I match with a decent amount of people, say about 15 week. Problem is that I can't get the girls to maintain interest or ask them out/number. I'd just get ghosted straight away. My demographic is texting girls between 18 and 21 (around my age), and texting them normally like, "what are you up to?" and transitioning to "I'm getting coffee/lunch this saturday, care to join?" gets me ghosted a large number of times.

Another issue I have is with a girl that ghosted me, and I deleted her number. I asked for her number on her instagram again and she gave it to me. Dropped a text, "hey it's been a while, how've you been?" gets me ghosted. She gave me her number and ghosts me, so I'm kind of confused. If she's not interested why would she do so? And if she's interested what am I doing wrong?

PS. Girls in my country are more conservative, no idea how much that changes the game.