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TIL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 07:21 PM
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No pretty much never. I don't like them and my gf doesn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 05:34 PM
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Yeah, that seems to be the consensus. I was saying i thought it would be nice if women would regularly get horny and feel the urge fuck anything with a dick. Maybe We'd have less red pillers and their ilk Just like it would be nice if I won a billion dollars tomorrow. I recognize those are both just fantasies though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 12:30 AM
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Pretty much. I recently went through a brief period of unemployment so I had a lot of free time. We were going at it 3-6 times a day, if I was getting high it was more than that. I did have to chill out a little because she'd get sore. Before that it was 2-3 times a day, but I worked full time and I go to to school full time, so considering my schedule I didn't really have time for any more. We live together and we're both in our early twenties. I suspect it's not that uncommon for couples our a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:32 PM
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Personally I have never been with someone who was not willing to have sex whenever I was horny and there were no outside circumstances preventing it. So most women seem to have a perfectly fine sex drive. That said I'm sure in an ideal world it would be nice if women lowered their standards as much as men did when they were horny. There would probably be less self conscious and socially isolated men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 01:24 PM
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Confidence is part of your personality...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 02:51 AM
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Buddy I really don't mean this in a condescending way but you need to get out more. That is legitimate advice. Because you seem pretty oblivious. A man can be physically attractive and still be lame and boring. Being lame, boring or being very socially awkward is a turn off for women. It will be a turn off even if you are physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 02:17 AM
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A bitch is a female term? No it's not. Plenty of men act like bitches. 'Bitch' doesn't just refer to an abrasive woman. It also can refer to a weak and wimpy man. I never said or implied that women couldn't be attracted to assholes. I don't think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 01:53 AM
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Put aside those homoerotic fantasies of yours for a second. An annoying bitch is an annoying bitch no matter how big their cock is or how big their arms are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 01:37 AM
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Some people have different tastes. Maybe to them their girlfriend is hot but you think she is just 'meh'. They may be physically more attractive but have personality traits or other non-physical traits that make them unattractive. Some people like to have more 'power' in their relationship. It might be comforting for them to be more physically attractive than their partner. They might feel if they are the better looking half then their SO is less likely to leave them. There are many possible rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 07:07 PM
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Because feminist 'propaganda' appeals to nerds. Awkward guys want to believe being sweet , overly respectful, passive and gentlemanly is sexy to women because otherwise they have to step out of their comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:34 AM
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Feminism and MRAs are two sides of the same coin. Two groups with some very reasonable points yet the movements are made up of insufferable cunts. Mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 12:58 AM
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Everyone has their own perspective. Certainly a lot of times nagging is completely justified. In other cases the wife may secretly resent her husband for being old, fat and ugly and she takes it out on him by constantly bitching about everything he does. I don't like using an argument to moderation, but when dealing with a topic like this, I think it's the most logical thing to do. That said MRPers do some awful shit, and probably deserve a lot of nagging. However I don't doubt a few of them wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:19 PM
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Your previous comment was worded as if to say women are handed contracts that explicitly tell them they are there to look pretty. Which is not what you wrote in this comment. So just because they were aware that their looks factored into why they were hired, they have no right to be frustrated by a system that doesn't hold men to the same standard? That's bullshit. Like I already said, people criticize institutions that benefit them all the time. You seem to be claiming you can't be justified in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:58 AM
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Most other networks obviously favor attractive women who look sexy in a bust shot. In any type of visual media, attractive women have an advantage. I didn't know we were only talking about fox news. I thought we were talking about women in the media in general, with fox news used as an example in the OP. I have a hard time believing women on cable news (including Fox) sign contracts that directly state they are only valued for their pretty face and their impressive rack, and that their superiors…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 07:43 PM
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I didn't think it would be necessary to spell this out, as I thought it was obviously implied. I meant they don't have very many other options if they want to be television journalists. People criticize institutions they benefit from all the time. It's standard human behavior. I see no reason why they wouldn't want to criticize the system they are a part of. They want media to be more 'fair' to women. They see that men aren't objectified as much as they are. They believe because men are already …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 06:03 PM
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That's a very hard question to answer. I suppose they do contribute to their continued "objectification" in some way by playing along, but they don't have many other options. If they don't show some cleavage, someone else will and that's who is going to get more air time and better pay and whatnot. But this kind of "objectification" is quite tricky. It's similar to how many complain and criticize Hollywood for having limited roles for women over a certain age. For the most part, media just gives…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:41 PM
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Obviously I was talking about how they are a minority in the U.S. and Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 06:44 PM
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They focus on Hispanics, Muslims, and blacks because there are political issues that involve and relate to those specific races. They are quick to defend Asians, but Asians just don't have a lot of hot button political issues surrounding them. There's not as much to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 06:43 PM
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I don't think so. People don't think that far ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 06:01 PM
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This post might get taken down btw. The reason liberals are quick to defend Islam and Muslims is because a large part of the contemporary American left's ideology is defending minorities. Islam is both a minority religion and usually its practitioners have ethnic backgrounds. So naturally liberals are very defensive on behalf of Islam. Nothing to do with Muslim domination fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 05:45 PM
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Ikr? Those tits? Those eyes? She's almost too hot to be attractive. Almost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 06:41 PM
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Alexandra Daddario She is perfect If you don't find her attractive you are not a man http://media.santabanta.com/gallery/global%20celebrities(f)/alexandra%20daddario/alexandra-daddario-8-v.jpg https://pbs.twimg.com/media/C8ERuBTXQAA6qEM.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 05:27 PM
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Why would a woman have to work to get casual sex? Isn't it generally agreed upon that women have an easier time getting casual sex? Maybe she just likes sex and wants have lots of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:37 PM
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Because I lack a right wing mindset and I'm not sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 02:34 PM
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If she fucks lots of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:38 AM
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Do whatever floats your boat. RP has mostly good advice. Some of the "BP" users might disagree, but for the most part the actual advice they offer is solid. The theory behind it is what I take issue with. Work out, be cool, don't be a pussy, remember there are plenty of fish in the sea, etc... All of that's quite reasonable. But there will always be winners and losers. Some poor chumps will get the short end of the stick, that's just the way it is. I don't worry about them. Neither should you. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:24 AM
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I am disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:14 PM
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On a scale of 1-10, how high are you OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:02 PM
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I kind of hope he's real now that I think about it. Imagine talking to someone IRL and hearing them say this. With the same 'analogies'. Just standing there waving his hands around, genuinely confused as to why you don't understand their point. "No, no. The shopkeeper lets them in because he KNOWZ they're gonna rob him. You see, he FACILITATED the crime. FA-SIL-LA-TAY-TED. Like, how are you not getting this?"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 05:04 AM
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This isn't even a controversial subject. Lol I am questioning whether or not you are genuine because this post is just so awful. If a man chooses to cheat it's his fault. Because he chose to go out and find a broad and then spend the time to get her to spread her legs for him. No one made him go out and hunt for poon. He made that decision. It's his fault. Imagine a store from which a thief can steal only if the shopkeeper allowed him to. Who's fault is it if the thief steals something from the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 04:15 AM
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You can deny it all you want, but most people are aware confidence is an attractive trait. I've heard "be confident" given out as advice far more than I've heard people say "just be yourself". But I've learned that I clearly live in a different universe than RPers I'll grant you that some people might not concede that overconfidence is attractive, but the distinction between confidence and overconfidence is largely subjective and circumstantial.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 11:09 PM
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That's not true. Even when I was single every woman I interacted with was not a potential romantic partner. The majority of women I interact I'm not even attracted to. Yes, even the ones that are my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:44 PM
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I think certain people should be more wary of having friendships with the opposite sex. Some people are prone to developing romantic feelings towards anyone they are compatible with and they find attractive enough. This isn't just because of desperation. Some people are just romantics. However, most people have very little trouble with it. Sexual tension is easy to deal with, it just takes a modicum of self control. And most of the time sexual tension isn't even there. I've lived in very conserv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:33 PM
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Best of luck then. I'm sure you'll find someone (I'm being genuine BTW)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:09 AM
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Second, I don't shower daily My gf does this and it surprised the hell out of me when I found out. I envy you both. I'd love to not shower and still look hygienic. By the time you're a full fledged adult, not only do these things become hard to change, but people dont want to change them as its part of "who they are" At what age do you believe people are generally 'full fledged' adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:06 AM
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I could vibe to that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 03:54 AM
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Maybe you should try to be more sexually forward when you first take interest in a guy. Or lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 03:52 AM
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Or you just need to get out more. Introverts have a hard time finding other introverts. For obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 03:49 AM
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Everyone sure is obsessed with MBTI on this forum. But yeah I am an INTP and certainly relate to some of what you wrote. Be glad you're not a man with those traits though. Being emotionally unavailable and aloof seems to make lots of women uncomfortable. And they will tell you that you need to smile more. Which makes me smile less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 03:45 AM
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I have been known to act dumb to lower people's expectations Does that actually work though? Do you actually believe people are more 'impressed' by you if they figure out you're not as dumb as they initially thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 03:30 AM
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I didn't realize there was even a distinction between nerds and geeks. I figured they were synonyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 03:25 AM
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None of these are necessarily unattractive qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 03:21 AM
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I get sad about the lack of male attention I receive and the number of guys who have "friendzoned" me who I still pine after Does this happen often? I assumed that women getting friendzoned would be somewhat rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 03:20 AM
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I am not much for comics but I love me some Xannie and acid. If you want to talk asoiaf, WoT LotR his dark materials or star wars I'm down. But just the Xannies are cool too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:43 PM
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Nerdy interests and loves drugs? You sound like my kind of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:21 PM
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Just embrace the sweaty musk. You'll smell more like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:14 PM
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In what ways has it caused you trouble?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:13 PM
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Yeah but I'm an asshole. If I can't cut people down verbally how else can I feel superior to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:01 PM
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I'd prefer it shaved but it doesn't bother me that much at all, even during oral. As long as it doesn't smell funny we're cool
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:00 PM
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Is it? Tell me more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:58 PM
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hah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:53 PM
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I refuse to let things I consider sexist, racist or otherwise bad slide Having strong opinions and sticking to your values is a positive in my book. How often do you end up butting heads with people for this reason though? Is it because they make certain remarks you have a problem with or is it because they subscribe to certain ideologies that you believe promote racism/sexism etc...?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:43 PM
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At least you're aware of it. A lot of people seem to have that kind of restlessness but they lie to themselves and try to keep it going when they should just break it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:29 PM
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i've seen friends who used complain about being single complain about pretty much everything about someone they do finally get with, and, i mean... what do you want, really? pick one I'm pretty sure people like this just want to complain. They've made some up some fantasy boyfriend/girlfriend in their heads that no actual human being could ever measure up to. i think a lot of people need to learn how to integrate another person into their lives It surprises me how often otherwise mature and func…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:19 PM
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Sarcasm BTW is typically an attractive quality in men, shows off confidence and wit My experiences don't really line up with that. It seems like most women are either turned off by it or they don't get it (could very well just be me though, lol). BUT when they do like sarcasm they seem to really like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 08:55 PM
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I actually like that tickling a little bit. Oh well. I guess I'm a freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 08:47 PM
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I'm curious, what kind of personality does your husband have? Is he 'bullheaded' as well or is he more laid back?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 08:44 PM
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I never understood the hatred for pubic hair. It never has been a big deal to me and I'm a millennial raised on porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 08:40 PM
