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Let me translate for you: "Josh tried to kiss me" Actually means.... "Josh and I made out, and it was amazing. I am worried you'll find out, though, so I'm going to give you a story intended to blind you to the fact that I was a willing participant and make you think I was practically mouth raped. I'll make out with him again, and more, given the opportunity."
/r/askTRP25/12/16 07:32 PM
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Lots of people have an idealized version of things. One of those is old-school marriage. The point is, is that the way things used to be... Well, it's over.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 06:56 AM
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You're on a date with her already; it's only about escalation at this point. Indicators of interest are only really useful before you number close, in my opinion. From that point it's more about judging your success with attempts at escalating.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 05:32 AM
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Asking a girl for a more romantic, or sexual, relationship shows weakness. It demonstrates that you don't have the awareness to "feel" her state of mind, and makes you look timid and hesitant. A real man will understand a woman's desire for him and act on it appropriately without having to ask permission. Women don't want to be asked anything, they don't want to make decisions when it comes to relationships, they want it to "just happen". Shit, ask a woman what she wants for dinner and watch her…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:36 PM
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Hitting rock bottom is great motivation to change your life
/r/askTRP22/11/16 04:27 AM
4

Literally the same as everyone else here: read and internalize the sidebar on the main sub.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 05:27 PM
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Get ripped and shave that shit. Women get wet just looking at a burly bald dude.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:29 PM
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Read the sidebar in the main sub
/r/askTRP02/11/16 03:25 PM
3

That's right. Abs are made in the kitchen... Typically on men fat gathers in your midsection, so you'll have to get down to a fairly low body fat percentage before you get noticeable or defined abs.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 01:14 AM
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"I don't want to have sex with you" She's literally describing exactly what she wants from you. I love it when women say shit like this. You know she's been thinking about it.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 02:51 AM
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Massive amounts of surgery. Probably some pills. Definitely don't read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 04:15 AM
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True enough to a point... If she never cums, then it's going to get old for her. That said, you shouldn't ever put her pleasure before yours.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:01 PM
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Pound the cervix
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:27 PM
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I am interested in this as well... I don't approach at the gym (I like to focus on my workout without interruptions, and I assume women are the same), but I've been considering it lately since that is where the best looking women seem to be.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 10:02 PM
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Yes. Come back in a couple weeks and tell us how your efforts have gone.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:49 AM
1

Are you fucking her? No? Orbiter. Plus, just to reiterate, don't mess around at work. You'll regret it.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:43 AM
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Orbiter. Eject, eject! Seriously, any time you have to ask if she's into you, you're better off moving on. Also, you shouldn't shit where you eat (stay away from girls you work with)
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:35 AM
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Rants against anyone, or anything, are so much more effective when they're grammatically correct and generally well written. You should probably make a note of that, OP.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 07:41 PM
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This is best explained by the universal hot/crazy matrix: https://youtu.be/vwbKYcBdVyk
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:01 PM
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Laaaaaaanaaaaa
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:43 AM
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Truly powerful men won't have to cheat... They won't commit to a woman in the first place, and will still have a solid amount of hot pussy. It's not cheating when you're not committing to only one girl.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 04:18 AM
2

I feel like this went entirely over the OP's head
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:45 AM
6

What? What argument?
/r/MensRights30/08/16 03:36 AM
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Why would the tape be thrown out?
/r/MensRights30/08/16 12:37 AM
5

This can't be a real post
/r/askTRP28/08/16 07:51 PM
1

Focus on increasing your SMV, then none of this will matter because you'll be drowning in a sea of pussy. I was with my ex for 8 years, and now a year later my biggest problem is down-selecting to the pussy I want for the week.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 11:43 PM
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I only wish that I were betrayed like this, instead of being a beta bitch until getting divorce raped. Just count your lucky stars, OP. You got off easy.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 10:08 PM
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Any fantasy is bad because it's misleading and just a whitewash of reality. If you're living for an afterlife, for example, you're not fully living in this life.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:00 PM
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Yes, that's it exactly. Religion is a tool used to control people. So, you can choose to see things for what they are and be the controller, or just another one of the controlled.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:41 PM
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Free will to be led around by a large institution (organized religion) and forced to follow someone else's plan and morals? Religion is far worse than government in mandating behaviors that don't follow natural law. Celibacy, abstinence until commitment (that's extremely beta, btw), and more. Bottom line: believe what you want to believe, but if you're following a religion, it's no different than putting blinders on and letting a woman lead you.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:39 PM
1

