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Yea strange as fuck. It’s only been a few months at the most. I’d expect 6months to a year before bringing a new guy around. But I guess that’s part of the fairy tale I’ve been living in. She’s just another hoe with 3 kids who needs financial support from another guy.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/26 02:46 PM
3

Not the same bed, but the same room. She has a toddler bed. But yea even that’s still super weird
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/26 06:47 AM
2

She has a 2 bedroom house with 3 kids. I used to basically live the same way with her for 4 years. But it’s my daughter so I’d say it’s less weird lol. This new situation is cringe. I couldn’t imagine being with a girl 1.5years post divorce, and sharing a room with baby daddy’s kid. She wouldn’t leave my daughter alone with him. At least that’s not something she would do. Child abuse is very unlikely. This shit just sucks for me because my daughter never wants to see me. We have a good time and …
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/26 07:51 PM
3

Never ever again. Pretty much threw my 20s and 30s down the drain. I’m either at work or with my daughter lol
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/26 03:42 AM
5

Yea for real. I’m sure he not there full time. But even a few nights a week is weird af. I wouldn’t do it. Although I was step dad to her other kids lol. Unfortunately for him he gets even more baggage lol
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/26 02:23 AM
5

I don’t think he lives there, he’s in the marines by the looks of it. They been a thing for a few months but I agree it seems way too soon lol. I feel bad for him tho
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/26 02:21 AM
2

Agreed. She bribes her with a new toy every time I pick her up. And today she didn’t so my daughter freaked out. I’ve told her many times not to bribe her but she don’t listen to me.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/26 12:44 AM
4

She talking to other men? Leave. It’s already over. She’s keeping you around as a place holder. Rip the bandaid off and don’t fuck her anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/26 05:27 PM
14

I’d say you’ll probably regret leaving.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 01:17 AM
5

Bro just forget she exists and live your life. Who gives a shit really. It seems so mega important in the moment. But from a Birds Eye view it doesn’t matter. Spend your life in turmoil or go be free. Your choice
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/26 12:16 AM
3

She sounds repulsive. I’d say bounce
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/26 01:25 AM
1

Yep I try this. When I give my daughter back it takes 30 seconds. When my daughter comes with me. It takes my ex wife 3 hours to get situated for me to get her. Then another 5 minutes of dragging out the handoff. Moving shit in my car because it’s “unsafe” etc. she’s overbearing and it’s impossible to change her mind so I basically just ignore her at this point unless she’s crossing lines. Such as keeping my daughter an extra 3 hours so she can feed and bathe her. 2 things I’m more than capable …
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 09:31 PM
4

Damn that sounds miserable for her
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/26 04:44 AM
7

It basically states I get her the days I stated and were able to tweak things as we see fit. We’re very amicable for the most part. She’s just retarded and emotional which makes things retarded for me
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/26 02:40 AM
1

I probably make too much for them. Which is ridiculous. The city I’m in has shit options. Either 1600$ + for a 1bed, or roommate for 800-1000$ which is what I’m doing now
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/26 12:57 AM
5

Lmfao that’s plenty of money for one person
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 02:50 PM
5

Think about her sucking the next guys dick.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/26 08:06 PM
2

Send the gilfs my way. I’m 26 and craving one
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/26 07:49 PM
1

Yea, then she divorced me 3 years later for watching porn
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/26 01:21 AM
5

Stripper
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 02:29 PM
1

Don’t go to your exes house. But show up for your kids. You’ll for sure regret this later on. Fuck your ex wife. Don’t even acknowledge her existence
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 03:54 PM
1

Stop sending her money. Stop seeing her, stop talking to ger
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 06:30 PM
2

Fr bro payed 15k to fuck his wide
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 03:09 PM
2

If only “making more money” was as easy as it sounds. Idk where to find more money, I already work 50 hours a week + side hustles
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 03:06 PM
1

Pretty much impossible these days. Especially where I live. A 1 bedroom apartment is close to 2k and that’s half my monthly take home
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 03:05 PM
1

