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Discussionwheelsonmeal/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:49 PM
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Of course. If I like someone I will put in an effort to plan a fun date where I can see if we are compatible or not. I avoid planing anything extravagant or putting on an act though because I wouldnt want the other person to feel tricked if we end up together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:21 AM
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People shine through the cracks of added pressure. Pressure is good. These says people are so fragile they need to pretend like they don't care when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:07 AM
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I aM tHo SmaRt anD wISe. PLEasE ValIdaTe mE Your projection is transparent you sanctimonious ass. Gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:00 AM
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Womens motor clubs exist because the very few women who actually do want to ride ans are legitimately passionate about bikes are sick of being pestered by thirsty dorks they form their own clubs. Getting a bike to find women is fkn stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:57 AM
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There are way more women at a starbucks than a bike night. I ride a lot. The only people who are as obsessed are other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:52 AM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:29 AM
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Most people are on something. Hell even people who aren't on a script abuse food and alcohol just to get through the week. Life is hard for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:26 AM
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Don't throw away those btc I had left over because it was only a few dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:25 AM
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Women like bikes about as much as men like handbags.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:19 AM
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Seeing as women are the gate keepers most of the time, if they can get good sex like that I doubt many of them would even risk meeting men at all. Risking your health and safety for a gamble of a decent sexual experience vs get to fuck celebrity idol and dont have to worry about picking up after them. Its pretty obvious. I think men will still venture out because, well us men are well, men. Its the women who have more to lose so they are the ones more likely to become shut ins. Maybe people who …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:23 AM
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That women actually care about stuff they say they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:40 AM
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Probably a 3 right about now. I used to travel a lot but now I can't due to restrictions and life is a bit boring being cooped up in one state and country due to covid restrictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:38 AM
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I don't think you're ugly. I don't know what you look like, but I have heard a lot of ugly ass mofos say stuff to feel better about looks fading etc Its like the thought of someone suffering more in the future makes them feel betrer about their own current sufferings. like an imaginary idea of fairness because it all equals out in the end or some shit. The reality is that it isnt fair and never will be. Ugly people will suffer more and it wont even out. Some people will strive and grow but that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:23 PM
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Everyone has to deal with mortality in their own way. I think a lot if this is cope by ugly people. Good looking people often look good because they take care of themselves and hence will actually look nice into old age too. An ex gf was very beautiful and she had a militaristic skin care routine. It was regimental in how strict she was with it. She is going to be like her mother and look beautiful into her old age because she looked after herself meticulously. I think some peoole struggle with …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 04:09 PM
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Yeah. I got a bit side tracked from the OP. It is a complicated subject. Kind of wraps around trauma, self medication and family dynamics. Way too big and painful to really talk about. I am sure you are aware of this, so I say this in case anyone else reads this. Often addicts are addicts of other things too. They often are very romantic and very seductive and I feel that many will use sex, love and relationship bonding as another escape to try avoid painful emotions. The problem with this appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:38 PM
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Yeah. Maybe on the outside. Not on inside. Budding alcholic women all start by telling themselves a bottle of wine and a valium in the evening is normal. Most cokeheads will just appear like fun people but they are deeply insecure and anxious. Even users who IV crystal straight into their veins will look normal if they got money. Its usually the price of drugs eating into normal necessities that fuck addicts up. The financial aspects have them needing to fuck strange or do dodgy scammy stuff and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:33 PM
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Most people I knew growing up who are married with children are all normal looking, normal jobs. Wierdly enough its the good looking ones who stuggle later on in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:05 PM
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Addicts and alcoholics are depressing to be around after maybe on week. Their charm, charisma and optimism is just another high to them and they will use up the fun in a relationship as quickly as the use up everything else. At least with regular people you wont need to pick up after them and they wont try manipulate heart strings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:04 PM
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Every relationship ends in some kind of break up. Most of the times, they just are not worth it overall. Shit sex isn't worth the risk. Good sex leads to intense bonding so should be taken with consideration because if its good too early, can often look past incompatibilities. Usually the blinding intense feelings of lust and idealisation tone down if you wait a bit and allows obvious incompatibilities to show themselves. That being said. Hormones. Fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:07 PM
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No. If someone bought me anything doesn't mean I will sleep with them. Going out for dinner is an excuse to see how some is. How much alcohol they drink, how comfy they are, how they interact and navigate. Even how socially cued in someone is. Personally I say I am going to the rest room and sly pay on the way back to avoid the who pays situation entirely. If a woman did that for me, I would be have something novel to consider, but it would not mean she is owed anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:24 AM
