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I stumbled upon by looking for pegging tip ...what???
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 04:46 AM
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Of course the unattractive, unskilled, messy, lazy, slut with absolutely no redeemable traits gets her hot doctor husband at the end after sleeping with hundreds of men! Nothing unrealistic about that at all, nope!
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 08:08 PM
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What else could one expect from a woman who created a show called "Divorce: The Musical!" (based on her life, of course)
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 08:00 PM
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Wonderful!! I can't wait for the AMA!
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 01:10 AM
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Wonderful read. I always feel angry when I read about De Beers, how do more people not know what a huge scam diamonds are? Doesn't make sense for a guy to spend $30,000 on wedding so that his narcissist wife can pretend she's a princess for one day. But, since Lady Gaga's worth is 100x more than her fiance's (230 million vs 2 million) I'm imagining he won't be footing the bill for the wedding.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 08:09 PM
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Exactly! The message I got was that she views it as THEIR day rather than HER day. Many brides today view the wedding as a big party for themselves and forget about their husband. I think it's sweet that she's more focused on him.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 07:36 PM
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I'm so happy for you!! I really enjoyed your point about relationships being a skill and how you made a conscious decision to improve that skill. It is hard work sometimes, but brings joy when you see things change for the better!
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/15 04:05 AM
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That is very important and true! My father has Aspergers too and he tends towards strong emotion. I really don't have any jealousy in that situation I brought up though, people have propositioned him and flirted with him and it made me happy to see. I will be cautious of course.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 08:49 PM
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Oh god... I cringed at the "speech" thing. I've done that sometimes, and by the time I've realized it, it's too late. I've gotten better at controlling it as the years have gone by, but it's really embarrassing either way. My boyfriend does it too, but since I'm the same as him, his speeches are fun for me to listen to.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 08:33 PM
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Well, it's like this: I've read TRP and I understand that most men are happier in a polygynous relationship, as it provides variety. I see it like taking him to a restaurant. I generally cook for him, and I do my best at it, but a 5-star chef can create things totally different than I can. And I want him to have that experience. The reason I think that it has to do with Asperger's is that I don't feel any emotional hurt or jealousy about it. To me it's just a thing that would increase his happin…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 03:32 PM
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Yes, my boyfriend and I both have Asperger's. We're both very socially awkward but we understand each other very well. Both male and female nature are really hard for me to understand, which is actually why RP appealed to me, things are explained really logically. Also, certain things that may bother a neurotypical girl don't really bother me: I'd be fine with my boyfriend having a plate, for instance (not that most AS women would be! it's just a personal example.) I tend to be a perfectionist a…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 01:14 AM
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I'd like to address your last paragraph: I have Fibromyalgia and this is how I feel most of the time. Sometimes it seems like there's so much to do and I just want to give up. What helps me is being organized. I have an Excel spreadsheet of the things I need to do every day, things I must do weekly, and monthly chores. I try to spread out the BIG chores so that they don't pile on me at once: if that happens, I crash and nothing gets done. And the little chores, I try to organize as well. If I ca…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 05:16 PM
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Are you me? I keep a journal specifically for that purpose too!
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 02:55 AM
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I'm your age too. It bothers me too, so I just try to be a little choosy about who I'm around. If I surround myself with negative people in bad relationships, I start to feel negative too. I like being around older people who are in happy marriages, it is good to learn from them, plus they are a lot happier to be around!
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 10:57 PM
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I loved the Blast Off too!! It reminded me of a study I read (from here, or somewhere else) that showed that men whose wives kissed them before they left for work, were happier and more productive during the day! And I can't even believe how selfish the BP wife is. She whines about the most basic of chores.. "I get angry because why should I have to unload the dishwasher?" Is she 12??? Her house was so gross too... How she let it get to that state is beyond me. And her chores were literally just…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 09:56 PM
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I remember, back in my feminist phase, telling SO I wanted to keep my name if I got married. I was 17 or so and it wasn't even about sexism, I just thought my last name was really cool haha. Now as we've talked about it more seriously, and as I've grown up a little more, I've realized that it's more important to me that I be united with him and part of his family. When I told him that I wanted to take his name someday his face lit up and he hugged me tightly. I think it meant a lot to him, too.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 02:16 PM
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I'm really excited because the school is over today, so I finally have time to work on some things! PHYSICAL: Do Yoga twice a day (I've been terribly irregular about it) Stay on Keto diet Stop eating milk! Fall asleep by 11 at latest Take daily walks! ATTITUDE: When I feel like complaining, think of what the problem is and how I can fix it instead. I need to stop that hamster, haha Be grateful for what you have! I have a bad habit of apologizing too much in a way that annoys everyone. I need to …
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 02:04 PM
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It was an exaggeration. The trailer/articles are making a big deal out of the fact that she has regular sex with him. But wives that deny their husbands for that long really do exist, sadly. The deadbedrooms sub has tons of men whose wives haven't slept with them in many years. It's a very, very sad place.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 04:37 AM
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Yeah someone else submitted another barely-relevant article from the same website to RPW within an hour of this one. The accounts are really similar, so it's kinda weird.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 01:56 AM
