whereisthescrew Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How do you maintain the "abundance mentality" in a committed relationship?		whereisthescrew	/r/askTRP	02/05/20 12:43 AM

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1	I'm 42, had sex with a 20 yr old Sat, now ghosted That’s a loser mentality. Assuming you’re white and stay in shape you can bang as many white 20 yr old girls you want past 40. No need to lower your standards	/r/askTRP	26/05/20 12:55 PM
3	I'm 42, had sex with a 20 yr old Sat, now ghosted This 100% im there can confirm	/r/askTRP	26/05/20 12:52 PM
1	Girl only wants to give Instagram Why do you care? Why do you even want her phone number or instagram? Just set a date a hook up	/r/askTRP	24/05/20 12:49 PM
7	Should I feel guilty about ghosting a chick Do you think James bond would ghost a girl? Blocking and ghosting is a super beta move. Looks very immature and butt hurt. It doesn’t cost much to show some decency, talk things out and leave her at peace	/r/askTRP	23/05/20 12:29 PM
16	A PUA guy tell me that after 150,000 approaches I can get laid with any women in the world even when I looked exactly like quasimodo jaba the hut or smeagol.This sounds really fishy. Everything is a number game, you just need to mass approach women yet be selective. Pua / game is a marketing ploy to part insecure men with their money. It is utter bullshit. You dont need skills to meet women you just need balls. You only need relationship skills and discipline later to keep the relationship going	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/20 01:29 PM
1	Downloaded TikTok to see what the hype was about. I'm stunned by the content on this app, what the hell is going on with Gen Z? That’s bullshit. Young women / men ratio is a wash. It’s more something cultural and related to their recent transition to full blown capitalism. They got out of soviet union where they didn’t have much. Now that the new generations suddenly have access to global consumption markets and western culture they embrace them with excesses and no boundaries. Parents from soviet union don’t understand jackshit about what their children are doing on social medias and outside of home. They come from a ve…	/r/askTRP	17/05/20 09:35 PM
5	Downloaded TikTok to see what the hype was about. I'm stunned by the content on this app, what the hell is going on with Gen Z? I do not agree on the eastern European girls. Eastern European girls take the social media whoring on another level than western europeans. I’m from western europe and travel a lot to ukraine and russia so i can easily compare. The level of slutery and depravity on social medias and in behaviors in EE is absolutely unheard of in WE countries like say Spain, France, italy etc. I find them more in line with the most hardcore american validation whores	/r/askTRP	17/05/20 08:49 PM
3	Downloaded TikTok to see what the hype was about. I'm stunned by the content on this app, what the hell is going on with Gen Z? Nope. The slutery has spread over the world. Euro girls including Russians are now as depraved as the most degenerated us teens. I’ve seen it first hand even in the most remote regions of the Russian far east. I could t believe my eyeballs the level of constant validation whoring, depravity and superficiality of these girls	/r/askTRP	17/05/20 08:43 PM
6	Is quarantine increasing the female hypergamy? It's a total bs that hypergamy is exclusively a female feature. Any man in the world wants to over date and as a matter of fact i find way more often hot women with average looking men than the opposite. Talking about social status / wealth, yeah it's more common for women to seek providers depending on the local culture, but more and more women make big money now and as a matter of fact i've seen TONS of guys around me over dating and purposely marrying trust fund babies from super wealthy fami…	/r/askTRP	15/05/20 10:18 PM
2	I find it weird how Dead Bedrooms is mostly women. Why is that? This and also a minority of Chads fuck most women in the 20s. Some of my friends have literally fucked thousands and thousands of women. They would constantly have a rotation of new girls almost every day. These girls now are in their 30s married with beta bucks. At some point they realized they couldn't do anything with Chad and downgraded to more beta average looking dude, where they can have the upper hand	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 07:22 PM
1	I find it weird how Dead Bedrooms is mostly women. Why is that? women are the sexual selectors It is a myth that men hit on everything with a hole and then women pick their mate. I do select the girls i talk to anywhere i go. I decide to walk to her and open the conversation. She then reciprocate interest or not. But at the end of the day it's mutual selection	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 06:50 PM
1	I find it weird how Dead Bedrooms is mostly women. Why is that? In the US the female / ratio among the young is almost a wash with a slight excess of men, but the difference is statistically irrelevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 06:41 PM