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May I ask what these intrustive thoughts are? I was under the impression most thoughts are pretty random and impossible to control. What makes them intrusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:14 AM
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May I ask what generation you are in? Why do you think you have never had a female friend before? I am curious but you dont owe me shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 02:59 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:30 PM
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The middle of modern western culture ceased being "honor" based after the enlightenment. This kind of mediaeval way of arranging a society is still quite prevalent out side of the middle of western society. ie the extreme ends of western society like those in poverty, prison and the elite; will do anything to defend and display reputation. As will other "less developed" cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:20 PM
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He got testosterone replacement therapy and now has an entire PR team to pick his outfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:13 PM
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I don't know too much about therapy, but my impression of it is that it is paying for reparenting which could aid in self perception. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:12 PM
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My observation is that many people are already a bit fixed in how they perceive themselves so their mutable traits "fit" their own self image and identity. Even they would be more attractive if they did this or that, they would be so uncomfortable with it because it would be outside of their own perception of self. Edit: and perception of self is often tied to ones existing status so a feedback loop can happen as a result of even minor differences. Can even be seen happening in reverse when peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:03 PM
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Jerk off. Libido changes happen in life. They can be quite drastic due to a myriad number of reasons, like stress, work, children, accidents, war, natural bodily hormonal changes. Expecting a perfect libido match for life is too rigid imho and will miss out on even better oportunities. I say this as someone with fairly high libido at this point in life. Because a partner is so much more than just sexual, and you are each others sixes, ending an existing established relationship due to mismatch i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:49 AM
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Interesting post. This term "dark triad" is quite fascinating. I think when dating people are looking for matches and in the process they would meet people who are different but end up with people that fit better. These traits are paradoxical tho. From the point of view of what momma bear kills for her cubs- she is a monster, a killer. From her cubs point of view, she is the nurturer the life giver. I suspect people are attracted to dangerous traits because if that person is on their side, the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:35 AM
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Oh yeah, for sure, my opinions will probably do 270 degree turn. Its funny how my opinions are most probably off, but you're trying not to spoil it for me! Interesting take on Tom btw. Perhaps for those who are very socially aware, having a more oblivious -dont give a toot attitude, would be liberating. I live about an hour or two north west of the CBD. May I message you instead? I don't lock the windows and doors to my house. It is an extremely low possibility, but if I stick my postcode on thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:49 PM
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I can't stop laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:32 PM
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Real life toms are creepy and dangerous. Perhaps why it's funny to see him embarrass himself. I am only one episode in and I am left wondering if kendall the middle child, is symbolic of the middle millenial generation. Unappreciated, blamed for everything. Bleak economic situations with most of us seperated from each other, while boomers - who we trusted and want to please- wont transfer power or die off either. And the generation after us.. we keep trying to figure out what the feck they want …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:28 PM
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It is one of those shows! Speaking of who has time, it cracked me up episode1; when the blumbering sociopath Tom is fussing about with his little stratagems- how can he slide hjs nose closer to Logans butt with a gift, and stupidly ends up getting him a watch! Tic tock old man. My fkn sides 🤭 sttaaapp too brutal 🤣 I havent seen billions or yellowstone. Been raining like crazy in sydney last few days. At this rate, I might get to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:05 AM
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Just looked it up. Must watch. I am intrigued. Did you find aspects of it relatable?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:54 AM
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Thank you for the recommend. I will get my tears ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:29 AM
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Lets do this again? Dummy it down because I am not connecting the dots? I is Fucked in the head? Yawn How about u uncross your fkn eyes, maybe then you'd stop linking dots out of context of the ORIGINAL POST to shill your medicore middle ground. I dont care anymoreeee
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:54 AM
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Will you expand on what you mean by women want mgtow banned but not incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:56 AM
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I didn't claim anything about what people should or shouldn't do. I frankly don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:39 AM
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I answered the OPs question and gave specific observations I made in my experience. Even put out a disclaimer knowing I'd get replies like yours. I did not lay down any claims of value or worth of 'REAL WOMEN', nor did I use shame language of value like "stupid/broken/damaged". I painted a picture based around my own observations. YOU chose to place yourself under the description and add your own shame and judgemental language and projectively claimed that it was my post was shaming under the gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:34 AM
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What I ment, I wrote. Read it again if you fail to comprehend it. Putting words in my mouth isn't a particularly flattering look.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:26 AM
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Generational trauma is trauma that is unhealed and is passed down to children who inherit it as if it is a norm. It can be obvious like war survivors, or more difficult to examine because it takes the form of cultural acceptance. Everyone has it to certain degree, but for many the wounds are more exposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:13 AM
