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I think they simply disagree with men out of instinct. Whatever we say, if we aren't the guy they're attracted to, they can disagree easily. It's just too obvious how we never make any ground on this sub. They just reflexively disagree with us. Even so many of the posts they make, are our criticisms of them, turned back on us. Men live rent free in their heads. All they talk about is interpersonal relationships and drama. And they disagree with us analyzing any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:32 PM
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The point being, we have to do our due diligence each and every time. Simply making the rule "50% women" has allowed you to think, "oh good. I'm gonna bring this up at tea time. Everyone will like that." When there aren't that many good noble people amongst us. And certainly not amongst those of us willing to grind enough to be at the top of hierarchies. So we simply made sure that there are more women sharks at the top, and then went on about our day. It doesn't solve anything if we aren't rais…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:28 PM
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A lot of dating is similar to gambling. People go out on the weekends and take a pull on the slot machine lever. Everyone pretends that they're meeting people for high minded ideals and that we're all fully actualized and know who we are on a deep level. That people are striving for a goal and not just following their latest whim based on some advert. So the uncomfortable truth for an unattractive person is that many people would find you mildly attractive. The longer I spend around non-model co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:32 AM
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Your not supposed to hide from this one. It's a red pill. Yes men find young women attractive. One of the things people are missing with the gender war is immature people vs mature people. A mature person realizes their partner, AND everyone around them, will age. You love your wife if she's a good person. If she is kind and there for you and a good helpful person. Even as she ages you love her. This convo came about because men wanted to explain "the wall" to women and their comeback was, "you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:54 PM
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"and i hope your next dating endeavors are wildly unsuccessful." You know they won't be...right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:35 PM
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I'm curious of your assessment of your wife? Why is she able to acknowledge this aspect of our nature. I'd posit that you can see from the women here that they sort of won't let themselves interpret a relationship that way. "We're married, he gets what sex he gets. Nothing is transactional. He's not doing enough chores." They seem to always have a comeback rather than, "hmm I've never considered that." So I assume they sorta don't want this to be true. I have ONE friends mother who will acknowle…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:35 PM
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I'm really sort of surprised that someone from the third world hasn't made this apparent to us, but I'll betray the red pill a little here. Isn't it just being an adult? Like men are stoic because we're taught to be. We grow up and act mature because it is neccesary and brings us positive feedback. As society, in the 1st world, gets easier and easier to manage, more and more people are in a arrested development. Especially women because our culture allows and almost encourages it, and to an ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:55 PM
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"as long as we keep the discussion on topic." The topic being it's pointless for men to complain about women? That it accomplishes nothing so go do something else. What you said, "look, men are the superficial ones anyway. Women need a bit more from a person. So guys who know how to do that, hey whatever, they know how to do it. Let's not analyze whether or not how they interact with women is wrong. Some men are bad sure, but it's nothing to look into. No more questions especially not about the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:04 PM
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Thanks obviously it was really intelligent to laser in on that example and lose sight of everything else while claiming you couldn't give any of it the benefit of the doubt in the name of anonymous communication. It's not even like this is a real time conversation where you can't reread something or think it over for a few extra minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:01 PM
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Well that's fair I guess. I have something against the worst amongst us winning. Or immature assholes who don't appreciate why it isn't enough that they want something, that taking it from someone else, sometimes even lying to get your goal, SHOULDNT BE THE WINNERS in our society. And I don't want to date or marry someone who's ever slept with an athlete or a movie star simply for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:58 PM
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Because, as my equal, I have expectations on my significant others abilities to A. See through scams, and B. Hold themselves accountable to not be associating with individuals that I wouldn't hang out with. Golden rule type stuff. I'm a decent looking guy. I had options. I don't sleep around. Can't say I never have, I tried it once. But I thought i was going to meet someone special. Instead I kept meeting women who treated me like a teddy bear at then end of a list monsters. I think women are gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:44 PM
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But who is benefitting from it being murky? The kind of guy who is getting what he wants while he has the type of girl who thinks this might go her way if she keeps giving. A pump and dump for all intents and purposes. Something to avoid. Not something we should make cute little words out of. Hamster away the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:18 PM
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Yea I took it more as, "I do read this stuff but it's just a hobby." I thought you were presenting that you aren't making shit up but will be humble about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:32 AM
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It should always have been understood that trp and it's adjacent philosophies immediately stop being relevant the moment your not someone who can "play" in this space. If you could have a glow up and get into the marketplace then fine, work on it. If you cannot, it's probably best to ignore this stuff. All these comments from middle aged moms saying they're happy with our fathers. Obviously they're coping, but who even cares anyway. We waste so much time around here arguing about Brunhilda and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:54 PM
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Standing up for Walmart shenanigans...talk about blue pilled ;D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:39 PM
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You're saying might makes right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:15 PM
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You're talking about covert contracts. And as chamomile said, women can do them too. It's basically being too weak a person to earn or assert what you want, so they capitulate and hope. A man wants sex but is too passive to be the kind of guy who makes that clear and is even a little pushy. So he will take the EASY way out and hope that if he's just nice, then she will capitulate. It's manipulation by a weaker person. I don't orbit women but I am too passive to initiate so I know what this feels…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:36 AM
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My point was that the above comment said, "it is a known issue that liberal women would like to date men who share their values and there are less of those men, AND there's a certain desire for a guy to be sorta performatively manly but also liberal. This may be a difficult ask. Especially if she also wants to be attracted to him. Be the same age. Maybe she wants him tall." I am just tired of the women being in a debate space, being presented with a counter argument, and going, "oh well na na we…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:47 PM
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It can't just be that even if her arms get ripped off, "oh well at least she can still dance and enjoy butterflies." You guys are so infuriating to argue against because you're so clearly just in it to win it, and thus why would I believe you're not coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:36 PM
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Well at the very least the distinction he is making is that you guys unnecessarily pump each other up, while we get torn down. So while they're both lies or unhelpful, one is at least leaving the person blissfully ignorant while the other leaves them very susceptible to stress hormones and the chemicals that make you feel bad about yourself. It's evident in the lonliness epidemic thing. Women are thriving being single. They've never been better. But what is wrong with all the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:31 AM
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I can't help but feel that this sub is specifically filled with people who don't or never went to parties, don't get included in the gossip at work, and thus, still have that childlike view that people are good. "No one would steal a $20 from their mom!" "No woman would cheat on her man at a wild party! That doesn't happen!" "No one ever tells me anything mean or ugly." (As if we haven't spent the last 15 years sussing out which of our friends/acquaintences could handle our edgier thoughts. A ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:30 AM
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"Why don't men believe women when we describe ourselves and our motives in the most positive light that casts us as good people who are mature and responsible with our lives and emotions." It's because that's what salesmen do. "Que bono" The Romans or whoever made a phrase about it that we still use. I don't know any other Latin. I know, buyer beware and who benefits. They're just basics aspects of being an adult. People will try and lie to you. To steal from you. Sometimes friends will do this …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:43 PM
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All the colleges and sports leagues pick bigger guys. Sex is an athletic event. It's not fun to hammer home how much cope there is around this. Why would I, a guy, want to explain this truth to anyone? But we're all hurting more and more by ignoring it while it still goes on. Do not let you wife ride off in a sports car with a Baller. That's just 100% good advice. Women should not argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:10 PM
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You don't think guys "neg" women they're in screaming matches on the street with right? Even if a guy walked up to a woman in a bar, who had previously given him the eyes, and he coughed in her face and then tried to say she could stand to lose a few, when he returned to his friends they'd all be like, "well that's not how any of that works." A guy insulting an anonymous woman online is not a guy who is making progress with you at a bar and then manages to properly make you feel insecure because…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:44 PM
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Our argument is that things have become soooo bad, that the language is deserved. This is the equivalent of that video where the women holds her boyfriends arm/arms while he's directly involved in a fight. "Nooooo! Don't fight!" Things are bad. We're upset. We're trying to identify the problem. And it feels like women are hiding behind, "it's not what you said, it's how you said it!" instead of helping us. "I can't side step some rudeness to interact productively on a debate sub. A mature adult …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:26 PM
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Sorry mom
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:50 AM
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Oh I really like this. I'm completely on board. I am despondent about the fact that while I think people do justify their actions on a base level, I do not think it's justified or dignified of us as higher beings. I do think we're capable of more. Some of us(not a gendered comment). View my analysis as a criticism of what is. Not how I want things to be. "Animals use aggression because they don't have a developed pre-frontal cortex and rely on instincts." This is my argument against needing peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:31 AM
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How come you're assuming what I was saying is that men commit violence to communicate? The commentor above me said violence isn't honest communication. I'm arguing that it is. That it gets a point across. Go away, im better than you, I'm not afraid of you, I want what you have, I hate you. Stuff like that. It IS communication. Amd that I've had trouble explaining that to women. I think a woman being violent is still communicating. Violence is communication no matter who it comes from. Just that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:25 AM
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I think you're flinging shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:23 AM
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I've experienced this a lot explaining this to women. They hear that animals use aggression to establish dominance and they think, "well that's just rude. They should express their feelings to one another." Violence and aggression do express something. It is communication, if very simple communication. But you have to get past that it upsets you. It's like the whole, "i don't wanna go to the gym casually, I'll get jacked." Women don't understand the physical world. We've lived in Disney world to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:55 PM
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I was thinking about this yesterday early morning. I noticed a bunch of baby birds start chirping. One started and got the rest going. I'd imagine, in the jungle, you probably want your baby to shut up, so as to not attract attention. So you feed it. But that encourages the behavior. So you end up with creatures that were rewarded for being recklessly demanding and unforgiving. It highlights how we as humans need to embrace the fact that we are doing things on purpose. We raise our children in w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:38 AM
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It's a weird problem because as we soften men, they probably want love and relationships to validate them more. Whereas as you go farther and farther back, farmers and miners and cowboys would probably still be laughing if you asked them if they could find purpose in life besides the love of a good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:23 PM
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I thought I specifically said that? I don't hit on women irl. I know I'm not good at it. It was supposed to be an example. Can you engage with what I said? Or just the dunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:44 AM
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"Men are dogs" is going to get pushback. And the implication is that you - the man hearing this - is a dog, just like all the other men." "I think part of the issue is that men are more starved for attention and affection from women" I agree with you and think you're on to something. But I think something that needs to be screaming in every guys face, during all interactions with women, is plausible deniability. "Men are dogs" is simultaneously a jab at your ego, AND a spicy flirt. Depending on …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:27 AM
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There's a survey or something somewhere where they asked men if getting 80% of their preferences met in a woman would be acceptable. The men supposedly were enthusiastic about 80%. Whereas when asking women the same question they were met with more disappointment. The commentor was trying to describe to them how we think most women are perfectly fine. Whereas with them...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:23 PM
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I don’t think fucking 50 women to seem “high value” is good Why not? Crowder balks at this notion too. He had on Myron Gaines, who's espoused the idea, and agreed with him on most stuff, but then flinched at sleeping around. To me, having the mindset that you could do that, is what is important. If you're putting one or two relationships on a pedestal, or you think one is the most important thing that's ever happened, then you're vulnerable. To loss. And you should always be vulnerable to loss. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:27 AM
