup, hair style, etc.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 03:22 AM
2

My goals are as follows: Every weekday I get 1 hour to play video games, every weekend day I get 2 hours to play video games. If I don’t use up these hours one day, they can be transferred over to another day. Not knowing your current usage, this sounds like kind of a lame goal. I mean you're still playing video games for 4 hours on the weekend. At the very least take off the 'bank' stipulation, that's just asking for abuse by you later down the road. Do you really need to save the hour you miss…
/r/askTRP27/11/15 12:30 AM
1

Big red flag from a potential employer. If it's your future boss, don't take the job. If it's HR, take the job knowing the company is poorly run. This question is useless.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 11:29 PM
5

You did a great job working your way to the right path, even if the whole thing was a fuckup. Where things were over was when you had to start telling her how to act - 'don't contact your ex, don't post this shit on social media, why aren't you posting about me. ' Women will nod in agreement but they won't agree and are not LTR material if this common sense shit isn't already wired into their brain. Then you dragged it out for awhile but sounds like you sort of knew it was done once she started …
/r/askTRP26/11/15 04:31 PM
2

Curious as to context. Women shouldn't know what you're really thinking so there should be little material to call you sexist. Selfish, yea, an asshole, maybe, but sexist? Nah
/r/askTRP26/11/15 04:20 PM
1

Ironically a lot of us follow this path in approaching women, though. The logic there is resistance usually equals lack of attraction, through sheer numbers it's better to try elsewhere. But the tendency to follow the path of least resistance is there.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 04:17 PM
9

say her u have got many potato
/r/askTRP26/11/15 03:35 PM
1

It's like a drug, there will be withdrawals. Give it time and the need for validation will fade.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 06:03 AM
1

A lot of women will want to get in a power struggle with you and do shit like try to define the relationship. If it's power-seeking behavior you shut it down. If it's comfort seeking you can deflect the conversation and provide some comfort when needed. E.g. 'What are we?' Can be deflected by teasing her that she worries so much, then 'I like spending time with you,' then up the comfort of the next meeting, e.g. Go out and do something with her. It's normal and natural for two people to casually…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 06:01 AM
1

I've gone mostly online the past few months. It's so low effort, I'm busy, and I do well enough I don't see the need to spend a whole afternoon walking around approaching women. That said, it's true the quality is better with day game. But I'm getting my dick wet more than enough so whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 05:50 AM
4

The most pathetic people are the ones doing mind numbing shit for a boss they hate and jumping through hoops for some corporation to get thrown their $100k/year bone so they can drive a Lexus and feel 'successful.' Nothing wrong with corporate jobs but most people working in an office didn't dream of doing what they're doing. And it's pathetic to me because they either never had dreams, or they never pursued them - they never tried big or failed big. I'm a teacher. I like my job most days. I get…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 02:12 AM
1

Nobody can help you with motivation. All I can say is to achieve worthy goals, you need an attitude shift. Life isn't about maximum gratification at every moment. You don't do what you want to do at any moment. You shouldn't do or not do things based on what you want at any given time (e.g. I don't feeeeeeeeeeeeeel like going to the gym!). That's for children and women. The attitude adjustment is that sometimes you aren't in control of what you must do today. You're just along for the ride. You …
/r/askTRP26/11/15 02:07 AM
0

Don't listen to her words but to the feelings she is communicating via the words.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 12:26 AM
69

My man
/r/askTRP26/11/15 12:23 AM
13

I dumped a girl for a lot less than this, but something similar. It was just one guy but she'd found him on Facebook while in an LTR. Straight up going for sex with a minor celebrity via Facebook is very worrisome.. Suddenly her Facebook activity has slutty undertones, her interest in football or music or whatever she fucked has slutty undertones, it creates a lot of problems that you may never move past. I mean will you be able to handle seeing college football on TV with her around? Edit: to e…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 12:21 AM
1

New York City
/r/askTRP26/11/15 12:14 AM
6

Don't give a shit. Schedule a time to meet (fuck her). If the answer is anything but yes, try one more time later. If the answer is anything but yes delete her number from your phone.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:05 PM
9

It's her choice to grind with him. It's your choice to bring this girl to the club in the first place. I realize my mistake, find another girl, and never make that mistake again.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 11:46 AM
1

Seems like a nice enough girl that wasted a lot of time with you. Dump her for her sake at least. If you want to go around fucking girls, awesome, why waste her time.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 06:27 AM
1

Oneitis, hard next.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 06:21 AM
2

Step 1 - keep cool hwip nearby, maybe slyly place it in the room near a "mark" - where you will place yourself during sexy times. Step 2 - initiate sexy times Step 3 - Get to your mark, reach for cool hwip, place on dick with a smile. Mid-sex you can get away with a lot if you have confidence and don't give her a lot of time to think. I did the above when I wanted to record sex. If I had some kind of conversation with her about it beforehand it would have been a hard no. Cool hwip on your dick i…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 04:31 AM
1

I don't like these because they're common things women say. And the first one can be interpreted as you not being successful on Tinder, and therefore being an unsuccessful man. I've always done better with amplifying. Going great, can we wrap this up by 8 I'm meeting another two here in an hour. Later if she starts pestering you about your activity you start mixing in some truth, e.g. yea you're the second girl I fucked today. She can't tell truth from joking and her hamster is in overdrive.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 11:20 PM
1

0.04% of the time, it works every time
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 11:12 PM
0

This may be an unpopular opinion but you fucked up by talking to your plate. That shit is unacceptable to me from a woman in an LTR, not only talking to exes but publicly doing it and making you look like a tool. There isn't a double standard for this one, it's a basic rule of LTRs. It's disrespectful. She sounds not that into you because your commitment is cheap and she's waking up to the fact that you aren't exactly George Clooney (dad issues, generally immature about the relationship).
/r/askTRP24/11/15 07:37 AM
2

So true. For long winded reasons I won't get into, the Lincoln cabinet biography Team of Rivals changed my life. I'm talking complete 180. New thought patterns and whatnot.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:17 AM
1

Read The Scorpion and the Frog.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 04:07 AM
6

I would have avoided this whole situation to begin with, but, if I was there, I would have tried to make the banter more fun. Shit test responses should ultimately be fun for both sides. Sometimes it does take sternness. For example when she said she'd stick the heel up your ass, that's kind of funny, you could have turned it around there. She took something you said and negged you on something she said earlier. That's rapport building. You took it too seriously. I agree with what others said ab…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:01 AM
1

Just make Person B someone with an inheritance who blows it by age 30. Make Person A a self made millionaire. The analogy explains itself.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 03:43 AM
2

It seems to be the norm just based off of what I hear in field reports. Personally for me it's rare and I try to avoid it, but do it occasionally for something different and to get laid in the morning. I have trouble sleeping with someone else. I'd call it personal preference. If the girl really wants to then she's going to break earlier if you're kicking her out.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:38 AM
2

You grew your hair longer and combed it over. If you don't realize this, thank your barber.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:16 AM
1

There are 3.5 billion of them dude you shouldn't need to complete a dissertation to figure one out, next if she does anything other than agree to a date.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 07:17 PM
1

You can get better at it. There are gyms all over the world. Also if you're traveling for awhile stay in places for a month or two. Once you're used to it it's easy to quickly set up,in a new city. I worked as a journalist, it gave me some professional goals and something of a foundation when talking about myself. It helps a lot to have some type of purpose when you travel, some kind of project.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:25 AM
4

Either she wanted to fuck you and you're a dumbass or for some reason she wanted to be seen going home with you. I think your response sucks, she was communicating feelings not words. Sounds like interest and fishing for support (I didn't think you...). My go to anytime I get fake doubt like that is to make a bold move and find the answer one way or another. E.g. A girl giving me phony LMR who could sense I was about to kick her out, was asking me at my place, "Should I leave?" And I didn't resp…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:20 AM
3

I was totally over my ex and had fucked a few girls, when over two months later a girl sent me the same emoticon my ex used to. It was a cute cartoon girl crying for help, kind of in a cute way. Tears welled up and I started crying instantly. Had a good cry and realized I had only felt anger after the breakup and had not grieved the parts of the relationship I enjoyed. It passed quickly, but was a good reminder of stuff we can have hiding in ourselves. Totally agree that you can have fun with so…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 10:32 AM
1

Great stuff, I'd add that it reinforces the notion that slow and steady progress can lead to incredible results, and you're capable of virtually anything if you're consistent.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 10:26 AM
1

The best reason for stopping is that it makes sex better, because now sex combines the pleasure itself and also all of the pent up imaginary frustration of a female getting fucked. So I stayed quit. Abundance and having enough sex for this to matter are what helped.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 10:24 AM
1

Yea its kind of funny how the effort by some to not care actually makes them look like they are butt hurt. "Cool, Nice meeting you" or something isn't too hard, and if it's honest go with it. Why be a dick to someone just because they want to stop seeing you, this chick didn't seem to do anything so bad. The thing people are missing here is her text was polite and direct, she wasn't being a cunt about it.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 07:44 AM
1

I don't see the point, though I did give up porn and am happy I did. Don't really need it anymore. Never had the ED issues but sex is better without it now, as it's my sole source of outside stimulation. That's perhaps the benefit I overlooked most.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 05:35 AM
6

Perhaps too strong of a conclusion, rather it's usually best to stick with whatever frame landed you the girl if you have no problems. You changed it up and got different results. Some girls do respond much better to a little beta and comfort.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 12:06 PM
1

