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Always pull out
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 02:47 PM
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Amused mastery is a persona for some and a reality for others. When you understand the world you have compassion. This understanding is the essence of 'alpha'; this is what the amused mastery 'frame' is trying to simulate.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 02:31 PM
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I understand anger with society for your lot in life. I have experienced what I considered injustice in my life and the corresponding anger. It can be hard to let these things go, but it feels so good. Yes, I have qualities that made me a natural 'alpha' over the course of my life (no I'm not that old). This quality allowed me to be lazy. The girls came to me, I enjoyed them and let them go when it stopped being fun. When I finally fell in love, I realized how miserable a woman can make you. It …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 02:25 PM
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Anger grows from sadness and aggression from fear. This is about the mental programming that is used to live our lives and the corresponding neural circuits that are reinforced. You are those circuits, no matter your goals.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 03:31 PM
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I think you can understand the reality of the situation and be angry about it. I also think that keeping that anger feels bad. If you are doing it right you don't need the anger.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 02:38 PM
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It reminds me of a story I heard bill burr tell about his experience training in a boxing gym. I couldn't find the link but I did find this comment relating the same story: http://www.reddit.com/r/MMA/comments/mqrh7/charlie_murphys_true_mma_stories/ My thought is that if I'm ever getting punched it's because I failed to deal with the problem correctly and not because I'm entertaining others. Good luck out there
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:38 PM
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If done properly, this is a great way to put wealth outside of the reach of gold diggers.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:26 PM
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Cui bono?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:22 PM
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Seems like it helped
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:18 PM
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Getting hit in the head is bad for your brain. I'd give up boxing and move to a martial art that doesn't give its practitioners brain damage...
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:17 PM
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Everyone meet the new Genghis Khan
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 04:25 PM
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Bill Burr is awesome. I haven't checked out his podcast yet though. Thanks for the recommendation.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 06:22 PM
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This would have been more entertaining with Black Philip as host. I wish that fucker had taken better care of himself...
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 05:37 PM
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Hot, honest and intelligent women eat it up. The facts are facts and she has seen them play out first hand. To bad the people who would benefit most fight the realizations the hardest. Enlightenment too often is born in suffering. Wait for things to go wrong and point them to resources other than yourself for the introduction. Your relationship with them, and their pride stand in the way.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 05:30 PM
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Living with unrelated women you are not sleeping with is like a boot camp for your understanding of their games. Congrats on your graduation!
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 05:23 PM
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Fish oils are a good thing, your brain needs food. Neurotransmitters do different things in different parts of the brain. Choosing to increase your serotonin levels via a SRI has effects we don't fully understand. Cognitive behavioral therapy and meditation along with regular exercise and a healthy diet will make you feel better.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 05:15 PM
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Anger indicates personal investment.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 05:10 PM
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I couldn't agree with you more. I meant she should blow strangers not him.
/r/askTRP22/01/14 05:01 PM
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She could give blow jobs for the cab fair, I wouldn't give that cunt anything. Reporting her suicide threats (with evidence) is a good idea. She sounds like she needs professional help.
/r/askTRP22/01/14 03:20 PM
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Case insensitive comparison is needed...
/r/askTRP22/01/14 03:15 PM
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I would leave her and hope she killed herself to spare the rest of the world her shitty behavior. The fact that you were driving her around is ludicrous. That bitch should have been walking the second she opened her hateful mouth to say some dumb shit to you. You cannot save this relationship. It has gangrene. She is killing the you that you could be. I would just cut off contact, cold. Don't say anything. Just block her everyway possible. If she comes to your house don't open the door. Tell her…
/r/askTRP22/01/14 03:08 PM
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Anyone who goes to a psychiatrist/psychologist needs their head examined.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 09:00 AM
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Too lazy to Google for you, but the benefits of exercise for depression are well known.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 08:58 AM
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If creating a mental stimulation and concentrating on it helps you accomplish something real why wouldn't you try it? TRP should have shown you that mentality is important and that often widely held beliefs act as blinders denying us the truth. Your experiences should be the judge, not preconceived notions passed to you by an unexamined society.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 09:50 PM
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Fair enough, but no need to hate on the dumb...
