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wormee/r/Divorce_Men27/06/20 09:22 PM
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wormee/r/Divorce_Men05/12/19 04:08 PM
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Because people don’t always take the attorney’s advice, and the attorney’s like, guess I’ll be able to remodel the kitchen after all.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/20 12:51 AM
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I think you deserve two beverages.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/20 12:48 AM
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Get ready. Get set. Go!
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/20 09:13 PM
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Two years? Write the whole thing off bruh and move on with your life. I’ve got 30 years worth of marriages behind me and I’m still paying support for adult children. I could do two years in my sleep. You’re gonna be alright.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/20 09:04 PM
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I have talked to my oldest about this and she tells me her mom has been rattling around the family for years about how she’s going to “make me pay” at some point. The thing is, she’s pretty lazy, so me asking for an end to this has lit a fire under her feet. She’s a miserable person and is still somewhat bitter that I can’t stand her and didn’t want to be married to her anymore. She didn’t remarry (I did), or even have boyfriends (or girlfriends), and has kept my last name (how fucking weird is …
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/20 08:37 PM
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Yeah, I had to hire a lawyer. I’m sure she was hoping I would back down and drop ending payments. I consulted a lawyer through a work program late last year on how to finish support, he suggested the casual email as the amount of money here isn’t worth court. The firm I hired feels going back 15 years is a reach but of course we must prepare for the worst. My ex has not made one peep about the money I give in well over ten years, not one eye roll or disgruntled throat clearing. Until I asked tha…
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/20 08:57 AM
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Where I live child support doesn’t automatically have an end date, both parties have to agree and certain conditions have to be met. My son turns 18 soon and the rules change at that age, so I asked her to revisit our support agreement. As she realized the money will probably end soon, this triggered her to hire lawyer and go back over a decade to see if I hid my earnings, or just didn’t pay enough. I paid everything that was asked of me, and more, but the law allows her to dredge up the past. S…
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/20 05:22 AM
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This is my first marriage, almost exactly. I made a mistake that I see you're trying to avoid. I didn't seek custody, and honestly, at that time, I don't think I was capable. She poisoned the kids against me and for over a decade, I was only everyone's atm. The kids are grown now, and they see how toxic she is as she's still hiring lawyers to battle over nickles and dimes, the marriage ended in 2003 lol. I have patiently showed my children that I'm not the person she made up and we are building …
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/20 08:34 PM
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Be honest.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/20 06:44 PM
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She making you store her stuff for 2.5 years? I say sell it on ebay.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/20 04:38 PM
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Bro, about a month after we (she) decided we were going to split our 12 year relationship, I took a walk at lunch, found the nearest pawn shop, told the guy I wanted to sell it. I took his first offer, got my cash and left. It was the best feeling ever and I haven’t looked back.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/20 08:55 PM
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Wait, op made a sweeping generalization and now you’re chastising this person for doing the same?
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/20 02:17 PM
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Child support doesn’t work that way. If you and you children have been dependent on him, then a case for alimony and child support can be made. I’m sure he knows this. You should really speak with a lawyer, most initial consultations are free, and there is support as well, especially if children are involved. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/20 08:17 PM
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You’re entitled to half and probably child support. Get a lawyer asap.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/20 02:54 PM
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It was difficult, and even the divorce was long ago, we’re still working through some things. Take advantage of their close proximity, this is better than staying in a toxic relationship. When you rebuild your children will see it and need your guidance, they are rebuilding too. It gets easier. Good luck, friend.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/20 06:28 PM
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This one hurts. I made the huge mistake of letting my ex (out of divorce guilt) move my kids to another city. I tell this advice to anyone who will listen: DO NOT, under any circumstances let your ex move your kids anywhere, keep them close, same neighborhood is preferable. Remember, we must give permission for children to be moved (in my area, it’s no more than 30 minutes travel). This is very important not only for ourselves, but especially important for our kids.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/20 06:12 PM
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You have no reason to explain yourself. You were married before, end of story. If a potential partner has issues with this, run.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/20 02:25 AM
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How long did it take? We split almost two years ago and even though I've had opportunities, I haven't wanted to.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/20 03:52 PM
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I can grill steaks at 3 am.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/20 12:34 AM
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My youngest turns 18 this summer but in my country there is no clear end to child support. I love my kids but I'm not happy.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/20 05:56 PM
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My best advice, and advice I wish someone gave me, and advice I will give my son. Wait. Build yourself. Be independent. Take chances. Now is the time for risk, when you're young and can recover. Travel. Throw yourself into ridiculous dreams. You will change so much between here and say, 40. It may seem like an old age, but 40 is young, you can still have kids and raise a family, and you'll probably be in a better position to do it then. You'll have more to offer a partner and in turn, you'll pro…
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/20 07:11 PM
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Where I live inheritance is exempt.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 06:52 PM
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Bro, drop the hammer now. Go with your gut. Keep your kids close. DO NOT MOVE AGAIN. Take the spousal support. Don’t feel guilty, remorse, none of those things. You’re going to need every penny and every minute to be the single dad you want to be. It’s go time, build a new life with your kids in it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/20 09:58 PM
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Oof this is the worst. I thought about a big announcement on social media but then decided against it. I told my family right away, we live kind of all over there place so not everyone knew we were having problems. I told close co-workers, but everyone else I told as it came up in conversation. It’s awkward no matter what you do but people are understanding. I was in the washroom at work when our big boss, a couple rungs up from my immediate supervisor, came in and said “wormee, how is you wife …
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/20 02:51 AM
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Stay close to your daughter, don't move far or let your ex move far, legally you can stop her. Ten or twenty minutes away is ideal, less if you can. This is important, so your kid knows you're not far, my biggest mistake was letting my ex move my two kids to a different city. I let guilt control my decision process. This brings me to my second point. Don't let guilt control your decision process, take half, take more than half if you can, including custody. It's commando time. I know, you want y…
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/19 06:20 PM
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Are you required too by law?