I'd say I'm halfway clean, availability is the issue I'd eat healthy if I had that option outside my door for every meal. It's not been that hard it's mostly an attitude adjustment. Eating isn't about enjoyment it's about nourishment, therefore I have no use for candy etc. I still enjoy what I eat though I just try not to compromise health for it. My only vice is drinking Coke with meals a few times a week. I don't finish the can. As others said having a goal, like a lifting program, makes it re…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 05:20 AM
2

The neediness has been discussed. That alone is always a big turn off for me, girl wants to act like she's in love and she desperately needs a BB and it's just kind of sad. I don't like that in my life. It's easier to break hearts when it's some dumb 22 year old chick that'll get over it.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 05:14 AM
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Yea I love it with low n count girls but if my slut radar goes off my face won't go near it.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 05:09 AM
1

I personally would. I accept that they see other guys but like the illusion of exclusivity while we're together. For that reason if they continually reference other guys or put them in my face, e.g. Texting them in front of me, I'll bounce. When I'm with them they have my attention, I don't have my phone out etc., I expect the same.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 03:55 AM
1

Work on your conversation skills. When you're really good at it not only can you be good at talking, you can be good at setting other people up to be good at talking. Then you just lob softballs to these girls to knock out of the park. This does two things - it makes the interaction go well, and it makes you the source of them feeling witty and smart and confident. A simple example of this is a game where you're really cocky going in, tease her how she is going to get destroyed, you teach her a …
/r/askTRP19/11/15 01:15 AM
5

Some basic guidelines that might help: a) Make observations instead of asking questions. e.g. (to girl with colored hair and torn jeans) you look like you go to a lot of rock concerts. Start training yourself that every time you've asked a question you've failed (it's not the end of the world, but know you just used a crutch and think of how you could have said it without asking a question). b) Turn conversation into games when you can, e.g. 'How old are you?' 'Guess.' c) this comes with practic…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 12:59 AM
6

Could just be your run of the mill 'fuck me' text
/r/askTRP18/11/15 08:11 AM
3

I don't know if there is a better closing date than cooking dinner with her. It's perfect, she's already at your place, kino is automatic, you're taking the lead naturally, it's an activity so conversation is stimulated, and you're displaying value and even a touch of vulnerability in taking the risk it all fucks up.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:23 AM
2

I found the more I cooked the more I used dishes. The important thing is to clean as you cook. When I started I would try to be stingy on utensils and dishes, to minimize cleanup, but shit goes a lot smoother if you make it like a cooking show with your eggs beaten in a bowl here and your meat on a plate there etc. usually by the end I've already cleaned everything but the cooking pan.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:19 AM
2

Find a program. I use Starting Strength. It's great for gaining mass. If you want to gain mass you need to be more serious about your calorie intake. I only spend about three hours per week lifting but lifting is in my head all the time as I consider what to eat. It takes effort to eat enough sometimes, I usually eat more than I want to. Lifting is simply the on switch for your body to build muscle. The work of actually adding muscle is done through eating food. You can't be half assed about it,…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:14 AM
2

yea I got the freeze thing once and it freaked me out. She had been playful and stopping, playful and stopping, until it went one step too far and she froze and I stopped after a few moments. All of this stuff scares the hell out of me because it's all about how she feels at a given moment (or remembers how she feels). If she felt I was too big and would kill her if she said no, then that's somehow my fault even if I'm just escalating normally. If a girl can't say 'no' and leave she has no busin…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:02 PM
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k
/r/askTRP17/11/15 09:13 AM
1

Ok champ, I'll send you some stuff once I get my first job
/r/askTRP17/11/15 09:11 AM
3

Quiet like you're not there? Why do you have to hide from some dude she is talking to? Hardest of nexts
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:30 AM
1

For me personally, dating other people while seeing me is my covert shit test. I won't LTR a girl who craves that much dick. Practical tip though, don't confront about stuff like this. Not only do you appear needy but worst of all you lost a window into her behavior. She is now more aware and may hide other red flags that were available to see
/r/askTRP17/11/15 02:28 AM
3

You keep saying she is naive. She isn't, that word when talking about your girl is always male hamstering.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 12:58 AM
2

It's not a weird post, I've been feeling very similar lately. I was incel in my early twenties and naturally started to become RP on my own (before I knew what TRP was) and doing better with women. Then I found TRP and started slaying pussy. I got bored of that somewhat, but now without even really trying it seems like the dates don't stop coming and I keep fucking new girls. I don't know if there is an 'off' button to this thing. I can't imagine being in a relationship for awhile. I'd probably …
/r/askTRP16/11/15 05:09 PM
1

Sales can be more complicated than that. E.g. If you're working in a place with tons of established accounts and established salespeople, a lot of the new meat is brought in to pick up scraps and get canned a few months or a year later. Whatever accounts then get passed on to the old hands. The game will be rigged because metrics will be set too high for what the market actually provides, so you are constantly underperforming. They keep you on because you're still producing well for the scrap yo…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 08:09 AM
1

Back when I was still plugged in I LTRd a girl who fucked on the first date. More subtle than that, though, we her pussy was cleanly shaven. She told me she had only three partners, but the circumstances of those was also dodgy. Without going into details she acted sketchy and had acted sketchy in a previous LTR. But the story had been told already when I met her for the first time and she had shaved her pussy for me. I wasn't much of a catch then either I was out of shape and our date wasn't gr…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 07:51 AM
2

Some girls do have "game" to an extent (I use that term loosely) and will do things like leave you hanging or leaving you wanting more. In my experience they end up being shorter term plates because the relationship is two people constantly trying to act like they dont need or want eachother. If you arent fucking her or ahe isnt agreeing to a date then its no game its just a lack of interest
/r/askTRP16/11/15 06:44 AM
7

Ignore what they say, drive action with steady escalation. Number to meet to laugh to kiss to home to fuck. She has the opportunity to say no or walk away at any stage, if she does you move on.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 07:41 AM
2

This girl sounds like a cunt, next
/r/askTRP14/11/15 02:07 PM
1

Alternatively I have a lot of free time and would rather just take the date if I can, so I opt to take reschedules only if they are as convenient as possible. E.g. Coffee shop next to my house, text me when you get there. They don't always know it's next to my house. If they did a same day cancel, I won't plan on going anywhere else with them,
/r/askTRP13/11/15 03:32 PM
3

Sounds like you were cheating on your new girlfriend. I'm not sure what else you call it when you tell someone you're exclusive or at least try to create that image, and then fuck other people. You fucked this one up, be honest in the future especially with potential LTR. Set proper expectations.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 03:21 PM
1

You were making assumptions about her and letting it drive your action. While calibrating is good, ultimately you need to lead and let her follow or walk. That means kino, don't talk about other guys, don't constantly judge if she likes or you or not or if you're good enough or not. I sense this coming through in your post. The thing about inexperienced girls is they really are clueless. They are clueless they're acting disinterested when they aren't, they are clueless what your expectations are…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 03:16 PM
2

Abundance mentality. Like with women, if your employer needs you more than you need them and/or you are readily employable elsewhere, that will give you confidence and the value to not be disrespected. Example my boss tries to assign extra work to me. I specifically signed a contract where I select work I accept, so I had to set boundaries when he started presuming things and saying 'this is when you'll be working.' He tried to guilt trip me about cover and I said yes that's unfortunate but didn…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:52 PM
2

Yea. I've had success with "booooooooo." I guess the point of that was to be brief, keep it playful, and set up some flirting in the context of her 'making it up to me.' I think it's a stupid thing to say but tried it in an experimental phase and seemed to be ok. If you try some type of flirt you can gauge if she canceled because of disinterest. Another example is she cancelled, then I cancelled, then we made a bet that we couldn't cancel the third time. I said we'd bet a shirtless pic, then mad…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 11:35 AM
1

Don't feel the need to use women for validity socially or personally. It sounds like this monk mode is not entirely self chosen and you are feeling self conscious about your lack of success with women lately. Focus on fixing that, take a trip out of the monestary.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 09:16 AM
1

Low self esteem if you're going for 3 and 4. Like other people said though it's subjective. I find the "hot" girls are often overrated. Guys will call a girl hot when she's really a 5 or 6 just styled like a hot girl. Think slim fitting clothes, high heels, a sexy walk, an attitude, but if you imagine her as a man (weird as that may sound, imagine she was born a man and how attractive she would be) you can see her face is off, she's kind of lanky, whatever. I have a weird thing where if I can im…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 09:11 AM
2

It sounds like two problems. One, your own self-control (I want to see her) and not realizing the lack of it is making your life worse overall. I might want to text that Tinderella right away because fuck it I'm taking a shit, but I don't. I wait because that's the game. The second is that you're trying to get her to behave like a plate, and right there is your title it says this is a "relationship," and you're worried about it being destroyed. She isn't a sex object. Time with her is going to h…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:57 PM
2

Ain't no inner game stronger than in a man living his dream. I'm a proponent of taking big risks if necessary, the main things I stress are being true to your talent (don't try to be a rock star because your in love with the idea, go be a rock star because you're a brilliant musician and you know it), and prepare fallback options (this doesn't have to mean becoming an accountant, this can mean being proactive in your field doing things like networking and gaining skills to get employment in anot…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 01:12 PM
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You're fucking this up. You lose frame by giving a fuck about any of this. About being pissy about your schedule at all. I don't quite understand how this became an argument from your end, and it seems like she probably only got pissed because you made the whole timing thing an issue. Here's how it works. You have to be at the gym at 7. She says she can meet you tell her you're busy. You don't act butt hurt about it, you don't rearrange your plans for her, you offer her time when you're free. Sh…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:34 AM
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I turn 29 soon. Fucked a 20 year old last night, going surfing for a month in an exotic tropical location soon. I'm a schoolteacher. Life's not that difficult man. Lift, have passions, take care of your shit, fuck women, do things that come to mind.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 07:09 AM
7