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 03:37 AM
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No iceman. Never act like you pay attention to shit tests. The time to be clever is in the moment. If you bring it up you placed to much importance on it...
/r/askTRP18/01/14 02:50 PM
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Don't cum in girls, unless you want babies
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 02:43 PM
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A real apology has 3 components: A statement of what was done wrong An acknowledgement of how that wrong impacted the person being apologized to An expression of an honest desire to not repeate the behavior
/r/askTRP18/01/14 01:06 AM
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Your sense of self should be internal...
/r/askTRP18/12/13 02:42 PM
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I agree with shadow. If you say anything to her I would say you understand what she is feeling and that it is ok for her to go.
/r/askTRP14/12/13 03:42 PM
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This is your family and you are grown. It is temporary and you are lucky you have a family. Think of them all dead in a car crash... Unless you're smiling at the thought, you should not take this so seriously. Your loving parents and siblings should be the one place you can relax. Tease your sister about being an old princess who can't take turns and tell her next year you get your turn or you'll take her gifts back. Or just you know sack it up...
/r/askTRP13/12/13 06:26 PM
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OK, well my friend everything is always relative. 'In the land of the blind, the man with one eye is king.'
/r/askTRP13/12/13 05:39 PM
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Your question also requires context
/r/askTRP13/12/13 05:33 PM
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I was jokingly giving you an answer with no context...
/r/askTRP13/12/13 05:30 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP13/12/13 05:15 PM
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He is saying it sounds like you got pegged...
/r/askTRP13/12/13 03:49 PM
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I can't answer this. I could tell you what my observation tells me. You should judge from what your observation tells you. All I could tell you is what is true for me and that does not fit under any label I have found so far.
/r/askTRP13/12/13 02:58 PM
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To speak slower, breathe. Choose the right moments to do it and they just wait to see the rest. Jokes should be done so they're funny.
/r/askTRP13/12/13 02:54 PM
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You forcing your time on her is like a fat girl trying to rape me. Buddy...
/r/askTRP13/12/13 02:49 PM
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You over committed to the fantasy you played out in your mind. This is a mistake. You need to see more women. You feel like your starving. Women want to be considered a delicacy, like a course at a fine French restaurant. You leave those places about as hungry as you went in. Don't expect a woman to fill you. Simply put, women want you to be better than them at life and life is fun. She is disappointed you stopped being fun.
/r/askTRP13/12/13 02:45 PM
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You said in your actions, I want you. I think you should restrain yourself from jumping directly on her. Make her do the rest. Hang out with her and be sexual, but not towards her. If you touch her treat it as if you touched a friend until she takes it further. Be the puzzle she is trying to figure out.
/r/askTRP13/12/13 02:37 PM
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I think that people say that 'the red pill' is orthogonal to morality because they are making the point that the realization is a biological truth. Here is my argument for morality. When you live your life in a positive way it feels better. Don't you have your happiness at heart? It's without a doubt at stake.
/r/askTRP13/12/13 02:33 PM
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Fundamentally, we are all self centered. If you are not, I congratulate you, please send all of your worldly possessions to me in the form of bitcoins. The balance comes when you realize the state of symbiosis that you have with your suroundings you learn that selfishness involves being a positive influence on your environment, including the people in it. This is not an easy realization for some, so I put it in words we can all relate to. I'll restate it. It's OK, and required, to think about yo…
/r/askTRP13/12/13 11:22 AM
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Really quickly, meditation is about the internal dialog you have with 'yourself'. It's about having conscious knowledge of and control over that 'voice'. There are many paths, from all major religions in fact. It is best learned from personal instruction, but look up guided meditation on YouTube. If you ask a new question about it, maybe I'll say more later.