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I have not seen evidence that feminism is making men 'beta'. Most normal people don't even think about this shit that much. I haven't met a whole lot of male feminists but those I have met aren't particularly passive or feminine. They are just politically liberal. I'd posit that this decline is largely due to technological changes that allow people to 'socialize' and satisfy their desires without actually interacting with people IRL. Virtually everyone has some degree of social anxiety and you n…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 11:15 AM
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That makes sense. It seems like Asian and Latina/Hispanic women seem to place far less emphasis on height than white or black women . At least in the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 07:33 AM
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That's a bit odd. What's your race/ethnicity?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 06:32 AM
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PPD debate has so many passive aggressive trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 11:26 PM
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As I understand it, the friend zone is when a man is unhappy just being friends with a woman. If he's happy just being friends then he's not in the friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 12:34 AM
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I'm not saying that's controversial. It just seems like the main purpose of this thread is to piss RPers off. Most guys don't neg. Most guys are just awkward and stupid. Why even use that rhetoric? You just keep talking about and implying why most men are all losers for no reason. It never adds anything to your point. You're like some of the more annoying RPers on here in that respect. If the vast majority of people you don't find attractive are negging you the majority of the time they hit on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 08:38 AM
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Yeah. Fucking spergs, amirite? I wish all these pathetic men would be more gentlemanly. Men who aren't all hot, tall, rich or hilarious should never hit on attractive women because they suck. But just in case you really believe all this I'll offer an excerpt from this old Cracked article. I tend to think this negging phenomenon is complete bullshit. Most guys I know aren't exactly sexual Hannibal Lecters, capable of deconstructing and rebuilding a woman's psyche for sex. It's hard enough for us …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 07:05 AM
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I...I...just no. You're so obviously trolling right now I'm tempted to join you in a circlejerk. Yeah totes. DAE men need to be more gentlemanly? Tip your fedoras and place your jackets over rain puddles so the pretty lady's shoes don't get wet. But don't talk to women unless you're hot and tall. We might accept you if you're HILARIOUS and rich! Look at and admire this totally genuine conversation we're both having right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 06:40 AM
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I am friends with attractive women. I hang out with them sometimes. I've seen men hit on them. I have been to public places where attractive women also go. I can observe the world around me. I haven't seen it. I watch movies and TV and other media that you would think would reference this apparent trend of ugly men negging women all the time. Furthermore I've been reading this subreddit for a few months now. People analyze every type of interaction between men and women all the time. The women o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 06:31 AM
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I don't doubt pretty women can be insecure. That would be a foolish position to take. What I doubt is that the hot girl who had beer poured on her after she rejected a guy is now questioning her self worth because she met a manbaby who couldn't deal with rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 06:01 AM
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Jesus Christ, everyone on this subreddit lives on a different planet than me. I've seen people be rude to attractive women, but I have not noticed a pattern where men are singling out good looking women and being dicks to them. I suppose I can't challenge your view because I can't tell you what you've seen, but I would ask you to question the context in which you saw these events occur. Was there lots of alcohol involved? Did the 'literal losers' who were saying shit have a personal history with…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 05:55 AM
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OP, are you trolling? Awww If a woman is attractive and generally nice, she can probably do better than some idiot who says hurtful things to her Some women don't care about how polite a man is. Not that they want a psychopath, but I've known too many guys who were quite abrasive that had no problem dating or sleeping with attractive women. If a woman is attractive and generally nice, she can probably do better than some idiot who says hurtful things to her. This is part of why many beautiful wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 05:38 AM
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I think you're misunderstanding me. I'm not arguing against the idea that some women enjoy overtly sexual remarks. I know some of them do. I'm arguing against the idea that women only feel uncomfortable at sexual remarks if the man making said remarks is ugly. In other words, attractive men can say "Damn that's a fat ass" or something along those lines and still be perceived as creepy by women even though they are attractive. I agree that attractive men are granted more wiggle room in what's con…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 09:11 PM
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You're right but you must understand that this discussion is pointless. 1) Any RPer who has the ability to understand the difference between being a literal murderous psychopath and a confident bad boy also has the ability to justify this 'Dark Triad' edgelord BS by claiming it's, like, symbolic or something. So they will defend 'the dork tryad' from that perspective. It's a crappy argument but like religion it's a mindset that's impossible to change with debate. 2) Any RPer who lacks the abilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 06:10 PM
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If you're able to recognize that the OPs ridiculous language is largely a cheap rhetorical technique (and then excuse it for that reason) you should at least be able to recognize that my nitpicking is the same. I don't bother with taking the intellectual 'high ground' with those who clearly aren't making an effort to do the same. As far as I can tell the OPs main point is that practically the only difference between what is perceived as creepy and what is perceived as acceptable is how attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 06:19 AM
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What exactly are you asking? Are you asking why women will sleep with men who make sexually charged comments? Usually because they find the man attractive. Duh. I posit that most men who say crass things and get laid would just as easily get laid without saying crass things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 12:21 AM
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What are you talking about? I wasn't talking about women being 'physically appreciated'. I was talking about how women don't like it when men make them feel uncomfortable. For many this includes hearing very sexually charged comments directed at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 09:18 PM
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I agree. Ugly people are usually looked down on and mistreated. And attractive people are treated far better than they deserve. It's a damn shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 01:31 AM
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I'm not sure why you think I'm splitting hairs. You state in your OP that women love getting objectified by Chad. I'm claiming they don't. I'm supporting this claim by offering an alternate explanation as to why women will fuck men who 'objectify' them. This is relevant because the reasoning your using to support your claim that women love objectification by chads is that they are sleeping with them. And I already stated that I agree that being attractive will grant you a lot more leeway with wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 01:18 AM
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What you did was take a blatantly obvious truth and extrapolate that truth to the point of ridiculousness. Your statement isn't just that looks effect how women react to and perceive men. If that's all you said very few people would disagree with you. You claim not only can attractive men get away with what is traditionally creepy behavior, but that women are turned on by said behavior. That they love being objectified. Pay attention to this part: excusing something is not the same as liking som…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 10:52 PM
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I've heard many women say that to be sexaulized by non-chads it almost similar to being raped No. No you haven't. But you would be at least partially correct IMO if what you stated wasn't so god damn extreme. It's blatantly obvious that physical looks and perceived creepiness are strongly related. However creepiness is a thing and unusual behavior is considered creepy and will always be considered creepy. blatantly call women dumb bimbos Who are you hanging out with? I've never seen this. It's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 10:10 PM
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I don't think it's impossible. But all the men I know who are having casual sex regularly clearly don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 05:50 AM
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If it came out that Stacy was a virgin, desirable men who didn't look at her before would now come running. This is red pill fantasy. The vast majority of studs and 'Chads' I know could not give less of a damn about a girl's sexual history. They fuck whichever girl gives them a boner and as far as I can tell they end up in relationships with the same kind of women they were having casual sex with. People who want low n-count women are low n-count men, like myself. And no one who has actually had…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 10:10 PM
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That kind of thing isn't even really slut-shaming, it's just lashing out This is why men 'slut shame'. Not because they dislike sluts, but they want to say something hurtful. A guaranteed way to get under a woman's skin is to call her a whore. It's similar to telling a man he has a small cock. Almost every female friend I have is a 'slut'. They're good people, but I have no interest in dating them, largely because of their promiscuous lifestyles. I would never call any of my female friends sluts…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 06:23 AM
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That's not why non-RP folks believe TRP is a sack of shit. That's just something funny to think about. When online you can get away with talking all the shit you like. It's similar to how many red pillians think all female bloops are blue haired girls with pixie cuts and weight problems. Many also seem to assume all non-RP men are passive guys who enjoy jerking it while watching their SO get plowed by Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 09:41 PM
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My only disagreement is the words you chose. You need to be confident enough to think you have the ability to attract women and mature enough to understand that you might need to change what you're doing in order to have more success. Arrogance implies a lack of self awareness. Humbleness implies a lack of backbone or a lack of conviction in one's beliefs. Both things hinder your success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 06:38 PM
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I couldn't agree more. Self made men and women are usually far more responsible and conservative than their trust fund baby counterparts. And I say this as someone who is technically from a wealthy family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 06:25 PM
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I'm sure they do. I'm sure many of them would never touch a poor person with a 10 foot pole. But many will sleep with men in lower social classes, especially in their younger years. Attraction for women seems to be largely based off how interesting they find someone. And men from a different social class can interest women because they are so different from what they are used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 07:42 PM
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I do not think it is as prevalent as the online manosphere would have you believe. Every girl I have been in a serious relationship with has never had a problem paying for her own things. And I am American.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 04:29 PM
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I agree. I disagree that coming from an upper class background means you will not be irresponsible and that you won't abuse drugs, be a slut, and fuck other reckless degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:57 PM
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I never screened for these because in my social sphere I never encounter these girls. I wouldn't even know where to find a girl like this if I wanted one. Your social sphere is also not representative of your entire economic/social class. While I agree the lower classes obviously have more problems with addiction and criminal histories, you should hang out with musicians sometime. I am very involved in the local music scene. I perform regularly and most of the people in my social circle are musi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 08:19 AM
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If #3's arms were smaller she'd win because I like her face more. 2 is the hottest. 1 seems average. Not bad but nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 12:34 AM
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It's more of a compatibility issue and a way to measure how similar your values are than it is insecurity or jealousy, at least for me personally. But I also don't think having a few casual hook ups is a big deal, what grosses me out is the type of women who have partner counts of 30+. It's also partially a matter of pride. I don't want to be in a relationship with the town bicycle. I suppose I'm just shallow about that. Your past is part of who you are. Finding out someone has a history of chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 06:28 PM
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Yeah that's perfectly fair because I didn't fully flesh out my opinion because I'm halfass writing this on my phone while I'm at work. We only disagree partially. I agree with your assessment but not your conclusion. You can label yourself a MRA or a feminist and base this labeling on your belief and support of gender equality. People don't just join groups because they match up on paper. For example a feminist could believe that feminism as a whole movement doesn't always live up to it's intend…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 08:01 AM
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Imo it's not that there is too little focus on specific and tangible grievances. Both sides have plenty of both. It's not really much of a numbers game either. Women having 10 shitty things wouldn't invalidate the problem of men having 4 shitty things or vice versa. The reality is in order to make a society 'more equal' or whatever your goal is, you have to have both genders on board with your beliefs. And the ways feminists and MRAs have been trying to make progress have alienated the gender op…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 11:57 PM
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People are selfish and driven by self interest. The best way to promote gender equality is to have both MRAs and feminists drop their ideas of 'gynocentrism' and patriarchy. Which won't happen of course. These beliefs are central to their respective movements. Painting the other gender as privileged by society and making them this elite 'other' does nothing but create resentment between the two sides of the gender debate. The reality is most men's lives aren't that great and the same is true for…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 11:07 PM
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It's a political advocacy group/ideology for women. People who fall on the left of the political spectrum tend to identify as feminists, but anyone who essentially believes women have it worse in society than men also usually identify as feminists. How important it is depends on your personal perspective. IMO feminism's influence isn't particularly widespread so I don't think it's all that important. The crazier, more extreme voices in feminism are largely ignored by most people outside of their…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 03:25 PM
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Supporting trump doesn't mean you're red pill. It means you support Trump. People support Trump because they have conservative political opinions and they like brash politicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 09:18 PM
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The odds of running into any RPer offline are incredibly low. Honestly I only know two other redditors IRL. I doubt very many women worry about running into red pillians at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 08:17 PM
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Pursue what you want deliberately and with an impressive amount of determination. Believe what you want to and act how you want to without regard to societal expectations or outside pressures. Be inclined to take charge of situations but also have the judgement to recognize situations where it's best you step back and let someone else handle it. Have at least a few skills where your level of competence is above average. Ideal 'masculinity' would be all I stated above combined with standard adult…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 04:11 PM
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They can't judge you for it if they don't know about it. Women will judge attractive men who use prostitutes, although they'd likely judge attractive men differently than they would ugly men. Maybe they'd be more likely to consider an attractive john to be slimy and sketchy, while they'd consider an ugly john to be unappealing and unable to attract women. Either way, you're being judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:32 PM
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Fuck hookers if you want to. Women will only judge you for it if they find out. So don't tell them. People judge each other. I'm sure the internet is filled with pure, open minded unicorns who never make assumptions or judgements about people without actually knowing them. However, real life is full of people who do make these assumptions. Get used to it. It's not changing anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 04:50 PM
