| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Pickme dream date is walking and Netflix & chill 🤡 | NAH, SIS | weird_waving | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:40 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 24 | Even when in a happy relationship they want to ruin things. This is disgusting, can't help but feel sorry for her.It’s so dumb! 100% they just want to avoid an awkward conversation! The slow fade and ghosting is way more hurtful, these mofos just don’t care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 02:15 AM |
| 55 | Even when in a happy relationship they want to ruin things. This is disgusting, can't help but feel sorry for her.Why would he think dragging it out would hurt her less? :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 10:40 PM |
| 22 | Porn has fried so many brains they can’t even see a cute picture puppy video without mentioning porn.Yeah and shitty meme pages keep normalizing this kind of crap too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 05:49 PM |
| 14 | And there are STILL men AND WOMEN in the comments saying "not all men 🥺🥺🥺". DisgustingDaaaamn this is triggering, I felt really scared for her, watching this. Being surrounded like that omg I can’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 10:40 PM |
| 4 | A coffee date is ________A good indicator that he doesn’t think you are worth investing in, and he’s trying to get laid as cheap as possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 6 | How we handle LVM💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:57 AM |
| 14 | What is this nonsense?!Stop using sweet baby yoda for shitty memes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:23 PM |
| 3 | The fact that she feels the need to ask if she's an asshole...Daaamn, you’re bad ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:49 PM |
| 2 | The fact that she feels the need to ask if she's an asshole...I’m so curious about this story with a fireplace poker??!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 19 | The fact that she feels the need to ask if she's an asshole...These stories piss me off so much, I need to rewrite an ending in my mind where she just throws hot oil on this dude’s face or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:40 PM |
| 11 | I started swiping on women, just for a change, and I realized how low our standards have gotten for guys.Why are they subjecting us to pictures of their nasty feet?? It’s disgusting 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:08 AM |
| 34 | The Attractiveness Gap (Humor)Yeah women are out here getting life threatening butt lift surgery, why don’t these scrotes get leg extension surgery? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 22 | I would love to make this meal for my future man🥰It’s the tap water for me haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:49 PM |
| 18 | Signs he's not the OneShe’s only gotten more beautiful through the years, proof “the wall” for women is a lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:32 PM |
| 7 | You literally can’t make this shit up.Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:48 PM |
| 137 | Theory: Why would men search for someone in real life when they can just jerk off at home?For real, it is a bit dystopian, it kind of feels like with the way society is headed, men and women will just not have any desire to interact with one another (I mean of course dudes will always have that desire, just no effort). I’ve been seeing more FDS ideology being spread on other social media and it really took off on tiktok. Girls and women are realizing the dating pool sucks and being single is ultimately the better choice than being a bangmaid mommy to these “men” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:33 AM |
| 10 | This guy I used to be friends with wanted to “catch up.”Ew I love how he tried to compare the issue of pedophilia to immigration | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:20 PM |
| 122 | JFCHow could he type all that out and still not understand? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 0 | And content...And it’s not a conspiracy, posts are really being censored right now. And like I said before, it’s not a right wing or left wing issue, and you saying it’s a ring wing conspiracy is not helping anybody. Also I haven’t called you a bitch or anything derogatory and I see you have a few times. I hope this sub teaches you some decorum, we don’t refer to women using that term even if we disagree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 04:37 AM |
| 0 | And content...That is not what you said, you said “anti covid and anti child trafficking posts are being taken down due to a conspiracy” now you’re rewording it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 04:34 AM |
| 0 | And content...You literally said this is a right wing talking point about anti child trafficking posts being censored due to a conspiracy. Therefore you think it’s a conspiracy? I don’t know what to tell you other than open your eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 04:25 AM |
| 0 | And content...Right so you think child trafficking is a conspiracy? Lol girl what are you arguing here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 04:22 AM |