/r/askTRP12/12/13 08:17 PM
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Be active doing fun shit Be focused on your pleasure Joke and smile with everyone Help people in your life (this is the key to happiness) Women are a side effect of you enjoying your life. For conversation: Remember girls don't in general give two shits about what you have to say (they are not you!). They want to know how you make them feel. You must learn to speak in emotion. Never volunteer information about yourself. You are a mystery they must work for. Be nice but self centered. Realize a g…
/r/askTRP12/12/13 04:34 PM
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'I judge a woman on all sorts of qualities...'
/r/askTRP12/12/13 04:21 PM
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Much of what drives men to pua 'game' and 'the red pill' is pain and this is the foundation of the anger you see here so often. I am personally sorry for the hate you have experience due to you asking an honest question in an attempt to foster a dialog. I am happy to answer any questions you have. Initially, most of us want the fairy tale more than a woman. We fall in love easy and sacrifice ourselves to that love. We have little desire except for the love of a beautiful woman and so we place ou…
/r/askTRP12/12/13 04:17 PM
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I would have told the girl flapping her mouth to get the beer herself if she had a problem and if she still had issues I would have told her that this isn't the venue to explore her sexuality or resulting social oppression. "We are supposed to be having a good time, you cunt. Do you think (girlfriend's name) can't speak for herself?"
/r/askTRP12/12/13 01:47 PM
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I like sluts as long as they are clean.
/r/askTRP12/12/13 03:15 AM
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I'm torn between telling you that you should spend more time around her practicing some self-control and telling you to widen your view and see all the beautiful women. Why are you so shook up about this one? Do you not get out much? You need to find more stimulation. I'm also confused, is she enjoying 'dissing' you and ignoring you on Facebook or does she have a 'great personality'? How do you know about her personality when you didn't even know she had a boyfriend? I gotta say you're looking k…
/r/askTRP12/12/13 03:12 AM
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I think you're trying too hard, and the'black knight' stuff makes me think there are some anger issues kicking about. What do you want in life besides women? You should try doing that. You are pushing to improve yourself, but it sounds like you're not having enough fun living your life. Relax and you'll notice everything happens without you trying.
/r/askTRP12/12/13 02:55 AM
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I'd agree why be mad because they were lost too? It's better to help them recover if there is time.
/r/askTRP11/12/13 09:16 PM
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Don't shit where you eat...
/r/askTRP11/12/13 09:15 PM
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You perverted rapist! Man, what you want is natural. Watch some animals fuck. Go talk to a female therapist about it. Get over yourself, everyone else thinks it's OK and you want it too. Maybe just allow yourself to feel a little creepy, not so rapey...
/r/askTRP11/12/13 08:20 PM
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I'm not sure how I feel about this question, but I will give you an answer. Children lack perspective. If you don't live in too shitty of an area take them to the soup kitchen for Christmas as volunteers. This will show them suffering, which can be motivating in a number of ways. The part of the brain responsible for decision making is not fully developed until young adulthood. Teach them to think about what's happening. I recommend zen style meditation to strengthen their mind. Encourage them a…
/r/askTRP11/12/13 07:40 PM
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I, like you, have never had problems attracting women. Being a naturally attractive and outgoing guy gets you women with no effort and an interesting perspective on things. I want to tell you it's OK to love her. It's OK to be 'beta' in your deeds and speech with a ltr if you focus on your happiness not hers. Keep active socially so you keep the right perspective on life. Remember always it is your life. Not anyone else's. Live it for you. Doing what brings you happiness. Everyone loves the pers…
/r/askTRP11/12/13 07:19 PM
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I'm sorry you were hurt by her, I think we should call her c for cunt. So let's think. When you got that c what do you think she was attracted to in you? When she was disrespecting you how had you been treating her? I think the answers you're looking for are wrapped up in the answers to those two questions. By the time you got to the point where she was acting like that in front of you, she had probably been 'internally' broken up with you for weeks. The situation called for nukes by the time sh…
/r/askTRP11/12/13 03:20 PM
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How old are you? You sound like you're still in highschool. Don't take this wrong, I think that is a good thing. However it does impact the situation a lot. Right now you are the easy girl she used to fuck (remember your time is her pussy). She misses having that. The stage is set. Now you show her that you are attractive to and confident with other girls. This starts the cycle of self doubt running. Maybe she was wrong about you all along... People view a friend zone relationship as a dead end.…
/r/askTRP11/12/13 12:43 PM
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She is bored and displacing that on you. It's not good to allow that to happen in a ltr. Don't address the bullshit directly. Agree and amplify. 'You know I never realized how boring you are...' Simile and bring her in for a kiss. You only address what you want. I think you are starting down a bad path with your concern over this behavior. If it bothers you, do something exciting with her. Stop talking to her like she understands. You are the man, she rattles on, while you do things.