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You forget a lot of men if not most are in (or want to be in) column A for themselves but want a column B woman. Plenty of men think sex is an important, intimate experience and aren't out seeking casual sex. Most men in column A wouldn't care if a woman was also in column A. Except terps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 04:21 PM
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I would say on average women with lots of tattoos and piercings are sluttier. From what I've seen women who hang out in 'alternative' and punk social circles tend to be a lot more wild than most. But many sluts do not have them. And I'm sure you can have a lot of tattoos and piercings and be relatively normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 02:09 PM
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Thanks Kaptain I'm glad you're impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 01:37 PM
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Woman 1- 5 Woman 2- 5 Woman 3 - 7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 04:18 AM
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I was raised in a Catholic family, and not the type of Catholic family that goes to mass twice a year. We went every week and all the holy days of obligation. I was an altar server and a CCD teacher during high school. It was a large part of my life. Not just USA vs North Korea. Some people are stupid, some people are smart. Maybe you had a shitty father or a good father. Lots of factors out of your control limit the amount of realistic options you have in life. I don't know of any community or …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 12:30 AM
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I was being a bit facetious. I've never met any gender fluid people. I only know what I know about them from what I've on brief online articles. But in all seriousness, isn't the idea behind gender fluidity basically mean they don't feel comfortable calling themselves a man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 12:14 AM
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What is good to you? What is evil to you? Very broad question. I guess the best summary would be that I believe in some variation of the 'golden' rule. What's good is what I think would help people, what's bad is what I believe would harm people. Where does your morality stem from? As in, what makes you believe what you do? My morality comes from my upbringing, my own judgement and my personal sense of 'fairness'. Do you follow a system of morality or do you roll your own code? "Roll my own code…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:18 PM
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Could you elaborate on that some? I don't know much about MBTI
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 05:31 PM
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Is it their tone or their tendency to write tedious dissertations on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 05:25 PM
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Why do you hate ENTPs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 05:14 PM
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It's not hard to believe or anything. I don't really discuss height IRL. I've only personally seen height preferences mentioned at length by women on PPD. And every time it's been brought up on this subreddit before, usually it's a user writing about how a height of 6' and over is ideal. But hey, short and average men need love too. It's nice to see that women do have some variety of preferences when it comes to height.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:45 PM
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Huh. I wouldn't consider 6'-6'2 'really tall' but I guess I understand what you mean. It's just strange in the context of this subreddit. I've never seen a woman mention a preference for shorter men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:20 PM
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Well that's a first
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:00 PM
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men over 6'0 in height Did you mean to write under not over?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 09:40 PM
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In general, TRP's advice is better when it maintains a tight connection to empiricism. So its advice about how to get laid is not bad. (Old school PUA was better, I think; the demise of peacocking is the triumph of straight men's desire not to be faggy over straight men's desire to be attractive to women.) But its advice to women, its advice for long-term relationships, and its explanations of why its advice works are all three awful. Relevant quote from u/ozymandias271 A lot of the things TRP p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:11 AM
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This subreddit has convinced me to never get married. Those articles are incredibly disheartening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 06:19 PM
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As a man, all I know is that stoned sex can be kind of a chore. I prefer indicas though so I usually feel heavy and tired when I'm high. It can be a lot of fun, but sometimes I lack the motivation to actually try and pleasure my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 03:11 AM
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I think "80/20" is untrue because in my own experience I have seen very little that supports the idea that only a small minority of men are getting laid all the time and the rest are only occasionally having sex or never having sex. The idea that you have to be in the top 20 percent to have sex with no strings attached is ridiculous. Plenty of average men have FWB and even ONS. AF/BB seems untrue because the women I know don't separate men into those distinct categories. Most women seem to prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 03:02 AM
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There are many reasons I don't believe the '80/20' rule, divorce rape, and AF/BB are true. Many on this forum have gone over this in length. We could talk about if you like, but that's not what this post was addressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 12:49 AM
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Blues use it as a cheap shamming tactic to discredit TRP outright without taking into considerations the valid things TRP brings up that have nothing to do with socially awkward nerds - mainly the issues of AFBB, unrestrained hypergamy, 80/20, feminist hysteria, divorce rape, etc. I don't assert that those things are untrue because everyone just knows them. I don't think those things are true. I have emphasized before that the a lot of the advice TRP promotes is relatively common sense, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 12:22 AM
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had 10 marriage proposals and has been engaged with multiple people She's a crazy slut Her male equivalent would also be a crazy slut
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 10:04 PM
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Do you think that common movie trope when the girl dumps the guy after finding out that he is doing some highly profitable and exciting, but morally wrong/questionable business is based in reality? I would say that for a responsible woman of average intelligence, finding out your SO was a criminal would definitely be a problem. Don't get me wrong, plenty of crazy, irresponsible, and easily bored women would love it. It wouldn't surprise me that that a good chunk of women crave the ups and downs …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 08:27 PM
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Equality is mostly used to mean equal treatment (within reason) and equal opportunity (within reason). The part of that most people debate seems to be what is 'within reason'. What are reasonable accommodations the government can provide to minorities or 'oppressed' demographics as defined by liberals? Granted, many in the alt-right simply believe that oppression isn't 'real' and people fail almost purely because of their inferior genetics. In other words, they either disagree with the necessity…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 05:41 PM
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And that's your prerogative. As long you have the social grace and tact to 'scare them straight' without coming off as insincere and uncaring, most people won't have a problem with it. But some people do come off as inconsiderate when discussing these things, and even if they aren't, their perceived attitude is still going to elicit a negative response from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 02:35 PM
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I was just making a funny, but my point was basically everyone makes mistakes. I think a better analogy might be calling your friend an idiot if his girlfriend cheats on him. Maybe she went to a booze-fueled party thrown by her ex boyfriend. Maybe your friend knew about it and who would be there but he let her go anyway. Was it stupid on his part? Obviously. But reminding him that he is technically at fault too because he was stupid is not only inconsiderate, but it's unnecessary and useless. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 02:20 PM
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Yes, no one is proposing that. But even the most hardcore feminists aren't claiming that anyone taken seriously actually believes something like that (in the modern Western world at least). What they believe is that rape claims are not taken seriously and that people are being inconsiderate when they tell rape victims things like "you shouldn't have been wearing that," or something. There are many, even most, that take it too far and believe that telling women it's a bad idea to get black out dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 10:24 PM
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So is the "you shouldn't have put yourself in that situation" mentality a product of being more hyper aware of the dangers that could potentially arise because of being in a different status? Used reasonably that's just common sense. It would definitely be hammered in more for people who grew in poorer neighborhoods. People can believe two things at once. You can believe that people have a responsibility to protect themselves and to be aware of their surroundings. At the same time you can also b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 08:49 PM
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Generally incels are disliked not because they can't get laid, but because they choose to be sexist and they are very bitter not just towards women but to society and anyone else who is having sex. 'Normies' is a legitimate insult in some of those subreddits and online communities. I feel bad for them, but I also feel bad for terps. But being dealt a shitty hand in life doesn't excuse shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 08:43 PM
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She can't know for certain that he would make her lead the convoy everyday unless he told her that. She can't even know for certain that he would even hold a grudge if she chose not to sleep with him. She could always tell someone else. He might not get punished for rape, but she could get another officer to help her out. At the very least other people might have to look into the case. She could've said no and driven lead. Dangerous? Of course. She did sign up for it though. Military service is …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 05:13 PM
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That's a pretty relevant piece of information that you left out of the OP. But it's still not quite rape unless he directly stated the threat. Bad news, and it should be illegal, but not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:48 PM
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Unless he gagged her and prevented her from speaking, he did give her a chance to say no. Unless he came in their and pointed a gun at her head, he gave her a chance to say no. She never had to drive the convoy as long as she was giving him sex. This proves that her giving him sex was directly correlated to not risking her life. Her having sex with him under the threat of her safety is rape. Having sex with someone under the threat of safety is rape. I'm arguing that there was no threat to her s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:42 PM
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thats interesting, I actually think the opposite. If he gave her the chance to say no, I think it would be less rapey. Well I thought you meant he was directly saying that he'll give her less dangerous jobs/positions if she sleeps with him and obviously implying if she doesn't then he'll give her more dangerous jobs. And he did give her a chance to say no. He probably assumed that she would say no to his advances if she didn't want to have sex with him. Well her options were: 1. always drive lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:25 PM
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Is this rape? I don't know enough about the law to make that judgement. I have an inkling that a commanding officer banging someone in his unit is illegal though and if it's not it should be. Is she actually a benefit of special treatment? I think she clearly got some level of special treatment. Or was she forced to accept this special treatment? She probably felt pressure due to the power dynamic present in their relationship before the sex. 'Forced' is a strong word though. I don't know if it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:16 PM
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The point is taking one study and one aspect of a male gender role and declaring this one aspect/study proves men are lazy is bad thinking. No different than what red pillians do. I think you overestimate how much women actually want to be doing what they're doing in these societies and underestimate how many are doing more work because they don't have another realistic option.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:14 AM
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Gender roles happen all over the world. There's probably a biological component, but I doubt it's that relevant in this case. Men have invented more things and overall have contributed more to the sciences. Most dictators , military leaders and people of influence are male. But that obviously doesn't mean women are not as naturally smart as men, or that they don't work as hard as men. It indicates that unless you live in a society with a certain level of both technology and effective infrastruct…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 02:48 AM
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Men aren't lazy by nature. At least no more than women are. I'd say the reason men tend to do less housework than women is outdated gender roles. I'm sure in the modern Western world most men marry women who work but maybe that was the dynamic they were raised in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 02:09 AM
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I think it's an easy, quick way for feminists to reference violence against women, slut shaming and what they claim are outdated concepts of consent and consent laws. I don't agree with all of those things and I think it's very obvious that the phrase 'rape culture' was chosen because it 1) causes outrage and brings attention to their cause and 2) it provides an alternative to 'misogynist' or 'chauvinist' and now you can say someone is a rape apologist or a part of 'rape culture' if they disagre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 06:30 PM
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Betas are scary!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 04:13 PM
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Feminists are an odd bunch. They have strange theories and they are very good at making outrage porn. But this is one of those things where the internet is just a very non-representative sample of the actual population. I'm assuming you're older. I am currently in college, a large university in a liberal city and everyone is fucking everyone all the time. If most girls who identified as feminists cried rape every time they had drunk sex or felt any type of regret because of sex, most of my frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 03:26 PM
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Attraction to bullies in highschool/college or to "Bad Boy" celebrities or attacking/getting up in the face of other men to show off aren't exactly what I'd call myths I don't think they're myths either. Just an unfortunate aspect of human nature. The world is cruel and unfair, and assholes get laid more than polite people. What makes a man 'good' has very little bearing on their attractiveness to women. And you seem to be fairly with it. I'm just trying to put it to you bluntly. If you want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 06:13 PM
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I'm going to assume that you reject all of my reasoning to explain it. If so, what would be the cause in your opinion? I don't reject all of the reasoning. They come from a different culture where sexual dynamics play out differently and some parts of Western society view Asians as being nerdy/boring and even feminine. I don't think all hope is lost. I've seen more white guys with Asian women but I have seen plenty of the reverse, especially when I used to live on the West coast. Maybe this is j…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 05:49 PM
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Because men who use prostitutes are perceived as either lame (because they need to pay for sex) or lacking self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 03:57 PM
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Shows like Masterchef and Hell's Kitchen etc indicate a greater interest in cookery, kitchens and chefing than engineering and engineers. That just indicates to me that show's involving cooking are easier to make a reality TV show out of. Mythbuster's was huge, and there are a variety of science shows with strong fanbases, including Cosmos and Through the Wormhole. There's also popular TV shows about teen pregnancy and all the different kind of white trash that live in the U.S. The societal perc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 12:30 AM
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I don't dislike chefs. I'm not a terp. Being 'alpha' isn't what makes someone likable or respectable. I respect chefs and the hard work they have to do, but the chefs I know I wouldn't consider 'alpha' and larger society doesn't view chefs as cool. Using the food network as proof that chefs are cool is a terrible argument. There's a science channel and syfy channel. Are scientists alpha? Are sci fi writers alpha? People would kill to work at Tesla or write a bestselling sci fi novel. Fiction Wri…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 08:10 PM
