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I am so sorry to hear that you have experienced so much loss, pain and loneliness this last year. Whether you go out for New Year's or not I just want to congratulate you on surviving all that shit and know that it's all making you strong as fuck for the next year ahead. I hope things get better for you, and I would encourage you to hold onto that hope. The sun goes down on every bad day. I truly wish good things for your days ahead.
/r/seduction28/12/16 06:49 AM
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I don't think so, I might come off as a little nervous but I act kinda playful and teasingly with him and in general with most other guys... So it's hard to signal to him specific interest because that's my personality anyways? That's why I need to be better at kino, otherwise it's just regular banter for us plus some hugging...
/r/seduction20/12/16 07:03 PM
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I know, I am clearly into his hugs, but I don't know if that's enough? I want to kino him back but how do I do anything after the initial hello hug, it always either falls into "how are we both doing" or playful teasing. What are some ways I can kino in this?
/r/seduction20/12/16 06:41 AM
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We are both early/mid twenties but the issue is we both are looking for serious relationships, and I think he is super aware of not ruining our friendship unless it's confirmed. I'm okay with the pace things are at for now, I just wanna give him a few more hints to make him comfortable, and also I really enjoy hugging/physical contact with him :) thanks for the advice much appreciated!
/r/seduction20/12/16 06:38 AM
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This is great advice, especially the line about having more time to talk! I know we are both looking for kind of a serious relationship which is cool but it's probably going to take time for us to actually get together... Sigh. I think he does like me though at least. I just want more of dem sweet sweet touch moments cause they are awesome and I can't get enough. Being playful sounds great, and I think he'd respond well to that huhuhuh
/r/seduction20/12/16 06:33 AM
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In group settings, so like hanging out with our other friends and going to various events/social gatherings with them. We talk one on one often but it's for like 5-10 minutes at a time, we are both good friends with everyone else so we get interrupted a looooot.
/r/seduction20/12/16 02:19 AM
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Any advice on a good excuse to touch him aside from a goodbye/hello hug? I'm not needy I swear >_>
/r/seduction20/12/16 02:12 AM
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My only reservation is that I don't want to seem too clingy or needy, but I love his hugs/touching him lol so I just want more of that... So any excuse to touch is helpful haha
/r/seduction20/12/16 02:10 AM
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Tbh if it was up to me I'd jump him and cuddle the shit outta him next time I see him but considering I am unsure of his feelings and we are always with friends I feel like this wouldn't come across too good
/r/seduction20/12/16 12:38 AM
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White girl here that loves Asian boys (well hot Asian boys). Trust me there's a good appreciation out there for you. I know a lot of Kpop obsessed white girls (not me). I only realized my love for Asian guys when I saw that my instagram feed was full of Asian male actors/musicians, such an "aha" moment.
/r/seduction08/11/16 07:58 AM
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Honest answer it's better if you don't. As a girl there are for me three types of dancing I might encounter. 1) Club Dancing: I can barely hear you and all I'm thinking about is whether my dancing is good or not, and how to avoid your awkward reactionary facial expressions mid dance. I'm bored and the music is bad. 2) Waltzing type dancing/formal dance with strangers. My hands are sweaty, you are moving really awkwardly, don't know what to say as we are both focusing on getting it right, or foll…
/r/seduction30/10/16 12:20 AM
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Noooo this creeps me out when people attach themselves like that. It might work with guys but never with a group of girls
/r/seduction29/09/16 08:03 AM
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Watch crazy stupid love
/r/seduction29/09/16 08:02 AM
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Europe isn't a country, and the UK has a really different culture from the rest of Europe (or did), for example I couldn't see dating working the same in Scandinavia as it does in England, the cultural attitudes are too different.
/r/seduction01/08/16 01:11 AM
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As a girl when I am dancing with my back to you it's a very VERY clear sign of me not wanting to dance with you, aka turning the other way. This can be brought on by eye contact or an attempt to initiate flirting, and the tap on the back is not sexy fun or comfortable even it just feels aggressive and weird. Honestly if a girl has her back to you cut your losses and bop out of there son
/r/seduction01/08/16 01:05 AM
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I also am super interested in music and I have a hard time not looking judgemental to guys who are into shit house remixes. If people ask what music I'm into and I don't know if they have a similar vibe to me or not, I tend to add "But really I can appreciate good music despite the genre, even if it's not something I'm that into myself". Everyone thinks their music is the best going in it's category so they automatically feel like you accepted it, and that you complimented their taste (even when…
/r/seduction27/07/16 02:44 AM
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This is true 9/10 times if a guy approaches me in a respectful way, even if he is shorter than me (and honestly less likely for me to go for), it is still flattering and a good thing to receive so I don't particularly mind as long as they take rejection well. The worst thing is having mutual attraction with a tall guy who can't buckle up enough courage to get off his ass and talk to me. I may be taller than other girls but it doesn't mean I have to initiate everything!