Yes but it makes no sense to mock the other side simply by stating its argument. Which is what almost every panel in this comic is doing. It's like if I wanted to satirize Republicans and made a comic of Jeb Bush saying "We should cut taxes!" Well that's his argument. The only people who would laugh at that are those who already disagree. It's not clever or creative or insightful. I don't see the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 06:45 AM
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It doesn't rebut anything. It ridicules caring about the fetus more than the mother when it comes to choice. Well there is a sound argument for that, the fetus has its life to lose and the mother typically doesn't. Not supporting either side just stating a fact. It ridicules the economist but he isn't wrong, is he? Perhaps he is lacking some nuance, but he has a point, and they are lacking nuance as well (e.g. Women are "worth less" sounds offensive but what he is talking about is the marketabil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 06:19 AM
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Guys in their early 20s are mostly dipshits in game and in life. Not all, but I certainly was. You're overestimating the competition. Also In terms of physical attraction there isn't a lot of physical difference in a fit guy at 30 and a fit guy at 22.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:51 AM
1

I read Team of Rivals, a book about Lincoln. The fact this man took so many risks to pursue something he had almost no chance of achieving taught me that life has no purpose other than to follow your mission. Lincoln could have settled down in Illinois but he relentlessly pursued his mission and despite almost zero odds, he had absolute zero odds had he not tried. If you want X, you must pursue X. Simple concept but we tend to talk ourselves out of even trying because of Y and Z. Probably not wh…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:27 AM
0

4. Relationship status i.e. have you fucked her
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:03 AM
1

Not everything is a failure this way or that, sometimes the girl just isn't feeling it. Move on to easier pastures. Identify what you can do better (you mentioned kino), but don't beat yourself up about it. Fact is if a girl is interested you can fuck up in all sorts of ways and she is going to let you kiss her. She's going to want you to kiss her. A rejected kiss is hard next.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 02:58 AM
1

It depends on what you mean. Sex is better when you are focusing on your own pleasure mostly. A girl wants to feel desired, if you are going caveman on her she will love it. I agree that if 'going caveman' for you involves wanting to give her a facial and call her a dirty whore, that is probably going to turn off a lot of women. But if you're holding her legs up and thumping that pussy like you saw Rocco do, you're probably doing an ok job.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 02:54 AM
1

Cart before the horse. Take her out first, try to fuck her first, then you can worry about flag colors. There is no secret message you either ask or you don't, this all all your decision. Her only decision is yes or no, that's the only message of hers that matters.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 02:15 AM
2

Butthurt, you need to keep it light. You're trying too hard. Frame is about not giving a fuck, she cannot affect you, she cannot make you spend time searching the Internet for one liners. Depending on the situation I might just answer her question if it's a normal conversation, or call her out on it and tease her for being secretive and avoiding the answer. What have you got to hide? Etc amplify, start interrogating her playfully. I dunno
/r/askTRP12/11/15 02:11 AM
5

Okcupid is great for this as well. Even if you don't get laid you get a free tour guide. Don't come across asking for that but if you end up in the city center and are new to town, she'll show you some places.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 01:07 AM
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yea sometimes I think I'm doing it for the validation myself. Feels warm and fuzzy to see 'It's a Match!' while taking a dump. Well, warmer and fuzzier than that moment usually feels.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 01:01 AM
1

I have gone without porn for a bit and had sex last night after sort of a dry spell. It was much better because it was the thrill of sex and the thrill of porn all in one. I mean imagine you haven't seen a woman fucking for a couple weeks, at all, and the first time is with a real one. Much better. I've actually been much happier and productive but who knows if porn has anything to do with it. I used to watch it once per day.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 11:56 PM
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It's ok to forgive yourself, you don't always need that validation from others especially if it might hurt them more to seek it. Focus on making yourself right, accepting what happened, and moving on. For you.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 03:52 PM
2

Abort. Abort. Pull up. Pull up. Pull up.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 03:48 PM
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It's a freer platform for discussion. I don't bother with posting in this sub for the most part, no real loss to anyone but I don't see the point in adding to a choir of yes men
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 11:12 AM
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The problem with LTRs for me, dealing with some of the same tendencies, is you're creating a strong dependency. Your emotional well being is tied up in another person, and that can give me a lot of anxiety and stress just from the ups and downs of a relationship. I usually end up staying longer than I should because "the fear." And it's a lot easier to buy into that oneitis when you already buy into the working out more working harder, all around being better stuff. I manage it by going on dates…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:27 AM
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Do what you think is right man, if she's been good to you then don't be a dick because the internet told you to. I'd just say be careful on leading it into an argument. If you tell her you want to fuck other girls for awhile, that can lead to her calling you an asshole, wasting your time, you're a man slut, whatever. You need to present the decision as firm and not leave a lot of room to question it. I've found for nice breakups, just telling the girl you're not 'ready' for a relationship right …
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:33 AM
1

I've noticed it automatically strengthens your frame. I live in a place with a lot of alcoholics, and I fit the age bracket of them, so when a girl hears I don't drink the eyes usually light up a little or at least turn curious. I'm 28 so most guys my age are getting hammered at bars or wanting to get drunk with their date and try to take her home that way. If nothing else I'm more unique because of it. I've done 10 times better dating since I quit drinking.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 01:51 AM
2

I should have realized that Simpsons reference was over 15 years old now
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:54 PM
2

If she's talking about negatives about her ex Also a red flag, but more importantly a window into her hamster. You can see how she interprets arguments, especially if you can understand the 'real story' from the broad outlines she gives you. The story she gives you will have been so thoroughly hamstered it will be a lie, but the plot points will be the same. E.g. some guy came along who was 'just being nice' to her, that's the driving force of the breakup? Yea she cheated on him and/or crossed s…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:51 PM
3

Clap.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:48 PM
1

I'm interested in your ideas and would like to subscribe to your newsletter.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:47 PM
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Agreed on the latter part. He must hear what it is because he must know what she has been hiding about herself. And yes you're hiding your past if you talk about and frame certain stories while omitting major factors in them. OP will male hamster by saying he never asked so she never told. At 8 months your past should naturally come out, you should be wanting to share yourself with someone. OP wants ignorance over knowledge--blissful, comfortable ignorance. Taking the blue pill, so to speak.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:44 PM
2

Are you in D1? There is one I know of near Pullman Hotel. I never actually used it but walked by when I lived near there. Otherwise you can Google it. From what I've seen nice gyms charge around 50k per day and 'local gyms' (no AC, street level, open-facing) charge around 20k per day.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:33 PM
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Are you having fun when you go out? Key. Last time I was bummed over an ex, it wasn't the casual sex that got me over it. It was the new memories I made with other girls. I could accept what happened because without it, I would not have had those experiences with other girls. Every girl is different (despite AWALT) and it's cool to share moments in life with some of them. I started out doing coffee dates and escalate escalate escalate fuck ASAP, pure numbers game. Then I started being more selec…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 02:28 PM
1

Im in saigon there are gyms everywhere. The normal ones on the street cost $1 per day
/r/askTRP10/11/15 12:32 PM
2