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I mean yeah people in 'foodie' cultures are going to think they are cool, but that's kind of irrelevant. Comic book fans think comic book artists are cool, STEM junkies think STEM gods are cool and so on. Cooking food isn't a masculine, bad ass thing to do. It's a pretty normal activity. I'm sure elite chefs have alpha qualities, but the elite of any competitive profession have alpha qualities, including STEM nerds. Can you admit it's kind of far fetched to believe that society views Marines and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 03:28 PM
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I don't wait tables at Olive Garden or a franchise. It's not Michelin rated, but it is a relatively upscale place. You generally need to make reservations a month in advance if you want a table. I make a living wage off the tips, even though I usually only work about 30-35 hours a week. The chefs aren't alpha. Just stressed out and annoying perfectionists. There's nothing masculine or impressive about being a chef. Not trying to be a dick, just being honest. No one thinks chefs are cool. I'm not…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 04:16 AM
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kings of their own little domains, they have massive egos, want everybody to be impressed by their creations You could describe any management position like that. A vice principal of a high school could be considered alpha if that's how we're deciding to define it. But the OP is implying that chefs are in the same class as soldiers and cops. Which is beyond ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 01:36 AM
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the "industry"? You mean a restaurant? Yeah, I have. I do. I wait tables. I've seen them work. Nothing particularly alpha about them. I'm guessing you must be a chef yourself, because that's the only way you could be delusional enough to believe chefs fall in the same category as soldiers, cops, firefighters, trial attorneys, and CEOs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 01:22 AM
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I don't think by virtue of going into a STEM career that means you are socially submissive. Would I say it's more likely a shy, introvert would end up in that field? Of course. But when you hear about guys like Feynman, who had Alpha qualities, it shows that you're profession is not necessarily your personality. But what makes a person 'alpha' is how cool they are and honestly there's nothing about being employed as an engineer that makes you less cool. It just attracts the kind of person that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 09:36 PM
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I think Emilia Clarke is gorgeous actually. Especially with her actual hair. Natalie Dormer just seems meh to me. Angelina Jolie seems weird to me. Her face and body, as well as her general vibe in movies. She kind of has that awkward lanky build going on I'm not in to. Doesn't help she's old enough to be my mom. Neither of them are ugly, but they are not attractive either (to me of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 08:16 PM
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I am :/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 07:11 PM
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Nothing wrong with them, I just find them inexplicably average. But for some reason they are considered hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 05:13 PM
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Lena Headey, Natalie Dormer, Emma Watson, Selena Gomez Angelina Jolie and Cameron Diaz but I don't know if anyone remembers them or thinks they're hot anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 04:44 PM
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And I agree it's best kids grow up in a two parent household. Single parenting is far from ideal. I wouldn't date a single parent and I don't blame anyone who doesn't either. But the crazy level of vitriol I've seen for single mothers from some RP commenters is strange and a bit unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 11:47 PM
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One reason is that TRP is partially an offshoot of the alt-right, so there is the some slight tradcon influence. Also why they blame single mother's for draining taxpayer money. The more obvious reason is that they think women suck in general. 'Women can't raise men right'. Also some psuedopsych theories about how single moms do everything they can to make their sons turn out differently than their alpha father who left them. The implication here being single moms turn their sons into betas. Whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 10:45 PM
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It's a combination of mocking Red Pillians for not getting it, as most people don't need it explained, and for the childish, nuance lacking conclusions they jump to. They go from thinking women are pure, superior angels to thinking they are shittier than men in every which way. Also the fact that a huge part of your cult and your ideology is that the average man views women the same childish way you all used too. That's very mock-able. And you're right, I have very little interest in trying to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 09:09 PM
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Yes it is. A lot of important, admirable qualities people want to have people are expected to just get. You just get how to be a leader. You just get how to be popular. You just get how to be funny. You just get how to make intelligent decisions. Of course all those things take practice, and people have a wide variety of relevant advice for all them. But the reality is many people never attain these qualities despite practicing and despite tips from others. If you found advice from TRP good for …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 07:56 PM
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Well if that's the case, then we simply had very different experiences growing up. I had heard people denying that women like bad boys and that they don't care about muscles, but I also know it was common for people to talk about how women love assholes and bad boys. I'm not implying the 'misinformation' you reference is not out there, it is. But at the same time reality clearly paints a different picture, and also plenty of accurate information is out there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 05:49 PM
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You JUST SAID two comments ago that kids should presume adults are lying to them about attraction. I meant to imply not that kids should assume their parents were lying to them, but that kids shouldn't (and furthermore, that most wouldn't) take every word their parents said as unquestionable truth. Hanlon's razor and common sense tell us that it is highly unlikely their parents are intentionally deceiving them. I guess kids should just be left to figure this out for themselves. If you think your…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 04:47 PM
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assume ineptitude and evil intent in the adults urn my kids into delusional paranoids by telling them everyone's lying to them I don't think adults are intentionally misleading anyone, even when they give 'bad' advice. I've gotten good advice from my peers and from my parents. I also have gotten plenty of advice that I didn't follow initially and now that I've gotten older I do follow, and I also have gotten plenty of advice I believed initially but I stopped believing because I formed my own th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 03:47 PM
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And that's a fair point. Personally I associate Reddit with your typical Redditor (nerdy, unpopular guys) so it seemed strange to me to get dating advice from the demographic a lot of them are trying to get out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 03:27 PM
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Honestly? Yeah. You never had a rebellious phase? You never were at a point in your life, maybe not twelve years old, but around 12-16 years where you thought to yourself "Fuck these guys, they don't know what the fuck they're talking about. Nobodeh understands meh!!" Or something like that? Did you ever ignore your parents and the adults around you and drink, do drugs, get into fights, and all that fairly normal high school stuff? EDIT: then aren't they just being evil Red Pillers for presuming…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 03:15 PM
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I've seen tons of women who insisted that they don't care about looks all that much and instead care much more about "personality" Have you considered that maybe this was because of the way the subject was brought up? Because I have heard women tell men that, not that often, but I've heard 'personality matters a lot/most/trumps all' be given out as advice. Every time I have personally heard this advice given, it's always to a guy who is obviously very down on himself. I know a few of the times I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 12:23 AM
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I don't know if it's women as much as it is society in general. Women don't care that much about what is traditionally referred to as masculine. At least when it comes to sex. They only care about the attractive parts of masculinity. Strength and confidence are what women care about most. Stoicism is just one way to portray that. The only parts of masculinity women give two shits about are the parts that portray strength and confidence. The clothes you wear, your mannerisms, are all fairly unimp…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 10:40 PM
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That's just some combo of bad character, laziness, wishful thinking, and mommy calling you her little handsome gentleman. I know it's thrown around a lot in derogatory way, but in all seriousness this really highlights why Red Pillians seem so autistic. They are predisposed to think analytically, yet (used to) have these romantic and naïve notions of romance and women. "I saw the girls fawning over the hot jocks but they all told me they actually like nice gaizz!!!!1!!1 Why wouldn't I believe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 10:16 PM
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He's the blue version of you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 09:58 PM
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These guys are all physically below average. But they are famous for being entertaining so there's a good chance they raise themselves up through charm. But honestly the first couple 'Ethan Klein and Hilla' look pretty equal physically. So equal in fact, it looks to me like they could be brother and sister. The rest of the girls aren't that stunning either. Just average. Don't get me wrong, kudos to the last two guys especially, who are physically 2s batting 5s. But clearly this is a lie. As we …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 07:10 PM
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"no woman has ever treated me like anything less that Don Juan" Quotations marks are definitely necessary. As that's definitely what I said. Clearly what I implied to. We all know not being 'shit tested' = being treated like Don Juan
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 05:54 AM
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hell it might mean they're attracted to you if they shit test you a lot. Honestly I think you might be wrong about what TRP thinks about this. From what I've read on TRP subreddit I was under the impression a lot of shit tests just meant a women was making sure you were 'alpha' enough. With the implication that this meant you needed to improve yourself and up your game as to avoid these tests. Isn't the general consensus among TRP that Chad gets shit tested significantly less than betas? you'd b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 03:03 AM
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I don't think TRP is that wrong with regard to their actual advice. Especially if you just apply some of the 'concepts' with a level head. But I'd argue pretty much all the good advice on TRP is well known to most socially adjusted people. So I think you'd find more success or at least as much success simply expanding your social circle and making friends with some socially well adjusted people. They're pretty easy to spot. The affable and popular people. Take their advice, but also watch how th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 02:39 AM
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I knew the girl. We had the same weed dealer, who also happened to be my neighbor. I'm not certain, but I'm pretty sure he was also a semi-regular client. Or at the very least she had fucked him before. She admitted to being bipolar or borderline. Can't remember which. One of those crazy bitch diseases. She was in her mid twenties and already had two kids with two separate fathers. She spent several nights in prison for vandalizing her former boyfriends car after he broke up with her. These are …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 01:06 AM
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No it just makes you a liberal. Most alt-righters either can't or don't distinguish between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 10:01 PM
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Most Red Pillians seem to be full of shit. Most Feminists seem to be full of shit. And in fairness most people are full of shit. Including me. But you have to trust your own judgement at some point. Otherwise you go crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 09:56 PM
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I'll just have to take your word for it. I've only been casually acquainted with one sex worker before. I didn't know her very well. Friend of a friend. But she was pretty crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 05:00 PM
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Probably not. The type of person who is inclined to the lifestyle of a pornstar or an escort or any other type of sex work would be a pretty terrible match for me. I'm a pretty basic guy. Just call me Beta Bob. I'm the sure the head she'd give would be stellar and she'd be a freak, but that's not anywhere near enough to compensate for a lack of compatibility, at least in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 03:58 PM
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I understood what you meant, I just didn't word it very well. And I agree, the more options you have, the more likely you'll find satisfaction in life. But I don't think it will decrease the amount of regrets women have overall. While combining a family and a career will give you the benefits of both, it could also come with the downsides of both. Depending on the person, the downsides could outweigh the benefits. And of course the upsides could outweigh the cons for others. I'm just pointing ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 02:40 AM
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They get a certain age and then ask "is this all there is?" I see your point, and I agree with you, but only up to a point. I know the older men in my family, who were very career oriented, (in my family they're all military, but I'm sure this holds true for a lot of other working men) who are basically going through the same thing. Half of them are divorced and the other half have very cold and distant relationships with their children. Even though all of them have had objectively distinguished…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 02:02 AM
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But lets not conflate that with the word involuntary. Well it depends on how we're defining incel. Is it someone who's either a virgin well into his adult years or hasn't had sex in over a decade? Or is it the other definition where 'incel' refers to anyone who would like to be having sex, but can't, and is like that for any period of time? But they still could've had plenty of sex before, or at least been in a few relationships before. Because if we go by the second definition, then of course t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 06:44 PM
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But was the person you're referring to in your OP arguing that a not famous Patton Oswalt could get 'high quality' women? Or were they just saying fat short guys do indeed get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 11:52 PM
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Saw someone swear that Patton Oswalt is proof that you don't need to be a ripped model to get laid. You don't. Ugly people get laid all the time. Normally by other ugly people. Unless TRP doesn't count sex with ugly women as actual sex. Most do though. So yeah. You don't need to be a ripped model to get laid. Average and below average men do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 11:48 PM
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I only read the article, and I'll probably read the study later. But I thought it was very interesting. It fit well with my own personal experiences. Men are overwhelmingly more violent than women are, but I've seen guys fight each other until a nose or hand breaks, and a week later they're hanging out again like nothing happened. My guess is that this is an evolutionary trait that evolved to compensate for the wildness and violence testosterone encourages in males. BUT I'm not sure this holds t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 08:58 AM
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That's an important factor of TBP, sure they call it "satire" and think its "funny" but it isn't enjoyable for them in the way that I enjoy an episode of its always sunny or the office, they are just addicted to reading things that enrage them. Its the same thing for men who binge on feminist shit that will make them upset I agree unfortunately. It's kind of a hatefuck of a subreddit sometimes. But I do really enjoy the posts on TBP that are legitimately satire. Wish there'd be more posts like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 04:48 AM
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I don't think men age better than women, I just think that the facial features you develop with age look better on men than they do on women. Not that wrinkles are attractive, I'd just guess men wear lined faces better than women do. IMO this is likely due to how we define feminine and masculine. Femininity is associated with youthful and smooth appearances, while masculinity is associated more with roughness and maturity. And I can assure you, plenty of 30 year old men are fucking/dating women …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 04:11 AM
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that blue In my mind, being blue just means being anti RP I think it's a mistake to associate criticism of feminism with TRP and MRA and the rest of the manosphere. I have the same disagreements with MRAs as I do with feminists. Sometimes, when I get high and read this sub, I put on a tinfoil hat and wonder if there has been a conscious effort to associate criticism of feminism with the manosphere. That way you can't criticize feminists without being grouped in with MRAs and the like. Probably b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 10:25 PM
