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wild_deer_man/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/17 06:36 PM
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Your wife is probably just a reflection of what you feel inside, if you had felt differently about yourself, most likely you would never stay with a person that underappreciated your value. Your wife is probably just a reflection to what you feel inside, if you had felt differently about yourself, most likely you would never stay with a person that underappreciated your value. There is nothing wrong with all the feelings you described but the therapist is not going to make her appreciate you mor…
/r/askMRP01/10/21 02:11 PM
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Are the video and text more or less identical? I prefer to listen. The content seems to be quite on point.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 03:58 PM
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If you call it off, they (your fiance and her family) will hate you and pressure you. You will be grilled like never before in your life and there is a good chance you will simply break from.tje pressure and marry her just for this to end.
/r/askMRP10/08/20 12:20 AM
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This thing, i have problem with it! My girl is telling me how im doing push pull on her and confusing her, 'i start to feel comfortable and then you withdraw' You are confusing me too. Why are you push-pulling her then? Sounds like she is basically begging you for comfort. EDIT OK now I get it. https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/fr63so/i_am_emotionaly_cold_and_unavailable_especially/ You don't have sexual issues, you have DEEP emotional issues, sex is just a side effect. You need to get go…
/r/askMRP04/04/20 10:23 PM
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Your girl is 100% normal. In a world of attention-sucking sluts, a normal girl seems to be the anomaly. Many men here afraid to talk with their women about sex because they think that any conversation about sex is negotiating desire. Your girl is shy and simply don't feel comfortable expressing her natural sexuality. I am talking from an experience of starting a relationship with a girl who had never had aggressive sex in her life, and today she happily does a lot of nasty BDSM stuff with me (in…
/r/askMRP04/04/20 12:14 PM
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Masculinity is not about who has the biggest dick in a workplace. If you are serious about actually doing something with your life (and removing those bitterness undertones) watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=23dArPpXgCM It will put your head straight.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 02:05 PM
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Masculinity is not about who has the biggest dick in a workplace. If you are serious about actually doing something with your life (and removing those bitterness undertones) watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=23dArPpXgCM It will put your head straight.
/r/RedPillWorkplace21/02/20 02:04 PM
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What bothered me the most is not the aggressiveness, obviously, this is a fighting class. What bothered me us that he got so triggered by seeing me doing pushups when no one else did. To be honest, I saw a big disparity in the way the pros are training and the rest of the class. The class always started late and didn't feel like people were putting a lot of effort into it (except for the pros that were training on the other side of the room). No attention from the teacher or technique work (I wa…
/r/askMRP17/02/20 11:23 AM
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I already left. However, as this was the first time I was in a situation like that I wanted to make sure there was no better way to handle it.
/r/askMRP13/02/20 04:38 PM
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The owner is a woman (she seems to know her shit). I told her I'm leaving because I don't like this guy's teaching methods. She nodded, said OK and went on by her business.
/r/askMRP13/02/20 04:35 PM
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It will take me years to get to his level, and since he was the only one there who would also teach me anything, I don't believe I would enjoy any of the time there. Not to mention years if it. Staying there just to confront him, instead of having an actual good teacher who knows when to be supportive and not ego-driven, is not a motivation for me.
/r/askMRP13/02/20 04:33 PM
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Thanx, I did leave and already started in another place. However, I was feeling a doubt that maybe there was something I missed in handling this whole situation,
/r/askMRP13/02/20 04:29 PM
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He is an assistant (not even sure how official it is) so I don't think this is about money. I do think that he feels like he owns the group, and since he is far better at fighting his ego thinks I should submit to him in some way.
/r/askMRP13/02/20 04:28 PM
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Exactly
/r/askMRP13/02/20 04:24 PM
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I thought RP is about improving as men in general, but if you are here just for pussy, this probably has no value to you.
/r/askMRP13/02/20 02:08 PM
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No, just autism.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/19 12:59 AM
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FILTER said emotions How? We have that extra layer of control that we developed when we transition from a boy to a man. First time I hear this piece of bro-science. Is there any real biology behind it?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/19 12:58 AM
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Nice slogan. But empty and has no real life value.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 03:23 PM
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It's good that you found a way that works for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 03:13 PM
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Let's get to basics, here is what I believe: Masculinity is an ideal, this ideal is composed of many qualities. Those qualities can have many faces. You can see 2 men, call them both very masculine and they will be completely different people. I know a guy who wears sparkling tights and colors his fingernails, yet he has the body that most people here dream about and he gives two flying fucks if anyone doesn't like him or his lifestyle (he lives with 2 women). Copying a masculine behavior from a…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 03:11 PM
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I am sorry to hear about your son. Sure that some situation, like that, the rule are different. I would not presume giving advice on something like that, all I can say is that I tried the methods you described and they were way less efficient than what I described. Yes, sitting with anxiety or pain does make it go away, eventually, and if I give it room and not fight or try to rationalize it away.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 02:56 PM
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Good summary, thanx. Can you elaborate on 3?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 01:51 PM
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My take is that it helped me. Try this one too https://youtu.be/c3V_Gtfr_YA
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 01:00 PM
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ok
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 12:30 PM
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Good. Just notice that what I recommend is not a normal meditation, but one in which the main focus is on your emotions and feelings at the moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 10:14 AM
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Why would you even do that? For fun
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 10:10 AM
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If you have reached this level of self understanding and control that no external circumstances can affect your emotions, nothing can make you sad, hurt or angry, kudos. You don't need this post.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 09:26 AM
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I thought about writing something like that, but from the way he talks, seems like I would waste my time.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 07:46 AM
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Yelling is #1 sign of importat weakness.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 05:52 AM
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Completely agree with the second, However, life is hard enough to fight needless struggles, especially ones you cannot win.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 05:45 AM
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I agree, and maybe I should have mentioned this: Many people find themselves run by negative emotions and don't know how to break the cycle. They are in a perpetual struggle with their emotions and lose every time. They don't realize that by letting go and simply feeling, they can break the cycle.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 05:20 AM
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Another useless autistic post. Should become an acronym: AUAP.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 03:00 PM
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You are full of excuses and whining. Sounds exactly like your wife. Read "extreme ownership".
/r/askMRP30/06/19 07:05 PM
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I don't know the law in the US but it seems you focus more energy on fucking your wife rather than giving your daughter the full attention she needs. Find a way.
/r/askMRP30/06/19 07:04 PM
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Why the fucking hell do you think it has anything to do with how attractive you are or how good is your sex life? I don't write here much but sometimes the autism is so strong I feel compelled. She sounds like a shit mother and a shit person. Why are you still with her? People keep asking here "I'm married to a shitty person, how do I make her not shitty?" We'll, you don't. If you have any resemblance of balls you will get a divorce papers yesterday and find a woman who can actually take care of…
/r/askMRP30/06/19 06:13 PM
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I really appreciate the lengthy answer. Once the first comments started coming in I realized that I didn't articulate the question right. I am currently single. At no point with my ex, was I trying to pretend I was monogamous. I actually told her quite some time ago exactly what I wanted, that is what probably triggered the shit-test-storm. And even then, it was HER idea to stay with me, so I think I did at least something right. What kept me wondering was the fact she told me pain and simple sh…
/r/askMRP11/05/19 05:17 PM
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she knows her sister is an entitled selfish brat So many people come here claiming they want the truth, yet they deny what is right in front of them. So she hid from you her shitty parts while dating. How is that relevant now? Do you think you can change her?
/r/askMRP09/05/19 08:47 AM
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When you say "they" is the the gender-neutral language? Because this requires a ban.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 04:12 PM
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It's the comments you want to respond with "fuck you asshole" to, that hook you and keep you thinking. I have never put a boundary to her, thinking that saying "if you do X again I walk" is too harsh. But being able to walk out and find a new pussy is the strongest leverage there is. A few days later after this post she broke up with me saying she no longer respects me. As if it could be more RP textbook.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/19 12:32 PM
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Lol. You cracked me up, assholes.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 05:45 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 04:41 PM
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Unless I'm mistaken, he talks about it in politics, not in relationships.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 03:51 PM
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Wiseass. How would you practically approach it? Hide the other girl in the closet while I fuck the first and call her in the middle?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:13 PM
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The amount of effort you put in presuming, rolling your eyes and trying to discourage, only reflects on the state of your own success. Thanx for the feedback and good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/19 12:10 PM