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/19 06:20 PM
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Thank you for replying, I will have to do that I think.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/19 04:28 PM
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Last Christmas was the first after the divorce. I was invited to her gathering by my ex-mother-in-law, who I’m still close to, but she was bringing her new boyfriend who she just moved in with barely a year after our marriage ended, so I noped out of that. I self invited myself to my first ex’s Christmas who I have a 21 and 17 year old with, but that was so awkward as I had not seen my kids extended family in like 20 years. This year it’s me and the dog and we’re gonna have a good fucking time.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/19 09:24 PM
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You need to truly absorb the horror monster that is the female. Are you fucking kidding me?
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/19 04:50 PM
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Look up red pilled too. Come on bruh, this toxic bullshit has no place here.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/19 03:35 PM
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I'm going to hop on this thought and agree. I'm one year plus into the end of a twelve year marriage, even though it's lonely at times (doggo certainly helps) I know that there is no way I need a partner, this is my time, 24/7, grilling steaks at 3am and working on myself, and doing what I want, and honestly, having fun. I've been around long enough to finally lean that I need to be happy with myself if I'm ever going to have the kind of relationship I deserve.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/19 03:33 PM
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I've been divorced twice, first marriage had two children, in my country we pay high child support that lasts until they finish post secondary. I pay my ex the equivalent of a nice new car, gas, insurance, parking and maintenance included, and my kids are adults. Second marriage was OK for a decade, then she decided she wanted a divorce and we turned our lives upside down. That was two years ago and I hope and pray (and I'm an atheist) that I never make that stupid fucking mistake again. I'm act…
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/19 07:30 PM
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That's gonna be a no for me dawg.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/19 08:06 PM
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Omg, one more fucking year.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/19 03:32 AM
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Don’t feel bad, don’t feel guilty.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/19 06:08 PM
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This is my experience and not necessarily for you but here's my advice. Fuck Tinder (for now anyway) and I only say this because you seem not sure, you'll know when the time is right and until then you're probably useless in a relationship anyway. Date yourself (lol right), but what I mean is be with yourself, work on yourself, be happy with yourself and enjoying your own company. When you fall into a new relationship, do it because you want to, not because you need something. If you want to sle…
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/19 03:12 PM
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I haven’t run since Christmas Eve until yesterday, I pulled a muscle in my back and had to take a break, the last three weeks I’ve been slowly feeling more and more off kilter. I think we should be in r/running lol. Anyway, congratulations on the divorce. Edit: I should elaborate a bit further, I told a friend the other day, I think I was depressed over Christmas, see, this is my first Christmas alone after a ten year marriage, friends help, the running helps, staying busy is crucial for me. We’…
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/19 02:13 AM
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I bet those are some good runs.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/19 05:04 PM
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I hear ya, and not to sound like a fucking Hallmark card, those six years also had a bright side, things you learned, transitions you made, I can’t stress enough that you need to focus on the positive, if you dwell on the negative you will end up getting in your own way. I know this isn’t easy, I’m not pretending it is just by writing it down in a few sentences, but take advantage of your situation instead of looking at it like a punishment. That stupid saying comes to mind: the best revenge is …
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/18 05:52 PM
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Let me tell you this. Number one, you will be much happier when you get this all sorted, regardless of how you feel about her, the relationship wasn’t working or it wouldn’t have ended up here. You deserve someone who is right for you, this person wasn’t. You’re going to walk through a load of shit in the near future, but keep walking and don’t look back for her, again, you deserve better. Second, have a fling or don’t have one, but it really won’t help long term, and it won’t make the hurt go a…
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/18 07:11 PM
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Go commando bruh, asap, hire good lawyers, serve her, put her on the street, file for custody of the kid 100%. Do it first, and your reason is she's blackmailing you by trying to withhold your child from you. What parent does that to their child? Don't wait, make the first move, put aside all guilt because the path you're on is a fucken. edit: I have to add, all this is the hard part and requires time and patience, but I promise, you will be much happier at the end of this. Don't delay.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/18 07:47 PM
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I had my first wedding ring and some other jewelry melted down and made into a wedding ring for my second marriage, when that marriage ended, I hocked it, two birds for one stone or some shit, felt fucking good.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/18 04:54 AM
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I'm going to be honest with you here and it may not be nice. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and fight. Get the lawyer going asap, like right now, and do not let guilt control your emotions or actions. OK, you fucked up, but you can still keep your daughters close, you are still dad and no one can replace you. Stop messing about and roll up your sleeves, this is the hard part, but you will be glad you did it, be strong and get moving.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/18 03:18 PM
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