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Never heard of FaceandLMS, sounds interesting. Thanks for sharing. What is LMS mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:05 AM
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I don't read anything shameful about the observations I wrote. They are observations, I did not project any statements of value in them. If anything the language in your post is shaming. "Stupid/broken/damaged" I never wrote anything that claimed "always that women are victims". Not always but in many cases they are, sexual abuse being one of them. Nor did I bring up anything about 'REAL WOMEN'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:37 AM
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It's rarely just a kink when it comes to age differences. And it's rarely just business either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:25 AM
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Social class and cultural differences, combined with unresolved generational trauma and violence on both sides. Then add in emotional immaturity on both sides, entitlement and a lack of empathy by my part, supressed rage on her side, and the relationship broke due to irreparable psychological neglect and unresolvble cycles of misunderstandings. I still love her and wish she is doing whatever she can to try heal as am I but it is in our best interest to stay as far away from each other as possibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:15 AM
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Going to get a lot of shit for this but here goes with an outrageous claim. Note this from my own experiences and reflections on my own relationships. Young women who go for older men. Sadly: They will have some kind of sexual trauma or, a history of neglect and or complex ptsd of some kind. A good amount of them will have some kind of eating disorder or substance abuse or phone/gaming addiction. They may cover it up with being very sociable, friendly, funny, accommodating and loyal but have out…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:04 AM
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Original point: She had to manipulate to survive and not get raped and murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:44 AM
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Cleopatra was ethnic minority ruling class and found herself born into an internal power struggle with her own family, while Egypt as a province was passed around in the roman senate as a bargaining chip. You clearly have no desire to actually understand the circumstances which she had to navigate so I am posting this for others who may be curious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:16 AM
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What do you get out of replying like this? Never said all men are rapists and no value btw Never said manipulation is a right either Never said anything about who manipulation is learned from either No claim was made that women don't manipulate each other and fk each other over. If anything your post is proof of your own claims about women manipulating and fucking each other over for personal gain but that is a tangent to this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:02 AM
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It is unfortunately. Then there are the people who are basically completely starved of peoples affections and warmth, so the only way is to get contact and attention is by being hated or humiliated. For many, the cane is better than nothing I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:40 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:48 PM
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I wouldn't call it hitting on. Its that many people are quite starved for attention and it is one way of getting these needs met.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:35 PM
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Most women develop manipulative tactics from a very young age to survive. Cleopatra would have been raped and murdered in her teens by enemies on all sides, had she not developed these skills. To call survival strategies born out of ruthless necessity a 'delicacy' is a misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:31 PM
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A lot of people "asking for advice" is their only way of getting attention and making contact with people who would otherwise never engage with them. So heaps of men will ask women for advice but never change a thing, because getting advice is the only way they get that little bit of attention and they can't let go of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:15 PM
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I am suspicious of anyone who claims virtue and righteousness, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:06 PM
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The women who showed interest in me who were much younger, ALL had sexual trauma in their past. Or. They were in a much lower socioeconomic bracket and trading in their youth and sex was the only way they could get out of their circumstances, due to lack of education and privileges. They need support and care removed from needing to trade these basic needs for sex or romance. A couple of years difference is fine because people have different biological ages, but having dated people who were olde…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:54 PM
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What about you OP? What you rate yourself and how'd you end up here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:34 PM
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have a close circle of people. Most strangers I meet irl do tend to gravitate towards me, but they soon maintain distance as I often speak too directly and I don't give attention to certain behaviors. So.. socially I do okay, but I am far from charming. I was spoiled romantically growing up for reasons I cannot explain. It got harder later on in life. Losing my innocence sucked, but I also realized I am quite a shitty person so I lost a lot of confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:32 PM
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I am am a hottish ugly man. Probably a 6. Just slightly above average. My personality isn't that great either. Too autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:01 PM
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The question is more fundamental that what you should do. It is what do you desire and is what you desire best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:58 PM
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Why would you defer such a choice to the men on this sub, when we have zero skin in the game and you have everything to lose or gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:55 PM
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Be cheap to filter out the cheap pretending to be rich? And that is why these men filter themselves. There are smoother ways to filter out potential mismatches; than purposefully going on uninspiring 'coffee dates' out of a fear of mistakenly feeding a hungry 'gold digger'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:01 PM