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Hey man, thanx for the feedback. I believe that this offer can be very valuable for some people in the community. If you would see how the tech market looks now, you would be horrified. There is real pain there for people who don't get with the program. I don't know why would you assume this is my only marketing and networking outlet though.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/19 11:46 AM
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What is the company? What kind of games?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 11:44 PM
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Yes, this is why she wants a child and not devorce. Answer to yourself honestly: do you believe you will get hot (or any) sex after the child is born? Birth disrupt sex for quite some time even if there is attraction. Imagine when there is none. You will be trapped caring for a child with a woman who will not want to touch you with a stick. Hope that IT job gives you enough life satisfaction... Edit: Oops I didn't even bother to read to the last part about her switching off. Shocking.
/r/askMRP21/12/18 05:17 PM
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How can you not see it? She has lost attractive to you because you caved in and took her back, but it seems she will go to any length not to be at fault if you break up with her. Her "affection" is a preemptive strike, so if you ever muster the balls to leave her, see could say " he is such an asshole! I did ask I could to fix our relationship but he dump me!" It is her social imperative to keep the pretense of a good girlfriend rather then a cheating bitch. It has NOTHING to do with you. But on…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 11:22 PM
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my financial situation currently doesn't allow ditching her right now Excuse. ​ This post will explain to you in painful detail exactly what is going on https://therationalmale.com/2016/10/24/please-breakup-with-me ​
/r/askTRP09/12/18 03:58 PM
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Because you watch too much porn.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 05:05 PM
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You are probably uncomfortable knowing you are not the first, and probably not the second dude to get the same nude. What you do with that is totally your choice, she doesn't sound like a housewife to me...
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:46 PM
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you are being played. I don't mean she necessarily manipulates you, but when you are looking for a direct answer to a question like that you: are completely in her frame - you feel the need to do exactly what she demands. do not understand the underlying reasons for such question. Why does she need to know how many women you fucked when you were dating NON EXCLUSIVELY? When you can answer that question you will know how to respond to her. BTW trying "amused mastery" in this case does not show am…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:42 PM
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Yes, the fact that she fears this particular scenario of you leaving her once she has no job means this is her exact plan and she wants you to submit to the beta bux frame. She wouldn't be causing such drama over it otherwise.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:33 AM
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Imagine if the roles would have reversed, how would you feel? You are new here, aren't you?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:23 PM
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In which context?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 10:18 PM
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Ask your mom
/r/askMRP10/09/18 05:08 PM
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Just try.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 12:00 PM
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You don't come to a boxing club to socialize. This is not a bar. Is this was your main concern you were doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:59 AM
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I'm needy for sex and I have trouble killing this. The fact you even say something like this means you don't really get it yet. You can kill it together with hunger, sadness and the need to pee. Not all MRPs succeed! You say that if you take a drastic enough measure like "killing your sex drive" it might, but that only shows how desperate you are and I have hunch that deep down you know this will not work out. Are you being butthurt when she doesn't want sex? For me the moment I knew I must kill…
/r/askMRP24/06/18 10:59 AM
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The BEST thing I have ever done for my adult self. I have no idea how I lived before that.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 01:50 AM
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This is not AWALT. The fact that women communicate through emotions does not mean they have absolutely no clue to the actual content of what they say. Saying "I didn't cum so it is not real sex" is something no woman with a shred of self respect or intelligence would say. Not all girls are as retarded as the one you describe. It is purely your problem of not having standards. Maybe this kind of "logic" is more common to American girls...
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 10:26 PM
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So many people here think love=onitis. Finally some sanity.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 11:07 PM
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Having feelings for a woman is not Onitis. Having feelings is not "doing something wrong." I think the fact that you left this unresolved is what is holding you back. Either insist on seeing her and try to fix whatever the issue is, or be done with her completely.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:00 PM
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It is so easy to write "smart" things here... When you achieve that level of enlightenment and talk from experience, I might be interested in listening.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 05:28 PM
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This is why I asked you, because as someone who actually is familiar with some of their work, your answer is really laughable. Don't try to look smart by name-droping, unless you wanu to correct me and point me to an actual reference?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 11:30 PM
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I think there is a nuance here. You can be alpha af but without actually gaming your woman it will lead nowhere. Some people believe that direct game is losing. I know for fact it is not true, it depends on how you do it. "Showing your cards" is not a weakness and being ambiguous is far from being the only attractive quality. I have no problem telling a woman she is gorgeous and amzingly attractive because I do it without looking to get a response but to express my true desire. I am a verbal and…
/r/askMRP15/06/18 10:55 PM
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Please show me the psychology you are referring to. Thoughts and emotions are two very different things.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:03 PM
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I will not have around a woman who does not love and respect me, but not having or showing feelings towards her will not prevent her from doing so. This is why feelings are a dynamic thing. A healty man with strong boundaries will be very angry at a woman in a situation you described, and anger will replace love. Feeling are self expression and are involuntary reactions. They are used by beta males as manipulation tools, the same way they negotiate sex they negotiate emotion.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:02 PM
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What you wrote is 100% purified bullshit. There is a HUGE difference between having an obsessive onitis that throws your life into chaos, and having genuine feelings of love and attraction towards a woman. What you and other spergs of your type say is that you are too afraid of yourself, afraid that having feeling will make you a beta bitch, so you rationalize it by saying feelings are dangerous. No, being a man who has issues that cause onitis is dangerous, not the emotions. You have it all wro…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 09:00 PM
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I thought this was quality post until I saw these fallacies: Fall in love with other things, and only "like" women. Get "love for women" out of your system. Can you elaborate on how exactly you choose what to feel towards anyone? Are you a robot that also can choose when to be angry, or sad or happy?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 08:15 PM
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For the chance you are not trolling with the original question: Peopele connect to what they can relate to. This is why we draw faces on rocks and say they are sad. No matter how RP you are, you will ALWAYS have weakness and vulnerabilities. Pretending you don't makes you look like an idiot (at best). Here's a crazy idea: if you want to see that girl again, why don't you just talk to her like a human being? You don't have to tell her your deepest darkest fear, just talk about whatever shit is go…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 07:00 AM
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Dude, use your own brain. Does faking vulnerability to get laid while claming to have none, sounds like a person you want to be? Someone you would respect? I don't think this is what RP stands for.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 05:13 PM
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Seducing chicks by being perfectv yet lying to them about having a vulnerability. Do you think this is what RP is about? Do you think you are perfect? Do you even think?
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:58 AM
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Must be
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:20 AM
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Autism level over 90000
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:48 PM
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You're probably right, about 3-4 days between meeting, texting and replaying almost every day (1-2 txts). How do I gauge the time I should not contact? Also, she already has seen how I behave "naturally", so let's say I break contact for a week, she will know something is up, and maybe think I am "playing games" because I became insecure or try to manipulate her. The more I know women the more I realize how crazy sharp their sense are to when men are being incongruent. She could also be right th…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 11:38 AM
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I tried professional help against all my better judgement. It's not an option. Many reasons for it. No point in explaining those reasons. I'm sorry but your situation is not very common, so saying that professional help is not an option does not seem like the better judgement. There are many typea and approaches available today and I am sure you will find one that fits you. I personally think that the normal, talking type psychology is very limited and would rather recommend a kind of behavioral…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 11:33 AM
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There is a simple method I came up with from reading some books: you make a list of big goals and a reasonable timeframe. Then, you break them down into actions and at the beginning of every week you write about 3 simple, doable, goals that will further you as much as possible. The hard part is to filter the noise and find what is THE most important thing that will advanve you the most. Keep the goals SIMPLE, so that by the end of the week you will feel that you have accomplished what you set ou…
/r/askMRP01/05/18 09:09 PM
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NOT doing nearly enough. Sitting at home thinking about life rather than actually doing things, in every area of life.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:08 AM
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Thanx, how does a wingman help in the interaction you described?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 06:22 PM
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This sounds an amazing tactic, but as a part of a strategy, especially night game, do you go out alone and approach girls this way? Or is there more to it?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 03:48 PM
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I have a card game that I will put on Kickstarter in a few month. I want to leverage it to start a game making business. I don't think there are books about this kind of business since it is very niche.
/r/askMRP08/12/17 11:08 PM
1

