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wildcardpua/r/seduction02/06/12 08:01 AM
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wildcardpua/r/seduction09/01/11 01:24 AM
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Women are told to respect themselves and their bodies, but men aren’t similarly taught to respect themselves and their time. THAT LINE ALONE MADE IT WORTH THE READ.
/r/seduction12/05/12 02:51 AM
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that thing you said: "because what if I make a fool of myself" should be revised. Instead, think "so what if I make a fool of myself?"
/r/seduction19/03/12 07:24 AM
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lol
/r/seduction23/06/11 09:22 PM
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But what about guys like this http://s1.guyism.com/up/predator-6.jpg
/r/seduction21/06/11 05:56 PM
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A billion times, this.
/r/seduction15/06/11 06:09 PM
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Something that (1) doesn't suck and--this is important--(2) has slow, boring parts. If you fail at (1), that's a DLV. If you fail at (2), you'll have no window.
/r/seduction15/06/11 04:37 PM
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Dead Milkmen!
/r/seduction23/02/11 12:18 AM
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Game on, brotha!
/r/seduction12/02/11 09:03 PM
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I think OKC only works for outlier guys (very attractive) or on outlier girls (very socially awkward). The interaction places too much choice in the girl's hands. This is in contrast to real life pickup where you can display a lot of confidence and she doesn't have the immediate option of giving attention to some other guy. Good job distinguishing yourself from the rest of the pack on OKC. One of the pluses of OKC is that you get to know more about what the girl thinks of herself through the pro…
/r/seduction12/02/11 08:56 PM
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Classic cockblocking. Shoulda brought a wing.
/r/seduction12/02/11 07:00 AM
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This is why I think texts are good for setting up meetings. Also, try and phrase everything as a command. You'd be surprised at how effective that one little pre-send-button tweak can be. Observe. AFC: "So maybe if you have free time this weekend would you like to see a movie with me?" Tweak #1: Stop caring about whether its convenient for her. After First Tweak: "Would you like to see a movie with me this weekend?" Tweak #2: Don't phrase this as a question. Phrase it as a command. After Second …
/r/seduction12/02/11 05:48 AM
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Yeah. I'm no expert on unlocking EA (PUA's or target's) and, truthfully, it's probably my biggest in-field weakness. My theory is that the cure for PUA EA is like the cure for AA: power through it quickly and look for IOIs to ease your transition to the new level of kino. If you get the IOIs, then you can relax because the escalation was well-received. The more you psych yourself out, the higher your chance that the window closes. For target EA, put yourself in her shoes. If she doesn't like you…
/r/seduction09/02/11 09:01 AM
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Escalation Anxiety. Both guys and girls can get EA. Guys get it when they don't feel like they're getting enough IOIs to escalate. Girls get it when a guy escalates sooner than she is used to. It doesn't mean the girl isn't attracted (after all, you've been attracted to a lot of girls that gave you AA or EA). She just needs comfort of some sort, either through IOIs or, in the case of a girl that also fears being perceived as slutty, some kind of Plausible Deniability (PD). This is why isolation …
/r/seduction08/02/11 03:14 AM
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I actually have the same question. I'll take a stab at a theory. You could classify cold kino as a form of ASD, but it would depend on whether the cold kino is done consciously and as a repression of what she would like to do (reciprocate). You could also classify cold kino as legitimate EA on the girl's part. That seems to be what happened in your FR, because after you unlocked the kiss, she seemed much less afraid to kino when you went back. The real question is how to push through her cold ki…
/r/seduction07/02/11 06:22 AM
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Focus less on your esteem and more on experiencing new things. Mantra: I'm doing this to experience something new. Goal: Have new stories to tell. This is the essence of avoiding outcome-based interactions, and it improves your PUA skills dramatically. Besides, you should be thrilled about not being stuck at home! Have a great night!
/r/seduction06/02/11 04:17 AM
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"Honestly, I'm not sure. I had a big erection and was not following." ROFL
/r/seduction05/02/11 04:56 PM
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You ended an imperative statement with a question mark.
/r/seduction04/02/11 12:37 AM
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There is no such thing as a "perfect opportunity." If you believe in these, then you run the risk of being too selective about which opportunities are and are not perfect enough. That leads to chickening out with the cop out of "oh, it wasn't a good enough opportunity." Bad. You may get another opportunity, but that opportunity may not be perfect. So what. Seize it anyways!
/r/seduction03/02/11 10:26 AM
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I kinda like most of those posts. It helps you realize how far along you are as a RAFC when you see posts written by guys who are in a stage you used to be in. And it's good karma to help those guys. That's also why those "OMG HB10 or HB12" posts are good. It puts you in perspective as a RAFC. The problems they are having now may become your problems later down the line. Yes, you could tell them to RTFSB, but Seddit is a COMMUNITY, not just a compendium of information. Ideally, yes, they have re…
/r/seduction01/02/11 06:19 AM
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Very cool
/r/seduction01/02/11 04:10 AM
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The more you talk about yourself, the more I wish I met girls like you in field.
