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I agree. People are way too sensitive. It doesn't matter who initiated it; that kiss was not sexual assault.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 12:48 AM
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I agree with you for the most part, though I think there should be more awareness of the effects of circumcision and the reasons why its done. Parents should be making a more conscious decision instead of just circumcising because its the norm. But being okay with circumcision is a pretty unpopular opinion here, and instead of making it such a decisive issue, we should understand that different experiences have led people to feel very different about it. Some just don't mind being circumcised, o…
/r/MensRights28/03/15 10:47 PM
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The best books to start with are ones by Warren Farrell, but there are many other books on men's rights, so I would suggest checking the sidebar too.
/r/MensRights19/03/15 11:52 PM
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Arguing about how much easier this is seems a lot harder than just explaining again.
/r/MensRights13/03/15 06:12 PM
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He worked at a franchised restaurant and had a female manager who was responsible for sending promotion requests to the regional management for evaluation. She was also very vocal in her dislike of men. Anyway, he applied three times over the course of two years but a woman always got the job. The women who got the job were young and inexperienced, so they either quit or were fired by the owner quickly which is how he was able to apply for that job three times. Eventually a regional inspector ca…
/r/MensRights04/03/15 10:59 PM
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Not in the way its traditionally portrayed. When you compare men and women in the same job, there's virtually no difference in pay. Of course, that doesn't mean people aren't payed less because of there gender, it does happen, but in most states its illegal and something that the company can be sued for. The flip side of the coin is also the fact that men are discriminated against in the workplace based of their gender (actually happened to my cousin). It's not as common but its a subject that's…
/r/MensRights04/03/15 09:52 PM
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I would say we're against feminist ideology (gender feminism) such as rape culture/wage gap and the double standards perpetuated by that feminist ideology. If you're talking about the basic idea that women should be treated equally (ie. equity feminism), then most people here support that.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 09:45 PM
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And that's why feminist ideology is so toxic. If you disagree with them, they just call you "anti-woman" and no progress can be made. That's why it so hard to talk about issues affecting men.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 09:41 PM
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Any post or comment I've ever seen on here that is anti-woman is immediately down voted. Men's Rights simply pushes for equality and dissolution of double standards.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 09:12 PM
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You seem to have forgotten the fact that he want's to be with his kid at least 50% of the time, so he would pay expenses for her then anyway. You seem to have forgotten the fact that he's being forced to pay almost 5000 dollars in interest (much more that a car payment). And you seem to forget the fact that the child is not going to starve just because she's being withheld by the mom.
/r/MensRights26/02/15 09:23 PM
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The bigger issue is they try to expand the data on one college in North Dakota to the broader population.
/r/MensRights15/01/15 02:05 AM
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I've been in Madison for three years and I've never seen a homeless woman either, but I've seen so many homeless men. Even in my hometown, all there is for men is a program run by the churches.
/r/MensRights01/01/15 06:00 PM
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I think a discussion forum is a great idea. It could really help students talk about the issues and try to form groups at various educational institutions.
/r/MensRights28/11/14 10:31 PM
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No team will ever pick him up, but he is filing a grievance for wrongful termination of his contract with the Ravens.
/r/MensRights28/11/14 10:25 PM
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Good on you for doing what's right.
/r/MensRights16/11/14 06:07 PM
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And during those protests against the MRM convention, many perfectly sane people learned about movement and it grew. The extremists shot themselves in the foot and will continue to do so in the name of their broken ideology.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 01:20 AM
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I think the issue is some people believe that on a cognitive level there is no biological difference between genders.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 12:57 AM
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It's growing but there's only discussion of the issues now and not much actual action. The college I go to, for example, has multiple clubs for feminists but none for men's rights. Ultimately it comes down to us individuals taking action, so if you want to see actual progress it's up to you to spread the message to your community and maybe even try to start a mens rights group there.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 12:53 AM
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Patriarchy, wage gap, rape culture: all part of the feminist ideology.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 12:29 AM
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The issue is the double standard of the statement. If someone said that, "women should stop whining about trying to get an education because nature designed them to have children", there would be outrage. The man who wrote this article would be outraged by that statement, but he can't see the double standard or the negative connotation towards women with his own statement that all men need to protect women.
/r/MensRights01/11/14 10:25 PM
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If you're interested in contacting the show, there's information on this site: http://www.ehow.com/how_4911583_contact-colbert-report.html You'll probably be given the run-around, at least you'll be able to voice your opinion to them and maybe even recommend Karen Straughn or another pro-MHRM speaker. Good Luck.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 11:14 PM
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It's rarely reported, but it's not all that uncommon for women to "roofie" guys for sex.