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I've wondered this too, as I am 'blue' my self but not a feminist. Not really anti- feminist, but I could not in good conscience ever identify as a feminist. I think the reason TBP is so feminist is because reading TRP and the manosphere blogs really helps support their world view. The majority of feminists believe we still live in a patriarchal dystopia. That most men objectify most women and that apparently the male brain works in dichotomies and women can only be seen as sluts or virgins. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 09:53 PM
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I actually might check it out. Ever since I got interested I this whole 'pill' business I've found myself interested in human sexuality and anthropology. I just started reading the 10,000 year explosion, which, although the subject matter different there is some overlap. Also worth a read if you're interested in But some others ITT are suggesting so I'll definitely look for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 08:11 PM
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I don't know much about the sciences, but I don't think claiming our 'psychology' is effected by certain evolutionary pressures and then studying these effects is pseudoscience. I'm sure it has its problem, but from what what I know about the sciences, isn't every discipline that involves a significant amount of speculation controversial? I've skimmed through only several academic sources and none of the studies claim anything that crazy. I think the better explanation is that the way TRP tends …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 01:21 AM
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Men do this, too! Absolutely. I'd argue women do it more, as that has been my experience, but that's probably just because women have higher standards than men anyway. I just didn't bother mentioning it though. Didn't feel like dealing with the standard red pill hate and OG dank terp truthz - 'only women do negative things!' 'penises come with honor!' One issue at a time, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 03:41 AM
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Does negging normally end in a bj in the next 72 hours? If so, I don't get what all the fuss is about. I don't mind negging at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 03:22 AM
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I can't speak for how they think. And in fairness I'm sure thereare women who would never sleep with a blonde guy or a guy with blue eyes. I can't imagine that many women place very much importance on small traits like eye color or hair color. I don't think it's a shit test. My guess is that it's an ego thing or something. Falsely inflating how high their standards are in order to appear more desirable or something like that. Who knows though?They don't do it on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 02:48 AM
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I've never used them. I'm very young too (20) I don't think it makes guys more desperate, it makes a lot of guys more insecure than they need to be. IME women, and maybe this is just my age group, but most women are not in tune with who'd they actually be attracted to on paper. Anecdote time. When I was 17, the girl that would end up being my second girlfriend told me she just 'couldn't' be attracted to blond guys. I am blonde. I had just met her. Within three days, we had started fooling around…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 02:12 AM
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It is entirely irrelevant to me. You are confused. I'm not concerned with what will get you laid. I'm not discussing whether or not terps get their dicks wet. That is entirely irrelevant to me. This is a debate forum. We aren't debating whether or not nomdplume gets hot sex from his wife now that he follows MRP. We're debating the truth behind the concepts of TRP. I'll admit there's some good advice in TRP. I'm sure it's helped some people. Just like I'm sure there is good advice and moral teach…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 10:46 PM
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If your movement attracts a lot of people who think women over 25 are all washed up whores, then something is usually wrong with your movement. You can tell me how 'they aren't really red pillers' all day. But just because there isn't a specific post about it in your most holy sidebar doesn't mean it isn't unfair or irrelevant to associate these ideas with the RP faith. It's not like these are fringe opinions either. I remember reading a post by an EC a few months old where they outlined why'd t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 08:52 PM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:19 PM
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Then don't read the subreddit. And don't contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:09 PM
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Rules on the r/sugarlifestyleforum that you could have very well broken with this post Rule #1- Remember the human Rule #4 - No "value for money" discussion Rule #10 - No gender bashing You didn't necessarily break rule number 10, but you have a history of posting to TRP and I have no doubt quite a few trolls from TRP have come to annoy the shit out of users on the sugar daddy subreddit. I'm not sure what rule #4 is necessarily about, but using contextual clues to figure it out there's a good ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:03 PM
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I haven't met any women who deny it. Unless you're just approaching older woman you don't know and discussing the relationship between the price of hookers and age with them. Then they probably just don't want to talk to you. Generally, when you are a banned from a subreddit, it's because you broke one of their rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 05:44 PM
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Maybe a few crazies, but I guarantee you most feminists are well aware that youth is considered attractive. EDIT: And I think when they reference maturity, they are talking about how their maturity is attractive in that it makes them more suitable for a relationship. Which I agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 05:29 PM
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I don't think it's a red pill concept to believe that younger women are usually considered more attractive than older women. The RP stuff most take issue with is craziness like 'Every woman over 25 is disgusting and repulsive.'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 05:18 PM
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Honestly, now that I think about it, but what seems to separate good sex from bad sex (for me at least) is how sensual the sex is. So I guess good sex maybe? But then sometimes you're in the mood for something rough, which still can be good sex. But I wouldn't call it sensual. Basically I don't know. But I meant to write 'something sensual can often also be described as sexual'. So I think my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:37 PM
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Well, that's a completely different question than what you are asking. The short and sweet answer is that is what's considered the 'norm' in most Western countries. People usually follow societal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:15 PM
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Normally, in the most Western countries, monogamous relationships are established with the expectation that you will not have sex with another person. Hence being called monogamous. Because of this, cheating is considered bad for what should be many extremely obvious reasons. You're breaking a promise you made, you can't be trusted, your need to bust a nut takes precedence over your girl's feelings. Generally, my naïve Greek friend, these are considered bad things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:08 PM
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Sensual refers to any type of physical gratification, usually with the connotation that it is also sexual in nature. Sexual is just anything relating to sex. So more often than not, there is no line between the two, as something sexual can often also be described as sensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:00 PM
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I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:46 PM
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How does dating a black guy show no self respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 05:57 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 05:56 AM
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I'm sure it is. I'm not claiming race is irrelevant. You just can't change it, so why worry about it? But there are women who have height requirements on dating profiles, and plenty of men under 6 ft do fine. Likewise, just because some women aren't into black guys doesn't mean you should just give up if you're black. Hell, there has to be plenty of white women who fantasize about black guys. They just fantasize about hot black guys. Which OP clearly isn't. Which makes the issue his attractivene…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 05:07 AM
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Not an MRA, but I might check it out. Thanks, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 04:21 AM
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First, bring these problems to the attention of a therapist or another licensed medical professional, and actually listen to any advice they have. BPD is treatable. No doubt there are support groups online, people who have experienced what you are going through, who have relevant advice. Learn how to control your temper, stop pitying yourself because the only other person who gives a shit is your mom, and get out there, try and fail until you succeed. If you're overweight or you're skinny, then …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 04:09 AM
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Oh lord. I'll fucking dare to do whatever I want to, keyboard warrior. I didn't miss your bipolar post. I mentioned it in my previous reply. I pointed out that your last two posts to this subreddit (this one and the bipolar one) were about qualities that you have no control over preventing you from ever getting laid. In other words, you came here to say "I can't get laid/ fuck my fantasy white girl, no matter what I do!" And you want the users on this subreddit to say, "Hey, you're right. Nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:52 AM
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This is reddit. A quick look at your post history and what do I see? Two posts about "desperately wanting to date" a white gal. A post to MGTOW. Several gaming/ star wars posts. Nothing necessarily wrong with any of these things, you could still be DeShawn Studly (although it makes me skeptical). Oh and there is another post on PPD where you bitch about failing with women, where you once again pick a quality you have no control over (mental disorder that post, and this post- race) and blame your…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:38 AM
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Clearly not every black guy is charismatic, tall, and funny. You obviously aren't. I'm just pointing out why blaming your lack of success with women on your race is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:28 AM
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Whatever you need to do to avoid questioning your faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:24 AM
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You're black, aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:22 AM
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What black dudes are you talking about? Yourself? Black guys seem to be the most successful at interracial (EDIT)dating fucking out of all men, at least IME. But you're probably right. Everyone knows the stereotypes about black guys. Tall, athletic, charismatic, outgoing, masculine, funny, confident and well endowed...Who'd want to fuck that guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:17 AM
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This isn't really about what I think. Actually, I asked you about your opinion. So it is about that. I want to hear what you think. you're not going to be able to argue against it without running into someone who says "well, I'm a feminist and I don't think that". I guess it wasn't clear enough in my first reply. Let's go back to Christianity. If you are someone who criticizes Christianity because of it's stance on gays or abortion, and you run into someone who says "Well, I'm a Christian, and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:09 AM
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And just like we can break down what TRP is at its core, criticize its ideas and make accurate and fair generalizations about it, we can do the same for feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:49 AM
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Absolutely. I haven't played magic the gathering, but aren't their rules you have to follow, and certain cards you have to use? Without those things, then it isn't magic the gathering, it's nothing. It's something you just made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:55 AM
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Do you think someone can be a feminist if they don't believe their is a Patriarchy in the modern Western world? Do you think someone can be a feminist if they don't believe in the concept of rape culture? Do you think someone can be a feminist if they don't believe it is a necessity to educate people about the concept of affirmative consent? Do you think someone can be a feminist if they are completely anti-abortion? As in no exceptions, even if the life of the mother is on the line? Now, let's …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:51 AM
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What bothers me is the vitriolic response from some feminists to the adjective subgroup feminists (EG moderate equality feminist). I absolutely agree. I'm no fan of the Men's Rights Movement, but Sommers seems to be a reasonable woman. Most Men's Rights 'figureheads' annoy me, but I can respect her opinion at least. Milo Yfuckspellinghisname, Gavin McInnes and the like seem to be just reddit trolls in human form. I don't agree with everything Sommers says, but if I went by what I heard your aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:14 AM
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For the purposes of debate, simply saying "feminists think this" is meaningless. You need to specify what kind of feminism you're talking about. Seems kind of like a cop out to me. No movement or philosophy is so vague that making any type of generalization about it is 'meaningless'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 11:55 PM
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Both are unwilling to combat the radicals element on both of their sides This is the biggest similarity in my opinion. Also the 'radical' elements are often encouraged by the 'leaders' of both movements. Obviously in TRP I'm referencing endorsed contributors and Rollo Tomassi, etc... And if IIRC a lot of the trans exclusive and the extremely sex negative feminists have relatively high profile academic careers and are very well respected, which is the closest thing you can to get to being a 'lead…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 11:37 PM
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Feminism means whatever the person self-identifying wants it to mean. I've heard this sentiment expressed by a lot of feminists. But if feminism can mean anything, doesn't that mean it's nothing? I'm not trying to have a "Aha, Gotcha!" moment. I'm just curious about the logic behind this statement. Obviously every person interprets things in different ways, but in the end, all self identifying conservatives, or liberals, or Christians, or Muslims have a few consistent beliefs. All of these movem…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 11:28 PM
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it's basically the same kind of love that exists between friends, only romanticised and with sex involved. This is what I've always thought romantic love was. It's subjective. I suppose you can say, "Well that's not romantic love to me!" And I guess you're right. But that's what it is to me. Not sure what the deal is with people blaming idealism on "our media". AFAIK, even though my understanding of history is far from complete, idealism has been around forever. The media just portrays idealism …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 09:46 PM
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I don't think my experience invalidates anyone's experience. I think my experience invalidates the conclusions red pillians come to based off their experiences. I don't doubt that a lot of men have trouble with women or were mistreated by women. What I do doubt is that this is the 'average male' experience. I doubt most men are falsely accused of rape, that most women are soulless harpies, that 80% of men are barely getting laid and that 20% of men are getting laid all the time. And so on and so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 08:09 PM
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Yeah. Especially some of these younger guys, going on about how it's so much harder to get laid in college. All I see in college are sluts. Everyone sleeping with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 05:29 PM
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5'10
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 05:26 PM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 05:26 PM
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I was 'researching' MRAs. The MRM bored me. Too vanilla. I wanted to see some real sexism in action. The Red Pill sub on the other hand was like some autistic fraternity. I thought it was a troll group initially. When I realized everyone was being serious, I was very interested in delving into their minds as much as I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 02:38 PM
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I wouldn't say I "naturally' got it. It took me a few years to figure things out. As far as looks go, I'm pretty average. Average height, weight. Average sounding voice. My face is fairly average as well, with symmetry and all that. I don't think I'm the king of charisma or confidence either. I have some insecurities, like most people. Average intelligence. I may be a little bit funnier than most, but that's kind of subjective. I've probably annoyed as many people as I've entertained with my jok…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 03:47 AM
