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| 3 | Being an Asian guy sucksI'm calling your bullshit. I'm a Singaporean and you're just making mysogynistic comments for the sake of karma. No, women do not behave like that in Singapore. Those people you mentioned (apart from the cheaters, which I have not haven't heard of so I won't comment) are far and few between. If anything, society is more conservative than you make it out to be. You want to share your opinion? Fine. But don't mislead other people. Complete bullshit. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Why ugly / average girls on social media / Tinder are disrespectful?bad upbringing. don't bother about it | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 08:31 AM |
| 1 | The Gender Inequality mythAs a male, don't like this triangle one bit. What does it represent as a whole? What is on the axis? Vague claims like these don't benefit anyone. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/19 03:06 AM |
| 1 | A girl grabbed my phone and put her number in it.Probably not that severe. Just people staring daggers at you | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Today I Signed Up for the DraftWell, having gotten about 1k/month I'd say it was enough for me, but I could have been compensated better. Thing is we live in a very privileged country, and my POV is that I'm learning a lower wage for two years, in order to pay for this privilege. Those that came before me protected my country, I did the same, and am still doing so, and I'll expect the future generations to do the same. Rather than say "what can our country do for us", why not say "what can we do for our country?" Yep I agree … | /r/MensRights | 07/05/19 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Today I Signed Up for the DraftSingaporean here. Conscription isn't a bad thing per se, but I'm not sure if I want women in combat with me. Purely from a physical perspective, they can't lift as much, run as far, or run as fast as men can. That translates to dragging a wounded friend from an open area to cover. If she can't bear the load of combat equipment, I sure as hell ain't enthusiastic about carrying it for her. This isn't a sex thing, I'd be pissed if my best friend asked me to carry extra combat load for him too. This… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/19 12:27 PM |
| 2 | 10 Steps To Becoming A Pro At Conversation (IN DEPTH & WITH EXAMPLES)Send me one too | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 12:15 PM |
| 5 | How to not pay for stuff on dates?If you're looking for chivalry, this is the wrong sub. Try /r/history instead | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 05:11 AM |
| 5 | What is it that makes girls message you first, send extra long messages, reply in an instant? A lot of girls seem to be so interested at first but then treat you like hot trash the next day, how to avoid this?Text a few days before your date to confirm and remind her. The rest is up to your calibration - though small talk is always good | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Finally had the guts to ask a girl out, did I fuck up? (she said yes)Try posting in /r/seduction as well. Anyways there's no need to rush things. You've asked her out, she knows your intent and you've stated your interest. Set a date and if she's interested (and free), she'll turn up. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What went wrong here? Really bummed because this girl was absolutely gorgeousMistake 1: messages got longer and longer. Flirt, tease, set up logistics. Seems like you were trying to be her friend Mistake 2: too many emojis will make it cringe worthy Mistake 3: when a date's set up, don't sweat it if you don't have her number. Whether she turns up or not has no relevance to you getting her number. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Harassment deniedYup. Posting here so that I'll get banned from that cesspool | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/10/17 05:50 AM |
| 1 | A month out from the wedding... Finds TRP... Do I call it off?You're telling us your life story because you want our approval to say "alright, go ahead". This doesn't change your situation, just makes you feel a little better. My advice is DONT GO AHEAD WITH IT. You're a mess and she's a disaster | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/17 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Inexperienced virgin in need of some advice for tonight.Truth be told, lots of realities in game are learned through experience. Remember this OP: always be happy, and do things for yourself/because you want to. Never take things personally but enjoy the ride ;) | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 09:46 AM |
| 2 | I've been a lurker in this sub for over a year, and while there has been good content, a video recently posted by /u/jamestusk2017 about rejection is absolutely CRUCIAL viewing for anyone who's remotely serious about this. It should be stickied. Here's why:But he did put himself out there and approached, which itself isn't bad | /r/seduction | 02/07/17 08:38 AM |
| 9 | Female Cops shouldn't be on force if they cannot aim a weapon and protect the public from dangerI used to work in the military, and almost everything was done in 'buddy level', whereby you've got one dude helping another dude in case shit goes down. The police in my country always follow this rule, but it might be different for yours. | /r/PussyPass | 22/06/17 11:21 AM |
| -2 | Female Cops shouldn't be on force if they cannot aim a weapon and protect the public from dangerCops always travel in pairs, it's standard protocol iirc | /r/PussyPass | 22/06/17 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Younger guys (< 30) of TRP, what troubles you or worries you most about getting older? Older guys of TRP, what do you have to say about those troubles and worries?Younger guy (22) here. I'm worried that my life will amount to nothing, and that life is just a series of endless routines. I'm worried about being mediocre, forgettable, and being just like everyone else. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to "fall in love" with girls you've never spoken to?The way you write sounds like you're over compensating. Relax on the language, but be clearer and more concise on the message you're trying to get across. Based on my experience - you just gotta put yourself out there and talk to them. Realise that everyone is human and is trying to live out their own lives. Realise that people are people, and nothing they have short of good character traits Eg. Generosity, kindness will make them special. Gorgeous 10/10? That's nice. I'd rather have a mentor th… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Is PUA Real?Yeah it is. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 05:02 PM |