1	I find it weird how Dead Bedrooms is mostly women. Why is that? Dread definitely works, but i think the the effects are short lived and can backfire big time. If a girl start pulling that kind of game you bet i'm going to approach 100 women in real life in the coming weeks in retaliation. Being sexually aggressive if the guy is uninterested is awkward and probably counterproductive. Men usually like to initiate and can feel awkward if the girl is pushing too hard. Also avoid being too blunt with talks. I had my gf asking me why i wouldn't fuck her every day …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 02:40 PM
1	I find it weird how Dead Bedrooms is mostly women. Why is that? I haven’t noticed any decline around me. All guys i know around 40 including me still jerk off a couple of times a day like when we were 20 lol. Living together 24/7 is the real sex killer. After one year even the hottest girls i’ve been with would hardly turn me on. Some guys keep interest a bit longer but i believe the Coolidge effect is a real thing with humans	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 01:56 PM
1	I find it weird how Dead Bedrooms is mostly women. Why is that? A guy at 40 can fuck several new women a day without problem. The difference is that as you grow older you get bored faster and after one year many men lose sexual interest	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 05:19 AM
3	I find it weird how Dead Bedrooms is mostly women. Why is that? I think most men lose sexual interest in their partner after one or 2 years. All my friends who are in long term relationships barely fuck their women once a week, but yet they jerk off on porn. Every day	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 05:12 AM
6	I find it weird how Dead Bedrooms is mostly women. Why is that? I can only talk for myself but after one year max i usually lose all sexual interest in my partner even if she’s a model. My girl sees that as a loss of sex drive, but it’s just that she doesn’t turn me on anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 05:08 AM
3	Did my LTR turn me into a beta buck tampon? don't let yourself go physically, not for her, but for you. Once you start looking like a loser, you become a loser. This	/r/askTRP	14/05/20 09:23 PM
3	The Brain is the biggest sex organ! Female here sharing my own experience— what has been extremely effective with me. It depends which kind of girl you're talking to. It's no secret younger girls are more into good looking chads (90% looks 10% personality), when they come close to 30 their start looking for beta bucks (90% status/personality, 10% looks) to settle down	/r/seduction	13/05/20 09:49 PM
7	How to double text? Don't give up too soon The hell yes hell no principle is just meant to make a better use of your time. The idea being why chasing a girl who has low interest when million others are potentially ready to jump on your D without any effort. However i concur that you shouldn't necessarily give up at the first sign of resistance. If she pulls away and back off from a date, shrug it off, put a 2 or 3 months timer on and wait for her to either contact you or the end of the timer where you can send a feeler text to see what s…	/r/seduction	12/05/20 01:41 PM
1	Ugly women who think they deserve sympathy for having to date ugly men are fucking retarded, and that's the reason why you're alone. until you hit the wall around 35 and your value drops to zero	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 03:28 AM
3	Frame to cancel out large social media following? Same as any other girl but much more stress on the relationship as tons of orbiters will shit talk about you and try to break you up on a daily basis. I do not re recommend for ltr. It’s best to keep them as FB. It’s generally preferable to behave aloof and uninterested when you meet them as you will automatically stand out of the crowd of beta losers chasing her. However, once in the relationship these attention whores often shit test you more and more to get your validation and turn you into b…	/r/askTRP	11/05/20 08:09 PM
3	Hobbies That Get You Laid 1- fashion photography 2- dance 3- playing in a band End	/r/askTRP	11/05/20 07:22 PM
3	Why so many weird foreigners only want to date white girls? Only a very small % of europeans are blond. It is by no mean mainstream. Blond hair and blue eye come from mutations similar to albino; they are the fittest haplotype for regions with little sun exposure as their light skin and eyes favor Vitamin D synthesis	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 11:05 PM
2	TRUTH It's true that most guys in Eastern europe have super beta game, are super submissive and shower their women with gifts and flowers, but that's the tradition there, and you'll have a very hard time with these women if you do not align. I've dated many Eastern european girls and they always found me aloof and greedy, whereas western european girls would say the absolute opposite of me. Problem is i really like these eastern european hotties	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 05:59 PM
7	TRUTH Obviously. Most Russians and Ukrainians in western europe and the US are there on a mission. I usually stay 1/4 of the year in Russia for work and the % of gold digging whores is way lower in their own country. Yet, many of them even young still have a very "traditional" view of the family where the man is the only provider	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 05:49 PM