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This is more of a splinter in my eye type scenario for me. I am 6'1 and my face is "cute" so I had girls approach me and make it easy enough. But I'm shy so i mess up with escalating. I don't naturally like being the one in charge. I don't have a hang up about it. I like who I am. I judge them for needing me to take charge. I'm not asking for advice. I believe that I saw a lot of stuff in my relationships that isn't spoken about out loud. Theres a lot of women explaining themselves with therapy …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:25 AM
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Obviously I give the topic more nuance and benefit of the doubt than that. I do not believe that it is that simple that people can't grasp that we've already covered "just be yourself" and OF COURSE were into the specific precise nonsense we are in 2026.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:09 AM
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We believe it is the equivalent of hand waving away your child when they ask about the birds and the bees. It's "the stork brought you" of answers for adults. 1. That didn't happen. (Total Denial) Whereas when we are able to back them into a corner in here, they default to, "why shouldn't women go for hawt guys exclusively?!" (2. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. (Minimization) So that's more of an honest answer. We'd like to start the convo from that point, because the next hurdle is (skipping…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:35 AM
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Exactly guys! Who's up 1st?! If you just contribute equally to the chores everything will be fine. They aren't MEANT to push us forward and never be content. Go be sysiphus!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:32 AM
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Dr. Orion Taraban of Psych hacks poses it like this: It's about going long, or stopping short. If you grow up in a small town and marry the 1st or 2nd girl you date, you have stopped short. Comparison will be your ally as you have very little to compare your experience to. You can rest assured that you are working on something special, but you will always contend with what could have been. If you travel around, and visit many different places. Expose yourself to many people and opportunities, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 01:39 AM
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It's a deal. You back up that top comment and I'll back you up on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 01:31 AM
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Idk folks does she think she made it sound fun to be married? If one of you guys wants to try and please them...Have chores to do every sat and sun... She'll give you anxiety about any hobby you have because even after you come home from all weekend with her family, when you pull into the garage and she sees the car you might tinker with for a few minutes before bed, at least a comment will be made, if not an eye roll or a sigh. They can't help it. Sign up for that. On purpose. Go on. But hey, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:27 PM
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A woman goes to the gym and then dates a man who spends money on her. Did the man receive any money in return? A man goes to the gym and then has consensual sex with a woman. Did the woman receive any sex in return? Guys do not sign up for life with these women. They won't admit they'll dead bedroom you but the writing is on the wall every where.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:57 PM
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I recently actually had an acquaintance say, "I don't want to hear the neitzche quote you're referencing because I might not be able to stop myself from believing it." And I just sorta didn't know how to react. We dropped it, but like, damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:57 PM
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A lot of the blue pilled here operate like any time a man gives advice from a place of success in romance he is lying. That we're all incels. So then if the OP is about GUYS WHO GET SEX it means you can't use the same group of guys who you don't believe have sex. Right? You are correct that the guys here participate in the n-count threads. You are incorrect to say that you or most of the bloops here believe they are in the casual rotation and insult their latest lay to the bros over beers. If we…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:45 PM
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Because the word "adults" isn't being used scientifically. I just listened to someone last night, explain how some super genius at biology could barely even button his own shirt. Was incapable of driving. But benefited ALL of humanity with his mind for mathematics and biology. Do i see him as less than for being incapable of certain tasks? Would I talk down to him for not driving his own car to the party that night? I appreciate him for what he is capable of AND acknowledge that his worth is mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:40 PM
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Or like, if they are for example, "the oldest teenager in the room" it might imply that they are more flighty and shallow, less prone to mature thoughts of the future and simply enjoying themselves in the moment. That is not seeing someone as less than human or any less deserving of respect or rights. They simply won't be burdened with the most serious discussions or ongoings. For their own comfort. And what if you wanted them to be more than that and you had tried. It doesn't matter, you apprec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:31 PM
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Do you have anything to add to the actual discussion aside from your blatant whataboutism? I'm very concerned with this type of interaction. As the avg iq in the room gets lower and lower I believe you will experience many examples of this. It is going to become actually important that you learn to virtue signal and play along. The most dangerous thing is a mob of people and these last few generations were raised on "sick em!".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:28 AM
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Isn't this like self fulfilling or something? Please correct me on the term, but like, you're basically waiting on any woman to sleep with a handsome man quickly and making it easy for the man, and then claiming, "Hey, there was something there to that guy!" When in reality, you're giving their emotions too much credit. It's all about giving their mind the idea that this is "the story". "Omg he might be someone I'm meant to meet. This isn't a boring normal day. This is one I'll remember. This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:27 PM
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Oh but if one of the moms here comes back with, "well I love my hubby and we never asked these questions so what's the big idea?" Whereas as you said, we want this quantifiable. Not simply to add and subtract parts of people but BECAUSE if we can lay out such a discrepancy as this it's a test to see if people are playing this game fairly or just taking advantage of us. If you point to the huge flaw in the game, the one you're losing, and everyone who's blind or happy with what they have goes, "n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:40 AM
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Right at least the prostitute doesn't ask or demand you do something degrading and then bust out laughing to their friends and Co workers when they relay what she did and how he can't believe it. Can't wait to give that woman the same title as my grandmother. Same caliber of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:01 PM
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Do you accept that this is specifically the opposite opinion of the type of woman who makes these comments and videos? If someone doesn't want to be with me for my past then we aren't compatible. These women want someone to be with them, even if he doesn't accept her past. Other women do think they are still compatible. My past turned me into who I am. So why would I not talk about it. Many other women are admitting to themselves that they do accept that their past is something to lie about. Man…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:34 AM
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Because I can. Because I feel like you shouldn't be here making the occasional "wooo" girl post. Because I feel those posts are such circle jerks. The women here say such terrible things to us, lay horrible crimes at our feet, and then think they can just take a break and giggle about their hubby's and boys. It's just tone deaf. Shows what domesticated mothers you all are. "Oh goodness! The mouth on that one!" Grow up. We're not friends and you've all been trying to justify dismissing our concer…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:59 PM
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I think it's low hanging fruit to ask that. The women want to glaze their husband's because it makes them look accomplished. "I have a successful marriage. I'm such a good wife. Trp is wrong." How do I know if she just ran him through the same old bullshit about where to go to eat? Or how he put the towels back in the hall closet wrong? It is too convenient that the women here arguing against us, have something perfect to throw back in our faces. I don't buy it. If I make a thread asking men, "n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:39 AM
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I'm not sure what the logical fallacy that would count as but it feels like an appeal to authority and then a falsified one at that. Like if I think all the scientists are lying about global warming, it doesn't matter to me that you appeal to them to prove your point because I believe they would lie. Its in their interest. It makes the argument and makes them look good. It's like asking a Mrs America contestant what she'd do to improve America. It's empty. She doesn't have to do it, and won't, A…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:53 PM
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I'm going to argue that "communication" is a trap. Say you're having some trouble with a female coworker. If you go through the proper route, involve supervisors, and the whole time, have a good attitude, honestly seek conclusion, do we really think she won't just go underground with whatever teasing, being annoying, not doing work they were doing? Communication works in a healthy environment. Where the authority figure gets invested and checks in. But if they just say, "see we all expressed our…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:52 PM
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This is essential to this WHOOOLE gender war thing. We of trp believe that women want to seem "good". Because it keeps others wanting them around. So they won't be ostracized from society. (That's the animal rational) If a woman can say about her drug dealer bf, "he's so industrious. He's going places." That is her making herself seem like a good person. A person who makes mature choices for prudent reasons. If instead it was done for superficial reasons, like he's dangerous and makes me excited…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:28 AM
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It's the value imbalance. I can go to seven bars in an area and get minimal interest. My woman can go anywhere in town and receive interest. She will get a good job at an office while I work blue collar. She WILL, just about every day, be around high earning men, driven men who have impressive accomplishments. If she's good looking, better men than me have FOR SURE approached her and given attention. I'm not entertaining such a scenario if the culture doesn't back up any of my opinions. I'm gonn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:29 AM
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The lesson I really took to heart growing up, were all these stories throughout history, of some great king or ruler, who upon his death, leaves a son or some successor who turns out to be the worst person to give that role to. They're either genuinely malicious or downright ignorant and degenerate. Ultimately, the only thing we have are strong men at our walls. Men with weapons. The bad men are all around. And it is a failure of our own that we are raising bad men amongst us. Bad men are certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:23 AM
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I think it's precisely what you've laid out. The tiers: Men who get pie Men who get crumbs Men who get none. And then you described how the guys who get none deteriorate mentally. I'd argue trp is kept alive by female culture not allowing these men to learn this earlier on. Women know these guys place. The men do not. Everyone gets a trophy culture. So these men ask women out of their league out. And this creates this whole loop where women cannot interact idealy with these lower tier men. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:34 PM
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They wouldn't use an attack with holes in it if they had one that was bullet proof. It's evidence that you're over the target and winning. Don't dishearten now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:10 PM
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I was just listening to a jordan peterson lecture on the Bible. He mentions that the shame felt at nakedness wasn't a sexual comment as we normally take it. But one describing self-consciousness. That standing upright, naked, exposes to the world the parts of you that you would most like protected. He says the story suggests that women make men self-conscious. Because they are nature saying to us, "Well, you're fine for a friend, but you're not good enough to mate with." Humans are aware of time…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:06 AM
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"Why aren't you upset that im upset!?!" "Because you're not what I wanted, you're what I could get. I do your chores and dress up to attend your families events. But this is no dream scenario for me. The ED is because you already werent much to look at before the weight." Don't take it personally or let it effect you. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:31 PM
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Well, first of all, it isn't simply that they didn't grow up with phones and the internet. We are ground zero for people who understand that normies, white knights, the blue pilled, whatever you want to call them, DO NOT ENJOY HEARING this stuff. And I phrase it that way to emphasize that most people only actually hear what they want to hear. Or a version of it. So it shouldn't be hard for us to understand that a lot of what we discuss has been obfuscated from polite society, especially because …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:27 AM
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It's Instagram for women. That's why their pages are what they are. They're basically marketing themselves. Yes, the match sites will be 3:1. But it's not like attractive women don't date. They use insta. And this is important. your idea of women talking to dozens of dudes over the apps couldn't be further from the truth. Attractive women there's a lot more of em than men. But still. It's pointless to have this convo about divorces and girls who go to dnd meetings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:00 AM
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Leave this place gentlemen. Even when we're trying it isn't met with good faith. This isn't getting us anywhere. They NEVER see our side. Do we think they're going to apologize when we convince society. No their just gonna pretend it wasn't them being annoying and bitchy. We are entertaining them. This place is worthless if we never make ANY ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:58 AM
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One big "men suck at everything!" Thread. All these guys out here getting nothing and the guys who do get action are half assing it. How could that not be depressing. If you tried to set up a scenario where what men care about, beautiful women, and then you degrade those women. You convince them men are the enemy. They are rude and untrusting of men. Then they allow aggressive confident men to do what they want. Those men use the women. And then the other guys get to hear how not only were those…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:57 PM
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is a culture which permits and even encourages women to be lazy, conceited, blame-shifting, spiteful, entitled and massively hypocritical. Hating men is seen as empowering and just retribution for the alleged wrongs men have inflicted I find this interesting. Because there is a contingent of women who are serious feminists and understand all the stuff about the alleged wrongs men have inflicted upon women And they bring that into dating. But there are those who we used to call "stacies" who clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:22 AM
