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Apparently the bartender was trying to duck me by giving me a free drink every now and then. I just thought I tipped well 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction26/11/25 05:44 AM
1

It means you're attractive without realizing it. They probably find you attractive too. They may find you so attractive that they assume every woman finds you attractive, and that you easily pick girls up at bars and parties.
/r/seduction21/11/25 07:01 PM
3

it's already starting. The constant guessing back and forth is the being driven insane. She sounds anxious/avoidant attachment. Your patience will allow her to lure you in with breadcrumbs, and then she'll suddenly call everything off once you really fall for her.
/r/seduction19/11/25 10:55 PM
2

avoid anxious/avoidant attachment styles. they will drive you insane.
/r/seduction19/11/25 05:36 PM
1

I had this happen recently, although it definitely wasn't a cookie cutter situation... TLDR: I was flirting/building sexual anticipation with this one girl i was going to see in a few months (we live in different states). We really "saw" each other if that makes sense. Similar life experiences and situation, but ultimately that's what made any relationship impossible for us. I was hoping for a little fling, but she called the whole thing off last minute.
/r/seduction18/11/25 10:58 PM
2

lol... MFW I've done this successfully several times... OK, that's enough seddit for me then.
/r/seduction08/04/12 03:14 PM
2

/r/ForeverAlone should be renamed /r/clinicallydepressed.
/r/seduction07/04/12 08:38 PM
12

I put my cigar down, turn to her, look her straight in her eyes, walk up into her body space, clasp her ear and the back of her head with my hand, and kissed her good. God that must have tasted horrible. So, if you have not escalated sexually by the end of the evening, sure, they'll give you their numbers (seems like the friendly thing to do after all...you two just had a nice conversation) but they are not going to be hot and bothered when you text/call them because you did not respond properly…
/r/seduction07/04/12 05:31 PM
-12

I generally try to avoid gaming store employees. They're usually overweight, in their teens, and don't want to talk about anything but zelda, halo, and... yep that's everything because ps3 has no games.
/r/seduction03/04/12 06:52 AM
7

I personally think you should read a beginners PU book first, and I think that the compliment you should use is, "Let's get coffee this weekend."
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:08 PM
40

don't fucking jinx him.
/r/seduction27/03/12 01:44 PM
2

Do you really have to be Mr. Smoothman all the time? It's more important to have emotional control over yourself all the time. Being smooth is nice, but really it's important that you don't react in an emotional way that makes other people uncomfortable to be around. I told this to a friend of mine: "Women have enough emotional bullshit going on in their own lives that they don't need to suffer through yours as well, so be the rock that they can cling to when they need to, and be in control of y…
/r/seduction27/03/12 03:44 AM
1

shit I can't help you, learn to lie better. lol
/r/seduction27/03/12 03:18 AM
10

"Only one box to split between the two of you? I guess I have to go get more..."
/r/seduction27/03/12 03:08 AM
9

Well keep in mind the video has "fails" in the title, so it's not like he's showcasing his best work. Anyway, the one where he approaches "My Girlfriend," and "See Ya," he gets a good laugh just walking up to her and telling her his phone number while she's on the phone... and then he just stands there (there's a cut there, so who knows...) for a couple seconds kind of just... waiting there for her. It's like if someone came up to you, said a joke, got you to giggle or laugh, but then had no fol…
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:54 AM
7

You may down vote Dfnoboy, but he's right. His tone and the way he spoke were really hurting him. I'd like to see this guy now though, I think all that footage is several months old so it'd be interesting to see if he was able to watch them and make any changes.
/r/seduction27/03/12 12:13 AM
3

lol, you gonna rub it in his face?
/r/seduction26/03/12 10:59 PM
39

Some of his attempts just make me cringe... and I feel that the camera is actually hurting him in some cases. Definitely good for him though for having the balls to approach.
/r/seduction26/03/12 07:45 PM
14

Equal rights is one thing, but people always confuse that with true equality. Men and women will never be truly equal, they are fundamentally different on a molecular level. Hormonal differences between men and women are nearly impossible to overcome simply because every cell in our body responds to androgens and estrogens in completely different and unique ways. These hormones are so powerful that they can shape and define your personality throughout your life. It isn't a bad thing to know and …
/r/seduction19/03/12 02:55 PM
1

Why would you want to?
/r/seduction14/03/12 05:43 AM
2

Never outright reference sex. ("come over lets have sex" will never work). Unless you have been going out for 6 months+ psh. PSH. But yeah. It's a lot more fun to hint at it and be subtle. Otherwise I'd just sit there thinking... "well that was too easy..."
/r/seduction14/03/12 01:18 AM
1

Dating someone doesn't mean you're committed though. You can be dating someone but not have a boyfriend/girlfriend, because you're just dating someone to test the waters. Good for you because you didn't take it to mean she was committed (because she wasn't)!
/r/seduction14/03/12 12:42 AM
2

As I've posted before: My bad, I only read the OP. But hey, you know how to use irony. Irony =/= sarcasm.
/r/seduction12/03/12 02:02 AM
0