Thanx man, this is exactly the kind of stuff I was looking for.
/r/askMRP08/12/17 05:45 PM
1

Any ideas how I can make a quick buck without working? I'm not sure in which part of my post you read it but whatever. My question was not how to make money without work, but how can I use one of the other skills I have and find small jobs, either as a contractor or maybe selling something, and that does not require a long time to set up.
/r/askMRP06/12/17 11:45 PM
2

I realized I neither enjoy night game nor it is better than day game. I also live in a country that people rarely go out alone, and approaching during the day is a far better option.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:31 PM
0

What an unexpected answer
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:05 PM
1

Complete bullshit. Had experience with both sexes and a female therapist was much better and helped me being pro-active than the male. Seems you either had a bad experience which you mixed up wrongly with RP ideas, or you just talk out of your ass.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 11:11 AM
1

wat*2
/r/askTRP03/11/17 08:08 PM
1

wat
/r/askTRP03/11/17 08:08 PM
2

Holy fuck! It works wonderfully! So easy to open with it, got a tentative date with an 18yo Asian hb9! And also some fun interactions and free booze :)
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:11 PM
1

I decided to try and switch to Goldmund's camera game. I have descent camera skills so why not. Having fun in the meanwhile.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:48 PM
1

I read about 1/3. I didn't like his method because it is very circumstantial and indirect
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:13 PM
8

All the above + there is no such thing as "permanently fucked" socially. The thing about social state is that it always changes. You can always make new connections and try again.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 10:03 AM
3

Don't.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 09:49 AM
5

If at any point you have actually considered it, you are absolutely retarded.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:44 PM
-2

Were you getting pussy before your 30s?
/r/askTRP08/10/17 02:20 PM
8

This is the most valuable advice here. The fact that you don't see it, shows how far you are from implementing anything from the sidebar that you probably didn't read. You allow your MIL to meddle in your business. Your wife sees her as a strong person to rely on for support and not you. Emails never solve anything and are only slightly better than fighting over messages. The only thing to solve those things would be to man up (and not by yelling via email at an old lady.)
/r/askMRP03/10/17 11:44 AM
2

No, it does not. This is why you live as sincerely as you can and attract people who are like that too. Once you do that, you feel like the rest of the world can fuck itself
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:55 AM
1

Oh, and most important - be prepared to disappoint everyone. Your parents, your girlfriend, your friends even. And if you don't think you can - you should quit before you even try.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:51 AM
1

Even with all this great stuff on paper, So you realize that all this stuff is good only for appearance, but not really for you. It is hard to find out what is it that you really like. It takes trial and error, sometimes lots of it. Also, notice there little things: do you really enjoy being with your gf? The fact that she is hot doesn't mean she is a good match for you. Is what you study at school interesting to you? Even if it is hard, do you see a passionate future in that field? The fact tha…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:43 AM
5

Why? I enjoy every bit of the female depravity, why would you not?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 02:37 PM
0