1	Why I don't think TRP works on some if not most women and why you don't need to turn to it. Well, it's a choice, you can ignore reality, continue to live in Disneyland and come back to reddit every year to tell how your ex was a bitch and left you for Chad or Stacy, or you can embrace a bit of common sense and try to understand the basics of couple psychology. The saying says "you can ignore reality, but you can't ignore the consequences of ignoring reality" If you think this is red pill then you might as well label the whole world red pill cynical bastards, because this is the reality…	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/20 10:42 PM
1	Why are women from online dating so weird? Simple. Because internet is the best marketplace for damaged goods, desperate people on the rebound, and all kind of weirdos who cannot have their shot in real life	/r/askTRP	09/05/20 09:40 PM
21	How I succeeded in dating The "league" concept is for losers You get only what you think you deserve. Most guys don't even hit on the 10s and 9s for that reason. They think they don't deserve it and generally become super oneitis pussies when they meet one. You did well approaching regardless	/r/seduction	09/05/20 07:49 PM
17	Just got dumped minutes ago by LTR. How to respond? Girl: This just isn’t working for me. You: I totally understand. I have really enjoyed our time together and best of luck to you. Then ignore her unless she contacts you and do 100% of the chasing and pursuing	/r/askTRP	09/05/20 01:27 PM
7	Never simp for women. They simp for Chad (Part 4) problem with that strategy is that 1) it's fucking disrespectful, 2) you blow up a potentially promising match Tinder should be home delivery only or a meet 2 minutes max from your place. There is too much flaking and bs to waste your precious time on commuting to meet an online date Anecdotally i approached my last LTR in the street as she was waiting for a late tinder date. I chatted with her for 15 min and exchanged contacts. She cancelled the guy and left, and instead wrote me later the same…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 12:48 AM
-1	Why I don't think TRP works on some if not most women and why you don't need to turn to it. this isn't red pill bs, this is just common sense that even your grand ma knows to keep things spiced up. Basic men / women dynamics you can find in literature dating back to centuries ago	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/20 12:31 AM
0	Why I don't think TRP works on some if not most women and why you don't need to turn to it. yes it's true. But let's face it, these people are a minority. Psychology/psychiatry are sciences that are the proof that most people "are like that". We have all unique personality features but at the end of day we are all humans and behave in very predictable ways. Jealousy is maybe too strong of a word, but you need to see your partner as a catch, someone high value that you are lucky to be with, and feel a bit of anxiety of losing her/him. Maintaining that anxiety may implies being in contac…	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/20 09:57 PM
1	Is my love language invalid? What can i say, You’re a catch!:)	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/20 09:41 PM
-4	Why I don't think TRP works on some if not most women and why you don't need to turn to it. The red pill and FDS are essentially made of incels and broken, bitter people who got out of failed relationships. They hijack very basic human psychology principles that have been in the mainstream for centuries and turn them into hateful pseudo doctrines. One thing I do agree however is that all women and men are like that. Maybe not all but 95% are. Most of us behave in similar fashion according to our attachment style and age / market value constraints. You didn’t need to wait 2020 and be re…	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/20 09:31 PM
-7	Is my love language invalid? If you want to get rid of your GF, cry in front of her. Be an emotional guy. The rare times i broke into an emotional mess in front of a GF that was it. It was just a question of weeks before she dumps my ass. I don't think my experience is anecdotic. I've read many similar cases. I guess it's female nature, when they see your tears something snap and you become a disgusting weak man in their eyes	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/20 07:54 PM
0	How do you guys get over being cheated on or played? That’s a loser mentality. It should be her turn and not yours	/r/askTRP	08/05/20 02:43 PM
1	Update: Someone please help me I don’t wanna be “incel” anymore There are approximatively 1.5 billion women between 18 and 45 yr old on earth; even you're ugly as fuck you'll find someone dude	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/20 11:46 PM
3	Update: Someone please help me I don’t wanna be “incel” anymore Congrats for the work on yourself and the realization mate If you embrace positivity and an open mind you WILL find someone	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/20 10:40 PM