/r/seduction19/10/14 02:03 PM
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I know! Jon Stewart seems like a really reasonable guy on so many issues, but when it comes to feminism, it's like the logic just disappears.
/r/MensRights09/10/14 02:00 AM
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I've always been a fan of The Daily Show, but every now and then they push some radical feminist ideology. I could only watch half of that segment before all the self-righteous double standards finally got to me. I remember at the beginning though, they did a montage of clips from news channels that showed "objectification/oppression" of women. One was from John Stossel, and the only thing he said was men and women are different and we should celebrate those differences. Somehow The Daily Show m…
/r/MensRights08/10/14 11:25 PM
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And the only comments even mentioning domestic violence are at the bottom of the page.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 05:09 PM
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Unfortunately, its an automated message from the local PD, so I don't even know who wrote it. I've been trying to get together a men's rights group in the area for a while now but can't seem to find enough people interested that are close by. E-mails like this though, are the reason we need a mens rights group here: to show the other (non-feminist) side of issues like sexual assault.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 12:07 PM
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This really should be flaired as satire. I was thinking it was real (which is pretty sad).
/r/MensRights02/10/14 01:36 AM
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The part that bothers me here, is they say both genders should stop making derogatory statements about women (which is true), but they don't seem to care about any of the derogatory statements men face when sex is involved. I've seen men being pressured by women to have sex when he doesn't really want to, and I've seen those same men called names for it, but you're never going to see an email about how we should call these women out on what they're doing.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 01:29 AM
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In a lot of these cases the guys have been drinking and are too drunk to really fight back.
/r/MensRights11/09/14 10:49 PM
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It a shortened version of kinesthetics.
/r/seduction06/09/14 05:07 PM
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She also has a song called "blow away" where she lets here dad die in a tornado. Nobody seems to care about all these songs about killing men, but if it were a woman dieing in the songs, people would be outraged for sure.
/r/MensRights06/09/14 01:02 AM
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That's what I'm hoping for, and if you're ever back in town and the group is up and running, feel free to check it out.
/r/MensRights31/08/14 07:02 AM
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Thanks. I'm expecting a lot of push-back if this thing gets going, but I think that it's important for people to think about politics from a less feminist perspective, and hopefully this will help do that. Political views are pretty strong here though.
/r/MensRights31/08/14 07:01 AM
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I sense there's a story behind this comment.
/r/MensRights23/08/14 09:01 PM
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Are children only worth something if they have a genetically superior quality?
/r/MensRights20/07/14 09:03 PM
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Some people desperately walk into relationships without realizing that the women is likely to cheat on them (ie. rationalizing flirting as just being friendly and ignoring a previous history of cheating). What I'm saying, is to recognize the warning signs. Sometimes the women cheat and it leads to pregnancy, but even if the odds of that are around 30% (more likely less than 10), it's still more likely that you won't be a victim of paternity fraud. You can't just write off relationships with wome…
/r/MensRights19/07/14 05:40 PM
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This is so true. Instead of just writing off women, OP needs to recognize that both a mother and a father are important in a child's life. It's obviously important to be aware of paternity fraud but the solution is to be choosy with who you decide to have a kid with, and fight, through activism, to lessen the stigma on paternity tests.
/r/MensRights19/07/14 04:16 PM
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Being a brony is a hobby, so its easy for people to get together in a group to talk about it and have fun with it. I think the reason people don't take much action in the MHRM is that its not recreational; it takes work and there's going to be a lot of criticism for people starting any city or state-wide activism group. Plus, its a smallish movement so it's hard to be sure there would be anyone to join an activism group. Like for me, I live in a smallish town and there's not much of an opportuni…
/r/MensRights18/07/14 12:55 AM
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Its still growing movement, and activism isn't too widespread, but the MHRM just had their first conference in Detroit recently, so we're starting to get somewhere.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 10:16 PM
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He probably meant feminists instead of all women. Obviously not all women are like that.