| 1 | What's your first impression when you think of a woman like this?Sounds like a psycho. Stay far away, and life goes on. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/17 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Feel like giving up but I know I shouldn'tYup. His inexperience showed and that's perfectly normal. Everyone started from the bottom at some point. Learn from it, move on. There's plenty of other opportunities in life | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Guide for treating women like children?Learnt a tonne from those two. Absolutely brilliant people | /r/askTRP | 21/02/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | A guide to Abundance mentality?There's no way to skip being proficient BEFORE getting abundance mentality. You need to see how it works before it works for you. I'm currently working on it as well. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/17 05:34 PM |
| 3 | On LoveRemember the age old saying here, "She's never yours, it's just your turn"? I never believed it to be true, maybe all these men were wrong. Maybe I'm different. Maybe I can see through her and she's different. Maybe maybe maybe. Maybe I'm just full of shit. And I discovered that for myself today - the hard way. AWALT. Work hard for yourself, for your dreams, and to prove that you can be better. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/17 11:51 AM |
| 1 | I have a problem of blowing it up too early! HelpLearn hard and fast, make mistakes. I fucked up the first 10 dates I went on, and that's alright. Review your mistakes, where exactly did you fail in the interaction? Make sure you remember what you did right and wrong. Did you fail multiple shit tests? Did you fail comfort tests? Did you fail to escalate or escalate too quickly? Did you escalate in the wrong mood or wrong location? Don't be afraid to kino and show your intentions. Don't outright go caveman in public either. You'll get there eve… | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 05:28 AM |
| 1 | One of my friends has organised a party. My ex is gonna be there with her bf. How do i face them making out etc?Similar case with me, but her friend ended up with her instead. The only way I'd look her in the eye is if I'm with someone that's hotter than her. Play it cool and say hello to your ex if you can manage, and of course have your girl be by your side. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 04:47 AM |
| 1 | 21 year old guy, no experience, would appreciate improvement strategiesIf you're depressed, do focus on the issues that make you depressed in the first place, and fix them. That's the biggest part. If you want a quick fix, check out RSD Todd, charisma on command, and simple pick up on YT. They'll teach you how to talk to women, make friends, and show you that being sociable on general isn't that all difficult. Like all things it requires practice. | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 11:30 AM |
| 2 | How did you change yourself?You take it one day at a time :) | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 11:27 AM |
| 4 | Guys from seddit, that transformed from shy/socially awkward to getting laid regularly: What was your "click" moment, i.e. the moment/realisation that changed you or resonated with you the most?I've had much much much more success with women in person than online. Yeah there's of questionable people on online dating sites, men and women included. Money doesn't matter, unless you're not financially secure. If they like you for your money, looks, etc. then no dice for them. Don't worry and keep trudging on. I've been on dating apps for about a year and unless you're extremely witty or handsome, or everything she looks for in a guy, nothing much is going to happen. There's plenty of good … | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 05:30 AM |
| 5 | Guys from seddit, that transformed from shy/socially awkward to getting laid regularly: What was your "click" moment, i.e. the moment/realisation that changed you or resonated with you the most?When I got shut down hard by the first girl that I approached in a club. I decided that change needs to happen, and that I was going to make that change happen for myself. I read up on PUA books and videos, and most importantly started doing things that I was uncomfortable with. Face your fears, and once you've faced it there's literally nothing to be scared of. I built confidence on making my mistakes and facing all my fears. That's all there is to it. I put myself out there and made all the mi… | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 05:12 AM |
| 25 | Guys from seddit, that transformed from shy/socially awkward to getting laid regularly: What was your "click" moment, i.e. the moment/realisation that changed you or resonated with you the most?Don't worry, I've been through and done that. What he says is 100% true. Of course women are attracted to rich and good looking guys, likewise we are attracted to supermodels. Point to note is that how you present and talk to the girl is of paramount importance. I look like shit, but I try to dress and groom myself well. And I've dated girls WAYYY out of my league because of that. At the end of the day, give it a shot and keep shooting. Because you owe it to yourself to be the best and happiest … | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 05:08 AM |
| 2 | THE TRUTH ABOUT "THE ONE"Totally feels like being struck by lightning. Disclaimer: never been struck by lighning before, but if I were that would probably be what it feels like | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 04:59 AM |
| 1 | THE TRUTH ABOUT "THE ONE"I hope that I can be you in 10 years time. | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 04:57 AM |
| 2 | THE TRUTH ABOUT "THE ONE"Hey man, just had a breakup and this hits so close to home. Thanks for posting this sigh I'm saving this post so that I can read it later, when I'm feeling down again. | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 04:55 AM |