Where are you exactly? Hard to believe there isn't a gym around
/r/askTRP10/11/15 08:45 AM
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Yes. Don't take TRP online dating advice literally. It has some good rules of thumb to avoid wasting time. In this case you might ignore it, ask again in a few days and then hard next if it's anything except yes or a suggestion of another time. If you're pretty abundant you can just hard next the first time as it shows a lack of interest and is probably a waste of time.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:51 AM
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-Hiding behind DGAF to avoid approach anxiety, easy habit to fall into -Depressed -Poor prioritization of time to achieve balance (i.e. you really need to focus that much during every minute of your day that you can't talk to people?) Could be a number of things. This post comes across like a humblebrag, like you've mastered something or want to be seen as smart, I'm not sure. You "hyperfocus when working on projects and could finally maximize my productivity and efficiency?" Cool. I think? The …
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:56 PM
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I don't know yet, but yea it maybe is a goal. That type of relationship doesn't have to be without love, it'd just be a different type. It's fair to say I'd be less invested in her emotionally, in terms of having my identity tied to her. I'm sort of a one woman man for a number of reasons, at the same time the current social norms of relationships make that really difficult. So I'm seeing what else I can do
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:43 PM
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I'm struggling with this myself. Out of the anger phase and the player phase seems to be an acceptance phase. You can still love and respect a woman for what she is, but that isn't your best friend. It's led me to experiment with downright wholesome girls, strict family values types (not Christian, I live in Asia). I used to avoid these girls like the plague but recently met some that are fun in their own way, mostly just being really good at the male/female dynamic and "smart" about that part o…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:24 PM
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Interesting hand on back is class 2, and holding hands is class 1. Touching the lower back is usually the first and easiest thing to do if you're walking with them, guiding through a doorway etc. You don't keep it there but you use your hand every so often to keep leading. This is why places like art galleries or museums can be great first dates.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 07:36 AM
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Suck his dick
/r/askTRP07/11/15 07:29 AM
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Someitis. I got a little burned out of racking up a body count. I've started being more selective and wowing girls I like with fun first dates, and kind of reliving that honeymoon period over and over. Keep it light, have fun, enjoy the chase. I did this because dating became boring, at the same time I didn't want to invest more than s coffee date in most girls so I had to be more selective. I agree with others here that you do need to fuck other women. But the semi romantic rebound I had was th…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 07:24 AM
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It's ok to cry, just keep it to yourself. It's good to cry it can release emotions that otherwise will bother you for months. I was beta with my last LTR and we used Viber stickers a lot. After dumping her and finding TRP I fucked a few girls and was chatting with one on Viber, over two months after my breakup and I had been 'over it' for at least a month. The sticker in my brain was associated with her, it was a cute one of a girl crying and asking for help. So this other girl used it, and I sa…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:21 AM
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I'm proud of my cheating virginity, as it gives me moral high ground if an LTR crosses a line. I feel better about ending it. There is an inner confidence to knowing I am the prize - part of my SMV is that if a girl locks me down as a boyfriend, I am honest and committed to making the relationship work. I will not cheat. Granted, I'm not going to get into another LTR anytime soon. But having that value in my back pocket is something I like.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:37 AM
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I've studied abroad for three semesters. You don't have a choice to make, she is ending the relationship. There are two major factors here: a) She is at the 'try other dicks' age. Very few relationships last from 18-21. b) She is going to be far away, having new experiences, living a dream life she has imagined for herself. That's going to include banging Italian dudes or whatever on the beach, especially with peer pressure. If you are silly enough to try this I would start approaching and keep …
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:33 AM
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it's what it looks like vs. her word It's always, always what it looks like.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:27 AM
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That's interesting I used to do this when I was self taught. I live in a country where PDA is frowned upon so kclose is difficult and best not attempted, it's just not going to be comfortable for her. Also I thought it played into the "base" analogy, which I've never really experienced since high school. basically if I'm kissing her it's the start of fucking. Not first base today, second base tomorrow, etc. I think it's easier for the girl to withhold sex if she is still getting physical intimac…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 02:27 PM
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If love it. I dunno, Bobby flopping around like a fish is more interesting/amusing to me than deciding how we're going to design a campaign to sell mouthwash, or some other such corporate nonsense. There is a certain level of detachment that is needed to stay sane as a teacher.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 04:27 AM
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He already pled guilty he is fucked
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 03:24 AM
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I dunno I had a DUI charge, private attorney got it down to reckless and no jail time. Worst case with a public defender I probably would get a DUI and a few days in jail. Sometimes I wonder if the $6000 and year I spent fighting the case was worth that.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 03:23 AM
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Are you an only child or the youngest child?
/r/askTRP05/11/15 01:55 AM
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"accepting their emotions to change" and not "expect(ing) them to be responsible or keep their promises" can easily be applied to ALL people. I can honestly say I've never had trouble keeping promises or being responsible in terms of my commitments to other people. Any problems you have here are not 'mistakes' they are deficiencies in character.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 01:32 AM
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People aren't perfect. They make mistakes, they slip up. You are finding your female brain...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 01:26 AM
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She's lonely, bored, wants you as an orbiter, something, or is legitimately confused and wants you back. She either assumes you've been away pining over her all this time or this is how she manipulates you into chasing her (or at least her feelings like she's being chased). Rest assured if she tells this story to anyone it will be that you begged to take her back after two months, she tried to make it work but wasn't feeling it. I'd walk away from this whole situation, you should have gotten blo…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 01:19 AM
1

It's really eye opening to me to imagine my beta self's LTRs, why were they initially atracted to me? Who was the man I became? It was always two different guys.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 11:22 PM
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I experienced this recently, I did a mini monk mode where I evaluated my goals. decided I had been chasing girls for validation and felt out of control because my emotions were being dictated by whether or not girls during any given week were receptive. and the reward became dull, I mean I was fucking girls but I kind of felt like it was a repetitive routine getting them. Actually decided to slow down and enjoy the chase more rather than close close close. Try to get some different types of girl…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:24 PM
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Yea as he said coffee is just the opener. Pick a cafe that central and have an idea for what to do next. Not only is this better to get laid but the experience is much better for me, I have memorable times with some girls going around the city. I've stopped doing just coffee it's boring for me and feels like a chore
/r/askTRP03/11/15 02:08 AM
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This. In my case I was living a nice guy life, from career to where I lived to how I expected to get a girlfriend.mI did everything vanilla as to not be polarizing. It wasn't until I followed my career dreams, took big risks and got shit on by everyone (people will do this if you follow a dream, watch it happen), that I started really pursuing what I wanted in every area of life.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 02:04 AM
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I recently had this happen, got a BJ first date then it went nowhere. She wanted a little more beta out of me, and is acting prudish about vaginal sex still. She was hesitant to meet because she knows I'd want t escalate to fucking, She also worried I was just using her for sex. After a week I came back a little softer, and she is my BJ plate until further notice. As a guy who really like blowjobs I'm not complaining. And hell maybe her n count is true and I'm getting some fresh tail, but I have…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:34 AM
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You should give up your seat to people who need it, generally women under 45 don't need it for the sake of being women. I used to be more selfish when I worked in a factory lifting heavy blocks all day, I looked young and fit but My legs and joints were in pain all over. So I'd never presume to tell someone to give up their seat
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:28 AM
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Guys fuck shitty assholes for sure. But I think a lot of guys just aren't that into it. I had a girl mentioning recently it a few times but I never escalated because I didn't care to try, she was tiny and I'm not too small so it seemed like it would just be slow and awkward, I like to fuck away to my hearts content. And not have a shitty dick. The only reason to do it IMO is like a dog marking territory, but I never get around to it usually.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:25 AM
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It's why people should really read the books, e.g. Models. A lot of TRP game you read is just rebranded PUA stuff. I became disilliusioned because I had been better at picking up women before TRP, I ignore most of the pickup side of things now. Anyone who is decent looking and charming is better off developing their own game IMO, it helps to be aware of what the game is (because girls will try to play too) but leave the one size fits all stuff to the guys without a clue, that's really who it's f…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:45 AM
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It's a shitty way to ask anything. Like if your friend asks if you're free Saturday and then asks for help moving.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 12:20 PM
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After she has sucked /u/apexk9's cock she should suck mine. This will solve your problem
/r/askTRP29/10/15 05:20 AM
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I can't give a specific response without being there, but "Cool," "Ok," "Good luck with that," without sounding butthurt, so move on to another topic or do something else. Personally it does bug me to hear about their other guys, I like the illusion of a relationship while we're together, so if they continue doing this I'll soft next.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:25 AM
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a) It's a shit test, ignore it. She wants to see if you get jealous and commit b) Her fucking other guys is effective screening for LTR, so no reason to feel bad about it. If she needs that much dick you find out early and don't waste time on commitment. c) Some keyboard casanovas will tell you they have their women on lock down, it's bullshit. Women will fuck around with commitment and they sure as hell are going to fuck around without your commitment, plates will fuck other guys. It's part of …
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:14 AM
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yea it's like comedy and pumps you up at the same time. Biggie's Nasty Boy is a great example Yeahh, worrd I remember I met this one bitch Cause you know me I don't see how I'm the nasty motherfucker I just thought I thought I'da did anything in the world (yeh?) I meets this one bitch, I comes up in the spot, or whatever The bitch got the candles lit or whatever, so She tell me whatever she wanna get her freak on whatever So I'm like WHASSUP whatchu wanna yaknahmsayin I'm read to wear it out or …
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:44 AM
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I don't think it affected me much. I'm fucking 20-25 year olds now and should easily continue to for 10 years, and if TRP is to be believed then for the next 20 years. I think the game is finest now at age 28 but I can imagine it only getting better. My only regret is the emotion and time wasted on girls that don't matter. I had an LTR at the beginning of college so that helped, but I was incel for a long time after that. A long time.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 10:38 AM
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The downside to any of these scenarios is the poor or ugly girl will have less experience fighting her instincts. So a sorority girl that remained faithful to an LTR will have been exposed to alpha game and seen the cost/benefit without having ridden the CC. A poor girl that gets exposed to rich alpha is not going to know how to weigh the cost/benefit of a rich pump and dump to sacrifice a fairly stable beta bucks she has. Her eyes are going to light up brighter and she won't have any experience…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 09:32 AM
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I'm not saying those women are this or that, I'm saying these features (poor, ugly, guyish) do not make them better quality.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:49 AM
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Personally being individualistic does not make one necessarily a libertarian. One has to do with personal values and standards the other had to do with standards you wish to be used for all of society.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 08:43 AM
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It hasn't gone away after five months because you kept resetting the clock when you talked to her. Try to look at it and see if you find improvement over the 30 days. If so, you are getting there.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:23 AM
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"Extinction events," I'm fucking dying man. Great stuff
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 08:15 AM
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Ugly ones yes. Any girl in an LTR will come to think of herself as on your level so it is the same as a pretty girl. Guyish, never ltr'd they usually blow you early which loses my respect. Girls who blow as a consolation prize kind of gross me out fir LTRs, I find blowing more slutty than sex
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:07 AM
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Dude, number seven. End of story. Thats so, so bad, she is painted fucking red. You should drop her for your own sake
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:03 AM
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I've dated poor girls man they are all the same.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 07:14 AM
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The problem the OP talks about is how if a woman is willing to make that bargain (sex before commitment) she has likely had to do it often before, before finding commitment, because the sex-to-commitment ratio is bad for women.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 07:13 AM
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If you're happy with that, cool. But when a girl blatantly lies about her past like that it must be hard to keep the illusion.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 07:10 AM
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A lot of people do, and it is. I try to fuck every girl on the first date just so I have that knowledge. I could never LTR a girl I didn't try because how do I know she doesn't put out on the first date. You're also risking being beta compared to some other dude who did. If they do put out, automatic plate or ONS material only. It's pretty goddamned slutty to fuck on the first date, when you think about it you just met the dude an hour or three ago. Means she is always only an hour away from fuc…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 07:06 AM
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Just because urges are there doesn't mean all people act on them. I want to fuck every HB6+ I see walk by when I have a girlfriend, but I know the difference between idle fantasy and making it happen. You can talk about SMV and tingles and whatever but the fact is not every woman cheats on her husband.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 04:04 AM
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As has been said, the past isn't all about n-count. I dated a girl with an n-count of 3 at 24 years old. But her last relationship ended when she cheated on her boyfriend (of four years) with a famous dude, and gushed over the guy on Facebook to their mutual friends. Continued doing so up until the fucking, making it obvious she was going to hook up with him. All kinds of fucked up not only to branch swing like that but to rub his face in it. Famous dude pumped and dumped. So yea her n-count was…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 12:23 AM
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Went out on a date with a woman tonight. She does not play sports, she sells labels for a living, she could not flirt, and she chewed with her mouth open (practically like she was about to spit it out at you). She talked about how she wished she lived with her parents because sometimes she is too lazy to cook or do laundry. This is our world now gentlemen, proceed accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:23 PM
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I recently got out of a LTR who I got sick-to-my-stomach over some of her past, then hooked up with this girl who was very open about her sexual history (on the surface at least) and it was almost refreshing for her to tell me about her MFM threesome. Refreshing in the sense that this girl wasn't hiding or trickle truthing me like my ex did. So I toyed with the idea of 'what if' I LTR'd this new girl? Could I really handle that history? That's way worse than what grossed me out about my ex but i…
/r/askTRP26/10/15 04:43 PM
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Be aware that most limits in life are self imposed. I am constantly finding myself capable of things I wonder why I never tried before.. It's because I assumed I couldn't. You have a good 5 or more years of life you can balls to the wall screw up in positive ways and it will be ok. Remove limits, imagine your perfect life in broad strokes, set goals. It's a long slog you've got time to make progress.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 03:40 PM
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You have acute onset oneitis
/r/askTRP26/10/15 02:56 PM
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I identify with a lot of sigma traits but was raised mostly by men and romantic comedies, so my approach to women left me BB usually. That's when I tried which I mostly didn't. there is some practical how to stuff in TRP that anyone could benefit from.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 02:50 PM
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The problem for me is with racial preference in general. White girl only like Asian. Asian only likes black. Whatever. It shows priority of physical appearance in all partner choices. I also find it weird if a woman has a very specific type, e.g. Tall brown hair and lanky or something.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 02:44 PM
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You talk about attitude alone making a big difference (even if the causes of this are a lot of self I improvement), and allowing you t back off a set game. I wonder if this is a snowball affect. Like when you start being comfortable and confident in the improved YOU, and start Brad Pitting it a bit more, how much does it help that you're filtering out these girls you'd have tried too hard to game before but just weren't ever going to feel it? I mean it's a massive time suck to date these chicks …
/r/askTRP26/10/15 02:08 PM
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To add to this, I'd say have fun with it. Apply your boldness to the date itself and experiment. I actually took a cue from Astrp and used the 'you look like the kind of girl who...' Line, with a girl who was saying nothing, and it worked well. You obviously have confidence so just start saying shit to amuse yourself and maybe her, keep it light. Get away from whowhatwherewhen
/r/askTRP26/10/15 11:35 AM
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Even if I've held frame and gamed a girl as perfectly as I can, I'm giving up if she goes with Chad right in front of me. That's just insulting man. Hard next. I think some people take TRP to mean being a stoic asshole all the time, and that's not how I take it, so it's true 'unfamiliar and distant' can be a red flag (about you) to hear. Ultimately most girls wants to have fun so 100% negging and ignoring can wear thin. In this case, though, she just sucks.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 03:59 AM
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I don't consider rape to be sex, and therefore is not relevant to sexual strategy. If my goal is to have sex with a girl, then that is a different topic of conversation than if my goal is to penetrate a girl. Obviously removing morality from either of these things will lead to very different outcomes in approach.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 01:29 AM
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I used to have this problem, it seems like it isn't an issue anymore. One, I don't care. I'm not investing feelings. Two, partly because of one, I'm more receptive to 'tells' that I previously would have ignored or excused. E.g. On a date a girl talked about her trip to Europe, talked about her friend she went to the red light district with, I listened for "he" and there it was. So you have the stereotypical traveling around Europe banging dudes. If I needed to know and she mentioned that trip I…
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:37 AM
1