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Its depends on your own personality more than anything. Try for an LTR, and if doesn't appeal to you, it doesn't appeal to you. I'm very relationship oriented. For a combination of reasons. I don't think you should sleep around with whoever. I've known too many people who do and from what I've seen it just isn't the healthiest lifestyle (for women AND men, mind you). I've fooled around with gals I wasn't dating, but the only time I've had actual intercourse I've established a relationship with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 03:20 AM
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Just how deeply are you concerned?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 01:01 AM
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I like your attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 08:12 AM
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The real point OP is driving at is that feminist only wants sex positivity up to a point. I agree with this to some extent I suppose. They are perfectly ok with some culturally-imposed shame and stigma remaining around sex, so long as that stigma primarily effects men and not women. Assuming this is true, what steps do you think society/government should take to fix it? (Serious question)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 07:55 AM
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Isn't all social etiquette and whatnot circular logic anyway? Isn't the reasoning behind social norms inherently circular? I do what they do because they do it. By all means, if you want to, ask a woman at the grocery store to bang you, but don't expect it to work. And don't expect her to respond warmly if you ask her either. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 07:28 AM
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Why do you disagree with said stigma?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 07:06 AM
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Because it's an inappropriate way of getting sex At risk of circlejerking (sorry mawds I can't tell if it is or isn't) but only on PPD do we need to discuss why saying, "... I want to bang your brains out. Want to come to my place?" to a stranger in a grocery store is inappropriate. I figured most men intuitively understood why doing something like that is is inappropriate. But RP users like to remind me that I often overestimate people all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 07:01 AM
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It's almost like lots of people rationalize away selfish and stupid decisions they make, regardless of their gender. Almost.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 09:11 PM
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From my limited experience, whether or not a friendship with mutual attraction succeeds depends on the larger context. If they have another reason for seeing each other, like they work together or they have a lot of mutual friends, I don't see why not. It also depends on how attracted you are to them. I've had a lot of female friends that I find good looking enough. I guess under different circumstances I'd sleep with them. But none of them I find sexy,you know? If a girl just turns me on throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 08:40 PM
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Other posters have already addressed why assuming that just because women have more opportunities to cheat doesn't mean they actually cheat more. Women have lower sex drives, and more importantly, the empirical evidence we have relating to this question points to the conclusion that men cheat more. The few studies I'm aware of by googling this topic about 5 minutes ago all claim that men usually cheat more than women. While I agree that women are on average much more likely to avoid conflict, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 06:53 PM
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Wait? Are you telling me...porn...isn't-uh,-isn't...real? No...I...I REFUSE TO BELIEVE IT!!!!!! Next thing you know you're going to tell me that I have to do more than simply insert my big penis into a vagina in order to make a girl orgasm. Get outta here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 06:42 PM
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I'd be very confused. I'd probably spend most of my time trying to reverse this magical PPD hex and become average male me again. In the meantime I'd go full lesbian, significantly improve my oral skills and learn how to finger fuck while having long ass fingernails. But who knows? I'd probably fuck a man eventually, out of pure curiosity more than anything else. I don't think I'd try to change much. I'm a prideful fucker. The best thing about being alive so far has been being me and not someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 12:33 AM
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I do know that. I'm not sure why you're under the impression I don't know that. I'm saying if my roommate sometimes left a glass out by the sink instead of washing it immediately, I'd ask him to not to do that anymore. I wouldn't silently stew in anger and I wouldn't start to resent them for it unless I'd already brought it up and they continued to do it. Leaving a glass out by the sink sometimes is not the same thing as being a slob and never picking up after yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 07:45 PM
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I'm confused now. Where did you get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 07:36 PM
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What? What are you talking about? When my roommates do something that annoys me, I bring it up. I use my words, and ask them to stop the behavior that annoys me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 07:30 PM
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And she should use her brain and be a partner and take a few minutes to say, "Hey, it bothers me when you leave a glass by the sink. Could you please not do that again?" And don't be disingenuous. Leaving a glass out by the sink because you get a little bit lazy is not the behavior of a toddler. It's the behavior of normal human being, who has flaws and isn't perfect. When you married someone, I was under the impression the intention was to make it last your entire life. I assumed that most peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 07:04 PM
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That makes me sad. Maybe I've been spending too much time reading this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 06:18 PM
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This is the shit that makes me never want to get married. If it fails, am I going to turn into this sad sack of shit? I don't know this guy, but I feel like I've seen this guy a million times. Bowed shoulders, eyes to the ground, a belly that drapes over his manhood. The closest thing a man can get to tucking his tail between his legs and whimpering like a hurt puppy. Wishing he had just done a few things differently so she wouldn't have left him. And you know what? If he had cheated on her, tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 05:56 PM
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Jesus, do you live in a third world country? 30 year old women are still good looking. Their skin isn't wrinkled, their boobs are usually still perky. If they're fit and they have put in some effort into taking care of their skin, the difference in attractiveness between a 30 year old and 20 year old is minimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 10:34 PM
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no yes ;) MILFs>fatties
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 10:27 PM
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I'm just looking forward to exterminating the white race by encouraging Muslims cuck us and rape our women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 10:09 PM
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Sick burn bro. I'm so enraged I want to just go out and start feminizing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 09:50 PM
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Except Huh? What are you taking exception too? Where did I even imply that a youthful appearance was not attractive? I agree. A youthful appearance is attractive in woman. But so is a good body, good skin, nice eyes, and nice hair and so on. Being young doesn't make you automatically beautiful. Just like being over 30 doesn't make you automatically ugly. I figured that was common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 09:48 PM
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It also depends on where you live. Living in the U.S. is a chubby chasers dream. But it still varies from area to area. I lived in a college town for a while and most of the girls there were fit and good looking. Fat was not the norm. I live in a more rural lower class area currently and way more people are overweight, including 18-22 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 09:41 PM
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30 isn't even old. I don't think looks start fading until you're in your late thirties or early forties. And big part of the reason for that seems to be bad lifestyle decisions as well. A fit 40 year old woman is more attractive than an obese 20 year old. Always. And 18-19 year old women have acne and aren't always fully developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 07:38 PM
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"smile more" That phrase is the bane of my existence. If you tell me I should smile more, I guarantee you that you're never going to see me smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 04:56 PM
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In my experience I've met men who rationalize their libido's away too. A lot of men. I'm tempted to say most. And I've met women who were fully aware of the fact that their 'tingles' were messing with their judgement. I don't think this is a flaw that is gender specific. Men and women seem to do it and not do it at a somewhat equal rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 04:52 PM
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I've said before"sorry, not interested" with a deferential smile! And still got called a bitch That's what I mean. Polite and direct. But you know, some guys are pussies. If you reject a guy, there's a chance he's a baby and he'll throw a little tantrum. But IMO, telling a dude you're not interested and getting called a bitch, beats sitting around having him annoy you for an hour before he gives up(and he may still call you a bitch anyway). I grew up in an urban city. Being direct with the dude …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 04:27 PM
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Lastly, in some situations, "creep" is a valid description. I'm sure it is. Just like "bitch" is sometimes a valid description. And I totally agree, if a stranger asks you for midday dumpster quicky, that's creepy. And if you've said "I have a boyfriend," Or "Sorry, I'm not interested," and he keeps on hitting on you, that's little bit creepy too. However, a lot of times someone becomes a "creep" only after women feel like they've extensively hinted that they're uncomfortable with the situation.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 04:15 PM
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Just have to make it work for you. And by that I mean find someone who's into it. My girlfriend told me she was initially attracted to me because when she first saw me, she thought I looked like a young Michael C. Hall. I don't think I actually look like him. I just have a very low brow, a fairly strong jawline and hollow cheekbones. Basically I share the distinctive facial features of your typical movie villain. I mean I've also been told I look like Willem Dafoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 04:42 AM
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I think this is relevant, I posted it earlier as a comment Creepy is an overused word that girls use to describe everything from a slightly awkward social encounter to the behavior of an actual serial killer. The trick is not to give a shit. If you hit on women with any regularity, a girl is going to throw around the word creepy eventually and if you let it get to you, you're worse off than you were before. Most of the time, it's just a lazy way for them to reject your advances. It's far easier …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 02:39 AM
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My view is, the constant pushing of consensual sexual interaction and "Don't be a creeper", leads to women judging men and their interaction with them exclusively by how attractive a man is. I disagree because women have always judged will always judge men partly by how attractive they are. Same way men judge women. But I get what you're saying. I probably get what you're saying better than most guys would. I have a creepy looking face. I basically have resting bitch face, but I'm a male and hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 12:52 AM
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Let's be honest here. As a person who is actually in college, I'll tell you the VAST majority of women over 40 are not worth drooling over. And the few that are actually attractive, are usually 'meh'. I see better looking girls my age all the time. But I'm sure they could find some guy who was willing. I figure it's the same for men. Most old guys probably aren't appealing and the few that are, are probably outshone by the multitude of attractive men that are age appropriate. But I bet they coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 04:46 PM
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Sure, I'd do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 04:28 AM
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this will go so well with modern feminism, especially when used to explain the wage gap or the lack of female CEOs and women on companies' board of directors, or even the lack of women in STEM I think my views are pretty standard, I'd imagine a decent chunk of feminists would agree. The more extreme parts of the movement might not. I'm not a feminist myself though, so I won't lose any sleep over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 09:50 PM
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Well that's kind of a broad question, but I figure the answer is kind of obvious. Men and women are not equally capable. People as a whole are not equally capable to each other. Some people suck at math, others are good at math. There are some things women tend to be better at and some things men tend to be better at. This is also ignoring the reality that your average woman is physically 'inferior' to your average man. Not just because of size and muscle mass. Men even have an advantage in acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:05 PM
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and the MAWDS are getting ready in ...4,3,2,1... deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 06:52 PM
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Do you feel like the actions of the OP and his fellow "white knights" was justified? It reads like some small town nerd fantasy. I have trouble believing it happened. But if it did, I don't think it was justified. There's a reason vigilante justice and vandalism are illegal. Do you think that the events in this story are a common occurence or reflect on a larger trend in our culture? That is, a group that the OP openly describes as "white knights", comprised of "computer nerds, D&D guys, and som…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 04:30 PM
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Don't get fat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 08:55 PM
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This guy gets it. Most definitely a blue pill double agent. Blue Pill 101- Gynocentric Code, Rules, and Guidelines- #37- Free pussy is free pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 07:27 PM
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Dating apps like tinder are a terrible idea for most people I think. Especially most men. But anything that gives you an excuse to socialize with other people will do nothing but help you. And I'm sure if PokemonGo and similar apps remain popular, many a fuckbuddy and relationship will start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:57 PM
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If it is enough to be traumatizing to a child (this is where most literature focuses on in journals) then why not an adult? Because adults and children are different. Children are weaker in every way, their minds more malleable and their ability to understand and communicate with the world is not yet fully formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:58 AM
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But another way of looking at it - the correct way, IMO - is that "sexual strategy" is the innate set of instincts that form our sexual selection process. I'm not criticizing the morality of the innate instincts of human beings. I'm criticizing the actions RPers take, (such as purposely making statements that imply you would consider leaving your wife). That's not instinctual, that's something you weren't doing before, and you started doing because a subreddit suggested it was a good idea. Hyper…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:46 AM
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Will withholds true compliments. He tells me how great the house looks, but to me, that doesn’t matter. I want him to compliment my awesome new artwork that he can’t help but see when he walks in the door. That is important to me, but he ignores it, even when I fish for compliments. He doesn't compliment her when she wants him too. Will won’t talk to me about anything of importance for hours and sometimes days. He’ll make requests (“Pass the butter”) or ask questions (“Where are my shoes?”), but…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 05:28 AM
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Really? It's a shitty thing to do, but abuse? That's a little bit ridiculous. I read your link. All shitty things to do, but I wouldn't call what the husband was doing 'abusive'. Definitely messed up, but I've met women who had the shit beat out of them by their husbands and I don't think denying your wife access to money is even in the same ballpark as that shit. Verbal abuse is real, but deprivation? Sounds like bologna to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 04:31 AM
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Reality/the universe is amoral. It can't be moral or immoral. I agree. But that's simplifying the issue a little bit. Corrupt politicians and businessman who act unethically for the bottom line are practically the norm. And that's because of reality. Whoever is willing to do whatever it takes to get to the top are the people who end up at the top. I think it will always be this way to some extent. Let's assume I'm right and this is a reality of the world. It doesn't make corruption, lying, manip…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 03:39 AM