| 2 | How do I cultivate a more agressive nature?The people here are giving you advice on how to be more aggressive in life in general, which doesn't answer your question. My answer is to go BEYOND your comfort zone on escalation and to practice. Practice practice practice. Sooner or later knowing what to do will come naturally to you. Another point is to read up on kino and just take shots in the dark, at least until you know how it works. Another point is to recognise when the girl is resisting you VS when she's uncomfortable. One is ASD and… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/17 06:39 AM |
| 2 | The LTR or not questionSolid advice to bear in mind. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 02/02/17 06:33 AM |
| 3 | How often are women approached?I cold approach any girl I find cute or attractive, and gauge their response to me. They very seldom expect to be approached, and the dynamics of the outside are much different from the dynamics from inside a club. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 12:09 AM |
| 0 | My twelve REAL reasons why you suck with women (it's GOOD NEWS for 98% of struggling men)100% agree. Girls only want you to make them feel certain way. Looking good? Cut with 6 abs? Girls want you because you make them feel a CERTAIN WAY with that build. It's not any different from walking up and talking to them. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 12:06 AM |
| 0 | How to tell a girl my time is too valuable to deal with flakiness without coming across like a dick?Not sure if other people can chime in on this, but I found that "I'm got some free time this week, what's your schedule like" works pretty well. Implies that you're busy but you'll try to accommodate her, also you'll be getting to know her schedule all at once. | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Have you found that approaching women made you quicker witted in general?Content matters, a lot. But delivery matters even more | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 11:30 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I did almost everything wrong but still got laid just by putting myself out there and not expecting sex.Agreed 100%. Don't be scared. Choose your venues wisely, kino naturally as a progression. Don't worry if you fuck up, because you'll learn from it and be better in the future | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Stick out uni or take a chance on something?Get your education first. Unless you have a rock solid game plan | /r/askTRP | 19/12/16 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Fuck it. I'm taking the red pill.Telling people more about you so they can understand you. Or volunteering information so that you can vindicate yourself. Eg. "Sorry I'm late today, it was my friends birthday last night and I drank too much, so I couldn't wake up on time". Vs "Sorry I'm late, had a long night yesterday". Then only giving more information if they ask you for it. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/16 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Fuck it. I'm taking the red pill.Few things: Congrats on trying to turn your life around, not everyone has such a good springboard to start with. Don't qualify yourself so much with other people. It seems counterintuitive, but qualifying yourself makes you seem desperate or lacking. (Even when genuinely not) Keep us updated, always good to see progress in a fellow brother | /r/askTRP | 18/12/16 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Is military worth the experience?Get off your armchair and see the military for what it is. People work hard out there and you discredit them - not go read up and get your facts straight first. You're not worth the time to argue. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/16 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if you've got game? how can you improve it?Bam. This is it right here, just get a mentor if you can. Your mentors should be fuck boys or playboys - learn their methods and styles, but in the end always be yourself. Incorporate their methods | /r/seduction | 14/11/16 10:44 AM |
| 0 | Is military worth the experience?I think it's fine if you get posted as part of the supply or admin chain inside the military. Heavy vehicle drivers, military police, admin clerks etc are just a few of the hundreds of positions available. Don't join for the combat because you'll regret it. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Is military worth the experience?Always amusing to see how people make assumptions about what we do. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Girl from Tinder wanted to meet up. I asked her if she had friends with her she said, yes?The EC has a point. But your attitude is all wrong with this. You're coming from the anger phase and you'll feel insecure deep down. Find your inner game first before trying to game someone else | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 04:45 AM |
| 0 | Girl from Tinder wanted to meet up. I asked her if she had friends with her she said, yes?Pay attention to what she does not what she says. I've done a ton of tinder outings and talk does not equal action. Next time meet up and see her body language and her attitude irl. If you're not interested, it's your entitlement to ditch the meet up. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 04:44 AM |
| 0 | Girl from Tinder wanted to meet up. I asked her if she had friends with her she said, yes?Then you've lost the battle of frame. She offers to talk, calibrate, escalate etc. There's no right or wrong, and you're having fun. Go there with no expectations unless you're into the dtf kind. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 03:24 AM |
| -3 | Is fuckboy the new asshole or player?Bit of both. Don't ask questions like this here | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 12:43 AM |
| 0 | Delaying my life mission for 5 YEARS. How to stay sane?Go for the money first. Relax. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 12:42 AM |
| 6 | Is military worth the experience?Yep. Infantryman here and the military works fucking wonders. Just don't expect anything from it and you get what you receive. Go with an open mind, be prepared to obey but always think independently. It's the independent thinkers that people look out for. Don't stand out from the crowd, but volunteer genuinely and help your mates in the armed forces. Typical bro rules apply, but x10. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 12:42 AM |