/r/askTRP11/12/13 12:30 PM
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She will get better or die. She might die. You might never see her again. Kaput. Seriously, what is your question?
/r/askTRP11/12/13 06:00 AM
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This sounds like it would work well. I just don't like the feeling of being needy leaking out from the need to possess. To me it feels like clinging, attachment... I don't want it if it's not free. But to each their own. I'm sure we are hunting in different environments and for different reasons. Good for you if it makes you happy. You slick fucker...
/r/askTRP10/12/13 08:16 PM
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I find that depending on the girl's history and personality this just happens. The biology of a woman drives her as much as ours drives us. If you are the thing driving her crazy you have nothing to worry about. Dick is not the same to an emotionally healthy girl as pussy is to us. They constantly can get it so it holds little value, especially if you are handling things properly in the bedroom. Personally I'm not possessive at all. It works for me. I think the problem with stipulating her behav…
/r/askTRP10/12/13 08:09 PM
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I think what you just said is a good approach... Tell her everything is great but you're not looking for commitment right now. The 'put a label on it' is great. Make sure you don't explain why. It's just not what you need in your life right now. Note the repeated use of 'right now', it is always OK to imply things might change in the future (and they might).
/r/askTRP10/12/13 06:41 PM
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The only person you are obligated to is yourself. In my experience guys love girls the way they want to be loved and get shit on for it. Why should you feel bad? You played by the rules as they were presented.
/r/askTRP10/12/13 12:25 PM
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She is not worth your second chance. There are more, better ones, who you haven't fucked it up with. Start looking, she will just cheat again and again.
/r/askTRP10/12/13 12:22 PM
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I know some homeless guys who's dicks you could suck, if that's really your thing...
/r/askTRP10/12/13 05:40 AM
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You don't. You just manage your relationship with the mindset that you are the one of value. Tolerate nothing that upsets you in the slightest and keep working on yourself and practice your selfpossed charm (i.e., alpha game) with the wife and other women. That being said... Arranged marriage? Wtf that's a bad thing! Good luck
/r/askTRP10/12/13 12:14 AM
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Sounds like she is hiding something, if not it's a massive shit test... Either way it's fucked up behavior
/r/askTRP09/12/13 11:45 PM
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Fair enough. It really is quite simple though. I wish you success.
/r/askTRP09/12/13 08:31 PM
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You know and they will see it. Try to find things to do with guys. Part of what you are craving is social contact. Are you doing keto? It's the best diet for burning fat. You are never hungry and always have energy. It's the right thing to do for your blood sugar as well.
/r/askTRP09/12/13 07:13 PM
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This is like the quote from Buddha on his deathbed 'be a light unto yourself'. Learn for yourself how things work, true knowledge comes from 'the felt presence of direct experience'. I like it.
/r/askTRP09/12/13 05:07 PM
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One of many, one of many... Stop worrying about stupid shit and go have some active fun.
