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Iirc it is 7 years in most states, but maybe 5 in some? My lawyer uncle maintained a second apartment for years to avoid becoming common law married to his now-wife
/r/MensRights16/05/18 08:44 AM
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👌🏻 k bro. He and I talk openly about this subject, I have not said anything here I haven't said to his face, our friendship was literally forged in the fires of this argument. He doesn't give me validation, is actually quite insulting a majority of the time. It's a shitposting friendship 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 04:13 PM
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He talks to me because we are friends, a concept which is clearly beyond your social abilities. I have value to him because I have repeatedly helped him with things going on in his life, and he has value for me because of the same. I actually mostly subscribe to separationist feminism in which I do not talk to men other than my husband outside of anonymous forums online or a work context, instead choosing to invest my time and energy in other women, but I keep up my friendship with him because, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:45 PM
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I don't have any advice, but I'm rooting for you. Your daughter is so lucky to have you in her life!
/r/MensRights15/05/18 02:56 PM
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He has his issues, you have yours. The best thing you could have done with a guy like him is explaining to him face to face that you want him to succeed, that you think his attitude sucks, and that maybe he should do something about it. Why do you think I haven't done that? I've known him for 3 years. Every time we chat (which is infrequent now, just every few months) I make a point of asking him about how his Great Wife Hunt is going and offer him advice. He continues to ignore it, but keeps co…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 02:47 PM
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Brilliantly concise, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 02:42 PM
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What? I don't want to see him fail. The only reason I stay in contact with him is I want to see him succeed! I don't have any feelings for him at all any more, he’s loco lol. I brought him up to use him as an example of why TRP men and TRP women don't actually get along. I am truly sorry you cannot comprehend what I am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 02:32 PM
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Blah blah blah blah blah all I'm hearing here is nonsense justification. HE's the one obsessively looking for the wife and failing to find one. He can't snag a wife at 32 let alone 55. Like I said, he keeps meeting women he thinks might be a potential wife, then refusing to respect them (continuing to talk to plates) and they leave. You really can not justify that away. He wants a woman who is close to his age, a virgin and not a complete mess, which seems like a Fountain of Youth sorta hunt to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 12:32 PM
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What? How do you expect them to keep the partner without being great? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 11:44 AM
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Spinning does not create desirable men. The man who taught me about TRP while he turned me down for not being a virgin is still searching for a wife 3 years later because no one he wants wants anything to do with him. I've watched him ruin one potential relationship after another because he won't drop the plates and focus on her. He wanted to be married with kids before 30, is unfailingly confident, but TRP is failing him, he's 32 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 11:37 AM
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I took the red pill as a 22yro single mom. I was trying to date and none of the men I had any interest in wanted me. I could easily have found a sugar daddy or a desperate husband, but I wanted an actual, fulfilling relationship. Red Pill taught me to value my kid's dad (now my husband) more, taught me how repair what had gone horrifically wrong in our relationship. The thing is, you are correct, there's something not adding up. The two ideologies don't mesh. Red Pill men with their dumb fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 11:10 PM
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This particular example is completely untrue. I just searched myself and all 5 suggestions for “why men...” pertained to love/dating. Only 2 suggestions for “why women...” were romantic/sexual.
