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whatsupdac/r/seduction22/03/16 03:03 PM
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lmao
/r/seduction18/05/17 09:11 PM
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But the whole point of a date is to run game and build up that attraction. If your just expecting to have that before and her to be 100% into you from the get go that's pretty limiting. Meh that's looking far to deep into it in my opinion. Saying it once in that context isn't a make or break.
/r/seduction17/05/17 08:04 PM
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Yes, it is a must.
/r/seduction17/05/17 04:21 PM
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Go back over the basics. Re-read Models.
/r/seduction17/05/17 04:02 PM
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Definitely recommend to confirm at least 24 hours before. But do it but in a way that doesn't allow them to flake. By asking, "still on for tonight?" provides them the opportunity to come up with a last minute excuse and flake. Try more along the lines of.. "Hey looking forward to tonight, see you there at 7!", or "Just leaving work, see you shortly." "Reservation is at 7, meet you out front." If you don't confirm that day it gives her reasonable doubt to think it's off or you got scared and did…
/r/seduction17/05/17 03:51 PM
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Thats how you get friendzoned and another dude will swoop in, I wouldnt wait more than 1 or 2 weeks at the most
/r/seduction17/05/17 03:08 PM
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If you don't push the interactions and escalate they will not progress. and yes it will get harder as you get older so start changing now!
/r/seduction17/05/17 03:06 PM
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her place, car, park, sneak her in/out of your house, movie theater, hotel, bathroom of bar/club, rooftops, car.
/r/seduction17/05/17 03:04 PM
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Yes, lulls will happen. Take a week off and regroup.
/r/seduction17/05/17 03:01 PM
1

Why not just meet girls in real life then..
/r/seduction17/05/17 02:59 PM
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"Number?"
/r/seduction17/05/17 02:59 PM
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Just ask her out on a date bro!
/r/seduction17/05/17 02:58 PM
6

This is when you turn your game on the friend =P
/r/seduction17/05/17 02:57 PM
0

That's a highly unusual circumstance and I'm sure most girls would tell you before hand. Perhaps she is confused/fluid and she was giving you the opportunity to change her mind and you failed.
/r/seduction17/05/17 02:54 PM
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Leeave me alone
/r/seduction17/05/17 02:52 PM
1

No, it can help if anything
/r/seduction17/05/17 02:48 PM
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Read the posts on here about really attractive guys who can't get girls either. Then you'll realize that's not what its about.
/r/seduction16/05/17 05:36 PM
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I think it's a good supplement tool that requires low investment and can be done almost anywhere, anytime, but should only be used as a supplement. Going out and meeting irl should be the main focus.
/r/seduction16/05/17 02:42 PM
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The exact same way as 18-25.
/r/seduction16/05/17 02:39 PM
0

It's a game of odds my friend, 4 dates in 7 months is not enough in my opinion
/r/seduction12/05/17 07:36 PM
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You let her off the hook by not calling her out on the "I'll think about it" comment. You need to hold her accountable and let her know you don't play that shit. I would lower my investment, ie; no direct snap replies, don't text first, if she texts you give her brief low effort responses etc.. see how she responds after a few days. If she comes on strong then ask her out again and see what happens.
/r/seduction11/05/17 07:43 PM
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overthinking. overthinking. overthinking. get a new therapist.
/r/seduction11/05/17 07:35 PM
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No the night is dark and full of terrors
/r/seduction11/05/17 03:54 AM
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"Well if the date goes well I will introduce him to my girlfriend"
/r/seduction10/05/17 06:04 PM
1

"Well you don't sound like serial killer, how about a drink on Tuesday?
/r/seduction09/05/17 08:27 PM
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Do it in r/askseddit
/r/seduction09/05/17 08:25 PM
2

Models How to Win Friends and Influence People
/r/seduction05/05/17 09:59 PM
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https://media.giphy.com/media/aZ3LDBs1ExsE8/giphy.gif
/r/seduction05/05/17 05:24 PM
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Sitting in silence next to someone in the dark doesn't really provide a good setting to get to know each other, build rapport, keno etc.
/r/seduction05/05/17 04:48 PM
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Anything but a movie.
/r/seduction05/05/17 04:13 PM
1

Thats why we always say don't play the text game, only use it to setup dates. Texting and snapping gets boring quick.
/r/seduction05/05/17 04:12 PM
1