It was a clear and very strong IOI from my view and from her's, but the AFC guy could not know this and took her body contact as an accident. Guys are not allowed to not be interested in a girl who bumps into them from behind. There is no possible way he just didn't think she was attractive. None at all.
/r/seduction12/03/12 01:06 AM
1

seddit really has gone down hill...
/r/seduction10/03/12 07:38 AM
-2

Fuck this post.
/r/seduction09/03/12 01:00 PM
2

OP is pulling the same bullshit
/r/seduction01/03/12 02:39 AM
1

but try to kiss them before you light up
/r/seduction27/02/12 10:39 AM
3

Did he used to play a lot of computer games or something?
/r/seduction27/02/12 04:39 AM
1

I got that email too!
/r/seduction27/02/12 04:15 AM
1

Not enough information to assume that your reasoning is right. I like to play devil's advocate.
/r/seduction26/02/12 04:27 AM
2

and who says he's doing it to get laid? I mean in this situation, either way he should just not be friends with this person because, If he did it to get laid, he shouldn't be friends with her, and if he did it because they are friends, he shouldn't be friends with an asshole.
/r/seduction26/02/12 04:20 AM
4

If a friend called you in the middle of a night asking for a ride home because they're too drunk to drive, going to pick them up is "bitch" move?
/r/seduction26/02/12 03:53 AM
2

If it were me in that situation I would have just said the following: "I understand you don't want to date me, and I still wanted to be your friend. As a friend you called, and i agreed to come pick you up because you're too drunk to drive home by yourself, only for you to tell me you don't need a ride when i get here. That's an asshole thing to do, and I'm not interested in being friends with someone who pulls that sort of shit." I'm glad to do things for my friends, It really doesn't bother me…
/r/seduction26/02/12 03:46 AM
4

No. Seddit cannot envision a world where a guy friend isn't pining for the girl because that's what every sedditor has been doing their entire life.
/r/seduction26/02/12 03:34 AM
4

This should be the top post.
/r/seduction26/02/12 03:33 AM
9

First I was like, "Rude much? Why don't you try and socialize a bit?" But then I realized he probably left quickly to go cry in his pillow. Imagine a different situation. It's 1 AM, you're probably getting ready to go to bed, and a guy friend calls you up needing a ride home from a bar. He's your friend, and you don't want him driving home drunk, and he's made the decision to call someone asking for a ride. You agree because you don't want a friend driving home drunk. You get there and hang out …
/r/seduction26/02/12 03:32 AM
7

But coming out for the sole reason of giving her a ride just opens doors to being walked all over. I have no idea about their relationship, but when a friend of mine calls me from a bar asking for a ride home, I'm glad to oblige. I have a couple friends who didn't ask for that ride and can't walk/are dead now.
/r/seduction26/02/12 03:26 AM
37

You don't ride ski lifts down, bud.
/r/seduction26/02/12 12:36 AM
6

Well consider what the woman is doing, she's trying to get a reaction out of you by flaking. What she gets is the guy isn't going to let flaking ruin his day and he's just going to make plans with other people, and not pay attention to her flaking.
/r/seduction21/02/12 03:33 PM
1

I have yet to date girl in the 18-20 range that gave me the types of problems you're describing though. Perhaps our experiences are different. Well you're looking for emotionally stable women aren't you? And i think that with enough dating experience you're able to subconsciously filter out women who aren't. I can't explain the crazy 30 year olds you're dating. If you're in college you see a ton of emotional meltdowns from everyone in that age group. In my experience, 18-21 or so can be very emo…
/r/seduction20/02/12 05:08 AM
1

They exist, I assure you. Never said they didn't. And then the rest of your argument just gets overly defensive for no reason. You said that maturity has nothing to do with happiness, but would you be happy dating someone who lacks emotional maturity, someone you have to babysit and look after every time something doesn't go his or her way because they lack emotional maturity? Of course not, that's no fun. It's a chore. If you want life to be happy, date stable people who are emotionally mature.…
/r/seduction20/02/12 04:42 AM
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I want to enjoy life and be happy, maturity has nothing to do with this. People who are emotionally mature are more happy... that's what emotional maturity is. 18 year old girls who are not emotionally mature have emotional outbursts, get drunk to an un-fun extent, and are generally a pain to be around because they have not yet developed the ability to control their emotions. That doesn't sound fun to me at all. This isn't every 18 year-old, but it's definitely a majority.
/r/seduction20/02/12 04:12 AM
1

In most cases, men and women around the age of 18 or so really don't have any emotional maturity.
/r/seduction20/02/12 01:22 AM
6

well to his credit he definitely showcases that seduction is about your personality, and not what you look like.
/r/seduction19/02/12 08:43 PM
14

Mystery is such a fucking weirdo...
/r/seduction19/02/12 07:16 PM
111

"Getting physical with a woman is the best way to get physical with a woman." I never understood why some guys don't get this.
/r/seduction11/02/12 02:31 AM
1

the guy who claims to have posted this on 4chan is on reddit right now. That said, this isn't a mensrights issue.
/r/MensRights18/01/12 03:00 AM
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Sorry I didn't mean to depress you! I know it is unfair, girls have a lot easier time of it. I just thought perhaps I could help with any questions. lol no worries! that's just the way it is. I don't mind guys using porn but talking to real girls and doing stuff IRL is not on in my book. A bit curious about this one! I have a lot of female friends who i just enjoy flirting with even when i have no intention of sleeping with them. This'll sometimes include spanking. I'm sure you have guy friends …
/r/seduction18/01/12 02:17 AM
7