| 0 | Girl from Tinder wanted to meet up. I asked her if she had friends with her she said, yes?Don't get fazed by them. If they say they have friends, they might be doing this for the first time and could be feeling insecure. Dating is all about calibration. It's fine to fuck up, it's a long learning process and that's how learning occurs. The most important thing is to ACT CHILL even when you aren't. Don't show weakness, desperation etc. Just be genuinely you BUT minus what I mentioned above. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/16 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Getting ghosted a lot: how to incite interest over Tinder?With that in mind what should I do to be the best choice of the rest out there? | /r/seduction | 03/11/16 06:08 PM |
| 2 | I would have been suicidal - but thanks to TRP - i don't give a fuckThe best revenge is a life well lived. Your life isn't fucked because you realised what's wrong with it and make changes to it. Cut the toxic people out from your life, they don't deserve you. You don't owe your parents jack shit, they do for bringing you into the world. Good luck brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/16 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Is opening up a Tinder account a good idea if you're just starting out to learn seduction?Yes. But use tinder to set up dates and practice your text game (impt bit). Don't expect any hookups or any serious prospects if you're starting out. Use it to practice but if you go further thats good as well. | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Tinder is a fucking joke and dating is dead as fuckYeah you're right. But that applies situationally doesn't it? Take for example that you're an asshole IRL, but when you go for a job interview you have to put your best foot forward and that's the way things are. Your flaw is that "If you don't like something, you shouldn't have to fake it". If my 6 year old cousin made a gingerbread house and I didn't like it, I would lie my ass off. Just because we're on the MGTOW sub doesn't mean we can't be flexible. As men we shouldn't we have more situatio… | /r/MGTOW | 13/10/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Tinder is a fucking joke and dating is dead as fuckThere could be something wrong with the vibe you give or your text game. I have a decent amount of matches + numbers, and you'll have to give a friendly, cheeky vibe. Get their number after a few puns or messages, the longer u drag the less interested they will be. Lastly it's always up to the girl for online dating so don't take it personally. It's the game that they play | /r/MGTOW | 13/10/16 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Man Goes Into Rampage Mode To Save Girl Getting Beat Up By Gang Of GirlsHey don't get me wrong if you can help out then do so. But you've got to be justified with your actions. It's just like a mugging, yeah sure you should help if you can. But if the mugger has a gun or has a sharp blade, then you risk your life by just intervening. In this case it's easy to say what should or could have been done, but if the guy doesn't want to interfere that's his decision. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/09/16 01:29 PM |
| 9 | Man Goes Into Rampage Mode To Save Girl Getting Beat Up By Gang Of GirlsWasn't his business, he shouldn't risk his reputation and risk going to jail over a total stranger. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/09/16 09:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Ultra Music Festival, Day OneYeah | /r/seduction | 15/09/16 01:26 PM |
| 10 | Oneitis, never felt worse in my life, please helpThat's right. I had oneitis for a girl badly, until I went out and met with a tonne of other girls. They all had the same/better attributes than her, and wasn't as self entitled. Do yourself a favour and shop around. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 02:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Ultra Music Festival, Day OneI did! I talked about their stay, if they enjoyed the place etc. But that was probably the extent of their interest. Met a ton of friendly people, but few that we're actually interested. | /r/seduction | 10/09/16 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Can you use Redpill philosophy to describe a fictional character?Sean Penn in Mystic River would be a prime example. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 04:53 PM |
| 1 | 20 year old virgin. Never had a romantic connection. Stuck in scarcity, got dumped, have oneitis, fucked up in school and feeling really low.You're no slouch either, and stay safe brother. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/16 06:19 AM |
| 2 | 20 year old virgin. Never had a romantic connection. Stuck in scarcity, got dumped, have oneitis, fucked up in school and feeling really low.I'm Singaporean, in 8SIR Alpha Coy. I do security ops, though I'm infantry trained. Always refreshing to see a fellow member of the armed forces, no matter the country. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/16 06:14 AM |
| 2 | 20 year old virgin. Never had a romantic connection. Stuck in scarcity, got dumped, have oneitis, fucked up in school and feeling really low.I'm in the infantry atm, serving in Singapore. You? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/16 05:39 AM |
| 2 | 20 year old virgin. Never had a romantic connection. Stuck in scarcity, got dumped, have oneitis, fucked up in school and feeling really low.I was in the same spot as you. If you want a quick fix solution: join the military, and learn pick up/game in your spare time. I don't recommend you following this method unless you know what you want. I did exactly that and although it has its drawbacks, I'm much happier than I was before. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/16 03:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you pick up older women?Tbh that's some pretty damn good solutions with shit tests there. | /r/seduction | 08/09/16 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Value your life? Avoid white women over 30. They see male suffering as justiceWish I could say or offer a different opinion, but as an Asian that's true for lost cases. I'd say 60-75% but take this figure with a grain of salt. I've always thought that Asian women would have qualities that most are looking for here, but that figure is diminishing with the westernisation of culture here. | /r/MGTOW | 05/09/16 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What's the key to learning charisma and humour?Will try it out, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys . I want some advice.If you have to ask, you are. Go lift, lose weight and naturally your confidence will get a huge boost. The red pill is a guide, and find what works for you. Don't take every single piece of advice here, as everyone leads different lives and has different personalities. Take what you think is beneficial, then make it your own by adjusting it to suit your style the most. Be confident and sure in yourself, but be ready to admit your mistakes. That's the best piece of advice I can give you. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Can an introvert become extrovert?Yes they can, but it will never be as genuine as the natural born extroverts. I'm basing this on my personal experience. I was a bona fide introverted person with 0 social skills. Now I'm a supposed ESTP, according to the myers-briggs. I put myself in uncomfortable situations that I knew would benefit me, such examples would be clubbing and going for a kayaking course. I did it to develop both the social aspect and the physical aspect of myself - if I could conquer the river in a boat, surely so… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 09:27 PM |
| 1 | A girl I met with starts flaking out of nowhere and now tells me why lolSo it wouldn't be a date with the other girls, it would be more of an outing? | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 03:15 PM |
| 3 | A girl I met with starts flaking out of nowhere and now tells me why lolHow do you make no plans and remain spontaneous, yet still get them to meet last minute? I've no issues with getting numbers but so far my flake rate is almost 100% and it pisses me off. | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 02:22 PM |
| 8 | White knights and male feminists in a nutshellChange Dota to tumblr would be my suggestion. Large number of players I know pay 0 heed to PC, let alone white Knight. Tumblr on the other hand | /r/MGTOW | 19/07/16 08:29 AM |
| 1 | How do you prevent a girl from feeling like a slut after you F close?Comfort test right here. Make her rationalise that it "just happened", and it's "not her fault". | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Heart still torn (Saw a picture of my ex)I won't claim to understand you, and seeing that you're in a bad place, I'll just give you advice that I took myself. Block her completely from all social circles and media, and channel your sadness into your workout. "I'm doing this for myself, for a better tomorrow". Tell this to yourself when you're failing your workout. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Been around in TRP for two daysBeen around for a year and a half. Its going to be tough, and it's going to be a long journey. Improvements are going to come later, have faith in yourself and put in the work. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Men of TRP - What is your purpose?At my age, I'm not really sure. I'm still trying to find my direction. Self-help, self-improvement, and working out is the name of the game now. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Stand firm and don't be easily swayed.There's nothing wrong with admitting a mistake, and that's what I'll do. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/16 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Stand firm and don't be easily swayed.That's why I stated that being socially aware is important as well. Calibration is cornerstone. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/16 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Stand firm and don't be easily swayed.Thanks for the advice, up voted. How else can I improve? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/16 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Losing interest after one or two texts.I've tried initially to immediately set up a meet, but they don't seem responsive to that. They don't give me a reply so I give it a day before messaging back. They still ghost me though. Its more frustrating than anything else | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Losing interest after one or two texts.Totally agree. I remind her of who I am when I get her number: bla bla I'm so and so, then arrange for a meet. "you have anything on Saturday night? Let's grab some food". However they seem to always ghost me or say nothing, and claim to be busy after I message them back after 12+ hrs. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Losing interest after one or two texts.I get their numbers, and they're not bots. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 11:07 PM |
| 1 | A different kind of request: help me find a book for Mother's DayI'd recommend 'To Kill a mockingbird', by Harper Lee | /r/seduction | 07/05/16 03:00 PM |
| 1 | The Rites of Passage thread.I joined the military. You don't become a man straight away after you enlist, no. It's a process of continuous learning, trial and error, and you as a person being put through the crucible of life. | /r/becomeaman | 03/05/16 06:59 AM |
| 12 | SJW reaction to an anti-PC event co-hosted by Milo Yiannopoulos at my universityPolitical correctness is just one way for certain liberals to get others to conform to their ideals. Just because one does not support PC does not mean that they are narrow minded, nor are they bigoted. I dislike broccoli, cauliflower, and bean sprouts. That however does mean I have a phobia of vegetables. Get your act together SJWs. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 11:39 AM |
| 2 | How have you been using your TRP knowledge with your female relatives?Much more respect received from them. I can literally picture them seeing me in a different (positive) light. Where they might feel sorry for me before, I get compliments on how I'm doing now. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 08:45 AM |
| 0 | Thinking on your feet and being social?Thanks. This however doesn't solve the issue of making the right decision in a situation. I wouldn't dream of being so audacious, if I don't have the prerequisites of being mildly capable. It would just make me a bold idiot. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Any RP films and shows worth watching?Watch the acting of Sean Penn in Mystic River, and Robert DeNiro in the movie 'Heat'. There's much to be learnt and emulated from them. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 05:23 AM |
