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Last minute resist
/r/seduction04/12/17 10:58 AM
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Follow your instinct don't think
/r/seduction07/06/17 09:32 PM
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damn I have a hard time doing exactly this and the girl I'm seeing is that way, we hang out twice a week and have a great time but when I'm away from her I feel the need to call or text her. but like you said we have our own separate lives. she's just much better at it than I am.
/r/seduction10/07/14 11:43 AM
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I always think before I send a text, "is this more interesting if I say it in person?" if it is I wait til the next meet.
/r/seduction28/05/14 05:39 PM
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godamn man, this is what I strive to be. I currently have an attractive girl hooked but my lifestyle and weak inner game is hemorrhaging out showing my lack of true confidence. I get all giddy when we talk for hours on the phone and then a day later if she doesn't text or call I get worried and anxious like a bitch. I can't stand to see myself like this. thanks for the post
/r/seduction21/05/14 09:16 PM
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we need more quality posts like this on seduction thank you.
/r/seduction17/05/14 02:37 AM
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thanks for the reminder I keep forgetting to do this.
/r/seduction16/05/14 07:57 AM
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good move, sometimes you need to find your own path. good luck in your endeavors.
/r/seduction16/05/14 07:54 AM
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decent article, I thought the intro was more important than the points and could've been expounded on.
/r/seduction16/05/14 07:53 AM
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read your title ask questions like this on askseddit. just get her a card something low investment
/r/seduction15/05/14 04:12 AM
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just don't, and ask questions like this on askseddit
/r/seduction15/05/14 01:03 AM
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reframe it, as another post mentioned you're conditioned to get a negative reaction. it's a self fulfilling prophecy. think how you can convey you work with computers but in an exciting way. don't just say I'm in IT, be proud of what you do, it's what you do for a living. people will often mirror your attitude when it comes to things like that.
/r/seduction15/05/14 01:02 AM
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majority of girls don't have exciting fun shit going on all the time either. building an attractive lifestyle is important but you should be able to invite a girl out to just spend time with you. she should be excited to be in your company, even privileged. you are the essence of an exciting fun time.
/r/seduction15/05/14 12:48 AM
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step number 1: stop gaming over text
/r/seduction14/05/14 10:44 AM
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dgaf.
/r/seduction14/05/14 06:25 AM
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for me it's the opposite I give too much of the lets fuck vibe and I think I'm being all smooth and coy. it backfires bc the woman knows this, and in my head I'm thinking I haven't shown my intent yet before building attraction and play it cool. it works sometimes bc I'm basically assuming attraction all the time without meaning to. to answer your question before even kino your eye contact, and a smirk on your face that says I know what we're doing later tonight.
/r/seduction13/05/14 07:17 AM
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how old are you? messaging game any format in general is dumb. you should be showing your best side in person, she should be able to feel your eye contact, hear your tone of voice, feel your sexual aura, all that. gaming over text is the lowest form and there isn't much risk, grow a pair and be nervous in person and rise to the occasion.
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:12 AM
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you're far ahead since you can close women who are already receptive. what you're going for are the ones on the fence, that is 'game' assuming attraction is huge and you already are familiar with that situation. just treat women that you are interested like the ones described above. women want to be desired and just by assuming attraction you'll see a change in how you treat/feel around them. there's more to it but focus on one thing at a time
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:07 AM
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be a solid congruent rock, you should still be the confident guy at the party, just under a different setting and energy level.
/r/seduction13/05/14 12:59 AM
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please don't have a sit down to discuss your feelings and worse expect something from it early in the relationship. show her instead through actions.
/r/seduction13/05/14 12:56 AM
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http://approachanxiety.com/2013/03/emotions-versus-logic-the-biggest-mistake-guys-make-with-women/ read the attraction stage part. it's still all about maintaining some tension and mystery. Eric disco has some excellent material under relationship, read through them.
/r/seduction13/05/14 12:54 AM
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Classic nice guy symptom, meditating helps catching yourself and being more self aware
/r/seduction13/05/14 12:51 AM
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http://approachanxiety.com/2010/09/how-to-get-her-to-be-your-girlfriend/ great site By Eric disco
/r/seduction12/05/14 01:58 AM
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the more time you spend w them the more you're going towards a relationship. ideally she should be the one that brings up the topic of being exclusive, not you.
/r/seduction11/05/14 11:05 PM
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you can have abundance mentality in approaches. by sheer numbers you're going to have success. the more you approach and become comfortable the less you'll be invested in your initial approach. next time post questions like this on askseddit.
/r/seduction11/05/14 07:24 AM
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like any other hired guns you have to snap them out of 'work mode' first. there are some posts on waitresses and such it's similar concept. next time post questions like this on askseddit.