/r/seduction17/07/16 12:54 AM
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Lol no he's 21. He's very into committed relationships and basically is a hopeless romantic, not great sometimes for him. And I don't think anyone got zoned we just became really close friends and didn't address it, he's a great guy despite his vulnerabilities!
/r/seduction10/07/16 01:23 AM
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I've been both a brunette and a blonde. One thing that I've noticed that has changed in how guys approach me is that I often get "hey blondie", "sup blondie" from guys now, which doesn't really have a brunette equivalent, so I never had that before. It's really annoying and makes me more pissed off at guys approaching in general (at times). Obviously this is just me though and not all girls will feel this way/experience this
/r/seduction09/07/16 12:01 PM
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Yeah Tinder is a little unreliable because people might not really use it at all much or check it often... I'd say that messaging her that recently you've still got a chance, but also she might just feel like she doesn't know you enough, I'd advise somehow hanging out with her in a larger group if you can? She might be more at ease if she realizes you have a lot of friends in common
/r/seduction09/07/16 10:35 AM
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Imagine the shitstorm
/r/seduction09/07/16 10:31 AM
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Hey, I think my point here was more that there are shit people who will lie to you about their levels if commitment and feelings towards you to manipulate and use you in a much more temporary way. It's not a female/male specific thing but in the case I present it was a female example.
/r/seduction09/07/16 03:51 AM
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Yeah I think communication is so important here! If you have certain expectations of a relationship, man or woman, it's a really good idea to express these early on so things don get out of hand. For example just defining what you are, a couple, a FWB deal, a fling, helps put to rest any wildly different expectation. My friend actually did do this and basically the girl screwed him over by lying about her intention. It happens but hopefully with honest and decent people this shouldn't be a probl…
/r/seduction09/07/16 03:48 AM
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I totally agree with what you are saying, trust me I haven't pulled this shit in YEARS and I don't plan to ever again. At the time I was really fucking clueless to the consequences of what seemed like an innocent bit of fun. I hurt people and it was awful. I am not that girl anymore and I have no desire to ever be again, so don't worry about me!
/r/seduction09/07/16 03:43 AM
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Girls do this because it makes them feel good about themselves, like if you have someone that's into you, instead of shutting them down like "sorry I'm not into that", you continually flirt with them enough to keep the interest coming, and to keep the ego boost coming. Like having sex with someone you don't really care about in return for them telling you that you're beautiful and perfect for some girls is worth the trade. It's really not okay though. I used to be this way and it really damaged …
/r/seduction08/07/16 11:29 AM
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My bad! I think you don't get the situation, but that's okay. She was never interested in maintaining a relationship but led him on anyway, purely because she liked his flattery. My friend has like her for a long time and he was catious in terms of going in but when the girl of your dreams is telling you she loves you and shit you aren't like "sorry I'm not fragile", it's okay for a guy to want a long term relationship and get upset that he has been lied to and used. Guys can be fucking fragile …
/r/seduction08/07/16 11:25 AM
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This coco nuts bananas. Like wow talk about forward. Ask her if she is being serious, and if not then lol but if she is, say maybe you could try or if you don't want to leave it. Honestly if all she cares about is the sex and not who you actually are then I don't think she likes you enough/is looking for the same thing. Good luck tho.
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:57 AM
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Think she means like keep on pushing the relationship to develop, but that's kind of what he did and he reciprocated until the max point of being like "actually I'm not into you" so it just crushed him harder tbh
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:45 AM
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He will, he's taking this in the right way. I am just so pissed at this girl, and I don't want anyone else to fall for these witches. Heartbreak is a part of life but playing with other people's emotions... Nobody should have to deal with that shit.
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:41 AM
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Mate if I tell him to "man up" I'm the girl responsible for all those guys who say they can't talk to anyone or express emotion and feeling. I don't care if he wants to cry on me he is a wonderful human and I'll let him. And she played him some real emotional bullshit, if girls like that weren't around he'd be fine. He's definitely taking this as a learning experience though. Proud of the way he's dealing with it ngl.
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:38 AM
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Sympathy fucking is interesting lol. Sorry about your breakup though!
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:35 AM
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Sad truth that commitment is a dangerous game bro.