| 6 | Any RP films and shows worth watching?Don't know why you're down voted, but I'd like to second your recommendation. The concept of fight club is definitely one of the cornerstones of TRP. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Couple has argument, wife leaves and fucks husband's friend, hubby finds out, that one sub tells him to just forget about itI'm curious, what would be the appropriate response here? Divorcing her 10 years later would make a huge mess. He can't just let this episode slide either. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Should you tell her if you have cheated previously when asked so?Part of masculinity is loyalty and reliability. We will be hypocrites by saying AWALT and hypergamy, whilst cheating on the side. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/16 07:52 PM |
| 8 | Reminder: The Masculine Man Walks his Path AloneI like the idea of walking down the road alone. This idea is much harder in practice than in theory. Walking a solitary path without company can take the sanity of a person, but is an excellent tool for self development. I'd advocate it for monk mode and periods in your life when you need to cut off yourself off from distractions. I'd advise walking down the solitary path during time of adversity, these are the times when a man is truly built. During times of ease, there's no need to fly solo. W… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/16 07:47 PM |
| 5 | How to Make it Through HellThis is an excellent post. It reinforces what is apparent to the RP man, however the reason why we're here is precisely because we aren't RP. Thanks OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 10:02 AM |
| 3 | She's Your Woman Not Your FriendYou never really know where to draw the line when it comes to women. Would you rather treat them as a friend, and lose the respect and domination that comes with a relationship? Treating a woman like your equal in a relationship, BUT not knowing the fallacy that they will lose respect and attraction once you become a walkover is the true relationship killer. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/16 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Choose a better class of problemHaven't seen this kind of advice. Selecting your battles wisely is equivalent to developing a new perspective in the long run. Rather refreshing actually. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/16 11:06 PM |
| 2 | What triggered your Red Pill journey?I saw TRP being mentioned in an AskReddit thread. My life has not been the same ever since. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 11:25 PM |
| 16 | Woman in blue pill divorce rapes her husband, creates most textbook red pill post I've ever seen.Holy fuck, that's bad. She claims that her husband is the shit, and freaks the out when he's been browsing RP? He's really stupid for posting her nudes online though, that's retarded. Alimony? I'd be reasonable and say that as long as a reasonable agreement can be met, it can't be avoided. Best to get it over with since its inevitable. She's out of a job and gave up prospects, but then it sounds more like unemployment benefits, no? Alimony should stop after she gets a job, since that's the reaso… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/16 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Nobody wants to know the old youI wouldn't lie, that would bite me in the back some other day. Being ambiguous will be enough | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 03:14 AM |
| 26 | Nobody wants to know the old youI've had many guys in my life who respected me much more in a heartbeat because of the changes. It's the women that I've had this experience with. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 09:07 AM |
| 1 | List of 4 books you've never read that will mercilessly rip the little bitch right out of your soulThanks. Will put it to good use. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 06:33 AM |
| 1 | What PUA video has been the most help for you?Highly recommend the 21convention youtube channel. Nothing in particular, as each video contributes to a different aspect. | /r/seduction | 11/02/16 10:39 AM |
| 12 | Update wife used restraining order to steal my life and kid.I almost turn soft some days. But it is stories like yours that keep me going on; that the world is a fucked up place. You must never go easy, because you can definitely be sure that other will not. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 11:10 PM |
| 3 | How TRP helped change my divorceYou got out light as compared to a large number of guys here. If you had kids (I assume you don't), you'd lose your house, and have to pay alimony for a long time. That's just the way the system is, fucked up. Hope other guys going through your situation can make use of this info. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 06:10 AM |
| 19 | [FR] Don't wait for approval - Escalate, Escalate, EscalateAsking for permission is definitely not sexy. Girls might say that they want you to 'ask for permission', but in the heat of the moment, is that really what it boils down to? I've seen tons of people saying that explicit permission required to escalate, but then these are the same people who are still virgins. I did this before when I was with my ex. Shit was so off putting. Escalating solved my issues. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 09:32 PM |
| 4 | On bargainingThat's true. But a huge part of bargaining is actually knowing what you're doing. Doing your research beforehand is a must, as you don't want to come off as an idiot or a cheapskate. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 02:20 AM |
| 2 | the girl I loved turned out to be an unbelievable slutLook, I was no better than you just this time last year. What made me better? Going through hardships, and taking no pussy attitude. Take responsibility and ownership of EVERYTHING about yourself. If you make excuses it's game over, you're implying that your circumstances are not your fault. Your circumstances are largely dictated by you; take control of the people and things around you. Read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover. It is fortunate that you've discovered TRP at this age. . Your att… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Female Veteran on Women in Military.I'd honestly be happy for the day that the tainted gender lens can be removed from the media. Women can die for their country. They should be given the same chances as men to fall in battle. But this doesn't mean that the shallow media that reports to the even shallower masses won't sensationalise it. The issue is the media. I also completely agree with Sentry's points, things are completely different in the battlefield. There's just too many SJWs that have never seen the reality of the world, f… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/16 06:49 PM |