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This whole convo is a very good example of what matters in our society. "Cool attractive" people do not currently worry themselves about this. All the actors, athletes, and jet setters simply do as they please and enjoy the fact that the peanut gallery can weigh in all they want, but they're just jealous. Men who can sleep around do so, and hot young women move about in those crowds. I do think(hope) it's shallow and that they will eventually rue the fact that they didn't spend their time creati…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:25 AM
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No, I wouldn't assume your anecdote or life experience would neatly tie into my point. Like your experience could be entirely justifiable and me making assumptions might make my argument weak because you are not in fact described by what I laid out. I can appreciate that. I vent here. I agree certain men are the problem. I just know I've never done any of those things. So I like to give other men the benefit of the doubt. But for as rp as I am, I acknowledge the shitty men I've known. I'm only h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:54 PM
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Right. They stick out to me as a man too. I avoid them. It's why I want to have these discussions about a woman who's fallen for it. I dont think you're bad people or anything. And it's not about body count. If a woman had dated well-mannered good tempered nerds, I wouldn't mind having to hear about the good times with the people she's loved in her life. Instead, each and every girl I've dated had more and more of a victim complex about who her exes were and why THEY had ruined the relationship.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:26 AM
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Right, because they're a certain type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:57 PM
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And here we are again. It is not "the way we think," OR you think. It's objective reality. If a certain process of physics is used to get the oil out of the ground, then it is a repeatable process, and we can learn something about our world. If next time someone needs oil, we go, "Well, last time, the male scientist had their turn being smart. This time, it's the girl scouts turn. They've been waiting so patiently for a turn. Are you really so selfish as to hog all this to yourself." then they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:28 PM
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admit your opinion has no weight compared to that of 99% of women out there. I'm not even sure it's this. Although my God what relief it'd be to hear that concession. I'm pretty sure they just disagree with us out of principle in here. Or like it's a sport. We're on one team, and they're on the other. Even when we make a good point and they'd like to go, "wow nice" it is still the way it'd be on the field. Don't do that. It's disrespectful to your team, and we're competing. Get your head in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:51 AM
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not sure how it’ll be helpful though. Admittedly this could be a normal statement of fact. I can understand. But if you use the context of where we are in the span of human history, it is much more akin to a threat(not saying that's what you're doing). There is nothing most men can do. They have nothing and no expectations they will get anything. To say, "well you're complaints aren't taken seriously so why have them?" is a slippery slope that many authoritarian dictatorships have danced on. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:54 PM
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You: I don't care. Expressing what you think they're doing: Basically all you doing with that sad excuse of an argument is stumping your leg and whining They can do the projecting in real time and still not catch it. Or idk they're actually bad actors. I'm fine with occams razor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:39 PM
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And that they have all the power. IF the decision is that capricious then are guys wrong for complaining about approach and rejection? If the whole thing is up to her mood and whether it'd be fun to dunk on the guy, it makes men's complaint completely valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:38 AM
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It's an empty gesture to bring someone who will simply scream and run if a threat appears vs bringing someone who will specifically be asked to put themselves in danger or be shamed. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:31 AM
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Yea I guess you're right. Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:24 AM
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I've very rarely seen women give us the benefit of the doubt on this topic. Men say, "I prioritize sex in a relationship." And we hear in response, "That's wrong. That's not ok. You're bad. You're manipulative. You don't care about us as people." When we said we like sex. And we don't get sex. So it's ok to say we want it. And then when you do marry a woman, the trope through Aaaaaaaall of history is that they get stingy with it. And gaslight you by having this convo. "Oh I guess that's all you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:54 PM
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Let me know if you find an all male sub that you post in. I really appreciate this thought above, and I can openly say I simply do not believe women engage with this topic in good faith. This sub is like going into an Acura dealership and trying to talk about how cool Lexus' are. They may even agree with some of your points. But they have every incentive to disagree with and obfuscate. Oh and the men don't realize we're in the wrong dealership. So it's just the Jackie Chan meme over and over and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:36 AM
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I do think this sort of interaction is relevant to the OP, though. We are being directed towards something by the system. The message says, "do this." And we go and do that. And then the reply is, "no not like that!" It's important for us to eventually recognize this isn't a discussion, there is no logic to use, one side wants to win, and they are using language TO win. Not to convey info. They say, "be confident." But it doesn't matter what you follow that up with. She will decide if she is sat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:43 PM
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There's no need to discount stupidity and selfishness here. Have we all not seen a women be upset, be either on the verge of tears or fully engaged, to stall the whole thing and give you that guilty smile when she either gets what she wants, or even better, realizes the problem was alllll solved even before she began pouting. But I'm not discounting your point. Just that the filler is pure self-centered childishness. Your point bolsters mine by pointing out that its learned behavior. And you'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:34 AM
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Wouldn't it make more sense to say, "you're unattractive, but the problem is still my standards." She said it in the op, the standards might be wrong, but it doesn't make him attractive. Right, but it also doesn't make him the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:36 AM
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Idk dude. I just listened to a Michael Sartain podcast. He's a nightclub promoter and he was just describing the dynamics that make these places successful. So like, right now they're dying. Night clubs. Because venture capitalists have come in, and tried to nickel & dime the whole thing. So they made it so more guys are there, because the men buy drinks. So the night clubs start dying as less and less women show up, as more and more of the club is lower end guys(non rich, non high status athlet…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:25 AM
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Oddly enough I did like 3 times and then gave up on it. So I'm like, more acquainted with it than most, but at the same time, was not an active participant. And no I do not think that's what we're doing here, nor do I think that "rules" should decide who wins. If a crowd all agreed with something that I could see was stupid then I'd like to think I'd hold my ground. Additionally, being called a cuck by a man is fighting words. It's not something you just go, "Well, maybe he guessed my kink." We …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:24 AM
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Seems as though they laid out a question, put in some minimal level of effort to type it out and post it here. And instead, there are AT LEAST 6 or 7 different comments, including the top one, who are just so distraught that we can't get past it. What ever will we do!? OP exaggerated! Omg omg. I think I'm hysterical right now. Are there further questions we could have asked? Could we have posited our own thoughts if we were that entirely uninterested in the OP? I mean just think of all the cost!…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:55 PM
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One of the things that started this was that Akaash had Myron Gaines of fresh & fit on to scold him for saying "corny" rp things. Myron will repeat this line, "men should sleep with 50 women before marrying." The point being, a lot of women have so much experience, and are so used to swimming in the dating pool, that they aren't naive and overly romantic about things like "life is about the moments that take your breath away." If she hangs a sign like that up in your house sure it's nice, but wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:33 PM
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Why don't we ever bring up shit tests? And dread game. Those are the good ones. Being stoic even though we have emotions. Messing with their heads is the best part. "Oh I just love you so much more since you started telling me to shut up. And I can't believe how much my friends have commented on your arms lately." The whole point of trp is women prefer if you pull off this act flawlessly. You be an old school mysognist and they prefer it. It makes their feminine sing. This was the best thing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:40 PM
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The issue is that a lot of men dont want to be taught or lead. They feel emasculated by it. They get bitter about it. A lot of us would simply apply what you said here about men to women as well. I'm not trying to simply gotcha. I can see issues with my argument, so I don't think my statement ends this argument, but a lot of us simply do not agree that these women are happy. They may say they are, and that's sus too, as the culture trains women to deny men that they are reading women correctly i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:38 AM
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Has anyone used a turn of phrase correctly in the past 15 years. Everyone is like, "some birds in your hand make the bush full." And then just keep on moving as if everyone understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:06 AM
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I mean I'm here in ppd, so I am up for debates, but I also want to spread this message that we don't have to answers these questions anymore. What are women doing so bad to yall that you consider unfair? We all know. It's upsetting that you might honestly not see it. That you're ok getting everything you want, still complaining and nagging, and then crown yourself the better person in the end. We will not be better until we're in a place where men just side eye women who talk like this. We don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:29 PM
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"Our greatest flaw is being whittle angels who try and love the wrong monsters." We NEED to see through this gentlemen. When our opponent is like Disney villain level of bad at disguising how much they benefit from what we're screaming is unfair. It's like scar giving you the puppy dog eyes going, "What, no? I only ever look out for you!" They're just getting their way. And we all know how important that is to them. They're obfuscating that fact at. All. Costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:51 PM
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I think you're touching on this being Blue Pilled advice. Which has always been, "Put your earphones and blinders on, and come over here and sit in our hugging circle. See, you never needed to win at anything. Just put your head in the sand and be happy being numb to all the losing. No, no, don't look over there. There aren't any answers over there. And there's no need to think about any of this. No, no, stop trying to add context and be rational. There's nothing to learn from anything negative.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:29 AM
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He started the post stating that his ex was a feminist. We know nothing else about her. I'm assuming he knows how to navigate this variable. Or I'd at least like to hear more on that angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:55 PM
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If you can tell that the majority of the other women in attendance would like to have his attention, then he requires more time to make sure he isn't simply trying to get what you're handing out. All the more so if he love bombs. Caveat emptor. You have to allow yourself to be comfortable with the idea that we live amongst people who although they sorta obey the traffic laws and don't stab us as we walk by, they will lie, cheat, and steal if the opportunity presents itself. Your integrity will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:16 PM
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I agree with you. I was trying to make a point that the OP isn't convincing either way. A rock and a hard place scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:35 AM
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Plus, this isn't actually an argument. Simply saying, "Well, this devil is torturing you, but that devil will simply bore you for eternity" doesn't mean the 2nd devil has decency and benefit behind them. I notice this sort of argument comes out when they've got us to twist our arguments into pretzels. "Well, women aren't going to tell the truth about their body count, so it won't make sense to ask." You're right. It doesn't make sense. It doesn't mean anyone who lies because it makes sense is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:24 AM
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Do people understand what the allegory of the cave is? There are people in a cave. They are trapped there. The people who hold them, project figures on a wall using a fire. The people held captive can only watch the figures on the wall, they are not aware of the captors. The argument is, if one escaped, saw the outside world, the sky, the wind, light and grass, that they would NOT be able to get their fellows captives to believe them should they return. The captives would say, "yea right. There'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 10:53 PM
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I'm simply a guy who isn't a performative male nor an incel. I have ugly trp opinions. You can complain. About those. It is not simply that we are one extreme or the other. It makes the conversation smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:50 AM
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The point is there's a middle. This poster started this thread with a strawman and we've been pointing at it and screaming since. Why would it be a dude from here? Please just give these arguments a little bit of the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:34 AM
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So nothing gets worse? Nothing is ever better first and less than later? No one has regrets? There isn't anything we learn from, and we don't become bitter or jaded? The question isn't even in good faith. The question already sets up that somehow the man didn't get her prime and was forced to marry her. The question sets up the man as someone not in control of who they decide to marry. Because you refuse to look at the negative fairly. You are certain it's the positive way IF a woman is happy wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:00 AM
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if a woman doesn't meet and marry a man in her 20s, that she's somehow not attracted to him or not in her prime. The question becomes, "when is her prime and did her husband get it?" If you won't answer this and you refuse based on it being "ugly" then we sort of think there is a real answer and it's just something that goes away even when we don't want it to. That there is a time in life where we are young and carefree and healthy. One can tell themselves that the 40s, 50s, and 60s are just as …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:35 AM
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Why are both of you acting like there's no context to this and we all just woke up yesterday to all this stuff. We knew 10 yrs ago that educating your country's women makes them have less children(for good or bad). When you see that Stat on a country today, you assume, the women there are femanazis and the government isn't far behind. Or at least it isn't an insane assumption. You are at least open to the clues we have available.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:55 PM