/r/MensRights08/05/18 12:38 PM
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That’s true 😔 I mean I have online friends I’m not evil. I’m struggling to make/maintain meatspace friends because of my kids and chronic illness/disability
/r/MensRights06/05/18 10:36 PM
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Not a whole ton, which is I don’t have friends. It’s not popular to be a humanist these days 😉
/r/MensRights06/05/18 09:36 AM
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Call the police, it’s considered kidnapping even though she’s their parent too. And all those checks will work in your favor. May the winds of fate be fair to you
/r/MensRights02/05/18 09:13 PM
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Just a difference in wording here, By the time I became a man that women would want I lost my interest in woman, in the game I had to play... without understanding why. The loss of interest, whatever the cause, is what I would call the “burn wound” (or scar) Best of luck with your plans, you’ve got a stable head so I’m sure you’ll achieve anything you set your mind to.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 05:41 PM
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You could love a wife too and your heart will burst seeing her mother a child that’s half you and half her. I’m sorry women have burned you so badly. I hope your sister appreciates your help soon! The books sound like a good place to start, I’ve read a lot. What’s your uncle’s favorite game?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 05:07 PM
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I... I’m not in any way accusing you of incest here, but I find it super weird that you want to devote energy to getting your sister a husband instead of finding yourself a wife. Please don’t do the single Dad thing, you’ll raise a fucked up kid, that’s part of RP... kids need a strong family
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 04:55 PM
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That’s the guys who do everything themselves hmmm you just know how to enjoy working. 😇 Like my husband. He likes to cook for me
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 04:48 PM
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TBH sometimes I feel suicidal over realizing what a fucking disaster my life is compared to what it should have been and I’ve got the skeleton of a proper RP relationship, 24 & married with 2 kids, husband is earning enough for me to stay home with them. She’s got nothing and if she does manage to comprehend it how will she feel?! Nah leave her alone
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 04:23 PM
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Model good behavior by finding a good wife and raising a fam, then share the edges of that abundance with her (invite to birthday parties, Skype/FaceTime from the beach, whatever)
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 04:04 PM
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Okay. Focus on her value and not on getting her a partner. But you can’t make her see the light, you can’t make her want to even try
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 03:14 PM
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Then keep calm and carry on with the MGOTW why the F do you want to saddle a man with the sister you admit is a mess? It only ends in mutual abuse, him loathing her and her taking advantage of him
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 03:06 PM
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Ahhhhh yeah it’s sweet of you to want to help your sister but she doesn’t deserve a RP man yet. Don’t help her with dating while she’s such a mess, help her become someone worth dating so she can get a decent guy later. 5-7 years of mindful, intentional celibacy is enough to “reset” to close to a virgin state of mind, help her achieve that and get out of debt and care for her body.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 02:54 PM
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Step 1 is to teach her to date with conscious intent to marry. What do you know about the BF? She needs to be making sure anyone she’s interested in is ALSO seeking a spouse. The #1 place modern dating goes wrong is that one or both parties are just horny. She also needs to address what kind of man she wants to be attached to. An ambitious man who works his ass off to afford a housekeeper and personal chef and gets his laundry done at the wash and fold, or a hardworking man who barely sleeps but…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 02:27 PM
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The number one rule of fight club is
/r/MensRights25/04/18 01:13 PM
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Agree the OP is being mildly abusive and is undoubtably a turn off. I wasn’t into anal when I met my husband because of poor prior experiences, he never ever pressured or touched without consent but did talk about his desire, 4 years later he eats ass and I take his 🍆 up the butt. 100% guarantee if he had just touched or tried to stick it in without my participation, interest, or consent like my exes did, we wouldn’t be involving buttplay in our sex like now. Re: the virginity thing I fully ackn…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:31 PM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ This is the real red pill. Strong marriage, strong alliance between a man and woman. Healer and the Tank
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:27 PM
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I know a guy who has money, brilliant, talented musically and verbally/linguistically, looks, everything but he can’t get the virgin wife he wants because they’re grossed out he’s not a virgin too.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:16 PM
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Speaking as a woman — she probably remembers loathing choking on his dick when you demand the same. She is hoping you won’t make her do that, too. This is why the “fuck a lot of women in your prime” aspect of RP is fucked. If you want a proper relationship, you want a virgin or low count woman, so she won’t have prior associations. She was willing to do it for him, but maybe she’s learned her lesson and the same privilege is not for you...