/r/seduction11/05/14 07:22 AM
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you're playing it too safe. you may be building rapport with boring topics but you need to build attraction by stepping out of your comfort zone. things such as turning the conversation sexually, bantering, or directly showing your desire. it's a push and pull, build sexual tension then release it and go back to rapport which is what you do now.
/r/seduction11/05/14 04:31 AM
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if you're new then yes approach everyone it's all about momentum and slowly building your level or comfort to a point you can talk to women you find attractive
/r/seduction11/05/14 12:59 AM
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not playing on other peoples rules reminds me of this book David and Goliath. have you had any success? I'd recommend taking it further and avoidin the club scene entirely and find a different outlet for your approaches. I think you would find much more success during the day.
/r/seduction11/05/14 12:39 AM
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it's about being vulnerable, you'll open so many more opportunities if you trust first, that being said like in the article don't be naive
/r/seduction11/05/14 12:35 AM
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agreed, I don't know any successful asian men like that though that are very sexual and do well with all races.
/r/seduction10/05/14 10:22 AM
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short answer yes, move questions like this to askseddit
/r/seduction10/05/14 05:51 AM
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similar story some black girls love korean men, only if white girls were the same. which city are you in if you don't mind? haven't had any luck on okcupid.
/r/seduction10/05/14 01:56 AM
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you can use stereotypes to work for you, be the opposite it'll help you stand out more. more playful, high energy, and sexual.
/r/seduction10/05/14 12:44 AM
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try the search function: first date
/r/seduction09/05/14 10:31 AM
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you're texting too much, set up a meet don't try to show your 'best game' over text. as far as your situation unless there is attraction you going off the radar won't do anything.
/r/seduction09/05/14 05:52 AM
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simple, she's not interested or she really was seeing another guy, either way good news for you. you know to move the fuck on and not waste your time.
/r/seduction09/05/14 02:53 AM
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sounds to me like you're spinning a lot of plates at once, focus on one thing at a time. in your lifestyle, your approach skills and getting the most out of women that show interest in you. regarding motivation you need to celebrate every little victory you have and build it into a momentum. don't treat it like a chore.
/r/seduction09/05/14 02:50 AM
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Invest in yourself, bottom line that's it. you're relying more and more on your 'so cool' gf for your identity. it's only a matter of time until she feels crowded and feels like your trophy gf. you can only hide it for so long, it'll permeate through somehow. step back from your business and your gf and do something for yourself.
/r/seduction08/05/14 11:22 PM
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law of least effort anyone?
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:39 PM
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you're overthinking and now you've built up a pedestal. it's just a kiss man, I tend to just tell her 'give me a kiss' when we get up from an activity or something. as for f closing getting her to your place is half the battle.
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:41 AM
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dude she's not worth your time as energy. she's manipulative and you're obviously not confident enough to draw boundaries and make it clear you don't accept her behavior. you should've let her know from the very beginning and either she will think you're the real deal an change or you say good bye.
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:37 AM
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I've found isolation is the biggest thing, I usually meet a girl on the floor, make strong we contact, kino, just have your own fun in general. I take her out to a patio or something and carry on from there. has worked well for me.
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:04 AM
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that seemed longer than necessary, good information overall.
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:01 AM
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what do you do?
/r/seduction07/05/14 10:18 AM
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Jesus I miss /r/seduction the way it was a couple years ago
/r/seduction07/05/14 04:01 AM
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just for background, how old are you?
/r/seduction07/05/14 04:00 AM
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plow through that shit, and next time post questions like this on askseddit.
/r/seduction07/05/14 03:57 AM
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thanks, going back to always leading, I find it exhausting at times even when the girl is always willing to follow. I find girls that only follow boring, what can I do to get them to initiate and open up on their own?
/r/seduction07/05/14 12:57 AM
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on point. how can I develop an emotional connection without coming off as needy? I feel like that is something I yearn for when I meet a girl I feel like I can connect with. it's definitely coming from a needy place.
/r/seduction06/05/14 10:51 AM
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so basically my mindset should be that we're already dating, which I've never done before but have somewhat of an idea. part that I'm hesitant about is meeting her friends and what not, I've always operated one on one. anyway thanks for all your prompt replies. I'll check out your site too.
/r/seduction06/05/14 10:24 AM
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That last part definitely makes sense, I actually thought about telling her something like 'we should date' but your way is more natural and less needy. so would I continue to keep gaming her like I would any other girl to and beyond the label stage? what should be my goal or mindset?
/r/seduction06/05/14 09:31 AM
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move the relationship to a higher level I've only had fwbs and never a serious gf. I'd like to change that. can you elaborate?
