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Inner Game whoischigozie/r/seduction08/10/24 10:50 AM
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I saved this comment.
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:51 AM
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I get where you are coming from, respectfully—I don’t know if what you say is based off media consumption or derived from personal experience. I’m not the most handsome man in the world, but I have dated my fair share of very attractive women and I didn’t do the whole “ignore her, and talk to her friend” gig, would that work? Sure. But I believe that confidence, physical appearance and having a direction in life is more than enough to separate you from most guys and to gain her attention. Finall…
/r/seduction24/10/25 04:46 PM
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A tad bit dehumanising mate and assumes that all “attractive” women are the same
/r/seduction24/10/25 12:32 PM
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Just ask her out and if she doesn’t seem interested in that idea then move on. It could be that she genuinely doesn’t like to text, and therefore carefully escalating can be a good way to overcome her lack of texting
/r/seduction15/03/25 08:28 AM
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Praise the Lord
/r/seduction26/02/25 06:05 AM
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The point is that men get down on one knee and ask for a hand in marriage, essentially offering security, comfort and the chance to start a family.
/r/seduction19/01/25 08:50 AM
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Okay Myron
/r/seduction03/11/24 05:30 PM
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Change the narrative you have with yourself, entertain the thoughts you want to think and discard the ones you don’t need
/r/seduction23/10/24 09:57 PM
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Wait a few days and then respond by saying did you get kidnapped? this is a sure fire way to get a response whilst showing that you’re not too bothered by the silence. After you reinitiate, you should escalate to seeing her in person. DO NOT needlessly text her because then you’ll dry her walls up. Ask her out after
/r/seduction12/10/24 11:39 AM
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Just let it be. This is what’s known as a shit test. Learn to be okay with not always getting the kind of response you would like with a woman you’re interested in. The fact that you’re writing this post and worried about her responding back, shows way too much up front interest. Scale it back, you should only be showing this level of interest and engagement after at least 6 months of dating. Focus on yourself, go to the gym, work on a hobby, meet with friends or just text someone else. Don’t ge…
/r/seduction12/10/24 11:37 AM
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Good things come to those who wait ;)
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:47 AM
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You said it very well, the issue was the framing and the context. As I’ve said in another thread, because she’s approaching dating with the intention of the castle in the sky and riding off into the sunset, I think after we connected and I ticked her boxes, she was like “yup we in a relationship now” whereas I was like “okay cool, let’s see where this goes, I could see myself eventually settling down with her” once of course I know what I’m getting myself into. Once I answered truthfully, I thin…
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:28 AM
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So don’t adhere to her terms and conditions? 😂
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:23 AM
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Well, to be honest I didn’t want to nor expect to have such a relationship defining conversation so early on. I told her that I’m interested in getting to know her, seeing where this goes and building a solid foundation. You make it seem very black and white, but it’s been my experience that when I’m dating a woman and she wants exclusivity straight away, it’s good reason to pause and take things slower and do diligent research, and see if the connection is strong and authentic. Sorry if I come …
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:22 AM
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I see where you’re coming from. It’s really a game of chess isn’t it? With the other side trying to checkmate the other. On the point of going to her place, I did drop her off and we did spend time together, which was really nice but it was still during the day and she had to go and pick her kid up, so I don’t really think it was the time and place to, you know? Anyway, I’ve decided that I showed my cards already, I was honest and genuine, maybe a little too honest and now I’m going to take a st…
/r/seduction08/10/24 05:44 PM
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Not quite, my point is the following and I should preface it by saying that obviously there are exceptions to the rule; modern women define dating as seeing someone (in a committed manner, with sexual exclusivity) whereas I would argue that most men would define this as being in a relationship. It would make sense if some women have this mindset because it aligns with their agenda, find the best option and build with him. Game for guys is either to stay non-monogamous or transition from non mono…
/r/seduction08/10/24 01:44 PM
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Well I liked her, I found her very attractive and just had an intuitive sense that we would connect. It wasn’t justified initially but honestly during the first couple of dates, the chemistry was really amazing. I will leave her be and if she doesn’t reach out, well, so it is.