Your game blows when you're drunk. You, sir, have never seen me drunk.
/r/seduction18/01/12 02:05 AM
2

I can't even bring myself to say them, even when they flit through my head during conversation and are particularly witty. I think it's rude to withhold witty quips. What, am I not good enough for your wit? Well then fuck you. I'm not sure why you bothered posting this wall-o-text. Do you want us to try and convince you otherwise or something? Yes, a lot of seduction inadvertently pushes you to be a self imposing ass, but there's a reason for it. Most people on this site and sub are the type of …
/r/seduction18/01/12 02:01 AM
2

Gosh this just makes me depressed lol. Here I am wanting to have more sex, and someone comes in talking about how much sex they can easily get whenever they want :/ Not to say it's a bad thing, it's awesome, I just wish that as a guy I had half the potential for having as much sex as you are capable of having. Anyway, questions! What are your rules for strictly sexual relationships? What are your rules when you are in a full on relationship with someone? Do you look for one or another at any one…
/r/seduction18/01/12 01:52 AM
2

Not trying to impress them... impresses them. I think the best advice anyone has ever given anyone on women is Morgan Freeman. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ojY6ZvciXg
/r/seduction16/01/12 08:05 PM
7

what type of advice does your friend give you?
/r/seduction16/01/12 07:39 PM
11

:D Female posts are always insightful. I wouldn't worry so much about the first guy. I'm sure he's working on it and in a little bit he'll know not to tell you his life story right out off the bat. It's a bit much when you meet someone and definitely puts a lot of pressure on whatever relationship might possibly develop.
/r/seduction16/01/12 03:25 PM
1

"Hey" with a smile on your face can work absolute wonders, but no one would actually believe it was that easy. They've tried everything but the simplest thing, and when that doesn't work they decide they need to do these complex routines.
/r/seduction16/01/12 03:08 PM
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You're looking at it all wrong. I'm assuming this is a girl you've been interested in for a while, but never made a move on? You didn't get friendzoned today because guess what, you were already in the friendzone. What you did was took action and un-friendzoned yourself. You took control today by not sitting around waiting on someone who isn't worth your time. I wouldn't call that getting friendzoned, would you?
/r/seduction15/01/12 06:44 AM
0

most girls (and guys) didn't want strong relationships You're wrong there too. People want strong relationships, they just don't want to put too much effort into something before they know what they're getting into, so relationships start out casually (as they should). When you come from a deep emotional point of view, it's a different sort of interaction, and that's where most "nice guys" come from. They try to establish that deep emotional connection before any sort of interaction, when the de…
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:17 PM
1

seddit isn't a destination, and people need to learn that. You need to learn what you can about not worrying so much and judging every single action you perform, and then move on.
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:20 PM
0

So much judgment in this sub... be whoever he fuck you want.
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:12 PM
3

Especially when you go hyperanalyzing others... the guy in the story could have been perfectly happy with his comment and doing everything he could not to burst out in laughing which might expain the awkwardness. Not every interaction you have with a woman has to be gaming her.
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:10 PM
2

For a second I was thinking, "just because you don't hit on a girl in line doesn't mean you're an afc..." and then the paraffin comment. On a side note, HOLY FUCK, that comment was clever, if not way to complicated and over exerted.
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:04 PM
1

I think he mentions that only the top messages in the inbox get read by some of the girls he talked to. So it would be good to just time a well thought out message when the person is online
/r/seduction24/12/11 05:23 PM
2

this was so confusing without having read the other post first... I had to double check which /r/ i was in...
/r/seduction16/12/11 03:11 AM
7

You’re still a bit unfulfilled afterward. I don't think you're masturbating correctly
/r/seduction15/12/11 05:36 AM
1

funny only goes so far
/r/seduction02/12/11 11:36 PM
1

You're lucky this happened sooner rather than later! Long story short, you didn't do anything wrong other than choose such a horrible person to invest your time in.
/r/seduction30/11/11 09:07 PM
-2

why go after a girl who has a ton of unresolved issue with her ex when there are more emotionally stable women available?
/r/seduction30/11/11 09:04 PM
1

Any reason you didn't actually say goodbye to her? that would be the only bad (not douchebag) thing in my book. No, you're not obligated to say goodbye, but at the same time, having a single great night with someone, spending the night, and saying bye in the morning doesn't necessarily have to lead to anything either more than a one night stand. It seems like you don't want to feel like you're a douchebag, so just make yourself the personal rule that you say goodbye to someone when you leave the…
/r/seduction30/11/11 08:00 PM
5

the point is you're linking a simple thing like liking hot chocolate and camping to childhood memories, and family. It fleshes you out as a human being, and shows that there is more to you than just "positive high energy guy." You're someone who values his family time, and you have more to offer than just your likes and dislikes
/r/seduction27/11/11 03:33 AM
1

how long have you been a mod? congrats!
/r/seduction09/11/11 01:26 AM
2

"Creepy" is just what it's called when you aren't used to doing it. It's a good sign that shows yo're trying to step out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction27/10/11 03:03 AM
1

i think that's a form of mental retardation, not hermaphroditism... I can't seem to recall all of my trisomies unfortunately
/r/seduction27/10/11 02:53 AM
3