/r/seduction06/05/14 07:55 AM
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that makes sense, incongruence is definitely a weakness along with knowing my identity. what's the difference fwb and when you start 'dating' a woman? what's the distinction and what should be on my mind?
/r/seduction06/05/14 06:16 AM
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you've got quality comments. thanks. advice for a newbie who's just starting to get laid with women but want to take it to the next level with a quality girl? I still struggle with needy behavior and have been masking it bit I know it's a matter of time until she catches on subconsciously.
/r/seduction06/05/14 03:41 AM
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I'm at the same point Ive been reading about building relationships and I'd work myself. be the man a woman wants to love. I fall in love too quickly but I still have sex with them. don't show any needy behavior and work on deep rapport. don't forget to push n pull by being playful and challenging as well.
/r/seduction06/05/14 03:35 AM
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hope you know the first girl in person and not just over Facebook..
/r/seduction06/05/14 03:26 AM
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why the down vote this man is on point
/r/seduction06/05/14 02:00 AM
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hey, it's not your fault. you hear me? it's not your fault.
/r/seduction05/05/14 10:26 PM
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I've been using 'make time for us tomorrow bc we're going out'
/r/seduction05/05/14 10:08 PM
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ah dude I feel you man I got a little emotional reading your story. every guy has been there and can empathize with you. ultimately it's a lesson for you to take heart. hope you bulldoze through to greener pastures man.
/r/seduction26/04/14 05:27 AM
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this should be on /r/askseddit anyway be direct and convey your desire. don't be apologetic or feel guilty. have the attitude of if she likes me or not it isn't going to affect me.
/r/seduction14/04/14 11:18 AM
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thanks for your reply although going to a strip club would make me think more about sex. I do have a fwb and have sex on a regular basis. but with me it's more of a validation to have sex with new women that I like. I've been sexually frustrated for last few years so that could be the reason.
/r/seduction06/04/14 03:07 PM
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thanks
/r/seduction06/04/14 02:58 PM
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I've got a girl I regularly hook up with and she's very low maintenance which is pretty much fwb. I don't have any interest to pursue a relationship bc I don't click that way w her. still seddit helps my goal of attracting higher quality women that I'd want a relations with
/r/seduction03/04/14 11:20 AM
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I've got a coffee date tomorrow w a girl I met online. any more tips? I'm trying hard to not look for her approval or come off as needy.
/r/seduction27/02/14 08:01 PM
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good job having some self respect for yourself. next time send her a short one sentence text.
/r/seduction22/02/14 03:26 PM
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it's all about the connection you have with her before you say bye and get her number. I'd imagine daytime rapport is more genuine than club/bar game where girls expect to be hit on.
/r/seduction19/02/14 07:28 AM
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just be patient with her, don't come off as needy texting her just for the sake of it. remember you come from an abundance state of mind. If you think a girl is playing mind games with you don't even bother humoring her, or crush her at her own game. last thing is outcome independence, don't react to her actions, lead the interaction with yours. I know it's generic advice but those are the things Id keep in mind when you start analyzing every little thing a girl does.
/r/seduction15/02/14 06:59 PM
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how'd you start out and keep building that momentum? I go back to my old ways constantly.
/r/seduction30/12/13 10:20 AM
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finally some real talk quality post on this subreddit
/r/seduction30/12/13 10:19 AM
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if you want to be a real man check out /r/weightlifting
/r/seduction26/04/13 09:05 PM
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forced smiling makes you happy. works both ways happy -> smile // smile -> happy
/r/seduction08/03/13 01:24 AM
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Genuinity is important, but so is your value from the perspective of your peers. Be a student, people will see that you're not some scumbag who came to college just to creep on girls. Also make friends who you just want to be with because they're good company without any agendas. People pick up on these things and more genuine you become they'll naturally want to be your friend, in turn meeting more girls in the long run.
/r/seduction19/02/13 05:14 PM
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yes definitely agree w/ the first part about not being generic and more specific.
/r/seduction27/09/12 06:19 PM
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AF I'm guessing, may I ask where you're attending? I'm interested in getting an ROTC scholarship to earn a commission.
/r/seduction01/09/12 04:06 AM
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awesome. someone should repost his video on that pick up show
/r/seduction26/07/12 06:16 PM
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I would have to disagree, biggest factor is 'calibration', you need to calibrate to their level of culture. Korean culture in general do not find bluntness in in social settings/public attractive, especially if coming from a foreigner, it will definitely come off to them as kind of a 'redneck/foreign' act in a Korean way. I think your best chances are going to come from heavy isolation and emotional rapport before attraction. I'm Korean.