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I just watched the preview... It's so funny seeing feminists absolutely shocked at the idea of having sex with your man more than once a year. And the feminist argument that she's a poor, defenseless doormat doesn't work: she can clearly stand her ground against other people, and her husband is seen saying that husbands should be worthy of submission. I don't watch TV anymore, but I may make an exception for this! And the article you linked was a laugh. I love the tacked-on "i'm a feminist yay f…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 01:17 AM
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That is so very sweet of you. It means a lot to me to hear those words, you're one of my favorite contributors here so doubly so! I'll definitely take your words to heart.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/15 06:16 PM
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Thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/15 06:15 PM
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This is very embarrassing to say, but I really do think that would be an unreasonable standard for me to have. I have disfiguring scars on my face which makes it hard for people to like me. For me, it's more than enough that he can look past those and consider me an 8. He is very kind and sweet in our relationship and this is really the only little bump we have had in the 2 years we've been together. I'm here on RPW to learn how to be the best (future) wife I can for him rather than moping about…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/15 03:40 PM
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Don't worry it's not unwarranted!! I appreciate that everyone is being honest here. I guess I didn't really think of it as him being reluctant to let the crush go. In my POV he was defending her because it was hard to believe. It is hard to have an image of someone you care about be shattered, I really feel more sympathy for him than anything. I have seen a lot of men on TRP post about how girls they formerly thought were angels were actually terrible people, and that changed their view on femal…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/15 03:27 PM
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He admits that for most of the time he had a crush on her, he didn't get to have much contact with her. From what he's described, for most of the crush she had a girlfriend and therefore wasn't interested. He knew her superficially (he tried to get her attention with presents and confessions) but he filled in the gaps of what he didn't know. Basically he put her on a pedestal (and so did I). I hope this clears it up. Sorry for misunderstandings.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 11:10 PM
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He didn't know the real person she was. My SO is very kind and trusting of people, and they sometimes fool him. He thinks the best of people so he was hurt and sad when he found out how she really is. He's over her now so it's all good :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 10:15 PM
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this is correct!
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 09:08 PM
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Sorry, I meant that they were his favorite things. The things he mentions about me the most. He doesn't say he dislikes anything about me. He also especially loves that I have short hair, as she had short hair too. He hasn't directly said otherwise, but he rates me an 8 and this girl is his personal 10. You are right though, he is with me exclusively and I am very thankful for that!! Thank you for your perspective. :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 03:28 AM
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Unfortunately, I also am like this. My boyfriend has very low T, and mine is higher than the average female's; I think that this is the culprit. He doesn't mind doing sexual things, per se, he just doesn't have a need for them like I do. Some men also want to come home and relax, and having sex defeats this purpose since the man must perform, and it's physically exhausting for him especially after a long day. This may be TMI, but is it general sexual things he limits or just the act itself? If i…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 09:23 PM
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Sorry, did I say something wrong? I don't see how my username is contradictory to what I wrote, unless you read it with the assumption that I was a gay man. My understanding was that female comments are okay as long as they're relevant, useful and not simply there to say "i'm a girl". If that is incorrect, then I apologize.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 12:34 AM
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I agree with you. My SO and I both have Asperger's Syndrome, it's very easy to understand each other. I don't understand the social games of women and men and neither does he. I had to read RPW diligently for a very long time to learn things that most women know intuitively. Downside to AS women is that they are often uglier than neurotypical women, unless they have a special interest in their looks. More boring than a NT girl. An ideal situation would be to keep a high-functioning AS woman as a…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 08:43 PM
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I see a lot of accusatory language coming from you. It boils down to "HE needs to change this so that I can have MY dream." Have you thought that maybe he is happy as he is? If he is pursuing his dream, then you need to either accept that or let him find a girl who will.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/15 08:22 PM
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One or more of the ingredients in your sunscreen or moisturizer is probably breaking you out. Try using CosDNA, a website that analyzes the ingredients in your product and rates each one for possible irritation. I used to break out wearing mineral sunscreens with Titanium Dioxide and Zinc Dioxide, but using a sunscreen with Octinoxate doesn't break me out. It all depends on each person's skin, find what works for you. Same goes for moisturizers: some ingredients are less likely to irritate than …
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/15 05:31 PM
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I'm also trying to slow aging at a young age. I try to emulate the habits of East Asian women, who are known to be slim and youthful for much longer than Western women. Some habits that are common there include: using sun-protection religiously (sunscreen, sunglasses, even parasols are commonplace) eating a healthy diet low in processed food, maintaining a healthy weight, drinking a lot of fluids, and having a good skincare routine. I don't know very much about the proper way to exercise and am …
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/15 12:20 AM
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Your description of how fitness has helped you is so inspiring. I have trouble committing to a routine, but when I have done workouts in the past I've felt much happier and looked so much better. I'm going to try the things you mentioned! Thanks for the inspiration :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 02:41 AM
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Maybe I am not the target audience here Don't think so, you seem stuck in Blue-Pill Land, the land of "no difference between the sexes, we all do exactly 50% of the work!" and the home of "my man better treat me like a princess or I'll dump his sorry behind!"