| 0 | And content...What are you even arguing? That you don’t believe information about child trafficking is being censored right now? You came up in this thread quick to shut it down as false, when you don’t know what you’re talking about. Seriously I really hope you look into it for yourself instead of spewing false information, and with that have a great day :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 04:14 AM |
| 2 | This is why I don’t date guys back home. “I haven’t meet anyone want to take free tacos for being my caretaker when I’m drunk”Hahah love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:12 PM |
| 4 | And content...No and it’s sad you think that way. Do you think Jeffrey Epstein was innocent?? Left and right is a way for them to divide and conquer. You don’t have to be right wing to believe there are child traffickers. I personally hold progressive ideals but I don’t align myself to either party because they are both corrupt. I hope you do some research on your own instead of listening to mainstream media and taking that at face value :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 12 | And content...People trying to bring awareness to the child trafficking problem are being censored | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 07:13 AM |
| 113 | Men post things like this to get a Pickmeisha to dance for themLet’s all start posting pictures of nice houses with the caption “no males on my page can build a house like this!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:04 AM |
| 9 | And content...There is more interest in pizzagate and the pedophilia rings with Jeffrey Epstein lately because the wayfairgate thing and Ghislaine Maxwell getting taken into custody, anything related to pizzagate or pedophilia is being censored right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:39 AM |
| 34 | This is why I don’t date guys back home. “I haven’t meet anyone want to take free tacos for being my caretaker when I’m drunk”Oh I’ll babysit your wallet 💸💸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Her entire page is one big Pick Me danceWait men are labeled whores for smashing? Have I been living under a rock and missed this sudden shaming of men?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:19 PM |
| 114 | I guess I’m not a real woman then 🤷♀️Ew someone took the time to draw this atrocity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:54 PM |
| 27 | How LVM act in a high stress & shitty situationI bet more people in the comments would call him TA if the teenager was a boy instead of a girl👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:14 AM |
| 2 | My narc NVM ex still trying after 8 years, about 6 of which he spent in prison, he just got out of a few months ago. This was in response to me asking for him to please not contact me. The manipulation just jumps out.Your first names in it too, censor it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 12:26 AM |
| 9 | Let's talk prenupsThis is good info, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:59 PM |
| 82 | Woman har her jaw dislocated during sex w/ fiance. Doesn't want to tell friends in case they think bad about him.....“A bit shocked by this” what on earth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:32 AM |
| 17 | What the fuck lmao.I hate this so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:49 AM |
| 71 | He’s not picking me up from the airport-is this LVM behavior?Pick up and drop off from the airport is a boyfriend’s job, what is he good for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 01:19 AM |
| 34 | “Have you ever considered having your hair thinned?”Thick hair is highly coveted, as you’ve told him! I hate that LVM/NVM will pick you apart, they’ll pick at your insecurities, but then even worse they’ll pick at things you’re confident in/about! Don’t let that comment get to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 06:02 PM |
| 7 | Woman posts about wanting romance. Scrotes on the comment section make it about themselves once again. We cannot even complain about LVM without them getting defensive. The narcissism of these Redditors. The audacity of scrotes if baffling.I am the prize though, act accordingly 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Man child throws fit when GF doesn’t want him to move in with herI am sooooo happy she didn’t let him move in with her, yes girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 05:22 PM |
| 54 | He clearly thinks he can convince her to let him “hit it and quit it” 🙄So ridiculous! Just yesterday I came across a profile on OLD, this guys first sentence of his bio was “I once slept with a pornstar!” ... uhhh and that’s supposed to compel me to swipe right on you?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 04:28 PM |