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The female dating strategy sub offers fascinating insights. Some of it heart breaking, most of it brutally confronting about the realities of men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:06 AM
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So you are enslaved for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:55 AM
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Did you get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:25 AM
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I personally don't think anything wrong with being poor. Poor people can show they care and are interested in different ways without needing to pay for shit they can't easily afford. It is just when people of very different socioeconomic classes mix, a lot of misunderstandings and resentments form.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:11 AM
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My sides LOL cant breathe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:52 AM
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Well then its up to that man to sniff out which of these girls is gaming them too - which many certainly are. Responsibility for oneself is the bare minimum in life and dating is no exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:27 AM
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No. We just hear more about it. The difference from now and the past is that normal average people have platforms to voice their miseries. In the past, their opinion hardly mattered at all and only the deeds of the elite were recorded for the most part. Even not so far back as a few generations ago, what people did to each other and just sucked up in silence.. it is much better now There are no solutions because there are no problems. The adjustments may be individually painful and people may of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:51 AM
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If buying a stranger dinner is a risk you can't take, you are of a completely social class to someone who would not think twice about it. This isn't about sex, or feminism, or narcissism. It is about social class differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:38 AM
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filtered
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:25 AM
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It isn't about spending dinner money and considering it a "risk" to ones investment. It's about trying to find a guy who is in a class where buying someone dinner is completely irrelevent, and filtering out whoever does not fit that social class. People of different social classes are simply incompatible without resentment and misunderstanding brewing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:20 AM
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It is normalised and always has been. The need to have little boxes where that person over there is the narcissist, IS narcissistic projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:03 AM
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Most women are too indoctrinated to being selfless suckers and it makes them overall poor quality companions. You can't give unless you have first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:38 AM
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It isn't sinister and it isn't going backwards to some idealized simulacrum of an 'old' past that never existed. At it's heart its seems to be about self actualization and integration of ones shadow and empowering ones opposite core. If anything its classist, not sexist and tries to undo the muddling up of people that really shouldn't have access to each other. Then again I has a scroate 🤣 so my opinion is my own impression Edit: and like all gold mines, most of it js going to be rubble, but som…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:22 AM
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Marriage is one of those institutions that further seperate classes once again. It was originally used to secure power and bloodlines. Most normal plebs didn't have power or need to protect bloodlines so it wasn't nearly as important. Then it became popular again when everyone had their own little castles and lawns and could role play ad mini royalty in a democatric system where power is distrubuted. Fascinating to see it starting to come full circle again. Most normal people don't see its impor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:09 AM
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It requires experience to know what vectors of control are within reach and which are illusions because the difference lies in the nuances. It can be effective to start from a position of total responsibility and work backwards, than starting from a position of victimization and trying to work forwards, because the latter carries the inertia of feeling powerless to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:31 PM
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So in the causal chain of a million other choices linking them, none of these mattered. Powerless people who think like this baffle me. I am done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:43 PM
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Do you really think the only thing he could have done is not marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:22 PM
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No society will not collapse because people refuse to make babies with people they don't want to make babies with. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:38 PM
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Do you have any insight or more details into the why of: Validation as human beings Validation as sexual beings It sounds unpleasant, but it carries an implication that women are sexual by default but not human, and men are human by default but not sexual or am I misunderstanding the implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:45 AM
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I've seen them on youtube. Nah. Low quality moaners for the most part drumming up drama using low hanging fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:36 AM
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That wasn't my impression. It seemed quite reasonable and refreshingly honest tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:35 AM
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I like that sub. Very enlightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:35 AM
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I am very curious about this now. Thanks for the pointer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:01 AM
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Its pretty bleak tbh.. that stuff is the labyrinth of all labyrinths, but may you find the rocks within youself to overcome. sprinkles your head with fairy dust
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:59 AM
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That is not what I am saying and ment. I don't doubt any of what you shared. All I am saying is that by labelling the other as shitty, the opportunity to gain power is lost because the nuance is discarded. Something I noticed on trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:21 AM