/r/seduction26/07/12 05:18 PM
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this was 10 years ago man..plenty of fish
/r/seduction09/07/12 04:03 PM
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meant the same thing state independent
/r/seduction01/07/12 07:16 AM
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end goal should be to where you're 'in-state' constantly without you trying to be it. Just do what you would do when you're in-state ALL THE TIME, not only when you get pumped up to go out. In the beginning though my advice would be as soon as you get to your location just open girls left and right without thinking and plow through everybody not giving a fuck. I'm in the same boat as you, hang tough and learn to amuse yourself.
/r/seduction01/07/12 03:53 AM
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what if you dont actually go out 21 days straight..make myself go to the mall to open 10 girls?
/r/seduction30/06/12 11:06 PM
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how do you work on your word choices and witty banter/comebacks? Is it just practice over and over?
/r/seduction28/06/12 09:15 PM
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is this really /r/seduction? There is /r/highseddit you know..
/r/seduction26/06/12 09:43 PM
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abundance of women! abundance!
/r/seduction20/06/12 06:56 PM
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work the room man.
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:55 AM
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we need more of these high quality in field videos..godamn
/r/seduction17/06/12 04:13 AM
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someone tell me, how good is this show as far as improving your game? or is it bunch of reality show cheap laughs
/r/seduction17/06/12 04:08 AM
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Not downvoted, but it simply sounds like an elaborate excuse. I think it'd be better to straight come out and establish dominance and let her know you have a spine, of course in an unaffected way.
/r/seduction13/06/12 12:41 AM
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don't give yourself a chance to back out. as soon as you get to the location immediately open up whoever and build from there. Stay out of your own way and get out of your head, listen and you can advance from there.
/r/seduction02/12/11 05:35 AM
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anyone know where this is? definitely a college coast in cali
/r/seduction08/06/11 02:02 AM
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best unaffected response?
/r/seduction30/05/11 04:36 PM
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damn, can you say alpha?
/r/seduction25/05/11 02:44 AM
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I'm good with openers, but I can't build rapport (trust + comfort). I actually have easier time having initial attraction building on that is difficult as well. any tips?
/r/seduction22/05/11 09:09 PM
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you're still young, don't worry about what happens while you're in your teens. It might seem like the world to you right now but a couple years later it's not going to mean anything. one thing I wish I had done differently was to not be afraid of coming up short and failing.
/r/seduction22/05/11 08:11 PM
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If she doesn't introduce you right away, the first chance you get take the initiative and introduce yourself. Lead the conversation after they've talked about whatever they had to initially. Often times though it's one of those quick stop and chat and 'good seeing you' kind of thing.
/r/seduction22/05/11 07:54 PM
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I have the exact same problem, I think I tend to think well since I know about this I should go this way and not focus on the big picture.. anyone have other advice on how to stay on course? also what about the ones who are persistent and they demand you give them an answer on one of her tests? and if you keep dodging it with funny espouses she ends up with a pout?
/r/seduction27/04/11 04:39 AM
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Robin from How I Met Your Mother.
/r/seduction14/01/11 08:47 PM
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redditor for 14 hours.. you sure this isn't a fantasy?
/r/seduction19/10/10 06:21 AM
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definitely a dick move and a lot of guys has friends that are different around hb's. you can either play and beat him at his game, or pull him off to the side and tell him what a bad fwiend he is.
/r/seduction19/10/10 05:12 AM
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upvote for courage. start off small, make conversations with everybody. just hours ago I got a number from a girl I've been feeling at a drive thru I've been going to. We talked as usual and I backed out again and drove off. after one minute I made myself drive back and asked and she gladly said yes:) I've leveled up and now txting her:)
/r/seduction19/10/10 05:01 AM
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Try a different hair style, it can change the whole persona dramatically. Especially if you had the same hair style in high school - college, you definitely could use a new do.
/r/seduction10/10/10 01:34 AM
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If you're really trying to build a connection then obviously the environment in which you're meeting women are not right for you. Try a different scene and time.
/r/seduction09/10/10 07:58 PM
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Huge upvote for the audio. Really made me become self-aware of my ego and what it is doing to hinder my advance in life. Chasing women for validation was definitely one of my biggest problems that I wanted to get rid of and it was because I didn't love myself. Now I don't know how hard the journey will be but at least I'm faced in the right direction. Thank you! Please provide more links if you will.
/r/seduction09/10/10 04:55 PM
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This thread can do better than 34 comments.....COME ON. Quit being the backseat driver! BROTHERS IN ARMS!
/r/seduction03/10/10 09:37 PM
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Asians can def come off as creepy, and it doesn't help when you live in the south and the white frat boys disapprove of asian guys hitting on any of 'their' white women. (a bit exaggerating)
/r/seduction03/10/10 09:32 PM
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