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They didn't say non-existent. They said they expose the lies told by society to make women seem more compassionate and mature by how they associate romantically. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:13 AM
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I see this all over the place. This is what is FOR SALE. All the rp people everyone complains about explains it like this; "Here's how you win this rigged game." And they say it right there. Rigged game. but all your relationships will crumble cause you don't know how to keep it going once the honeymoon period is over. the key is learning how to do that stuff and flip the switch to being caring when she needs emotional support and that's when women's advice kicks in. You don't get a chance to us…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:58 PM
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As long as you've cared the whole time then you're good. Men are hyper fixated on how it's impossible to tell which women have switched their values regardless of how much "sense" the women think it makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:54 PM
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And the thing that pisses me off about this is women are so fucking needy for affirmation. Women NEED to feel special, they need to be admired, and they don't even stop to think about their partners in the same way? Women will fucking feel me up, and rather than actually give a compliment they just giggle You've got it right here. They definitely do this. I've had it happen. But that's because we're out in a space where the women decide they feel safe, and we're objects in that space. Once you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:03 PM
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"Everything you say, it's exactly the opposite. It's not that women are animals and will fight to keep an advantage instinctually. No no, they're beautiful and amazing and they wouldn't do any of that. The guy I'm arguing against right now, who's making an argument, he's actually exactly the problem. He does all the red flag problematic things. NO, it's not a coincidence that all my arguments end so conveniently! How dare you upset me. My feelings! You're so toxic. Enjoy losing the argument beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:35 AM
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An appropriate correction but it's pretty obvious that their confusion coupled with your explanation paints A WORSE picture for how women have construed this scenario. That they are less and less intellectually sound the further you look into this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:04 PM
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This is simply, "men who disagree with women are incels." in reverse. I couldn't possibly have had several happy relationships once i start saying that women act a certain type of way in specific scenarios. Even if I'm wrong, my experience IS invalidated as is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:36 AM
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Well I respect this answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:25 AM
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If they do, then their comment is correctly placed in this thread, and their point has been made....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:18 AM
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I feel like you're actually making an argument for, "no one really is that specific. Most people are just "good enough" and most people would leave even a happy marriage at several points in the rest of their lives based upon meeting someone who is obviously a better match be it at work, through friends, or randomly." It's like, most normies just get a girl pregnant and marry her. And because "happy wife happy life" the guys won't even admit to you, let alone himself, while alone, that they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:35 AM
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This comment should need to go underneath all the women who post that their guy doesn't fit that standard, and yet he's "the most gorgeous man to them." They would have slept with him on the first night. They just didn't. What actually happens is closer to what guys expound on. No one is going to date someone who is butt ugly to them, no matter how good they are It just seems like no one IS butt ugly once they're in a 30 yr old relationship. Then it's not settling, and she really loves him. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:18 AM
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Well, I'm not so sure how else to generalize other behaviors. I know the kind of friends I had who cheated and the ones who didn't. There was a willingness to ignore "being kind" and there were the guys who were good people who didn't cross that line. Other than that, for "mistreatment", I've never understood this. But I do agree. My ex had a BFF. And the bffs boyfriend just could not be any more neglectful. I never heard anything about physical abuse, but he just wouldn't choose her over alcoho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:34 AM
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The relevant premise that trp works from is that hypergamy follows a pareto distribution, and 20% of men get most of the options. So that argument already has to be in mind when you notice us assuming that your interactions are with those men. The same guy who is arrogant enough to walk up to a stranger and engage with them based on their physical appearance, and you "happen" to have things in common, will likely use this tactic again as it works. And then you'll be upset he wasn't what you assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:55 PM
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I'm hoping to get a bit beyond plausible deniability and subtle cues of body language...on an anonymous internet forum. Also, aren't we past understanding who's called an asshole around here? By whom? Is this simply the result of 45 yr old women and 23 yr old boys conversing? Our priorities are directly opposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:04 PM
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This, "it's not what you said, it's how you said it!" aspect of ppd is a pretty big roadblock. "Well I don't care what intellectual goals you were trying for, we're simply not going to use language like that on this forum young man." It's a good thing that like the UN doesn't have to deal with such a handicap. Just silly internet forums
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:45 PM
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In fact I'll take a woman with a bodycount similar to mine - over more - or a virgin any day. The best sex I ever had was never with a virgin but with experienced hot partners. You made it sound like you would prefer a woman with a body count over a virgin, ANY DAY. And then you qualified that statement by saying the reasoning is that it was the best sex. And so the commentors conclusion was that you say, "well I would never insult a woman, and women always say they'll never tell their #. And th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:30 AM
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No, i use hookups to get sex. I don’t need those men at all, better if they not consider me so I wouldn’t have issues with their attention. Like at best they will be fwb. If they fuck me good. Basically this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:18 PM
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Isn't it just that trp for AFCs was for a smaller cohort of guys who JUST weren't savvy enough to understand flirting and escalation on their own, but were somewhat attractive and socially acceptable. Trp starts to make some sense for guys, gets some results, and like anything else with popularity and results, gets hangers on. People who truly need help arrive. People who are hopeless arrive. Trolls arrive. Eventually you have a place where beggers are looking for handouts. "Why isn't this worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:05 PM
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Why call us willfully ignorant when we're here having the discussion with you. Providing counter arguments and trying to expand your perspective beyond your own. Which IS what we're arguing against. This path you've laid out IS IN YOUR FAVOR. Women want a hookup-->they get what they want Women want a hubby-->they get what they want It's all in your favor. So we're allowed to ask, are you asking all the questions? Turning over every stone? Because you're benefiting. And I'm not. So I'm allowed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:23 AM
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I'm willing to admit to the flaws in this argument, but I still think it matters whether or not you'd entertain this hypothetical; If men and women partnered up early and after minimal experimenting, there would be nothing wrong with being horny, showing it, and being excited to get to it quickly. The issue trp explains, and it used to be all of prudish society, is that women are giving time & attention to the type of guy who already gets a lot of attention. These guys have no incentive to settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:33 AM
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Just never stop pointing this out. It's gonna be amazing. They will never come to terms with this stuff, but we are headed towards a world where all these 8-10 yr old boys will be in the backgrounds of their mothers tik toks, jumping into the end of the clip being like, "she's fo the streeeeets!" Everyone but women is gonna get this stuff soon. Ever seen the video of two monkeys in adjoining cages. They give each a few grapes. Then one money gets a grape, and the other gets a cucumber slice. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:43 PM
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I'm worried that this line you've used above is meant to make this interaction contentious. I don't really think I've dodged your question. I said I'd accept and not be shocked. I said I'm very familiar with this line of thinking because I raise it all the time. I'm not even sure we're on opposite sides of this topic. I was asking, what are your thoughts on why you asked this, and what do you think of the answers? We can't run out of room here. Me giving you an opportunity to expound on your tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:37 PM
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And what conclusions have you drawn from the responses you've received? You now see that many men see the situation for what it is, and properly understand the options laid out before them? That men are drawn to rp type rhetoric precisely because we are not as likely as women to be fooled by these tricks?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:42 PM
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That was my question. What is the OP trying to say? Is it a gotcha to men? "See hook up culture is shallow and bankrupt! You thought you'd want it but you don't." Cuz that's our line. You can look at any of the other male answers in this thread. Guys are like,"What are you talking about? No women pay me attention. And they say so online now. I know they don't want me. So if one pretends for a little and she's attractive to me, you haven't created a scenario I'd turn down. This is a better scenar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:49 PM
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I don't really understand this post. Can you help me out. On the one hand, I'm someone who would like casual sex. I do not have girls knocking down my door for relationships and thus I am in a, "I'll take what I can get" sort of realism about the topic. I would be happy about this situation for what it was. I don't take people at their word anymore and wouldn't be blindsided. On the other hand, I'm someone who WOULD like to make this exact argument back at a lot of women. "Don't you see how this…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:40 PM
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You're not living. You're just numbing or pleasing yourself while you wait to die. What isn't this? I'm terrible at math but the only thing I can imagine is "worth" doing, is getting good enough at that and then getting recruited to some top secret underground military base to "complete physics" or whatever. See the face of God. Even then, do you become a super sayin when you finish math? You'll still die. "But you could have been a good little boy for any woman. What else are you gonna do?" Psh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:01 AM
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Seems like a disingenuous reply. Their point is more salient than you've given them credit for. There is room for pushback, but you've replied as if they're entirely off base, and that is unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:49 AM
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We believe men are ONLY attractive to desirable women with high status and absurd attractiveness. At any age. You've said nothing. At no point in a man's journey will she give a shit about who you are. Are you quiet enough to allow her to project her fantasies onto you and do you provide financial security, which is really just, do you keep her competitive with her girlfriends. All the world's a stage. Live your prisoners' dilemma. Enjoy the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:55 PM
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What action needs to be taken? You might not even have a choice BUT to witness something. As OP said above, some of us just had stuff happen to or around us, and we looked at it instead of turning our eyes away and choosing some excuse. Then we say to you, sure, I don't know 100,000 people, and I haven't closely interacted with 10,000. I don't need to. I've seen how women acted around "hawt" guys more than once, and I know I dont want to come in second to that. In one sense, I don't think it wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:30 PM
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Your side claims married men all the time to argue that simply because they're married, they are happy. There is no reason to believe they couldn't be in a marriage of convenience or had a shotgun wedding. You've lumped married men together and said, "they have to be happy so we can use them to shut you down." And its just exactly the same but in reverse. You, a random person, do not know a husband's inner feelings simply because at the BBQ he will say "things are great."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:06 PM
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Mommy sees...quiet down now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:25 AM
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Why wouldn't the less extreme version of toxicity, rudeness, be much more prevalent than the extreme version? You've laid out why one version leads to an attachment style. Maybe the second version has one as well. And it might be much more prevalent. Seems reasonable to me. Thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:41 PM
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If a woman had to choose between two twins that look like a 10/10 but only one of them is treating them with respect, most women would take the obvious choice. This was 10 yrs ago. In 2025 and onward, a growing percentage of men KNOW you chose the rude one first for a few weeks until he threw YOU away. And just as you don't like being labeled a slut, men are becoming comfortable saying, "I can't respect myself as second best to an asshole. Probably several." Secondly, you might say, "Well, not m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:55 PM
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https://youtu.be/5S_3pjtssqo?si=UBltTMIPfqycXB4U An Aba & preach video where a woman attempts to lay out how woman are emotional for mystical magical "natural instinct" reasons, and a "real man" simply needs to man up and reel her back in. That men are to blame for women being hysterical because we don't use our masculine to reign in their feminine freedom of expression. So what is it? Are women hysterical and men can and need to lead them? Or do women belong as our equals and can be expected to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:22 AM
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Some women have high n counts, you also can't make sweeping generalisations that those women will not be able to have fulfilling relationships, actually you can but it's pretty rude to talk about women like they're trash because of it, again if TRP kept themselves to themselves no one would give a shit but they tend to try and be as outspoken and judgemental as possible. What is this? We're trying to debate. And yet at the end of your thoughts, you go, "and be nice. Stop being mean. It's inappro…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:36 PM
