| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 46 | A Dating Tip of Mine | Fundamentals | whip-in-hand1 | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 02:26 PM |
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| 1 | why is the man supposed to or meant to "take" the woman? Why is taking what you part, part of masculinity?I don’t, no 😂 it sounds somewhat reductionist, and not remotely relatable to modern day interactions | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 10:19 PM |
| 5 | why is the man supposed to or meant to "take" the woman? Why is taking what you part, part of masculinity?It’s an outdated concept, certainly, dating back to even before our grandparents generation. It’s lessened nowadays, however, with the media depicting the way men “should be” and what women “should” find “attractive” in a man, it’s unlikely to change. Most women also find confidence attractive in a man (why? Who can say?) and that perhaps is where this notion of “taking what you want” is supported | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 10:14 PM |
| 17 | I’m starting to give upIf you’ve been left on read for 5 weeks, that already should tell you that she isn’t interested. Going to her Instagram after that is at best desperate and at worst (not to sugarcoat it) stalker-like. My advice is to move on and find a girl actually interested in you. Also, if any of your other social media names is the same as your Reddit, then you might consider changing it. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 10:22 PM |
| 7 | Girls Hate my gutsEasy kid, it sounds like you’re approaching “nice guy” levels with this line of thinking. Getting angry that girls won’t talk to you makes you sound horribly entitled, and you’d do well to fix that mindset before approaching or dm-ing anyone. In terms of advice, firstly, try to stop referring to women as “females”. While some might not mind it, the vast majority I’ve met find it offensive. Secondly, from what you’ve said, I will say that it sounds like you come off too strong. Desperation isn’t … | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 04:30 AM |
| 1461 | What’s your biggest piece of sex advice?A few pieces of advice. Note that it doesn’t work for every woman, but I would say most. If unsure, always ask. Rules of Sex: -The G-spot is located 2-3 inches inside and upwards towards the belly-button. Slide your fingers inside, make an upwards, rubbing “come here” gesture with them, and a soft bump should tell you where the g-spot is. -Women are generally insecure/anxious about how their breasts and vagina look. Complimenting those helps to relax them and let’s them enjoy themselves more. -W… | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 10:05 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]If she has a boyfriend, then I would say move on and find someone else who is single | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 12:30 AM |
| 20 | [deleted by user]If she already has a boyfriend, then I would say to leave her and find someone else | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 03:27 AM |
| 20 | Getting friendzoned all the timeI would say that it doesn’t sound like she’s interested. You might consider giving up on her and move on to someone a little more promising | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 02:14 AM |
| 8 | Made my first approach today, and I fucked it up.If you panic remember the 5 W’s, ask her the where, when, why, who and what of whatever topic you’re talking about | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 01:51 AM |
| 2 | I need help about this girlI would say no. In the first place, ghosting someone isn’t exactly a mature reaction to them asking you out, you really might want to reevaluate how much you’d like to date her. Aside from that, as harsh as it may sound, it does seem like that ghosting was a straight answer as to whether or not she was interested. If you go and try to start a conversation, she likely won’t have a high opinion of you, and also, if will likely be quite awkward for her. So no, I wouldn’t say strike up a conversatio… | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 08:19 PM |
| 4 | How do I learn to make someone like me? I’m only 12.I’d say you’re much, much too young to be worrying about this, but if you’re planning for the future (18+ here, I’m assuming)something you can do now is join a gymnastics, running, martial arts or ballet club. Men are visual creatures, and having a good physique goes a long way towards attracting them. Those sports listen above help you a lot in terms of gaining a good physique. | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 01:37 PM |
| 6 | Graduating university a virgin. Legit beginning to panic here...Do you not have the option to do a Masters degree? | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 06:08 PM |
| 11 | How do I be more confident around women?You’re too much in your own head, worrying about what could go wrong. The only thing you should be thinking about when you encounter an attractive woman is finding out things about her. Ask a question. Keep the focus on her, her interests, aspirations, history etc. And stop worrying too much about how she’ll perceive you. | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 03:13 AM |
| -5 | I enjoy talking to women. But when guys are with us, it’s excruciating.You accept the jab, laugh at it, (something like “Well, that’s true”) and then continue with something that praises yourself, “But at least I’m acing XYZ” (whatever it is you’re skilled at)This isn’t an attack on them (that will make you look petty), it’s showing that you can shrug off their insults and demonstrating that you’re confident in what you can do. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Urgent“I’ll do my best to fulfil your needs 😏” | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 09:17 PM |
| 10 | Is it OK to flirt with friends of a girl who friend zoned me?It’s not creepy, but I’m about 99% certain that the girl who friendzoned you will MAKE SURE that this new girl knows that you had a crush on her first. I’m not entirely sure why it happens that way, but it has almost always happened that way for me. And that can result in the new girl feeling like she’s the “second choice” and it won’t work out . | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Starting a convo and keeping it aliveTry the 5 W’s Whatever topic you’re on, you can always ask the What, where, when, why and who of whatever it is she’s talking about. Keep the convo focussed on her- people love to talk about themselves. | /r/seduction | 08/10/20 02:30 AM |
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