/r/seduction08/10/24 01:13 PM
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You a savage bruh 😂
/r/seduction08/10/24 01:11 PM
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The definition of dating versus being in a relationship.
/r/seduction08/10/24 01:11 PM
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Bingo. This is a key point - I think that modern women approach dating and relationships very differently. What a modern woman would consider dating is actually a relationship and there’s no shade in that but it needs to be communicated. And it needs to be communicated verbally, not via this “you should just get it” attitude
/r/seduction08/10/24 11:48 AM
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More specifically on the ultimatum and folding, wouldn’t I lose a lot of frame if I fold? I get the sense that if I do fold, attraction would fold too because essentially I’m communicating you tell me to jump, I say how high, which is never a good position to be in.
/r/seduction08/10/24 11:46 AM
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She’s a baddie tho (like actually bad bad) and tho I’m no strangers to being with baddies, the connection beyond the physical was very strong, I feel as tho the basis of our connection could be a stable and offer genuine care/love. But sadly, once romantic feelings become involved, this transactional, symmetrical dynamic comes to play and it’s quite frankly annoying. But it is what it is
/r/seduction08/10/24 11:45 AM
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Could you be more specific - I could tell after the 2nd date (same day) she was more receptive to physical contact, which was nice but I didn’t want to force the issue. We did end up kissing (she initiated) that night, 2nd date, she was very touchy, feely and close which is of course nice and what I wanted but I approached it cautiously because I know how quickly feelings can change with more information. Needless to say, I felt as tho I always returned her energy authentically. But maybe she in…
/r/seduction08/10/24 11:42 AM
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I agree with you that the best option is to either deflect or just be honest, question is how to deal with an ultimatum, or a deal that’s not really in your favour
/r/seduction08/10/24 11:36 AM
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How?
/r/seduction08/10/24 11:33 AM
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Justifiable so, she’s a 29F with a child and likely history of dealing with men with dark triad tendencies. It sucks that I understand her game fully, but I don’t endorse it. I don’t think it’s fair to be bombarded by relationship initiating questions on the 3rd date, nor do I think it’s fair to ask me to make such a monumental decision without really displaying much value to me other than intimacy, interest and good looks. Let me cut to the chase - should I continue doing me and just tell her w…
/r/seduction08/10/24 11:31 AM
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While I do agree with you, the impression I got is that she does want to pedestalised. ie case in point, her pulling away because she found out that I’m not just seeing her. Her definition of dating is giving sexual exclusivity and commitment to one woman, while I would define that as a relationship. I do not want to lie to her but at the same time I don’t want to be played. It seems as if she’s asking for up front value, so that she can feel safe and comfortable and in doing so, wants me to put…
/r/seduction08/10/24 11:22 AM
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I have a unique situation. I matched with [let’s call her] Sarah a few months ago and we got off to a decent start, before I set up a date. She flaked, and then after some time had passed, said she was seeing someone else and I just left it. Fast forward to a few weeks ago, I reinitiated contact but this time more concise, I called her, we had a really nice conversation and I ended by asking her out, she obliged and I could tell & feel that her interest level was high again. 1st date went well e…
/r/seduction08/10/24 10:47 AM
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Read books on how to build healthy relationships Think about what the man of your dreams would want from a woman Go to the gym Practice mindfulness Write down your intention on a piece of paper and every morning/night, think about your wish in a calm and relaxed manner
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/22 10:50 AM
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With respect
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:07 AM
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Of course not! We really need to move away from this archaic perspective of masculinity. This idea that men aren’t supposed to cry, rest, be vulnerable and be emotionally expressive. It’s literally killing and causing depression in men.
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:55 AM
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Think of her as your wing girl
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:26 AM
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