/r/askTRP09/12/13 05:01 PM
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Well, marriage is a legal contract, a relationship is a social contract. I'm not sure why we would want to confuse them. That being said I have an answer to your question. Remain true to yourself. Show yourself a loving guy that tolerates no shit in your relationship. Above all show her that she is replaceable and that you know it. That's it, focus on your needs and desires with the realization that your happiness is her happiness not the other way around. Best of luck, my friend
/r/askTRP09/12/13 04:59 PM
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First I want to say the suppression of questions in a sub named askTRP is funny. Here is your answer. It is the obvious one. She is saying you only want her for her pussy. She feels plastic, a toy. The 'nexting' has worked its magic. You should make a joke and invite her over to fuck.
/r/askTRP09/12/13 04:51 PM
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That's not flaking. But here is your solution. Plan the date for yourself and invite her to join in the fun. 'Hey I'm going to do X Friday, it's going to be awesome.' Note: Not the drug, although it still applies. Do this for more than one girl and watch the ensuing chaos when more than one show up... The main point is your not waiting on them to have fun. They can't stand the idea of missing out.
/r/askTRP09/12/13 04:47 PM
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There is one rule, a balancing act. You must learn to place your happiness above others while not being a dick.
/r/askTRP09/12/13 04:41 PM
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This is two questions: How to deal with your father and how to deal with men who are responsible for the object of your current interest. The underlying question is what do you want? You want a father in your life, it feels good to have some male love (no homo as they say). Is your father a person you can get that from? I don't know. That's not important. If you want the relationship have it. Go tell him you miss what you think it should be like to have a father. Show him you are a man now and y…
/r/askTRP09/12/13 04:37 PM
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She speaks to you, and I think that's great! Treat her honestly. Don't be needy. Be charming, fun and mysterious. Make sure she knows you get what you want by the way you act. Just demonstrate that other girls want you and she will too. This was advice for you to work with if you want more than a ONS. If all you want is quick sex, I'm sure 'game' and pua techniques have some advice.
/r/askTRP09/12/13 01:37 PM
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They say youth is wasted on the young. Maybe you can be the exception to this rule. I'm going to tell you a few things I wish I knew when I was your age. The first thing, is the most important. You must enjoy yourself. Train yourself to do the things you lose yourself in. Where you find yourself hours hours after you start still immersed. It doesn't matter what it is, just that it speaks to your passion. Try new things. It doesn't matter if you suck at it if you enjoy it. Broadening your scope o…
/r/askTRP09/12/13 01:20 PM
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Yes, it's easier than it sounds. They love having male friends (who wouldn't, a friend who wants something from you is a friend indeed...). This is a weakness. You start giving them friend zone behavior all the while never expressing anything but a willingness to be friends. Ask them to go out and be your wingman, to set you up on dates with their hot friends (be specific you don't need her to get dates but you like her friend and you don't want the relationship you have with her to get in the w…
/r/askTRP08/12/13 10:18 PM
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You want to be true to yourself. Do it. Be what you want to be. Are you afraid that if you don't play some game none of your relationships will work? The only game that matters is maintaining your focus on your goals, and making sure you are being respected. Be the bad ass you have inside, own your actions and your feelings, tolerate no imposed unhappiness in your relationships and love genuinely. There is no need to sacrifice yourself...
/r/askTRP08/12/13 09:17 PM
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That's no coincidence, we are all children.
/r/askTRP08/12/13 08:53 PM
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This works OK, in a ltr it's not as easy. Here's how you can actually give a gift to her. Make the gift about you, sexy outfits, jewelry, vacations, etc. Just make sure you frame it so she knows that it is so you enjoy her. I'll say it again you enjoy her. Remember it is about you not her.
/r/askTRP08/12/13 08:51 PM
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So it's a long term relationship and she is fucking that dude... You can assume she is fucking that dude. That's what the disrespect says and you are letting it happen. Fixing this is going to be hard. First, you need to be demonstrating how easy she is to replace. This will help because you will probably end up replacing her when the time comes. Second, tell her to go fuck the guy. Wait till she knows that if she does you will be balls deep in no time. This will drive her crazy, they hate being…
/r/askTRP08/12/13 08:40 PM
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Too drunk sex can be construed as rape. No ass is worth prison as a rapist. Get her number, drive her wild. Tell her she is a dirty whore and you like that but she is too drunk to fuck you with the attention to detial you demand (you only want hot sex not a drink fish).