Don't forget the "I love you"'s
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:33 PM
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Great advice
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:29 AM
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What the fuck am I reading here. This isn't healthy at all.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:28 AM
1

But I caaaaant stop drinking beer
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 02:30 AM
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Seriously, she got so excited she couldn't help herself.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 06:27 PM
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I have an issue with one of my plates who likes to scratch the shit outta me during sex, so I either hold her arms down or tie her up now. Try that.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 02:25 AM
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Not really... The uglier girl rejects you as a sort of preemptive strike. She knows she's not good enough for you, and so defends her ego by rejecting you before things can get to the point where you'll (inevitably) reject her.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 08:36 PM
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Nothing is stopping you from having kids, just do it without getting married. I'd still shoot for a stable ltr to do it with, though. Studies show that kids who grow up in a more traditional two-parent household are better off. But there's no need to get the government involved in your personal life through marriage.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 08:32 PM
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How so? I read askTRP and I see a lot of questions that look like they're from teenage boys (that still haven't read the sidebar), but usually nothing that could come from a woman.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 03:42 PM
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Ride the wave until it dies. Plates/fwbs are not permanent, and you can only keep them spinning for as long as they think they'll eventually be able to tie you down. Once they realize they won't be able to lock you into an exclusive relationship, they'll probably start looking for other options. But that's life... You should just accept it, and look for other plates while you still have this FWB so that you can leverage the abundance mentality that comes with having access to pussy.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:31 PM
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Absolutely. Even reading fiction, or other text that doesn't directly contribute to learning something new will help you improve your vocabulary, your grammar, and make you sound smarter overall.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:26 PM
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Great advice. Don't sabotage yourself beforehand, let the girl back out if she's gonna. In my experience, if she's attracted to you, you'll get laid- short of having HIV or something equally horrible (colostomy bag ain't one).
/r/askTRP07/08/16 11:01 PM
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Easily the worst part of being white
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:18 AM
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Seriously, it's like being in an LTR but without any of the benefits.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:49 PM
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Thanks. I hear this shit way too much on Pandora these days.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 03:27 AM
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Haha this is hilarious.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 07:38 PM
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Man, you're putting a lot of thought and effort into this chick and it doesn't seem like you've dove a cost/benefit analysis.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 07:37 PM
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You haven't tasted my dick
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 07:36 PM
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Yeah, this is the most likely answer... All of that other conspiracy bullshit is pretty fucking stupid.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:59 PM
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It's the ultimate social proof
/r/askTRP27/07/16 01:49 AM
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I tell them on the second date... Or when they come over to my place. Whichever comes first. Never had an issue. "Oh, yeah... I have a daughter. Didn't want to tell you ahead of time- I'm tired of girls dating me to get to her."
/r/askTRP27/07/16 01:48 AM
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This is really the best and simplest answer here. If she asks about a relationship, don't lie to her, but don't push the conversation in that direction, and definitely don't feel guilty about fucking her.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 01:36 AM
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Oh my god you guys, finally a solution to the fact that I'm not erect 24/7.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 03:15 AM
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I have a 2 year old daughter, and I struggle with this same question. Not sure what I'm going to do... I really want to rip the veil off of the Disney bullshit our society pushes, but that's years away yet. We'll see.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 03:14 AM
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Monk mode or not, your first priority should be to get your own place.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 03:02 PM
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They only do it if they're interested.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:10 AM
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Older women are fun, just don't get into a relationship with them
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:32 AM
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Maybe I'm misunderstanding what you're looking for with this post, but "qualifying" isn't about finding anything out about the girl, but about making her qualify herself to you. It actually deepens her investment in you. When you demonstrate high value, you can play some interesting games. For example; have an opinion that's different than most people would (including her). She'll agree with you because you're amazing and she wants to fuck you, but it's fun to watch her jump through hoops trying…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:24 AM
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That's the test, isn't it? Reporting it. If she reports it, then her story is real (or at least she's willing to risk a lot more to make you believe it). If she doesn't, you know she's full of shit. In this day and age where women will report you to HR for looking at them sideways, any hesitation to report someone for an unwanted physical advance should be seen as ownership of that situation.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 02:31 PM
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My recommendation is to do it without marriage. Depending on the state you're in (if you're in the US at all), there are places without common law marriage. Speaking from my perspective of currently being divorce raped, and taken for over half of my income and assets, marriage simply isn't worth it. There is zero benefit to the man, and every incentive for the woman to rip things apart. I would say just work on building a stable long-term relationship, and apply TRP principles to maintain it.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 01:31 AM
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I once met this chick that could give the most amazing blowjobs, but she wasn't that attractive. Still haven't met someone with her talent. I'd hook up with her again just for a ride on that mouth.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 12:05 AM
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I like to use my cock
/r/askTRP05/07/16 09:29 PM
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Yep. Personally I'd do it. It can get pretty kinky, which I like.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 05:01 PM
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I agree with this, but since my awakening it's been really difficult to find people worthy of the term "friend"
/r/askTRP03/07/16 04:55 PM
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Just some chores here and there.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 07:06 AM
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I was with this chick that was about 30 years older than me for a long time. She paid for literally everything. I'm not even joking... Food, entertainment, the works. Even bought me a car. I still talk to her a lot, but it's a different dynamic now that I've moved out. Plus dad won't let her buy me shit anymore.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 04:12 AM
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Honestly, why? It's to my advantage to have most of the population unaware of reality. What would happen if everyone woke up?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 01:39 AM
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I've been telling people about the 7 hour rule for the longest time, and no one ever believes me. Totally true.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 09:19 PM
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Please post a picture. I want to see what a dude who spends 3 hours a day at the gym for 5 years, yet still can't get laid looks like.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 04:22 AM
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Format it better and someone might read it
/r/askTRP29/06/16 04:16 AM
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"Confused speech" is the perfect term. Women are natural at inferring something and letting you draw the wrong conclusion. And hey, if you think she was raped, that's on you, she never actually said that.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 09:25 PM
1