Read books, and take the time to disect and analyze all of your sentences.
/r/seduction26/10/11 10:01 PM
1

XY is male.
/r/seduction26/10/11 09:59 PM
3

I've learned to do it in the same sense that I've learned to keep my house clean and do laundry. That's one of the most depressing things I've ever read.
/r/seduction16/10/11 06:25 PM
5

This isn't entirely a man/woman type of situation. It's more of a attractive/not attractive situation. The more attractive and socially skilled person always leads, while the less attractive and socially skilled person follows. Whether the more attractive person is a man or a woman depends on the situation. Also, within individual relationships, the roles can switch, so that sometimes the woman leads and the man follows and sometimes the man leads and the woman follows.
/r/seduction16/10/11 03:52 PM
5

If you haven't noticed... 'game' is what girls do to guys! Learning pickup is just learning the language of women and how to communicate with them. When a guy has GOOD game, What is this like? IT"S FUN! do you see right through it? If the girl is smart, yes. do you understand that the man is hitting on you? Yes do you see it but don't care and get attracted anyways? Being hit on is fun when it's done right or are you concious of the whole process going on? Conscious and willing participant, as l…
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:38 AM
1

almost had me shoot milk out of my nose... also pretty much exactly what i was thinking.
/r/seduction30/09/11 04:19 AM
13

if you respect women more than you respect yourself, that's where the problem is.
/r/seduction23/09/11 11:05 PM
2

i still don't know what it means. Does it mean "You there?" or not?
/r/seduction23/09/11 07:14 PM
2

i'm not meaning anything more than OP literally has too much time on his hands. If i texted someone "hey" and every time, s/he eventually tried to set up a time to hang out, I'd start to think that all they do is sit at home and wait for me to text them.
/r/seduction23/09/11 05:33 AM
2

? don't tell me, tell OP, I just think OP should get a hobby, and not try to initiate a meet up every time someone texts him, "hey"
/r/seduction23/09/11 05:26 AM
4

if you try to meet up with a girl every time she texts you "hey," then you have too much time on your hands, in any context.
/r/seduction23/09/11 05:08 AM
7

and then when I respond or try to move to hang out with her from there, she doesn't respond You're too available. Honestly she could just be an air head, I've met a couple of those. She'd text me every weekend to hang (even when she new i was in the middle of fucking someone else... like literally saw me leave with her and mentioned her in the text) out but then never respond to anything i texted her with. Turns out she was just a really stupid girl who would most of the time be too drunk to fun…
/r/seduction23/09/11 04:30 AM
3

"YT?" ? You there?
/r/seduction23/09/11 12:57 AM
0

Ha it was the transgeneder women who played dark eldar and eldar
/r/seduction21/09/11 12:00 AM
46

guys I've met through wrhammer: 10+ transgender women I've met through warhammer: 2 women I've met through warhammer: 0
/r/seduction20/09/11 06:13 PM
5

DC possibly?
/r/seduction20/09/11 03:59 PM
1

Well for me, over the past 5 or so years since I started this/first kissed a girl/first lost my virginity... I just didn't actually want a girlfriend. I felt that i just had too much work and school to do to be able to give a girl what she would want out of a boyfriend. Through college I took 6 classes a semester, made sure to work out regularly, go into the city to different events, pursue my hobbies, and go out to parties thursday/friday/saturday. I was too busy to give a boyfriend-level commi…
/r/seduction20/09/11 03:53 PM
1

i think i was too green to follow up after she said "ew, you need to turn around" and then proceeded to talk about how there were such fucking assholes standing in line in front of her. meanwhile i was doing everything i could to keep from laughing. a few snickers definitely escaped and pissed her off even more. getting blown out of the water is really funny to me for some reason
/r/seduction20/09/11 05:53 AM
2

Back in the day when i was first starting to practice pickup/negs/everything, i really had no idea what was going on lol. I remember turning to a girl in line for a roller-coaster and looked at what she was wearing, neon green tights, completely unmatched clothing, she looked like a harlequin. I blurted out: "from the way you're dressed i'm guessing it's your laundry day?" LOL what a response i got from that. after a while i turned around, turned to my friend who was with me and we both just bur…
/r/seduction19/09/11 11:00 PM
2

Dude, go fuck yourself. someone's grumpy! bad weekend?
/r/seduction19/09/11 10:51 PM
14

In general when a girl sees a guy who is "boyfriend" material, they behave a certain way. They behave in a way to gain your respect, understanding, care, and other things they would want from a boyfriend. More importantly they don't behave in a way that they would with a seducer or one-night-stand, because they don't want to be fucked and dumped by "boyfriend material guy." In short terms, they'll put off having sex with you. when a girl sees a seducer or one-night-stand, she behaves in a way to…
/r/seduction12/09/11 01:25 AM
1

