whoooocarez Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	I might lose my job because of women. How old are you? I’ve been working for half of my life (I’m 34). Yes, the workplace sucks.	/r/MGTOW	11/12/19 04:14 AM
2	I might lose my job because of women. Sounds really annoying. Sorry.	/r/MGTOW	11/12/19 04:10 AM
21	I might lose my job because of women. Sounds like a toxic workplace. Keep networking/applying/looking for other opportunities and just keep your head down in the meantime. You’ll get through it.	/r/MGTOW	11/12/19 04:02 AM
36	I might lose my job because of women. Office politics are real and insidious. Unfortunately, being able to navigate the complex web of bullshit is often just as important in the work setting as being able to handle your business, if not more so. I understand your not wanting to deal with unsavory characters, but you still have to play nice and be a team player (or at least act like one) if you want to keep the job.	/r/MGTOW	11/12/19 03:53 AM
23	FDS-Inspired Work Tactics? The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene is a great place to start in terms of strategy. (Which, of course, can be applied to all facets of life.)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/19 03:46 AM
69	Does this deserve a response? Never met this guy - from hinge. Am I being sensitive thinking this is too forward? Wow, beer and a chance to make out with him!? What a prince. Lol. Hard pass.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/19 02:28 AM
12	Don't be the Girl Who Settles for an Almost Relationship I’ve never had a problem being courted by men who pay, hold doors, initiate communication, maintain consistency, and move the relationship forward. Whether every other box is checked is another conversation! Lol. But - point being - it is certainly possible to be treated like a Queen. 👑	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/19 01:01 AM
14	I saw this on Facebook, and it makes me upset. These dudes are literally relying on a woman being broken to even stand a chance with her. awful	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/19 12:54 AM
49	Cringe vocab choice Females.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 10:10 PM
15	This guy kissed me but he warned me he has a complicated thing going on-do I even text back He’s playing games and already friendzoning you. Delete.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 07:17 PM
104	“MeN dOnT hAvE a wALL” Like hell they don’t. I am in my early thirties and (genuinely, actually) get carded regularly - thanks melanin! I went on a date with a guy my age and his hairline was leaning all the way back, he was skinny fat, and his face was full of lines. Men are delusional if they think they look fine forever. Even my zaddy Brad Pitt doesn’t look the way he did at 25 - and he’s a one-of-a-kind specimen. For run of the mill dudes - tuh!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 05:31 PM
60	Men who are bums know that they are bums. They don’t respect women who settle for bums even if they are the bum. Yet another confirmation not to settle.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 05:05 PM
7	Are there any prefered dating apps that y’all prefer to use?? Once you go to uni you’ll have so many opportunities! I’m so glad you’re turned on to this sub at your age - the world is your oyster!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 05:04 PM
11	High quality men appreciate women who are happy with themselves and know what they want. Idk if posts can be stickied, but this should be stickied. This is pure gold.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 04:59 PM
18	I feel stupid It sucks when you like someone and they like you, too - but not as much as you like them. Develop an inner sense and knowing of self-worth, engage in activities that make you feel good, and remember that your value is not determined by others. Ever. At all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 04:48 PM
32	Are there any prefered dating apps that y’all prefer to use?? This is just me - based on admittedly limited experience - but I am anti-dating apps. It’s conditioning men to expect something (sex, attention) for nothing (two dollar coffee dates). It takes effort, but I would suggest increasing your social engagements with friends, going to community events, going to singles bars, coffee shops, taking classes, volunteering. Essentially, showing up more in the world and using your existing social network to increase your visibility and the likelihood of meeti…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 04:47 PM
2	Watch what they do, not what they say? He's not that into me. How do I move on? “In a relationship, a man is either with you because he might marry you someday or until he finds something better.” This 👏right👏here👏	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 02:09 PM
27	Cheers to never settling! Never ever ever ever ever ever settle. This pertains to relationships, earnings, career goals, fitness goals, travel goals etc etc rinse and repeat. You get one shot at this thing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 05:37 AM
1	It's never too late 🤝 Congratulations!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 05:06 AM
1	How do I stop caring for an lvm It just sucks. You gotta sit with the suck. Later, it will suck less. Then a thought of him will cross your mind and you’ll realize you hadn’t been thinking about him. Then you’ll forget about him. For real.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 05:05 AM
2	when he still won't marry you after 7 years Brilliantly spoken	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 05:00 AM
9	I used to be the girl who would try to continue this conversation but I unmatched after this And yet he would flip if you said his d*** was “kinda big” lmao	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 04:48 AM
2	Some Top Notch Advice About Building and Keeping Confidence (long but GOLD) 😂😂💯💯	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 04:47 AM
27	Do Pickmeisha’s even know how bad they look? It’s lack of self-esteem, lack of self-worth, lack of self-love, lack of self-awareness. It’s internalized misogyny born of being a woman in an infinitely patriarchal world. I can’t blame them - in many ways, being male-aligned can make life easier. This is not a mistake. It takes years of work to undo conditioning that makes women question their worth and the worth of their sistren. It takes consistent effort to show up unapologetically, to take up space, to say no, to choose differently, to cr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 04:45 AM