/r/MensRights14/07/14 10:50 PM
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I agree that name-calling and other hate based attacks on feminists is wrong and does nothing to promote Mens Rights in a good way, but although there is some hate of feminism here, I think the majority of MHRA's just have the belief that feminist ideals are harming society by marginalizing men. So I'm all for focusing on the important issues that affect men, and agree that the MRM focuses too much on what feminists are doing but if, in fact, feminist ideals are harming men, we should encourage …
/r/MensRights13/07/14 10:20 PM
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The scientific paper they cited is titled "Sexual desire, not hypersexuality, is related to neurophysiological responses elicited by sexual images." It seems that the paper is saying that people who identified as porn addicts did not experience hypersexuality but had a normal amount of sexual desire. It did not say anything however, about the addictive potential of porn use in certain individuals. Overall, I think its a very controversial issue with people on both sides debating (ie. http://blog…
/r/MensRights04/07/14 01:22 AM
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I know, but a couple months back there was a push to ban it in the UK, and this is similar to the kind of logic they were using.
/r/MensRights04/07/14 01:02 AM
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Sounds like that's a good thing.
/r/MensRights03/07/14 10:17 PM
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At least they acknowledged that the minor complications aren't uncommon like so many researchers say.
/r/MensRights03/07/14 10:15 PM
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It can, but everyone is different. Just like with alcoholism, some people are susceptible, others aren't. I think the bigger issue with porn is that anyone with a computer can see it, so there's nothing stopping a 5 year old kid from watching it. Instead of trying to completely ban porn for everybody, the 18 or older rule should actually be enforced for online porn.
/r/MensRights03/07/14 10:11 PM
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"And my balls grew 10 sizes that day." Definitely the best part of the post. In all seriousness though, good job on overcoming that AA. Talking to a girl becomes a lot easier when you realize that you can say almost anything to start a good conversation. The worst she can say is no.
/r/seduction01/07/14 05:33 PM
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Which will never happen because people, in America at least, have freedom of religion.
/r/MensRights30/06/14 10:02 PM
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The problem is that the general consensus on circumcision is that it's beneficial. Doctors tell parents to circumcise their kids and its done without much thought. What needs to happen is doctors telling their patients the risks of circumcision and the fact that the benefits are minimal if existent. Ultimately the decision should stay with the parents, but parents should be more informed (by the doctors they're working with). Also, all that should be required to be considered an MRA is supportin…
/r/MensRights30/06/14 10:00 PM
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"Tor Mackarness said......Feminism is basically a movement for self-absorbed and entitled people who want the world without working to get there.” Its good to see some people understand what feminism is really about.
/r/MensRights30/06/14 04:05 PM
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Many men have been drafted into war and don't have the choice not to fight, and many of those innocent casualties in the other countries are men.
/r/MensRights29/06/14 04:37 PM
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Solid logic right there.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 11:03 PM
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Kissling wrote in closing her e-mail. “Perhaps we need to accept that neither God nor the Pope [is] perfect and, like Jews, take on the task of bringing justice to a flawed earth and flawed humanity.” What does that even mean?
/r/MensRights23/06/14 11:51 PM
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I think that no matter what evidence you give, there's going to be a feminist somewhere, who is going to have a problem with it. The issue with feminism is that its an ideology and a women's issues group, so if you're disagree with the ideology, they consider you to be unsupportive of women issues. For the supporters of feminist ideology, its all or nothing, and if you disagree, you're the enemy.
/r/MensRights20/06/14 03:16 AM
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Thanks!
/r/MensRights20/06/14 03:00 AM
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Do you have a source for that. Not saying I don't believe you, but I'd like to see it.