Bros before hoes - up until what point? up until you're OK with not being Bros.
/r/seduction11/09/11 11:25 PM
1

well the rest of seddit doesn't approve lol. And actually i thought she just said "sorry blah blah blah" kind of out of the blue, I just skimmed over the part where that was her response to him asking her out on a second date, so yeah i can see how asking to be friends after a rejection is desperate haha, that's my bad. still though, "no worries" is my go to, and usually leaves girls flustered when i say it to them (i think it's the fact that i actually don't care)
/r/seduction07/09/11 08:46 PM
2

so what would you have texted her back?
/r/seduction07/09/11 12:09 PM
1

how so? if you aren't interested in pursuing anything with a virgin then who cares if you're friends with her or not? Saying you can be friends with a girl you aren't involved in isn't desperate, it's normal. How you act after this is what determines whether or not you're desperate. Continuing to call her to hang out is desperate, continuing to text her to get her into bed with you is desperate. Telling her she seems like a nice enough person to be friends with while fucking other girls isn't de…
/r/seduction07/09/11 12:07 PM
20

punish yourself by agreeing to be friends just have her as a friend and hook up with her non-virgin friends. how is this punishment? "but I can't just be friends with you" really? after two dates? wtf?
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:07 AM
1

you learn the rules so you know when it's OK to break them. Skipping steps is fine, depending on the situation.
/r/seduction05/09/11 04:24 AM
2

read the first couple pages of the book of pook. mainly about the bird analogy he uses.
/r/seduction30/08/11 06:32 PM
2

Since things ENDED bad, you're focusing only on the last interaction you had with her. Don't do that. You really need to go back to the beginning and look at everything together, and see where things started to go bad, not when they finally manifested themselves in a recognizable way. smokin' hot Asian-American girl who fancies herself to be an "alpha female." (her words) so you know that pretty much everything she does is going to be a test... it's like she flat out told you, "I will never be r…
/r/seduction16/08/11 04:09 AM
3

but... she deserves an insult. I know you should be gaming every situation so that people become attracted to you... but sometimes it's just really really satisfying to be a complete dick. It's not like the guy needs the sex, so he can go ahead and tell the girl that he was lucky to fuck her before her cunt rots out from old age. throw in a smiley face too hehe.
/r/seduction16/08/11 03:53 AM
1

It was a rhetorical question. my dear watson, forgive my being facetious.
/r/seduction08/08/11 12:55 AM
-2

Did you read the article? i think the answer to that question is quite obvious
/r/seduction07/08/11 10:01 PM
-2

HB10 links to an article with an ugly asian chick...
/r/seduction07/08/11 08:31 PM
3

find a hobby or a good book and just become invested in that for a bit. You're going to come off as depressed, angry, and distant.
/r/seduction03/08/11 01:13 AM
2

i just like having a couple attractive female friends around who i flirt and dance with because i enjoy flirting and dancing, even when i don't necessarily want to hook up with someone (flirting and dancing is fun in itself, there doesn't need to be a close to have fun flirting and dancing). They're my wing women.
/r/seduction30/07/11 05:04 PM
16

personally i like to have my own female sidekicks.
/r/seduction30/07/11 03:43 PM
4

"do you tell that to all the girls?" "just when i don't want them to think i'm a whore"
/r/seduction28/07/11 01:24 PM
1

"hey wanna make out" has actually worked for me.
/r/seduction28/07/11 01:22 PM
1

say you're not interested in a consistent thing. nothing else. if she bugs you just say you're not interested in a constant hookup, and that's just the way it is.
/r/seduction28/07/11 02:45 AM
1

woah there, down boy. why can't people just not want to hook up with someone?
/r/seduction28/07/11 02:41 AM
2

Pepper Spray. Ouch.
/r/seduction28/07/11 01:58 AM
2

if you don't like it being done to you, then don't do it to others; if you do it to others don't bitch and complain when it happens to you. there's your answer.
/r/seduction28/07/11 01:36 AM
1

kinda, yeah
/r/seduction28/07/11 12:49 AM
1

lol
/r/seduction25/07/11 03:09 AM
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a very mature woman.
/r/seduction24/07/11 11:28 PM
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not to say that it's bad to be in a relationship, but just think about how everyone can fall into a routine in life that they may not actually want. I'm not sure what the interaction is between you two, how often you hang out, what dates you go on, but this date coming up? Show her an amazing time, and then get real busy. Let her be the one to call you for once.
/r/seduction20/07/11 02:17 AM
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Ask yourself this, wherever you are in life right now, do you want a girlfriend? Or is this just you getting used to the idea of only seeing her?
/r/seduction20/07/11 02:08 AM
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... i really don't want to read that.
/r/seduction19/07/11 02:42 AM
24