I can’t really get 5050 because of work. I work 40-50 Hours Monday-friday
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 02:32 PM
5

In my case I find it hilarious. I’d say Only a loser would get with a girl with 3 baby daddies.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 06:28 PM
7

They just have to have a dick. The clock is ticking for them especially with having kids. So they gotta find someone to depend on asap
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 06:22 PM
2

Definitely do
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 01:00 PM
4

Yea, she’s like 8 years older than I am
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 01:00 PM
2

Good insight, I haven’t said anything negative and don’t plant to
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 04:17 AM
2

Typical behavior. It’s pathological lying. Glad I learned this lesson early. Just leave. My ex used to lie about random shit like getting into a car crash, crazy shit like people braking into her house. But when I’d ask follow up questions and engage in the story she’d beat around the bush and eventually one day it was over. I was 18 btw
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 03:36 AM
1

😆🫡
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 03:28 AM
4

Very slim, considering she’s has 3 kids with 3 men at this point
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 03:28 AM
6

My first ever girlfriend was like this, I confronted her and she broke up with me because I couldn’t trust her lmfao
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 03:06 AM
6

Yeaaaa bro! That shit is gross!
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 01:02 AM
9

I’m sure most men feel this in their bones. For me sex with strangers is lame. Unless they’re reallllly hot. Which isn’t always the cards I’m dealt.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 12:35 AM
3

Will do brother 🫡
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 12:21 AM
1

I’m pretty on top I’d say. Or I was until a few weeks ago when this new person came into existence
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 12:09 AM
1

Me, only a little tho
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 12:00 AM
3

I agree. Although she probably won’t care because she left and got with someone before me.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/26 11:27 PM
0

Facts. I really just want to know if he’s black. I don’t consider myself a racist but healing would be a lot easier if he is. She can’t pronounce his name properly but it sure sounds like it
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/26 10:45 PM
1

Following.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/26 03:09 PM
1

This
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/26 08:29 PM
3

Your shit has been over for over a year bro. There’s nothing left to try or cling to. Asking her again just makes you look like a pussy
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/26 05:37 PM
2

You’d be happy to fuck your wife after finding out this information? That’s cuck behavior
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/26 12:00 AM
2

Self respect
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 09:18 PM
6

Don’t do anything, just carry on, set up yourself to leave, then leave. Dont fuck her again that’s gross
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 07:55 PM
1

Ooof yea that’s never a good look. I chased for bit too myself and made myself look retarded. Again it is what it is.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 05:00 PM
2

What sucks about this is what if they get around the kid and change their mind
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 04:51 PM
1

You can already do this 9/10 the girl who swiped on me shows up off rip. And if multiple girls liked me all you have to do is swipe a few girls, reset the app, and the new girl will be there. Repeat for more than 1 girl
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 04:29 PM
2

Mine used mostly pictures she took for me lmfao. Like one with her tits visible in a sheer shirt, but she cropped it out. I’m to the point where I don’t battle the struggle anymore. I just accept it as best I can and try to live in my own world. I think about her in some way almost every day tho.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 04:19 PM
5

I think it’s better this way. My ex wife already got someone else sleeping at her house with my daughter there. Only been a year and some change. And now I have to hear about this guy everytime I see my daughter. Shits gay but I’m enjoying the single life.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 03:34 PM
2

Women will always have the upper hand in the dating pool. Just the way it is. I don’t even particpate in that mindset anymore. I don’t want a ran through girl anyway. And my ex wife was also ran through so I’m thankful she left lol
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 03:29 PM
7

I feel the same way every Few months. Then I fuck one and it doesn’t fix anything. You literally gain nothing from fucking a girl but risk a whole lot more. Especially a random girl
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 03:23 PM
1

Yea gym girls are top tier
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 03:14 PM
2

Well I guess that means it time for you to glow up…
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 03:14 PM
8

Hookups don’t work. Sure it’s fun in the moment. But after you just fall back to shit. Just focus on you and your hobbies and life. Fuck women.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 03:13 PM
5