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So sex with certain people does hit different based on whether or not you view their long potential more seriously? With the less attractive guy they were just fucking around, with the high status guy they see a something more long term? This is gonna be my main point. Men view more women as attractive. Thus fewer men are attractive. Those attractive men have more "gravity" to their love. Simply because we're animals running off chemicals, the guy who can take her fun places, be exciting, and do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:40 PM
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Except he's wrong, if sex is the same no matter who you sleep with, then why sleep with anyone at all It's not. Some people are more athletic and objectively more attractive. Some men have waaay more status. He's claiming that someone who sleeps with a lot of people will not be satisfied by a partner they have real romantic interest in any more than some random stranger. You claim this CANNOT be true. I claim it certainly might be the case. I'm not afraid of it. then should you also avoid women …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:17 PM
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It's not. But even after that, we all still understand what the comment meant and why it is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:45 AM
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It's a shit test and a demonstration of consciously or unconsciously giving into an urge. There is nothing about it to be proud of and displaying such a post hoc rationalization over such a selfish impulse demonstrates an ugly manipulative motive within someone who at best did it on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:47 AM
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You would disagree with the idea that it's alllllll a shit test? That if an attractive confident guy does any of the stuff they claim to dislike, it won't matter, and actually she'll be able to rationalize why he's able to get away with it. None of it is meant as words that you can use for yourself. They are words she can use for her benefit. They are not speaking so that you can win. That's why we always lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:37 AM
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I'd argue the issue with flying off the handle over this post is that it is simply the way the blue pilled treat trp in every thread. So if you have such an earth shattering problem with not being taken seriously and believed for experiences only your gender is having and which weigh on your gendered imperative in such a way that the out group can't quite grasp, then I'd argue you are so divorced from sympathy that this has always been a waste of time. If the women cannot see in this example tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:23 AM
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I don't really know how to answer. I've known both kinds of people. Loyol ones and the kind who would or have cheated. That's why I just know that the devil deserves his due in all these conversations. The good amongst us is a dwindling number that becomes smaller as we age. People make mistakes, and some people do it on purpose. People you thought better of break your trust. The kind of guy who marries is not necessarily the kind of guy who CAN cheat. A larger number of wives CAN cheat. Whoever…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:09 AM
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Yea but it's the same way in the other direction as well. The women and blue pilled wouldn't let a successful athlete or player tell us stories of women going to the bathroom with him while their husband is busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:25 AM
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Women that really want a relationship with you will tolerate casual sex for a while, if that's what you're asking. It's not really lying or lovebombing, in many ways they can convince themselves of it. This answers my question. Thank you. And I think on an honest level I agree with the rest of what you've said. I'm just not gonna be the last person following the rules in a world that rewards breaking them. I'm open with myself and god about what that means. I'll reap what I sow. As long as every…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:28 PM
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The idea being that women are sooo desperate for these "attractive guys" that they WILL sleep with them, but that they didn't actually want sex, they wanted him to be so enamored with her sex that he commits to only her. Implying that the "no strings attached" part is a lie obstructed so that women finally get commitment from "attractive" guys. The example of male covert contracts are Nice Guys who think that being kind and deferential to women will result in what they want, sex. Women think tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:45 PM
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The whole Jordan Peterson "enforced monogamy" issue was about this. He was trying to explain that if your girl and her friends are sitting around a table and one of them says, "ehh screw my marriage. I'm bored and I think that guy over there is waaay too hot to pass up." then it is descriptive of a better society, one we all want to live in, if her friends present some level of, "wow really? You have a good relationship at home. This will be a cheap thrill. Don't you think you can forgo such an …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:31 PM
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Wow. "You think your client, one of the wealthiest, most powerful men in the world, is secretly a vigilante who spends his nights beating criminals to a pulp with his bare hands. And your plan is to blackmail this person? Good luck!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:35 AM
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Yes but most of the rational answers to what you are asking are just, "yea this one's not that big a deal. She didn't need to wait around. You're right." But there was minimal detail to that whole post anyway. It wasn't that big a deal. Why do you think you've got such a great point here that the men got "angry"? Because look how angry the men are here in this thread and in the one I am referencing. They are insisting that she should have waited around for him to call her or try again later afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:12 PM
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I think women on some level just really want to feel morally superior to men, and so avoid mentioning how much of a priority physical attraction plays in their selection process as well. It's plausible deniability. They want to be able to be seen as a "good person" at all times. So they never say anything where someone could walk up to them and go, "oh you're just in it for physical attraction? So you wouldn't date my brother, who's in a wheelchair, but has a great personality?!" The way things …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:34 AM
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I know this is what I've been running away from my whole life. This "if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all" type of faux decorum. I am so much more happy with being berated for my failures and incompentencies, and then growing, than I am with stagnation and degeneration because "I'm perfect just the way I am." The people who notice things and point them out are not always at fault for some dunning Kruger effect. They are not complicit because of their silence. Sometime…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:08 PM
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Cuz that's what that comment was getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:54 PM
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You don't think that's a valid criticism of, "Oh, it was just done for the money."? I think you correctly assessed the situation. You were right about the circumstance. You might even be right about how academics and heads of state will write to one another about this. But it does leave out the element of humanity that that isn't relevant to. You must accept that THE REASON the money comes in is because humans will be titilated by the headline. Feel emotions. Release chemicals. Some might even a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:59 PM
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"Oh look, a chance to seem like I've won an argument, made a point, by describing my personal liberal feminist situation. Everyone else will see what a good point this is, all around, when I describe how my finger nail painting man and I mix it up."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:54 PM
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We have the potential to be physically violent. And are reminded constantly how awful it is and get trained not to use it. Women have the potential to control and judge us through sex. They show no ability to rein this in. They laugh about who they fuck. Why they fucked them. Mock guys who don't get sex. Give sex away to guys for things or status. And then without batting an eye, expect us to not care about n count, their past, or whether I'll still get any on a consistent basis for committing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:54 PM
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Its the same as anything else. Women like attractive men. Those men will most likely try and stay attractive into their 30s & 40s. Like omg you're not attracted to geeks in their 20s, 30s, or 40s. But if the guy was attractive while in his 20s, he will most likely still attract the next crop of women while in his 30s. Correct, this doesn't help your average chump. It still signifies the phenomenon that women mostly like the same cohort of men, and those guys can still be players into their 40s. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:33 AM
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I'll disagree with this. I've had premarital sex and avoided pregnancy. Due to my competency. I speed. No tickets. I text and drive. No accidents. It's been 15+ years of me driving. I am not the same as someone who has failed the test and made mistakes even one time let alone many.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:55 PM
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I think the next argument would be, 10% guy who gets approached + woman acting all demure and receptive because she worked up the courage to ask out an attractive guy = he's gonna say, "oh I'm just into casual stuff..." and she goes, "oh yea! Me too!" When that is not what she wants. And thus, yes you are correct, they make moves all the time, but for guys who are well aware of what the game is and how to play to win. Sure some of the time the guy is decent. But more often than not...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:26 AM
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This is two problems. Sure one might be as you've stated, they are airheads, and rather than solve a problem, if they're smv rich enough, they will just continue making the same mistakes, providing them with dramatic bs to pass the time with their friends with. The other possibility, is that they are ALWAYS flirting or being titillating. There is never an honest expression of ideas. It is always to create push-pull in the current situation. They are always flirting. Always saying "contentious" t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:39 AM
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Just gonna slip my rant in under here. I do think this argument gets blown out of proportion because certain women here see it as an opportunity to attack trp or dunk on "older" guys. But it's really just men wanted logic to work. So we hammered this idea that women hit the wall and are more attractive in their 20s. Because again is real and there is a peak in life. And men tried to tie it down. So of course the neighsayers arrived with their exceptions. And women want to be able to claim their …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:55 PM
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I think you're both looking at this one the wrong way. This is about whoever has more power in the relationship. More women are more attractive, so women end up doing this more. But the "more attractive" person can often end up feeling like they want to move on, and need a catalyst unless they're particularly heartless. Women don't usually stay in unhappy relationships, they will check out first, and if nothing changes after a while, they leave. When they're more attractive. When dating a dweeb.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:23 AM
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Just checking for clarity. The generalizations ARE stupid, it's just that it gets guys to more of a shotgun approach. Which can lead to results. And thus, even though the generalization was stupid, it worked for him. So really, those opposed to this, need to understand that their opposition to the bad words and "mysoginy" would be better off simply realizing men might need these generalizations to be successful at dating, but it doesn't mean sisters, friends, mothers have been seeing any ill eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:20 AM
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Go to someone in the real world and present them with your phone or this stuff printed out. If I knew you irl I'd bet you $100 the rest of that convo will be people pushing the evidence aside to say essentially, "stop worrying. There's nothing to be done. Just be a good person. Be yourself. Follow your heart. Love will find you when you're ready." Just un actionable nonsense. It doesn't matter that our shit has swears and makes you upset. It gives a clearer picture of reality and for people who …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:34 AM
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When the women here, or you for example, mention these outlier women, do you consider yourself objective enough to have already evaluated whether or not these specific women COULD get a Chad? Are we derailing conversations here because the nerdy girl who hangs out at the local tabletop shop has wheezed out a few times that she's, "oh so into skinny, no muscle geeks."? Or some woman who's aged out tells you, "don't worry honey. A real woman isn't attracted to the things your friend went after aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:28 AM
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And the argument we often see get swiped aside is that our culture encourages an attitude amongst the young that enjoying going to the super market with someone is lame. "He should be taking you to top golf in his sports car, and I don't even know, paying someone else to get the groceries delivered." And the retort often is, well the type of girl who even wants that is toxic. To which I say, that's an easy dodge, but it doesn't account for the fact that most of us, women especially, follow the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:01 PM
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I'm not saying i know that its fool proof, but the premise I've heard before is why would you take on responsibility(providing) without the benefit(authority) that comes with the burden you are now carrying. The idea being, a parent is an authority figure. And it comes with roles and responsibilities, and the parent will be the one blamed if something goes wrong. Because they're in charge. The president of a company has responsibilities which are burdensome. And thus they have the authority to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:56 AM
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I do think this is correct. My only contention is when people go, " There are still plenty of dudes who don't workout who have wives and girlfriends" Because like, well true, and I know a few where both seem genuinely happy. But I know 3 more where the woman makes comments about him at backyard bbqs. Heard comments about her having to carry stuff in. Her wishing she could get thrown around. Passive aggressive dad bod comments. This doesn't completely invalidate your argument. But not all couples…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:22 AM
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So are you by not being able to look past a little hyperbole to have a conversation even if it is bankrupt. It's free. We're anonymous. There's no reason to resolve to, "it'd be dangerous or scary to let these thoughts go on. Best to say "what's the point and hope everyone leaves the room with me."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:32 AM
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but I think the pattern you're describing is more a function of what "support" means to different people. A lot of what women say isn't said the same way men say or interpret things. "I like him for this (makes me look good) reason." She likes the guy and would have said anything that came to mind. "I hate that guy he's abusive." Maybe, but also, they say this about every guy they don't like in that moment. So it could just be talk. "Men are pigs." Some hawt guy she's into ignored her or was out…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:12 AM