to become better people this isn't a "no girls allowed" treehouse club, there are women here too.
/r/seduction18/07/11 05:52 AM
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not, "sexy and cool guy," but rather, "gay?" Usually that's the reason they think you're gay. Girls have thought i'm gay because, "you dress really well, and are very attractive," also because i can make them laugh, keep in very good shape, cook, and do my own laundry. It's a compliment, basically what goes through their mind is "everything about him is so awesome he couldn't possibly be straight, because most straight guys i know suck. he must be gay."
/r/seduction17/07/11 06:49 PM
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hostility and insulting manner. internet!
/r/seduction17/07/11 04:00 PM
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He's wrong about the whole flirting thing agreed, it's not like the two of them just met. I've only read the OP myself, about the girl telling him and him not knowing how to feel about it, so i'll save chump judgment for later. Internet personas are rarely akin to someone's real life character. He was clearly distraught by it so he badgered her about it a bit- and that's seriously the last thing you'd ever want to do in this situation. and that's when he ventures into AFC territory...
/r/seduction17/07/11 03:48 AM
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i've seen cuter
/r/seduction17/07/11 03:41 AM
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it's too bad this is at the bottom because of the downvotes no_dating is getting.
/r/seduction17/07/11 03:25 AM
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You're coming from a PUA mindset without really thinking about his situation. you're talking to him as if he knows wtf you're talking about, but since he's not part of the PUA community, he doesn't. He's in a committed relationship of 1.5 years, so he shouldn't be "following up" on anyone he flirts with, that would just end the relationship, which he doesn't want to do.
/r/seduction17/07/11 03:20 AM
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don't listen to that moron.
/r/seduction17/07/11 12:54 AM
1

avoiding the situation seems best. i've always found avoiding the situation to cause more problems than anything else
/r/seduction15/07/11 12:07 AM
1

when my exgf asks me to fix her phone yet she doesn't even walk to go to coffee with me to see what's going on. I wanted to say fuck you, or no your not my gf anymore, or something similar. that's a perfectly reasonable thing to say. Maybe not the "fuck you" part, but tell her, "i'm no longer dating you, i have other women to take care of now." I need to find ways to smoothly get out of things without bluntly saying no, or listening to someone ramble on about nonsense in which I don't want to ar…
/r/seduction14/07/11 11:58 PM
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I honestly really didn't want to help him as I had my own project so I told him why not just tell him that? Don't work on making up excuses, just work on being more comfortable with saying no and sticking by that.
/r/seduction14/07/11 11:35 PM
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"so, what now?" I didn't have much prior kino perfect invitation for you to touch her and fill in that prior kino you had missed. wrap an arm around her tickle her, who cares. She sat on the couch that wasn't the "Love seat", or the two person couch, so I interpreted that as a non-desire. or a really small seat to get really comfortable in... it was your house, right? you get to choose where you sit, so you say "nuh uh honey, that's my chair" and sit in her lap playfully, maybe even grind your a…
/r/seduction14/07/11 11:27 PM
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i think married but separated is a bit different than engaged don't you? it seems like both people in that situation were in agreement and understood the situation, which is fine. i like my high horse :D and like i said, i just hate the infantile argument of "she would have fucked someone anyway." It makes you all sound like 5 year olds in the school yard.
/r/seduction14/07/11 08:23 PM
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you can say yes to her and you can say no to her, it's not like she's running around sticking ruffies and viagra in your jack and coke. if you can make a choice to say yes or no, then you're definitely partly responsible. don't lose any sleep over it but don't play it off like you did absolutely nothing wrong. also: poor argument. it really just takes one ok. so only 1 person is involved. she's going to find someone willing someone else? that's two people right there. She is her own person, nobo…
/r/seduction14/07/11 08:20 PM
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his flip-out was pretty bad, and i don't think any girl would actually want to mention an open-relationship to a guy who had just refereed to her as a "fucking crazy bitch." It's definitely something that he should have asked about, and be more mindful of in the future.
/r/seduction14/07/11 08:16 PM
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You have the choice to say yes or no to her, so saying yes to her would make you responsible. i don't really care if anyone thinks they were justified in saying yes or not, I just really hate when people say, "oh it's 100% on her," because that's just false. Help people cheat or don't, cheat on your own GF or wife or don't, just don't try to bullshit seddit or even yourself that you have absolutely no responsibility for the situation or your response. Part of developing yourself as a person, thr…
/r/seduction14/07/11 08:13 PM
1

I live according to the evidence live according to experience. stats are fun, but a bit dull.
/r/seduction14/07/11 04:54 PM
2

? No, not a loser at all, just bitter about your experience with women before you started to learn how to communicate with and attract them. Expecting everyone to cheat isn't healthy or normal. Its a defense mechanism to keep you from getting hurt again in the future.
/r/seduction14/07/11 04:34 PM
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You're contributing yeah. It takes two. Yeah she might find someone else but you won't have contributed. And who knows maybe she just had a momenary lapse of judgment and you saying "I'm not hooking up with someone who's involved" just might hep her realize she's about to really hurt her relationship
/r/seduction14/07/11 04:01 PM
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She'd probably have mentioned an open relationship
/r/seduction14/07/11 02:14 PM
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its fine if you don't want to hookup with her, but why Be angry? When you lose your cool like that out just shows a lack of emotional maturity. You know you're better than that, so show it! When she tried to hook up with you just stop her and say, "thanks, but I'm not interested on someone who is engaged," and walk away. Don't let that ruin your night, and bottom line, never lose you're temper over a woman, or anyone fit that matter.
/r/seduction14/07/11 02:13 PM
1