| 12 | Recovering Pickmeisha in need of advice. How do I react when the bill arrives at the end of a date?True that, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 26 | Recovering Pickmeisha in need of advice. How do I react when the bill arrives at the end of a date?I’m curious if this is a good response or not, ladies let me know what you think. If he suggests splitting the bill, we could say “oh I thought this was a date and you were interested in me, I guess I read the situation wrong..” would that be a good response, or is it not even worth it, just pay for your half and block & ghost? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Is this a common issue? Guys doing chores/housework badly on purpose so stop asking them to do it...I went to a party and these two guys openly admitted they do chores badly on purpose so they won’t have to do them again. This is why I don’t think I’ll ever clean up after a man. Even if I move in with a guy in the future, I’ll just always wash my own clothes and do my own dishes, ya know? Edit: also these guys are in the US coast guard so I guess it’s not that surprising lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:25 PM |
| 15 | This man got chewed out in the comments. If I was his wife, I would leave him.I mean in general, I think it’s odd for a man to pick spin classes as his form of fitness, but yeah it would make sense he’s only there to look at women, not actually work out 🙄 Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 16 | This man got chewed out in the comments. If I was his wife, I would leave him.Does anyone else think a man doing spin classes is weird? Not lifting weights or? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:46 PM |
| 13 | Why Men In Their Thirties Won't Commit — Solitary BeastThe nest!!!! Haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 06:03 AM |
| 23 | Good advice!Hah it’s honestly true, when I’m stressed my skin breaks out and right now, not dealing with men, my skin is the clearest it’s ever been!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:36 PM |
| 76 | Good advice!I will never understand, it’s $10!!!! In my pickme days, I had an ex take me to this little cafe that was cash-only, but I only had my card. I literally only ordered a $4 muffin, and asked him if he could spot me the $4 cash and I’ll pay him back. This dude threw a huge fit and started yelling at me over $4 and tried to make me go to an ATM to get cash! Never again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:57 PM |
| 9 | Saw this meme on ig today and it’s literally so true and so sad for my culture 😭 this explains all my dating problems. Guy on top left dates/marries Stacy’s. Guy on bottom left is LVM. And the ones we end up marrying.... well...Stacy is what incels call the “white blonde big boobs bombshell woman” and Becky is what they call “white average woman, little makeup, jeans and a t-shirt” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 05:57 AM |
| 56 | Girl's fiance stales and spends their entire savings to buy a gaming pc, plays with it all day ignoring her, house chores and his work from home. People in comments "how are you going to trust him with money again?"I saw a few comments about this but, a pc, table, and chairs is way less than $8000. Did he just pocket the rest of the money?? 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:20 AM |
| 48 | PSA: THIS is the energy from now on when men harass FDSGo die in a war hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:39 PM |
| 6 | It would be funny, if it wasn't so so real.Hahahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 05:11 AM |
| 21 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!Yessss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:58 AM |
| 4 | Ah, 38yo lecturer who does not want to call it a 'date' when he asks you out (but is on an online dating app). Also somehow makes friends along the way and sets his age range down to 25.😩🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:22 AM |
| 69 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.You are a queen!!! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Boys trips and Bachelor partiesDid he come clean about it after he got back? Or did you have to pry the information out of him? I haven’t had to personally deal with this but I’m curious how others have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:11 PM |
| 98 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.What the hell, I heard black pill got banned but not pinkpill!!!! This is absolute bullshit, I actually really rely on this community for my sanity, as I’m sure is the same for many/most of you as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:17 PM |
| 38 | When NVM is future fakingPickmes be like: “I lOvE mY hOgNosE SnAke RiNG! I dOnt nEEd mUcH, nOt lIke OThEr GiRls” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 09:45 PM |
| 135 | Imagine Being 30+ And Thinking Like This“Young girls out of my reach” sounds so predatory!! 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 22 | This is why you should be able to provide yourself and not be dependent on a partner, who can cheatI love her attitude about it though, she’s funny “just too young” lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 09:54 PM |
| 22 | THE D.E.N.N.I.S SYSTEMHaha scrotes stay scroting sadly! Thanks girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:54 PM |
| 90 | THE D.E.N.N.I.S SYSTEMMy ex would “joke” with me that he was doing the Dennis system on me, and I don’t know why I thought this, but I thought if he was openly talking about it with me, surely he wasn’t seriously going to do that to me? Well the joke was on me, he literally did exactly that. He’d make comments like “just nurturing your dependence on me” when driving me around or carrying things for me, stupid me really thought he was joking!! I look back now and see all the red flags I missed :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 07:46 PM |