I don’t, because when I do 90% of the girls who liked me are fat as fuck
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 09:55 PM
10

Hell nah. Once another dude touches here it’s over with
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:19 PM
4

Yea do this. Being divorced with a kid sucks. If your wife is decent looking, instead of leave you should just do your own thing. Lock in tell her she’s invited to show up with you. And let her do what she wants
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 06:13 PM
4

Just leave. Go stay in your car until you figure it out.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/26 09:21 PM
3

If you leave your wife you’re a bum. Stay down. It’s not always going to be peaches and cream.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 02:07 PM
3

Your finances are fine bruh. You’ll survive
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 01:44 PM
6

I agree holidays are stupid. Seems like your ex wife is a bitch tho since she didn’t even consider you.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 01:43 PM
1

I lied about watching porn for years. Everytime she’d find out I’d lie. Repeated that for a few years then she left me. Rip
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/26 07:11 PM
4

Why would you agree to that. You’re crazy dude.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 08:31 PM
1

Yep I had years of girls in a catolog. My ex wife made me delete it all. Now I have nothing but her smh
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 08:00 PM
1

Lucky, I don’t even want pussy. Some head would be cool. But I don’t even wanna put in any work. Especially not for some used ass pussy
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 07:58 PM
1

Agreed
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 07:57 PM
2

This
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 07:52 PM
2

Yea that tinder shit hurts. Mine download tinder to “punish me” then connected with a guy and talked for days. I shoulda just left then and there. But I was lowkey at fault before hand for lying about shit. But we stayed together and a few weeks later I found his phone number written down on a paper hidden in our closet. I threw away the relationship after that. She claimed it was just incase I left her so she would have someone to lean on. Lmfaooo
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 11:48 PM
1

Don’t worry brother you didn’t miss anything. Mine had hers pierced too. If anything they were annoying.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 11:43 PM
5

No clue brother. The fact that women can just leave a marriage really drills into my head that there’s no point in fucking with them. What made me stop thinking and caring about my ex to a certain extend was picturing her getting railed out by the next guy. Those types of images.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 09:39 PM
1

Who cares, I understand it. Her child is in someone else’s care. It’s in the school backpack I assume, it’s not like she hid it in your car to track your activity. You’re overthinking
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 09:32 PM
5

Yea we were together for almost a year after. I don’t like fake tits
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 02:31 AM
1

Man she’d have a rude awakening if that was me.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 12:56 AM
2

I don’t even use them for anything. More a power/control thing if anything. Deleting them means I’d never be able to have the option to see that stuff again. Unless a billion stars align and we get back together
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 12:54 AM
1

100% ideally.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 12:53 AM
1

I’ll make sure to tell him “you’re welcome”
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 12:53 AM
3

Pop them
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 08:39 PM
6

Nah take that shit down wtf
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 07:21 PM
1

Oh she dealt with all that with a lawyer and court. It’s all legalized. I made sure to read it over before signing. Point is I didn’t have to lift a finger😂
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 04:38 PM
1

Yessir nice job bouncing back. It would take me probably 20 years to pay off my credit card debt. I’m probably just gonna file bankruptcy
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 03:21 PM
3

Just move to another country and disappear. Beats giving up
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 02:56 PM
2

Agreed. Fuck chasing. They can chase me. And if they don’t. Good I don’t want them. I want a girl whose obsessed with me. Not one I have to play jester for
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 02:14 PM
13

I didn’t like fake tits anyway
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 02:12 PM
7

Not really. It’s my fault she left if im being honest.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 02:12 PM
3

Good on you! Fuck her
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 02:11 PM
4

Ohhhh yea that sucks. We didn’t even use a lawyer. I paid 0$ for the divorce. I told her since she wants a divorce she can deal with all that shit. All I had to do was read and sign the divorce papers lol. No child support and i see my kid whenever I want/can weekly
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 09:56 AM
3

What the hell is that? For your teeth?
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 09:50 AM
7