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I am sure it was a shitty thing. What I am saying is that by trying to understand, you will have the power. If you can understand what happened, understand her motivations and thoughts, you will be much better prepared for whatever happens next. I am not talking about moral superiority of who is better or shittier. I am talking about taking power for yourself by examining what you did and could have done because it gives you agency in the outcome too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:18 AM
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Have you investigated what causes you to like someone in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:08 AM
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Will anyone recommend some good resources or other subs that investigate the nature of human interactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:06 AM
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I think its more nuanced than she was a shitty lover and mother. If he dismisses it like that he going to miss the opportunity to fully understand what happened there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:54 AM
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I hope you learn what you set out to learn. The truth is much stranger and nuanced than any model or theory on either side. Maybe one day you will gain insight into the whole ordeal and grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:52 AM
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What are you on about. Patriarchy systems of finance and morals are designed to give weaker duller men a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:43 AM
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Fascinating summary. 'Withstand social scrutiny' interesting condition to kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:39 AM
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Do you have trauma in your childhood or have very low self worth. Not prying btw, dont answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:47 AM
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Advanced patriarical civs destroyed the cherokee you quoted earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:16 AM
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Being generous without a chance to repay is a way some people display dominance while maintaining appearences of non aggression. Indebtedness can feel suffocating because now the indebted never knows when they have to repay but the debtor feels freer because they have increased their own options. It is a more powerful position to be the one being the loan shark, if the opportunity cost isn't too much time- the most valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:58 AM
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"You loonytunes" you are in this sub too btw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:48 AM
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Hah! Did not expect to hit aporia this quick 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:41 AM
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Women most definitely can sniff out highly sexed men, but the intelligent mega babes-who are by far the best sane lays and companions- can sniff out men who need women to validate their own insecurities from a mile away too. While opportunity cost is not as big of an issue to normal men as it is for women, it increasing becomes an issue for highly sexed men, who ironically become women for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:31 AM
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I cannot correct. My attempt at precipitating love -into a special category- speaks more about my personal struggles of conflating wants with is, not the validty of any points. Just because I want love to be outside the set of dog eat dog, it doesn't mean it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:02 AM
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What has it been like so far in the meaning department? Did your ex ever explain any of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:38 AM
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What is FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:03 AM
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Smirk?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:01 AM
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Interesting. I am surprised that you rarely encounter people with dissenting opinions. Do you debate your husband of 15 years? Sorry if my questions are too intense. What brings me here? I want to heal and accept. It sounds strange but I am looking for the next person who will teach me about the world and myself, by sharing themself with me if they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:58 AM
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You didn't amswer the original OP btw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:41 AM
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Lol! Do you want an army of simps at your disposal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:30 AM
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Extrapolate this statement if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:27 AM
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Is that what brings you here too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:25 AM
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I think motivations differ from person to person. What makes you interact at all isn't that different to someone who posts a novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:24 AM
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Identity as in you know yourself as a married woman with so and so personality and so and so interests and beliefs and values. Identity does not exist in a vacuum, it exists relative to opposites. I was wondering if coming to this place made you feel more womanly or good or whatever your identity is built on thats all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:22 AM
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Dominant/submissive. So the punishment of deserving strangers on the internet allows you to be better towards those you know in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:16 AM
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I am guessing you have never had a boy/girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:09 AM
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Fascinating. Did you end up here after your simping friend ghosted you or before?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:08 AM
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What circumstances lead to solitude? Was it by choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:06 AM
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Would you consider yourself confrontational in the real world or is this sub a space for you to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:05 AM
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Trade every hookup I have ever had to be able to go back in time with the knowledge I have now to make just one of them less abusive and more kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:30 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:26 AM
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What are the other reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:23 AM