1	How long until you look jacked? It depends on your body type. Are you skinny, fit, overweight. Assuming you are already kind of fit with an average frame, and know what you're doing you absolutely can get jacked in 3 months with intensive training and strict diet Full Chad body with HD abs may require more like 6 months	/r/askTRP	06/05/20 09:26 PM
0	I feel like the effect of redpill is too strong and has irreversibly changed me. I wish it could work as you describe it but it almost never works. Maybe the "upper hand" is not the right word; but reality is that there is always someone more into it in every relationship, and there is always a loser in every breakup. The idea is not to care less than the other, or be someone you are not, it is to be aware of the dynamics in the couple and work on maintaining a healthy balance of interest and leverage with your partner	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/20 09:08 PM
15	How do you deal with a girl who's constantly on their phone during the first date? It means that she has low level of interest and that you shouldn't waste another minute of your life with her Next	/r/askTRP	06/05/20 07:01 PM
0	Masturbating Our ancestors certainly jerked off, like most primates on this planet. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-reproductive_sexual_behavior_in_animals Not fapping is everything but natural. You are fighting a natural instinct with some pseudo scientific / religious bs that make your life only more complicated. But hey, good if the placebo effect works for you	/r/askTRP	06/05/20 05:15 PM
0	Masturbating Look, Whatever works for you. But Jerking off or fucking a girl or doing both everyday what's the difference from a biological standpoint? None What you guys are preaching is the same as to not having sex at all or once in a blue moon. Even the most radical religious nuts don’t do that shit. Most guys I’ve known including myself bang our women AND jerk off almost daily and we all feel fucking awesome. No need to make life more complicated	/r/askTRP	06/05/20 05:08 PM
2	Masturbating Of course they did; even fucking monkeys do. But you're missing the point	/r/askTRP	06/05/20 04:49 PM
-2	Masturbating Why do you care so much about what other people do with their junks? Do whatever the f you want but don't come here with pseudo scientific facts that hold no ground trying to justify yourself. Just use google and read some real science	/r/askTRP	06/05/20 02:44 PM
-2	I feel like the effect of redpill is too strong and has irreversibly changed me. It’s not about platting, or degrading women. You don’t need to become a cynical bastard The end game is to rationally understand women and master relationships so you can have a fulfilling life with her and keep the upper hand. You want to be proactive and alert, and not just blindly suffer the consequences of things you could have prevented At the end of the day, nobody’s perfect and maybe you’ll lose someone you really loved even if you do everything right. But the idea is to make more things …	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/20 01:57 PM
4	[Serious] Friend tried to AMOG me in front of one of my plates, but instead she turned him dow by defending me. Have never been in an LTR before so wondering if I should promote her ? You never talk a girl into a relationship. It has to be 100% her idea. She has to bring up the conversation	/r/askTRP	06/05/20 01:29 PM
1	Masturbating Try again with some scientific facts fucktard	/r/askTRP	06/05/20 11:13 AM
14	Nearly all men think women are idiots but they learn to shutup Confirm this 2000x Never saw any difference with a 20 yr old and 35 yr old beside the younger ones having much more stamina, better body and being obviously less jaded by past negative experiences It really makes me laugh my ass off when women my age ask me what i’m doing with younger girls	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 10:03 AM
1	Masturbating No fap is utter bullshit. not backed by any science. As a matter of fact science says you should jerk off almost daily to maintain your junks, avoid prostate cancer, and level your stress if you dont have a partner	/r/askTRP	06/05/20 09:25 AM
2	the red pill is so fucking cringey lmao you can take advantage of preselection by posting photos of her on your social media before you break up this Always show off your 9s and 10s on your iG. No kisses and neutral pics so you don't have to delete when you break up. This is why photographers bang so much. Of course they get to meet many models, but these guys have their SM profile full of hot girls which gives social proof and an irresistible pimp vibe that women love. Once i read something like this "Women don't pursue attractive me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 12:11 AM
2	the red pill is so fucking cringey lmao IG and private parties... so beta The real deal is old school street hustling, even with a coronavirus mask There is nothing like bringing back home a hottie from whole foods with that bottle of wine you just bought	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 11:57 PM