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whereas for average men it's more of a first come first serve kind of deal, it's not about the quality. And as long as men keep believing that red pill brain rot, that is exactly the reality they will live in. As long as you acknowledge it's the same outcome. Having trp thoughts or women actually being too picky and rude when you finally do date them, we will never know because one of the two is happening and you won't admit #2 is even possible. You'd be able to stick your fingers in your ears a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:55 PM
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Always seemed to me that PC culture and the way women police our speech, the neutered way they want us to interact, is perfectly curated to what your manager wants. Getting married seems like a great way for the state to enter my home and pick and poke at me if I say naughty deplorable things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:29 PM
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Or like some real idiocracy crap. We all want sex--> hot people have sex--> "you voted for the smart/qualified/mature person? But the big boobs sexy lady clearly deserves to lead us?" Essentially, we could end up in some high school mean girl fantasy where fashion and how one's superficial looks are paramount, and things which make you seem competent are dangerous because they pull away from the leaders status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:18 PM
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Ops whole point IS you guys are lying to us, here on PPD, that men are oh so scary and dangerous, because the hottest most desirable ones go and get drunk every weekend in a setting hosted by said dangerous men. It's an attempt to argue that you actually crave risky experiences with men, thus women choose these dangerous men. That men are correct to be wary of women who complain about the dating scene because it's simply having your cake and eating it too. "Kyle said he didn't want anything seri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:10 AM
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Do you feel that this demonstrates how, and it tracks with the experience here, the blue pilled seem to simply want what they want. They have trouble appreciating why anyone would want something they don't want. Why anyone would be upset about not having something they don't care about or have but isn't valuable to them. They invalidate our insecurities, clearly. Our arguments make them upset and they beg us to simply not use certain words. As if that would make the bad ideas go away. For exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:32 PM
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This comes up a lot on this sub. That being, isn't the whole premise of the OP based on the idea that none of us here, or anywhere in the manosphere are desirable. Correct? Because if I'm getting attention from women, and I still feel that I want to come here and complain about how they act or what I see from their social lives, do I not exist? How is the whining hurting me? Can I not be successful and dissatisfied at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:50 PM
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What does that have to do with the gaslighting he mentioned? Does that deserve to be discussed here? Can we take a step back and give his thoughts some good will before we stomp over in his face and shove the sins of someone else in his face, asking "how can you possibly be worried about your shit while this goes on?! Huh? How?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:14 PM
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The world is a cold, ugly, harsh place. You are meant to be out in the cold, so hungry that you are willing to chase down a smaller creature with claws and teeth, and struggle with it as you attempt to crush the life from it as it tries desperately to remain on this plane. The life we live is so far divorced from this that you desire the VERBIAGE we use, harmlessly, in our civilization, to be neutered in case it upsets someone who is hiding from themselves, that which they would change if they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:09 PM
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Lame. She's being rational and honest. You couldn't handle someone being described as morbidly obese? We don't even know how much of an exaggeration "spiral" was. Not a good look
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:49 PM
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"Somebody poisoned the waterhole!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:09 PM
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You pointed out that humans are capable of being competent and of quality by at least the age of 18. One might postulate that we are not the type of people or society that is currently reliably producing such 18 year olds. Which is very disappointing. You can say all you want to justify... I mean, that's the scariest bit of reasoning I've ever come across. We're headed towards a world where you just tried to get all tricksy while arguing with a woman. "What do we do to guys like that around here…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:36 PM
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You pointed out that humans are capable of being competent and of quality by at least the age of 18. One might postulate that we are not the type of people or society that is currently reliably producing such 18 year olds. Which is very disappointing. You can say all you want to justify... I mean, that's the scariest bit of reasoning I've ever come across. We're headed towards a world where you just tried to get all tricksy while arguing with a woman. "What do we do to guys like that around here…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:36 PM
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This isn't quite as interesting as how it all goes when everyone is in their prime playing the game. Who gets what at the end? Who cares. The whole system is fucked because of what you laid out, which happens at the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:57 PM
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When a car salesman tells you this car is undoubtedly the best, never runs out of gas, and will never pop a tire, do you believe them? Or is it in their interest to say whatever it takes to get you to buy it. I'm simply saying, of course, all the married people say they're happily married. Or else their partner will leave them. So it's not something I can trust on face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:00 PM
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It's sort of too dismissive to read a story about a few guys, for once, opening up and shedding light on the fact that their experience, that EVERYONE else views as golden, is actually a bit hollow and shallow. And then you go, yea well all my friends are married and loving it. They wouldn't give each other valentines cards and drive each other to the airport if there were hidden issues like you described. The people you described have the appearance of winning. Isn't it irresponsible intellectu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:25 PM
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This is interesting. The question becomes, how much do you buy into our "new world". Do you think women are on any level more boss babes? Are they actually more independent and strong? Are the men weaker and more effeminate? After you've thought about that part of it, then ask yourself, have we as a culture, through media and education, built up women's self esteem and maybe their ego? Do women receive more affirmation and support in our society? Are they allowed more forgiveness for their misgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:56 PM
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I'm very sorry that you think this thread and these comments were worth this level of emotion or thought. This thread won't even need to literally disparear for it to truly never be relevant ever again. You don't need to worry so much about what I've said or how you took it. It will just fade away now. Maybe go learn and instrument or try and bring some beauty into the world with art.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:27 PM
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Privileged and people assume that politics is a hobby when in reality it’s our very rights hanging in the balance. Count yourself lucky you’ve never had to care about how politics would gravely impact your day to day life. I don't understand how people don't get this. If you follow left leaning media, they explain the situation as is laid out by the above poster. They believe this is the end game. That the right wants them all dead and the rest enslaved. A train genocide, black men dying in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:20 PM
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I have to accept your criticism as you are correct, I generalized my "you", but I intended to. I don't always make my replies so that ONLY the op can respond to them. I meant the kind of person around here that usually espouses what you had said above, would stumble because they don't admit the same thing about those Xbox comments. but you’re just gonna ignore that to try to make up shit words to put in my mouth again. I don’t expect any basic decency out of you. We simply don't need to be this …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:14 PM
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You don't admit the same about Xbox live, though. You want those insults to be mysgonistic or hate crimes rather than simply the best means to get to you. And not illegal. Or, as I've demonstrated above, that even though the insults come from a strategic place rather than an honest one, there is no justification. They have sunk to a lower level intellectually and morally, and you no longer can claim the high ground in the argument. Essentially, it shows you are so desperate to win that a pyrrich…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:22 PM
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Do you understand the difference in those 2 comments above? Yours said, "I can become attracted to someone based on if they're a good person who does good person things in front of me." The other said, "idk my sexuality is out of my control. I could still have sex with that woman." The second one is baldly honest. The first one makes someone look good and sound like a mature person. So it becomes an issue of, "Do I know a lot of mature selfless people who turn down instant gratification? Or do I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:51 AM
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Oh, first it was that he's a pedo, and then when it's pointed out that that's an insane take, it becomes, "Well, no one wants you older losers anyway." Try a little harder to come up with an argument you can use right off the bat rather than scrambling for relevance once you've been called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:54 AM
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The men from romance novels all have huge emotional intelligence, a way of understanding women (they're men written by women, after all) and they love the women forever. male character 1) doesn't cheat on her, 2) is obsessed in love with her, and 3) that the story ends in forever love We can find you 10 guys who can accomplish these things. The important variable is not what you have laid out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:10 PM
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I'm only asking because you seem to have a healthy outlook on this. When you are of the mindset you've demonstrated, do you find that you have a more realistic understanding of WHO pornstars are? Like as a woman, do you appreciate that these are not the nuclear weapons grade women insecure women think they are? You can Google porn stars without makeup and see which girls in high school they were. What I'm really trying to get at is the perception that the women in porn are 10s and they represent…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:18 PM
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It's a bit frustrating to always have you guys arguing back with, "I can't believe you tried to make an argument that women aren't perfect?! Why would you even try that? Women do everything asked of them and never nag." Your argument is that women don't slowly stop desiring sex in relationships? It's a really old trope, and maaaany men have lived it. But it would be a pt against your team so...Nope, doesn't happen. The fact that you added in kids says a lot, I think. It obviously becomes more & …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:12 PM
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It explains all the dead bedrooms. "Oh, I'm attracted to you, honey. I'm just not sexual like that anymore." It's not rare at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:17 PM
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Soooooo much of what I see online from manosphere places is capitulation. "Enjoying the decline" type stuff. ... and fine, I can appreciate a pyrrich victory as much as the next guy. But it's a symptom of the "child-like" civilization we live in that no one wants to solve the problem. Even trp guys just jump right past, "Should women even notice this is going on?!" They will show you a video of some woman being like, "yea, I'm a mormon, and my husband and I have been together since high school. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:22 PM
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Even then, gotta ask que bono? Does a man married to a woman equate to true love or domestic bliss, or even a respectful union? Or did some woman, any woman, decide that it was in her benefit to finally play the demure game with one guy. We're just animals, and people like cheap thrills & instant gratification. Pretty western women are simply subject to a culture where they feel worshipped and like they have lots of opportunities. This would be hard for anyone to give up, BUT one must do that in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:37 PM
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"Oh my gods, he suggesting the handmaids tale. I just know it! Someone stop him! Why isn't mysoginy a shoot on sight level offense?! Ugh!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:23 PM
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If you’re advocating that DNA tests at birth should be mandatory, then presumably you also believe that paternity fraud is widespread and that most women are serial cheaters; most women-should become "a decent percentage" in order to be a fair point. Isn't it just that we don't want a society where this is the baseline understanding of equality? One person complete assurance that the child is theirs. Because it's women the culture goes, "Nothing to think about here. Why even bother? Just believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:14 PM
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I can appreciate this sort of. We've all chased a bimbo. The crux of your post will be how many women you are willing to place in the ven diagram vs. how many women will men place in. Let's toss out the women whose whole evening is drinking boring wine, so no effort there, and watching the flavor of the week reality dating show or some true crime show. That's the low hanging fruit, but I'd appreciate you admitting it's many women. (I'm not even saying they weren't into something cool at some poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:03 PM
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I'm sure I can't get you to agree 100%. But what level of acceptance are you willing to give to the idea that MANY conversations with the prettier women go like this, Woman, "I'm really into astrology!" Man, "Oh really, what do you like?" Woman, "Oh ya know...well like, idk...it's just what I like." This happens on and on and on. Eventually, you just start focusing on what they enjoy. Being flirted with. Always bantering. Bringing them places and getting gifts. Creating memories with lots of mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:18 PM
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How is that not complaining? Just come out and say you think even "thought crime" against women should be illegal. Probably don't even need a trial. Just believe women. "Have you heard the language they use?! That can't be allowed to continue!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:35 PM
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Can I ask, why is it so horrible to have content that tells men how bad it is for men? Why does society hate giving victim points to men? Decades of instilling victim mentalities in women Like, the disgust and disdain that I've seen feminist and liberal women express when men talk about issues surrounding them.is crazy. This is what you were replying to. Nothing about getting better. They were discussing that disdain appears when men notice problems. There's all kinds of examples to counter this…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:31 PM
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The best thing your post did was expose that they have some sort of order 227 going on. I'm politically lost, but I've never been able to express it to anyone. I'm always trying to point out that while I do think that currently, the ONLY enemy is whatever is wearing the left as a mask, I don't see myself aligning with conservatives when this is over. Doesn't matter. It's this thread over and over. No one has ever even proven their listening to me. Just knee jerk, "No, no, go back to sleep. Walma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:37 PM