So did the answer help you or not? :)
/r/askTRP26/08/17 10:30 AM
-3

Why is it such a mystery? Take her to the bathroom. You: "I really want to piss on you." She: "OK." A small caveat though: she needs to be an a very sumissive state, most likely after you fucked her to a pulp and made her cum like 10 times before that.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 10:08 AM
1

No idea, but of course the point is that an RP man brought her to do sexual things she wouldn't dream of doing herself.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 09:57 AM
2

Aren't the mods supposed to take care of shit like this? It clearly violates the rules (moralizing/trolling)
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 09:56 AM
1

So take your example, because it is quite in the ballpark - wouldn't you expect your wife to make this math on her own: one of the seven wonders of the world + the fact that we made almost all the way there, tramps by far the heat and tiredness? This is why I am angry - I cannot understand such backwards thinking. Is this really AWALT or just MyWILT?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 05:51 PM
1

We've just returned from a vacation, and I had majorly failed in leadership by poor planning. But also seems to me like she enjoys very little outside her quite narrow comfort zone. Almost every suggestion I made was met with "but it is too hot/far/noisy etc." and when she did follow me, she usually doesn't seem to happy. I know I failed majorly in leadership because I did not have a solid plan I could show her beforehand. This is an extreme example: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/6to5…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 03:03 PM
1

Each time I think I got it I realize later how much more I still don't. This post made me realize that I do something similar: try to convince her that she should be happy doing things my way and later I sulk thinking she is just never happy... How do you act when what you want to do clearly involves her, like a plan together, and she seems reluctant?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 01:58 PM
1

Also, I am trying to act, instead of whine, so my plan was to show her that she can have fun with me but I will stop taking her along if she will continue to ruin things half the time.
/r/askMRP14/08/17 07:55 PM
1

I wasn't that big of a dick since we did rest and got her something to drink, but this is not the first time she feels bad somehow in the middle of an activity we planned together, and not only in a place like Delhi. I hate it when we go to do something fun and suddenly in the middle she melts down and instead of a fun adult I have to deal with a whiny child. I honestly would rather have the rest of the vacation alone then taking the risk of taking her somewhere and this happening again. So mayb…
/r/askMRP14/08/17 07:26 PM
1

I thought that it would be better not to show her weakness (getting angry) when she was acting annoying, but not to take her with me next time to show (not tell) that I will not tolerate her behaving like this.
/r/askMRP14/08/17 07:10 PM
0

I have many nice guy traits that I work on, but being conflict avoidant is far from being one! I showed no anger as an RP attempt to not let her see that her behavior is annoying me. This was an elaborate thing and far from my usual response to things like that.
/r/askMRP14/08/17 07:01 PM
0

I meant that I read it (parts of it twice) but I guess I still miss something. So why is me being ashamed of her behavior is so important? I was mostly angry about the time and money wasted
/r/askMRP14/08/17 06:48 PM
0

I see why, but I think this is besides they point
/r/askMRP14/08/17 06:41 PM
-1

So you think I should have immediately cancelled the whole thing and took her back? What kind of a message is that? That she should take no responsibility for a plan we both agreed on? Or that a little tiredness is a reason to change everything? If a family plans a trip and a child starts to cry because of lack of sleep, should they just cancel everything and return home?
/r/askMRP14/08/17 06:37 PM
1

Agreed
/r/askMRP29/07/17 04:05 PM
0

I think OP's main concern is feeling like he is too violent. You are probably right he has no idea how to handle his dog, but that is beside the point. He thought his daughter was in danger and acted.
/r/askMRP29/07/17 02:52 PM
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I know nothing about dogs, but he is confusing anger with instinct. OP did not hit the dog out of anger, he did it out of fear for his daughter but now he feels shame for being aggressive. He shouldn't, nothing wrong with that in such situation.
/r/askMRP29/07/17 01:25 PM
3

What is there to do? You acted instinctively thinking you daughter is in danger. Hold frame and that's it. Sounds like you are uncomfortable with the aggression instincts can bring out of you. Learn to accept it, it only makes your loved ones safer.
/r/askMRP29/07/17 01:14 PM
2

I am sure you have no children because for one, you sound like a child yourself, and two: you would know that seeing your child in danger brings out your instincts and I would worry much more about a man who holds those instincts back while his daughter may be in danger. Has nothing to do with attractiveness. There is a big difference between anger and other emotions, which you should learn to control, and instincts that although might be wrong sometimes, are there to save the life of you and pe…
/r/askMRP29/07/17 01:09 PM
1

Don't you read TRM? This is not some evil or even a stupid thing, this is natural selection - a mating strategy, and it works.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 06:36 AM
0

I don't go there to fuck women. See edit.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 08:51 PM
1

Shit. I should have explained better. You can see the edit.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 08:35 PM
1

women to expect men to select themselves out so they don't have to go through the hassle of dumping them. This is the definition of feminism
/r/askTRP27/07/17 08:34 PM
1

I don't know what made that impression, but I never grind on or grope for the sake of groping any girl at those classes. Don't you think automatically assuming that about men is not exactly red pill? As to what it gives me: as I said, there is a big acting aspect to the improv, making it an opportunity to "play out" all kinds of scenarious that would be harder for me to do in real life. Expressing all kinds of intentions (far from only sexual) in a way that both parties know it is a game. These …
/r/askTRP27/07/17 06:28 PM
1

Why do you assume I creep girls at the class? What makes it any different from a salsa class, when you can end up with a girl who has no wish interest in dancing with you, but stuck with you until the round of over? Not to mention, I had zero sexual interest in the girl that actually complained to the teacher.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 06:23 PM
1

I know the difference. Nothing to do with that.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 12:12 PM
3

The book is descent but the man himself turned into a complete mangina after finding a girlfriend https://markmanson.net/whats-the-problem-with-men
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:48 PM
1

You are focusing on the wrong thing here - you are not owning your shit. You do get your needs satisfied on one side, but on the other, you have the regressive fantasy of your wife owning your needs. You say you spin plates because your wife doesn't satisfy you completely. OYS would be saying you have sexual needs that need satisfaction, whether from your wife or someone else, and from there figuring out whether the wife is willing and capable of satisfying some of them (she never will satisfy a…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/17 04:30 PM
10

COVERT CONTRACT: "I have improved and that means I deserve better sex from my wife." This is not how it works. You keep improving for yourself and at the same time lead and teach her to do things you like. This is a slow process. To your question why to keep her: it is up to you. Does she bring value to your life and mission? Your life and mission should be about much more than porn-grade sex. Another less popular option here is open non-monogamy, but this is risky and definitely not for everyon…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/17 09:28 AM
1