That's awesome. I don't know what you're worried about.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 05:40 AM
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You're Christian because you're a follower. Stop being a follower. Anyone with half a brain can see that religion is a scam designed to control the people participating in it.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 03:28 AM
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The joke Head
/r/askTRP02/06/16 12:06 AM
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My ex signed an interspousal transfer deed (signing away all of her interest in my house) while we were married, and my lawyer had informed me that it's meaningless and she's going to be able to claim interest in my house anyway. So, I understand where /u/forcevacum is coming from. Apparently family courts can ignore any agreements that were signed during the marriage if they're not advantageous to the woman.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 01:52 PM
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I understand that everyone should be out meeting people in real life, but this is a specific question about an online interaction. If you can't be helpful in context (and you clearly don't know enough about the op to know whether he uses online as a supplemental approach vector or not), then just keep your crap advice to yourself. There's nothing inherently wrong with meeting people online.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:27 AM
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Blondes are just fucking hot. I'm a white guy, btw. Lol
/r/askTRP12/05/16 12:16 AM
1

I almost think you need to have been married to truly appreciate all of this. Otherwise one is likely to take it for granted.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 05:33 AM
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This is good. Now go out and get rejected a hundred more times. It's all part of the process. Soon rejection will hold no fear for you, and you'll be the master of approach.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 04:50 PM
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You can never count on a woman to include details such as these, but that's absolutely the case. She's probably got a whole host of orbiters that she doesn't consider "men".
/r/askTRP01/05/16 07:46 PM
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And if she doesn't hit you up, don't go back to her for any reason. You'll just appear weak (and you will be).
/r/askTRP01/05/16 03:39 AM
4