Right!
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 09:50 AM
1

Lucky you
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 09:46 AM
8

She was 7 years older than me but perhaps you’re valid in that regard. I can barely afford to live as is. I wish I could go to Japan or something.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 12:22 AM
2

Facts they just be in pajamas all day looking bummy. Then when you break up they wanna get all dressed up
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 11:11 PM
1

:(
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 10:30 PM
1

Oh I’m sure you still never hear the end of it. My ex wife used to give me shit for 4 years about the girl I was talking to before her. A girl I never even fucked btw💀
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 10:20 PM
1

Same boat
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 10:19 PM
2

How’d that go? How long was the relationship?
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 10:00 PM
3

This is sweet.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 09:59 PM
2

I wouldn’t be happy no. I see your point
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 09:58 PM
2

3 separate hard drives and 2 drives on my phone 🥲
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 09:55 PM
4

I’m 26 raising a 3 year old, 3 days a week. Every week my daughter tells me she doesn’t like my house and likes mommas better. She only likes me a little bit but likes momma more etc. cries when she comes over, super happy to leave doesn’t tell me bye or anything. I try to do my very best and that’s all I can do. Just show up. Dont put all your eggs into the kid basket. Once they grow up and move out you’re going to be on your own again. Focus on you too
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 09:51 PM
2

Can you explain better? This seems wildly fucked up. She came over used your computer? You lost me after that
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 09:46 PM
2

You couldn’t be more correct. Then you gotta actually pursue them and shit while they’re getting railed by someone else the day before. Fuck all that. It could be cope but I feel so done. Tapped out from women.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 09:45 PM
3

Picture her riding and sucking on the next guys dick. That usually does the trick for me
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 09:42 PM
6

Exactly what I did. Glad someone gets it.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 09:33 PM
3

I don’t even go look at them bc I don’t want to bring it back up. But to delete them means I never get to see “that” again. Which is a hard tug of war
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 09:24 PM
7

Dude you’ll never heal like this. Stop texting her period unless about kids. I felt the same way in the beginning. She’s using your energy for comfort and still choosing to leave. She’s stringing you along in a way. On top of that, giving her attention right now is making the divorce easier for her. And if you want to keep her around: it’s better to not make it easy to leave. Cut that shit and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 10:44 PM
8

Just remove yourself from everything regarding her. Your own place to stay, don’t text unless about kids, then you just have to train your brain to think about other things. That’s all.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 08:45 PM
1

Mine just got a new man for the first time recently. Still Trying to process myself. I’m a bit bitter but mostly Idc
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/26 01:57 PM
4

Dude he’s in a cave you already mined. Who cares
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/26 12:49 PM
-2

Therapy is retarded. Man tf up
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 04:06 PM
1

Yea bro you dodged that bullet. 2 weeks in diabolical. I just hope that mf don’t try to shake my hand or nothing. Hopefully he stay far away from me
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/26 04:14 PM
2

Working on it, withdrawals stop me. I sweat profusely all day and night, and I don’t want to be irritated and angry when I’m with my daughter. But yea I plan on it
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/26 11:22 AM
2

She sleeps in the same room with me at my house as well. I don’t have people over tho. My daughter also shares a room with my ex wife, has a toddler bed. She’s 3. You think that still applies?
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/26 09:35 PM
4

Smoke like 7 blunts per day
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/26 07:58 PM
1

Therapy is gay, listen to your higher consciousness. It tells you the right paths you just have to listen. Stop drinking. Start jiujitsu
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/26 07:58 PM
1

Yea at least then you can avoid baby momma extortion. You can still potentially send money home for the child or whatever. And you don’t have to deal with bullshit America for x years lol
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/26 01:40 PM
1

Probably more worth it to actually find a real girl like that vs make some ai bullshit. Bad look if you get caught. Just move on
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/26 01:38 PM
1

Better option!
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/26 01:36 PM
2

❤️🫡
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/26 06:39 PM
1

Load of work so you can enjoy a used hole that the last man ran through
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/26 12:33 PM
6