Do you have more examples or good routines you recommend?
/r/askTRP17/07/17 01:25 PM
1

If I have 2 days to lift, what would you suggest? I do 2 days boxing, 2 days muay-thau and some pilates for my back.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 01:18 PM
1

Every day?
/r/askTRP15/07/17 02:34 PM
1

Are you talking from experience? On mad cow?
/r/askTRP15/07/17 02:07 PM
2

How long have you been training train like this? This sounds like a sure way to get yourself seriously injured.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 01:53 PM
2

Some of the posters here have such low expectations from their wifes I don't think even TRP can help them. Let me put this as simple as I can: if your wife is a person that will hold against you forgetting anniversary after your friend committed suicide, she is probably mentally ill (sociopath/psychopath/BPD or very bad emotional issues.) A normal human being does not act this way. Standards, get some.
/r/askMRP12/07/17 06:47 PM
1

Equality, you still have the BP notion that there should be. Male orbiterd are clearly not "friends". You right, you can't tell her how to behave, you can tell her what behavior you will not stick around to witness.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 06:41 PM
1

I'm not sure what is the goal of this "mind stimulation" but boredom is actually good for you. Google it.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 06:37 PM
2

OI MOTHERFUCKER, DO YOU HAVE IT?
/r/askTRP08/07/17 10:45 PM
1

You are 100% on the spot, thank you. I also red your MRP post which was gold. I realised I am still in the Disney mentality that if I feel bad, how come love don't fix it?
/r/askMRP07/07/17 12:20 PM
2

Thanx guys.
/r/askMRP06/07/17 08:23 PM
1

I read much of it, what am I missing? seriously.
/r/askMRP06/07/17 05:23 PM
1

Are you saying that I rely on her actions to fix my frustration, instead of owning my shit?
/r/askMRP06/07/17 04:51 PM
1

What is the main event? I think there is a big RP point that I keep missing, because I do the work and get some progress out of it. Where are my expectations stray into the disney realm? Should I not expect her to bring value and investment into the relationship?
/r/askMRP06/07/17 03:17 PM
3

Maybe this is why: http://reddit.com/r/sex/comments/6l26ht/has_anyone_else_experienced_a_tendency_to_have/
/r/askTRP05/07/17 08:12 AM
1

when we do have sex, it's usually me pleasing her Stop doing that. Please yourself and leave her to take care of herself. it's the same boring positions and routine If this is what you keep doing then this is what will keep happening. Stick to the MAP. As I was told - you are only at the beginning. EDIT: I also realized I did not own my shit and had a weak frame. Improving that is important.
/r/askMRP02/07/17 08:11 PM
1

I was intending to use SJWs outrage as a selling tactic, it just came sooner than I planned and I was unprepared. Taking full responsibility. Being attacked by SJWs is fact, and I did ask what would be the best way to respond to it. No victimhood here.
/r/askMRP30/06/17 04:44 PM
1

Never thought asking "how should I deal with X?" is victimhood. Many people here actually gave me good advice. You are right about me not being prepared enough.
/r/askMRP30/06/17 04:27 PM
1

This is probably how it will be
/r/askMRP29/06/17 05:51 PM
1

If you want to read the rules I can send them to you :) As I said, this mechanic secondary and has more wording than actual gameplay significance. And why are only some characters able to rape? Why did king Joffrey enjoyed torturing people? because this is the kind of character that he was.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 05:46 PM
-1

bloops? TBP? Same thing it accomplishes in stories like Game of Thrones. It is a narrative device, and when you make a game, the narrative can be also expressed through mechanics. It will make a small difference naming a character's ability "rape" instead of "strike".
/r/askMRP29/06/17 05:14 PM
1

I see you saw the link before I removed it because I wanted to keep my privacy here. Anyway, it all got a little out of hand. I'll try to explain: In this game you play very bad people. Some murder, some do human experiments, some enslave people. Rape is not beyond the scope of their actions. Although they seem dark in the illustrations I thought adding those vile actions to the actual mechanics would make it even edgier. I thought also to use it as a selling point, what if you could play crimin…
/r/askMRP29/06/17 04:56 PM
1

That is a no unless you hear from her again. Her: that sounds pretty tempting But not tempting enough to actually commit to it.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:52 AM
3

MRP is about improving your life, not your relationships. If they improve too - good, if not - let them go.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 10:50 AM
2

They are not mutually exclusive. Using your mind is also useful.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 02:10 PM
1

Do your "observations" come from being that good-looking muscular social-media-popular guy telling us it works? Or do they come from being none of the above and explaining your lack of success with women? Because the latter is called here "excuses"
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:18 PM
12

If you are in a committed, bonded relationship why are you doing stuff in life separately? Why would you NOT have fun without your wife/gf?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 04:55 PM
1

Thanx, I kind of did it before but it was too sporadic. I'll try being more consistent now.
/r/askMRP25/06/17 02:49 PM
1

I had exactly the same upbringing. For me it boils down to being social. I realized my first response to stress is avoiding people in fear of rejection or criticism, but what actually helps the most is just keep doing stuff with other people - going out, seeing friends, going to classes etc. The more you sit alone at home the worse it gets and the harder it gets to pull yourself out. You don't have to be a very active participant or share your feelings, just being there and having some basic hum…
/r/becomeaman25/06/17 02:37 PM
2

Yes, it sometimes worked before. The goal was to incorporate anal into sex in general so it won't feel like it requires some special occasion.
/r/askMRP21/06/17 04:06 PM
1

I have a friend who is 65kg, about 7%bf and muscular as fuck. He gets laid a lot.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:05 PM
10

Harsh but I have to agree with it. The women's attitude was horrible, why the fuck do they feel entitled to you making them coffee, and then insulting you when you refuse? But I have a feeling you are not telling the part of the story of how did you get into that dynamic with them in the first place. I would suggest you ignore them completely and communicate the bare minimum required to get your job done.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:00 PM
8

I was just listening to their conversation before starting the day. WHY?
/r/askTRP17/06/17 03:56 PM
1

I have no problem talking with women when there is a "justified" reason to, other then her just being attractive. I usually can't come up with anything good to approach.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 04:18 PM
1

I dig into what it means to be a good Dom Any good material on the subject you recommend?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 10:59 AM
1

Never meant to say that (not in the first hour at least...;) Thanx, sounds solid
/r/askTRP13/06/17 09:36 PM
4

I have decent web ui/client programming skills. If needed, I'm in.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:22 PM
2