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If your wife never left you, do you think you would have ended up here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:22 AM
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I was successful in editing. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:17 AM
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Enlighten me on the entertainment value of this sub if you will. Personal aesthetic taste varies between people and I am curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:13 AM
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What differences are there in initiating a breakup as opposed to having a break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:11 AM
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It is peculiar how the word means so many things that it almost could mean anything. Maybe the whole point of the word is create illusions so two people who aren't identical can share something they think is the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:10 AM
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Interesting. What motivated you to end up here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:08 AM
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I am curious to know how a woman would get obssessed with this corner. Is it intellectual curiosity? I reason why I asked if people been in love, is that love and sex are quite powerful motivators. When I came across this corner of the interwebs it seemed so far, I wondered what wind would be strong enough to blow some one all the way here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:07 AM
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What kind of experience do you have and what insights did you gain from them? This sub seems quite diverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:04 AM
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Interesting. If you don't get an identity here, may I ask what you receive in return for the energy you give to this place?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:01 AM
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I can see how my response was funny now. Whoops. Does the internet have answers to loneliness or more questions. So strange how we can connect with people all over the world and yet feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:54 AM
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I don't think its that simple. I am noticing that a lot of posters get sadistic pleasure here too. Like watching others who are worse off is entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:45 AM
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So you have a bad day and punish some randoms on the internet because they just asking for it or are deserving of it, or in some cases they begging for it? I have often wondered what is going on in this dynamic. Seems kind of D/s but reversed online
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:41 AM
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Have you noticed and effects this rabbit hole has had on you? Like did it change your love life or your views?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:37 AM
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Give me an example of an apex fallacy myth at the heart of the manosphere and destroy it if you will. I am curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:31 AM
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Lies are mortar that bind civilisation together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:28 AM
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What do you mean by meaner side? So in real life you can't say certain things but on this sub it is permitted?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:15 AM
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Correct me if I am mistaken. Do women in relationships come here because it helps define their own identity better by having something the opposite to them like this place? An identity juxtaposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:12 AM
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What other subs existed before this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:08 AM
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I don't know with any certainty but one doesn't need to be a frog to be a frog expert or have a frog either. My observations are that often those who cannot get love or sex, and are outsiders, seem to have certain wisdoms about it that many of us who are in amongst it cannot. I wonder if "debating" is a way for some people to connect. Their love language is a good fight or somethin
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:06 AM
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I also noticed this sub has more diverse views than other parts of reddit too. Quite interesting. I have been reading quite a few older threads and I still can't figure out what everyone gets out of this sub though. It seems just as diverse as the opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:01 AM
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What is hate read?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:57 PM
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Loneliness? I don't understand. Is your attachment style conflict? Because this sub seems kind of hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:55 PM
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What makes you hang around?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:52 PM
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I don't understand. I am new to reddit sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:51 PM
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The logistics of organising a MFM threesome, or any threesome or gangbang, in a sexually safe clean way are really not easy. A MFM threesome implies the woman was reckless with her own health and safety. Or she did it safely but put considerable effort into finding two clean guys who were both down with getting tested at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:50 PM
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No. A better partner is usually someone of similar socioeconomic class. Self hatred of your own class and a desire for power over someone else from a poorer class can lead to resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:20 PM
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As sad as it sounds, overall people think what they can't have is worth more so I kind of agree with OP. I would speculate that the men who 'lower their standards' end up diluting the attention they spread around. The side effect is that some of these "stunners" who are overwhelmed with cheap attention, find themselves not being clung on to as strongly. Seeing as there are far more insecure people than secure people, giving less attention may result in a bias towards someone scatter shooting. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:13 PM
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Does free will and choice exist? If it does, I suppose one could choose to embody loyalty as a type of self expression despite the mechanics of the system dictating otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:45 PM
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