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1	[Advanced] Better relationships through understanding of Attachment Theory?		wokeupinsf	/r/seduction	18/09/14 06:16 AM

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3	[Discussion]Can ugly or average guys get a very hot women? This is the first thing I learned when I started PU. No... looks doesn't matter for a man. This is not an opinion, it's a biological fact, and there are multiple scientific studies to back it up. Being well groomed and well dressed is required, but what you look like doesn't matter much because women use a different set of criteria to evaluate men as potential mates. I have seen master PUAs that are definitely below average in looks pull some amazing shit. Personal experience: Good looks gives y…	/r/seduction	18/09/14 07:06 AM
1	What are some good questions to ask when building rapport? Absolutely... listening is key. Juggler Method is awesome at doing rapport and connection. I would check that out first. Here's a quick n dirty guide (assume you've already opened the set)... Find out what she's passionate about and why she's unique. This requires you to be good at listening (not only to the words, but the tone and body language). You guys could be at an art gallery, but she may not have any interest in art and is just there because her friends dragged her there... you have to f…	/r/seduction	18/09/14 06:46 AM
5	The more I do pickup, the more I find "there are plenty of fish in the sea" is bullshit The replies are all missing the important point: the problem is probably your identity. I couldn't agree more. Pickup, like an ogre, is like an onion. There's layers after layers... there are many more layers after getting a D1. Most likely, it will involve some sort of self improvement related skill development (lifestyle, conversation skills, emotional connection, congruence, confidence, etc.). Be excited for the next layer.	/r/seduction	18/09/14 05:29 AM
8	Falling for a girl too quickly Haha... these are my rules, very personal, probably not applicable to everyone. But since there seems to be broad interest... here you go: Don't do it just for sex... do it for the love of an awesome woman. (Right goals) The moment I fear losing her, I have already lost her. (No fear) Be ready to give my best on my worst of days. (Always ready)	/r/seduction	16/09/14 09:56 PM
3	Hitting a wall: I can't get past the first date Commenters are right... not enough info to know for sure. But these 3 reasons are most common (probable): 1) She doesn't feel like you got to know her. At the end of the date, do you know what motivates her? Who are the most important people in her life? What are some of her dreams and aspirations? What's her biggest passion and why? 2) She's not sure who you really are. Something about you didn't make sense... kinda incongruent. Are you not being genuine? Is your body language, tone of voice, e…	/r/seduction	16/09/14 05:12 AM
1	My first rejection dude... she rejected your approach... but she didn't reject you. That's a big difference... cuz how can she know anything substantial about you from such a brief interaction? Internalize that!	/r/seduction	16/09/14 05:01 AM
72	Falling for a girl too quickly I actually think you can use "falling" to your advantage, because you're so excited about her... and trust me, she'll feel that excitement too. It makes you more attractive (as long as we handle the neediness). Why would you ever stop yourself from falling? That makes no sense to me. For me at least, all the neediness behavior comes from fear... the fear of losing what I already have. So I have a rule, my 2nd rule of dating: The moment I fear losing her, I have already lost her. As long as I thi…	/r/seduction	16/09/14 04:50 AM