/r/MensRights20/06/14 12:45 AM
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If you do take it to court, you're going to have to try to stop smoking marijuana during that time (maybe see a therapist, if that helps). Although the mother drinks heavily, many people see marijuana use as much worse and I don't think you could win a case with a positive drug test. Other than that, I don't know much about Australian law, so hopefully some Aussie redditors can help you out more in that area.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:57 AM
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It took courage to post your story here. Many men live in silent fear, unable to talk about abuse. If you haven't already, check out the side bar. There's several websites for men who have suffered abuse that you could probably relate too. Welcome to the MHRM.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 08:20 PM
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I think the non-radical feminists and MRA's would be willing to let each other be, but the more radical members continue to attack the other movement and this puts the non-radical members on the defensive. Soon everyone feels like what they believe is being attacked so the other group becomes the enemy. People need to recognize the good in others so they won't be so afraid that their beliefs are being attacked. To do this though, you would need to change hard held ideas of both groups, which wou…
/r/MensRights05/06/14 08:03 PM
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Or treat anybody with respect.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 07:43 AM
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Even if an egalitarian group replaced feminism and men's rights, there would still be big arguments about what to support. There's limited resources, people, and time to help those in need. With two split groups, everything can be equally divided (ideally) so both men's issues and women's issues are not being left in the dark. This is why feminism is necessary along with men's rights. One group can support women in need and one group can focus on men in need so no one gets left out. When I say f…
/r/MensRights05/06/14 07:41 AM
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Feminists are terrified of anything that doesn't match what they believe, so they label the MHRM as a hate group. Then people hear that we're a hate group and believe it without looking for any evidence. That's why there's constantly posts on here saying "I heard the MRM was misogynistic/hateful/terrorists but I did some research and that's not at all what your about." This happens all the time because people against the MHRM propagate lies that have widespread reach.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 01:58 AM
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The MHRM has many women members, and I would say that the men/women ratio is pretty close to equal. I think its a common misconception that it's mostly men supporting the movement. Other than that detail though, I'd say your definitions are idealistic but mostly true.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 01:47 AM
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We advocate equal rights for all people. In society today however, most of the focus is on equal rights for women, so men's issues are left in the dark. Because of this, our main focus is men's issues, but we believe that women issues are equally important.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 01:41 AM
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People look down on women who have a lot of sex. A brothel for women is considered more taboo than a brothel for men, so that is what would keep a women away from them, not a lack of desire. Like guywithaccount said, "they hide it well".
/r/MensRights02/06/14 03:08 AM
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Feminists troll this subreddit a lot. They're are also countless examples of feminists proclaiming their hatred for men's rights groups all the time. If you think you're seeing hatred on this site, it is a hatred of feminist ideals and not women.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 10:39 PM
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"Pure stupidity" Sounds like he/she summed up his/her argument pretty well.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 02:50 AM
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Don't underestimate yourself :)
/r/MensRights29/05/14 02:23 AM
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Some people just don't listen to reason, and there's nothing you can do about it. What's kind of ironic though, is how they say that women are constantly scared of being raped but they don't seem to care about the men that are constantly afraid of false rape accusations. Men's lives have been destroyed by it, but they're only looking at one side of the issue.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 02:18 AM
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I've always been a fan of "Men's Human Rights Movemnt (MHRM)". Its similar sounding to Men's Rights, but we advocate for the basic human rights of men, so adding human in there makes an important distinction. It's also been shown that people were much more likely to support a group calling themselves MHRA's than MRA's because it sounds similar to human rights activists (which is something just about anybody can agree with).
/r/MensRights29/05/14 02:11 AM
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I'm sure he means the feminism that goes beyond equal rights. The feminists who don't listen to reason and are radicalized.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 02:01 AM
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There are two types of feminists: gender and equity. The equity feminists believe in equality while the gender feminists believe that all gender roles should be ablolished (ie. masuclinity is bad and so is femininity). This is why you see some feminists who are good and logical (equity) and the radical ones (gender). It is the gender feminists who are harming society and that is why AVFM disagrees with them.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 01:58 AM
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Great post. I've actually been considering writing about this exact subject for a while, but you nailed it on the head. I've noticed several new posts here the past few days asking for more information on the MRM, and I've seen examples on other sites where legitimate discussion is going on. Those who hate us will continue to hate, but the people who know how to logically look at an argument are seeing the truth. An important distinction should be made though: the MRM is not benefiting from the …
/r/MensRights29/05/14 01:51 AM
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Being the most important person in your world means not trying to please everyone. We all know the guy (or girl) who goes out of his or her way to do what other people want. They want to see a movie, but their friend wants to see something else, so they watch what their friend wants or they go where their friend wants. Being the most important person in your world doesn't mean being selfish or self-centered (ie. people who believe they are the center of the world), it just means that you place y…
/r/MensRights29/05/14 01:33 AM
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Men and women are different. Being a man makes you different (not unequal, just different) than a women (unless you identify as a women). A better thing to say than "man up" would be phrases like "have courage" or "be brave". Bravery and courage are good attributes that men and women should work to improve. I understand that being a man isn't the reason to be brave, strong, or courageous, but they are still important traits.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 01:25 AM
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The article is hateful, sarcastic, and ignorant. It's surprising this wasn't written by a child.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 04:50 PM
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She was way out of line. Just be glad you're no longer friends with such a bigoted person.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 04:19 PM
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It's great that you're interested in the MHRM; many people don't bother to look into it and just say its a hate group or trying to oppress women. All great movements however, have three stages: ridicule, discussion, and adoption, and I think right now the MHRM is between ridicule (the people who don't understand it) and discussion. An important thing for you to realize though, is that the MRM is very broad and doesn't have a solid definition. There are guys from theredpill, MHRAs on this subredd…
/r/MensRights27/05/14 05:03 AM
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Where exactly is this reputation coming from? Scholarly, well researched articles? or feminist/gynocentric media?