Thanx, I have actually been doing 5x5 for 4-5 month. How much fighting classes (and other workouts?) per week would you suggest to get started with?
/r/askTRP09/06/17 11:35 AM
1

Thanx, can you elaborate in the ego investment?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 02:33 PM
1

Inspiring. I have a few questions: How long ago dis you discover RP, how long is your journey? How was gaming/fucking other women beneficial for you journey? (seriously, no sarcasm) What was your hardest mental block during the change?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 01:54 PM
0

This is the jargon here, nothing personal.
/r/askMRP06/06/17 08:14 AM
1

She is not unstable, she is actually a good wife material in many aspects. She sais she feels the relationship (i.e. me) is unstable. I wanted to break up as a response to that statement. I am not sure about committing to her because I don't feel I enjoy being with her as much as I'd like and my question is whether RP can help change it.
/r/askMRP05/06/17 10:44 PM
1

What is she says "hmmm yes I'll try going with you but I'm tired and not sure if it will be fun....." ? It is not the hard NOs that worry me, it's when she does things with zero liveliness.
/r/askMRP05/06/17 10:27 PM
1

Actually you might be right, I do tend to ask people before doing a proper research
/r/askMRP01/05/17 09:35 AM
1

Any idea if fruit are a good part of such diet? (Thinking about replacing breakfast with a few fruit)
/r/askTRP30/04/17 08:28 PM
1

You may be right about the laziness. I think I can do more at those times and maybe cut myself too much slack.
/r/askMRP30/04/17 04:02 PM
1

I think I'm mostly there, but the problem is that I get really hungry quickly after meals. I updated the details in the question
/r/askTRP29/04/17 04:51 PM
3

What kind of accessories? I think I am around 25% http://i.imgur.com/rtBZe6b.jpg
/r/askTRP29/04/17 02:54 PM
1

I can say exactly the same about your juvenile name calling. Look man, this is my last response to you since I have a feeling you get off on these conversations (otherwise, why would you continue them?) Even if you had some valid points inside all of your verbal diarrhea, do you really think someone with even a little self respect, would give you the satisfaction of acknowledging them?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 02:41 PM
1

Thinking about having kids in the next year. this is base jumping, and your OYS indicates you have no parachute. Which part of it, can you elaborate?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 01:11 PM
1

Your retardation has finally made me laugh! You are convinced you are the shit because you are probably sitting on your fat ass all day contemplating imaginary stories about imaginary people that make you feel better than them. This must be so fun for you in your fantasy world :)
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 11:33 AM
1

I updated many points where I was not detailed enough. Why expecting her to show me sexual affection is not a reasonable long term goal? Same goes for me initiating only when I really want to. I know that this will not happen now, or in the next month or two, but this is the point of a goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 09:07 AM
1

Where the fuck did you read I expect girls to be attacking me or being world famous? I work hard and do everything I can yo improve. If you want to tell me what else can I do, good. Otherwise, don't waste my time reading your bullshit comments.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 04:17 AM
2

My first OYS post. Background: started my RP journey 6 months ago when I read NMMNG. Lifting for 2 months (SL5x5.) Bunk together with LTR of 7 years. Thinking about having kids in the next year. Got here because sex was shitty. FITNESS Goal - I am 20-25% fat. I want 10-15%. I weight 75kg so I think it will remain this way, no reason to go below that. What I do - I follow the lifting plan. first weeks were mostly easy, but recent 2 weeks I felt maxed out on every exercise. BUT I feel significant …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 03:55 PM
3

And? You think it surprises me you try to mock every post I talk about failing something? For someone who clearly doesn't give a shit you made quite the effort, what for? Does it makes you feel good about yourself?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 06:56 AM
3

Men should be less satisfied being pathetic, purposeless, whiny pussy faggots looking for a pity party. I have nothing but disdain for soft, weak men who are invested in protecting their ego. And what are you invested in, exactly? Is this your enlightened high self, spewing all this anger? Towards who? Towards a world that is not as it should be in YOUR eyes? I am far from being a hardcore red pill, but I am here because I want something to change, of my own free will. Not because some fuck thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 09:47 PM
1

I'll see if I can get it checked. Still, if T is not the case, what would you do? The 5x5 program is starting quite low regardless of anything, since it is my first real lifting program (never been at a gym before) I went along. Although the first 2 months were not hard for me I stuck with the program. Only last 2-3 weeks all exercises are challenging for me.
/r/askMRP24/04/17 04:10 PM
1

OK, I think I'm starting to see your point
/r/askMRP24/04/17 03:56 PM
1

Wow it's like a remix of all my RP posts lol. Anyway, let's assume it is not the T since I am usually horny and tend to be aggressive, what would you DO in my case?
/r/askMRP24/04/17 03:53 PM
-1

As I said, feel free to actually read what I wrote.
/r/askMRP24/04/17 02:37 PM
1

it's clear that you have very low sexual self-confidence. Why do you think so?
/r/askMRP24/04/17 01:36 PM
1

Look, I get what you are saying, but on the other hand of TRP is also about being with girls you are really attracted to. As someone already noticed here, I had a hard time saying NO my whole life, and in this case, using it is so tempting... I this something that happens, a woman with that does not put any effort in being attractive, suddenly starts to care enough to raise her SMV? What if she doesn't even know how? I surely can't teach her... What if those are her natural energies or prioritie…
/r/askMRP24/04/17 01:16 PM
1

We all know a slut is a slut, but can a good girl be turned into a semi-slut? This is what I'm not sure about. Also, she wants kids and we are not getting younger, so I'd rather cut her off soon then stay for another year or half a year since her fertile time is running low.
/r/askMRP24/04/17 11:37 AM
6

"The sex is starting to get stale for me." "The positions we do start to get old to me."
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/17 11:34 AM
-1

Did you actually READ my post, or do you just copy-paste the same answer everywhere, parroting the same mantra? If not, enlighten me how it is even remotely related.
/r/askMRP24/04/17 06:50 AM
11

I was undisciplined as fuck all my 20s (I'm 32 now) and I regret it. The first thing I would say is that it is a long process and you should be ready for it. Be ready to fail and to realise that it is part of the process. Beating yourself up will only demotivate you. Second - focus on things that you enjoy doing repeatedly. Even in lifting which may seem like a dull activity, I enjoy the feeling of being strong and the small progress I make each time. Don't do things ONLY for a long term goal be…
/r/askTRP23/04/17 04:43 PM
3

Gold. This is relevant for all human relations. You don't own your attention to anyone and this sends the strongest message.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 08:24 PM
3