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 02:40 AM
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Welcome! I'm also 19, and a former feminist. I know how hard it is to transition from trying to be strong and masculine to trying to be feminine and submissive. It's a gradual process: don't be hard on yourself if change doesn't come as quickly as you like. Focus on one area at a time, like cooking or practicing your hair and makeup. I learned all of this from YouTube and good blogs that promote femininity. Getting better at one of these areas will give you a huge confidence boost! :) I also hav…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/15 08:11 PM
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Thank you for this wonderful reminder. We women do not see what our men go through at work, and sometimes we forget how hard he works to support us. Our job is to provide a safe, calm space for him to come home to after a long day, not to prolong his stresses.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/15 07:58 PM
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Not sure if you mean religious beliefs or RPW, but I can answer both. Religious: Since my father was involved in the corruption, I was able to see how easily one who had the trust of everybody in the congregation could secretly hurt them. However, I'm not against religion as a whole. Just corruption. I'm still friends with some women inside the group, and they're some of the loveliest in the world. I still read the Bible, and follow much of the advice there since it is very good. I just don't ac…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 09:46 PM
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I'm in my late teens and I am from the US. White/Mexican. Nonreligious. I was raised very religious in a specific niche denomination of Christianity, which has recently been exposed as hiding corruption. As for why I'm not a feminist, my parents divorced when I was 10 and my father's behavior left a bad impression of men for me. I didn't trust men for a long time and started to subscribe to feminist theory. I wanted the whole "career woman" shtick, but not really marriage. But in the end, I foun…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 03:47 PM
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Very true, each person's skin is different. Tea tree oil and apple cider vinegar are used to fight acne because of their antibacterial properties, which are many times the reason acne grows. However, there are sometimes other causes of acne, so one must determine the root cause by trial and error.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 05:16 AM
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I have an excel spreadsheet, actually... Separated for daily, weekly, and monthly tasks. I like to have a schedule because it keeps me from putting things off or trying to cram multiple chores into one day. I try to put the biggest chores on the weekend and delegate the least chores on the days I go to college. That way, I have no excuse not to do my chores.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 01:04 AM
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I agree so much with your paragraph about having a strong support system to raise children in. I've always felt that such a system would be the ideal for children, and expose them to more skills and interest than the current system. Right now our children are being forced to sit at school all day, and coming home to mom and MAYBE dad (or just some random teen babysitter who is more interested in their phone than the child...) and only having a few playmates that are all their own age. A system i…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 09:15 PM
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What is her current skincare routine? Certain products can aggravate acne by having too high of a PH, being too irritating for skin, and oddly enough, being too drying. Have her check out /r/skincareaddiction, they have a ton of good advice! I've struggled with acne for years, and am finally getting better thanks to SCA and /r/asianbeauty (oftentimes much cheaper products with outstanding results!). And of course, make sure she drinks lots of water, wears her sunscreen, and changes her pillowcas…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 08:05 PM
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Can vouch for tea tree oil, it works wonderfully. Regarding vinegar: for best results, use raw apple cider vinegar rather than white, distilled vinegar!
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 07:56 PM
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Probably the reason for the "onii-chan!" appeal, too! ;)
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 06:15 PM
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A man in a happy marriage once told me that he thinks his wife is ultra cute when she pouts (but is clearly not actually upset). Like, he does something silly to tease her, she says "you're so mean!" or "i just can't stand you!" with her cheeks all puffed up. I do this (sparingly, of course) with my boyfriend too, and he absolutely loves it and continues to tease me back. I guess it's kind of like in childhood, where a boy will tease a girl to evoke a response from her, which increases the inten…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 05:08 AM
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Great choices! "Stand By Your Man" is like the RPW anthem, especially since feminists looove to hate on it for promoting gasp loving your man through thick and thin?? She Like 2 Say is a great song too, it's definitely got RP truths all over it!
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 04:40 AM
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Ahaha! That gave me a laugh :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 04:32 AM
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I did see that earlier today. Their message seemed to me to be "low quality posts that say "X movie is sooo redpill" without explaining why aren't good", which I agree with. I kept this in mind as I wrote the post, with the intent to generate a discussion on positive femininity within the media, which was relevant to the recent posts on Meghan Trainor on this sub. Not just to say "Everyone listen to this song, it's redpill!!" However, I understand that it might be a bad time to mention media or …
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/15 01:48 AM
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I'm a bit younger than you, but you are just how I want to be in a couple years! (also a longtime lurker, haha) Sounds like you are both very loving, how wonderful! Other posters have said "do what works best for your family" in similar posts, so I imagine that doing what makes your SO happy is the right way to go here. The important thing is to show him that you still respect him and show it, many men feel insecure about earning less than their partner. I don't exactly have a good advice for #3…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 04:46 AM
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I'm planning to make him dinner, since the restaurants are so crowded at this time of year. He loooves comfort food, so burgers, homemade macaroni and cheese, and fried zucchini for dinner. And for dessert, his most favorite tea (PG Tips!) strawberry shortcake, and ice cream! I hope everything turns out well!
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 11:44 PM
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