6	Some Top Notch Advice About Building and Keeping Confidence (long but GOLD) I’ve been watching her for a minute (she also does videos on magick for those so inclined) and her advice is truly priceless. When I first learned of this sub I was like “that’s SheRaSeven all the way.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 04:40 AM
10	What to say when you get a low effort date If a guy says, “how about drinks?” You can come back with - “sure, I’d love to, after dinner at X restaurant. It just opened in Y neighborhood, the reviews are incredible.” You can make your wishes known in a way that adds to the interaction. If he’s like “uhhhh...” then ofc delete.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 04:35 AM
8	Posting on social media - discussion I am not on social media like that lol - I literally have just my profile picture on FB (which I’m never on) and artistic shots on IG. So for me - never. But for those more active on social media, I’d say whenever you become exclusive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 04:32 AM
24	Looking for advice: What is the right way to communicate my intention? You totally did the right thing! Good on you for asserting your boundaries.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 04:30 AM
18	Face it - Porn is the same type of misogyny that women have been dealing with since day 1 of our existence. It makes them horrible lovers, too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 04:29 AM
6	How to Level Up with Depression? A sense of inner peace is key, and it can’t be manufactured, bought, or forced. Healing is not linear, and I’m sure you have a lot to unpack given your history of having been abused. I would suggest, in no particular order: talk therapy, shadow work, yoga and other energetic/spiritual practices, prayer, meditation, journaling, and discovering unique ways to integrate self-care into your life. Hugs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 04:21 AM
8	Poor thing says she's ready to give up and she absolutely should Patterns (not solitary actions) speak louder than words. If you want d*** but aren’t worried about a LTR, by all means, hop on. But if you want a dude to invest, you have to make him wait. These are big facts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 12:19 AM
4	Moms of FDS, how young do you feel is age appropriate to start teaching daughters about FDS? I have a daughter, and despite her father and I having divorced, he does have HVM characteristics that I want her to know. Namely, he considers it his responsibility to provide for his spouse and family. He always holds doors, buy flowers, and pay for dates. Seeing this modeled I think will be powerful in terms of what she seeks in her future partners.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 12:15 AM
8	Never be a maybe Needed this. Thanks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 12:10 AM
6	Dads showed up for the first day of school to cheer everyone on, but showed extra love to this kid that was afraid of his first day! That is beautiful. HVM for the win. Also, am so glad to see them demonstrating to a young boy that emotional expression is good.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 09:31 PM
16	Types of Abusive Men: The Water Torturer I experienced emotional abuse, and it’s awful because there are no bruises. That book was helpful in my recognizing that hey, I’m not crazy, and was a catalyst in getting me out of the situation. Side note: there is an incredible dearth of meaningful resources for those seeking to escape abusive situations. It’s pathetic, actually. However, you’ve got to do it for yourself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 09:27 PM
96	How dare a women deny his mediocre coffee and boba date?! Lmao good luck with your coffee date strategy, Chad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 09:24 PM
14	Boyfriend/Girlfriend for 16 YEARS and looking pics of other girls daily to jerk off... and he’s been caught sharing pics before... DTMFA	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 09:23 PM
5	Famous Porn Actresses Describe The Horrifying Reality of The Industry [TRIGGER WARNING: GRAPHIC DESCRIPTIONS OF SEXUAL VIOLENCE] I used to watch porn regularly, and it realllly messed up my view of sexuality. It detracted from my ability to be openly and honestly sexual. I enjoy sex so much more now that porn is not a part of my life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 07:02 PM
10	It's never too late 🤝 Love this sub. By circumstance and design I am moving into 2020 #fuckboyfree. What I’m focused on this coming year: -Leveling up in terms of finances, career, fitness, and all dimensions of wellness -Deep shadow work and radical healing -Boundaries -Self-love, self-worth, self-esteem -Learning from my mistakes and implementing the lessons	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 06:58 PM
4	Really? Does this work? 😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 09:17 AM
1	Need advice on a date He sounds whack. Delete.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 09:05 AM
2	N-count in men, does it matter? We can’t live in perpetual fear. At least, I won’t.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/19 07:40 PM
8	N-count in men, does it matter? It’s immature IMO to be checking for your lover’s body count. See how they conduct themselves over time. If they’re a hoe, you’ll know.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/19 03:13 PM
26	If he doesnt use condoms, dump him I had a ONS try to tell me he didn’t have anything. I’m like “bro, I could still get pregnant.” He walked his drunk ass to the 7-11. But if I hadn’t insisted he totally would have done it without a condom. Crazy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/19 03:01 PM
2	How Can You Tell If A Man Will Be Good In Bed? (MEGATHREAD) I don’t know. He doesn’t have to go on and on about it but I love meeting a guy who likes giving head, and they’ll usually mention it at some point. I’d rather get no head than duty head - ugh!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/19 04:26 PM