1	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it The bad boy approach, RSD shits, negging etc... It only works with fucked up / toxic women. An utter waste of time. Even if it's just a one time lay, you want a woman who got her shit together. And normal women want nice guys. They don't want pleasers and betas, but good caring men who are mysterious and not too available. Game is an extremely over ratted concept, a marketing ploy to take advantage of desperate dudes. It's not rocket science. You don't have to be a super assertive mega Chad. A g…	/r/seduction	05/05/20 09:30 PM
12	Men in your 40s - if you can turn back time, what do you wish you knew in your 30s? Based on my own observations and the collective feedback of my peers yes. Assuming you are not ugly, lifting and taking good care of yourself you have no competition at 40. You are at the top of the food chain. Prime LTR material for any kind of woman. Here are my assumptions: you are seen as a mature man who got experience and supposedly his shits together single, fit and handsome men in their 40s are few and far between, and scarcity drives value. good looking 40 yr old guys are generally cons…	/r/askTRP	05/05/20 06:46 PM
14	Men in your 40s - if you can turn back time, what do you wish you knew in your 30s? The 40s... best years to bang 20 something girls	/r/askTRP	05/05/20 12:32 PM
3	Anyone else always beta out of relationships intentionally? Statistically, the large majority of divorces are initiated by women. I believe it is because men are much more inclined to complacency and enduring mediocre relationships than women. It all comes down to the fact that the average woman has much manier options on her plate just being passive than the average dude who must proactively hunt for women and invest substantial ressources to make it happen. The dudes therefore have more incentive to be lazy and stay in half assed relationships just for…	/r/askTRP	03/05/20 12:21 PM
-1	Anyone else always beta out of relationships intentionally? Don’t assume it’s going to last forever lol. Also i’m not sure it works with a 10 in her 20s	/r/askTRP	03/05/20 10:49 AM
5	Are eastern European women different? Eastern europe is more traditional than western countries. In most EE countries if a girl isn’t married at 25 there is something wrong with her. That’s what i’ve noticed in russia and the baltics. Many very young folks are married with kids. But when they move to the US they blend in and jump on the cock carrousel until their thirties	/r/askTRP	02/05/20 10:37 PM
2	Women and conversations. Why do they not initiate conversation after I dread them or don’t reward bad behaviour? Dating apps are heavily skewed against men. There are tons of legit studies about this topic if you google search. Every 5 on tinder has dozens of chads ready to fuck them, so don’t even wonder why dread doesn’t work	/r/askTRP	02/05/20 09:10 PM
2	Past mistake Had the same problem. I just ignored and showed her i’m not interested in this shit. Problem here is that it can be a shit test when you are starting to date but later in the relationship it can mean that you are not paying attention and that she feels unloved. I didn’t manage these problems correctly and the relationship collapsed. If i had another shot and could do things differently i would just be straight to the point and either ask her if something is bothering her or i would ignore but pa…	/r/askTRP	02/05/20 08:38 PM
1	Ltr has got me wondering if I should Break up with her or not. It’s not clear what’s the problem here? Are you guys fighting over jealousy issues? I had the same situation with an ex. I pushed the jealousy button too far and it blew up in my face. The problem here is not the girls chasing you but likely that she feels not special and unloved. You must show her with actions and words that you care. Take her to dates and tell her she’s special and shouldn’t worry about the other girls. If a woman knows you care and have her dose of attention she wont complain…	/r/askTRP	02/05/20 07:41 PM
3	I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 Month Great story man. You can be proud of yourself! My 2 cent here is to not limit yourself to low quality women. You see, the limit is only in your mind and you only get what you think you deserve. For many years i used to date 7s because i felt i couldn’t get better. Had a loser mentality. One day i snapped and said fuck that i deserve the hottest women on earth. From that day i only dated 9+. How? Just by mass approaching 9+ rather than wasting my time with low quality women. Yes you must hit the …	/r/seduction	02/05/20 06:06 PM
1	How do you maintain the "abundance mentality" in a committed relationship? That’s what i did, i kept my head in the sand and ignored her shit tests and the constant pounding of the orbiters, i tried to keep my frame but ultimately no one is superman. We have up and downs. I went through a depressing winter working my ass off 16 hours a day on a new business and consequently not seeing her much, and not having time to work out or see friends. That was enough for her to call it off and give a shot to one of her orbiters	/r/askTRP	02/05/20 02:15 PM
-4	The Power Of Teasing - Building Major Sexual Desire In Women ...men who are sweet and predictable get dumped	/r/seduction	02/05/20 06:42 AM