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Two ways: Make prolonged eye contact (2+ seconds) and smile. If she smiles back, introduce yourself Find a girl that looks somewhat bored/inactive and tap her on the arm or shoulder and say something along the lines of "excuse me but such and such" about her appearance or cold-read (you look like the type of girl who...). I can't really do the second one when I'm sober, but with a few drinks it comes pretty easily. Also ask your questions at /r/askseddit and keep this place clean of newbie quest…
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:05 AM
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/r/askseddit
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:02 AM
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That's a sad thing to read. I think what might help for you is to get a piece of paper and divide it into two columns. On one side, write five reasons why you think that women wouldn't like you. On the other, try really hard to find five reasons why women would like you (and try to think of something other than "I'm nice" or something generic). At first this will hurt but I think writing and reading your thoughts, fleshed out, will help you to actually realize these traits you may have. And if y…
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:01 AM
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Ouch. What do you mean you work alone? I would imagine you have some work colleagues, whether that's from you working in a company or from business relationships + friends of those partners. A good tip for you would be to don't think of yourself as a "complete loner" and feel sorry for yourself. You should try to improve on yourself as a person and not necessarily as a man looking for a woman yet, from what your description portrays. If anything, join a rec league for a sport you like to play or…
/r/seduction03/04/18 08:58 AM
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Ignore the others. This subreddit is improperly named, it's a place for people to learn to love themselves, thereby making them attractive to others and "seducing" them. However, if you have any particular small questions not related to theory, you should check out /r/askseddit. Welcome!
/r/seduction28/12/17 12:46 PM
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Jesus Christ man, are you like a psychiatrist or therapist? Some spot on analysis
/r/seduction17/12/17 12:45 AM
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Good read. How old are you? Changes the context I think
/r/seduction26/11/17 12:01 AM
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I think we'll have to disagree on the suggested response, that kind of playfulness isn't congruent with my frame. Maybe I should have responded somewhat more energetically, but I avoid using too much text anyways. Logistically it didn't make sense to go for drinks and then to a bar, especially since she has a flight early tomorrow morning, and the bars around here close extremely early anyways. I could have hosted and have had her stay, but I'm sure it wouldn't have worked out because she would …
/r/seduction23/11/17 07:54 AM
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7:45 "if you're a guy right now" nah I'm usually a guy but today I feel like being a girl ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/seduction06/11/17 11:22 PM
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You can still cold approach. My female friend got approached recently on campus and she apparently liked it and was receptive to the guy
/r/seduction04/11/17 11:28 PM
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Commenting for posterity
/r/seduction04/11/17 11:27 PM
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Get their attention, tell them you thought they looked cute and wanted to talk to them. Be genuinely interested in them. Get to know them.
/r/seduction01/11/17 10:07 AM
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/s for those autists
/r/seduction01/10/17 06:11 AM
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I really think that classification of ourselves in categories like intro/extroverts is limiting. I've always considered myself an introvert, but once I gave up that bullshit idea and just tried really hard to give less fucks and do ridiculous shit in public, I realized it's just a crutch/excuse. It's just that op hasn't broken out of his shell/comfort zone. (Not only did I consider myself an introvert, but so did everybody at my school who knew of me) I definitely still have that problem, but to…
/r/seduction22/09/17 05:41 AM
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Let's be honest. The reason you posted this, and the way you worded it, shows that you just want validation and people on here telling you that yes, these girls find you attractive. Will that make you actually approach them? Probably not. It doesn't matter what we or the girls think. What matters is that you just fucking go up to them and say hi. You can just say hi and leave, or continue the conversation if it goes well. There's absolutely no point in making this kind of post, it screams insecu…
/r/seduction21/09/17 10:30 PM
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I don't think this is the right subreddit for you. Maybe /r/relationships. I think the consensus for this scenario from this subreddit would be to stop being so clingy, and if she blocks your number again, cut it off. You're being a pussy by letting her walk all over you
/r/seduction02/09/17 12:57 AM
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Grab a few drinks, talk, get to know each other? Don't overthink it, imo. Not everything you do has to be engineered, the whole aspect of it is that women are people too. If they're very keen on coming, be straightforward. If they're not as excited, then you can embellish a bit.
/r/seduction24/08/17 04:57 PM
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Nope. Not really into the whole holding hands thing unless we're dating, which isn't really what I'm looking for anyways lol
/r/seduction24/08/17 10:56 AM
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That's what I figured, thanks for the words of advice! The time we got smoothies I sat up next to her and got pretty close, but we were in public and I'm pretty shite at PDA especially with a new girl. I'll make sure to increase the kino tomorrow!
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:13 AM
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My absolute first approaches when I was in high school weren't so bad, confidence was stupidly high back then. Now that I'm back in the pool and fresh off, I was awkward as fuck when I first approached. I would stutter and not make eye contact and do that awkward grimace-smile that people do in a professional environment when nobody has anything to say. I can't say I'm much better yet, but I do make more eye contact and it does wonders, along with slowing down on what I want to say to the girl.
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:33 AM
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Hey I saw you post this video on some other thread's comment list, and I gave it a watch. It's pretty good advice and I honestly don't know why people aren't receptive to it (maybe because seddit/pua places are money-grabbers?). Keep up the good work! I'll probably be revising my tinder which I've had for a little over a week based on your advice, might have to restart it after asking a friend for a good photo
/r/seduction23/08/17 04:48 AM
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Eat dat pussy. 69 if you have to, then when you're good and ready keep at it
/r/seduction18/08/17 11:56 PM
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Make your intent clear. If they reject you, they reject you.
/r/seduction02/08/17 08:38 PM
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They are smarter than that. If you expect them to believe you when you approach them out of the blue, "just to be friends," then you have another thing coming
/r/seduction02/08/17 01:19 PM
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Well done! I'm not a veteran or anything, but I do lurk the sub on occasion and it sounds like you did everything right that was in your control. Just keep approaching and you'll minimize your mistakes! And cheers to you for not being overbearing/creepy as well, it seems like a lot of us have a hard time toeing that line
/r/seduction27/07/17 04:38 AM
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Yeah no she already said no to you twice. Move on, block her if necessary (probably better to just delete her and not block imo)
/r/seduction26/07/17 09:15 PM
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Nobody can tell since you gave like 0 background
/r/seduction26/07/17 06:37 PM
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Your shot's probably gone. If anything, you could have said, "If you don't know me why are you sending me pictures of you" or something along those lines (dismissive), to show her that you don't really care. Desperation = death
/r/seduction26/07/17 06:20 PM
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