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:35 AM
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Haha I did tell her. She basically responded like "it's not a big deal" and thinks I'm being overly critical. I don't think this friendship will mend anytime soon tbh, too busy comforting my buddy :(
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:34 AM
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She was basically very full on and expressed lots of commitment and lovey dovey shit then just dropped him because she didn't actually care the whole time and wanted him because he made her feel good about herself by being an attentive guy :/
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:32 AM
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Yeah, I'm not the one doing this anymore (I have done in the past) because I realized that it was so shitty for guys. It ruined a lot of good friendships that I thought I could just play with. I really regret that. The worst part is that she is okay with doing this over and over. I think a lot of guys in my experience have been stung by girls like this, and it sucks because some of them have a really hard time committing/trusting now.
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:29 AM
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Yeah they hooked up a few times, but he saw it as an escalation I think, and she basically acted very full on like "you are the one" bullshit then just turned around like "actually I'm not really into you I just like the attention you give me". He is a very selfless and investing guy, and I'm not saying guys shouldn't be into their girls that much, but there are girls like this out there that will leave you feeling used and stupid, and they won't care. They exist unfortunately so just be on the …
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:23 AM
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I think the latter option applies :(
/r/seduction08/07/16 03:21 AM
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Sorry, I feel like I didn't explain properly what happened! Basically she intentionally led him on to a place of explicitly flirting/hooking up with him then just drops him like a fly because she wasn't actually interested in him at all this whole time. He's a really committed guy and I think he genuinely thought she and him were about to become super serious, he really liked her. Kept saying how much better she is than girls he's previously dated, really expected this to turn out amazingly. I t…
/r/seduction08/07/16 03:21 AM
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I can only answer this as a straight girl. I've been on dates where the guy just kind of doesn't leave, and it's awkward. I have to make up some excuse usually to go, and it leaves me feeling like I want to go, aka it was a bad date. Basically you should genuinely have a task lined up to do later that evening if it's a day thing. For example, if you have a lunch date at 12, I'd say have an hour in general minimum, so have something you could use as an excuse to go do at 1pm, ie, I am going to th…
/r/seduction08/07/16 02:14 AM
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True, but don't be willing to change for a girl. Be willing to change for yourself.
/r/seduction08/07/16 01:58 AM
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Just to say, being a "nice guy" is different from being actually a nice guy. You can be a cool human being and still get girls. Just don't be willing to change for them, ie don't be willing to change how much you spend on dates on them, don't be willing to change your interests, hobbies, gas bill, music taste, dress sense, favorite foods... You can be as kind and sweet as you like (please go ahead!) but make sure you have that no card in your pocket, and when the time comes, hold it firmly to th…
/r/seduction08/07/16 12:52 AM
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"Relationships are female territory" what the heck does that mean? I know plenty of people male and female who are only down for casual hookups. And vice versa. "That's weak behavior" Nope, it's respectful behavior. Yes give her a kiss if it's clear that you both would enjoy that, and had a good time together, but if the date seemed like she wasn't interested romantically, don't do that. It's unpleasant and incredibly awkward. Aside from that your advice is pretty sound.
/r/seduction05/07/16 01:18 PM
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Different girls use different things, the same as guys. I would say that if she hasn't text you back in a length of days, it indicates that she isn't really interested. Personally, if I am interested I will either reply straight away or if I'm busy then maximum a couple hours later. Some girls wait for a few hours to kind of play it cool and not needy, depends on the person.
/r/seduction05/07/16 01:14 PM
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Yes I have totally experienced this! I worked with young people who didn't speak English and vice versa, and I found humor to be major part of helping them feel connected and relaxed. Body language is a huge thing, reacting to situations with overly exaggerated responses, general noises like "oh" "AHhh" gasping, showing feedback like that indicates you are interested in what they are showing you. Facial expressions are everything, timing and humor gets you so far. Also use the words you know, it…
/r/seduction05/07/16 01:11 PM
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Not really near enough and I'm a girl, just kind of curious. This sounds like the start of Crazy Stupid Love?
/r/seduction03/07/16 10:36 PM
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What do you get out of this?
/r/seduction03/07/16 03:18 AM
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This is v helpful
/r/seduction02/07/16 11:10 PM
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Yeah they just nervously quake go red and stutter :/ probably just gonna look somewhere else honestly!
/r/seduction02/07/16 11:04 PM
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Do it! You'll never feel more in control of everything than that moment you realize your legs are your own :)
/r/seduction02/07/16 08:07 PM
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Thanks! One thing I never get is physical contact... I see it on here a lot as "an indicator she likes you" but I honestly would only do this to a random person if it was 2am and I was very drunk in a bar. I've never seen a girl do this in an everyday circumstance and it not look weird as heck... Like except hugging/shaking hands/high five what exactly is the contact that you mean? Touching a guys leg is not advice I will follow tbh
/r/seduction02/07/16 07:52 PM
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Did all these things and trust me there's some dudes out there who are too scared to approach anything with a vagina, despite the fact they have a great résumé. Some guys really need to grow some balls.