No bigger thing did I learn when I followed my dream and started a business, than people will shit on you for trying. Once you recognize the tendency it actually is kind of amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 08:00 AM
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This is a good one. I live in SE Asia and it will be hard to handle the SMV drop going home. I dont think it is the same as a widow though, just means I'll have more abundance mentality than is real. Not always bad.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 06:17 AM
2

Sometimes its just putting one foot in front of the other even when you really dont want to. Making it that simple has helped me.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 01:34 AM
1

I mean it isn't even a date yet, why should anyone show up?
/r/askTRP24/10/15 03:15 PM
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Look at their match questions. Any woman who shares that she loves giving blowjobs or even answers that question in a public space, is a slut. And many more. OP is getting a hard time but I take it to mean separating the nymphs from the average CC rider. I fucked a girl this week that was a goddamn whore except she didn't get paid, this girl has been ridden hard at 21 years old. Made me feel dirty after. She mentioned some of her exploits and it gave the indication of dozens of partners. And I'd…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 02:37 PM
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I dated a woman from a third world country and a poor family. You're making it sound like a one time payment. She and her family expect her to support them, regardless of whether she makes $100 a month or $5,000 she has an obligation to support her parents who can no longer work. When she becomes the only person in the family to move to a first world country, she will be the breadwinner for her immediate family if not extended family. A lot of us Americans only prioritize the financial well bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 07:52 AM
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Girl blew me last night then texts me right after she gets home "I'm safe" "Well done. Goodnight"
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 07:03 AM
5

Sounds like a waste of time
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:35 PM
1

Confidence and comfort in your own skin. Look within and find why you don't like yourself, start doing things so you like yourself. When you think you're awesome there is no better feeling and soon you stop giving a fuck what anyone else thinks.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:32 PM
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M: There’s only one way to find out – meet me Here and possibly right before here you went wrong. Always Be Closing. She offered you the close and you started dancing around it to the point where you asked her a question she already gave you the answer to ('that can be arranged' means she will meet you). This allowed her to start qualifying you with where/what. Response I might amplify, offer her all sorts of ridiculous shit like roses and a band playing and a new puppy, then tack on in a second…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:28 PM
1

I wonder if the war had something to do with it. Most men must have come back a lot more alpha after they won a fucking war. Then they settle down and get a job that can buy a house.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 03:19 PM
1

It doesn't help that it's completely misrepresented, everywhere, reason I avoided it so long. If you think it's all women hate and pro rape you might think that true in a 5 second glance if you go in being told that's what it is
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 03:12 PM
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feminist filibustering Perfect. This article tries to touch in some interesting topics but just sort of goes all over the place and little it talks about is a societal problem so much as a biological or individual problem (eg girl not getting off). It doesn't make sense to try to build a movement around. I won't attack it completely though. It seems most people here didn't read it. The author is basically struggling with the fact that equality in sex goes beyond women just being more open and wi…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 02:53 PM
2

Problem is she's the first girl I've been with so I'm really attached. When I was younger, a guy in his 40s told me something about breakups that ended up being very true. 'After a while, you don't even get up off the couch as they walk out the door.' The answer to your troubles in abundance.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 05:44 AM
2

Last gf told me her ex dumped her but only because he thought she would beg for him back and she never did. You go girl
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:32 AM
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Run some dread, that's some bullshit she is being accusatory to you, a guy who is legitimately vetting her for LTR and is sexually attracted to her. Why should that necessarily mean that's 'all' you want from her? So not enough that she rejects you, she has to insult you as well. Create abundance, run dread. If that doesn't create attraction then she isn't that into you. If she's into you she will open her mouth for 10 minutes to keep you from getting it elsewhere.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:27 AM
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So you swallowed the pill in December, then started qualifying girls for LTR almost immediately after? And your qualifications seemed to be shit, I dint understand why this girl got an upgrade aside from her willing to let you fuck her often? These red flags should be considered before commitment not after. What did she do to earn commitment? Fuck other guys? That alone keeps anger as permanent plate. Abundance mentality, next time you find a girl like this do not see her more than once per week…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:42 AM
2

Stop trying to explain yourself. A startup? Women especially plates don't care where you're going they care where you are. How many times has this actually been a problem? As in its something they have seen, judged, and left? Without you pre empting them with an explaination. I have always lived in small places because when I lived in a two bedroom once I literally never entered the second room. It's a waste, only once has a woman commented and seemed turned off by my place. It's easier if you h…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 10:39 PM
2

It sounds forced. It should be natural. Start small, sit next to her and let your knees rest together, guide her through a doorway, etc. For some reason I'm getting a mental picture of you poking at a girls hair awkwardly. Also kino is mostly important for the first date where you need to build up enough attraction to kiss. It's there so you remember to escalate. Otherwise it turns into a business meeting
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:57 PM
1

The script is flipped for me in that if I partake, then it becomes a battle with temptation every day. I rarely if ever think about alcohol and never crave it, haven't for months. So I'd live your same life but not be drinking a beer while fishing or whatever.. It really makes no difference.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:46 PM
1

You don't have to go to the gym every night. I do 3 hours per week of heavy lifting 3 days a week and it does the job better than my daily cardio work used to
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:15 PM
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Nooooooooo man, you just ignore that line. This is a fairly common LMR, I had it last month. Sometimes it's not even LMR it's her not wanting you to think she is a slut, as in she isn't even saying it to stop you.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:07 PM
1