Working on it. Lowkey probably the guy she was chatting with a few months before divorce
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/26 12:10 AM
1

I caused my ex to leave me. I regret it so much. Today I found out she has a man sleeping at her house from my 3 year old. I’m barely physically attracted to anyone. I hate the idea of dating again. I’ve been a lot better but after finding out this news I’m back to square 1. Cut contact with her asap. Forever if you don’t have kids. It helps so much when they’re out of your brain
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 08:35 PM
2

Will do
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 08:20 PM
4

Agreed. What’s even worse is my daughter sleeps in the same room.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 08:11 PM
1

This no marriage. Finna get that tatted
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 11:12 PM
1

This
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 11:11 PM
7

God damn women suck. Brother you need a side hustle or 2. Try to start a business of some kind instead of sitting on the couch. I also know that’s hard when you’re barely making it. I do mobile mechanic work on the side for extra cash. You’re paying more than I make a month in child support and alimony. That’s unreal. So props to you for trying to figure it out. Id probably just run away to a different country and see your kid when they’re 18. That’s absolutely no way to have to live. Fuck the c…
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 09:56 PM
0

You sound vaccinated, and also biased as fuck. Doctors/pharma only makes money off “sick” people. If the drugs worked they’d go bankrupt. Maybe some people are dysfunctional because we live in a dysfunctional/unhealthy ass society… but no pills are the cure lol
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 08:18 PM
-4

Meth is meth. And regardless big pharma isn’t helping you. Just pretending to while raking in big money
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 04:28 PM
-6

Pretty insane mental gymnastics to cope with taking meth.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 04:21 PM
-5

Just saying there’s no way in hell big pharma is doing any benefit to your son’s situation. Doesn’t really matter what’s going on. ADHD is bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 03:36 PM
-6

For one you shouldn’t be pumping your kid full of toxic pharmaceuticals and likely glorified meth.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 03:29 PM
2

I got lucky. My ex wife left, didn’t ask for child support or anything. So I let her go freely. I’ll never get married again tho. They have too much power in a marriage
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 12:16 AM
5

Women suck
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 09:13 PM
7

If you’re leaving why do you care, if he’s the one leaving let him leave.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 09:54 PM
5

Just picture her getting fucked from behind by the next guy. It’ll help
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 12:25 AM
5

I don’t. When I’m not at work I have my daughter. Tf am I gonna do go waste money on a random hoe, lay in bed and doom scroll? I’d rather just go get my kid
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/26 03:42 PM
2

This is weird. Bro can’t just do something chill. I’d say most women are whores. So it’s not a big deal that you can have them open it up for you. You’re not the only guy pal
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/26 03:41 PM
0

I’d rather shit in my hands and clap. Can’t feel shit with a condom on. If you have to wear protection to have sex you prob shouldn’t be fucking that person. Js
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/26 11:55 AM
2

Shorty got cooties
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 07:34 PM
7

How are yall just normal with fucking random girls.i did it when i was young but now its its gross to me. Especially the risk of std or pregnancy.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 06:01 AM
1

I don’t drink
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/26 03:14 PM
1

So mad
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/26 03:13 PM
1

Because you sound like a woman
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 06:24 PM
1

The dynamic where I’m supposed to pursue the woman regardless of her past.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 06:05 PM
1

Women in real life.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 06:04 PM
1

I’m not angry. I’m just a bit confused on how this dynamic is supposed to work. I guess I just have to play pretend🤣
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 02:58 AM
0

What’s wrong with wanting to be a high value individual? Sounds like you’re in the wrong group honey
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 02:56 AM
1

Observation of women’s behavior
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 02:55 AM
0

What is “bad content”
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 12:08 AM
1

Nah she never cheated. I don’t watch angry content. It’s just basically the conclusion I’ve came to after being newly single again.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 12:07 AM
1

Thanks man this actually benefited me!
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 10:22 PM
1

Just curious what everyone else’s thoughts are on the topic.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 07:33 PM
1