My goal is to look more muscular, since I am quite skinny. What is a bb routine?
/r/askTRP21/04/17 08:41 AM
1

I made profiles on a bunch of dating sites Main mistake. On dating sitea your SMV is about 3 points lower then in reality. Also, cold approach is harsh, it gets the job done sometimes but you should find a good environment where your approaches won't be cold (sports class, dancing, photography etc.) This is my take at least.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:39 PM
7

There is no such thing "playing hard to get". This is BP terminology.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 02:33 PM
2

This is feminism speaking, if you are not trying to be intimidating I don't see an issue. Yes, many guys and girls alike would feel uncomfortable in a presence of a manly man, there is nothing wrong with that on your side and you have nothing to apologize for.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 07:32 AM
2

No, it will make you look as insecure as you are and she will see right through it. I'd ask her at the day of the date if you are still on
/r/askTRP15/04/17 01:53 PM
2

There is no way to make am emotion disappear. You can hide it from people or even from yourself, but it is there until you allow it to run its course. This means actually the opposite of what most people say - listen to what that emotion asks of you, weather it is crying, running, talking, even therapy is there to deal with emotions that stay too long and make you miserable. What I see as emotionally manning up is realizing that nothing is permanent, and although losing someone or something hurt…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 05:47 PM
1

I had a strong gut feeilng that this is the case. Great job putting it in words.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 03:09 PM
1

and this is exactly the opposite of what I am looking for.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 07:12 PM
1

Currently - switching from being a programmer to a screenwriter and director of a show I am working on.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:32 PM
3

Too bad I'm an atheist :D
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:31 PM
1

Thanx. I'm not a native English speaker
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 09:29 AM
1

How the hell is this a onitis? He just wants to fuck her
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:54 PM
1

How would you respond then? What leverage do I have to stop such responses?
/r/askMRP26/02/17 12:23 PM
0

Her reactions are very disrespectful. It is true you have to earn respect, but since she is your wife and not some girl you just picked up, one of the ways to do so is to demand it. For example: I would say that if she's not into sex it is perfectly fine, but I would not stand her responding to it with eye rolling, as if it is some ridiculous joke. By not responding harshly to such behavior you state "yes, you'r right, there is no reason for you to take me seriously as a man. Why would I expect …
/r/askMRP26/02/17 11:01 AM
2

There’s nothing red pill about men trying to pretend they don’t have feelings; that shit is mainstream blue pill AF. Finally! I got so tired reading all those ridiculous feelings-are-gay advice.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 12:55 AM
18

Not sure what girlfriends you and the upvotes are used to, but this is definitely not how all women behave. There are those who are actually capable of holding a conversation and listen to another person. What OP described sounds ridiculously narcissistic and far from LTR material.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 08:56 AM
1

Yes
/r/askMRP21/02/17 05:45 PM
0

What?
/r/askMRP21/02/17 05:44 PM
-2

I get your point BUT it is not like I have been cold and autistic with her since I wrote that. I game her, the sex actually improved significantly in the last few month. Of course I lift I read, I had a career breakthrough and I am more OI. I am sure I have some part in that, but don't think you cracked the case.
/r/askMRP21/02/17 05:43 PM
-5

You missed my point: I'm not worrying about her emotions. This behavior makes her less feminine to me, she acts more like a man then a woman. I miss having having those feminine energies in the house, especially when I inteteract with women who have them.
/r/askMRP21/02/17 05:15 PM
1

What does MLTR stand for?
/r/askMRP18/02/17 12:28 PM
1

Updated
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:16 PM
2

No
/r/askTRP16/02/17 05:35 PM
1

I was considering it too. Can climbing/bouldering replace lifting? Since it would be expensive and time consuming for me to do both.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 07:28 PM
5

These are not shit tests, this is plain crazy and abusive. I would kick her out ASAP. And the other guys are right, if you are not willing to walk away from this shit, noting we say here can help you.
/r/askMRP14/02/17 09:28 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:09 PM
3

You just covered a huge topic. Be more specific, you want money? Being good at something? Following your passion? Advance in a corporate world? Investing your money?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 05:02 PM
1

I'm new to this so what info I should provide?
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:42 PM
1

I think Gary Vaynerchuk is what I was looking for! I heared the guy a long time ago but had no idea what it meant to actually do something. Hope now I do.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 06:22 PM
0

This is the worst piece of psychobabble bulshit I have ever read on this forum
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 09:29 PM
2

Have I not watched bluepills prof's videos Where? Can you post a link please?
/r/askMRP16/01/17 10:02 AM
2

It seems like she has quite the frame, and you are completely inside it. Blowjobs are demeaning? Sais who? And so fucking what? Tell her you want to demean her in sex.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 06:19 PM
-2

I'm not saying she should be wet as a kind of consent but rather as a physical indication of desire. I think any woman would feel weird fucking a man with a semi-boner. Wouldn't you enjoy more feeling her really wet?
/r/askMRP06/01/17 09:07 PM
0

No physical condition
/r/askMRP06/01/17 08:37 PM
2

You have guessed correctly - I not a native English speaker. This is not an excuse but a fact.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 07:19 PM
1

I had similar issues in the past and my GF sounds somewhat like that, so you take a look at my history, might be helpful.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 06:27 PM
1

Good summary, seems like this is the situation indeed.
/r/askMRP03/01/17 04:30 PM
1

I really don't get why would you even be in a relationship with a woman like that? There are alphas who don't give the slightest shit about women and there are those who show love and care. Same with AWALT: there are woman who will be descent human beings even if they are not attracted to you, and not send you to fix the lawnmower or spray lysol in your face when you are sick and can barely move. This is just plain fucked up.
/r/askMRP03/01/17 11:47 AM
2

Could be, I sometimes feel this mixture of frustration and resentment, and also I feel like my will to make effort to fuck any women went down (had opportunities that required more energy and time that I cared to invest)
/r/askMRP31/12/16 08:34 PM
1

Actually, I also find myself less interested in sex in general, those last weeks
/r/askMRP31/12/16 08:07 PM
0

SGM?
/r/askMRP31/12/16 12:57 PM
1

Posting here instead of /r/askmrp was indeed a mistake. Also, I do the work, read most of the sidebar and dread level is steady at around 4-5, in the last few month. The emotional part is referring mostly to what I wrote here: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5kdz2d/not_being_emotional_with_women_is_so_liberating
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 04:07 PM
0

You wandered here without actually reading any of the sidebar, am I right?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 06:47 AM
1