I don't go to bars it's a waste of time for me. How old are you? It might have mattered in my early 20s, but that might have also just been the crowd I was with. People who drink a lot tend to befriend others who drink a lot to justify their reliance on alcohol for fun. If you take out drinking as the default social outlet it opens a lot more up IMO. I don't go do 'social activities' I do shit I want to do and if it involves people, great. I've always been averse to anything where the main aim i…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:01 PM
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Good rule of thumb is to assume every text or email you send may be read aloud in court. Imagine how you'd feel and proceed accordingly. Not just with women but with everyone. In this case I would be fine as the BF, whoever their friends are now know her n count and will judge her for it. Makes her look bad and I can't imagine intentionally low n count women would mind him
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 08:20 PM
2

Yep, it's at least a good enough rule of thumb to use always. If I'm looking for an LTR I'll probably allow things to slow down a bit but still push as my own shit test, I think it's a unicorn the girl that fucks you night one who has never done it before (or won't again).
/r/askTRP21/10/15 07:45 PM
2

Alcoholic here, sober since February. I'd never believe this when people told me, but you can be just fine without alcohol. The parts of society where it limits you are not worth accessing anyway, seriously 99% of the world doesn't give a shit that you don't drink. And if you have a problem, guaranteed you're losing a lot more by still,drinking. OP check out /r/stopdrinking
/r/askTRP21/10/15 07:38 PM
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I dont think she is thrilled with your sex. What are these fetishes? Im against a woman telling me how to fuck, but if she likes it rough show her youre capable. I had this test once with the first girl that told me she likes to be dominated. I was a little unsure because Id never 'abused' a girl. She told me not to worry about it but I amped it up each time til I was rocking her shit, and it was fun. Now if its a kink youre jut mot into then dont do it
/r/askTRP21/10/15 03:01 PM
1

This. Direct without being confrontational. Not passive aggressive either. Calls him out on his not being able to talk about problems to your face, almost like you're having to teach him how it's done. The last part can go a lot of ways, just continue driving the conversation and bring up the specific issues you heard. "Is the way I'm filing my TPS reports a problem for you?" Again keep it direct, put the onus on him to respond, but don't be confrontational. He's going to be tempted to write you…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 07:44 AM
1

I recently experienced the same but more so out of laziness. I don't enjoy first dates and all the other shit you have to do to meet women. Or at least sometimes I want to focus on something else for awhile and just get laid sometimes, a sure thing. In my experience, doing this is in direct opposition to abundance mentality. Now I continue to set up dates even if I don't want to, It's important to do to keep the relationships I have healthy and stress free for me.. If I don't give a fuck if they…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:36 PM
2

GOMAD
/r/askTRP20/10/15 07:01 AM
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Hi
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:51 AM
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Two guys have caused me to break up with past girlfriends. One took her away, the other one took her away from her previous BF and there is a whole story there I won't get into, suffice to say his relationship with her ended mine with her. Whatever anger or resentment I had for those guys then... I thank them now. One especially saved me from marrying a level 10 branch swinger, this girl was GOOD at finding a beta bucks. Thanks dude for banging my ex a few months before we met Ultimately it's up…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:47 AM
2

If you want to LTR bad find someone who is below your SMV to have it easy. The longer you're in the LTR the more equal she feels to your SMV, making this tactic ineffective.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 05:53 PM
1

Asian unicorns are such bullshit and I wish people would stop giving false hope. It's dangerous. If you're a beta bucks in America you are going to get divorce raped hard in Asia, the girls here have a lot more at stake and are much better at it than Mary Jane Rottencrotch back home. I can't help but feel bad for the guys I see parrot it here, or talk about their great Asian LTR or wife, knowing 99% of the couples I've seen the girl has been playing the dude and everyone knows it but him.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 05:51 PM
3

Well said. Also re: acceptance phase, you'll find your alpha. I get a little annoyed when pick-up techniques are included in TRP "gospel." There are a million ways to pick up women, the typical TRP one you read about is the stoic male who is kind of a dick. And yea it works. But once you find your alpha, you will realize your full potential (physically, socially, etc) and do whatever the fuck you want with women. And yea it can include being friendly and mostly being yourself . . the problem wit…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:46 PM
1

i am the beta? yes should i keep pursuing her? Don't pursue a woman. Pursue women. You need to move past this chick and read some more of the sidebar and TRP sidebar, this situation is a mess. You need to move on because there is no saving it.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:42 PM
2

Starting Strength if your numbers suck and you haven't lifted before. I'm doing it now and it takes me about 3 hours per week (M, W, F). I was surprised how weak I was (I had worked hard labor jobs before), glad I'm doing it before trying to tone etc.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:38 PM
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Because asking to go to a motel is like asking if she wants to touch your penis. You dont say that, girls will revert to ASD.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 11:10 AM
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Different strokes, I have a girl like this. It annoys me but it makes me feel better about her cleanliness (she'll only blow with a condom, so I don't do it). No need to next her, she's a good plate otherwise e.g. No problem with weeks no contact, good one to keep hanging around. Also closer to a FWB type she is interesting enough to talk to. Compare that to a chick who was borderline 0 to me on the binary scale, she blew me first night and it kind of put her over the edge to 0. After I was done…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 03:31 PM
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I agree. I had a gf I used to do this with when I was 19, about a year in I realized it wasn't the smartest idea and stopped doing it. Honestly it's not about 'territory' it's about growing up and being smarter about birth control, especially if she had an abortion before. Also birth control pills have a lot of shitty side affects, again these can get less tolerable after time. Maybe she tried doing it for a year, tried different pills and just couldn't handle any of them.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 06:55 AM
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I wasn't lifting when I lived or visited elsewhere. But these cities are major and have everything you would expect, even if they look different on the outside. Just ask your hotel or look on trip adviser for gyms
/r/askTRP16/10/15 04:40 AM
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Here in Saigon there are plenty of gyms. You'll want a routine you can do in under an hour because you'll sweat your ass off. Or you can find one with AC, but there are tons of street-facing gyms with no AC you just walk in, pay $1 and start lifting.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:09 AM
1

Women getting fat is a sign of stronger commitment, how is it not? She feels more comfortable and secure, and allows herself to get fat.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 06:35 AM
-2

If I could play Devil's Advocate . . isn't TRP primarily about the differences between men and women, and how it isn't just genitalia? So how could a TRPer really call her out for that. You could disagree that being a woman is beneficial to the office of the presidency, not sure how you could mock her for suggesting it would mean she acts differently because of it.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 06:10 AM
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I found the advice there terribly inconsistent, which is to be expected I suppose. My ex was textbook TRP field report material but I hadn't swallowed yet and didn't know it. I had problems for months and would occasionally post to r relationshipsI would get wildly different threads each time, it seemed like whatever the first answer or two was, the herd went with it. There ended up being some helpful stuff eventually.. Basically 'dude your gut is telling you something, she is being sketchy, wal…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 03:01 PM
1

Chasing Amy. To be fair I don't think The 'Amy' ever lied to him, he did put her in kind of a weird spot also. But it's been a long time since I saw the movie.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 02:04 AM
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It doesnt even have to be one thing. Most people are too stupid to get away with lying about their past. The problem ends up being inconsistencies, a lot of their stories just won't make logical sense. And the answers to why such and such happened will change over time, causing more confusion and making the story more illogical. If you ever meet a chick and you just don't understand why things happened in her life the way they did, and she seems really bad at explaining them.. It's probably inte…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 02:02 AM
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You'll get kicked out if you don't pay the cover or buy a drink
/r/askTRP11/10/15 08:21 PM
0

You're not leading any pack if it's her house.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 07:57 PM
0

It's simple as pie, man. You plant your feet in the ground, you look her square in the eyes, you say, "Hey, baby, you and me's going on a date." That's the end of story.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 06:29 PM
1

I agree with others that coffee is just to tee up a second date or better yet a second part of the first date. Gives you both an additional screening really, is the only reason for it. I set mine up at awkward times like 6 so that dinner or something else will naturally follow. 'Have you eaten yet?' Ah lets go grab a bite, etc. An easy upgrade to any date is to replace coffee with something a little different. find some weird speciality cafe or bakery or something that does one or two things rea…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 04:38 PM
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Platehood should be assumed by all parties. Unless you are proposing to her on the first date, commitment is something discussed and until it is you're just two people fucking. Any rules you want to put on that come after you do.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 04:30 PM
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Don't do this. Ignore TRP in regards to your mother. Don't try to game your mother. Her house her rules, even if she is bat shit crazy sometimes. I graduated in December 2008, if you can remember how the job market was then. I lived with my divorcee mother for 9 months. Believe me I know your pain OP. But you are a leech, and she wants you the fuck out. Imagine if you had someone in your house you wanted gone. It isn't even about motherly love, people get a certain age and they want to have thei…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 04:25 PM
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You're her emotional tampon if you're having this conversation with her, that's why. Doesn't mean all women will think that way, but any close female friend you don't fuck is by definition probably going to think you're beta.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 08:03 AM
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As someone who has traveled a lot and lives abroad, I think people like that are just newer to traveling and usually younger. For me now the whole world is the same, I get very little from simply being somewhere new. I do still love the excitement of walking around an airport waiting for a flight. The travel experience for me is like meditation, every minute on a bus or train or plane I don't exist for that moment in time. But when I get there... The world is the same. I don't see frequent trave…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 11:43 PM
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If they aren't actually fit this will often be true. Also genetic of the hips and tits. E.g. Small tits look better with clothes on. But yea there are some girls I fuck with their clothes on if they are wearing a skirt or something.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 02:24 PM
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If this were <1 year relationship, I'd say yes, next, if she trickle truthed you (like if she blatantly omitted or lied about this). She seems like she is trickle truthing now as the likeliest outcome is that something sexual happened with them being naked, her coming over as seemingly a plaything (he knew he was going to be working anyway), etc. And to say 'kiss' when the real story is 'naked and handsy' is definitely a lie. But you're already two years in, so you have more material to go off o…
/r/askTRP09/10/15 04:31 AM
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All of this stuff is just normal human desire. Like you wanting to fuck a 10. And another. And another. The wife/kids stuff comes in if you can find someone who has enough self awareness to manage their emotions. Yes, your wife probably does get the tingles if she sees Bon Jovi singing his heart out on stage, but she has values and a sense of loyalty enough where she won't act on those urges. Just like if I'm in an LTR I can ignore a 10, despite the fact that if there were no consequences I'd st…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:52 AM
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This, cheating or not is moot. Her behavior is not acceptable, fuck even /r/hamster would agree
/r/askTRP09/10/15 12:40 AM
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You're coming to a place where you know what the advice is going to be (break up). It seems like you're fishing for a reason to. On paper it doesn't sound like she is a bad gal, or there is anything to warrant a breakup, but if you're not feeling it that's enough. I'd be careful internalizing too much of what you read here and see if you can identify what your gut is telling you about why you want out. The age thing is legitimate, you will be rushed, but that's seven years away. Likeliest reason…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 07:30 AM
1