It’s not an opinion it’s a fact. Society as a whole sees women promiscuous activity like this. Maybe not 100% but most men would agree.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 06:02 PM
0

Psychological is a joke. That’s also a random stranger to me
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 05:16 PM
1

Random strangers can’t help me lol
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 05:10 PM
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I’ve had a few of those experiences. 90% of the time I’m too grossed out to even get into it. I’m only 5,7 140 so messing with girls bigger than me always makes me feel like I’m a little kid again🤣
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 05:00 PM
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A woman being promiscuous is completely different than a man. You don’t date the past sure. But the past is still relevant. Unless you’re fine dating a prior slut who’s finally ready to settle down now that she’s been railed out enough. That’s not for me tho
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 04:59 PM
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That’s the what I’m thinking. I got lucky and don’t have to pay child support. I still see my daughter weekly whenever I’m not working. But yea fuck chasing
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 10:11 PM
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Thanks captain obvious
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/26 10:34 AM
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Well put!
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/26 02:15 AM
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I’d rather have my dignity and self respect. She does sorta live in my head rent free and that’s exactly why I don’t want anymore ties. It’s bad enough I have to see her every week as is. And it would only confuse all the children. I also don’t want 4 people sharing 1 bedroom. I have roommates
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 10:58 PM
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Women vs accountability
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 10:19 PM
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Looking at xxx behind her back while married. I never cheated with another human. Call it what what you idc. It’s still not my responsibility. Yea I could use the extra 100$ a day. But it’s not worth my dignity. I made my bed and have to lay in it without her. So does she
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 09:20 PM
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Accepting my part of the failure doesn’t involve babysitting her kids while she works. She shoulda thought about that before having kids with multiple people. They aren’t my step kids anymore and not my responsibility. We’re officially divorced for over a year. She chose to leave so that’s another man’s problem now.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 09:15 PM
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Yup you’re have the right idea!
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 06:04 PM
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Yea I’m not stepping into the father role for with no benefit to me. While we were together it was no problem because that came with the marriage. But marriage is over so is the father role. She better find a new man to step up
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 05:32 PM
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I don’t pay child support because I have 5050 custody for my daughter
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 05:30 PM
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She isn’t. But for someone to label me that way is absurd as well
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 05:29 PM
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Amen brother.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 05:28 PM
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I agree with everything you said. If they were my kids this wouldn’t be a question. Essentially I told her I’ll help incase of emergency but she’s not going to be able to lean on me for 2 years
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 05:07 PM
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Okay then you go sign up to be a nanny. I have enough on my plate. If she wanted a partner she shouldn’t have left
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 03:48 PM
3

Ones in jail and the other is a drug addict. And here I am clean cut and responsible.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 02:45 PM
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Yes I have my own healing process to go through. Kids I didn’t create aren’t my responsibility and that extra tie hinders my growth. I’m not taking anything out on the kids. I have 5050 custody with her. She should figure out her children without me since she left…
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 02:21 PM
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I’m not punishing anybody. Kids I didn’t create are not my responsibility
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 02:17 PM
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Yep I couldn’t agree with you more. I have my daughter whenever I’m not at work. We have 5050 custody. (She doesn’t pay me to watch her) on top of all this I share a house with 3 other guys. I have my own bed and bathroom but that would leave 4 of us sleeping in my bedroom. That just isn’t a vibe. You got your kids sleeping over at your ex husband’s house…
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 01:44 PM
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They aren’t in my life tho. She took them out
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 01:18 PM
2

100% is
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 01:18 PM
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Yea not mine either lol
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 01:10 PM
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I told her ass no. I’m not being used while she jumping on other dicks
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 01:08 PM
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100% this is revenge type. I had to deal with my consequences to my actions (aka losing her) she gonna have to deal with hers
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 01:07 PM
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I told her no. Women need to learn to stop leaving their husbands. It’s actually crazy
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 01:06 PM
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Yea she had all this for free last year. She gave it up
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 01:05 PM
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