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Let's say a man "upgrades" his partner. His current girlfriend is great and he's satisfied with her, but then for some reason he gets the chance to date a rich international supermodel, so he leaves her Nothing about this is horrifying. This shit happens all the time. It's not the right thing to do, IMO. But what's moral and what isn't moral is subjective (also IMO) especially when it comes to stuff like relationships and dating. I mean it used to be okay to beat your wife. Yet I don't even thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 11:38 PM
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It's bad advice for some people because it requires a lot of context to understand thoroughly. Some people might not be aware of said context and misinterpret it in various ways. But in context, it's perfectly fine advice. Also though, if somebody's problem is that they are struggling with women and this is the advice they are given, I could understand why that would be flustering especially if they don't know how to frame the advice properly in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 01:35 AM
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Are you sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 11:37 PM
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People generally don't like dying alone and without a legacy. If you don't have kids you're almost certainly dying alone and your memory will soon be forgotten. If you're cool with that, good for you. Most people aren't though. Don't get mad at a little friendly advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 10:44 PM
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psst... That is what most men think. I figure you're not going to elaborate on this at all. But I literally can't argue with that. Because it's not an argument. I see why you fellas love Trump so much. Your attitude toward women is too feminine to be useful to any man that doesn't understand women. What exactly is feminine about my attitude toward women? It would be like telling a soldier to humanize the enemy. Except it wouldn't be like that. Because getting laid is almost nothing like war.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 10:32 PM
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They don't do anything interesting, their opinions are boring I've met plenty of women who do interesting things and that have weird opinions. You can yawn all you want, but if you're going to claim women overwhelmingly act a certain way and base this claim off of nothing but personal anecdotes, then I'm going to give you an anecdote right back. they're overwhelmingly nonviolent So are men. I'm not sure why this is a bad thing. The goal of a civilized society is to get the people to prosper as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 09:27 PM
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For instance, I'd be more willing to discuss the morality of a given strategy/tactic, if BP folks didn't so often either conflate efficacy with morality or deem 'sexual strategy' immoral as an entire body of thought. And that's fair. But that's the problem with debate in general. It's hard to put aside your ego and actually argue in good faith. Ideology makes this even more prominent (on both sides). You're not only defending yourself, you're defending the tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 08:44 PM
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Interspersed with those valid concpts is hyperbole about those very same concepts. Exactly. That being said, women (and men), have feelings and a conscious. Most women will not dump a man she has feelings for just because someone more "alpha" wants her. It's almost like women are people too or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 04:40 PM
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I think it's just a symptom of a society that still doesn't have a healthy way to deal with and talk about sexuality. People don't want to talk about all the societal expectations around sex unless it's about something either obvious or it feeds into the media's outrage machine. As in we either tell kids in high school that wearing condoms is a good idea, or we talk about how men these days have expectations of women that are too high because of porn and patriarchy. No one wants to talk to young…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 02:53 PM
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I don't disagree with TRP because they claim men can "spin plates". I don't even disagree with TRP because they claim men should spin plates. I disagree with TRP because they claim the best way to get a 'soft harem' is to act like an inconsiderate jackass. All the guys I'm thinking of that 'spin plates' are affable and fun to hang out with. A few of them don't even lift (gasp). They aren't alpha males in the way TRP imagines them. They're just horny bastards who try a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 04:25 PM
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I've texted my girlfriend that exact phrase. And she did indeed come over and fuck me. In a relationship, doing that would be pretty standard I'd imagine. I've never done that with someone I'm not explicitly dating though, although I've never had actual intercourse with someone I wasn't dating either. I certainly know people who can and who do so on a semi-regular basis. Most of them either spend most of their free time trying to get laid, or they have a few women they casually see every now and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 01:41 PM
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I'm suggesting the main reason for men caring about their dick size is that big dicks = good and small dicks = bad. I don't think there's any logic behind it, that's just the way our culture views dick size. Maybe the reason does originate with the idea that a big dick is more pleasurable than a small dick in bed. But I don't think what's going on in a man's head when he associates value with dick size is he thinks it means that women like his dick more. A big dick, in and of itself, means he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 04:34 AM
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The dick size thing is also just a manifestation of the competitive side of masculinity. Big dicks are good, because pop culture tells us that cool men have big dicks and lame men have small ones. I mean a go to insult to put a man down is implying that his dick is small. And while I believe the women who claim that dick size isn't that much of a factor in sex, I also believe that whether or not they'll admit it, the large majority of them are turned on by big dicks. Part of this is for the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 04:03 AM
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I don't even really care that that is so common. Women are going to see men how they see them, and I'm not interested in playing thought police even if I thought that doing so would change their view (it won't). The fact that they can dish it out but can't take it tends to put the lie to their claims of righteousness I agree with you here. But I don't think that women who sit around and regularly bitch about their husbands are viewed positively. From what I can tell, and I know this is certainly…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 03:13 AM
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Eh, I get what you're saying. Sexism is more acceptable when it comes from women. But that's just leftover cultural baggage. Same reason black comedians are granted a little more leeway with jokes at the expense of white people. The vast, vast majority of men and women know that men are capable of being more than children guided by their boners. The vast, vast majority of men and women have never questioned men's capability as a whole gender. But women and black people were once considered dumbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 01:42 AM
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What? Why make all these assumptions? If you tell me that men are emotional children that can't think beyond their dicks and you're being serious, I would call you a sexist and a misandrist too. I suppose you're right that women make jokes like that all the time. I'm cool with that. I make 'sexist' jokes to tease my girlfriend all the time. She's cool with that. Are there some feminists who are self righteous and stupid enough to think that any jokes at the expense of women are patriarchy in act…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 01:14 AM
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He'll have to sign his life to her in contract. So that covers who can bang who. Yes. As an average man, the only time I've ever had sex is after I've professed my eternal love and devotion, and surrendered all my resources. Glad we got that covered. It doesn't matter. Women bang based on attractiveness Yes, women like to have sex with attractive men. I will not argue against that. And what doesn't matter? I mean, sexism was the norm back in the day. Most men, as they are today, were having sex.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 12:30 AM
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Yes, your only options. Be a sexist or bang ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 10:44 PM
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When you stop attracting "AWALT" variety women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 08:45 PM
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I'll admit it. I believe that. Living with my wife feels like raising a daughter. You think just because I recognize a fundamental difference between me and a woman I must hate her, but as it turns out, I don't. I guess misogynist might not appropriately describe you then. The word sexist definitely does. But I'm guess that's a meaningless word to you. You can certainly have prejudices against someone, but also not necessarily have contempt for them. That's fine. Doesn't make you right. It also …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 08:06 PM
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Yes, but in fairness, that isn't strictly a RP thing. A lot of people believe that. Emotions and logic don't occur in vacuums. But people don't like to consider the idea that you can do two things at once. It makes the world complicated, with solutions to problems being unclear and often times not straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 07:54 PM
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When you think all women are emotional children not capable of logical thought, then you might be a misogynist. If you think the vast majority of women have no value beyond their vaginas, then you just might be a misogynist. But don't get me wrong. I'm not doubting you guys dislike a lot of men too. I'm amazed at how easily butthurt some RPers get on this sub in particular. I get that in the RP echo chamber, shit will be talked and it's fun to say that everyone that disagrees with you is a cuck.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 07:45 PM
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It's almost like video games are catering to the fantasies of a certain demographic. A demographic that wants to bang hot women and also likes to imagine themselves as being muscular, strong and dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 09:55 PM
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Yeah OP 100% this. Also I'd like to add that most guys can be assholes sometimes. Sometimes you can sound rude, or be too blunt with someone. And if you're not getting laid and seeing some other guy that is, through a lens of envy you might only see the guys negative traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 09:45 PM
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Where did I say I don't care?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 09:23 PM
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One right that society needs to address is male reproductive rights. By which I mean a way for men to have their own children. Prior to feminism's first huge triumph, the Tender Years Doctrine, the way for men have their own children was through marriage. How are we supposed to address this "right"? Women are the ones that grow the child in their womb, and the ones who go through childbirth. They objectively put in more effort and invested more into the child, so why shouldn't they have more of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 05:57 PM
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You've written a well thought out argument. You can clearly count yourself among the more level-headed and reasonable folks in the 'manosphere'. Keep in my mind when reading the following, I'm only 19, this is reddit, it's three in the morning and I'm not that bright. Don't take it with a grain of salt, take it with a whole bottle. I am not a feminist like most users with "blue pill" flairs. I basically agree with everything you wrote. But you seem to be implying that men are oppressed. And if w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 09:13 AM
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Am I reading this wrong or are you saying you are/were a pornstar? Or am I just stupid and you're joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 03:40 PM
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I mean it's a good height in that I'm not short. I'm just not tall. And the internet seems to be filled with height queens and insecure guys who think anything below 6' is a death sentence in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 02:19 PM
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Haha I don't know about the legitimacy of those stats, but just from personal experience this does seem to be true. The thing is a few black guys I know (that's a lie, I'm white, it's just one) have banged chubby chicks several times. But I also know for a fact the guy has pulled some fine ass women too. So I don't know if it's just a lack of other options. Maybe because of the higher obesity rate among blacks, being overweight is just not considered as much of a drawback as it is to whites. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 12:13 AM
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It's not PPD if you don't sprinkle it with some stormfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 10:31 PM
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Because people suck and women are bitchy. I identify as "blue pill" or as I like to call it "normal". But I'm not a feminist. I'm not anti-feminist though. I'm generally not into political movements. Like all political movements, feminism has it's fair share of hypocrisy and stupidity. Most people I know are annoyed by feminists and their bullshit IRL. It's part of the reason TRPs narrative of "Teh Feminazehs iz takeing teh menz ballsacks away" seem so ridiculous to me. Feminism isn't popular th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 10:25 PM
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I don't think it has that much to do with race. There's plenty of white dudes who are horny/desperate enough to hit that. I think black guys are just more often into bigger women regardless of the woman's race.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 10:18 PM
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Most guys I know are either in relationships or regularly seeking out casual sex and finding it. The few that aren't have the ability but just don't want to put in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 02:57 PM
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So what's going to happen in five years?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 02:41 PM
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The biggest one I can think of is music. I'm amazed at the amount of introverted, mathematically minded folks who spend several hours a day playing video games or watching TV that tell me they just don't have time to learn how to play an instrument. It takes some time to learn, but if you dedicate yourself to an instrument like guitar, bass, drums, or piano, it's a matter of somewhere between 4-10 months (less than that if you are musically inclined) to where you can gain the skill to play publi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 01:24 AM
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Do you not have hobbies? That's where you make friends and enter social circles. If you don't have hobbies that involve socializing, try out some new ones. You seem like an articulate guy, there's bound to be an activity out there that is social in nature you would be interested in. Go out and find it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 11:41 PM
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I'm not a Chad. I'm basically the opposite of a Chad. I'm Billy Bob Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 11:38 PM
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You're only telling us the bare minimun of the traits you have and you decided to focus on positivity as the one main factor that makes you attractive. In other words, you're hiding information. What traits should I have told you about? That I have been told time and time again I look "creepy"? That I've heard people say I look like a young Willem Dafoe? That I have acne scarring from a terrible complexion I used to have a few years ago? That I'm blonde? That I'm pale? That I'm only 5'10? The on…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 11:35 PM
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Only very few men are getting laid all the time This is where we disagree and I don't know how to change your view other than to say that this has not been my experience. Women certainly have access to sex more. No argument against that from me. But most guys I know are having sex regularly. They have to put in more effort to get it than women do, but it's not nearly as hard as TRP and the manosphere claims it is. Edit- Grammar again, fucking a
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 11:16 PM
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I'm saying just go out and try more. Experience is the best teacher. You can read all the PUA and RP theory you want, but the best way to learn to attract women is to fail until you succeed. Like everything else in life. By all means, be confident.But confidence takes experience and I'm going out on a limb here and assuming you don't have a whole lot of experience. And that's fine. Getting laid isn't getting into Harvard, getting drafted into the NFL, or getting a novel printed by a large publis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 11:07 PM
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This comment confuses me. Please elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 11:02 PM
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It's fine to use the internet. It's fun to skim reddit and occasionally post. I do it all the time. I'm not saying the internet in general is bad. But if you're getting most of your ideas about how relationships and sexual dynamics play out in the real world only from the internet, then you are going to have a very skewed (and inaccurate) worldview. Reddit, Tumblr, Twitter, are not very accurate representations of real life. EDIT - Grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 10:57 PM