When we started my pill was bluer than the ocean, but now, in the last ~6 month since I took TRP I see many changes in her behavior, but this still prevails. The thought of break up definitely crossed my mind.
/r/askMRP26/12/16 05:57 PM
2

Not that I know of
/r/askMRP25/12/16 05:02 PM
1

I stopped talking to her about my feelings, ever. Why? Serious question. Maybe it's my beta till talking, but disconnecting a person from my emotional world seems harsh. Also, there is probably a difference between sharing, and using emotion, like the beta pity fuck strategy.
/r/askMRP25/12/16 12:35 PM
1

My money is on 1. I think she is pushing OP to have an affair to get herself an excuse, maybe even a foursome. Sounds she is looking for hotter sex.
/r/askMRP25/12/16 12:12 PM
1

If you felt so bad last time, why go again? Maybe choose a destination where it is easier to meet people and not be alone.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 07:32 AM
8

She sounds retarded, but mostly self-absorbed
/r/MGTOW14/12/16 10:57 AM
2

I feel very stupid now because I have not negotiated anything for a long time now, I upped the dread, did the work but I initiate maybe 2 times a week. I decided I will try doing as you and some others said - initiate every fucking day. Maybe I will get shut down, maybe even not with her, but I think most of my frustration may be coming from preventing from myself going for it.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 09:47 AM
1

I think you miss completely the concept of "progress"
/r/askMRP13/12/16 09:45 AM
1

I am at 5 already, time to go higher.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 08:31 PM
1

Of course this is not a question of her "performing" and the last thing I want is negotiated sex. I told her I am not having a spreadsheet to count the days, but I would like to have sex every day more often than not (not sure if it's the right phrasing, English is not native to me) If the situation was reversed, I think I could definetely understand someone feeling sexually frustrated simply because I lack the drive to do what setisfies her.
/r/askMRP12/12/16 07:59 PM
0

First (and this is to /u/WhiteTrashKiller too) I put in the work, all the shebang. Second, what can I say, I have high sex drive, always had, and only now I realise that it is actually OK to want it to be satisfied. The fact that someone else got it worse is not a reason for me to ask less of life. I also know I might be giving up a lot, but this sexual frustration sometimes really gets the best of me, so I am only making us both miserable.
/r/askMRP12/12/16 07:55 PM
1

I mean, how bad do you need a BJ to feel fulfilled in life? Do you really need head or are you looking for the validation of a wife who eagerly sucks your dick? I think there is a distinction here, there is nothing wrong with wanting to feel attractive, the kind of attractive that makes women abandon all inhibitions. But some wonen or some relationships will simply never make it happen. Maybe the blowjob is too concrete here, but I think that if OP's wife did other crazy things he, might forgo t…
/r/askMRP09/12/16 01:45 PM
1

'I noticed that....' (insert backhanded compliment - never a real compliment) Why never a real one?
/r/askTRP03/12/16 09:23 AM
1

what happens if she doesn't ask a direct question about me? say if I keep blathering on about anything and she never asks? Then I guess you move on with your life.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 09:09 AM
1

OMG girlfriends of friends are such a bane sometimes...
/r/askTRP22/11/16 09:26 PM
1

I just wrote quite a similar question, but for me, the playful side is not perceived as childish because it is very sexual too. So as long as you are not really childish but playful, and don't hold back the sexual parts, I think you should do fine.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 02:07 PM
1

Awesome post, but most of all, since I am having a children dilemma (weather I want any, since my LLLTR recently realized she does) this gave me a lot of encouragement that kids and family, although constricting in some ways, can still be awesome.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 04:30 PM
1

I don't know what is TRPs stand on this, but I would suggest some kind of psychotherapy might help. I got to my shrink (who I no longer see today) because I was filled with frustration, anger and anxiety, and by helping me to deal with them it actually opened the door for the RP ideas to sink in, in a healthy way. All those emotions need attention, and there is a big difference between spilling them all around blue-pill style, and actually facing and listening to them for your own benefit (and m…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 04:04 PM
2

You got me wrong, it is not the woman I'm unsure about, it is the children. I never imagined there would be a woman I will want kids with her more then now. I'm just not the family type. The other women part is completely unrelated and only has to do with my curiosity. Do you have sex to validate yourself? Because I personally do it for fun.
/r/askMRP15/11/16 06:39 PM
3

If you are going to spend more time apart then the time you actually knew each other there is simply no relationship there. But the real issue I sense is: why is it important to you to make some kind of promise? If you get back and she is still there, good for you, if not, there are plenty others (or is this a case of unicorn oneitis?) A most likely scenario is you getting back to an unaffectionate girl who barely remembers why she was intimate with you in the first place. Skype will not keep th…
/r/askTRP09/11/16 04:10 PM
0

Alcohol
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:58 PM
-1

No correlation between RP and gaming
/r/askTRP07/11/16 10:49 PM
1

LOL
/r/askMRP06/11/16 07:32 PM
1

Yes
/r/askMRP06/11/16 07:31 PM
1

Great links, thanx
/r/askMRP06/11/16 06:07 PM
3

Some comments say this is elementary RP, but I very much disagree - I think the emphasis on the vagina is actually very important. In the book No More Mr Nice Guy the author says many nice guys have vagi-phobia. Even when a NG/AFC get sexual with a woman, kissing, making out etc, they tend to avoid the vagina. I myself was exactly like that, and realizing that the vagina is actually what I really want made a whole world of difference in my approach. It is so true the vagina being a kind of "sepa…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 01:51 PM
2

Thanx, it is a good answer.
/r/askMRP06/11/16 01:28 PM
1

Are you referring to the iron rules of Tomassi? I dug through the whole sidebar and some google ans still could only find rule #1...
/r/askMRP06/11/16 09:46 AM
1

Thanx, what about proteins?
/r/askTRP03/11/16 01:36 PM
1

How big a difference will a gym make to push ups at home?
/r/askTRP03/11/16 01:20 PM
0

Does trying to make fun of people make you feel manly and empowered? Because to me it sounds like a looser that doesn't have much else going for him in life.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 06:58 PM
-1

I actually looked there before asking, found nothing.. Feel free to post a link
/r/askMRP26/08/16 06:37 PM
1

What is Rule Zero?
/r/askMRP26/08/16 06:18 PM
3

You ask yourself why do you need a girl to be insecure to approach her? You are being judgmental about her for no good reason except that it seems she's not very much into you. Nothing to do with seduction...
/r/seduction06/09/15 11:50 AM
1

Can you give me a link?
/r/seduction05/09/15 09:11 AM
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