Ask a more specific question, like come back with the program's you've identified.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 07:25 AM
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You handled it like a champ. FWB you actually like her on some level so it's ok to let her down easy like that, just don't get caught trying to explain yourself or get into a back and forth about it. In this scenario she shut up, but what you said is something she could have responded to and maybe got you to start debating.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 07:21 AM
1

Stop talking to her. What she is asking you to do is ridiculous. If you found out you lost the love of your life, would you be asking her to move to you? What a stupid concept. She wants a chance she can come and get it, let me know when you're in town I'll let you know if I'm free.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 07:01 AM
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Careful there. I thought the same but found the truth buried deep. When I dumped her she deleted any trace of me from social media and surely I don't exist to any future BB. I'd rather have a piece or two of sluttery but be sure. The next girl I dated told me she was banged by two dudes once. That was too much for me but damn if I didn't almost consider it because I knew what I was getting into at least.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 03:07 AM
1

Visa. She would be open to a marriage of convenience with you, that's why she doesn't care about bar sluts. Might be worth it if you get some of that sweet sweet cheddar All women everywhere, Asian girls are not different. I live in east Asia, if anything it's just more transparent here
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:16 AM
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For reschedules I choose a place literally across the street from me, and tell them to text me when they get there. Usually set it for earlier in the evening so I have time to do other stuff if they bail again.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 12:37 AM
1

I'm 28 and just went through a break up a little over a month ago, and have done this a few times before. There is no magic answer but this is good advice here. Everyone is going to indulge in that introspection he's talking about. But at a certain point you need to close the book, this is someone you're never going to talk to again so there are no more chapters. Take your lessons, then close the book. It is a conscious decision to think about them, you have control over it. Your brain is a tool…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:53 PM
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I dont know what that means
/r/askTRP07/10/15 12:24 PM
0

Yes, its why you should really pick and choose what you take from TRP. I probably have some sociopathic tendencies as well because I find this whole thing to be like a hobby, trying new things in how I act with people and seeing the results.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 11:53 AM
2

early? Next. Had a first date do this yesterday and asked for the bill shortly after If we've known each other awhile it's fine in moderation and if it's relevant. If she has LTR potential I listen closely to that shit
/r/askTRP07/10/15 11:41 AM
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Agree. I also next girls that show up late and don't apologize or do it often. It's a waste of my time to intentionally show up late and it's a waste of my time if they show up late. Girls love to do this shit as a power play
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:05 PM
1

Insecurity and jealousy are weak because they are controlled by other people, e.g, a girlfriend. If you are feeling these things you are not in control. Other emotions like anxiety and anger can be ignored, fake it to make it. There are coping techniques but ultimately what helps is attitude, knowing emotions don't control your arms and legs and mouth, you do have the ability to ignore them and ride it out, worst case. That knowledge itself can weaken the emotions.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 01:50 AM
0

Its rare that it isn't the guys fault for being lied to?
/r/askTRP05/10/15 07:10 PM
1

Sounds like she won't be staying at your place for awhile then
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:55 PM
1

They're quite entitled to do so. And I'm entitled to next. I've been chill as fuck and still been lied to. At the point an issue is obviously important to you, you should get the truth no matter what your reaction (less violence of course). Last LTR I was as chill as a cucumber because I was not TRP at that time and was trying to be an easygoing boyfriend. Chick still lied to me constantly, to the point where I'm 5 months in and dating a completely different person than I signed up for.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:35 PM
1

To live as many different lives as possible. I love starting over. For me that involves a job (teaching in international schools) that lets me move to new places for a couple of years at a time. After 30 years of this I'll take my savings and settle down like a king.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 10:03 AM
3

This comment ins hilarious.. How it slowly disintegrates into chat speak for no reason (you're quoting spoken words) somehow conveys perfectly your not giving a fuck while playing video games. Bravo sir
/r/askTRP05/10/15 09:55 AM
0

Who pays the rent?
/r/askTRP05/10/15 09:29 AM
1

The most obvious thing I've seen first hand is an abusive father will make her lie instinctively and be quite good at it. Yes AWALT but girls like this have had to lie for survival and can be excellent manipulators.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:17 AM
1

I would fuck them but not plate. For me, I like the illusion of exclusivity. Taking her out to dinner and for that time we're together. If I hear about her fucking other guys it ruins the illusion. It doesnt upset me but they really do just become a moist hole at that point
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:44 AM
2

Girls like that suck at sex. They use the rape fantasy as an excuse to be dead fish. Next
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:39 AM
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Lower your expectations. Do you get mad at the dog for not having life goals? No, but if you love dogs like I do it doesn't matter because that's not what you expect from them. Now I wouldn't say women are like dogs, but if you just accept the lameness of most of them for what it is, you can still have fun. I had coffee with a girl tonight who was drinking her tea with a spoon, and not because it was hot.mshe was eating it like soup. That shit cracks me up. Just don't take it so seriously.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 02:53 PM
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Cold blooded.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 05:50 PM
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I'd just add, re: 'happen anyway,' you are at a great point in your 'relationship' with her in that she is telling you this shit. If you offer commitment too early she is going to continue getting the messages but will hide it from you because it's now against the rules. Girls that fuck more than one guy at the same time are great because they make the LTR decision for you (no). Should instantly kill any unwanted feelings you may have developed, giving you back your don't-give-a-shit attitude.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 05:44 PM
1

If you came to TRP after already being in an LTR I think it's hard to put that genie back in the bottle. She already has a view of you and likes you for who you were before TRP. If you unilaterally implement different rules to the relationship, it's probably not going to work out great. I still see some plates I met from before TRP and I use what I've learned lightly. I don't become a full red pill man with them. If it ain't broke don't fix it, so I stay the same. Thongs you can implement lightl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 06:20 AM
0

Dude you don't haven have a choice. Just because you are higher SMV doesn't mean you can choose to fuck her. Have you ever even talked to this girl? Hung out with her? Or you just saw a kind of ugly kind of pretty chick and are wondering if it's ok to introduce yourself? Delete this post and come back when you have a date
/r/askTRP01/10/15 05:40 AM
1

I ask them to guess. If they guess too old I tease them about how their social skills suck, if someone asks you to guess their age you should always take your guess and subtract 5 years to be safe. Usually gets a laugh
/r/askTRP01/10/15 05:21 AM
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I agree completely. I LTRd a girl I fucked on the first date and it was a huge mistake. Among other reasons, despite her being a solid 8 I never valued her body. Because within two hours of meeting her I was fucking her. Now girls who fuck on the first date often lose all respect from me, especially if it wasn't even a great date.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:56 AM
2

'Backpackers' are whores. Girls can't travel alone without sex
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:53 AM
0

You really have to ask the question 'how interesting would this person be if not for her vagina?' Most girls are lame as fuck, talk about grand plans but haven't done shit. Red flag for me is lameness and if they say they love to travel, where have they been? Doesn't have to be exotic but did they hop in a car and go new places? Ever?
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:48 AM
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If you talk to her about a past LTR and its all his fault. this is my favorite one because it shows how much she can empathize and how fast her hamster can spin. My last LTR cheated on a guy and posted it all over Facebook. Poor bastard. One example she gave of how it was his fault was that he didn't ask her about a project she was working on. Next
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:45 AM
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Depends how you look at it. I feel more true to myself as a TRPer than I did as a nice guy, I just didn't realize it. All of that niceness layered on top of my true self felt like 'being myself,' because that's what I was conditioned to be. I think the idea is to find pieces of TRP that feel true to you as let them out, that's how you become a natural
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 02:40 AM
1

She's rejected you. Should've sealed the deal the first night. I'd expect it not to happen but send a reminder text the day of, knowing it's a Hail Mary.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 03:03 PM
1

In terms of actually getting laid, yea I'm like Dennis. I don't do a lot of kino etc I keep it somewhat innocent and make a movie at my place convenient. Once there escalate. She won't say no because of the implication Also notice Dennis starts off playing beta until he has her alone in his room, on his bed. Also respect for Dennis going straight for the BJ to start
/r/askTRP30/09/15 08:59 AM
1