Yeah totally at first, but the more you do the easier more natural it becomes.
/r/seduction05/05/17 03:49 PM
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This is a post for r/askseddit Secondly haha no my friend, super inappropriate.
/r/seduction04/05/17 03:37 PM
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we ended up making out quite a bit a) you made out to much and she got bored, always be the one to stop first and leave them wanting more b) you were not very good at making out Either way shes not interested anymore, people don't just forget to reply to texts these days, especially not with someone they are into. And she's sending you snapchats because even though she's over you she still wants your affection and for you to chase her because who doesn't enjoy that type of attention. Ghost her a…
/r/seduction04/05/17 03:09 PM
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Always assume attraction.
/r/seduction04/05/17 03:04 PM
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Firstly how do you know you like this girl if you have never even talked to her before? So you like the way she looks, okay, But don't fall into the oneitis trap and put her on a pedestal. I don't know if I should become friends with her first or I should just ask her out The first option is how you get friend zoned, do you want to be her friend or do you want to be her boyfriend? If she's with a group of friends you can still approach but ya that takes major balls. Ask your friends to introduce…
/r/seduction04/05/17 03:01 PM
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Next time you see her talk to her more, get her number, ask her on a date.
/r/seduction04/05/17 02:56 PM
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Kissing mid date is a great way to build sexual tension. Don't wait till the car to make a move, get her thinking about it early.
/r/seduction04/05/17 02:55 PM
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You escalated to slowly, 2 months and only a kiss? She found another guy that fucks her brains out.
/r/seduction04/05/17 02:52 PM
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You should get down on all fours and grunt as loud as you can while kicking your legs backwards and thrusting your head side to side, its a common mating ritual among humans. But seriously its not complicated, talk to her, get her number, ask her out.
/r/seduction03/05/17 09:44 PM
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More counseling
/r/seduction03/05/17 09:13 PM
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Just keep at it, sounds like you've come a far ways in the self improvident but still have a bit more to go. Only when you are happy with who you are and okay with yourself and being single.
/r/seduction03/05/17 08:43 PM
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Well than I'm not sure what we can do here to help. And you shouldn't hide anything from your psych as that will hinder there ability to help. You are creating these constructs in your mind in order to avoid doing things that are hard or scare you. You really need to work on yourself before you even start thinking about dating. Get over your social anxiety and get some self confidence.
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:43 PM
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Yeah like everyone suggests stop listening to RSD. Everyone has their own methods and if you don't fit in with theirs then find another way.
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:27 PM
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I think you have some issues that need to be dealt with, more than just seduction, I would seriously consider seeking some form of counseling for the benefit of self improvement.
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:25 PM
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It's all in your head my friend. Start thinking positive.
/r/seduction03/05/17 05:47 PM
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Always assume attraction (which is bloody obvious here) "and ask her what she wants to do" you need to be the man and plan/pick the activity, don't ask her what she wants to do, you need to lead the interaction. However in the case shes already attracted so invite her over and seal the deal. You wont know if she's just in it for one night without actually trying but I doubt most girls are like that, definitely not a thing they do.
/r/seduction03/05/17 02:20 PM
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Post in askseddit not here
/r/seduction03/05/17 02:56 AM
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You need to talk to this girl in person.. hang out.. go to a movie whatever. How does one expect to get with a girl without speaking to them in person. As for what to say, search on here about having conversations using threading and all those other methods. Don't try and game over text. Read Models and learn to grow up a bit, this post sounds like elementary school shit.
/r/seduction02/05/17 09:36 PM
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I would go the direct route and respond with something like, "because I think you're cute and want to take you out"
/r/seduction02/05/17 09:31 PM
1

context..? What prompt her to say that
/r/seduction02/05/17 09:24 PM
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If girls are already interested you don't really need "moves". Just talk to them, ask them on dates, escalate etc. Read Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction02/05/17 09:07 PM
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Fail hard, just keep trying and even if you fail the experience will get easier each and every time until its almost second nature. You will never get better without practice
/r/seduction02/05/17 08:56 PM
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Key off of whatever they are buying to transition into a conversation/small talk. Ask about their plans or interests or something like that. If the conversation goes well then you can drop a line about hanging out or getting the number. Not an ideal situation overall tho.
/r/seduction28/04/17 10:14 PM
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Saying stuff like that at first point of contact will come off creepy. You need at least some rapport first.
/r/seduction28/04/17 09:48 PM
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so we could talk during the work day, and did all the time You were to available and easy, oneitis. She got bored or saw your low value. There probably is no fix unless she starts initiating again.
/r/seduction28/04/17 09:44 PM
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Sometimes things will just go that way, if she obviously wasn't receptive from the get go, move on and keep approaching.
/r/seduction28/04/17 09:42 PM
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Did you guys sleep together? Sounds like you were probably to available/needy and she lost attraction.
/r/seduction28/04/17 09:37 PM
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First off quit even acknowledging this other guy trying to get with her, the fact you are insulting him just comes off as insecure and rude. Don't ask her to just straight up hook up, take her out somewhere, end up at either houses and escalate.
/r/seduction28/04/17 09:33 PM
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Pick up a new hobby, or just at school. Hang out with friends more, look into friends of friends.
/r/seduction28/04/17 09:30 PM
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Seems to me like she was turned off about living far away, not necessarily anything you did terribly wrong. A little to needy with all the hun, cutie, gorgeous talk and to many emoticons for my liking. And use /r/askseddit next time.
/r/seduction20/04/16 03:07 PM
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I mean its bad when your only goal is to get your Mage to level 54.
/r/seduction15/04/16 04:53 PM
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Then you seem like you are in fine shape, game away! As far as goals and aspirations it can be for anything. You are striving to move up in your company. You are trying to get better at football or working towards a fitness goal. Trying to save money to buy your own place. Working hard to save up to travel. Pretty much anything besides sitting at home smoking pot and playing video games.
/r/seduction15/04/16 03:33 PM
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Man you are completely missing everything. I highly doubt they are saying you need to be making lots of money and if they are then get off that forum. Getting your life in order means, having a solid social circle, living a healthy life, having goals and motivation to achieve something, passionate hobbies..
/r/seduction15/04/16 03:12 PM
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Flirt like in any other situation. It's his problem not yours. If she is not receptive because she feels weird about it with him around then just lay off and enjoy the party.
/r/seduction15/04/16 03:07 PM
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How about asking her on a date?
/r/seduction14/04/16 05:32 PM
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Nothing, you can't.
/r/seduction29/03/16 02:34 PM
1