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incredibly rich and successful people are accepting bribes and being bought left and right every day An ugly truth. and you don't think some questionable mediocre artists can be bought off An ugly truth. yes, the redpill proves once more that sexist balding men with 'money' can attract shallow women who are only after material goods and nothing else. And a comforting lie. I sure hope the wizard of Oz in your head is able to continue convincing you that nice, emotionally stable, well raised women…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:33 AM
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You're taking shots at the strawman and hoping you insult guys here by calling them bald and unattractive. It doesn't mean you have a good argument. It means you're upset. You're insecure about something, and so when someone else, who we don't know, made an argument about their own opinion, YOU felt the need to stand up for your ego. That's frame. You didn't simply go, "What an odd thing to say." It hurt "you". "You" lost sight of your interest and gave in to theirs. We are now discussing some p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:47 PM
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Am I allowed to lead naive women on and lie about my intentions? I could see saying this to a female friend of mine. But in a debate sub? What's the point of being malevolent in theory? Seems like virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:44 PM
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Your posts had this language where, "When men do it, they do it on purpose. When women do it, it's because they were forced to." Can you deny that? I literally used quotes from you. I'm not sure why because you had an extra example of women being the victim I also said women are also told to get married and have kids by older relatives That means it's cool to have that shaming comment in there? I said YOU shamed men. Then you said, "Well, older relatives shame women." (Jackie Chan meme) You were…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:44 PM
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(About women)>I never heard women actually judge men for being single. Whenever men’s singlehood is used as an insult it is because those men have already showed some other actually negative traits (About women)>But if you aren’t insulting women, they are also very very unlikely to judge you (Shaming men)> in case you want to stay single long term, you need to tell them that, not write rants on Reddit about women in general. (About men)>men do the exact same, usually unprovoked, (About women)>th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:35 AM
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Ok, we're in agreement. But I don't think they do that because they don't have to. They have plausible deniability and can keep gaslighting us all that they're chasing those guys without a covert contract in mind. We're probably in agreement that the only reason we even hear from nice guys is because they don't get what they want. The girls get half of what they want, which is a cool/dangerous/flashy guy's attention. But I do believe they suffer from not getting the other half of what they wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:55 PM
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I just think what your argument implies is that men HAVE to accept certain aspects of reality. And if that's the case, then I gotta be honest, I really want women to HAVE TO ACCEPT certain aspects of reality. So if I have to be masculine and take the initiative, what do you feel is fair that she accept and not push back on? If she does push back, I have the ability to correctly lay out the rules and explain the reality and even in public, people will be like, "Well, I mean, you ARE the woman. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:21 PM
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Or you could ask the people explaining themselves horribly to be better at it. I can't believe we just jump over it. Are we at least gonna be frustrated? Critique them? Show any amount of respect for the adults that we're all supposed to be in this culture? That's a black pill answer above me. There we go. That's the framing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:45 PM
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It should reflect in your future desire to put effort into this place. The same thing happens when we do the age gap thing. They go, "No woman is attracted to balding, pudgy, crinkly old men!!" You're left like, "Well, I definitely meant 35-50 yr old successful guys with hair. Ya know, just a reasonable argument. Not an unhinged one." Doesn't matter. They argue against the worst version of what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:39 PM
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Why wouldn’t you fuck around if you honestly didn’t care if they wanted a relationship or not? Because I think it's a way to run into opportunistic people. Especially as a woman. It strikes me as irrational if your expectation is to NOT be hurt by lovers. Especially when you mention later that you fall in love easily. I'm not criticizing you, I can understand we live different lives. I'm here because I can't accept this logic. I think a lot of us are lying to ourselves to have our cake and eat i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:15 PM
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I agree with him, though, based on solopsism. They just want what they want in each moment. I was listening to Dr. Taraban(the psyhacks channel) and he was answering a question as to why women never mention "attractive" when they list out traits that they want. Besides all the agreeableness they display, they also only think about top men. So when she says, "I want him to be nice." She means she wants the hot guy who never gave her what she wanted TO BE NICE. If she could just get him but nice, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:24 PM
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Try again. That's a dodge from your original point. Which was that since some men are having sex with women, any guy not experiencing this success is lying. Correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:54 AM
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I had a few issues within your OP, we don't agree on everything, and I'm pretty extreme, but this, "Well, I'll only discuss the worst possible example of what you've suggested." is to be ignored. You made a good point. As well, some of us here would like to discuss young, educated, attractive people and how they navigate the dating scene. These people who are like, "Well, I always end up in controlling relationships with ugly hairy religious zealots." need their own sub. They're irrelevant. You'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:13 PM
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That fits with my worldview as well. I'd certainly like the women to not do such an ugly thing. Buuuut I think uglier things than we'd like happen. For no good reason at all. So it goes...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:29 PM
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Idk what the other guys will say, but the impression I got from an ex was that while she had slept with handsome athletic men, a couple of her stories involved "homeless" guys. I'm assuming that was somewhat of an exaggeration, but she described one guy as like, having too little of anything to do the deed and being dirty. But like, it sounded like she'd let him get pretty far. So idk, I do see what you're saying in this post. It's a good thing to bring up. But I kinda think good-looking women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:17 PM
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You're talking about all the women on the apps who have like, "I'm not looking for a pen pal.", kinda thing, right? Because I agree. It definitely simply feels like the women aren't meant to lose. It's just that "be attractive, don't be unattractive" thing. If you're hot, she wants you to escalate because that will be hot. If you're not...then you're supposed to "just get it." So they win no matter what. Ugly guys are meant to curate themselves away. Hot guys line up. When this doesn't happen. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:03 PM
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Where are the fat women? "Average skinny" 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:43 PM
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You desperately desperately hope. Doesn't make the guy I called a bitch on Xbox anymore of an actual bitch. At least not that I'll ever know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:55 PM
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This IS a female thing. When we discuss if people like going to 5 star restaurants, in general, the women come in here and go, "I'm different! I don't like 5 stars. You can't take me to Dennys and I'll marry you." The men are telling you that there are some men out there, and it doesn't need to be them, that would be better for women. YOU project that we are selling ourselves because that's what YOU do. But we are capable of saying, "Actually, I meant it'll make your chances better. Not that I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:07 PM
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I just watched an Alexander Grace video the other day where he explained that they have done studies where they ask women about guilt and regret. They can get them to admit they regret doing these things. They regret the guys who use them and never wanted anything more. BUT, and this was the crux of it all, the regret did not stop them from continuing the pattern. From creating more guilt and regret. So I'm more red pilled than Mr. Grace and even he said you basically don't have to take their re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:54 PM
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More like whatever stops a point being made about women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:18 PM
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Ok, do you think creepy is used in such a different way as to how I've described "unattractive" to mean? For me, when I've heard girls describe a guy as creepy, it was when they were flirting. Or, at the very least, having light silly conversations. Like closing up a shift. One of the guys from the back room goes by, sometimes he'd say something weird, sometimes he'd mind his business, and the girl would try and get me to talk about how "creepy" he was. I don't think she could have written more …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:33 PM
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Both are applicable to the question of, "Hey, can you define this for me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:12 PM
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It's hardly like people go around calling others creepy at random for fun. "What is creepy" is a difficult question because the women want the ability to have plausible deniability. I just watched a video where they get 10 random women to stand in a room holding a balloon. They parade in a guy, and the women pop their balloon, as the guy is asked questions, to display a loss of interest. Afterwards, they ask the women, "why did you pop your balloon?" And none of the answers are satisfactory. "Vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:45 PM
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I can appreciate that that is often true. The "who benefits" here is correctly noted by you. But I argue this is an exception. An insecurity about who she chose first or sleeping with on the 1st night is like the residual leftover from what was actually learned. Like we do have the guys here who are running around with their heads cut off, but there was a Red Pill that came along with the knowledge. That is the danger. It's disingenuous to act as if the only thing that happened was the ugly part…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:48 PM
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You've correctly framed why trp was having these discussions in the 1st place. Not to simply be unfair and patriarchal towards women. But to say, "...heeey wait a minute!" Secondly, the only reason the women have this ammo, which is what it is, is because when guys go, "idk, if she's 19 and unattached and wants to take the helicopter ride...then I'm not for it but yea she can live her life." The women respond, "OH! So if she's 30 it's not ok?! You just think women aren't worth shit in their 30s …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:32 PM
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Well, this is fantastic. Can you convince the women to say this themselves? This way, when I'm stupid enough to wife one up, she hasn't been gaslit by society/feminism that she let 15 brads push the same tactic on her, and she's happy about it. Actually, it's my fault for sharing their gender and I should be grateful she knows what she likes now. That's the whole trouble anyway. That their "tactic" is obfuscated, and ours is openly mocked. We as "nice guys" can't ask for commitment through decor…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:24 AM
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Obviously, because we think we're right. Because we feel that people are being hurt by the current paradigm and our view, while bitter, is honest. Beginning from an honest place feels like where the healing will be. While some humans still stand to benefit from the current paradigm, they will fight against change. It all makes perfect sense. We're just headed in a rational direction, and it's necessary to prepare yourself for people to use strategy against us. Such as lying, obfuscating the trut…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:45 PM
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It really makes you wonder how in trouble we are. Like the kind of person who I imagine fully disagrees with us also shields themselves behind, "Well, these guys are inherently wrong. Everything they think is a cope for why they aren't my slave master. When we argue, my only job is to unravel their web. They CANNOT make sense!" I'm very concerned for a group of people who feel that way. I'm concerned with what they might try and legislate to curb these fears. I'm worried about what mobs can do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:50 PM
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It was here all along, folks. We don't need to worry about weak wills and instant gratification. Infidelity is probably a result of you and your evil critical thinking. I can't believe we let these idea havers saunter around suggesting we consider this or that. Come over to the dark side. This is what we're headed for. You can't even make hypothetical statements. No more thought experiments. "Devils advocate!?!" I'm genuinely so excited to shout stuff at the mob as they string me up. "Forgive th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:11 PM
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The point was when you're on this forum, nothing trp says makes any sense. Until one of you needs it for your argument against us. Then it's suddenly relevant. And it's confirmed every thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:16 PM
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Fair. I'll be more chill next time then. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:28 PM
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Didn't I say alllll of that? I definitely don't know anything about you specifically, so obviously, I was using "you" generally. And you replied to me, so why would you bring up that YOU aren't relevant specifically to this? I agree with that assessment and great for you. Did I obfuscate that men take advantage of women? No, I specifically said it. Then I said I don't appreciate women sleeping with said men before they can be sure they're not taken advantage of if that action will be used agains…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:50 PM
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You have to think of it as women's space used to be the local community. They would meet and talk. Discuss social issues and organize functions. And none of that need be as cutthroat as business. If your child runs into the kitchen where all the women are and asks if they're handsome, they say, "Of course, sweetie." No further thought needed, no justification or argument. She WAS acting as a good mother. But reality is supposed to set in at some point. Men in business needed you to be competent …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:06 PM
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I do kinda agree with this. I am an outlier as a guy. I AM as you described, but I'm not fooled that other guys are. I had male friends growing up who were very successful with women. I hated the way they treated women. I just also hated how many women it worked on or accepted being treated this way. You ladies admit we'd never be able to figure out your N count because you'd lie, so we're better off getting over it. So I won't trust any woman. I'm mostly here because I also had friends, growing…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:42 PM