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I really mean this in the nicest possible way, but get off the internet man. I'm not trying to be snarky. I'm trying to be honest. The internet is not real life. If I went by what I heard women say on reddit and other websites then I would think I'd be doomed to eternal incelness too. I am not good looking, and all the women I've had sex with have been good looking (Granted that's only 4 women, but I'm only 19). I'm not particularly rich or tall either. I've never had a casual hook up, BUT I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 10:48 PM
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I'll CYV. I disagree with some of the previous posters, who claimed that working class women don't chase chad because they can't "afford" to. The type of women I've met that closest match the RP "AWALT" type are from both ends of the spectrum. Wealthy, upper class girls and poor, working class girls. Middle class gals seem to be the most reasonable when it comes to picking partners. Granted, there are exceptions, but generally, this has been my experience. I think upper class women crave the dra…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 04:02 PM
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Or are you saying anyone with self improvement and really trying hard can get laid. Basically this. I'm not saying it's just a matter of "put down the fork fatty" but I've seen some truly hideous people who are in romantic relationships. I figure the large majority of incels are men who are a combination of being naturally unattractive, bad at social situations and unwilling to lower their standards. Each individual probably has varying degrees of all three traits, but in my admittedly totally u…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 08:37 PM
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I have a hard time believing that male incels exist in any significant number. (By incel I mean a person who legitimately lacks not only the ability to attract women but also lacks any potential to attract women) I have an even harder time believing female incels exists. I mean if you can't get laid, that's unfortunate, but I have a strong suspicion you could, you just aren't putting in the effort. Not saying it doesn't suck, but maybe just lower your standards and be more straightforward. But i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 11:02 PM
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All the men I would guess are 5s, with the exception of pudgy blue eyes in pic 4 who'd I guess was like a 4, and the strong jawlined hipster in picture 5, who I'd guess was a 6. Maybe the guy in pic 2 is like a 6 as well, but that could just be lighting. I am not sexually attracted to men, so I'm not sure what my ratings are worth. Woman 1 is clearly like a three (do you not like this girl, do you really need anyone to tell you she is unattractive? lol) Women 2 and 8 I'd rate a 7 Woman 5 would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 09:46 PM
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Not sure what you mean. I wasn't quoting him. He was making a point similar to the one I was trying to make. I thought that video was relevant. The title of the video could be better I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 09:25 PM
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I want to write that you likely don't have to be ForeverAlone and that you have the potential to be in a relationship, but I've browsed enough incel forums to know that's useless. So in good faith I will assume that somehow it's genuinely impossible for you to find a relationship. All you can do is try and accomplish things that interest you. Have you ever wanted to do, say, stand up comedy? Or maybe Learn to play the piano? The most miserable people I know are also in relationships. Don't try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 08:13 PM
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There's no such thing as a "Soulmate". All the things we were told is complete baloney. Women are looking for the richest, tallest, fittest, most alpha man they can find Love is real. It's as real as any emotion. Yeah, there is no such thing as the "one' I agree with you on that. But ridiculous fantasies have always been part of human society. I highly, highly doubt there is such a thing as 'destiny', or 'fate', but you see those concepts all the time in entertainment, especially in kids movies …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 07:28 PM
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irregardless Besides the use of this word great post. ;) I would like to add that a large part of Trump's appeal is his attitude. That goes without saying, and people talk about it all the time. But I'm not just referencing the fact that he's not PC. He says the craziest shit and gets away with it, because he's figured out that apologizing and pandering to people who are offended by him is not only useless, but counterproductive. Trump has figuratively taken his dick out and slapped the American…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 06:08 AM
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And I don't think they're lying, I just think that is a trendy condition to have I think it's unlikely a girl goes to a bar or club, or any similar place and is naive enough to think she won't run into guys hitting on her. I think it's unlikely she was unaware you were hitting on her. If she was legitimately asexual she would've brought it up. who had decided she was asexual that week, because that's way cooler than being nervous and awkward If this is true, she's just lying to herself and not y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 07:40 PM
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Women are easily scared of men. Some are even so paranoid they have this odd suspicion every other man that approaches them might be a potential rapist. Combine this with the fact that many women don't like confrontation in general and suddenly you're meeting tons of asexuals and women who just "aren't looking for anything right now". That said, we must live in very different places because I have never met a self described asexual before. I figure it's likely that the girl you recently met who …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 06:10 PM
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Women would approach the men they are attracted to, which are more often extroverts, but that's just because extroverts are usually better at socializing. An introvert who's charming and fun to be around can easily be attractive as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 05:32 PM
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Do you think the two situations (#notallmen and NAWALT) are equivalent? Feminists can be crazy too. I agree with the idea of "NAWALT" being an acceptable point to make and I agree that "notallmen" is a fair point and argument to make. Do you agree with the top commenter in that thread that #notallmen is a derailment of the conversation? No I don't agree. It's a fair point to make because the media really only shows one side of that conversation. I'm sure I'm kind of a minority among TBP but I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 06:48 PM
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I'm not attractive, but I am average. Hell, probably on the lower end of average if I'm being honest. But where I'm at now is a pretty huge improvement from where I was. I had terrible acne, weighed like 120 pounds, and dressed pretty terribly. I always thought I was ugly, this was about age 13-17. I am bigger now, skin is much better and I dress well (or at least decently). Been this way since I was 18- until presently. I think it did effect my opinion on the opposite sex. Being unimpressive lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 06:32 PM
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That men are naturally more logical and better than women in every way, while at the same time women are destroying western civilization and the vastly superior males are powerless to stop them. That women have no empathy for beta men, and will accuse men of rape at the drop of a hat, but it's blatantly obvious that the large majority of men in the West have never been accused of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 01:03 AM
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Again, maybe this is something us Redpillers should have been perceptive enough to figure out on our own, but somehow didn't really quite understand without RP. That's fair enough, but I think you overestimate how disgusted women are by "beta" behaviors. But regardless, lesser men always have and probably always will get the short end of the stick. It's not a fun reality, and I suppose if you grew up with bad parents (especially without a father figure present) like a lot of terpers claim they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 06:01 AM
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How does this agree with RP ideas? Because I said weakness is more acceptable in women than in men? That's not RP. That's common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 03:22 PM
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Which do you think it is, of these two? I mean, your opinion on this is as valid as any other. I tend towards thinking of alpha as more intangible than most around here, I think. And I don't agree with either of the above-described categories. I think the concept is bullshit because it's too simple. How dominant someone is depends on their environment and the given situation. This fantasy of Chad Thundercock RPers believe in -a buff guy who is rich, good looking, high social status, funny, rude …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 04:13 AM
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Aside from that I can link you scientific studies that show that good looking people are associated with positive personalty traits without ever speaking a word. It is called the Halo Effect and it is a well known cognitive bias that most humans have. That's not the issue though. Yeah, I would say good looks are associated with positive traits. I mean, that's kind of obvious. Why does that mean the only thing that matters in attraction is looks? Girls very rarely date below their league. OKCupid…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 03:47 AM
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How can you use your dating life as evidence without picture proof? Your "evidence" is all based anecdote too. But you've never seen guys or girls date above or below their league? It's not like its that uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 03:28 AM
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Looks matter. But people date out of their league pretty regularly. I am not that great looking. I am dating an attractive girl. I have dated attractive girls. You just have to be persistent. Maybe dress better and work out. Be more social. Don't be so negative. People are easy to get along with if you just give them a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 03:22 AM
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The nice guys subreddit exist I think because when guys whine, it usually elicits contempt. When women whine it more often elicits sympathy. I'd guess it's for a mix of biological and cultural reasons. Whining shows weakness, and weakness is less acceptable in men than in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 03:07 AM
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It doesn't matter whether you think they are shitty or not, what matters is that they get the better of most social situations including taking women to bed. But this just isn't something I've seen. The guys I've met that were the most successful with women aren't "alphas". They are confident and what not, but they are normally just fun to be around and hang out with. Most of them are pretty friendly as well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 01:27 AM
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So confidence, dominance, and being beta are mutually exclusive traits? That just doesn't seem to hold up in reality. The most kind and moral people I've met have also been the most confident. Most people who are natural leaders, which requires all the traits you listed, aren't "alphas" But then I am getting two definitions of alpha. One being that alphas are the typical aggressive convict and the other is that they are guys with positive social traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 01:15 AM
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The guys I've met that regularly pull hot chicks aren't shitty. They're actually pretty great guys. And They aren't alphas at least in the way the red pill imagines them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 01:08 AM
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What "alpha behaviors' are advantageous in dating? Most alphas I've met are shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 10:23 PM
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Personally, I don't like to use the term alpha and beta. I think that makes you an exception, haha. Alpha and beta have to be the most commonly used words over in the RP subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 09:47 PM
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did you have to provide value/romance? Do you mean did I have to provide monetary value? If that's what you meant, no, I am in college, money's not really an issue. Everyone is broke. I suppose I did provide romance, in that in every relationship I have treated my girl well. Did you have to tune down your needs drastically? Most of the time, no. Usually when I was in the mood and had time, we would have sex. But with my current girlfriend I did, but only in the very beginning of the relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 09:41 PM
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I wonder if most RP guys are just ugly dudes that grew up thinking they were more attractive than they were. This would explain the confusion and anger. I've always had a pretty firm grasp on where I stand in the looks department so it's never bothered me. But a lot of these guys are not very socially conscious though. It must add to the confusion. I feel for a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 08:59 PM
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I do not believe the majority of men are beta when referring to older generations and men in small towns. I currently live in a small town, and I grew up exclusively in small, conservative communities and this is not what I've seen at all though. Most guys are very beta. The advice I've heard that you would call 'BP' came primarily from older, conservative men, telling me to treat women right and to be respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 08:56 PM
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This is just strange to me. I have never been in a relationship where I wasn't regularly having sex. And I am 'beta'. Sounds like the problem is not how beta you were but that your gf/wife wasn't attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 08:50 PM
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I'm not sure what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 08:43 PM
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The hard part is accepting how shallow women actually are (as much so as men) compared to the lies everyone told about them. Where did you grow up? I mean this seriously. I know other RP guys have said similar things. I agree society is generally a little more forgiving to women than it is to men, but growing up I did not feel lied to. It was a pretty common trope that women liked assholes and bad boys. And I heard many times that women could be shallow and bitchy. Isn't the shallow and bitchy g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 08:42 PM
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It doesn't make you a successful CEO of an international bank. But both these roles requires similar traits What similar traits do they require though? Or are you just referring to leadership?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 08:35 PM
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But isn't all that just common sense though? If this is what RP believes, what are they referring to when they say they need to "swallow the pill"? Telling a guy to not be a pussy, and be charismatic seems to be pretty well known and culturally accepted advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 08:14 PM
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Alpha is the person in a group of people that has the most power (followers). They receive (not take) that power by others (betas) submitting to them. People have to willfully submit - there is no other way. But the way a lot of leaders and powerful people act is what RP describes as beta. Every successful person I know is not aggressive and belligerent. Most are pretty careful, cautious, and willing to compromise where they need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 08:12 PM
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Where did you get the idea that most men aren't struggling? Pop culture is a parade of picky single women and frigid wives and dating sites full of desperate men (and the latter is inarguable). I got the idea from my experience. Women are pickier because men are thirstier. That's Also why dating sites favor women. But the vast majority of guys I know are having sex. Either they are in relationships or they are casually hooking up with FWBs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 08:07 PM
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Yeah, I looked it up under Terms and Acronyms. Thanks anyway though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 07:52 PM
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Nah, this sub is weird as fuck, but I'm liking it so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 07:04 PM
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You say he needs to work on his social skills, but what fuck up in social skills would warrent such a rude response? I agree with your overall point, but I was thinking about the more tame responses. There's really no reason a person should tell you to fuck off just for talking to them, but maybe he's misinterpreting certain situations. Like a girl laughing at him or making jokes about him could possibly be just teasing him in a flirtatious way, or she laughs because she's attracted to him and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 06:59 PM
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I'm pretty unsuccessful with women. I seem to perfectly fit the description of beta The Red Pill talks about. I have a girlfriend though. What is smv? I'm kind of new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 06:14 PM
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Haha, I hope that was a joke. But hey, look! A sense of humor! Chicks dig that, even if you are a beta. See, you're not hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 06:10 PM
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I've seen nice Betas approach women and try to strike up a conversation. Women laugh at them, make jokes about them, ignore them, tell them to fuck off, etc. I am a beta. This doesn't happen to me when I approach women, even when I get rejected. Granted, I'm no Casanova, but women have never openly laughed at me and told me to fuck off. Maybe you just need a little work on your social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 05:46 PM
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