No definitely hug
/r/seduction29/03/16 02:33 PM
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This is one of the best situations you could possibly be in. You see her regularly and have solid rapport. Just ask her what shes doing after class if she wants to go grab a coffee/lunch/drink. If she says no then just forget about it and continue with how you guys interacted before. It's only awkward if you make it awkward.
/r/seduction08/03/16 07:13 PM
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I think you got this handle man, just give her space, and then try and make some moves next time you run into her. Make sure to continue to game other girls as well
/r/seduction06/03/16 10:51 PM
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I would just say I am going with "girls name" and then change the subject. She'll know you are going with another girl but doesn't know your relationship with her so it will get her thinking. But what it really sounds like is this girl is using you for attention or validation so shes probably a waste of time anyway.
/r/seduction04/03/16 08:37 PM
3

Except tinder plus is like $15/month so you really spent $18+
/r/seduction04/03/16 08:31 PM
2

In the famous words of Socrates "Don't stick your dick in crazy"
/r/seduction04/03/16 05:38 PM
1

So when you're thinking about her what do those thoughts consist of?
/r/seduction04/03/16 01:01 AM
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Why would you not want it?
/r/seduction03/03/16 10:39 PM
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You clearly want a relationship/girl but you're just telling yourself you don't cause your nervous/scared. You don't want to put in the effort because you're afraid where it might lead. So until your completely honest with yourself its going to continue spiraling downward until you hit rock bottom. You need to get out of your comfort zone, try new things, put yourself in different scenarios and become comfortable with being uncomfortable. The only way to do that is with practice and exposure.
/r/seduction03/03/16 04:04 PM
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Call her out
/r/seduction03/03/16 03:44 PM
2

Definitely harder but things like, We should go to your place I want to.. meet your dog/cat, watch a movie, make some food, play a game.
/r/seduction02/03/16 05:00 PM
1

Life is long.. you still have 80% of your life to live and have relationships and have great sex. I was a huge beta in high school and sure I have some regret but fuck it the past is the past, I can only control the future and who I want to be as a person going forward. Every day you delay is just another day of being a chump, take action now! You've built it up to be this big thing in your head but no one cares.. I have been asked maybe twice in my entire 26 years of existence when I lost my vi…
/r/seduction02/03/16 04:37 PM
1

Yeah its only awkward because you think its awkward, if you have a don't give a fuck attitude then its a non issue. It's not important, give it a day or two and then just text her.
/r/seduction01/03/16 10:16 PM
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You are overthinking things.. Always assume attraction.
/r/seduction01/03/16 10:12 PM
2

Whats a good way to open up a convo over text to show her hey it didn't matter what happened, but i recognize that it was awkward? There is no way. Take this guys advice and don't bring it up. Just text her about meeting up again or whatever you guys talk about.
/r/seduction01/03/16 10:09 PM
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"Hey so today is my last day but you are really cute and I couldn't miss the chance to get your number"
/r/seduction01/03/16 10:04 PM
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They'll know you aren't taken when you approach them and open.
/r/seduction01/03/16 08:06 PM
1

That's awesome, now you have a friend to go to bars with, she doesn't really have to do anything, it would mainly all just be about social proof and hanging around her.
/r/seduction01/03/16 05:04 PM
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Volunteer, join social groups like hiking or running or softball team etc.. go to every event your invited to, become a yes man. Start hanging out with new people or friends you haven't talked to in a while. Go out with co-workers meet their friends. Travel or be a tourist in your own city.
/r/seduction01/03/16 04:55 PM
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I'm sorry to say this but the fact you made this post means you are already setting yourself up for failure. Investing to much into one interaction is surely going to be a disaster. Approach her today, approach her now in the next 20 minutes, why wait?
/r/seduction01/03/16 04:42 PM
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body isn't that great in pictures.. expect it to be much worse irl
/r/seduction03/06/15 08:06 PM
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