Fuck man, I wish I discovered TRP at that age instead of 36.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 07:58 PM
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I can't confirm your suspicions, but I'm from southern California, and I have pretty constant opportunities to practice my game. Maybe it's the target-rich environment that allows us to get so good? Also, we don't have a lot of restaurants out here that serve chicken fried chicken and other crap; our food choices are generally a lot healthier than in the south. Plus there's a pretty good amount of social pressure to remain in decent shape out here.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 03:22 PM
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I'm thinking of that Chappelle show... http://www.cc.com/video-clips/jwmvxd/chappelle-s-show-love-contract
/r/askTRP28/04/16 03:09 PM
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Next time she drops by uninvited tell her that you need some time alone, and she that she has to leave. Start seeing some boundaries. That shit is creepy.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 01:57 PM
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I completely agree that spanking is breaking frame. I see a lot of people in this thread taking about how "I'm gonna spank my kids the way I was spanked", or that "it's ok as long as it's not in anger" All of that just sounds like excuses for dudes who can't handle a fucking child. If you think it's hard to punish a child without hitting them, then I pity your weak mind and your chances with women.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 05:37 AM
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Great post. This really breaks things down into something I can digest.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 05:17 AM
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I'm sure there's an intersection there where your SMV must be high enough in the first place, and where it hasn't dipped below what she's seen before. We're gonna need an in-depth study to figure it out, though. Hah
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 12:57 AM
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Shit, you must have worked for my old boss
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 12:50 AM
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She asked if I'd been dating. Kept the details at a pretty high level.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 04:00 AM
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Now compare this to how a thirsty beta would be chasing after every possible piece of ass like it was his last, and you'll see how much better off you are. Bonus: women are attracted to that.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:55 AM
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I'm not sure, but I would say you're better off staying at the same SMV. I think it's harder to recapture something once you've lost it. And if you lose status with a woman, it's more likely that you'll have to go up in status even further to recapture what she initially felt for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 12:39 AM
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Pretty sure that's what she's thinking... "I'll fuck him so well he won't be able to get me out of his mind". This is backed up by all the crap she was saying to me in bed, about how "look at what I'm doing for you" and "I bet no one else does this". Little does she know...
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 12:38 AM
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Total outcome independence is sometimes hard to achieve. I was there to get a drink, and if she spread her legs for me great, if not... well, I love beer. I used to have trouble with letting go of the outcome of an encounter, but now it's become second nature. I now truly believe that I'm really on all these dates just to have a good time with myself. If the woman wants to join me in that good time, then great.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 12:36 AM
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Great question. And in most circumstances I would say that it's a really bad idea. Usually I won't talk about other women in front of a woman I'm currently with, I let them figure things out for themselves. This time however, I was very conscious of how we left things the last time I saw her. My intent in talking about the other women was twofold: first to make sure she had no illusions about what this date was, or where it was going to lead (definitely not monogamy with her), second was the add…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 12:34 AM
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I think you're dead on. I did a search for "we're not having sex", and this post came up. I'm going through this very situation right now. I'm getting together with a FWB that I haven't seen in a long time for drinks tomorrow, and she fed me that line over text. I interpreted it as "she obviously wants to have sex with me, but doesn't want to admit it, or take responsibility if it happens." I'm planning on fucking her tomorrow night.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 07:19 AM
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Don't apologize... if you were fucking around and she's too dense to understand that, then too bad for her. Also, if you've only known her for a week, I think it would set a very bad precedence to cave like that. She'll see weakness and pry that little hole open until it rips you in half.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 09:17 PM
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This is exactly where I am now. I've got lots of free time since cutting out the bullshit. I'm filling it with useful stuff, but I'm constantly amazed at how much nonsense I was involved in in my previous life. Something to be careful of, especially if you haven't mastered the art of self-discipline, is to not let yourself fall back into pointless time-wasting activities. Like commenting on posts on reddit. Oh shit
/r/askTRP22/03/16 01:21 AM
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"The alpha-on-the-go doesn't have time to swipe left" I know I mangled that quote, and I can't remember where I read it, but apparently there are two schools of thought on the tinder approach.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 10:43 PM
1

Exactly. It's all about relaxing a little bit and letting go of the need to talk about yourself and your opinions constantly. The value of your statements decreases the more often you speak.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 09:30 PM
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Well written and brutally honest. Nice work.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 08:02 PM
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No way, I'm looking for a girl that's been formally certified as fat.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 07:47 PM
1

Thanks, this seems like good advice. Unfortunately I can't afford another lawyer right now (or in the foreseeable future), so it's not about the cognitive dissonance of my investment vs. his shitty performance, but rather the reality of me not being able to hire anyone else if I cut him loose. I'm hoping these magic words do the trick.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:34 PM
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Probably true for a lot of things
/r/askTRP05/03/16 12:23 AM
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The womens bathroom is always fucking disgusting.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 07:15 AM
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You neckbeard woman hater
/r/askTRP14/01/16 11:09 PM
1

I used to do this a lot, and aside from any medical issue that might exist, as /u/endogenic mentions, I found that holding mountain pose for periods at a time helped my posture in that regard.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 08:03 AM
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They get there eventually... It just takes more time investment on my part than I really want to put forth. I'd like to find a way to move them to that state of "no shame in bed" faster.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 05:44 PM
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This seems to be the unfortunate truth. Although, you can find ways to try to convince a girl to do certain things; it's way harder the hotter they are.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 07:08 AM
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Since my wife and I split, I've had to cut loose several "friends" that I've known for over 15 years. Turns out you don't really know people until you've seen what they're like when the shit hits the fan. But like everyone else is saying- he wasn't your friend, move on and find real friends.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:50 AM
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