/r/askTRP08/12/13 08:30 PM
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Here's how you change things. Wait for her to do something wrong. Wait for the time when you are totally right. Let her hang herself. Then you are ready to flip the script. She's wrong, you're right. She acts this way because she doesn't value you and here is the kicker that's also why she doesn't have the additue you want in the bedroom. This is the truth and the truth shall set you free. Key to this is you becoming more spontaneous, fun and mysterious. The 'dread game' is OK but with humor and…
/r/askTRP08/12/13 08:22 PM
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Are you a bitch? No? Stop acting like one... Not to be rude but how is she a 'plate'? She is a little girl. Fix your mindset or you are sabotaging yourself. She says she is busy. Maybe she is maybe she isn't. What the fuck do you care? Honestly? Where is your focus? Work on having fun without woman. Work on you. Nothing else will get you what you are craving...
/r/askTRP08/12/13 08:09 PM
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OK here you go... Don't ask her out, friend zone your targets. You are the prize. Give it to her like you would hook a junky. Free sample, then they have to pay. Remember to play, enjoy yourself, this is your life for you to enjoy. I love you man.
/r/askTRP08/12/13 08:01 PM
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Girls are not the problem, fear of rejection is the problem. Face your fears on something other than woman. Ask random strangers for small or large favors. Try for rejection. Do it every day for a month. At least one rejection a day. Woman do not count. Let me know when you start feeling that working and ask if you have more questions.
/r/askTRP08/12/13 07:57 PM
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Yes, I think we all did. It is only natural. I think it is important for you to focused on the 'amused mastery' mindset. They don't know what it takes to be happy. They are lost. You are the person they want because you know how to enjoy yourself. If they are lucky and behave just right you will help them be happy. That's it. No need to shit on them if it's the truth; that's why a lot of the advice you find floating around the 'sphere' focuses on self improvement.
/r/askTRP08/12/13 07:50 PM
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That no unicorn... Just a regular. Where is your 'frame'? That being said should you fuck her... How close is the friend? Would he appreciate knowing what is going on with her? If he is a good friend help him. Regardless, sleeping with your friend's girls is desperate. Where the fuck is your head? Remember it's easy, you're just trying to hard. Spend more time enjoying and bettering yourself, woman love that shit.
/r/askTRP08/12/13 07:40 PM
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In humans the males are bigger than the females. In primates this indicates that the species is a tournament species (as opposed to pair bonding species where both are the same size). In tournament species the dominant male gets his pick of the woman. Taking turns as they each come into heat. Now things are always more complicated than they appear, but it is safe to proceed on the assumption we are animals and look to our closest relatives for clues about the evolutionary and biological basis fo…
/r/askTRP08/12/13 07:29 PM
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I love you guys. Here is the thing... Why do you think you need to be an asshole? Are you angry? When you're teasing, it is supposed to be fun... That is your value to her. Your fun is like her pussy. Remember that she feels best when she feels like you are better than her. You don't have to shit on her to show her that. Being sure of yourself and motivated by your own goals is enough to get any woman. Especially if you wrap yourself in a good bit of mystery. I think you should try to look at wh…
/r/askTRP08/12/13 07:19 PM
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The trick here is to invite her to meet some place you will already be. Go to the place you are supposed to meet and strike up a conversation with someone there. When she shows up she will see you are having a good time. That is the biggest turn on for everyone... I hesitate to say this but I think it's a good point: remember to enjoy yourself. If you want to act 'blue pill' do it. Doing what ever you want is 'alpha' (for lack of a better word). Focus on your enjoyment and how you feel, the rest…
/r/askTRP08/12/13 06:54 PM
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