/r/seduction31/01/11 07:18 AM
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Am I the only one reminded very much of Simon Pegg?
/r/seduction31/01/11 05:40 AM
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Look. You're not in her friend zone. You're on her would-fuck ladder, as evidenced by the kclose. The problem is that you're not as high on her would-fuck ladder as the ex (and that's probably because he has the advantage of knowing how to push her buttons and knows her better than you do, and ONLY because of that). Methinks you are too butthurt about this. The second things go sour with this guy, which should be pretty often, it's good for you to be the person whose cock she craves. And if you …
/r/seduction30/01/11 11:32 PM
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This.
/r/seduction30/01/11 09:17 PM
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Ding ding ding - we have a winner
/r/seduction30/01/11 07:40 PM
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The last few minutes are absolute gold.
/r/seduction30/01/11 07:10 PM
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She sounds like drama. She sought attention and, more importantly, leverage for her little game that she's putting this ex through. As for "what went wrong" it sounds like nothing went wrong. She was attracted, as evidenced by the kclose. You may have been able to fclose, but it sounds like you were more interested in a Day3. I'd keep her on the backburner. When things get bad between her and her ex, she might be in the mood for stuff with you. I'd use her strictly for physical stuff until thing…
/r/seduction30/01/11 06:27 PM
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Why don't you have a seat over there?
/r/seduction30/01/11 12:40 AM
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I agree with you in principle. But it comes off as really insecure and whiny. I would perhaps game someone else right in front of her until she gets the hint.
/r/seduction29/01/11 08:11 AM
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Well played.
/r/seduction28/01/11 07:00 AM
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my sentiments exactly
/r/seduction27/01/11 08:55 AM
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The standard FTOW. Make her a backburner girl. Stay loosely in touch. Sometimes the timing is not right, but if you stay somewhat in each other's lives (hang out like once a month or two) then later on the timing could be better. She could just need a bit of time to get used to the whole being unattached thing. I've personally had instances where the pickup and close were awesome. But then as we continued things, she kept qualifying herself to me a bit too hard, and it was both unattractive to m…
/r/seduction26/01/11 07:23 PM
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PROTIP: Hold your frame. Think of this as a prolonged shit test. You won't stop being attractive to her if you remain unattainable as a boyfriend. She would then be forced to shut you out (which you should be prepared for by holding an abundance mentality) or stay within your frame. Let her know that you are still qualifying her (which is the absolute truth) and she has no say over when this qualification period is over, nor can she do anything to expedite the process.
/r/seduction26/01/11 05:05 PM
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I guess "canned" was kind of a misused word. I don't mean stories from somewhere else; I mean stories you have prepared and in your arsenal.
/r/seduction24/01/11 01:19 AM
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I approve.
/r/seduction24/01/11 12:39 AM
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I used to have that problem. The answer is to tell a story. Stop yourself when you're in that moment that you feel like you have to ask an interview question (the moment is usually when the conversation halts). Think of the available subjects and think up a transition from those subjects to one of your canned stories. Mystery has a few decent ones. If you really do your homework and write stories that hit those attraction switches, it's a great way to keep a conversation going. If she shares sto…
/r/seduction24/01/11 12:37 AM
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I, too, have no idea what that part mean.
/r/seduction24/01/11 12:14 AM
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That's pretty much how I feel. I don't think I'd ever LOSE a chick due to a massive DLV in the apartment. But if you really want to optimize the experience, and minimize LMR, I think it's helpful to do.
/r/seduction17/01/11 01:46 AM
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That's a good point. I can't believe I missed that one. What else should be done to optimize the sense of smell portion of the experience?
/r/seduction09/01/11 11:10 AM
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I agree with you 100%. I hadn't read that the OP had already Kclosed this girl. I know this is a point of contention among those in the PUA community, but personally, I think it is wrong to play with a girl's feelings like that. Granted, there are some extenuating circumstances. It sounds like the OP didn't realize he was playing with fire until it was too late. That is why my initial advice was to initiate the LJBF, and actually mean the "BF" part of that. Help her meet someone, hang out with h…
/r/seduction09/01/11 11:08 AM
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ATX represent
/r/seduction09/01/11 10:56 AM
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Hahaha! Very true. Should we discuss our favorite hiding spots? Or will sedette lurkers use that information against us later on?
/r/seduction09/01/11 02:49 AM
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I think you should give her an LJBF speech. If you dont, she will think you led her on and your bridge to those hotties will be burned. And before she reaches that conclusion, she will actively cockblock to improve her chances and if her friends care about her at all they will freeze you out until they get the green light from her. Just get in her social circle via the LJBF.
/r/seduction09/01/11 12:55 AM
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