| 3 | I’m sorry, he what?Hahaha yess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:26 PM |
| 8 | I’m sorry, he what?If she doesn’t break up with him, I am going to be so disappointed in her!! Omg this is the worst thing I’ve read in a while | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:50 PM |
| 3 | What led you to find this sub?I was frustrated with my abusive NVM boyfriend at the time and went on YouTube to try to find some help. I came across SheraSeven1’s channel and liked her message of putting yourself first and leveling up, women are the prize. I’ve been on reddit for a while without knowing about this sub, but I wondered if there was a subreddit in-line with what Shera was teaching, so I just searched until I found FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:43 PM |
| 37 | I think FDS will hit 100k members before the year is overI am so happy we are collectively awakening to the bullshit, if we all raise each other up and raise our standards, the world is ours❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 06:32 PM |
| 21 | r/seduction shows us the real nature of menHahahaha a cute hamster wtf!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:21 PM |
| 25 | I really hope she gets pickedYou hate to see it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Stopped responding because overly complimentary and boring men are uninteresting to me.. then he hits me with this.Hahaha yes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:06 AM |
| 5 | I'm a Ferrari, you should be on a tricycleIn a way, it’s good exposure of the LVM to new members of FDS. I like seeing some of these screenshot convos because we get to see what these LVM and NVM are pulling via text. Like I saw a post the other day about some guy didn’t even want to put clothes on to leave his house for a walking date. I’m glad that was posted so we can all see the extent of their behavior and act accordingly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Alternative Disney dating tips for the modern woman:I love this yesssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:12 PM |
| 23 | Stopped responding because overly complimentary and boring men are uninteresting to me.. then he hits me with this.Haha ew what a dick. I can’t stand the breast size negging, I have a smaller chest and a larger bum and one guy wrote me, “itty bitty titty committee with a huuuuuuuge ass” nothing else, just that? If I got that message a few years ago I would have been really sad, today Idgaf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:07 PM |
| 27 | Stopped responding because overly complimentary and boring men are uninteresting to me.. then he hits me with this.Are you serious? A man told you he was out of your league!?!? The audacity!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 06:54 PM |
| 72 | Watch out ladiesFuuuuuuuck that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:46 AM |
| 8 | Instead of allowing Disney to demonize strong, independent women to be portrayed as villains, can we just agree we need to stop the narrative of "keeping sweet", "being complacent" and "having faith" to remain a "pure princess" trope when others mistreat us?To be fair, Beauty and the Beast was a nice change from the typical damsel in distress princess movies. In the end she saves the beast. I think Disney is trying to send a better message nowadays with movies like Moana and Frozen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:19 PM |
| 33 | Disgusting, random scrote gives unnecessary advise to me about my body at the grocery storeEwwww him telling you to learn how to take a joke after everything! He should learn to shut the fuck up. I’m sorry he knocked your confidence, but don’t be too hard on yourself! Who cares what some random scrote thinks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:41 PM |
| 36 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’That’s totally how I took it and ended it with him on the spot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 01:57 AM |
| 14 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’So glad I got out early. Glad you were able to cut it off too! These men are tiring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 11:29 PM |
| 204 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’I just found out the guy I had been dating for three months was doing this. It was “just a friend” but he admitted he used to have a crush on her. Disappointed but not surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 10:42 PM |
| 9 | I love seeing memes like theseYes! If you aren’t treating me right, you’re cut! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:05 AM |
| 3 | I have absolutely no wordsLol highly doubt he actually found someone else to have sex with, what a psycho! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 09:03 AM |
| 3 | "Women are so lucky! Everyone takes their feelings seriously!"I read that post! It pissed me off, you’re smart for not clicking on it haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 04:30 PM |
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