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See, I think you dodged my point. I agree with what you said THIS time. I chose not to sleep around. I had women proposition me. I was too naive and romantic. I didn't think it would be what I wanted, AND I thought my eventual forever partner would appreciate this. My point was that our culture allows women to disregard all of this. It would be mysognistic for a woman to comport herself in a way that would align with the preference of that forever guy. she didin't cheat. he was free to experimen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:26 PM
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i think the reason men really hate settling is they want the fun early 20s girl to settle early with them, but she ain't doing that because she doesn't have to and don't want to. thats why they get angry when she consider them later in life. but from her pov she isn't settling for him, she's now not interested in short term and fun and ready for a relationship, that's all she sees. and he's angry he missed out. I will never get over the fact that our culture has allowed women to pretend they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:30 PM
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"Oh, it's like that, I'm your dream come true When it's on a platter for you Then you pulled back when I try to make plans More than two hours in advance, mm I slam the door, I hit ignore I'm saying, "No, no, no, no more" I got you blocked, after this, an afterthought I finally cut you off I feel so much lighter like a feather with you off my mind (ah) Floating through the memories like whatever, you're a waste of time (ah) Your signals are mixed, you act like a bitch You fit every stereotype, "…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:40 PM
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Good point. However, this comparison was an exaggeration to depict the idea. We're actually discussing a difference in inches and several hundred calories. (The motion of the ocean) This is such a weird thing for me to argue about. I do think a lot of guys put in sorry efforts sex wise. I am very upset at my fellow man for apparently not being super enthused to get women off. Or athletically inclined enough to truly put on a performance. That's why I think big athletic dudes who lift weights and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:23 PM
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When an Italian person tells you they don’t like chocolate ice cream do you assume all Italians hate chocolate ice cream? No, because only an idiot would do that. This makes sense. Without the context of where we are in 2024. We are waaaay too far down the rabbit whole of gender wars to think it's not in your interest to deny the things we say. That you don't benefit from us shutting up about this. And so the answer is, obviously, I'm open-minded and respect others' thoughts when I think I'm not…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:10 PM
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Well obviously 🙄 And no, you're having this conversation because we are the splinter in your eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:45 PM
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Yea, but the money thing turns perfectly on you when you realize that IF a woman has already been in a jacuzzi on Ibiza, then the comparison will be there if you take her back to a shack. Casual sex is like getting used to riches. That's fits pretty nicely with trp thought on pair bonding as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:44 PM
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Yea, we're begging you to be honest with us. We're begging for the world to make sense. You may say >when women are telling you the truth. But we don't buy it. That op made a ton of sense. Men like that. We don't believe you because you won't explain yourselves like he did. And he said that. I am sorry that I don't trust you. I want to be surrounded by people I'm proud of and trust. And at this point, most of us are bitter, so if I know 2+2=4, but you'll always say "5" then I'm gonna keep needli…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:57 AM
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I'm not trying to gotcha, but isn't this really close to the argument (I contend it's a boogeyman) that undesirable men want women to marry them anyway? Like you could argue that women want to either marry attractive successful men, or be alone. That isn't what leads to a better community health and more trust amongst the populace. The problem with “what works” under this particular context is that it works at the expense of others I swear I'm not trying to gotcha 😜 the argument for men with enj…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:36 PM
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Is this meant to "debunk" that aspect of trp? Or are you splitting hairs on which of the shallow metrics gets better results? What is the discussion? Like if women choose status more often, isn't that some sort of practical rationalization? It's not a comfort, right? "Sure, I'd like the tall, mysterious guy, but this other guy is good too. Look how popular he is!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:19 AM
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what experiences have you personally had with women, good or bad, that shaped and influence how you see them? both vauge and specific responses are welcome as you see fit. Can you appreciate how difficult it is to express ideas when they are directly answering a post, and it is met with this sort of rhetoric. It's fair that you're upset. We should work on that together. I do think there are wrongs on both sides. But they answered the prompt appropriately. Is this a good example of "why don't men…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:20 PM
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This is a debate space. I accept that. We're all anonymous, and nothing really seems to come of what we speak of. I've been here for years, so it doesn't seem this place is dangerous. Except I would not hang around if the police or someone held a meeting and said, "Ladies only, what would you like to define as mysogyny, and what should the crime for it be?" I don't like that this guy can claim he "was red pill," especially because he then goes on to get married and harp on about how awful it is.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:46 PM
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the alternative is being sexless as women aren't going to give free sex to unattractive men The alternative is saying to a man, using your words, "Hey yea, sure, I'll marry you because otherwise I wouldn't give you free sex. And when the sex dries up in the relationship, I'll be honest with you that I've never been attracted to you. That this is all a practicality, but you better not roll your eyes at all the "live, laugh, love" signs I'm going to put up." Ya know, be honest with your "significa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:47 PM
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Idk what you think you're adding to the conversation, but if princes are the only people with info we all want to examine, then they are the only people we can get it from. If Charles Manson tells you murder is wrong, then you agree with him. It doesn't matter if he's a hypocrite. Truth is truth, and sometimes bad people have it. Doesn't mean you stay ignorant. These qualifiers for who I take information from and how I help myself grow are so self-destructive. "I'm not gonna listen to you cuz it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:09 PM
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We'll never be able to describe the used car as rusty if they retch at our use of the word and insist it has "character". We're trying to describe a problem that they are actively trying to preserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:57 PM
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See, my issue is that I think we have to push this whole idea to the side. If a girl is giving you attention like that, I think she wants you to be entertaining. I'm not sure it's that she doesn't care about your problems. It's solipsism. She's watching the movie that is her life. Thus, she's expecting your lines to be written well. The problem wasn't that you expressed weakness or she didn't like your problems. The problem is that you were boring. The scene should have changed if you were just …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:08 PM
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I very much like what you said. I'd agree with being the change you wish to see in the world as well. Some of us simply refuse to be the only good person trampled under foot. I don't want to be the butt of the joke. So I will attempt to keep my dignity and be mature. But it won't save anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:00 PM
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That's not the worst either. But they're saying if you had acted as if you never cared at all, would be the true stoic thing to do. There is a sun tzu quote about always appreciating the beautiful vase is already smashed. If you constantly know you own nothing and permanence is a lie, then you can say, "oh she's talking to that guy over there. I'll go talk to this girl over here." You will have effectively done the same thing as what you said, you broke up. But in this scenario, you never spoke …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:51 PM
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This is a bullshit equivalence It is not. A smooth leg is kickass. Have you not dated a woman who, at different times, wasn't always able to maintain the same level of shavedness? She'll be like, "Oh my God, no, I didn't shave my legs!" And you go , "who cares?" And it's a little stubbly. No big deal. Next time... she's shaved, and it feels awesome. It's novelty. It just feels cool. But isn't a demand as OP would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:35 AM
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It's that you guys won't entertain any of our concepts. Are we alllllllll insane. Alllllll of our experiences were hallucinations. This is like reading some news story about it literally happening to some guy, and the women being like, well, he probably deserved it, and it'll never happen again. It's always perfectly in your favor. You can't appreciate how that shit makes us paranoid? You guys back each other up instantaneously AND refuse to cede any ground to our complaints. It just feels like …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:43 PM
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Oh My God! Murder or insults! OR insults. Are we meant to take you seriously. This is like a skit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:20 PM
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I wish the men's union was as strong as the woman union. See, this is WHY I'm upset about this stuff. That would be 2 wrongs. "We'll form our own union and show solidarity to our side." Whereas, as you are doing, attempting to communicate and understand rationally the situation is the mature thing to do. I do not respect them for having solidarity and lying to us. I do not respect that they prefer to avoid accountability in favor of a script. So they can pretend that everything that happens is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:29 PM
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It's not like I don't agree with you, but what does passing the buck solve? She's a human. We're humans. We figured it out. There is no excuse. Become an adult. Treat others fairly, admit your mistakes because you live life on purpose with ideals & principles that guide you. Not as someone who steals and cheats and lies because no ones looking. But yes, so many men are disappointing as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:56 PM
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Can you give us insight, for this example, as to the usual criticism, "she's just a damaged person. A healthy girl wouldn't do this. If you want a hurt person that's on you." You're describing as I've seen, desirable women do this. And I don't simply mean beautiful. Well adjusted, going places, smart women do this. People who should know better. Which is the foundation of this concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:39 PM
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The dichotomy of I can never let a trper win an argument because they're awful bigoted mysoginistic losers that would be locked up if I had my way. I'm gonna spend a bunch of time getting down in the mud with them. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:49 PM
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You can most certainly judge those you'd like to be with and around. You can find failing in people you want in your life. You can try desperately to help people change negative self-destructive behaviors and help them gain beneficial ones. These are the actions of a loved one. The men here think their ideas for life are more beneficial and would lead to greater happiness for many, not just themselves. They are justified in judging these women because they believe the women are unhappy living as…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:38 PM
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Isn't this kinda a good example for this sub? I'm undiagnosed with anything, but I have had several dozen interactions with women in my life where I missed a cue to flirt and say something silly & stupid, to extend some joke, and instead I got excited about imparting some trivia or an insight I had about the topic. I could see the disappointment in their eyes when they realize I'm not "playing the game," and instead, I'm being a nerd. Wasn't this guy asking his friend to be like, "she doesn't li…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:24 PM
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What are we meant to learn from this post? How does this help people navigate the smp? Is it just another chance to dunk on guys "beneath you"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:34 PM
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How do you feel about the old trp subreddit being an echo chamber. Most people now see echo chambers as bad, but it's clear to me why we never get anything accomplished here and it's because we're drinking from the fire hose. Any ideas get the worst interpretation and then are met with the strongest 5 ideas that the blue pilled are ALL parroting this week. The old subreddit was usually just us(trp), but guys argue back and forth. We are not as blindly encouraging as women are. It wasn't as bad o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:26 PM
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This is insane. It's who you ladies pick. Do you think we're blind? I had guy friends who slept with a new woman every week when I was younger. The rest of my friends, nothing. Sure it's an exaggeration. I don't know anyone named Chad and my ladies man friend wasn't some stereotype meat head. But he was wildly successful none the less. And as an awful person. Left E-v-e-r-y-o-n-e of those women. Those are women better guys will end up with eventually. And they all fell for the guys tricks. We wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:08 PM
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Of course you're going to win an RP argument with might makes right. Go out and land the hottest girl/guy and I won't be able to argue with you anymore. You won. No sarcasm, I get the black pill. But can we move on now? I understand that simple argument, can we just for chuckles move on to the values argument? ​ You don't think people should make decisions based on morals? It seems there's an obvious "why" there that you're not explaining. And I don't know why you keep talking to us if you won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 11:25 PM
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It would be incorrect to give weight to whether or not he is shallow in what he values. The correct issue is that he should care about virtues and values. As should women, which is his point. We should all care about values and virtue. His personal failings do not negate this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 09:07 PM
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now you're moving the goal posts. Op's point was that these women weren't getting to know him and then choosing to chase him. They followed his pay check. I won't even say they're gold diggers. Its just that their motives and interests were shallow. He's a cool quality person who seems like he could form a decent equal partnership, but if the woman acts interested in his lifestyle (and money) but then would just make him settle down and stop living the life he chooses then they don't really like…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 03:20 PM
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I think these men think women will be nice to them if they have $. I'm sure my grandmother nitpicked my grandfather. I saw the end of it. He was a soldier and capable of quite a bit around the home. At the very least he was able to make snide remarks like, "women, can't live with em, can't live without em." I am so much more useless than he was. I have had several relationships because I'm pretty for a man. It does not stop my SO's from being rude to me when I'm nothing but fun and nice. In soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 02:46 PM
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