With one of my plates it's because she's safe. She does it with a condom on, which is meh for foreplay but basically a no go for an actual blowjob. On one hand it's nice to know she is safe, on the other I really like blowjobs so any time with her is time I'm not getting that. I don't feel like I truly had a woman unless I cum in their mouth.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 08:55 AM
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I'm 28 and agree with this. Not only in terms of body but maturity I think most of us take until mid-late twenties to be "men." At the same time I just can't offer the rich man persona I will be able to in ten years.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 08:52 AM
2

I'm pro-TRP and not trying to troll, but that quote does apply to TRP as well.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 07:51 AM
1

If they say they're busy until X, I tell them to message me X. Keeps it from being open ended, keeps me in control of setting the date. If they don't message you they weren't interested anyway, the 'I'm too busy' is already a big red flag and fails the Brad Pitt test. If I'm desperate I might message them then and see if I can set up a quick date in the next day or two. Then next I don't bother setting a date a week or more in advance. Even if you 'expect her to flake' it's hard to truly do that…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 04:38 AM
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The Simpsons like a lot of TV shows has a lot of the characters falling short of their own values or making mistakes to learn what those values are. In Marge's case, she felt neglected and for the first time being with Homer was tempted. Homer, after all, isn't a model for TRP so this should be expected. The episode is ultimately about her coming to terms with the shallowness of the bowling instructor and the value of her marriage. Similarly, in Homer's night out we see Homer's carelessness and …
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 08:41 AM
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The game is being played whether you want it to be or not. However it does sound like you stepped off the field altogether.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 07:38 AM
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Don't give a shit. Schedule a time to fuck her next. This isn't that complicated.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 05:41 AM
1

I'm sorry I skimmed OP, this is for existing plates. Thought you were trying to seem unromantic. I get coffee with fresh meat.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:40 PM
1

Yeah, we know. TRP advice committee? Is this your account?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 10:32 AM
2

Agreed.TRP was attractive to me as a male because I recognized it from a recent relationship. Everything from alpha/beta to hamstering to shit tests. I lacked closure because I didn't know what I was dealing with, but all of these things bothered me about the relationship previously I just couldn't figure out why. In my case she lied about how she broke up with her boyfriend last year. He took her to a concert, she threw a way a four year relationship to fuck a musician twice her age. Blamed her…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 07:24 AM
1

You can do anything, it doesnt imply LTR unless youre buying her roses or something. I like trying new restaurants so I do that, doesnt mean they get the wrong impression.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:15 AM
1

Focus on what she does, not what she says. This month I took a girl home after a nice date. We were sitting on my bed watching a movie, my arm around her. "Just so you know, I dont have sex on the first date." She said. Thats why she went far from home at 10pm when the restaurant we ate at is near her house? No, we fucked. Why is tinder girl inviting strangers over?
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:06 AM
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A plate is a hole you stick your dick in, you lost the battle giving a shit. What about a plate could you possibly care enough to verify? Unless she has AIDS there is no reason
/r/askTRP28/09/15 05:57 AM
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I live in Asia, you've got to be kidding. by definition if she is dating a foreigner she is branch swinging, look into these girls past and you'll usually find a history of it. It's true you can lock them down but only for the time you're in country and have significant leverage. Even then, if she isn't smelling marriage (and visa) she may want to use her prime elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 10:46 PM
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I strongly disagree. The most time intensive part of online dating is the date itself. It's not a waste of time to try to develop rapport and screen more heavily beforehand. Also the notion you need to type like a mentally disabled person to convey your disinterest is just silly. The most laughable part of the whole thing was the crowd of guys taking notes like OP was some sort of Online Dating Jesus. And given the sheer popularity of TRP I have to imagine a lot of girls out there were wondering…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 02:05 PM
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The problem I have with the "meritocracy" is a lot of the heavy hitters at TRP come across as keyboard Casanovas. As in, their advice often sucks. It's also hard to get over the fact that an "alpha" doesn't spend the time to write these diatribes. The recent online dating post, for example, was awful. It'll work Eventually based on sheer volume but so will practically anything else. I agree with OP that TRP has enlightening principles but as a discussion forum it fails. Another example is when a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 08:00 AM
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For me it depends on context. I've been seeing a girl that is really open about her history, she asked me on our first date what my craziest sexual experience was. Then she asked number of partners. So we talked about it, why not. I had a girlfriend that was trying to get out of the fact that she lied to me about her past. She asked 'How many people have you been with?! How many times have you _______. Have you ever _____.' I ignored it. She told me later she was glad I did. I didn't really comm…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 05:35 AM
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Agreed, I keep myself aware of this as I sit one month post-breakup. So far I've got laid every week. I never made it much of a priority before but 'the fear' kicks in and I feel like I must have some contact. It's been a great motivator in that way. I dumped her. She is a lame person that treated me bad. And we were together less than a year. But yea to have an outlet for your random thoughts and constant physical contact, it can be jarring to not have that. Hard to get 're-centered.' I've been…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 02:54 PM
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Agree. If you end up in an LTR it's probably because she sensed commitment and put on a good girl act. Rest assured many cocks hide below the surface. Ask her how long she has been on the site. 1-4 cocks per month minimum.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 12:43 AM
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I would argue sucking the semen out of someone's balls is as intimate as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 04:09 PM
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I fingered a girl once and she didn't return the favor. Never count it, don't expect she would, something about the penis being out crosses a different threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 04:06 PM
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I don't understand how women don't count oral. If a guy fills your mouth with semen that is more intimate than sex imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 04:03 PM
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I am a man and I have only lied down. I am 28 and have had 6 years of abstinence in my 20s, my count is 11. That is average or above and I only started dating on and off a year ago. I don't know how people keep it so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 04:02 PM
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This is why low partner count is attractive to me. It tells me she is good at picking partners and isn't fooling herself with me, she must know what she wants. Girls who get duped to suck dick by half the town don't really have sound judgment to pick a partner, I can't trust they have what they want in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 03:48 PM
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I dated a girl like this. Then comes this story about how she met a musician at a concert her boyfriend got her backstage at, Skyepes him on tour, breaks up with the BF a month later and blows the musician for concert tickets/access. Likes meets him again at 10pm in another city. Twice her age. Then she was his fucktoy for two days. I only knew because of Facebook when we broke up she deleted all that stuff knowing it might bother the next man. Terrifies me because you never can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 03:46 PM
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Do you know her partner count? Blowjobs are worse for me personally, in terms of sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 03:40 PM
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I'd say plate. He's just reloading. If he lets her be the only one for too long then yea, the nature of that changes, but if he is pursuing other girls and is reasonably likely to fuck one soon, she's still a plate. I've only got one plate atm but I fucked a different girl last week, and have had two other dates this week, I don't think it changes her plateness.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 05:39 AM
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Agree. The problem is the premise, that 'true love' or 'the one' is what we are looking for. If we think that, then we can think she may have been it. It took my last relationship to realize this. I dumped her, but it still hurt for a time. I dumped her becaus she treated me bad, so it still felt like being dumped in some ways. I get to fuck other girls now. My goal is different than before. I don't let myself get feelings for any girl, I try to have friendly relationships with them and enjoy th…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 05:23 AM
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She put it in writing to try to get you to put it in writing. Especially any kind of apology or even 'I didn't know you felt that way' or at the very least acknowledging a blowjob happened (is there written proof elsewhere?)
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 01:54 PM
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This advice is terrible (OP). You remember that outcast in high school? The kid who smelled like shit, threw things in class, called the hottest girl in school a bitch to her face, and tattooed his face? He did all that shit to 'amuse himself.' This reinforces the notion (imaginary before taking this advice) that you are an outcast, that your approach to other people will lead to grand and embarrassing rejection. Instead of seeking that out, you should see what a normal approach results in, whic…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 03:34 AM
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And the sooner and swifter you crush that aspect of the relationship, the less it will happen in the future. Personally, I give them the rope to hang themselves. I'll be passive in conversation about their ex, but if they keep bringing it up, it's not my job to save them. From my experience if you tell them too much about what you do/don't want, the more manipulative types will adjust accordingly while not being any different as a person. In other words if she doesn't have the sense to know I'm …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 06:31 AM
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I think it's generally the same anywhere, depends on the girl. She really needed to be in a LTR to make it to 24 without a ton of dicks. I live in a sexually conservative country, the girls still fuck around if they are single (and of course even when they're not). Actually the only difference is they are more programmed to lie about it and only report what their emotions tell them counted.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 12:18 PM
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yea sometimes I'll fit that type of talk in, especially if I have doubts about her purpose (e.g. vague profile, single photo, might want to gauge her reaction). But from what I've seen of the competition (girls have shown me messages), there is a temptation to search for spank bank material rather than to actually have sex. E.g. guys trying to start sex chat. That's what should be avoided. and my approach doesn't work for everyone, I've been accused of seeming cold to girls because I didn't use …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 01:24 PM
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Different strokes, I guess. I tried the tough guy approach and found it significantly limited my pool. As for overinvestment, it doesn't really take a lot of time to do what I said. The next girl I'm meeting? I told her her hat was awesome, and asked her where she bought it. To me it's not an overinvestment, it's an excuse to initiate a conversation. If the girl is attracted to you, she'll appreciate it for what it is (no matter how stupid or inane) and engage. I suppose this also depends on you…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 12:54 PM
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I'm slaying it at online dating and I really have to disagree with most of your advice. Responding with "K" or repeating "What's your number" is going to turn a lot of girls off, at this point you're just a random person on the internet and have little sway with them. The goal of online dating is: get a face-to-face meeting with a woman with a romantic dynamic. Ok, so rule number one is don't talk about sex. There are a bunch of creeps on these sites and women are mostly sick of them. You have N…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 04:57 AM
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