Sounds like an AFC who's taking his horrible past experiences in relationships too hard.
/r/seduction14/07/11 02:05 PM
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Dude that's fine. Don't let throwawaypua get in your head. If you don't want to help someone go behind their significant other's back, that's a GOOD thing. There are tons of women out there who are much more worthwhile than a girl who doesn't even respect her boyfriend enough to either not cheat, or break up with the poor guy.
/r/seduction14/07/11 01:59 PM
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it's more that you'd be helping someone else destroy their relationship and lie. sure you aren't the one actually doing it but knowingly helping someone else do the same isn't all that different. and he might be doing everyone else a great service by releasing the girl's medical records for the boyfriend's sake.
/r/seduction14/07/11 12:37 PM
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you're right, but that's not the ethical concern he's talking about.
/r/seduction14/07/11 12:04 PM
2

yes. we fucked.
/r/seduction13/07/11 08:35 AM
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"i went down to rub her pussy through her panties." everyone who is having sex should be used to expressing these actions and genitalia. it's hot when i hear a girl say "i want your cock in my mouth" and it's hot when i say "i want you to suck on my cock, then i want to bend you over and completely ream your pussy."
/r/seduction12/07/11 08:31 PM
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even if it were 98% women, vagina or pussy would be 100% ok
/r/seduction12/07/11 12:58 AM
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her silk igloo ... what the fuck? how old are you?
/r/seduction11/07/11 10:16 PM
2

SOOOOO HAPPPPPYYYYYYY!!!!!!!! you know what i mean. a couple years out all you (should be) remembering are the times you were successful. Learn from your mistakes but don't dwell on them.
/r/seduction06/07/11 01:34 PM
4

soon young skywalker will be consumed by the dark side of the force.
/r/seduction03/07/11 06:27 PM
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"She will most likely not remember this conversation if it goes badly." quite honestly neither will you. I don't remember a single approach going badly, i just know what to and what not to do now. as far as i'm concerned every approach i've had is a close. you make your own reality, and I'm very happy :D
/r/seduction03/07/11 06:26 PM
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At the same time she seemed kind of put off that I cared about sex that much, which I agree was kind of creepy. It's kind of weird that she doesn't TBH, but the previous abusive relationship probably has something to do with that. If you really want to be with her, you'll have to be prepared to spend time with her working through that with her. as for her body image? If she's mentioning it to you out in the open, then offer to go to the gym with her, get her to work out with you, and be more min…
/r/seduction04/06/11 12:12 AM
1

I happen to be a guy, and like most of you, I also happen to enjoy sex And like most women too I get that in the beginning there was a lot of sexual tension and we were letting it all out, doing it maybe 2-3 times a day EESH!? that isn't normal? Shit I'm in my 20's and i almost have to masturbate that much a day if i'm not with someone just to think straight... she feels like I deserve better YOU and ONLY you decide what you deserve. Be firm on this and tell her that you know exactly what you wa…
/r/seduction04/06/11 12:06 AM
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I just don't like the whole deal of messing around with the psychology of things just to draw someone in Would it be better if you didn't know you were doing it? Most people pick up on these queues subconsciously and use them without realizing it to build attraction with someone they are attracted to themselves. These "tricks" are built into our psychology because they are meant to be used naturally by social, independent, and attractive individuals. Women, AND men, both naturally respond to the…
/r/seduction03/06/11 11:50 PM
4

the stop kiss eh? HA i didn't know what i've been doing had a name! thanks for the update!
/r/seduction03/06/11 07:26 PM
1

She then asked me if I minded, to which I said that I did mind, and then she said "No you don't." I'd kind of like more analysis of her response to be honest.
/r/seduction01/06/11 06:06 PM
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you should go to r/sex This works for guys/girls. if you really want me to go into details i will, but really, r/sex has a lot more people who are a lot more experienced in this.
/r/seduction28/05/11 11:14 PM
2

You should acually watch the video.
/r/seduction28/05/11 10:11 PM
2

well think about this, she's a 6 for me. Just always keep in mind that your 10's are someone else's 6's. That always seems to help me a lot in realizing that she's just another girl who is ready and willing to meet you.
/r/seduction25/05/11 07:34 PM
4

what happened on the run that it lead to you cutting it short?
/r/seduction22/05/11 09:06 PM
1

why wait 5 minutes? that's enough time to get her off at least 2 or 3 times so why waste the time waiting for your cock to wake his ass up?
/r/seduction07/05/11 09:05 PM
1

Anyways, we get out clothes off, immediately have sex and after we're finished she tells me she wants to do it again. Now I have no problem with going again after the 1st time. I'm 19 so I can pretty much go on command. But this time I just can't get hard. No matter what. She gave me head for at least 10 mins and I was just half-hard. After another 10-15 mins we see that it's getting late and she still has to drive home. So we get dressed, make out some more and I say goodnight. So Seddit, I'm i…
/r/seduction07/05/11 08:53 PM
1

Abundance mentality means there are plenty of friends in the world, not just women ok... but the guy already said he wants to keep the (male) friend An alpha is free to go after the woman he wants ... yes? i don't see your point. it's like i'm trying to explain the universe to you and your response is "WELL YEAH BUT THE SKY IS BLUE SO THERE."
/r/seduction03/05/11 03:02 PM
1