/r/seduction02/07/16 07:48 PM
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Dude this is how you fix that; start doing interesting stuff. Have you seen the film Yes Man? Say yes to more stuff, don't think about it. For example, I recently crashed a motorbike (minorly) and got a slightly scratched up knee, cool story, and when I booked the bike I KNEW it was a bad idea, but hey it was something to experience. You can literally start this right now. Go to a cafe/resteraunt by yourself, order something you've never tried before. Go on a walk, go find a homeless man, buy hi…
/r/seduction02/07/16 01:27 PM
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Sloths are the saddest
/r/seduction01/07/16 12:01 PM
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This advice is so helpful! And Thankyou for the wording appreciation haha. The best part is he actually does have weirdly shaped ears, now that I consider it. I think he's only so intimidating to me because I totally put him on a pedestal and I need to dismantle that ASAP. Everytime I fuckup around him- ears ears EARS
/r/seduction01/07/16 11:58 AM
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Thanks for the input!
/r/seduction30/06/16 08:13 AM
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When you approach that first girl, no matter how badly she rejects you, that is the moment your freedom begins my friend. That is when you realize the truth that kills a thousand romances- rejection isn't that bad.
/r/seduction30/06/16 12:46 AM
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THIS IS INCREDIBLE
/r/seduction30/06/16 12:43 AM
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One of my friends is a super awkward sloth around new people, and he tried to fix this by using the old "alcohol courage", however, this lead to him getting inappropriately drunk a LOT (we got kicked out of places, he got sent home early many times) because he panicked and thought he was too lame as sober sloth. DON'T get into that mindset. On the other hand, alcohol basically confuses your judgement of visual symmetry therefore you think people are a lot more attractive than they usually are wh…
/r/seduction30/06/16 12:41 AM
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Probs church.
/r/seduction30/06/16 12:12 AM
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Trust me, being not a douchebag is way easier than you think. Just be aware of how you come across and if you are respecting the girl's decisions and space or not. Also a lot of being a douchebag is escalating the situation far too quickly, and being unattractive to the girl and persistent.
/r/seduction10/06/16 11:30 PM
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Ehhhh if a guy says "where's your boyfriend at?" That just gives me kind of contrived douchebag vibes, like he would make a move even if I had a boyfriend, as long as they weren't present, and that to me is like hella disrespectful. Obviously it would work with some girls but it's really not a safe card to play.
/r/seduction10/06/16 11:08 PM
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As a girl a few times before when I've met guys they've asked me straight up "Do you have a boyfriend?" And it's not a turn off. It lets me know that they are interested in me even if a little bit, and it's kind of a compliment. Though I have to admit it's more awkward if it's someone you see or will see regularly. It's more the kind of thing I would expect at a bar. One time I was just chillin with a drink and this guy walks up; Him; Excuse me, Hi! taps my shoulder Do you have a boyfriend? Me; …
/r/seduction10/06/16 05:07 PM
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A big part of smiling is how you express with your eyes. Think big smile and wide intense eyes with a straight brow- CREEPY Think big smile with crinkled up eyes and eyebrows raised slightly/relaxed- Nice. Honestly I had problems smiling with my teeth and not forcing the smile to be closed, meaning that I would force the smile to be closed most of the time until I REALLY smile by accident and it's this giant foolish mess. Just relax you mouth muscles, let your lips naturally fall apart and the c…
/r/seduction09/06/16 10:56 PM
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Haha I've definitely come on too strong to a guy before in a cringey way because of alcohol. Honestly my go to response is to just say "I don't remember any of that" then you don't have to deal with the consequences as much of people reminding you and shaming you. Hey they will probably get over it soon anyway. Most people have been horny drunk idiots at some points. Just don't do it again I would advise a less intense approach!
/r/seduction09/06/16 10:50 PM
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Aw that's really a shame that you guys didn't get together. However if I'm really really into a guy even if he comes on too strong or really fucks up I will still be into him, so I don't think she was that into you. Having said that, don't worry too much about it, people can have many complicated reasons for acting certain ways and it was a learning experience. You take what lessons you can from it and move on. From all the threads here about beautiful girls and how much all you guys are crushin…
/r/seduction09/06/16 10:47 PM
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Generally speaking; Ripped abs- Attractive bonus Normal body weight- Not a problem Overweight- Not helping your game All of these things are not definitive of whether a person is attractive or not, and it's a combination of personality, chemistry, similarities, expectations, intelligence, humor. However it doesn't hurt to be healthy. I've never heard a girl complain that her date was in good shape. I've heard them complain that they weren't.
/r/seduction09/06/16 10:38 PM
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