| 1 | I was told I'm the "nice guy" and that's why I get played and rejected.Your mindset is the issue. Never pedestalise women, give them the exact same chances/benefits of the doubt that you'll give guys. Read No More Mr Nice Guy, by Robert Glover. That will help you understand yourself better. Read up on The Game and Seddit on how to approach. It will boost your confidence, and give you knowledge. Read up on The Red Pill to pull your life together. It also it a portal to how women think. You need all 3 aspects of your life together, to approach properly and get the co… | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 12:11 PM |
| 1 | My problem is that I am aloof and I find people boring.If you're good at this, try a Red Pill approach instead. Not every approach works with everyone, so why not give it a go. With your personal style, the PUA Seddit approach probably won't work. | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Just been cheated on. Need some advice from you guysWork through your pain, embrace it, and let it make you a better person. Change now, or pick up a hobby or interest and develop on it. Embrace the pain, and let it make you a better person. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 04:32 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop myself from relying so much on female attention and sex for my own happiness?Seems like you have the PUA part settled. Read No More Mr Nice Guy, and some Red pill. The problem isn't female attention, it's your unhealthy separation from masculine energy. Do guy stuff with your guy friends. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 04:31 PM |
| 1 | New year's, had success, and a realisationWhat's your story about coming across PUA methods? Were you a natural or a person who had difficulty in the past? | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 09:52 AM |
| 4 | Great illustration of Game from the movies.Seconded. Women like to say that they 'like' nice guys who care about their feelings etc, but they will always go for the man that intrigues them the most. Harrison Ford's portrayal of Hans Solo in the SW franchise, and the Indiana Jones franchise proves this many times over. A closer analysis of the movies reveals the way he and the women around him act - they test him constantly, and he shoots them down every single time. People will yell that, "this is the movies, it won't happen!". Truth is … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 01:12 AM |
| 4 | Attention all young and new Red Pillers -- the world doesn't give a fuck about youIt's really a sad thing, but that's how the world works. I felt the same way with my friend of many years, but it turns out that he had his own things going on as well, and had no time for my weaknesses. Not complaining, doing what needs to be done, and not showing weakness are the few pre-requisites for being even a decently stoic man. If I expect a little stoicism and agency from others, for them to get the job done and not whine on why they can't or won't do it, why can't I expect it of mysel… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Appropriate response to another man insulting you/the woman you're withThanks. What do I do when a fight and/or insult is directed to me? Do I break frame and escalate, or simply ignore the other person? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Appropriate response to another man insulting you/the woman you're withApologies because I didn't ask my question properly. What happens when the person insults you? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Trans woman headbutts bartender after being cut off, is sent to men's prison for 12-week sentence. 150,000 signatures later, gets transferred to female prison, where she's released early.It's counterproductive to just list an example and treat is as an argument. Should that occur, I believe that a jury, or judge out there will be more suited to handle that situation. IMHO, a male person being put in a female prison will never happen, not in countries with half of some common sense anyways. A better thought out answer would be that there is a very compelling reason - a reason enough for a male to be put in a female prison should that occur. | /r/PussyPass | 01/12/15 09:53 AM |
| 3 | Trans woman headbutts bartender after being cut off, is sent to men's prison for 12-week sentence. 150,000 signatures later, gets transferred to female prison, where she's released early.I didn't follow the case. At that time, there was an outrage and multiple appeals filed by the victim in question. Extrapolating political backlash would not be too difficult, given the circumstances. I would not however assume. | /r/PussyPass | 01/12/15 12:10 AM |
| 22 | Trans woman headbutts bartender after being cut off, is sent to men's prison for 12-week sentence. 150,000 signatures later, gets transferred to female prison, where she's released early.I actually agree with the ruling in this case. In a similarly previous case, a man who had a sex change op was sent to a male prison. Raped to death within a short period of time. The possible harms/dangers and political backlash would simply be enormous. | /r/PussyPass | 30/11/15 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Angry, Confused, Feeling like shit. Is this the depression phase?Following up with what you said. The army is one of the best places to learn and get your shit together. The tougher your unit/regiment, the more you'll get your shit together. The beginning is tough, people will advise you against it, but it WILL help. Speaking from experience. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 05:05 AM |
| 1 | /r/TheRedPill enters TOP 300 subredditsThat would certainly solve the problem of most comments and posts not contributing to the sub and users. I'm all for it. What about other newer users that genuinely want to access material here? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 03:26 AM |