This is what i suggest you do: Introduce your friend to the community, help him to understand the social dynamics that will help him to keep this girl his, so that no one else (including yourself) will be able to game her into cheating on your friend. Teach the guy about game, teach him about how to keep his girlfriend attracted to him. He's your friend, and i'm sure you'd want to see him happy. As for how to get her disinterested? Become her friend, not her interest. I'm guessing you know how t…
/r/seduction03/05/11 02:41 PM
1

You'd be doing him a favor to teach him this lesson. With friends like you... lol. Yeah that's definitely how he'd want to learn too.
/r/seduction03/05/11 02:38 PM
1

Because he's a chump and you're an alpha who knows how to deal with women. Because he's a friend and you're his friend who shouldn't be going after his girlfriend because there are many more woman to go after. FTFY I think it's funny how hung up this community gets on not going after or going after girls with boyfriends. Whatever you say to justify your actions, you're doing something wrong by helping someone break a promise to remain exclusive. That's just the way it is. I don't much care if yo…
/r/seduction03/05/11 02:37 PM
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The problem was that I felt pretty drunk and I know from previous experience that my dick doesn't always do as he's told when I've had a lot of alcohol lol... you realize that in addition to a cock, you have a left hand, a right hand, and a mouth, all of which are individually capable of giving a girl multiple orgasms while your cock gets ready for action. stop being so cock-centric, and learn how to please a girl, harsh but it's worth learning.
/r/seduction29/04/11 03:46 PM
1

you should watch this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jyjNXdEGjO4
/r/seduction27/04/11 12:05 AM
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ha. i love mankillers... oddly enough they're the only ones i don't get bored with within 10 minutes so they're usually the only ones i sleep with. Don't abort, or move to safer ground. fucking stand right there in the inferno and let it wash over you. These girls are perfect to play with because they play back, HARD. god i'm jealous lol... haven't met a real mankiller in months.
/r/seduction27/04/11 12:02 AM
7

under 10, just show up. when its starting to be 15-20, call.
/r/seduction20/04/11 01:17 AM
8

what does this have to do with being alpha again?
/r/seduction16/04/11 06:51 PM
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really? my problem is more, "why do i find the girl unattractive, as soon as they fall for me?"
/r/seduction15/04/11 06:33 PM
0

Well, you ARE manipulating people. You're learning a set of skills and tactics to get what you want from people. That's pretty much the definition of manipulation. You're using pickup to sleep with women, who you have either a genuine interest in or no interest at all. It's not a bad thing but at least understand what it is that you're doing.
/r/seduction09/04/11 05:13 PM
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does it really matter? If you don't experience it yourself then it'll never be true for you, so it wouldn't matter if i spoke from experience or from observation. I just know i have become bored with pickup, and the reason is because all of these encounters are starting to feel the same. I started pickup because i wanted a change in my life. I was in a rut, and i needed an activity, a hobby, an experience that would help me to be the best person i can be. And pickup has helped me with that. I am…
/r/seduction07/04/11 03:28 PM
1

I'm not married, but i'm bored of pick up.
/r/seduction07/04/11 03:13 PM
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they got bored with fucking random girls all the time. Eventually all the interactions you have with them start to repeat and this one girl you met thursday is no different than the one you met 2 years ago on a tuesday. it happens. It'll take time but it happens. You start wanting more because you're human. You'll always be wanting more, and after a while you realize that the only way to get that more is to actively look for it with someone else, someone you stay with for the rest of your life. …
/r/seduction07/04/11 03:26 AM
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in my experience you shouldn't ever just put up with someone just to fuck them... those personality traits you didn't like before are still gonna be there in the bedroom, and they may even be stronger because now that she trusts you enough to fuck you she'll trust you enough to be herself around you. It won't be an enjoyable fuck.
/r/seduction18/03/11 04:28 PM
3

I can't think of a single girl i know who wants a guy with a shaved chest. so don't do it.
/r/seduction17/03/11 05:19 AM
4

well thats completely fine because then you can go 5 or 6 times because you haven't been fapping. she'll be a repeat customer. trust me.
/r/seduction16/03/11 01:56 PM
1

I would personally like to be friends with benefits or even more, not just fuckbuddies cause I'd like to spend some non-sexual time with her so... you lied to her when you said I am not looking for a serious relationship but just to have fun
/r/seduction15/03/11 03:47 PM
6

Is that pop culture or just basic ski instruction?
/r/seduction13/03/11 03:36 AM
17

in my mattress did you kill her or something?
/r/seduction12/03/11 04:52 PM
6

just don't get stuck into always taking the easy path
/r/seduction12/03/11 06:57 AM
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personally? i think its a douche move. I understand both sides of the argument, having done it to others and having it been done to me. But then i realized something after a couple times of doing this and having it been done to me. I get nothing from hooking up with a girl i don't have any respect for, and any girl who is willing to cheat on her man doesn't have my respect. Hold yourself to a higher standard. I can guarantee you that you've walked by a thousand more attractive and better women o…
/r/seduction12/03/11 04:57 AM
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