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:46 PM
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You are disgusting. Literally kys dude you’re hopeless
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:02 AM
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The pay level doesn’t matter, and he doesn’t “just happen” to know. He’s put in the time and energy, he probably went through the hazing too, and you have to participate in the game if you want the end results he got.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:53 PM
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Yes there are. They’re rare but they’re out there. The guy who introduced me to RP was a virgin to 20 yrs old then in LTR for 7 years before his fiancé left him because she chickened out of having kids, he is now dating but not fucking as he looks for his wife. I’m a little skeptical he will succeed, but damn does he have dozens of chicks hopping all over him at any time... because he NEVER GIVES UP THE D
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:46 PM
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I think if a woman outright says she doesn’t want to go to your place, and you’re trying to figure out how to get here there anyway, and your end goal is sex if you achieve that... it sounds an awful lot like you’re planning a rape.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:38 PM
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I have no understanding of what you’re trying to ask here. Women like alpha men. An alpha virgin would be absolute god-tier to a good wife material woman
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:31 PM
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When you’re alone you are equals because that’s what’s most beneficial to him at the time. Then he shows off his power and control over you in front of his buddies to gain prestige in their eyes, because that’s the new “most beneficial”. Simple.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 08:07 PM
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So women face to face with you just brush off and ignore your request for a number? Have you tried just handing them your phone and saying “put your number in”?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:12 PM
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Ask number -> never responds? Lil nigga, are these interactions happening online or in meatspace?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 10:36 PM
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Yeah, you’ve got it. If your goal isn’t marriage right now, don’t “go steady” and exclusive like this, just “spin plates” or whatever and have fun, I guess, but be aware that if you definitely do want to Mary and have a family eventually you’re going to have a very harder and harder time finding a good woman who hasn’t had a traumatic romantic and/or sexual past as you grow older. Unless you marry younger, in which case you’ll be challenged to find one that isn’t an idiot but is willing to do th…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:20 PM
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No!!!! They got done with your “mountain” and want to move on to the next because your “mountain” ended, they reached the top. You aren’t willing to take it to the next step. If you want a wife and kids, shock current gf with a surprise proposal if she behaves for the next month. Set the wedding date immediately but 2-3 years out. Plan wedding together. Do NOT move in together. Mountain climbing together
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:05 PM
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Dude. You just discovered the correlation. You’re not committing. And them leaving after you reject them and dishonor them by refusing to commit is not a bad sign, it’s a good sign, they value themselves. If you really want to know if they’ll stick around and make a good wife, don’t give them the D, just do everything else. Being denied the D by a man you desperately want who clearly loves you makes a woman behave
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:56 PM
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What is your goal in the long-term relationships? Do you and the girl share the same goal? I am a woman and I suspect when everything is so hot and heavy and amazing they expect a quick proposal. Then they realize you just want this fun forever and bolt?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:38 PM
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I shall have to ask my husband tonight to describe his sensation. He has a botched circumcision with a bad scar.
/r/MensRights16/04/18 10:18 PM
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I was going to suggest the friend thing too, but as a chick, I’d assume that meant OP is more beta than his friend who is alpha and feels the need to help him, and get turned off
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:00 PM
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Dude.... I wonder how many chicks that’s happened with now for you
/r/askTRP16/04/18 09:34 PM
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Why are you sane tho? What influenced you, who helped you? Stay strong
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:30 PM
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Wait, confused. so are you saying your nipples are super sensitive and chafe/stimulate in this posture? Or that you are sensitive about your nipples’ appearance?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:00 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:37 PM
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Here!
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:31 AM
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The text is there for me. It was a great read. I’ll put it in a Pastebin for you, hold on. Why was it taken down?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:29 AM
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I seriously don’t understand. I was raised shitty, had those two sexual partners before I was even 18 (the first molested and raped me), and now I’ve become RP and realized I squandered the most valuable thing I have and am raising my daughter not to do the same. What is bad about that? Stick a spiky dragon dildo up your ass
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:45 AM
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Dude I wish. No I’ve had 9. Most very forgettable but 2 long-term before my husband and I regret both so much, formed very lasting sexual habits/preferences/memories
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:56 AM
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You have to wait for a moment and it will “undelete” and load up there
/r/askTRP15/04/18 11:09 PM
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IDK. I don’t really belong here because I don’t believe in premarital sex 😂 but I really like all the stuff about gender roles and responsibility. Can’t speak for the other ladies
/r/askTRP15/04/18 10:24 PM
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I’d hardly say we are popular here. Did you mean “populous”?
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:27 PM
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Here https://www.ceddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8c7hno/the_healer_and_the_tank/?st=JG193URC&sh=f462a13e Pretty good tbh I love being a mom
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:19 PM
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You need to be single for a good while before you try dating again. There's a difference between using Red Pill to set firm limits/boundaries and guide your relationship, and being abusive. You sound abusive, and like a drug addict, kick the xanies and kpins before you fucking die like my husband and I's friend did last month
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:40 AM
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How's your sex life been through the surgeries? I think that's most telling.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 02:29 PM
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You're right. Hook-ups and casual sex are actually pretty embarrassing tbh. Degenerate 🤢
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:00 PM
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Your last paragraph is 👌🏻 Get yourself some paper and write down each of those questions. Answer it. Handwritten, not typed. You need to set goals and know what you're working towards. Do you want a parade of gold-digging arm-candy girls, or a wife and kids? Etc Good luck
/r/askTRP07/04/18 10:57 AM
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NEXT
/r/askTRP06/04/18 07:23 PM
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Meth is great for studying!
/r/askTRP04/04/18 12:29 AM
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