/r/MensRights27/05/14 04:16 AM
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"Often, this movement seems more concerned with silencing feminists than actually pursuing men's rights." This statement is simply untrue. There are occasional posts on here complaining about feminism, but the purpose and goal of the MRM is in the name: men's rights. Anyone who is focused on silencing women is a misogynist, not a men's rights activist because that's not what we're about.
/r/MensRights27/05/14 04:12 AM
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It shouldn't even mention that one is worse than the other. That's not the point. The point is that false accusations destroy peoples life's and people need to stop immediately accepting the accuser's words as truth.
/r/MensRights13/05/14 09:55 PM
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I think you would get a lot more people to donate if there was more proof of Adam's situation. I understand that he doesn't want to give out too much information, but more solid proof could help his cause.
/r/MensRights02/05/14 01:28 AM
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Move on, and don't make the mistake of being needy in your next relationship. It's hard to imagine now, but there are other girls out there, and a year or two from now this breakup will only be a small blip on your radar.
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:17 PM
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Thanks. I'll check them out.
/r/MensRights27/03/14 08:45 PM
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I understand what you're saying; I guess I just have different views of what masculinity is (more along the lines of Bly and "releasing the man within"), and that view is that men, by their nature should take action to change society and not be silent. I can, on the other hand, see the appeal of going your on way and not letting society define you.
/r/MensRights25/03/14 11:16 PM
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Thanks for the clarification. The website for MGTOW says that all interactions with females should be kept strictly business-like, although I'm sure not everyone in the group wholly believes in that part of MGTOW. Personally I like that MGTOW puts a heavy emphasis on the individual dreams and goals of men. The problem I have with it however, is that cutting out contact with women is like a denial of masculinity because masculinity and femininity are inherently connected, and that part shouldn't …
/r/MensRights25/03/14 08:25 PM
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Good to know. Thanks!
/r/MensRights25/03/14 05:10 PM
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Well about a year ago I discovered the seduction community and started reading into that kind of material. To be honest, I was pretty enthralled with it at first, but eventually I realized that their "techniques" were fake and pretty much a denial of self. What I discovered from it however, was the power of self improvement and embracing masculinity, and because so many masculinity forums and articles are connected with men's rights I've recently become interested the men's rights issues and how…
/r/MensRights25/03/14 04:26 PM
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Thanks for the info. I've seen /r/theredpill posts, and agree that it's not a very reasonable place. Is goodmenproject similar to that, because I haven't heard of them?
/r/MensRights25/03/14 03:47 PM
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Thanks, its good to be here! I have been checking out the side bar, but I've heard of, and plan on reading most of the books listed there. What I'm looking for is a wider range of books and articles than what is listed coming from people with extensive knowledge on the subject.
/r/MensRights25/03/14 02:51 PM
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You did a great job. Sure you missed a few girls but with what you learned, you can get 3 hotter girls.
/r/seduction10/03/14 01:58 AM
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This. Too many people think they are hardwired to fail; that they are too shy or aren't good looking enough, but once you understand that rejection is not the end of the world and women are people to have fun with instead of worship, success with just happens.
/r/seduction04/02/14 01:09 AM
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So you like being single and being pushed around.
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:29 PM
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The Book of Pook also covers the idea of getting out there and not spending so much time reading the material.
/r/seduction04/11/13 02:43 AM
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One of the best posts I've read on here. I love the emphasis on being yourself and not being outcome depended. It's rare to see posts displaying these points so well. Good job man!
/r/seduction18/10/13 01:49 AM
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Congratz on getting sober and approaching(I know AA can be difficult). Some advice though: don't try to make small take when texting, save that for the date, and try to keep texts short. Only use them to set up the next time you're going to meet. Good luck!
/r/seduction08/08/13 03:35 AM
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I feel the same way, and I'm 20 too. I'm hoping to meet some new girls when I get back to college in the fall.
/r/seduction16/07/13 04:06 AM
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I'm an only child too and the same thing happens to me.
/r/seduction22/05/13 11:38 PM
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Just try dancing with a few girls first, then when you get good, or at least decent, you can actually try to escalate things and not have to worry about the dancing.
/r/seduction19/05/13 04:54 AM
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