| -2 | A rare victory for my friend Doug.Nothing to get your undies in a bunch. Even if you don't like what he says, it is after all a figure of speech | /r/MensRights | 07/11/15 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Why women are attracted to guys with kick ass livesThanks for the clarification. Now that we're not longer in a tribal setting, this system will work much better for the average person trying to eke out something for himself. Isn't this then an evolutionary and adaptors twist that has taken place? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 01:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you gain discipline?Discipline happens when you want it to happen. Just remember that all of the decisions you make are all up to you. Make decisions consciously and stick by them. Discipline is achieving mastery over your willpower. You may be disciplined by waking up at 4am everyday, even when your body feels tired. You are disciplined when your friends drink until they are inebriated, but you don't touch a drop because you're the designated driver. It comes in many forms. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Why women are attracted to guys with kick ass livesIsn't this just the essence of human survival? Interesting how you've condensed it to "fuck you". Much more practical and applicable that way. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Just checked in a hotel room to relax. How can you put yourself first when you have been guilt tripped all your life?Hey man, I've been through some shit as well. I can honestly tell you that letting go is the best way to free yourself. The baggage that you bear is yours and yours alone, we can't share that. What you can do is try to let go. Are you doing something that takes you out of comfort zone? Then good. Are you uncomfortable? That's good too. You're unsure of what to do now but in the future you won't be, thanks to you being in the same position now. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Being the 'fun and interesting' person.Thanks for your input. I've always thought that playing video games at home was sad, and it is. I'm not looking for validation from others - that should be one of the last things people look for. After all, isn't a strong sense of independence and self reliance part of the mantra? I'm doing so because I want to be a better person by living a life less dull, and having a more interesting lifestyle. I want to look back and tell myself that I lived a life of exhilaration and fulfilment; that I had … | /r/askTRP | 19/10/15 01:19 PM |
| 1 | There isn't many of them left, but if you get a chance speak to a WW2 vet.Soldier from Singapore here. I'm out to call you on your bullshit. Your view that countries' interest is purely economic is inherently true in some countries, most notably the USA. Have you then taken a broader look at other countries with conscription then? Countries like Taiwan, Singapore, South and North Korea, Switzerland? They take up arms in order to defend their country. Ukraine disbanded their army in the past decade whilst under the spectre of war: look at where they are now. You are ve… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being so apathetic and get off my ass to do shit?The trick is not to think too much or place too much emphasis on it. You'll dread it that way. The solution is to "just do it", by viewing it as an essential routine that you do. Eg. Brushing teeth in the morning is a routine | /r/becomeaman | 09/10/15 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Silent Majority: Social AnxietyWell said. That's exactly the touchstone that many males need. Where I'm from, military service (2 years) helps us bond very thoroughly and helps form a common point between males. I can instantly walk up to almost any guy on the street, and ask him about his military experience. The fact is that being in the service will force a person into many uncomfortable situations, thus causing them to interact with many (often difficult) people at the same time. You learn really quickly by trial and erro… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Silent Majority: Social AnxietyI joined the military 8 months ago. I had social anxiety before that, and did not manage myself well. I've got some good news and bad news: The good news is that social anxiety can be overcome, and social adeptivity learnt. The bad news is that it will take time, and it will take trial and error. There's no simple way through it. I suffered for 5 months in basic training, before finally figuring out how to interact with people properly. The only solution is what OP said: get out there and see th… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Woman wears a GoPro camera in New York city to show how much she suffers "Street Harassment" Wants you to donate money to stop these heinous acts.What's the meaning of Haole? In my context (Chinese), it is split into two characters/words "hao" and "le", translating (literally, and in context), " done already". | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Her perception of you = her sexual desire for youGiven that women around the world are similar, there are cultures in which the methods for TRP need to be changed. In an Asian context, the women mostly know their place in society. So do men. How then can TRP be adapted into this society? Knowing their place =\= success in TRP context. There are 200 plus million Americans in the world. What about the rest of the 6+ billion in other societies? How does it fit in right here? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/14 10:48 PM |
| 0 | The most unattractive trait of all: trying to attract a womanThanks for clarifying this with me. I had certain misconceptions. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 05:10 PM |
| 1 | The most unattractive trait of all: trying to attract a womanAs an inexperienced RPer, what does the Red Pill offer to a man other than sexual strategy (Not including self-improvement)? Other men are looking for a relationship, companionship rather than sex - which can be argued as being slightly to marginally different, depending on the type of relationship to what is being proposed here. How then does do true Alphas achieve both A genuine question | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Woman attacks comedian, and he handles it in true TRP form. (VIDEO)That's just overly exaggerated and stereotyped. Caning is given to people who break certain laws and commit serious offenses, such as armed robbery, burglary, rape, manslaughter etc. Doing what you mentioned would NOT get you caned. Source: I'm Singaporean. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 07:33 AM |
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